Best Advice for Soon-to-be Fathers | Jordan Peterson

[@wardhively9594]

Men, give those 9 months EVERYTHING YOU HAVE. This isn’t the time to be concerned with yourself, it’s time to take up your cross. Don’t go out with the boys, don’t think she’s being too sensitive, don’t be too cool. It’s no joke. Humble yourself and do whatever it takes to make her feel as good as possible. If there was ever a time for you to “step up”, this is definitely that time.

[@nkaloyanov]

When my wife was pregnant, I tried to give her the ultimate support. One mom told me, "Take care of her during those 9 months, and you'll have a peaceful baby". Remember that, folks! And don't let the mother take care of your baby. Take shifts. Be present. Feed the baby (if it's bottle-fed), prepare the food (if it's a formula), change diapers, put the baby to sleep, rock the baby, shower the baby alongside your wife. Even if you're perfect, your wife will STILL snap at you sometimes. Just soak it up, and don't reply. Once your baby gets older and mom's hormones get back to normal, you'll have a great relationship with everyone in your family. And as a man, there is NOTHING more satisfying than having a woman who adores you, and a kid that looks up to you.

[@WildWestAutoDetailing]

Thank you for this, thank you so much

[@FranciszekGawulski]

Sheeeeeesh ❤️‍🔥 Perfect, greetings from Poland ❤

[@kobalos73]

It's also worth mentioning, don't expect her to do the cooking, cleaning, laundry. Take a break from the 50-50 household chores and take full on responsibility. We should be the ones doing these, especially during the first 6 months, when our partners don't get any sleep during the night. Just wake up an hour early and cook a healthy meal for the day so that the family stays well fed. Do the laundry at night. Anything to lift some of the heavy burden.

[@tsakostsakos5440]

I ml sleeples gor almost a week now. A complication during c section makes everything so much harder to handle. My wife is exhausted,she just managed to find a way to sleep with our newborn son on her chest and i m there by their side watching so everything is safe. My little guy had colics all day and almost non stop crying. I know this is temporary and soon we will be better. I just run into this video and i felt that it was made for me. I needed this. I finally know what love means and i am so grateful. It's not about me anymore it's about something so much bigger than me. I will be the best dad i can.

[@nicojaramilloyako]

You can do this man. I wish you lots of patience and support from loved ones or even strangers out there. Trust that love you have found inside

[@tsakostsakos5440]

@nicojaramilloyako Thank you for you kind words. I appreciate it. Every day is more and more beautiful. We got some great advice from a friend of ours and seems to be working so far. We managed to get some sleep and our wonderful son looks calmer and happier. I wish you all the best.

[@IlnurZhazha]

very very deep, LONG prepared words are coming from a man, that has 40+ years of experience as a father and clinical psychologist

[@andrewlilley3660]

They don't have very much basis in reality regarding the modern transient relationships that we witness today, and that's the problem

[@IlnurZhazha]

@@andrewlilley3660 yeah, but some people are so dedicated that they don't lie to themselves and find a really good partner

[@andrewlilley3660]

@@IlnurZhazha Yes, but that situation is subject to infinite variables, and most relationships would start from that basis. However, such is modern life that it only takes a slight nudge to throw people off their path, and the divorce rate alone is a testament to this, thanks.

[@IlnurZhazha]

@@andrewlilley3660 so what the solution?

[@andrewlilley3660]

@@IlnurZhazha I don't know, and I'm too old for it to be of any concern to me, thanks.

[@giffordsamuelson2163]

Yup. Father of five here. Can confirm. Your wife instinctually takes care of a baby, you care for her while she cares for the baby. You should give baby hugs and change diapers, but make sure your wife is cared for is peak importance

[@MarkJones-yu1rs]

Honestly, this book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ gave me the encouragement I needed to stay strong in raising my kids with Christian values, it’s comforting to know Im not alone on this journey

[@bennettamplification]

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[@MarkTheBattler]

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[@MarkJones-yu1rs]

How is it a spam, it is a real comment

[@bennettamplification]

⁠@@MarkJones-yu1rsyou spam this on like all his videos. It’s not authentic, it’s an ad.

[@edenelle3651]

Oh wow I love this! I have spent years saying to men, the best way to make sure that your child is OK is to look after their mother. JP confirms, eloquently, exactly this. As a result, a woman has the opportunity to deeply witness his maturity, his kindness and the love he feels for her.

