Best Friend Doesn't Know They're Getting Cheated On - What Would You Do?

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[@DeAnna18]

The wife who's telling her husband not to say anything could potentially be because she's cheating too 🤣 then both the wive's will be caught up!

[@qthequick]

My first thought 😂 they’re sharing cheating stories with each other

[@XanderG4]

@@qthequick Same. She in on it.

[@AllanDanja]

Why dude had the instinct to look in her phone in the first place

[@whoami148]

Exactly

[@bigboib80]

Exactly! She’s knows the best friend’s wife will out her as well.

[@DCMFR]

I will never forget when I caught my homies girl hugged up with another dude at the mall. I couldn’t record because my phone died. I ended calling and telling him later that day what had happened. He hung up for like 5-10mins, called back and had her on 3 way denying it and he’s eating up everything. He was convinced that I was jealous of him and just trying to break them up… it ruined our friendship but I found out that they eventually broke up because he found out she was cheating but funny enough he never apologized or mentioned anything whenever we’d end up in the same places. Guess out of embarrassment for how he treated me.

[@iamlittylee]

That’s how it always goes down, life is so weird and so are people

[@CorniyaTV]

Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ just sad

[@user-jd4uz9gw3h]

Nigggga u snitched on her hugging some nigga 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@DCMFR]

@@user-jd4uz9gw3h if you’re into other guys getting physical with your woman that’s okay I don’t judge, to each their own. but this wasn’t the case here

[@brandonf.8360]

I could be wrong but that wasn't your homie if he thought you were that jealous.

[@kia.203]

If you tell your best friend, just be prepared for the friendship to end. Most of the time, that person will end thier friendship with you, before they end the relationship with their partner 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@SpicyPisces1010]

What if the wife told him to mind his business because she too may be cheating and her friend knows her dirt as well? They may be holding each other’s secrets and if her husband exposes her friend, her dirty laundry could be aired out too. Idk just a thought.

[@vardyunlimited]

That’s exactly what it is!

[@Ellobuhbyehair]

That part ☝🏾

[@VanessaElizabeta]

My initial thought. Charlemagne doesn’t think too deeply, lol.

[@AllanDanja]

Exactly what I thought

[@trg-7506]

BANG!!! exactly what I thought 🤔

[@whoami148]

If you let your friend get played like that and you do not say anything. You're not a real friend. If your girl or your wife tells you to stay quiet, that makes me wonder about my own relationship. So sick of women telling us to mind our business while our brothers get played and hurt. I knew someone (co-worker) that committed suicide because of a situation like this. Everyone knew his wife was cheating but him. He thought everything was good. He was so embarrassed when he found out and what hurt him the most, all his "friends" knew.

[@Jrfusion08]

I agree. If my wife tell me to mind my business when it's my best friend involved, I'm immediately looking at her like wait you in on this? What else you doing behind my back? What other secrets you keeping from me? I'd lose trust in my wife tbh unless she shared every detail of what's going on.

[@ET-hc4wl]

Nope. Mind your business. Had he been told he probably would have killed his wife.

[@Cipherman360]

Yeah thats some cold shit. Sorry for that brotha, I know that was hard.

[@RasTafar1100]

@@ET-hc4wl exactly, that’s why you shouldn’t do people wrong.

[@IllMatic97]

@@ET-hc4wl odds are it wouldn't have ended good no matter if he was told or not given the context of the story from the main comment. Don't cheat, it really is that simple.

[@ROCBOYZGURLZ]

This happened to me. My best friend knew and then all my friends knew. They were gathering all the facts before they could tell. At first I didn't want to believe them until they showed me pics. I'm forever grateful

[@treychristopheryoung9983]

This happened with me and one of my best girlfriends, and I knew she was getting cheating on. At first I wasn’t going to say anything because I just don’t want to get into that messiness. I had proof and everything. A week later, I hung out with her and I felt super guilty about laughing and hanging out with her KNOWING I knew this information. Then I told her and she ended up blocking ME on Instagram. Was just trying to be a good friend and look out for her. Crazy.

[@iamlittylee]

That sounds like how it always happens smh

[@Gold63Beast]

@@iamlittylee happens EVERY TIME!!!

