"Although my fears are real The things I fear are not" ..might be one of the best lines in music in decades..
@ZiloGlow3 ай бұрын
That too relate to me😔
@Charleh-tk2bw2 жыл бұрын
I love BENEE's music, something about her style just resonates so much with me, I've never heard someone's music that just feels like it meshes with me
@justyouraverageintrovert84872 жыл бұрын
110%
@kat-avenue41642 жыл бұрын
Same ❤️
@rafikhm212 жыл бұрын
Same 💞
@margaretwild65742 жыл бұрын
There's a timelessness about her music. It makes me feel nostalgic for someplace I've never been. 🤔❤️
@BeaverOne2 жыл бұрын
@@margaretwild6574 Agreed. Sounds like she puts pieces of her soul in every song
@eazynja50292 жыл бұрын
I'm a 34 year old South African black guy and when I bumped into this song on Spotify I felt like crying for no damn reason.. She sings with so much feeling and soul... ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Marlo.emma.esther20245 ай бұрын
YESSSSSSSS.BBROOOOO
@innourish Жыл бұрын
I just read my journal when I was your age (now 74) and I'm with you on this stuff. I wrote "I wish there was someone I could talk to." well I talked to myself and now all these many decades later I made it and have so much empathy.
@innourish Жыл бұрын
Plus I sing and play guitar....this is saving grace!
@AsaErickson-xw3dz2 ай бұрын
You’re the coolest and most understanding 74 year old I’ve ever heard of! …..are you real?
@user-jt2ry4jm4i2 жыл бұрын
Fact: BENEE is making everyone's day so much better with her song
@fusionkamehameha46162 жыл бұрын
No Dr. no EMT can help you more then Benee! Benee's music is a cure. 😊
@CristianLopez07642 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's a true
@uhhmm21322 жыл бұрын
Fax I've had this song on repeat for weeks now
@adrianelias47912 жыл бұрын
obviously
@LightningMT02 жыл бұрын
Big facts
@allie95292 жыл бұрын
The fact that every song of BENEE herself addresses most of the peer problems nowadays. Damn, so accurate. She never failed to impress all of us. I love her way of expressing and delivery of message through lyrical process. T^T
@carlosandleon2 жыл бұрын
Isn't that just what every popsinger does to get a big audience?
@skelhorn777 Жыл бұрын
@@carlosandleon Claros Leon is boring
@carlosandleon Жыл бұрын
@@skelhorn777 ur mom
@Joegarabet Жыл бұрын
@@carlosandleon Well Benee actually battles with OCD, I think thats what this track is about. to answer your question; Yes. But im going to have to disagree with the assertion being put forth by your question when taken into context, specifically "every popsinger" part. its pretty clear you haven't actually listened to any of her songs so I will leave you there in your blissful ignorant state.
@carlosandleon Жыл бұрын
@@Joegarabet Pay attention to other pop songs then
@kombuchamushroom2 жыл бұрын
this song cleansed my soul, dried my tears, healed all my pain, and watered my flowers while it was at it
@beef_slop Жыл бұрын
A stunningly accurate portrayal of what it's like to live with an anxiety/panic disorder/OCD. Right down to mini conversation with the second party towards the end of the song, with them not understanding why they are acting that way and almost coming off as annoyed/frustrated in them is 100% relatable. "Why are you thinking these things?" (These things) How do I even explain? (Explain) "You're scared of almost everything" (everything) I know and it's really a drain (a drain) And the response is really accurate as well: it's almost resigned and gives the same energy back to the person asking the questions. Like almost asking back "do you think I wanna live like this?". Those that live with these disorders know very well how it can feel when interacting with folks who don't experience it the same. Most of us have worked our whole lives trying to get to a point of being "normal" and "carefree" but have felt this way so long that anxiety and panic become "normal" and and the normal response just becomes avoiding everything for comfort (which is it's own way of being carefree but with way more negative consequences.) So, to the outside perspective, they see a person they love doing nothing to help themselves get out of the hole they are in. But they also haven't seen all the effort they've taken in the past to help themselves and the failures along the way. Plus, the whole process absolutely is a drain! Why do you think it's so hard for them to work on themselves? Your body and brain being on red alert 24/7 takes everything out of you. BENEE really hits the nail on the head with this one, and the song is beautiful as well. What a gem of young talent.
