FIGHTING WITH YOUR FRIENDS? DO THIS TO MAKE IT BETTER (how to recover from a fight with your friend)

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Abbi Winslow

Abbi Winslow

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@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 3 жыл бұрын
QUESTIONS ABOUT YOUR FRIEND SITUATION? Leave a comment below!
@evazoulghina1557
@evazoulghina1557 2 жыл бұрын
What should you do if your friend is 10 years old but acts like a 7 year old and shes super annoying because we had a fight and she is stubborn. She is so rude, and she tries to steal your friends. Pls, do something close to this. Cause I am having a problem.
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
@@evazoulghina1557 it sounds like this person isn’t a great friend and I would suggest only putting your energy and focus into friends that want to be a good friend to you 💕
@yashsvisharma2555
@yashsvisharma2555 2 жыл бұрын
I am just so afraid to lose my bestie.. But I really dont know if she wants to keep the friendship or not ,, also we havent talked for few days , what should i do
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
@@yashsvisharma2555 watch my video on what to do when you fight with your BFF and then do your part to Make it right but after that you have to give them the chance to show you they want to keep the friendship alive. And if they don’t then you know they aren’t the BFF you are after
@evazoulghina1557
@evazoulghina1557 2 жыл бұрын
@@AbbiWinslow Ya, true. But it is a little better now I guess. Also Thank you so much for answering my question, I will subscribe because of this.
@mominaimtiaz8811
@mominaimtiaz8811 2 жыл бұрын
I literally tore my friends heart to pieces without even realising it and what's worse is that instead of going to her and making up for it, I just created distance between us in an attempt to give her space and now it's been such a long time and she has forgiven me but can't love me the same anymore, and I understand that and respect that but at the same time I want to try atleast to rebuild what I've lost and I'm at such a loss, any tips?
@LauraAmanda8888
@LauraAmanda8888 2 жыл бұрын
Talk to them in person. Talk from your heart. Be honest. How would you like to be treated?
@ReverseEdits8
@ReverseEdits8 Жыл бұрын
Dang that’s hard. Just go with it natural. Talk to her in person again and apologize.
@35vshayy
@35vshayy Жыл бұрын
That's what happened to me a day ago
@Simply_Duo
@Simply_Duo Жыл бұрын
This is literally the same thing happened to me on HALOWEEN and I still don't know how to make it right but ik trying..
@louieskidz
@louieskidz Жыл бұрын
She’s mad at me for no reason because I didn’t do anything in my name is Zoie
@Robin-oc3sr
@Robin-oc3sr 2 жыл бұрын
Me and a person who I used call best friend had a little fight in DMs and she actually started I just didn’t want to continue the fight so I ended it by the we we had much larger fights and that one was just a little and I was never wrong like she started it and offended me so I said in my heart I will forgive her if she apologized so my birthday was next week and I thought she would definitely send me a happy birthday message but she didn’t so I send to her I’m mad at you how you didn’t send me a happy birthday *for me that was a big deal* and she never answered, stopped seeing my stories and eventually unfollowed me. she’s like suddenly cut me off of her life with no reason I still don’t know the reason why she did this like before that I thought we’re definitely bestfriends and we known each other for some long time and even couldn’t think of anything bad I did to her so she does this to me it’s like she’s another person why would she do this I still don’t know I am so mad at her behavior ao I’m trying to let go of her in my mind but sometimes this makes me anxious and trying to deal with it in my own I remember how we used to be and what she did to me is such a horrible thing at least you can break up with me by saying you did this or whatever reason but to stop talking to me and ignoring me for no reason I’m speechless.
@santhoshdayanandan5372
@santhoshdayanandan5372 2 жыл бұрын
As bad as my life is
@Robin-oc3sr
@Robin-oc3sr 2 жыл бұрын
After exactly 3 months suddenly at midnight she send me an apology letter..so the moral here is to be patient and focus on yourself
@ameerah5741
@ameerah5741 Жыл бұрын
are u guys goodnow?
@Noturtype872
@Noturtype872 Жыл бұрын
I am 10 years old I have a very big fight that I told the teacher that my BFF is talking rudely so the fight starts it was from December to March at the last day of my school i make up her
@ameerah5741
@ameerah5741 Жыл бұрын
@@Noturtype872 the drama 🍵
@jjismybxo6090
@jjismybxo6090 3 жыл бұрын
What if they block you and the only time you see them is at school but they just don’t want to speak to you
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 3 жыл бұрын
Then give them space and be kind but super distant.