[@andrewlilley3660]

Okay, but who looks after the father?

[@Charybdismoon]

​​​@@andrewlilley3660 I hope you understand the wife is mothering their child, she can't also mother them. The husband chooses to give his energy to his wife so she can give the most back to him and his offspring, in the form of caring for them. It isn't always about you/the husband, is it? The woman grew an entire human being and is it's entire life source, I can say from experience that it is incredibly tiring. Sometimes, you have to put your immediate wants aside to be there for the person you love in order for them to get back to feeling healthy enough to be their best self.

[@KewlBrown]

@@andrewlilley3660bro be a man and step it up. Don’t need anyone to look after you. You are on top and it’s your job to take care of the love of your life which will in return take care of your world.

[@Kicsitkrisz]

This is one of the best things a man can hear

[@pablobo9809]

Well the algorithm didn’t disappoint here, we'll have our first child in January and although I definitely knew I had to take care of my wife, in classic Jordan Peterson style, he just says it in a way it makes you understand it on a deeper level.

[@andreaschristensen123]

Absolutely on the same page here. We have our due date on the 21st of december, and my youtube definetly knows - and I ain't complaining when this is what i get recommended!

[@RocketWisdom7]

Expecting my baby girl in 2 weeks

[@trumpetpunk42]

Congrats to all of you! Jordan's good advice here is harder to follow in practice than in theory, but very best of luck on your new life's mission.

[@vichupb]

​@@andreaschristensen123 hows the baby now❤

[@andreaschristensen123]

@@vichupb amazing, thank you

[@Propane_Acccessories]

Western culture has destroyed the multigenerational home. It used to be normal for grandparents , aunts, uncles and siblings to be physically present. Now we live in a time where both parents need to work to make ends meet and they have to let the daycare do the parenting, because families don't live together anymore and the economy is terrible.

[@Zayden.Marxist]

capitalism is incompatible with extended family and community connections. There's even a loneliness epidemic going on now.

[@Propane_Acccessories]

@@Zayden.Marxist Well in the US we have a combo of capitalism and socialism that is killing us. Mainly it is the corporations receive the benefit of our taxes. They are also who congress is representing. Corporate socialism supported by our labor.

[@HoangNguyenDinh-g7v]

that's how capitalism control people as modern slavery and maintain power. They took away what used to be ours and were giving us money that we use to sastify our needs and wants to push us in the modern economy.

[@wodzefag8062]

EXACTLY

[@zad0k91]

Almost as if it's all on purpose

[@althompson8417]

I was holding back tears watching this. I absolutely can not wait for my babies and to see my wife hold them ❤

[@jesselozano5124]

Same here stranger.

[@-Swamp_Donkey-]

My baby boy is a month old and life has never been better.

[@aprillmt3230]

I envy this so much. I wish my husband understood this. I'm suffering.

[@heisenbones420]

Does he not want kids?

[@useridcn]

Many don't. You are not alone.

[@aidan7183]

Sending love to you. I understand.

[@-Swamp_Donkey-]

Hang in there, yeah?

[@Dusta_Rhymes]

Hey, father of a 1.5 year old here. You're the support player. You're there to back her up and help her with anything kid related. She will lead the charge on the baby's care. Understand this, it'll make coexistence easier.

[@Skyscraper125]