@damazywlodarczyk Жыл бұрын
This song is bullshit. She doesn't have anxiety/panic disorder/OCD. She's a 20 year old music star. She records songs, plays concerts all over the world, and give interviews. She's outgoing and full of energy whenever. Everybody has worse times, but people who really have these sorts of problems, they don't do shit, they stay home, they don't achieve success, because they have to deal with their disorders, which are real.
@beef_slop Жыл бұрын
@@damazywlodarczyk what qualifies you to gatekeep mental illness? You don't know anything about her or what she deals with on a daily basis. You're funny and sad tbh
@beef_slop Жыл бұрын
@@damazywlodarczyk the saddest part is that you're essentially saying people with these disorders are incapable of getting over them or achieving success alongside them which just isn't true. Do you believe these things of yourself and that's why you're projecting it on everyone else? I genuinely hope you get a better sense of self and I mean that. Whatever has got you saying things like this is lying to you. You're better than the attitude you're giving.
@damazywlodarczyk Жыл бұрын
@@beef_slop There is nothing sad about what I wrote, you're just a mean person. Also, stop with the bullshit yourself. You know nothing about me, so stop assuming I'm broken and I have no sense of self. You're trying to put me down, and look good on the internet. You're just a devious, mean person. How about talking about the subject? I'm sorry but successful, outgoing, quirky pop stars don't have a reason to talk about anxiety. People who stay at home and really fear the reality have a reason.
@davidharrison70146 ай бұрын
@@damazywlodarczyk Why would you post something like this? (It's just a song)!!! Perhaps she KNOWS someone with OCD, and wishes to relate to that person with that condition. The faces in the clouds in the video I see as the inner demons that some of these people must deal with just about every day.
@Mystic_Kitty2 жыл бұрын
I don't think I've ever been able to relate to a song like this. I have really bad anxiety and other issues and this song just touches my heart. 😭
@Aliceiseverything2 жыл бұрын
Hope u get over it soon : ) keep smiling ✨
@zacharygraber5 Жыл бұрын
Although your fears are real, the things you fear are not! Let go, and live in love.
@corneliusagrippa4613 Жыл бұрын
Joy Division is great at catching that sensation. I've had/lived w mental for most of my life. I do hope it's a temporary issue cuz a lifetime is not easy.
@zacharygraber5 Жыл бұрын
@@corneliusagrippa4613 all about focus… mental focus! Don’t let fear get a grip on that
@christiansanchez80052 жыл бұрын
Esta canción es buenísima, no dejo de escucharla, Benee hace unas melodías mágicas con su voz!!
@kevinmartin27442 жыл бұрын
El comentario en Español 🥺
@charlie-vk7pv2 жыл бұрын
X2 😭
@JulianEmussf2 жыл бұрын
facts
@redgenpanda51542 жыл бұрын
Omg yes 🤩
@emeaira502 жыл бұрын
Confirmo
@frankthetank54452 жыл бұрын
As someone who has long suffered from overthinking and anxiety I can totally relate to this song. Thank you for being so honest with your songwriting.
@ethereallune39922 жыл бұрын
This song has perfectly described how I’ve felt living with anxiety disorder and feeling so sad all the time.. i dont sleep well, I feel like I’m losing so much.. I just want to be better, I want to make the people around me happy and not drag them down.. it hurts so much.. this song, “this happens every night, sometimes you tell me off” gets me so much. Had exact situations like that happen. Gosh this is so hard and I just don’t know which way to go anymore and this song gets me bawling..
@JHusbjdj442 жыл бұрын
tc ✌😢
@philhetrick4955 Жыл бұрын
I’m listening.
@franciscodiassisqueiroz66552 жыл бұрын
her songs should have more recognition 🥺
@karenjuarez60322 жыл бұрын
I love you benee your music makes me go back to the past and embrace it as in that moment❤️🇲🇽
@liammiller83592 жыл бұрын
She is beautiful😍.