@chloekirk5688
@chloekirk5688 2 жыл бұрын
Ive tried to apologise to them it was an argument between me and my 2 best friends I apologise to one and tried apologising to the other person but they said I don't want your fake apology. This is probably the biggest argument we've ever had and I wish I could take it all back 😕
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
Hang in there Chloe! If you were sincere in your apology then it's there problem that this point.
@the_realit_izzy2549
@the_realit_izzy2549 2 жыл бұрын
I been there
@cupuur
@cupuur 2 жыл бұрын
having it rn
@ultraviolxce
@ultraviolxce 2 жыл бұрын
Been there🥲
@kyansavan8960
@kyansavan8960 2 жыл бұрын
I love my bestfriend but sometimes she can be to much. She becomes distant. Then I’ll always have to be the one to apologise when I don’t even start the argument. I left everybody for her because if I hang out with somebody else she’d argue with me non stop. Which is unfair because I don’t even care abt her friends and she gets to talk to somebody when she becomes distant
@stephaniewinfrey8731
@stephaniewinfrey8731 Жыл бұрын
She might like you
@pepper6036
@pepper6036 3 жыл бұрын
Omg hopefully this helps! My bestie is super mad at me.
@Kookiesbananamilk67
@Kookiesbananamilk67 2 жыл бұрын
same
@fornarnia7569
@fornarnia7569 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@imjinakk
@imjinakk 2 жыл бұрын
Same I love my bestie she is a rlly important person
@amina00001
@amina00001 2 жыл бұрын
Mine too
@sushiladalmiya866
@sushiladalmiya866 2 жыл бұрын
Did it help?
@scarlettshaw3040
@scarlettshaw3040 3 жыл бұрын
My friend started an argument because I said I bit my nail too far and she keeps ignoring me and I keep apologising even though it wasn't my fault. Any tips to get them to respond?
@iballsolo
@iballsolo 3 жыл бұрын
did she forgive u ? what happened?
@yeetfeet1878
@yeetfeet1878 2 жыл бұрын
Literally In the same scenario
@xlucynotplayingx9122
@xlucynotplayingx9122 2 жыл бұрын
What do I do when two of my friends are angry with each other? How do I get them together again 😔
@watdoicallthis2767
@watdoicallthis2767 Жыл бұрын
I just fought one of me best friends and i feel like a dick.
@malilrh5836
@malilrh5836 2 жыл бұрын
What do I do if my best friend keeps on talking about the past where I bullied her? I highly regret all that and I have apologized so many times all ready. .
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
Ask her to stop and move on from it together. Talking about it kindly, but directly should help!
@corrupt_insomniac
@corrupt_insomniac 2 жыл бұрын
It depends on how you bullied her or more specifically what you did. You could have emotionally scared her in a way that is not easy to recover from. I disagree with the idea of “tell her to move on” because if what you did was really bad then trying to force growth into a person who’s traumatized will only create further resentment. I suggest go out of your way to do things for her that show how much you’ve changed and the type of friend you’re willing to be for her. Along with letting time heal her. The key to healing trauma like bullying is time. So you need to be patient and focus on improving yourself that way you’ll never be that person ever again.
@chxrrykat
@chxrrykat Жыл бұрын
my friend and i keeps arguing about small things. were getting distant each day and i keep crying. thank you for this video.
@yodoleloo6258
@yodoleloo6258 2 жыл бұрын
When they said they don’t care if it’s a misunderstanding and won’t forgive you because it really hurt them..then say they’ll talk to you after 2 weeks..but don’t get mad at other people in your friend group who did exactly the same thing
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like they aren’t real friends 😖
@junior5100
@junior5100 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@notactive0000
@notactive0000 2 жыл бұрын
Yea.
@littletofu677
@littletofu677 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much for this! I had a big fight with my bff and I thought I would never bring myself to face her again. This really restored my faith in saving my friendship. QwQ 👍
@NDGumballOc
@NDGumballOc 2 жыл бұрын
My friend doesn’t want to accept my apologies (I said sorry by text) , she wants to be distant and have some space for a while….I hate myself…I loved her too much…I feel so bad….maybe I was toxic for her…I want to talk to her in person but now she is too mad…she even changed seat…. How many time I need to wait? I heard few months or weeks….I feel so bad
@ToniInSussex
@ToniInSussex Жыл бұрын
I'm 62 years old. My friend and I are not in a fight, but she seems to be ghosting me a little. This video totally answered how to handle this sitch. 👏🏼
@nashty5435
@nashty5435 3 ай бұрын
DAMN AUNT
@multiple_adventures.