Our first son is 16 months old now, and we both really can't wait to have our second child. She had a c-section though, so we have to wait another 6 months or so before to avoid any complications with a v-back. I cannot emphasize enough how accurate the "You gotta be there for her for the first 6 months." - In my case, since she was literally *CUT OPEN* - she was very immobilized for the first 3 months. Couldn't lift anything more than a few pounds, couldn't walk very far at all, would get random bouts of extreme post-op pain, etc. I think JP makes it sound like 6 months is a long time, but when you are running around like a chicken with your head cut off to do all this stuff it flies by so freaking fast. Between work & taking care of her/your baby - you have maybe an hour or 2 a day to do anything not related to that. I think my advice to new parents would be to expect to "disappear" for a year-ISH. There's simply no time to do anything outside work & immediate family. You won't have time for your weekly board game night with friends, no time for really ANYTHING that you can't pause midflow (because that 1-2 hours of free time is not continuous free time), and you probably won't have the same mental capacity for anything exceptionally heady on such spotty sleep (As most of that is going to go to your work). What I'd say to *not* worry about. 1. Don't worry about "being a bad parent." You are your kids FAVORITE person in the world. It's so insanely humbling for me because I've always been an extreme perfectionist and never felt "Good enough" - but my son adores my wife & I so JP is right, it's a GREAT deal. 2. Don't worry about the prospect of the lack of sleep. Humans are incredibly adaptable, and it shocked me that I was still highly functional for multiple days of spotty "sleep for 2 hours, wake for 1-2 hours, repeat all night" type schedules. I drink caffeine, but I'm usually fine with just a cup of coffee even after a "rough night." For those guys who struggle with insomnia like I did, it actually helps fix your insomnia having a kid. No more taking 2 or 3 hours to knock out, you will knock out instantly upon hitting the pillow I PROMISE you! xD 3. Don't worry about Dual Income/Money - worry about actual support. I think a lot of people think that having a kid = daycare & lots of $$$. If you have a support group (siblings, parents, very close friends, etc), it makes the prospect of having "enough money" or being dual income like my wife & I are WAY less severe. If you aren't worrying about "who's gonna watch him?" when you both have to go into the office, you have to answer the question wherever you go "What do we do about the toddler?" (after she's off maternity leave... not a ton of places give a long paternity leave, I only had a month. It is what it is). If the answer to that question is the little one can spend time with extended family (or friends you treat as family), you are SO INSANELY WELL OFF YOU CANNOT FATHOM. I would rather have the continued support of my parents/inlaws being able to occasionally watch our son than an extra $50 grand a year to pay for daycare and then some. I know the economy is kinda shitty, but if you are dual income you can make 6 figures relatively easily which makes most houses affordable... for my wife & I - we're just rushing the first $100k (which you can also do with dual income). 4. Don't worry about your job/work. A lot of people, I think, think other people have a negative perception of you when you have kids. This is so untrue. My ability to connect with my coworkers (and same for my wife) improved tenfold once we had a kid. I know it's a cliche that "Everyone just wants to talk about their kids" - but the stipulation is "So long as you also have or have had kids/gone through it too." If anything, NOT having kids kind of ostracizes you at work and incentivizes companies to bully you to do more work for the same pay because "Well, what else are you gonna do?... play games?" Whereas if you have a kid, you have a source of empathy with other parent coworkers who will probably be your bosses and managers that you can negotiate with more than you realize. Don't abuse this privilege, but don't worry about work life with kids.

[@JWForce1059]

Same general life circumstances. Can confirm, this is all spot on.

[@gameon8491]

Thank you for sharing this one ❤️ bless you and your family.

[@tudorn]

I never comment on KZbin, but this is amazingly well said.

[@jordanliang3966]

Found out on the 27th of December that I am going to be a father for the first time, and the amount of excitement and fear I feel daily can be overwhelming

[@WildWestAutoDetailing]

We just found out yesterday that my wife is pregnant… IM SO EXCITED! I feel the leaf turning. I just want to be the best dad and husband I can be and all of these comments and this video is really making it clear how important the various “yes” phrases are 😂 thank you to everyone for the incredible advice!

[@engelbertgonzalez2862]

Congratulations brother, if you’re on KZbin looking videos on how to be a good dad, that’s a good sign that you’re going to do great

[@TheBaphomet-6]

I first son was born 3 hrs ago they have sent me home to let mum and baby rest i have to go back later to pick them up once all there checks are done im sat in the car park still i wanna be with my little dude hes so fucking cool

[@Tsa-SONGS-ABOUT-BEING-a-DAD]

@@TheBaphomet-6 hope it's going well dude

[@quabio]

Enjoy it mate, best time of your life

[@slpplz]

They wouldn’t let you stay with her?

[@TheBaphomet-6]

@@slpplz no at the time they wouldn't let anyone stay with them

[@threatassessment216]

Thank you for posting this sir

[@michaelmarcus509]

Having the older child help is so smart instead of feeling like they have to compete

[@DropDatBass]

I used to think kids would get in the way of my social life once I had them. They did, but I really started wanting to be with them than any of my close friends once they got to month 8. The party life side of me died and the father role filled me completely. I still can't believe I used to think I wanted to spend more time with drunks/druggies friends before my kids.

[@kenlam8360]

One thing that we did that work well for us was having me doing all the nights (i.e. feeding + diaper change at night every 2 hours), especially for the first 3-4 months and let my wife sleep so that she can recover her body quickly. To be honest, doing the nights is a very lonely thing and I can understand how women get into post-partum depression while dealing with all the body changes and the loneliness. Women did the hard work carrying the baby and giving birth; so it's only fair that dads do the nights.