[@pinksterp02]

people always wanna believe that other people are just jealous of what they have going on so that is what happens first. But then when they get smacked in their face with what a true friend told them about their partner, they are totally embarrassed so they are then hurt from every angle and ashamed about what they did and the friend they lost. To be honest you are in a better place with that person no longer in your life. I say that not trying to be rude or anything but if they have made no effort or attempt to crawl back begging for your forgiveness after you were only trying to be a good friend and protect them from more hurt, that says if they knew something about you, they would not tell. Is that the kind of friend you want in your life? For real, the fact that they would and could maintain a clean relationship with you, knowing something as serious as your heart🤨🤔. It is your choice to make but I would have to think really really hard about if I wanted that person in my life. For me it's an easy no. I found out that my best friend of over 10yrs, God mother to one of my 4 daughters and the maid of honor at my wedding was doing so back door shit on the low that I found out the day before my wedding. That is the ONLY reason she remained in the wedding party but trust and believe she felt all of the cold shoulders because people knew what she had been doing. The sad part is that she had absolutely no reason to do what she was doing. But she went way to far. She was talking with my in-laws behind my back and my fiancé about nonsense. She suggested to my man to delay the wedding that we were moving to fast, mind you we had been together over 2 years, living together and I was pregnant with our 2 child together (I already had 2 from a previous relationship). My husband and I just celebrated our 20yr wedding anniversary and as she was then, she is today, single with no kids and in her early 50's. Not saying it is to late for her to find love but when you are ugly to people who genuinely love you, what do you expect. The statement "God doesn't like ugly is real", as is karma. She sadly was jealous because I was getting and had all the things she wanted. I honestly believe that had she gone about things differently, her life now would be different. I believe you did the right thing and are better off without that person in your life. Continue to stay safe, take good care and enjoy the rest of your day!!!🙌🏽🙏🏽😉

[@Gold63Beast]

@@pinksterp02 preach.

[@producerx1015]

@@pinksterp02 wow...you put alot of energy into that reply. People like u need therapist 🙃 You think I'd let a hater participate in my wedding? Never

[@BK.Adonis]

Charla saying trust your wife and mind your business as if women don’t ever lie lol

[@robertcollison4127]

On God. That’s what happen when you ran by your girl. Could be doing anything. These people trying to stop men from understanding their role. We are the judgement of the family. We are suppose to be discerning. Not just listen to women tell us what not to do.

[@cpatterson22]

I would be questioning my wife also for entertaining the friend's cheating.

[@gcinamabaso5698]

Cause the wife might be cheating too, like the other wife.

[@malmal1ful]

Right she saying mind his business lmao they cheating as a team

[@ferrarimafia2322]

Exactly 💯

[@daniellawyatt]

I would tell her, what she is doing is wrong. I would tell my hub (because we talk). If my husband was friends with the male, I would still tell. Because I don't want what she/he is doing to cause problems in our marriage. Would I ask him to stay out of it? Yes. "The bird of a feather," is B.S. Being that I have been burnt on telling the truth about cheating, I learnt not to get involve. Even if it was the other way around and it was my hub's male friend, I would not tell. We would pull back on the couples get together.

[@sunnygibbs925]

Yess!!! Don’t underestimate ‘birds of a feather’!!!

The way that woman said “Didn’t Envy get caught?” had me cracking up 😂

[@bberry9356]

Put Envy on mute lol

[@TheMenages]

I'm listening now, awaiting this caller's call. Sitting on the edge of my chair, with no popcorn, however READY!!!

[@TheMenages]

Ah hahahaha, it had to be said. She said it's gonna come out, he's gonna get caught. LOL! Love this show!

[@candicecandy8137]

😮😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭

[@jonathantimothee1516]

The wife is outside too! That’s why she said mind your business, she don’t want her info out their.

[@DarkZaderTV]

Na dawg, why my wife helping a cheater cheat. She on the same type of time in my eyes. Difference in being trusting and dumb.

[@kingdavid4971]

them big facts my G

[@gemeaux2000]

💯💯💯And that is the part that is boggling my mind

[@ferrarimafia2322]

Exactly 💯

[@tidey4]

I’m definitely questioning my wife and her morals.

[@Jon155mt]

Dude’s wife prolly cheating on him too

[@tai4short]

Facts !!! SHE GOT DIRT and don’t want to be EXPOSED

[@BK.Adonis]

Charla: I don’t wanna jump to conclusions Also charla: his wife said to mind his business so she probably knows more than he does.