@multiple_adventures. Жыл бұрын
I really love my best friend but all she wanna talk about is her crush and that just mad me mad and now she's mad at me😭😢
@gwensmith318
@gwensmith318 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Abbi, I went to a Social event yesterday to meet up with my best friend. My friend’s mom asked her not to hang out with her Ex-Boyfriend. I Try followed her mom directions. But she does not want to follow her mom's directions. That's how we were fighting. I am her Best Friend I know what is right for her. Is there any way I can make it up? What should I do? Please help me.
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
Always do what you feel is right and let your standards be known. But you also have to know your BFF is going to do what she wants to do. So just have a calm conversation about it and clearly state your boundaries then let her act for herself. That might look like this “hey BFF I love you and I want to also respect what your mom asked so when you are with me we can’t hangout with your ex boyfriend.”
@gwensmith318
@gwensmith318 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Abbi, Thank you so much for your help.
@Alien_From_Another_Universe
@Alien_From_Another_Universe 2 жыл бұрын
I have a different situation everytime I introduce 2 friends they always find a way to fight. And no I'm not talking about the same people I'm talking about different people in different periods of time. It's almost as if history is repeating itself. Im always forced to pick sides which is getting frustrating I just wanna hang but instead get caught in these drama I want all of my friends to get along.
@cocoacat.pngggg
@cocoacat.pngggg 2 жыл бұрын
im the opposite. im really jealous of a girl in my friend group and my other friend said she didn’t appreciate my jealousy towards her. i think shes mad at me
@lealovesari8528
@lealovesari8528 2 жыл бұрын
the problem is I have a friend who’s like really amazing but she heard that I had a crush on her,wich isn’t true.so we started ignoring each other but I miss her and idk how to show her I care without her thinking I have a huge crush on her
@dori_urmommmmm1092
@dori_urmommmmm1092 Жыл бұрын
I Apologized to them, and they evilly smirked at me and now I'm worried it's going to leave a mark mentally can you please give me advice! ToT
@joshuajasson4155
@joshuajasson4155 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the good advice it made. Me feel a little better...cos I did a prank on my friend and it went wrong an now he doesn't want to talk to me anymore i tried everything already but now I'm just gonna give him some space
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it could help! Something similar happened to my sister with pranks
@Bigglezzz
@Bigglezzz 5 ай бұрын
I had a massive argument with my whole friend group of 5 they all turned against me and one of them started ignoring me for no reason so I asked why and she just bluntly said “coz I don’t want to be friends with you” that shattered my heart, all the others are just mad at me I have two other friends but they are in different friend groups which are so different to me and none of them are in my class, so idk what to do rn, I want to talk to them again but I don’t feel like I can I rlly don’t like them anymore but we had such good times together and I don’t wanna be lonely- my final exams are coming up in 4 weeks so I’m just waiting until they finish and I can just drop them but I need someone rn😫
@_Shinobu_kocho976
@_Shinobu_kocho976 Жыл бұрын
It was already too late she blocked me😭
@maddie_snc
@maddie_snc 2 жыл бұрын
My friends won't stop I hope this works
@galaxy.1447
@galaxy.1447 3 жыл бұрын
Uh yes I recently got a fight with my bsf, uh and I searched this.
@donnamay3864
@donnamay3864 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your video. I am a woman in my 50s I just came across it on KZbin and I’m having a rough time with my friend who is in her early 60s. I think she’s having a life style change. We had a couple of falling out, and I followed your advice and it worked. Thank you so much I know this is meant towards younger people, but at any age we could get advice-to repair friendships thank you so much it helped us❤ We have almost a 30 year friendship and I plan to move to another state to be with my sister and her family. I don’t want lose her friendship before I consider the move. Thank you for your help and your life coaching. It saved our friendship.
@C0pe-vr.
