Afraid of Becoming Her Mother | Bullyjuice & LavishlyBritt | OOL Ep 1

[@LavishlyBritt]

The journey to becoming the woman you see today wasn’t the easiest. But I wanted it bad enough to fight for the person I knew I could be. Telling my story isn’t easy but I’m trusting that God will guide me on this journey. ❤

[@fritzjacquesjr7738]

❤🙏🏾💪

[@jessicamdenham]

And God will! Love you Britt! 🙏🏽

[@EmpathPOV]

❤

[@Shefightsdifferent]

Britt!! Your transparency is so appreciated!! I know we had a brief conversation on IG in your inbox and I’m so glad to see you sharing! ❤ this will help so many people

[@ericalopez1151]

Thank you for sharing your experience with us BRI. I come from a similar background but mines was opposite. My mom is my BF and my dad and I have a rocky relationship. Some of the traumas I endured shaped the wife I became. My ex husband just didn't understand..anyway.. I pray I get a second chance someday, but only God knows. Thank you for being you! Sending positive vibes to you and your family.❤

[@BullyJuice]

I love you, Babes.. you have grown so much. And the proof is in the pudding..😘❤️

[@LavishlyBritt]

I love you too ❤Thank you for seeing the goodness in me

[@susanneelsner7022]

Ihr zwei seit so sympathisch und wunderschön ❤eure drei Kinder einfach knuffig ❤❤❤Es ist so schön euch zuzusehen. So harmonisch..

[@julineplunkett3114]

Am happy that you guys are here now it has being a while welcome to this new era

[@shawntelmonroe3338]

When she said you took the time to see me!😢 My heart melted! This is what we as women want from our men. ❤

[@shonaaa._6411]

And Britt is so right about choosing correctly!! Imagine having a man with grace and patience that allows us room to get over, and through those childhood burdens.😫😫

[@simplyhere3893]

As a Mother of a beautiful daughter I’m giving Brit a warm, loving, encouraging hug 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

[@shawntelmonroe3338]

This is so beautiful to see a husband and wife discussion.

[@jewelsdayspa7764]

Not waiting to be like my mother is a real thing! I felt that in my soul!!! Thank you for this.

[@mojenks6109]

You guys are a fresh breathe of fresh air together sharing your journey of life lessons. Love to see a strong young couple thriving.

[@MaralinThomas]

Wow, this is so relatable on both sides! Britney, the beauty of your experience is that you had your dad there to reassure you. For me, though, both of my parents were absent in different ways-my mom was physically there, but emotionally unavailable. Now, at 34, I’ve been married for 12 years and with my husband for 20, and we have 3 beautiful children. Sadly, we lost our first two. The unresolved trauma from my early childhood is something I’ve promised myself my own kids will never experience. Darryl, I can relate to you in terms of supporting my husband, especially when he forgets we’re on the same team. We definitely go through tough times, but with faith in God, everything works out! Love the podcast!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@TwanaHanson-dv2yp]

Bully thank you for holding on to her and setting the example. I love you for loving her

[@lojuriye9269]

Gorgeous sister. Absolutely , naturally beautiful. I enjoy her husband's channel and the motivation he gives us to take care of our bodies and overall health. Sis is covered up and pretty. We need to see more of this.

[@holisticallyamber]

Thank you for being so vulnerable to talk about your past like this. you never know whose heart you will touch and them being able to relate.❤

[@fadipebusirat7192]

You are so lucky to have this understanding husband ,not every men can do this ,he loves u very much . I understand what you go through ,i through these too i always tell myself to let it go.i love you guys❤

[@indiawithsekel]

Loved this and the authenticity from you both. Thank you for sharing this healthy conversation! Continued blessings to your family ❤️

[@shawntelmonroe3338]

I love how you love on your wife Bully! I love that intro you gave her.❤

[@angelicamack8051]

The most wholesome, relaxing interview 🙌🏾 May the Lord continue to bless you guys, your family, and grow your platform! Congratulations, y’all ❤🥳

[@yolandaburton3179]

Great podcast. Britt speaking on that topic helps you to be a better mother to your kids especially your girls. Nothing like a mother and daughter relationship. Love you guys

[@shirleynelson3628]

I really love the way the both of you discuss past traumas and how supportive you were to your and when you were helping her out with her stuff,you also were helping yourself 😊❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@jeanlawson597]

OMG you can teach other young Laides on how to overcome healing from childhood mothering because it seem as if you are a good mother. You have overcame. You show so much love to your babies from the outside looking inn.

[@nicolejagdeo7409]

I literally missed you guys and to come back to this was such a blessing, thank you for sharing ❤

[@destinyjohnson9063]

I thoroughly enjoyed learning more about you guys. Great episode. ❤

[@melissajules8694]

Love this❤. I am glad Britt can talk about this.

[@shawntelmonroe3338]

I never knew my Dad and my Mom was always there until she passed. I know it shaped who I am not having the love of a Father.