@Truetitan29022 жыл бұрын
As someone with anxiety and OCD this hit too close
@danhurt56162 жыл бұрын
LYRICS Mmm, what's it like To not have to think about it? It seems nice Not a care, so quiet Maybe I'm consumed by my mental Does it hurt me? Maybe, oh, well If I medicate, would it help me? 'Cause I'm hurting, I feel unwell You know how I feel You've told me before Although my fears are real The things I fear are not I know it doesn't matter I know it doesn't matter None of this even matters I know it doesn't matter I know it doesn't matter None of this even matters Check that Have to check that the oven is off This happens every night Sometimes you tell me off Maybe I'm consumed by my mental Does it hurt me? Maybe, oh, well If I medicate, would it help me? 'Cause I'm hurting, I feel unwell You know how I feel You've told me before Although my fears are real The things I fear are not I know it doesn't matter I know it doesn't matter None of this even matters I know it doesn't matter I know it doesn't matter None of this even matters You say "Why are you thinking these things?" (These things) How do I even explain? (Explain) "You're scared of almost everything" (everything) I know and it's really a drain (a drain) Hide under a pillow (pillow) Something's at the window (window) I'm too scared to check though Now I'm crossing my fingers Flicking off the switches Is my house filled with witches? What is my mind? What is it like To unwind? What's it like?
@duckduck_snooze Жыл бұрын
Thank you kind stranger
@saraalesis2 жыл бұрын
Been on the verge of crying all day, was able to once I heard this. She knew when we needed it.
@user-se1eb7ug1u2 жыл бұрын
BENEE is the only 'stand out' artist we've seen for the last couple years genuinely making original music and doing it soooo well...👌🏻 always leaves ya with that feeling 🙌🏻 keep at it 💪🏻
@R.A.WMunoz2 жыл бұрын
I can't lie I teared a Lil.. or A lot. It doesn't matter
@thomasmartin75242 жыл бұрын
you hear not really much music, doya?
@nicolacisneros24032 жыл бұрын
if your into rap or hip hop listen to Mick Jenkins, he has the best album of 2021 for me
@BEERBOMB1132 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking about how she's unlike anyone else and that those kind of artists/bands dont come in packs, only once in a blue moon do we get someone as special as Benee. She really speaks emotions I have its great.
@urlocalfolklorian2 жыл бұрын
Preach!! This song makes me sob and I'm a tough dude, that's how yk it's AMAZING 👏
@ThePamzeta2 жыл бұрын
I love how u can turn mental health on a beautiful song and melodies, thanks for so much NZ Queen❤️
@EmmyHucker2 жыл бұрын
Haunting and hopeful at the same time. I used to be incredibly anxious but managed to overcome a lot of my fears. I hope everyone gets the opportunity to break free from theirs ❤️🙏🏼
@davidharrison70146 ай бұрын
The faces on the clouds at the end must represent these peoples' inner demons that they are trying to overcome and conquer.
@GameThrone207742 жыл бұрын
Benee sings what’s in my head that I can’t put into words but somehow she can
@trenzer Жыл бұрын
I can have this on repeat all day. It's a sad song but it has such dreamy and nostalgic vibes, love it.
@Woiitax Жыл бұрын
🤍
@jakobwhaleart2 жыл бұрын
The way the emotional relationship between the two friends in the video was captured is so beautiful. So supportive and peace-giving.
@joshuamartinpryce84242 жыл бұрын
The thing that doesnt matter is emotions. Emotions and feelings come and go, and spirituality is a great way of dealing with feelings and emotions.
@vals_rb2 жыл бұрын
Es justo la estética que imagine al escuchar la canción. Y hasta más de lo normal esperaba. Refleja todo el sentimiento de la letra Me encanta💚 I love you benee💚💚💚💚💐
@Nova13th2 жыл бұрын
Lo mismo estaba pensandoooo
@moisesoncoyyauri51792 жыл бұрын
La amooo..! u.u
@abbasnasir88612 жыл бұрын
Yo tambien.
@Nowadaysies2 жыл бұрын
I mean the song is just so chill. And her vocals are just beautiful. Love ya Benee thanks for this masterpiece
@pompomjudy2 жыл бұрын
I know Benee is so good!