@C0pe-vr. Жыл бұрын
When i was 9 I learned what you fighting with your friends actually was, me and them also used to get into small fights, but this one was more than small. We all have been friends for 2years when I was 9, when this fight happened we needed big breaks, but my friend lost her controller so she couldn’t play with us so she stopped calling for a bit then my other friend left cause she also needed a break so I was sooo mixed up with my emotions I just screamed in all caps “ IM DONE “ and I left all of our groups for a week, they added me a week later and we were still mad but we were cooling down. but we still didn’t fully apologize so my other friend left and then I was just stressed I got huge anxiety and I was pretty anxious so I just ghosted them for a month which was a horrible idea, so they were mad at me so I was sad so I made the most important call with my friends in my life. We were there on that call for 5 hours explaining and breaking down this fight. Even after the call, I was still a little bit mad so I left for a day and then I apologized and explained that I was still so mixed up, they forgave me, and we moved on. And I am still a bit salty till this day. Lol😊
@Ectoniz
@Ectoniz 2 жыл бұрын
What if I already apologized in text and now what do I do should I still apologize in person when I see her? I feel if I give you the full detail in dms u could help better I am a teen
@ren-sama4203
@ren-sama4203 2 жыл бұрын
I had a fight with a friend and it major my bc she had sole personal issues and I thought I can help by telling someone and they ended up being pissed at me. We’re roaming much lately and I feel like our friendship is at a stand still. How long should I give them space? I know if I try to ask them to talk in person, they would definitely avoid that bc I betrayed their trust bc they never told ANYONE about their problems. I really feel bad
@timoneflannagan6316
@timoneflannagan6316 2 жыл бұрын
I hope this works ,,, my closest friend is just ignoring me and I have no idea what I did
@rickmostacero8204
@rickmostacero8204 7 ай бұрын
Rough draft: Dear --- you’ve been in your emotions for awhile I’m here for you and I’m sorry for not giving you your space and respect your privacy but Ty for trusting me and I’ll be here whenever you need me ❤
@vaibhav3317
@vaibhav3317 2 жыл бұрын
We haven't talked in like a week... This was probably the biggest fight we've had so far.... Just how much time would it take to get things back to normal?
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
Depends on so many factors but mostly your friends personality. Let them be the one to give you the signs things are good and that might take a while
@th3yyluvmee
@th3yyluvmee Жыл бұрын
This is so helpful, my best friend created a group chat with her other friends and they ended up in a fight ❤ thanks so much!!
@p.3467
@p.3467 2 жыл бұрын
I really don’t know what to do.. my best friend and I had a huge fight.. she borrowed my car and was going to bring it back to me. She said she was on her way, so I calculated it would take 20 min. After 15 min I asked her how far she was.. she didn’t repond so I FaceTimed her 2 times, but she didn’t answer. After another 10 min I haven’t heard from he, I asked her at what time she would be at my place, so I would be ready and dressed.. she didn’t answer, and I FaceTimed another time, but no response. After 15 min, I called her and she picked up and only said 5 min. When she came we got into a huge fight. I saw that the seat was placed weird, so I asked who sat there, and she answered. Then I said oh that is why you were late, and weren’t picking up. And then she started screaming that she doesn’t need to be accountability. And then I started screaming that she could communicate with me. And she got out the car, she called someone else to pick her up. It was so heavy. The next day I apologized, but she says whatever, leave me alone. And then I apologized for yelling at her and she says she doesn’t need to be accountable to me and that she is not a child and I went to far and I need to leave her alone. Idk what to do, I miss her.. I don’t understand why she is so mad at me.. I really don’t know what to do..
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
With a fight like that I’d just give it some time to boil over and then move on with your friendship. Time heals everything!
@stellamilberg3272
@stellamilberg3272 2 жыл бұрын
so me and my friend called and had a lot of fun 2 days ago but yesterday I texted her hello asking if she could call and she saw my message and ignored it and today I called her up she declined the call and said she was busy in a very dry way. now im worried she's mad at me and I don't have the braveness to ask her if she is. she is one of my best friends and we've been friends for years.
@Astrrosmiii
@Astrrosmiii Жыл бұрын
She made me cry in class:(
@bby3gal108
@bby3gal108 2 ай бұрын
Me too
@roselynballesteros3623
@roselynballesteros3623 23 күн бұрын
Today in 2024 we just fight and I feel like they're not my best friends anymore because they're always calling me jealous and when I said OK then I'm a jealous even I am not. They said it is true. You're jealous every time we fight they sell that, that makes me uncomfortable by whole something can work out and I hope they stop saying jealous to me😔
@sajinkyagupta7
@sajinkyagupta7 2 жыл бұрын
thanks, I made everything nice with my very close friend :)
@chekleung1326
@chekleung1326 2 жыл бұрын
My friend has ignore me after a fight…
@nicgaillot616
@nicgaillot616 17 күн бұрын
I got into a fight with my friend we were at school and he said he was gonna kill my home crabs, and then I hit him and then my other friend pushed me and all my crabs fell out of the cage
@joshdidea3823
@joshdidea3823 2 ай бұрын
Wait, Is the double invite considered bugging them and they’ll think you’re chasing them?