[@simplyhere3893]

Yes thank you Bully Family for this authentic look inside of your dynamic. ❤ Shining light upon our issues drives out the darkness. 🫶🏾

[@beeran0615]

I absolutely loved everything about this episode. Thank you for being so transparent about your journey in healing and growth. I will be tuning in for the next episode ❤

[@tenacioustm]

Some people never become wise even their old age but you two have been blessed to get it young so that you can be a blessing to others along this journey. ❤

[@VeeJaxon]

This is such a refreshing conversation. I, too can relate to the fear of not wanting to become my mother. The safety he provided for her to have this kind of vulnerability is beyond beautiful to watch and listen to. Thank you for your transparency.

[@christinaarielle8995]

I ❤ that y'all 😊 had this talk! So many women have wonderful relationships with their dad! It's those mother issues that get us! I prayed for a daughter and I could never imagine not having a great relationship with her she's amazing!

[@YahsPreciousJewel]

Definitely can relate to this about your mom!!

[@debraking9255]

I love this!!!!! Thanks for being so open with us ❤❤❤❤❤

[@RhondaR4]

Excited to see y'all back. This video is right on time where I'm at in my life. Bless you all in JESUS' mighty name.🙏🏽❤️ #Healing🙌🏽

[@jamia123xbox9]

Britt don't give up on your mom. She acted out of trauma that she probably still haven't process yet. Childhood trauma is real. I wonder how she was treated as a child. Her mother and father probably never showed her love. See if she's willing to do counseling. Praying for her and y'all relationship.

[@macyprimm7201]

So true.

[@sharonrobinson3776]

I Love this thanks for sharing ❤

[@valeriefriend7312]

Thank you for sharing your journey keep putting God first❤

[@janicemaze3598]

I love you guys for being so transparent. May God continue to bless you and your family.🙏🏽❤️

[@alexisjanea]

This is so good. Thank you for sharing!! 🫶🏾

[@DeezyDesoto96]

Love getting insight on this great couple who strive to be the best for their family and for themselves both fit and fundamentally intelligent #blacklove #vulnerability

[@tamiko_8369]

Her hair 🔥🔥 Great discussion.

[@livinpeace8003]

Thank you Britt! Bully, you both are amazing! Keep inspiring, keep working together and keep God in the center of your lives. Great podcast!

[@natural0ne]

Phenomenal, love the new concept! The world 🌎 needs inspiration out of love!

[@shonaaa._6411]

I absolutely loveeee this! I have truly missed you guys and honestly feel that God is using you all. Most people just create content but this is so much more than that! 🙌🏽🙌🏽😆

[@Dniciajohnson]

Loved every bit of this❤ Thanks Brit for opening up, I couldn’t figure out why I felt I gravitated to you but the relatability in this episode showed why. Keep going and keep growing family!

[@tamickanelson7561]

Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏾 it was very compelling and I too experienced similar situation with my momma. Made me the woman I am today. Caterpillar to Butterfly. Keep flying high Britt 😊

[@OneBreathStudio]

Incredible conversation, blessings to you guys for your heart to share✨

[@antmechille]

Thank you for doing this and speaking up! We share sooo many similarities in growing up and I was able to relate! I would love to see more podcast episodes!

[@TwanaHanson-dv2yp]

Love this talk thank you. I'm like your mom but I'm changing would love to encourage woman to do the work that are broken and angry

[@adventureswithErwinaa]

finaaly back!!!, happiness restored to maximum

[@v.i.butterfly4779]

Soo good to see you guys again 👋🏾

[@msjazpena]

I absolutely love this!!! Yes, yes, yes!!! ♥️

[@questioneverythingtv]

Thank you so much for this 💯

[@hennisisyimon]

Great video. Our society needs this kind of hard conversation to live easily.

[@bequetta]

Wow Britt! I’m so sorry about your relationship with your mom. For a mom that doesn’t tell her kids “ I love you” has had to experience something awful in their childhood. I’m so happy you made the choice not to be like her. She clearly needs a lot of prayer and JESUS🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@TwanaHanson-dv2yp]

Breaking the cycles take support . Please help people instead of leave them that are struggling. They don't have to take you out , or bring you to they level. O know it's hard but we need love and understanding too

[@TwanaHanson-dv2yp]

I love your family, keep giving back . I thank you for letting me see healthy love. It's always makes me cry because as woman we were build to be loved and so many never get it or give it.. I'm glad you made to the other side. Pray for me I get my man. Lol

[@michelleuwakwe4709]

My fav couple is back to uploading videos😁 I’m too gassed 🥳

[@tahirahjtaalib-din]

Love you guys. All the best with your podcast. #NextLevel

[@shawntelmonroe3338]

I don’t personally know you to but I adore you as a couple!❤

[@TwanaHanson-dv2yp]

Hurt people hurt people. I still hurt today but I work on showing up better until I die. I've got back up many times. I'm crawling right now but I'm still moving towards right not left. I fall and get back on track closing right. Wish i could share with woman like your mom my story and we should never give up. Work on yourself take baby steps to a new you. I m not who I want to be but I'm not who I use to be

[@rosehaynesworth6477]

GREAT LOVE HOW YOUR HUSBAND TALK..