@GiallaVelatura2 жыл бұрын
Accidentally heard it today on the radio: what a fabulous song! Modern arrangements, vintage sound...perfect mix! Thanks for the chills, lovely Benee! Greetings from Italy. P.s, Stella means "star" in Italian, beautiful meaning and name :)
@lungisakunene85692 жыл бұрын
This video honestly makes this song even more beautiful
@emmachristina5104 Жыл бұрын
I have horrible dissociation and anxiety.. when I’m having an episode I turn this on and just fade away.. it helps so much 😭😭 thank you queen
@ZaneleNonyanda-lb3hx Жыл бұрын
Everything that hurts, that weights ... " it doesn't matter"
@LuisHurtado_2 жыл бұрын
BEST SONG OF 2021 !
@christiansanchez80052 жыл бұрын
Best song of the best songs of 2021
@TehKairo2 жыл бұрын
reaching
@GameThrone207742 жыл бұрын
A bit far but one of the best yh
@malas902 жыл бұрын
You should listen to LAUREL.
@malas902 жыл бұрын
@@adriansullivan7629 Any of her latest EP, start with Scream Drive Faster, banger!
@girlfromthemoon101012 жыл бұрын
She’s just so lovely! Her songs speak to me on a personal level and it just feels so nice to listen to them because they’re nice to try and understand. Also I’m excited for her world tour in May! (If it doesn’t get cancelled 🥺🥺🥺)
@gaborrozsa60332 жыл бұрын
When you are sad just listen this song!!! You will not be sad be anymore... Love Benee ❤️
@dazwahmogwai17722 жыл бұрын
“Although my fears are real, the things I feel are not”. I love this description of anxiety
@pieromaza56192 жыл бұрын
COMO TE AMO REINA 😭😭😭 TODO LO QUE SALE DE TU BOCA ES ARTE Y ESTOY DEMASIADO ORGULLOSO DE LO QUE LOGRAS CADA DÍA, EL MUNDO RECIÉN ESTÁ EMPEZANDO A VER TU TALENTO 😭❤️❤️
@darian53472 жыл бұрын
I love the song so much more when watching the video, just something about seeing the emotion on her face makes me more emotional and in tune with the song.
@christopherlewis25782 жыл бұрын
This song is just beautiful and makes me forget all about the bad. Thank you, Benee. 😊
@ciciscorner282 жыл бұрын
Benee makes music that is so comforting to me. The lyrics hit so close to home and her voice is just so beautiful and soothing
@yadeee872 жыл бұрын
BENEE'S magical voice makes me happy always. 😊 so soothing. ☺
@terenceratahi71652 жыл бұрын
The gentle sound of the ocean waves at the end of the M/V are so apt. It feels as though Benee’s soft chilled voice has blessed my soul and body.Arohanui 👌❤️🌈
@jjei99482 жыл бұрын
BENEE YOU NEED MORE RECOGNITION OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND WHY IS EVERYONE SLEEPING ON YOU
@yarimacortinas6032 жыл бұрын
benee will forever have this beautiful talent where she is able to put feelings into words. Truly a wonderful artist. 💕
@publiclyshamed53832 жыл бұрын
@BENEE Thank you Stella for reminding me I’m not the only one with these problems. It feels like I’ll never get help again with the way things are. Made by humans? You don’t seem like one of these humans. You seem like one of us.
@QuitzeMartinez2 жыл бұрын
I have always loved Benee! I hate she gets compared to Billie, not even close this girl is a sweet diamond and continues to shine!! Keep it up girl you will always have my support!! You've found your voice now!! Keep it coming! Amazing work!
@irenemateoinfante91072 жыл бұрын
Benee we LOVE your music never stop doing this!
@Woiitax Жыл бұрын
THIS SONG DOESN'T NEED NO SLOWED OR REBERVED IT NEEDS RECOGNISEMENT BECAUSE THIS IS A JEWEL
@Woiitax Жыл бұрын
i barely can see, the light is on ahahahaha 😹🙉🌞✨
@Woiitax Жыл бұрын
i like it better being as what it is, having to dig hard to find this goddamn diamond. ✧。*゚+☆゚.*・。゚
@whiterose23212 жыл бұрын
I’ve fallen asleep to this on repeat an unhealthy amount of times
@foxriverez78242 жыл бұрын
This song is so healing and calming.thankyou Benee and Tia. Its beautiful💙🐌
@Dijabril Жыл бұрын
Also 65 and male. Entranced by your voice and delivery. Subject matter: everything!