@HsuRongXiChijktps
@HsuRongXiChijktps Ай бұрын
So my bff an I just had a big fight and we ended up crying because I had a sprained ankle and one day she kept making funny faces which wasn’t funny but disturbing so I told her to stop but she didn’t so out of frustration I threw her capybara and she was sitting right beside me when I threw it but when I threw it she went to take it and ran towards me to attack me and she jumped on me and kicked my ankle even though she knew I had a sprained ankle and when my other friend told the teacher and then she said she tried to stop me but she was sitting right beside me so if she wanted to stop me then she would have held my rest and she cried cause she said she wa stressed. she but did it anyways and it has been three days and she’s still mad at me and I tried it but she wouldn’t even look a me so for me it didn’t work😢
@CodyHerman.dayandnight
@CodyHerman.dayandnight 26 күн бұрын
Yesterday I had a fight with my friend luk e how do I make up with my friend theme P
@Asha_TheWolf0506
@Asha_TheWolf0506 10 күн бұрын
My two bffs are pissed at each other! This helps alot
@benjibillzz
@benjibillzz 2 жыл бұрын
i got into a fight with my friend a couple months ago and im scared to just randomly message him should i tell him im sorry?
@ros3lllaa
@ros3lllaa 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe say like Hey? I know it's been a while since the last time we talked but I just came on here to message you to apologise, I'm really sorry I want to fix our friendship, I really miss you and the memories we created that I really treasured, you're one of the most important people in my life I hope we could still be friends
@ivythedazzlinggirl2289
@ivythedazzlinggirl2289 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, please do.
@benjibillzz
@benjibillzz 2 жыл бұрын
@@ros3lllaa tysm i messaged him a really long time ago he said that he misses me and now we’re friends again
@kriketprayme
@kriketprayme Жыл бұрын
@@benjibillzz wow, happy ending! So happy for you. I wish the same would happen with me :(
@ivannie2139
@ivannie2139 2 жыл бұрын
What do I do if my.. well.. old friend now- is struggling with family problems which has a huge impact on his mental health and keeps being mean. I tried to support him but we've argued so much for his nonsensical tantrums that I decided to stop this right here. But it didnt mean that he was was bad 24/7. We actually had a lot of fun since 2018 and to know that we'll probably never bound again scares me so much. For 12 whole months i ignored this feeling. Until it resurfaced and hit me in the face. I miss him so much.
@35vshayy
@35vshayy Жыл бұрын
What you should do give space say sorry for what you did do don't over do it do once or twice but different peoriods of time this is what happened to me ask for forgiveness but let space its gonna be fine just give time and invite them to somewhere to hangout and talk about it
@joshdidea3823
@joshdidea3823 2 ай бұрын
I want to reconcile with a friend I haven’t talked to for almost a year and a half. We made mistakes without realizing it and I have a difficult time getting a hold of him. I think he changed his number and logged out of his social media accounts. I really want to make things right with him. We were so close. Female drama got in our way. I been fearing he’s gonna say no. He tried texting me last year asking to he friends again. But he unsent the message. I don’t know if that’s a sign he changed his mind or he was scared I was gonna reject it. This hurts
@Mother_is_Mothering306
@Mother_is_Mothering306 Ай бұрын
I hate having the guilty feeling of even though it seems like you’ve resolved it in your heart you still feel guilty of fighting with each other and it always just feels so awful and it always creeps into your mind more and more and then you just don’t know what to say to them
@nadakhan3929
@nadakhan3929 2 жыл бұрын
I had a fight with my bestie...actually i was the one who started it saying that 'Iam not good enough for u...u deserve someone better'But now i regret it...id want to lose her...and also i don't know how to make it up to her rn....Do U have any advice??
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
First, stop putting yourself down. That doesn’t help a friendship because it makes the other person feel like they have to carry you. Clean up your convo, be a good friend and show up happy and positive
@rmaclee7066
@rmaclee7066 8 ай бұрын
I have a best friend on Xbox. It is a girl I've been depressed around her lately. Because I lost my cousin from committing suicide My best friend told me. That our friendship is changing. She is not that happy to hang around me. I've told her I wanna take a break. She told me no How can I fix my friendship and have my best friend consider me a best friend again and wanna hang out with me a lot more and be happy
@kawaiicat8011
@kawaiicat8011 3 ай бұрын
it was actually not my fault but my friend knew that it was his fault and i didnt forgive him but i was planning to forgive him the next day but the next day he treat me like rubbish
@fabulous1710
@fabulous1710 Жыл бұрын
I didn't show up to my best friend's show. We had this massive fight and I felt really guilty about it. I couldn't figure out why I didn't go though, which made no sense.