[@rhondac.891]

Exactly! For some reason his assumption that there is some understanding going on just because the other wife knows is ridiculous. Somehow his assumption trumps everyone else’s

[@kaelinjefferies9267]

@@rhondac.891 and if he used his brain he would know that we as guys would tell our wife to mind their business if my homeboy was cheating on her friend. It’s bc we don’t want our friend to get caught not bc there’s some understanding

[@ElderBishopPastorReverendOssie]

Its not about looking stupid, its about looking out for your best friend.

[@gemeaux2000]

Imagine the cheating wife infecting the husband with a STD/STI/HIV, how would you feel as a best friend for not telling him at all or soon enough ? If you are my best friend, I'm telling...

[@TheNiggaReview]

I'd tell my best friend if I found out his lady was cheating on him.. if he chooses to stay with her regardless then that's his business but he deserves to know the truth.

[@michaeldunson2531]

I guess you never listen to the song When a man love a woman, when he say he will turn his back on his best friend if he put her down! Don't be surprised if this happen to you if you tell him!

[@TheNiggaReview]

@@michaeldunson2531 again, if he chooses to stay with her regardless then that's his business. If he chooses to end his friendship with me that's his choice. If one of my boys is getting played he deserves to know. I know I'd want my boys to tell me so I'm not out here looking stupid 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@michaeldunson2531]

@@TheNiggaReview If you know your boy is cheating on her would you tell her! I am assuming that if he is your best friend that you are also friend with his wife!

[@TheNiggaReview]

@@michaeldunson2531 I'm not best friends with the wife, I don't owe it to her to tell her anything. I would strongly encourage my friend to come clean to his wife and if he didn't it would damage our friendship because I don't endorse cheating nor do I want to be associated with cheaters.

[@romegrey2600]

Better come with a paper trail of evidence because everybody knows that 1 friend that'll turn on you for their relationship if they're whipped regardless of how tight the friendship is supposed to be

[@Gold63Beast]

Even if you show them bro. They’ll get back together and your friendship is deaded smh

[@jgard1168]

Damn y’all need better friends lol. Been rocking with the same 6 dudes since middle school we all 22 plus lol 😂💀, we say something about a girl we already know we don’t need no “ paper trail” if y’all got the one friend why still be friends with them lol.?

[@Xings868]

Sammy from hey set shore

[@Gold63Beast]

@@jgard1168 your still young young blood. Your friends and you haven’t had real love yet. Don’t worry bro you’ll get there. I guarantee you it will happen to you and think back about this comment like damnnn those KZbin dudes had a point. I just hope your smart enough to remember when it does happen. 😂

[@jgard1168]

@@Gold63Beast I’m addressing the whole “paper trail thing” I was stating how as guys we don’t need a paper trail if we’re gonna let one one of our homeboys know about a girl 🤦🏽‍♀️😭😂 . Mr old blood you talking about “ you haven’t found love” 🤦🏽‍♀️ like dog what topic are you on ….

[@Playboy61788]

If Charlamagne wouldn't have got caught doing the dirt he did, he wouldn't be saying this remedial shit.

[@Cipherman360]

Finally somebody came on and held the other friend accountable for his grimey actions. Yee is right, you can't sit there in a group of friends and keep that to yourself, that's fake. If you a real one it's gonna eat at you. My wife knows that, and she wouldn't ask me to mind own biz on that, she'd get out of her man's way and watch him be a man about it.

[@TheDailyVocab]

The simple fact that she is cheating with one of his friends, that’s probably over his house, smiling in his face, drinking up his liquor and “helping” him out is why he should tell. It’s nothing worse than looking like a plum fool smiling in the face of someone your significant other is cheating with. TELL THAT MAN!!!!

[@already5912]

FACTS!!!

[@Freshness0009]

If my wife is complicit in my best friend’s wife cheating and telling ME to mind my business… i’ll look at my wife funny too. Birds of a feather flock together 🐦

[@DekuMight45]

I swear Charlemagne's balls are in a vice grip. Who the hell allows their wife to tell them what they can and can't say? You should run your household as a Man, first and foremost. So her telling you to mind your business should have never came out her lips. If your best homie is willing to cut you off, knowing damn well you're a standup dude, he was never really your best homie. No way you let your man's get cheated on. You confront her ass, record the entire situation and present him with the facts, texts and your word. Real ones know that

[@stayswervin554]

facts

[@michaelhunter786]

👍🏾

[@vladputin25]

Charla jus says whatever he has to so he can cheat peacefully on his wife

[@almightypalevin8186]

Didn't Charlemagne say that his wife cheated on him with another man who had a bigger penis and he stayed with his wife anyway? His balls aren't in a vice grip, they're in his wife's purse.