[@janicemaze3598]

Thank God You broke the cycle! It sounds like your mom is a Covert Narcissist. My ex husband exhibited the same behavior. I raised my kids by myself in the 30 years we were married. You have a wonderful husband that did not take your wounds and throw them in your face. We suffer from PTSD after dealing with these people. Your mother might have suffered from a traumatic experience in her life that made her become the person that she is. Hurt people Hurt people!😢 God is a healer!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️

[@KC-807]

I'm sorry you have that type of relationship with your mom. I feel like I can relate to this kinda. I don't want to make this long but the relationship with my mom was very loving and super close until after I got married. It started changing a little bit at a time and now we barely speak to each other.

[@darkbrownquti]

I loved this so much❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 1 million likes from me

[@julineplunkett3114]

Growing up my Dad was the aggressive one . Growing up we were so afraid of him . He was so abusive He,s Asleep 💤 Now .but back then he was a piece of work

[@PreciousOne777]

OMG...@25:13 i literally said oh my God. Trust me, Britt. The Doctor Jekyll and Mister Hyde I understand more than you'll ever know... though my situation may not have been as severe trust me, I understand ❤

[@stephanieariste6987]

Thank you for sharing your Journey 🙏

[@monicalucius2029]

Nice interview..thanks 4 sharing...shalom❤

[@jma904]

Growth!

[@beternalfitness]

I can relate to this whole video ❤

[@LeeMartinspritualenergy]

Im going through that shit with my pops. He is a military old school. Nigga never say i love u to his own son. He calls me dumb and stupid and im not shit. He be jealous of what i do. Nver congratulations me on anything. He just gets mad. And my parents have been married 53 years etc.... i want a marriage im 34 with a 7 year old son. Yes, i have a girlfriend who has been together for 2 years. I keep my distance from my pops. Cause anything i do. He talked down. My mom doesn't. Get me on your podcasts. Because i got some story 2. Please

[@611mellissa]

I love this

[@margaretosei-w1s]

Wow...I was able to resonate with @ lavishlybritt's mothers story! Very positive couple❤❤❤ Also super excited you posted🎉🎉

[@moniqueporter6370]

Love this guys so much❤

[@rasta487]

😢 So good 🙏🏾

[@mightywwfell]

Thanks for sharing this alot of mothers have a story to tell.

[@rosehaynesworth6477]

GOOD EVENING BULLY FAMILY'S.

[@jeanlawson597]

OMG I Love this

[@mariamarahim4242]

Amazing topics i learned from it's ❤❤❤❤

[@lsukeeta]

Beautiful ❤

[@Spondennysgarden7b]

The truth will set you free! Mine ❤❤❤ I wish you were my beautiful daughter!!!😅😅😅

[@yvonnerobertson8166]

Sorry to go off topic but I live in Mozambique and I was watching an episode of Chopped, was that you Brittany that I saw with a shaven head? Love you both BTW 🤗

[@fadipebusirat7192]

I love you guys❤

[@TwanaHanson-dv2yp]

So much pain and destruction when you go left instead of right. I tried to go right but after giving birth when all the struggles came up I had no support and no clue where to begin to be different and better but I tried didn't get it right

[@meschieljoyce114]

Your mom had trauma in her childhood and I think that’s why she don’t wanna share that. But hurt people hurt people.

[@jeanlawson597]

I have teas in my eyes .

[@TwanaHanson-dv2yp]

Most people are broken but everyone looking for healthy. When do you know they broken but they worth holding onto iam but do anybody see I'm worth it. I'm so lonely

[@elizabethrobinson3833]

Beautiful couple ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@cookie7241]

NC stand upppp ❤

[@TwanaHanson-dv2yp]

My daughter struggling right now with not being me and can't hear the one that did it to her

[@mikeran2k6]

🔥🔥🙌🏾

[@LoveGrizzlyPolarBear]

1st like you guys

[@ednaamck3831]

Christians need to do their diligence by praying for and offering suggestions to this incoming group of politicians that support policies benefitting each American’s race, gender and income bracket. I plan to write letters supporting legislation for the well being of children, the environment and respect for the sovereignty of other countries. My prayers and love for U.S.A

[@fritzjacquesjr7738]

❤❤

[@Taylabunny-c1d]

The eyes is the window to the soul....i know crazy when i see crazy .....she crazy.....run...run.. fast as you can...i pray she continue to heal

[@stephanierochell9639]

Have you ever considered your mom being or having Bipolar Disorder?

[@tamickanelson7561]

Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏾 it was very compelling and I too experienced similar situation with my momma. Made me the woman I am today. Caterpillar to Butterfly. Keep flying high Brit 😍

[@shawntelmonroe3338]

When she said you took the time to see me!😢 My heart melted! This is what we as women want from our men. ❤

[@IceAndPeach]

❤❤