@JA-sk1ix2 жыл бұрын
Seeing benee cry makes me sad but she's so adorable when she's crying
@mogambete102 жыл бұрын
What a voice...and a telecaster just chillin :)
@JezDanjuma2 жыл бұрын
Only hearing the sound of the beat I immediately clicked the like thumb, I love you BENEE you always release the song that nourish the soul
@leila.o2 жыл бұрын
BENEE is the reason why I still love music and myself. She’s true medicine🤍
@positivelastaction39572 жыл бұрын
Like Bjork, Benee has really carved out her own unique style. This is superb.
@m0derately.g0th10 ай бұрын
there are a million songs about depression but it’s really nice to feel represented by a song that’s about OCD. i feel so seen every time i listen.
@jenniferparker58252 жыл бұрын
This song has touched my heart since it came out. The video really touched my soul. You're amazing. Thank you for all your music and sharing your life with us.
@marbehernandez61372 жыл бұрын
La voz de benee es puro arte
@MolinaAlvarado Жыл бұрын
Asi es mano
@Shimeih2 жыл бұрын
Benee always makes my day better
@thefastelephant942 жыл бұрын
Her voice is like the first ray of Sunshine after a long dark night.
@AstroBoy-TFB2 жыл бұрын
This song makes me day, I love you 💕 Bene, thanks for everything
@nisachan0012 жыл бұрын
I love you BENEE ❤️
@Renneth20012 жыл бұрын
This is so beautifully done! It's a beautiful representation of a girl and her bestfriend
@unloveableandre3 ай бұрын
Can we stop to admire how perfect this video is? The friend that knows you so well and it's there for a ride, and spend the day with you, and listen to you? Such a great song and a perfect match with the video. Amazing. The attention to plug the guitar, the horses, her sad face of disappointment, the clothes, the location...
@keisipinheiro42942 жыл бұрын
Estou passando por um momento bem difícil nesses últimos dias ;( Tenho tido muitas crises de ansiedade e essa música consegue descrever tudo o que sinto. Muito brigada, Benee, por ser um refúgio nestes momentos de dor. Meu coração se acalma quando te escuta... É como se ele soubesse que todos estamos no mesmo barco e que há uma luz no fim do túnel. Obrigada por existir S2
@Fxlypz2 жыл бұрын
nss cara, eu te entendo, eu passei pelo mesmo, a Benee me ajudou muito, as musicas dela apareceram no momento certo na minha vida, tudo ja passou e se acalmou porém não paro de escutar ela até hoje
@keisipinheiro42942 жыл бұрын
@@Fxlypz Fico feliz que você esteja bem ;)) tbm estou caminhando para isso 💖.
@marcysloan68182 жыл бұрын
It's always so easy to say it doesn't matter, but when we live through it, it means everything. 💙
@josesandate92602 жыл бұрын
Another banger from Stella!! My best wishes for her and her mates on the Tour from Phoenix, Arizona!
@beansr2 жыл бұрын
The whole aesthetic of this video is amazing. and the lyrics are amazing, BENEE's style is amazing. Everything about this is amazing.
@cluelesscheese12 жыл бұрын
i had this chat with a bandmate once too.. for me it didnt go as well. TIARE RULES. GLAD YOU CAN BE THERE FOR BENEE even if its just in a music video. props for speaking your truth benee!! i feel liek this often, hard for people to believe even on an exeedingly beautiful day, in cool clothes with fun sights... you can still have fears and strange intrusive thoughts. never used to think of it without stigma till i saw successful people with the same issues. what a kickass song.
@enriquefl98772 жыл бұрын
Doesn't Matter no es una canción, es un sentimiento ❤️
@ruthvega44922 жыл бұрын
Si
@martyoz840 Жыл бұрын
nothing against songs like green honda & other club like songs but this side of her music is just on another level & shows benee’s brilliance as a musician & singer
@TheZenedd2 жыл бұрын
I'm 70 year old hippie and I love this , her voice is amaze balls 🎆
@Bruh-mz8nx2 жыл бұрын
Ive been so addicted to this song, is a master piece
@randomvideosbymark80952 жыл бұрын
Absolutely flawlessly amazing as always BENEE💞🔥👍❗ I love the clouds at the end!!!!!!!