[@DocMatthews0311]

80% of us hold this perspective. Real man isht. And it's empowering to see real men who stand 10 toes down for morals and family values become more vocal about it.

[@WillyemStyle]

Lord Jesus this is a mess. First off, Charla and Envy. If y'all wives are dictating your ability to inform your best friend that you down with about harm being done behind his back then yall not friends, yall are whipped. Secondly, this all depends on the situation. Sometimes it's best to mind your own business and let her be the homewrecker, not you. However you can always say things anonymously. But if she's just sleeping with hella dudes and you know they're in a monogamous committed relationship, warn him now. Thirdly this is exactly why I wont let my bro's home girl be apart of the brotherhood like some men are doing. The moment one of them steps out, you are now caught in a conflict of interest and then it becomes a game of which friend you loyal to and who known each other the longest. Look at the end of the day I believe there's no wrong answer but please don't let another person - wife or not - dictate your morality system.

[@kj3281]

CTG will get his point out and if you don’t agree, he will say it ten more times and slower.

[@theophilusjones6024]

😂😂

[@Ellobuhbyehair]

The caller's wife couldn't keep her mouth shut and told him. She just doesn't want the friend to be mad at her for 'spilling the beans'. The caller needs to tell his friend. The women are shady af in this scenario. 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@ferrarimafia2322]

Exactly 💯

[@oh_zee_oh]

My mom said it best: give a hypothetical situation to your BF. Ask what you should do or what they would do. Whatever the answer is that’s what you should. Not everyone wants to know their “house” is on fire even if you see smoke.

[@rottiwood4737]

So pretty much CTG not going to tell DJ Envy his wife cheating on him 🤣🤣

[@Pou1gie1]

Cheating isn't just an emotional betrayal -- it's a physical betrayal. I know of at least one person who got a permanent STD from a cheating spouse. I don't know why people forget that this is something that impacts your future physical health, as well as mental health.

[@producerx1015]

I told an old friend about his gf loving the crew/smashing and he called her on 3way. She denied of course and he believed her accusing me of being jealous of him. Our friendship was never the same. They broke up eventually too.

[@mwambak1438]

why ya'll keep copying and pasting the same story.

[@producerx1015]

@@mwambak1438 similar experiences. Definitely not copied.

[@slr8170]

I've been in this situation, I saw my friends wife with another man, BEFORE I could even think about telling him, I saw him with another woman, so I didn't say anything, eventually someone else told him at a family gathering and it was a mess, come to find out they had both been having affairs smh they broke up for a little while but got back together, the person who told him now has an awkward relationship with the couple. I stay out of married peoples business, they rarely if ever leave each other alone!

[@ScootaGray]

People use the word "friend" so loosely. If I'm telling my friends something or my friends are telling me something, it's facts. So for one of us to not believe the other, or act any type of way about being told something like that would be ridiculous. If you and your friends relationship isn't like that, then y'all are not actually friends.

[@theepunkrockprincess]

That Part 💯

[@ShervierJ]

I’m minding my god damn business. My life is drama free and I intend to keep it that way 🤷🏾

[@AfricanGirl]

lol. Hahaha right n most times they stay with they partners

[@mylesbrew5410]

Soft. Selfish. Lol

[@sashal6593]

Mario Winans debut single " I don't wanna know" has over 312,000,000 streams. That means many people want to live in denial. You can ruin the friendship by trying to be too good of a friend. Boundaries matter in all relationship aspects.

[@kennethjacobs3716]

I think the fact that the cheater is confiding in the wife of a known friend of her husband let's me know she is all of the way comfortable disclosing that information.

[@gunkmale]

Envy always the first to say he's snitching.