[@R.S_Howell]

'You've got to take care of your wife while she takes care of your baby.' I don't know why this is so beautiful, but it is. I think that just spells out what a family is supposed to be.

[@Account________Closed10]

i’m about to be a father ❤️🙏🏻

[@useridcn]

Yes, guys, support and don't complain.

[@daniel_laurean]

Any idea where can find the full show ?

[@martinalesicka8232]

Thank you so much for this video 🫶🏻 it helped me get ma thinking right ❤

[@jordanpetersonlessons]

God bless you!

[@khaliphileluckyfortunedube2824]

just love listening to Peterson💯

[@JonathanMunguia1000]

I bought my house cash i dont wanna have debt but ill take out 100k and invest it . Renting it out is a risk if renters dont pay , selling it is a risk if you dont have a plan, bills will eat up ur $ overtime.. everything is a risk if u think about it but not taking risks is a risk 🙃.. taking out equity and investing it while ur renters pay the payment dosnt sound crazy , a 50k payment is like 300-350$ a month.. i figured thats a decent option but i like a quote i heard ,"life is risky, investing is risky, its all risky .wait til you get the bill for not trying."

[@FunnyPodcastClips-mz7br]

I’m 19 Male. I just found out my ex girlfriend got pregnant. She was my first proper girlfriend and we never expected to have children anytime soon. It’s been a month since we spoke and we left things on bad terms. It’s a sticky situation. She broke the news to me and I didn’t know how to react or what to say. Abortion isn’t an option because of her parents religious beliefs. We both agreed we’re not ready to raise a child but it’s forced upon us in a way. We both just finished school and work very basic jobs. Right now it doesn’t feel real at all, Im very stressed and don’t know how to feel and this video gives me hope and motivation to grind for this baby and look on the bright side !!!JORDAN PETERSON THANKS ALOT ❤🐐🐐 Edit: The comments on this video are amazing and give me alot of hope 🙏🏻🙏🏻 cheers guys

[@katytiscareno8922]

Go to your ex-girlfriend and make it work...for your sake, her sake, and especially your baby's sake. Your baby deserves both his/her parents together in a loving relationship. Leave the past in the past. Eighteen years is a LONG time for a child to deal with being shuffled back and forth from mom's house to dad's house and back again. You are young, but people got married and had babies young years ago quite a bit. It's very doable...if you want to be a grownup. It's time to man up and take responsibility and make the best of the circumstances. You have the ability to screw up three people's lives or create a new family and be a man who loves his family. Unless you walk away, your "ex-girlfriend" will ALWAYS be in your life now. Be a man. Do what's right. There are too many young men who are immature and won't take responsibility and be honorable and have integrity. They refuse to grow up and people around them pay the price. Best of luck! You can do right by your child IF YOU CHOOSE TO. The baby has to come before you. Your childhood is over; it's manhood you should be entering now.

[@WontonV2]

How is it going man?

[@XerGrizZz]

As a father a real father, it’s worth it.

[@andyb-5163]

Thank you Mr Peterson

[@gm6856]

Found out on Christmas that my wife was pregnant I’m so excited to be a dad

[@khalifashema]

be a good father and raise a good respectful child first then maybe i'll listen

[@sirwalksoftly]

Very much agreed. I am this, practiced this, and wish the mother of my child made it more feasible for me to want to be this way... sad knowing I gave it my best and she was still too toxic so I had to separate from her eventually. I look forward to being this good energy again in a loving union with more beautiful children to create.

[@ernestzeus8302]

Wishing you luck mate.

[@sirwalksoftly]

@@ernestzeus8302 Thank you friend.

[@alanalycan3986]

REALLY WATCH HER, take care of her - something delinquent Father's couldn't fathom. We have Mother's snapping & harming their infants & SOME fathers who didn't care enough to CHECK on their babies & the Mother, even if your not together anymore !! I'm a single Mother of a little girl, her 'father' hasn't checked on her in 4yrs. She could be going through anything, he doesn't care. Hope he doesn't expect her to run into his arms once she's grown 🤷‍♀️

[@-Swamp_Donkey-]

Lemme guess.. he’s black

[@JayVilla194]

I did this but she told me to get out from behind the bushes and go back to my house.