@Olliemaxx12 жыл бұрын
Her songs have been, and always will be a masterpiece
@nikoruuu28892 жыл бұрын
"Although my fears are real The things I fear are not " damn.
@omid343 Жыл бұрын
Omg finally an singer songwriter that actually makes good music and is in New Zealand 😝😝😝😝😝
@donpalabras62672 жыл бұрын
you vibrate with the feeling and the lyrics of the song without a doubt BENEE is one of the best greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽💚🕸🕷
@juni60202 жыл бұрын
I remember when someone linked me Benee when soaked had no listens and i was vibing. Since then i've continued to vibe. Thank you for such nice melodies.
@adnanhossam93442 жыл бұрын
The fact that this song isn't 1 hour long is an unforgivable sin
@domcolliermusic6390 Жыл бұрын
Not sitting in the park doing a word search and crying watching my kids play. While my mind constantly screams at me, this is my happy place
@SimplyPeaches2472 жыл бұрын
Benee is an amazing Artist! I love her style and her Music! This song right here in particular, really hits Home!
@hiyou12922 жыл бұрын
Benee es un angel Su forma de ser, su voz ,su belleza, todo Ella es unica, perfecta ella es magia
@draalien2 жыл бұрын
BENEE going live during 4th period made me so sad but seeing this makes me so happy 🥺💕✨
@marcopichardo65082 жыл бұрын
She just has a voice that helps me calm down. I love it.
@rodrigolomas77252 жыл бұрын
That talent you have should be known around the world and it is your obligation to transmit it and share it with people.👏👏👏🇲🇽
@gode_el_malek89732 жыл бұрын
I see that espagnol people don't do the effort to speak in english, so i will do like them, in French : Benee je t'aime tellement, j'adore ta voix, ça fait presque deux que je t'écoute, je ne peux jamais m’arrêter, c'est juste incroyable les émotions que tu peux transmettre grâce à ta voix et à tes mélodies tellement apaisantes je ne peux vraiment pas imaginer le jour ou je décide d'arrêter de t’écouter et de te suivre, juste merci, and fck, you're a pure beauty
@BabySakurai26822 жыл бұрын
La voz de benee hace que me den ganas de llorar, es tan hermosa.
@alissahazard63952 жыл бұрын
Her music soothes me and makes me just sooo happy!
@lululedesma94772 жыл бұрын
Wow.. words cannot explain the feelings that this song makes feel. THANKS FOR YOUR SONGS BENEE.. thanks for putting some happiness in my life!! 🧡🖤💙
@Unsolicited_clown2 жыл бұрын
I’m now addicted to Benee’s music 🧎🏾
@verdeboyo8 ай бұрын
We need Benee overload for 2023! Where is this wonderful talent today?😍😍😍🇬🇧
@jmjimenez82 жыл бұрын
Don't be so sad Benee you're awesome and your music is really great. It's more than 20 years without hearing somebody really young at heart. You are simply necessary
@fusionkamehameha46162 жыл бұрын
Benee, your music is my cure! Can't wait to visit your concert may 2022! 😍🎶 My most favorite music artist in the entire world!
@peach333892 жыл бұрын
BENNE❤🇧🇷
@dylanunzicker40284 ай бұрын
This song is beautiful and i can just feel her energy
@alessandroalvarez32872 жыл бұрын
2022 es tu año Stella, gracias por dejarnos escuchar tu voz y disfrutar de tu música, eres la mejoooooor, aquí 🇲🇽 te esperamos con ansias❤️
@Aliceiseverything2 жыл бұрын
Her voice, her lyrics heals me from within ❤️ I love u so much, honestly! ✨
@adrianelias47912 жыл бұрын
Benee has a super authentic aesthetic, I LOVE IT!!!
@fathurrahmanprasetiyo7792 жыл бұрын
this song needs more recognition
@hh-cr5bf2 жыл бұрын
I'm always comforted by your songs🥺 Love u forever