[@jaywashington7225]

I got to question my wife and ask her what secrets my homeboy wife is keeping for her. Birds of a feather 💯💯

[@Twenty2mke]

Charlamagne really thought he had the smoking gun with "His wife must know more cuz she told him to mind his business!" Cuz if she know more why wouldn't she go into that explanation off rip. He shouldn't have to ask for more detail. His wife COULDA been sayin "Mind yo business" to say "Stay outta my damn phone!"...or "You better stay outta my damn phone fo' you mess around and stumble across what I'M doin!" 😂😂😂

[@jasonmckinney8166]

Charla is very strange sometimes.. Im telling my best friend and if he's cool with it he will still respect me for keeing it 100 with him.

[@datsapaddlin]

I feel like my best friend would trust me if I told him I saw his wife creeping so I’d definitely let him know and I’d trust him as well. Can’t let the denial blind you.

[@BlaqueRose23]

If my spouse is involved, I'm now involved. Period. I don't care what understanding there may be, don't include me or mine in your mess and I won't bother your mess.

[@SweetTreatsBy_Marie]

Mind your business, I once told a favorite cousin of mine I saw her children's father out all hugged up on another woman. I turned out to be the villain in this situation. He came to my job with her ( my cousin) and told her to tell me to stay out of their business. So my advice is to Stay out of it.

[@gq312]

His wife is cheating too and she doesn't want the friends wife to expose her

[@kiatompkins]

Be a real friend, tell the bestfriend and show them the facts 🤨

[@rasulomari2444]

Been in this situation MULTIPLE times! I demanded one friend tell the other. The other time, I told my homie and it started a HUGE issue between us. The third time it was ME who was being told. Get it off ya chest! Openness is best!!! All 3 times were different people and all uncomfortable as hell, but if you wld wanna know... do unto others!

[@210bysondsb]

Charla tripping. To much healing

[@not41pop]

I’m snitching no cap. Then I’m minding my business lol.

[@theking4271]

If I know my man’s getting made a fool of by his woman, What type of “best friend” am I really? The words best friends become meaningless at that point and if my wife tells me to mind my business on that issue I gotta look at her with a side eye cos now I gotta wonder about you and how you could be comfortable about it as a woman

[@not41pop]

I’d lay it on slow. Be like. You in love bro ? Depending his answer I’m snitching lol. If he already moving on type ish and they got problems. I’m minding my business

[@paulpayne8303]

I think the best friend's wife didn't want him to tell because that girl know secrets about her too and she would use them against her once her situation came out if they're that close to talk about the situation like that

[@brwnserenity2351]

How deep into the text message thread did the husband read? I'm asking because the cheater might be so comfortable spilling her tea with wifey because wifey spills her tea as well 👀 Not trying to start any drama on the other side but I'd be suspicious. The husband needs to start asking questions. And, yes, as a good friend I'd absolutely have to tell but with evidence in hand. There's no way that I'd be able to keep that to myself, especially since they're all so called friends. There's soo much to this situation. I'll just leave my response at that.

[@Gold63Beast]

That is great advice, DONT GET INVOLVED BUT point them in the right direction. Give hints and he doesn’t get it, let it go and let him find out on his own man. That friend will always dead you for a significant other. Also you never know if they already know and want to be blind, I’ve seen it…it’s sad man. This is a crazy sad topic cause dudes be knowing their girl cheating and don’t care as long as everyone else don’t know.

[@stayswervin554]

lol facts

[@910established]

Loyalty apparently don’t mean nothing anymore. If my dawg getting cheated on I’mma let him know…my brothers know if I come to you about some shit like that it’s facts, and If my wife tell me to mind my business about it she gotta tell me everything she know about it because nobody finna play with my dawg. I would hope my wife’s friends would do the same for her if the shoe was on the other foot.

[@nikkolaswilliams2307]

They ain’t cut like you bro 💯

[@clodge5196]

Everybody's not built that way G. But I agree 💯

[@T.H.E.O.R.Y.]

Real shit fam: love don't live here no more.

[@Rocioslane]

I was close to this girl once and decided to tell her. The dude ended up turning on me, she stayed and we’re not friends anymore. It all depends, but it’s usually best to mind your business 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@maniac50ae14]

Looking for this comment because my sis told me years ago she don't tell her other friends unless they ask because it's a 50/50 chance the guy will flip the story and say she just wants him and trying to break them uo

[@Rocioslane]

@@maniac50ae14 Thank goodness I’ve never wanted a friend’s man and never will. If I ever fixed myself to say something again, I would make sure I have proof. But, as we all know even with proof it can ruin relationships all around romantic or otherwise.