[@EmYeuVietNam]

Im 21 and I got a baby coming Im terrified

[@basedon1580]

I’m 23 and I’m in the same boat brother. But the fact you are terrified says a lot about you. You can do it.

[@CillaCreez]

Here’s the truth fellas…you both are somewhat young to become dads. I only say that because you should have lived up your 20’s. But it is what it is now. You are going to become fathers and do everything in your power to give the baby and its mother a great life. Find your hustle quickly and get your money. Angels and blessings start to show up in your lives when you bring a child in this world.

[@donjuanjones7090]

I’m 22 ina same boat. I’m not sure of yo situation, but you got dis mane. Be da father you neva had or become the father you cherish, it’s not gone be too hard.

[@JAKWEES]

30, just as terrified 😂

[@memphis101a]

Be faithful to her, stay together, be around, the rest is just extra

[@Ivan-wp1ne1]

Better to listen to your own father rather than random man online

[@Tsa-SONGS-ABOUT-BEING-a-DAD]

Yeah i like the idea of looking after the wife but its also quite old fashioned - like I dud that but also i was involved with baby from day 1, doing feeds, changing nappies, tgat stuff is fun and it gets you a real bond with your kid, not like the dads of ny generation who never showed emotion and came in to give you a clip round the ear lol. I made a musical guide to being a dad on my channel if anyone is interested

[@gtgangwon]

Totally agree. Petersons advice is good if you're in his situation, but for the rest of the dads, man up and be there alongside your wife, not behind her.

[@Tsa-SONGS-ABOUT-BEING-a-DAD]

@gtgangwon yep

[@greengiantdog]

How about instead of men standing in the background we stand in the foreground.... It's ridiculous to say let your wife go for 6 months. Men should be there raising the child the whole time, particularly if bottle feeding both parents can contribute equally.

[@gtgangwon]

Naw man, be there alongside your wife, not behind her. If you have a full time job, well, now you have two. But it won't last forever. This too shall pass.

[@mariablume1967]

Do you really mean, that the last months of a pregnancy is "a hell of a thing" in a negative way or is it just playing with words? My pregnancy was absolutely wonderfull, especially from the seventh month, because then we could see the small feets pushing so soft and slowly against my stomach💕 Not all women leave their husband behind for 6 months after birth, but many unfortunately do and THAT is a big problem, because then, the fathers often get jaloux on the infant for exactly that reason!

[@TerezaBarloon]

I think you misunderstood what he was saying quite a bit. “Hell of a thing” - it’s a big effin’ deal and to pretend it’s all positive for everyone is simply naive. And yes, if a woman is preoccupied with infant care , there will be less time for the husband. That’s just a natural way of things. Some men are unfortunately immature and can’t comprehend that infants needs come before theirs and then they resent the mother. What he’s saying is that a good father should understand that and help the new mother where possible and once the baby is bigger things will get much better, especially for the couple as the mother will now feel supported, taken care of, secure and grateful in the relationship. You have to understand that just because your experience was a certain way, doesn’t mean it’s like that for everyone.

[@yezothebear]

💙

[@maribethcondrillon4641]

I swear to god never in love again sorry father im done ❤

[@caboodle5462]

without seeing his face, sounds like saul goodman.

[@saaidhassan5391]

this is such a rubbish adivce, rather than saying, the baby is our shared responsibility, no he is saying it is hers, this is disgusting

[@megyskermike]

He sounds very clinical and disconnected. Which is fine if you are that way in life/with children, but not all men desire or get fulfillment the same way. I dont mind Peterson, but he has such archaic ideas about gender, which I always find strange given his field of expertise. A lot of men in that age range/generation seem to have exactly the same mentality regardless of vocation.

[@dansmaaslet6623]

My wife had a C section she was totally laid up for over 3 weeks and she couldn't breast feed I was mother and father to my boy for almost the entire first month of his life, we now have a bond like no other father son I've ever met or seen

[@AlthoughWhy]

both parents have an equal responsibility to take care of the baby.

[@JK-Handyman]

Jordan doesn't explain in detail what he means when he says your wife will be gone from you....he means no sex.

[@megyskermike]

He means the baby is the focus, not you and/or the relationship. The sex being gone goes without saying.

[@jccuchvjvj]

That's why I won't ever have a family. I won't be ready

[@alals6794]

I was not ready either man....but it was now or never and never was not in the cards for me. haha

[@basedon1580]

You’ll never be ready. Whoever told you that you would be ready was lying….

