BERT HELLINGER - Mother In Service Of Life

Hellinger conference in London 2008.

[@gabrielapetrea8999]

Wow,amazing, thank you !

[@kongminglai3290]

My dear Master Bert Hellinger , so nice to see you again. Thank you so much for your sharing.

[@Counselingforlife]

My children do not shut me off. I did not shut my mom off for 55 years - she walked away from me several times. This time 1 year plus with silent treatment by her. Because I shared with love some sadness and fears I had. I rebelled and left in bad conscience with love. Thankful for what I received and leaving behind what was not my burden... my marriage is wonderful my family free to do it differently. I have thanked my father for being just the right dad for me - even tho he abandoned me for 6 years as a child.

[@Counselingforlife]

In the service of life and abusing and not protecting... she was great to agree but then was in the service of not caring fully for me. I say thanks to her for her part and I leave the pain. My mother and father as they were did it differently than me and I am happy. No longer connected with trauma bonds. Say yes to her for giving me life now I do it differently- I serve life differently in my own way and style.

[@sylviekaiser1064]

I don’t sense the ‘greatness’- I get an overwhelming sense of annihilation- rejection- coldness- ‘what the hell did I do? And where is the exit?’- wanted to abort me and was not allowed by law- she was/is in the service of her own life- she abandoned my bother born the next year after me- I was taken by my paternal grandparents- when I did live with her at 11(apparently I was logical enough then for her to interract with me

[@Laura122-ohio]

Her service was to be the gate to bring you to the world. Is not uncommon that evil and selfish people can be the parents of good children and God is gracious to not allow a family tree end because of a bad person. One generation can manifest the bad traits of a family and the next generation can redeem the previous one and the whole story of a family by manifesting a strong and better soul. The first and the greater is not always the best.