@AimCell-wd8jw
@AimCell-wd8jw Жыл бұрын
Uhm Im not a friendly person in school but There was a good person who became my one and only friend at school. One day i Broke her trust to me. AND THERE WAS A CIRCLE OF FRIENDS that is closing my BESTFRIEND. Now she's already influenced by tat circle of friends. NOW Im alone and Have no friends at school again. It always makes me sad when I remember our old memories and I cannot move one😢 I always Cry everytime I see my bestfriend in our classroom. I wanted to move on because In always concerned to her but she already forget about me because I broke her trust and she already have a lot of new FRIENDS😅😭 How to move on?
@bisanmohammad6625
@bisanmohammad6625 4 ай бұрын
My 2 best friends are not talking thy just found them selves like this and now I'm just in the middle of this trying to fix this what should I do
@rmaclee7066
@rmaclee7066 8 ай бұрын
It's hard for me because whenever I invite her to a party. And I invite my other two friends. She talks to them way more than me. I AM 23 years old and she is 29 years old. I like her. I don't like how being treated. How can I fix this to get her to talk to me more And have her be more happy to hang around with me more
@Cuhbate
@Cuhbate 5 ай бұрын
my friend hates me i said can you pls stop but she walked away it was gym she was fighiting me and her other friend she nevered said sorry i said sorry i said i love our friendship but i wont to talk to her my self but my other friend alway come with us when i was talking she walk away she did not wont to be my friend i gave her space she still wont to fight i said i am very sorry she was very mad
@meritmarinarainfo7338
@meritmarinarainfo7338 6 ай бұрын
I feel like I’m overly negative about everything and it leads me to criticize the people around me. It makes me a shitty friend a lot of the time bc I just pick on people for every little thing I see wrong. I need to be better for the people I love.
@rejishabu1568
@rejishabu1568 10 ай бұрын
I had fight with my close friend at office hes been a friend for more than 10 years on a mocking regards my dressing he joked in front of his friend who are common though but i somehow vote provoked and messaged him in anger through my office chat...but the problem is now .. Hes mad at me sinnce if in case the chat mesaages are pulled up they can act against his conduct and call up meetings with line magaers which is qyite diaturbing
@insaneus4774
@insaneus4774 Жыл бұрын
I don't know what to do... This is the third time we happened to fight and I said sorry last time coz knew it was my mistake last time .... But now it really hurts my pride to say sorry ... I think it wasn't my mistake.... She just stopped talking to me over this thing.... I just don't want to lose her ... Or maybe ruin my last year of high school over this small thing... I don't know how to start the convo ... Actually we are group of three friends but this girl is literally not doing anything to solve this instead.... she is just okay about it i mean what is she thinking 🧐 ...
@katherinesheddy4774
@katherinesheddy4774 2 жыл бұрын
What should I do if they ignore me
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
Believe their actions and find friends that deserve you 💕
@Siti_Raduan2021
@Siti_Raduan2021 Жыл бұрын
Ugh not the video im looking for... I was looking for 'how to deal with my friend who's making me angry' 🙄
@Monkeylover-es1yp
@Monkeylover-es1yp 9 ай бұрын
Thanks but i want to apologise to my friend but i have a gut feeling she is fake but we had a really big fight and she took screenshots and everything, i feel like i should maybe apologise but i already feel like i said the wrong thing and it was texting i am really upset
@Unknown-ki8lq
@Unknown-ki8lq Жыл бұрын
My best friend had a crush on me and I rejected her without knowing and I *ucked up badly
@GokuPlayss
@GokuPlayss 2 жыл бұрын
Me and my friend had a pretty short fight but we did say some hard words! I started it and i know that it was a mistake i misunderstood something and we fought because of that IT WAS my fault, but then he said some pretty harsh words and broke my heart.. I cried the whole day and just thought how can i say sorry how can i say sorry..
@TheNyakaat
@TheNyakaat Жыл бұрын
It’s a bit confusing to me when it’s said folks should only apologise for things that are their fault. What if a friend is hurt because they misread my words or actions? Should I not apologise for how my words/actions might have come across?