[@DaddyLONGleg895]

No one is ready but having a child is a beautiful thing being a father is scary but so amazing you get to create and watch grow

[@finlaywhiskard3965]

You become ready by having a family.

[@andrewlilley3660]

Jordan is describing a situation of fatherhood which is becoming obsolete. The state has become the father to the offspring of many women, and girls, and that's not a good thing! A woman has a biological mechanism by which she can access resources from the state by simply bringing forth a child, which is so easy for most women. The state will effectively become the father of that child and a roof and all the needs of mother and child will be met. Often the children have a variety of different fathers coming and going, I see examples of this daily, and the situation Jordan is describing is becoming increasingly rare.

[@alals6794]

That is a minority of cases....do no exaggerate.

[@andrewlilley3660]

@@alals6794 No, it's not a minority of cases, at all, are you dreaming or living in some alternative universe?

[@zoot4358]

Daddy Kermit strikes again 🐸

[@christopherbrady9033]

First video I've ever watched of yours. That i whole heartily disagree with the majority of what you says Mr Peterson. Delete this one 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🔥

[@lucianluca7059]

you lost me at minute 4 where you say that a good raised daughter can be as good as a son...

[@stevengoldstein114]

This is the fourth ad Jordan pushed on me on May 16 Jordan needs to address as part of a disciplinary probation order, a period of suspension may be imposed prior to the effective date of the probation. The Board's Disciplinary Guidelines provide details of the conditions under which a suspension may be made a part of the probation order. During suspension, licensees may not practice psychology or refer to themselves as psychologists. As indicated above in "Probation," suspensions are considered disciplinary actions associated with probation orders and, as such, are public information and provided to consumers upon request. Jordan is a Frasier Crane wannabe. He is an entertainer not a psychologist. Because he sells books and videos and lectures, THAT IS NOT THERAPY. He needs to address his bad conduct in courts in the case of Case 1 Sordi v. Sordi, 2009 CanLII 80104 (ON SC) he defamed a parent in court. In the case 2 R. v. Pearce, 2012 MBQB 22 (CanLII) he tried to free a murderer. Then in the case Peterson v. College of Psychologists of Ontario, 2023 ONSC 4685, he tried to avoid taking responsibility. He also tried to interfere in a family court case in Montana, the Kolstadt case, where there was a GAG order, he unprofessionally diagnosed a minor without interviews or assessments, and tried to defend unfit parents.

[@andrewlilley3660]

He missed out on the bit where the extended family steps in to save the day, parents often delegate the upbringing of their children to family members, and they have no realisation of the enormity of responsibility they impose on that person. Having children is the most selfish thing anyone can do.

[@IlnurZhazha]

It happens when parents are busy at work all the time. What you are describing is not so often. Parents can delegate their responsibilities to other family members, yeah, but it's not like a daily basis. I assume that you are not above 30 years old, so you will understand this: Due to the low demographic situation, pensions may be canceled in 30 years, as fewer and fewer people will be able to work. We need more people now

[@andrewlilley3660]

@@IlnurZhazha No, extended family look after children on a very regular basis, I took my sister's kids back and forth to school for many years. I also fed them until their mum arrived home, and she came home to a cooked meal, as well. I wasn't paid for this task, in fact, it actually cost me to do it, and not just financially. I am still making up the shortfall in my family's relationships, and I am twice the age you beleive I am, and then some, thanks.

[@andrewlilley3660]

@@IlnurZhazha If you mean the low demographic of working-age people, as opposed to the high elderly demographics, that is just a myth generated by the government. It allows them to delay the payment of the state pension and allows the continuous flow of illegal immigration that steadily destroys society.

[@andrewlilley3660]

@@IlnurZhazha We don't need more people, we need less.

[@IlnurZhazha]

@@andrewlilley3660 look demographic statistic and you will understand why we need more people. I am really sorry that you had the problem, which you described, in your family. But not everyone has your case

[@mattmacknight3000]

JP should never have been a parent.

[@basedon1580]

Why is that?

[@leonidacristian6512]

Bro , staying that about a man that has grown kids educated and successful it’s just nonsense from your mouth

[@mattmacknight3000]

@@leonidacristian6512 have you never seen his weird relationship with his daughter? He’s a grifter. His daughter is a grifter. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@Foe-o9j]

"And that's a great deal, man" It certainly is.

[@zacharywilliams3631]

As a new stepfather to a two year old I needed to hear that