[@nyarce]

I would let them know all that I know and make sure I have proof. They may get emotional, mad or defensive and choose to stay anyway, but at least I know I did the right thing … what they wanna do with it is up to them.

[@parisvines8827]

I agree

[@mdavis3262]

Depends on the friend…some friends will take the evidence and appreciate it..other friends will lash out at you and drag you in the mix….his wife might me cheating too if the friends wife feels comfortable speaking to her about cheating

[@ms.gabbyo5356]

1. I would confront the person in front of my best friend or 2. Depending on the friendship, I would drink my water and mind my business

[@CorniyaTV]

I would tell my bestfriend! What kind of question is that Breakfast Club??? I would never talk to you again if you don’t tell me 💯 The first caller should be telling his best friend and NOT calling The Breakfast Club for advice 💯‼️

[@tidey4]

A lot of times people drop the friend and keep there man. I’m dropping off the information off from a random number.

[@CorniyaTV]

@@tidey4 If they drop you then they was never your friend 💯 I’m gonna snitch !

[@sacresolace3669]

Y’all SOUND DU•mb . If you don’t tell your friend that they are being lied to and cheated on & they found out that you knew … That’s the end of your friendship! You owe your friend loyalty Do right by the bond you created & I would be looking at my wife funny too .. like you know damn well this my best friend & we don’t keep secrets. Those omissions of truths will destroy your whole foundation

[@sgdsingh9123]

I would immediately tell my friend everything I knew, with no added assumptions or conclusions-just, “here’s the text I saw from your wife to mine. It felt wrong not to tell you. Now you know.”

[@outtapocketman7198]

You have to tell your homie once you have concrete proof. The fact everybody knows but you and the victim in this situation is suspect. I'd question my wife as well.

[@alwaysjustjohn]

I wouldn't trust my wife if she is willing to keep something like that to herself knowing my relationship to the other party . TBH they could be cheating together and they're both keeping the sneaky links .She is not trying to get caught up her self if her "friend " is uncovered . You have to watch how people treat other people because they definitely won't hesitate when you get in the seat for execution .

[@MRMAN-wb1tv]

*What I look like snitching on myself?! That would be absurd!* 😕😂😈

[@hakaiinochi2733]

Respect to the brotha who said he'll tell his homie as well as help put the hands on buddy..fact being that THEY ARE ALL "FRIENDS"

[@dwayneadamsworld]

You know what sucks? If you don't tell your friend...who are you telling then? The gossip that would go on is just as bad. SMH

[@jordanalexander5275]

Drop hints, but you can't take sides or you'll find yourself on the outs every time.

[@Val-ep5zq]

For my own peace and karma, I’m telling. They can choose to believe me or not that’s on them. Most of time they don’t, or rather don’t want to accept it but sooner or later they will. They always come back because they now your a real one, and I’m not giving up my integrity for a cheater. That’s why all these cheaters run loose.

[@marlonennis4786]

This a touchy situation because the messenger no matter what on either end always get the blame instead of the ppl involved. I try to mind my business as much as possible. Most times ppl know they're getting cheated on and don't want to accept it , so I just mind the business that pays me.

[@bestman7878]

Charlemagne talking like a real cheater

[@sidney1234usc]

This happened to me and when my best friend told me I appreciated it because I was able to break up with the girl and wash my hands of the situation.

[@kechellestarks3840]

If I was in this situation I would have to tell my friend what’s going on, I can’t sit and kick it with them and act like I don’t know anything, the friendship may or may not be over after that but I was honest with them now it’s their job to work with that information

[@user-jd4uz9gw3h]

Why my boy messing with my other boys wife thooo 😂😂😂 what happened to bro code

[@brimi3]

I found out my best friend was getting cheated on so I pretended that I had another friend in the situation. I asked my best friend what should I do and she told me not to say anything so I kept my mouth shut. Later on she found out on her own and ended up staying with him

[@troyc7726]

ive told 2 diff homies and one folded and went back and the other one got mad at me and my girl lol with that said id still tell my BF or Family.

[@ItzBroken1]

Lol charla wildin. I would for sure let my friend know it would be fake af otherwise and still just hang out with them while all this is happening in the back??