@imbotlol8411
@imbotlol8411 11 ай бұрын
No you shouldn't apolgize all you have to do is explain yourself
@lehlacheyenne1480
@lehlacheyenne1480 8 ай бұрын
This same thing happened to me, but I took responsibility for how it may have affected her to be the bigger person. It didn’t work unfortunately, she distanced herself, but at least I left it off accepting my part in the conflict
@fridamujadzickleissundstrm4502
@fridamujadzickleissundstrm4502 8 ай бұрын
Hej i realy understand you but i am in a total crises my fried is jeleus kus I have a new really good friend that is so sweet and like me but she won’t let me play with her and today she said thanks just randomly and she said it in a rude way and was just so mean and I don’t want to be friends with her but she coms in my tiny Tyne school so wen my other friends doesn’t come I am fourst to be with her! uuug she is so annoying and I don’t know wat to do😩
@Noxvoulpus
@Noxvoulpus Жыл бұрын
Well I would like to resolve my fight with my friend But hes getting voilent I don't think fighting will lead to anywhere but he got voilent and yeah idk what do I do to stop this fight and I really dont think saying anything to him will help cuz hes not listening and is getting voilent
@catherinetellefsen-fraei2708
@catherinetellefsen-fraei2708 2 жыл бұрын
How do you make it right when your two best frends are fighting badly like one frend does not like that second frend and you wont to be frends with both frends And i asow wach your videos and they are cool and i love you videos love you 😘😍🙄😏😄😊🤗
@R4inb0WGUTZ_d0tz1p
@R4inb0WGUTZ_d0tz1p 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, my 2 best friends and me keep fighting for no reason at all, and one of them always keeps the fight going on. We know the problem, but we dont know how to fix it, and we are trying by only 2 people can voice chat at once, but its not working out well, I have nothing to do, my computers broken, and when I join vc just to talk, they say “leave” or, “hey (insert other friends name) join (server that only they are on)”.
@Emily_pro645
@Emily_pro645 8 ай бұрын
Me and my friend had a fight and now we don’t talk I hope this works idk what to do and idk what to say >;
@cqral4229
@cqral4229 Жыл бұрын
I have done it wrong and I don’t know how to redo it but now with me mistakes that I want to say sorry for, but I can’t it’s too late
@GTH811
@GTH811 Жыл бұрын
this probably wont work because hes always heartless after targuments
@elinahalilovic4305
@elinahalilovic4305 22 күн бұрын
Yea me too but she did Ttalk to me
@ajs52122
@ajs52122 2 жыл бұрын
I had lost my frnd 6 months ago and we were always angry at each other...does this really help?
@KatieHopcraft
@KatieHopcraft Жыл бұрын
I had a fight with my friend over a post I said on Facebook and she’s angry with me
@NoorHussain-lb4rq
@NoorHussain-lb4rq Жыл бұрын
my friend just keeps leaving me on read what should i do.
@the_realit_izzy2549
@the_realit_izzy2549 2 жыл бұрын
My 3 amazing friends I want them back so bad
@kokichisimp9660
@kokichisimp9660 Жыл бұрын
My friends are fighting i like to think were a anime trio im the girl and well the two boys i know there good friends for each other so i want to help
@reyaamrawat
@reyaamrawat Жыл бұрын
Who else came here before watching the video to see if this works.. 🤣🤣
@cherry_pink11
@cherry_pink11 Жыл бұрын
uhm so my friend got in a fight with my online friend and i dont know what to do cause they were very good friends
@haru_valley
@haru_valley Жыл бұрын
Talk to them in person: Their online friend it’s bit hard-
@Septonicz
@Septonicz 6 ай бұрын
but what if they say "Dont call ne and dont text me"?
@Naveen-od3el
@Naveen-od3el Жыл бұрын
Should i share this video with the person i fought with
@jillheartsu82
@jillheartsu82 Жыл бұрын
Can anyone give me any advice on two of my Friends arguing and one is mad at me and idk why
@nevaehsheppard32
@nevaehsheppard32 Жыл бұрын
I made a vid and said your dogs are mine now be I was just kidding and she hates me now
@cocoacat.pngggg
@cocoacat.pngggg 2 жыл бұрын
this helps! my friend said she doesn’t appreciate that im jealous towards a girl and im kinda mad because i dont think she understands me
@crystalwagner2958
@crystalwagner2958 5 ай бұрын
What happen if you are afraid what they going to say?
@Yourfavgirl2267
@Yourfavgirl2267 4 ай бұрын
My friend is calling me miserable
@Daniela_kuz
@Daniela_kuz 3 жыл бұрын
We little figth bec, of the ship on the squid game , he said hes not on the mood to talk :( am sad...........
@tanviparmar9994
@tanviparmar9994 3 жыл бұрын
Hey!! I really loved ur video!!.....I need one advice from u!!.....I really put so much efforts or I can say I was the only one who has put effort but she is saying that she needs some 3-4 month time!!....And it genuinely feels like I am the only one who cares and who values our friendship!!....Like it makes me feel like I m the only one who needs her!!.....she doesn't need me ??.....Or I don't know if I am overthinking about this but I don't know what to do!!!
