I love these two together. May God keep them alive for long!😭❤️❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@patriciakarani74013 жыл бұрын
Great. I wish I can drag the whole nation to listen this show. Long live Benjamin Zulu. I am empowered.
@dorothyanyango21973 жыл бұрын
Me too. It pains me his show has very few views. But vitu zinatrend....wacha tu
@peakiematthew93123 жыл бұрын
You're correct 👏
@florenceojowa77063 жыл бұрын
Very insightful. Sometimes silence before the answer, is the answer. So true
@joyllecogo1513 жыл бұрын
Imagine having a funny psychologist like Benjamin,...as a patient I would leave the consultation healed... I am loving the sabbatical leave....Thanks Benjamin...very realistic yet funny. You were born for this!!!
@queenlyne23633 жыл бұрын
I agree
@hellenndege49833 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@ruthgitau12853 жыл бұрын
Aki i love you both,the chemistry and laughter makes wisdom you're oozing sink and never forgotten.May the Lord bless you.Thank you
@ntokozoG-O13 жыл бұрын
Happily divorced and ready for my Mr Right, this time I will make a good choice Benjamin you will be proud. All the way from the UK- Zimbabwe
@naomymwongeli20023 жыл бұрын
Wow , the wisdom in this guy Benjamin Zulu is on another level, thanks for the info
@devickjulia3933 жыл бұрын
Hahaha 🤣 lol Benjamin you guys are killing me!🤣🤣 I have used them all before sabbatical in my recent relationship 🤣 I communicated my intentions after I was away 🙌😆 and a Slow fade was actually fun 😂😂 . I have used a clean cut too before....😂😂😂🙌 fled to the islands first, to Bahrain next and Emirates lastly 😆😆😆
@phyleswambua39423 жыл бұрын
So what's your next method 😹😂🤣
@devickjulia3933 жыл бұрын
@@phyleswambua3942 eyeing a slow fade 🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️😂
@johnkalya82053 жыл бұрын
Thank you Zulu...the SLOW FADE methods helped me a lot. Good job, people!
@babyGirl-ou2ox3 жыл бұрын
hahaah so very right, hurling insults. Some People have a PhD in insults. It's not okay to verbally abuse someone if they decide to leave.
@Queens-SN-el3 жыл бұрын
Slow fade..... The best, thank you guys
@dorothyanyango21973 жыл бұрын
But I think it can heart someone. It has been used on me and I didn't like it. 😂
@Queens-SN-el3 жыл бұрын
Pole....... But Situation forces one to do this.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@easybaby52962 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up for the wise man Mr Zulu
@ngangindunge67643 жыл бұрын
Zulu I have not finished watching the show and I have laughed 🤣🤣🤣 yangu yote 👍👍
@maureenkemei92542 жыл бұрын
Wow what a knowledge!!!!!!
@carolkami.6712 жыл бұрын
I broke up with my ex of 15 years and my sisters and friends were indeed happy!! 😄😄They used to tell me that the relationship was clearly toxic... Finally, both me and my ex applied the clear cut method and we're currently peacefully co-parenting our kids 🙏🙏...my ex actually remarried in afew months after our breakup...we had tried the slow fade method for so long and kept on reconciling...what Benjamin is advising is is pure truth from my own experience...how I wish I never wasted so much time on a relationship that wasn't meant to be!!! But I'm grateful for the children and all the life lessons/experiences I've gained this far...#there is no wastage in God's economy..🙏🙏
@ritamichael51553 жыл бұрын
During slow fade ..take a trip to Moshi , Tanzania🤣🤣🤣Thanks for your valuable advice Benjamin
@esthermutoni35863 жыл бұрын
🤣 I am here for Zulu’s laugh lol 😂 😂😂😂 anyone?
@margaretkaagaza44403 жыл бұрын
🙋♀️😂😂😂😂
@ooj100 Жыл бұрын
Mine was clean cut but the reaction was HUGELY negative. She went to the police and claimed I had beaten her. We ended up in court because I chose go defend myself out of principle. What she had not counted on was my preparations. I had a relative lawyer on speed dial, receipts for all the significant assets and everything else. It took 4 years to recover and I am only emerging now. What shocked me throughout the whole ordeal is how accurately I was able to predict her behaviour. Later on when I spoke to my friends they all saw her for who she was but did not want to say anything. Healing now, closer to God and thankful for my family.
@nadungairene99413 жыл бұрын
I've liked the slow fade, thanks Mr Benjamin for the effort
@ednamueni4045 Жыл бұрын
Ooh my Best show ever
@jayz2545 Жыл бұрын
Clean cut the best so far 😂
@wamaithamutua6482 жыл бұрын
Thank you for empowering this generation. 1,salbatical. 2. Slow fade 3 clean cut
@jesintahwanjiku24123 жыл бұрын
I feel like there is no need to waste someone's time just drop the bomb
@balancedviewpoint74183 жыл бұрын
Ending things decently must be intentional and mature but where the other party is unwillingly because their intention from the word go was not about love but exploitation or using you, imagining losing those privileges spells doom and bitterness hence the reason many relationships end uglier than civil.