[@sakpase88]

I'm telling my dawg if I actually see something, what he do after that on him.

[@Philysupahgangstah]

If that's my wife imma say "tell me the business and I'll mind it."

[@kstyle0100]

The guy would have never found out his best friend was being cheated on had he not went through his wife’s phone. Once he found out as they say I am my brothers keeper. To me him telling his best friend would be the right thing to do because if it was happening to me I’d want to know. I would also talk to my wife to because what do people consider cheating these days. I understand what Charlemagne is saying but I believe the wife does know more but I also believe she doesn’t want to be the source of where he got the information from. Either because that would mess up her friendship with the wife. Because she trusted her enough to let her know she was cheating or whatever the case may be

[@goldnkhld]

If she’s willing to tell your friends Wife. She cheating on you too playa. RUN LOL

[@Chance8888]

He better tell his friend

[@WebHead18]

Just let him know. No good will come from hiding it because if it's true and it comes out you knew, that's a wrap for the friendship. You would show him where your loyalty is and he'll know it ain't with him.

[@yurielcundangan9090]

The fact that they were aRResting people running against them really shows you that revolting was justified

[@TYfariguy]

*WHAT IN THE NANCY AND JOHN REDCORN IS THIS!?!?!?!* 😂😂😂

[@sunnygibbs925]

Before I said anything, I’d ask them straight up, if they’d want to know about a hypothetical situation- & respect their answer either way. If they say yes, I’d say in a non-judgmental way & hope they work it out. I’d feel WAYYYY to guilty if my BEST FRIEND ended up with some disease because I was too chicken to speak up.

[@hamibstorm]

I'm telling man, I'm doing that shit for him not our friendship

[@heaterwright3383]

I am telling and if my best friend does not want to believe me then it's on them. At least I tell you the truth.

[@UnrulyRebel-hd2pl]

So wait his wife could protect her bestfriend by being silent and I can't protect my mans by telling him, it's the double standard for me, I'm whistling like a bird no way I'm leaving my mans out to dry like that this is my bestfriend, my brother y'all bugging 🤣

[@jroach3172]

CTG act like the wife couldn't just be protecting her friend. 🤣

[@wealthnow6053]

I would tell the bro. If I treat you like family. With that being said I got brothers, I don't have a best friend.

[@UncleBoogieTX]

Man I thought I was the only one who does the, “Daddy how I look” 😅 I do that to all my friends in law enforcement who post selfies in uniform lol

[@SEA-dx1sv]

I'm telling immediately. It's bull to sit back knowing this about a friend.

[@linbee9461]

I once spent the night at a friends house and woke up her man caressing my thigh. I panicked and was like what you doing? he gave me a bullshit excuse. I remember not sleeping the rest of the night and was super scared. Years later I told her and she didn’t believe me. So I think it’s best to leave people alone because the cheater is gonna lie and the spouse is always in denial.

[@trinathompson3816]

My friends husband was literally out at Friday’s with another woman. All out in the open on a Friday night. I struggled with telling her but decided to. There’s too many diseases going around. She didn’t believe me and I then told her a mutual friend of ours was with me. Go ask her. My friend didn’t ask her but she stopped speaking to me which I was ok with. We were never close. The thing is even though it would hurt I would want to know. Plus he’s being blatant. The Friday’s was right across the street from a from our local mall. He just didn’t care. Years later she told me she found out I was telling the truth. He was in fact cheating on her. They ended up getting a divorce because apparently there were multiple women he was messing with 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@producerx1015]

She was embarrassed that you saw. She knew already

[@Az10813]

Yooo WAX! if you getting cheated on just know no one telling you smfh. Ain't no loyalty out here

[@Rashaadthegr8]

Air drop that evidence. lol.

[@shokurt1]

I saw my coworkers wives/girlfriends on tinder & pof. All I did just show them the apps & have them adjust the filters.

[@gamebros.5035]

The wife is outta pocket...she lowkey prolly cheating too and don't want u to dig deep

[@chila6920]

Char you usually make sense but not this time. As a matter of principle you can't go around your best friend everyday smiling in his face knowing something everyone else knows but him. Now you are part of the conspiracy.

[@pboyiyinbor6957]

I will mind my business because he just had a stroke. I will speak with the guy she's cheating with to cut it out.

[@deeforthree]

how many times charla gonna say the same thing over and over? good lord lol