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 3 жыл бұрын
Hello! Relationships can only grow when both people are contributing and if she really does want space and you feel they don’t care as much, I’d focus on creating new friendships with other people. Be kind but distant, and work on finding friends that love and value you and want this friendship as much as you do
@tanviparmar9994
@tanviparmar9994 3 жыл бұрын
@@AbbiWinslow thank u so much for guiding me🤗
@kunwarbaath4887
@kunwarbaath4887 Жыл бұрын
I had a fight with my girl best friend and am feeling so restless afterwards…I can say the fault was mine as I reacted in an absurd way in the heat of moment. I did realise immediately and even apologised, but by that time she started to speak and mentioned some instances where she got hurt because of me and I was completely clueless. I really hope she understands what I want for her and I don’t wanna lose her. She is the best person I could ever have and I would do anything to save our friendship.
@torresthemonster
@torresthemonster Жыл бұрын
Can you give us a update?
@foodianzgaming3631
@foodianzgaming3631 Жыл бұрын
Yesterday my best friend texted me we’re done and I’m so sad rn
@khaleeqmustafa4001
@khaleeqmustafa4001 2 жыл бұрын
Please make a clear numberwise list of all the Ifs and the possible responses for your viewers...Thank you.
@torresthemonster
@torresthemonster Жыл бұрын
Can I give gifts after I had a fight with her?
@kriketprayme
@kriketprayme Жыл бұрын
It's so much worse when you had a fight over a phone call/text and they live far away, so you can't meet them so easily. And they just block you everywhere and don't wanna talk to you. 😭 What should I do any advice?
@trnavskatreska7491
@trnavskatreska7491 Жыл бұрын
thats happened to me when i was around 13 and she blocked me everywhere, i had to forcibly move on even tho i knew her for 2 years because there was no way to contact her, she even got me banned on a server on a game we used to play together. After about 6 months she unblocked me on messenger and contacted me on her own saying shes sorry and that we should start over. I dont really remember why we fought and it happened 3 years ago. We had a fight yesterday and shes not talking to me again and said she needs like a week but im scared that she wont talk to me longer. What im saying is that it needs time and try to forget about it because crying the whole week wont get anywhere and when you move on and they text you after fer months you wont be so emotional and probably annoy them even more
@ppixel5395
@ppixel5395 2 жыл бұрын
So at school I was just chilling on my phone but he started spamming me for a prank. At the second break I went to WhatsApp and I couldn’t get in, cause I didn’t have storage. For the joke I gave him the fault but he took this serious and now he is mad at me. When me and my other friends make jokes he always takes it serious and gets mad, but when he makes a joke we don’t get mad. Got any tips
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
Talk about it, and either choose to be friends or start making new friends!
@familiababytoys5195
@familiababytoys5195 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t even know what to do I’ve never got in a fight with her and I really don’t want to lose her but I really messed up
@AbbiWinslow
@AbbiWinslow 2 жыл бұрын
Checkout my video on when you fight with your BFF because those tips will help too!
@familiababytoys5195
@familiababytoys5195 2 жыл бұрын
@@AbbiWinslow thank you I will
@idk-tf2hf
@idk-tf2hf 2 жыл бұрын
How can i apologize when I lied to them and I tried to say sorry but my friend is mad and her other friend is mad at me because he had a gf and I told his gf something about my friend but not rude but no my whole class is talking about it and I don't want to go to school 😭
@yagirlskyunmotivatedroadto1834
@yagirlskyunmotivatedroadto1834 2 жыл бұрын
aw omg im really sorry. maybe tell ur friends that you are so so so sorry and that you'll never do it again. IT depends on what u said to his gf. Maybe tell that friend of urs your so so so sorry and that you will never ever do it again. I understands this hurts you, so I hope that I can make it up to you. If you need some time, feel free to have it. I would love to make it up to you. Can we restart this? If they don't accept ur apology, then there's a problem. For now, just maybe try to make it up to them. I am also in a similar situation, except the class doesn't know about it. I'm really sorry about the situation ur in. Maybe talk about it to a family member. I promise, things will really get better!
@raulalemanmb
@raulalemanmb 2 ай бұрын
Wish I had a friend. I only know people but I dont have anyone I can call and count on them and tell them my secrets or share memories. 😢 i do things alone, luckily I have two dogs 😊
@simoalhawari4435
@simoalhawari4435 Ай бұрын
it's normal to be alone don't be ashamed of it❤
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