@mainaenock89723 жыл бұрын
"Stop Selling short"-K.u talk brought me here,how many are we? Gonga like
@gloriatoo223 жыл бұрын
Wise words there 👏👌🙌👍
@wamaithamutua6482 жыл бұрын
Your suits are always on point.
@margaretwachoro75323 жыл бұрын
The clean cut is the best for me it really helped me
@joymboya38672 жыл бұрын
Mine was a slow fade. That guy was a master manipulator. Had i told him I'm leaving him, he'd put on a show and make me stay. I started with getting a transfer, then took kids to a boarding school. It took him 2 years to know aliachwa
@gladyskarain66423 жыл бұрын
Those humble beings you are talking about...some are pretenders...especially wakiona ukona kaitu..they will wait you get married...
@helenahaindongo19333 жыл бұрын
I am that type of a friend, that can save somebody's life. My friends are very lucky.
@theorama57113 жыл бұрын
Oi I want to be your friend oshili😆
@homeoffavours Жыл бұрын
Me too
@ntokozoG-O13 жыл бұрын
But you guys why are you doing this to our ribs? Hahahhahahahaha. Thank you for nuggets
@carolineondigo35223 жыл бұрын
Beatiful and amazing show.my thankz,appreciation and respect
@sylviamaigahmureithi6146 Жыл бұрын
Yes you are right. It worked for me. We divorced and went for dinner together.
@khadijahabdallah88502 жыл бұрын
Slow Fade actually is a gud tactics
@rosemahira Жыл бұрын
Are narcissists aware that they hurt do their victims need to always remind their oppressors of how they feel about the abuse?
@marmackk3 жыл бұрын
But on his facebook page he said the slow fade is a coward's exit. The people who have been on the receiving end of it have said it is more cruel than ghosting.It is dishonest.Unless the person is a threat to your life,then the clean cut is best.
@mwilakalokoni16003 жыл бұрын
People who are drowning cannot choose thier saviors.
@joygicharu65303 жыл бұрын
True I am Happly divorced.
@diplomatdiplomat28003 жыл бұрын
Ok good. Choose your next partner carefully. Go out, make new friends and build high quality relationships. Let me introduce you to someone special who loves you and wants to have a relationship with you. His name is Jesus Christ. Are you aware that Jesus Christ loves you very much and deeply cares about you and you need Him? Please consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and personal Savior ❤️♥️
@rispathequeen3 жыл бұрын
I swear u awalys describe my life,
@ernestmulenga38903 жыл бұрын
" That is why Jesus said my children perish due to lack of knowledge."
@Lisa-bc1qe3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 No, cos please show me a better dating coach/ psychologist than Mr.Zulu
@tabithakasina37113 жыл бұрын
Great
@hellenndege49833 жыл бұрын
Hello guys am loving your show and watching from Saudi. Please Benjamin how about long distance relationship...please help😔
@Lisa-bc1qe3 жыл бұрын
You want to end it or?
@ladysafari013 жыл бұрын
Long distance...same country different cities, Same continent different countries or across oceans different continents?
@tibesigwacatherine97153 жыл бұрын
My sister long distance .....so simple atte just cut communication
@hellenndege49833 жыл бұрын
@@Lisa-bc1qe hi dear, I want to keep it going aki🥲
@hellenndege49833 жыл бұрын
@@ladysafari01 different countries. Man its so hard 😪
@joynyambs59023 жыл бұрын
Mine was sabbatical 😂😂😂
@phyleswambua39423 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@sarahjeptoo51892 жыл бұрын
Haha 😄
@gracejames14343 жыл бұрын
This slow fade is kinda questionable @Zulu and @Bram 🤔🤔...then it is more time wasting coz the other party sees every move as sincere and apologetic. Especially the work trips to "Moshi" and you post pics✌️✌️✌️
@wendymkhwanazi98623 жыл бұрын
Slow fade you change from romance to courtesy 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@mercywakesho15153 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@gatwiricarolyn95192 жыл бұрын
Me currently
@linethumble52533 жыл бұрын
Heheee I need to visit Moshi
@muliesther17583 жыл бұрын
thats true
@tumainischool94653 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 sabaticals are for the feared
@mercymwende85913 жыл бұрын
crisis mode
@mercywakesho15153 жыл бұрын
🤣
@nakiryowamercy32033 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha am in the same thing but am using the second tec
@jemutaikeiyo3 жыл бұрын
😂😂🙌🏽
@sylviamaigahmureithi6146 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@margret2688 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@nancykaregi86363 жыл бұрын
For me I will let you know I don't want anything from you . After I will block you and the blacklist follows.
@jackynyakundi17403 жыл бұрын
😹🤣😂😂
@veronicanyangweso18583 жыл бұрын
Haaaa haaaaaa haaaaà nice
@juliawangui7773 жыл бұрын
I will deal with anyone trying to waste my time and hoping to go scot free, no senor 💥💔😁