Best Friends Paint Nude Portraits of Each Other | Cut

[@dashalyndiggs1107]

Bring Nikita back ASAP! He was so clear, honest, and genuine with both himself and Jesse. Also the painting was excellent and well thought out

[@Anonymous33326]

Yep

[@athorpe1937]

Agreed. So much insight.

[@datgaydangernoodle1315]

Agreed! Hes awesome

[@sarasirotic9115]

yes!!!!

[@kai-zp4dz]

Wait, Nikita as in Nikita Dragun??

[@lvmln7843]

I love the way Nikita speaks, he's so eloquent and his voice is so gentle, the questions he asks etc... he's like a philosopher!!!

[@carlontollette4832]

he has a name

[@lvmln7843]

@@carlontollette4832 you are absolutely right! :) i edited the comment

[@simplybored685]

That scared me I was still on the intro when reading this and my name is nikita

[@0Iive]

“My body is a finite box for an infinite mind” 😋

[@hukilausurfer]

For someone who I assume speaks English as a second language, he’s extremely well spoken and articulate

[@j3llyb33]

Aw man the way Nikita softly pushed his friend to speak out about their worries, insecurities, and past and rebutted it so softly was beautiful. He’s a great friend and such an aware individual. I would love to see him again in another video:’)

[@sousasoul4655]

The way he spoke made me think he would be a good therapist or mental health worker

[@christy1385]

Their?

[@usernameqxq8539]

@@christy1385 please don't start....😕

[@christy1385]

@@usernameqxq8539 their?

[@CarrotWithLegs]

@@christy1385 dawg💀

[@amandasnider2644]

I wonder if Nikita is a psychologist or works with kids? He's so genuinely curious about his friend, his thoughts, his feelings, his past and his dreams. Hes very comforting

[@ThatWeakBerserk]

I think that Nikita is simply a really emotional person, who loves to talk to people and listen to them. Just from the way he made that artpiece and the way he told us the story behind it, thats just artistic. Knowing hes from russia, i guess he grew up in a family where he was forced to be more a masculine man than he wanted or felt comfortable being. And so while growing up, he tried as much to let himself be who he is, and now hes a big guy who thinks about emotions and human nature pretty well and to my ear, he sounds like a philosopher.

[@San_Ari]

I only started watching the vid so im not sure yet, but Nikita reminds me of one russian youtuber (he goes by старый (old)) but I'm not sure if he is the guy

[@San_Ari]

Oh wait старый is Andrey and Nikita is Nikita But they really look alike lol (yt name is Старый в огне)

[@Fragrantbeard]

He is very intelligent. Even though this is super edited, you can tell how fast kindness rolls off his tongue. And curious is such a good word!

[@iamwhalien52]

Yes the way he asks questions seems like he works with kids or is a psychologist

[@baakojernigan7095]

Looking at them you wouldn't necessarily imagine the two being close friends but the way they are able to communicate with each other is so freakin beautiful and calming to watch

[@d1overthinker]

@GeekyQueen i mean they are looking at each other naked so

[@Jenniferspace]

I didn’t know men can do this😆

[@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319]

@GeekyQueen We straight man do not enjoy being the same room as another naked man

[@theecunty]

@@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319 you mean fragile masculinity?

[@vidal1885]

@@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319 in Japan it's common practice through shared bathhouses.

[@TheOnlyTaps]

Nikita speaks like a therapist. His tone and calmness has a soothing effect. Fun watch 👌🏿💯...like most comments noted, he'd be a fun addition to the recurring roster for the cut team.

[@itsmemari05]

Why is there no comments? Lol

[@violaterrz]

He's so wise, wish i had friends like him

[@ishmaelmiles2216]

Ndeip wangu haha

[@TheOnlyTaps]

@@ishmaelmiles2216 vakuru 👊🏿💯

[@TheOnlyTaps]

@@itsmemari05 nah didn't mean comments under this post 😂, obviously there'd be none,, meant a few of the other comments at the time I watched the video were all mentioning the idea that Nikita needs to become a regular on cut like some of the other people that basically have a permanent recurring role.

[@aimy.22]

Nikita is so calm and confident. Even his voice is so soothing. I want the world to view nudity with this calmness rather than as objectifying it or sexualizing it.

[@twitzmixx8374]

same thought, I had a different view of nudity because of Nikita

[@Blue_Stargazer]

One million percent! However this will never happen as we are sexual beings. The ability to be respectful of boundaries and be communicative would go a long way to making things so much better.

[@sequoiawillow2265]

Or laughing about it

[@tuilager8351]

on god oi everyone freaking is out about how everyone looks at them selfs and others.

[@careforapic3101]

The world doesn't work to please you and it's much smarter to keep nudity indoors. For a reason a Brain will tell you

[@kammy6340]

Jesse being so uncomfortable even though he's conventionally sexy just shows me that body dysmorphia is so extremely prevalent in the fitness community. No matter how good they look, they always will find flaws and be somewhat uncomfortable with their body. I see it all over the internet. I think we all really need to develop a better understanding of the body. This was a very good and eye opening video.

[@tommykaplan9118]

Or maybe he's introverted

[@Maxeeemay]

@@tommykaplan9118That’s not really what introverted means hehe, but yeah maybe he’s just self conscious or kind of shy. Especially being on camera.

[@VinnieMF]

Uncomfortable while naked around a naked friend on camera ≠ Body dysmorphia

[@shafixnote]

I have body dysmorphia but I keep ruining my body with drugs and unhealthy foods 🥰🥰🥰

[@mikewrack3]

these replies aint it… he talked openly about his body dysmorphia? you can be physically attractive to other people and still feel shit about yourself every now and again. without anything better to compare it to, so excuse the dark topic, but when you have an eating disorder (speaking from experience, before i get jabbed) you will never look at yourself and think you’re getting skinnier. you could reach your original “goal” and still look at yourself in the mirror going it needs to be more. the thing about body dysmorphia is that it doesn’t care about what you look like. all it cares about is bringing you down. everyone has bad days, good days, in between days… i think your comment was wonderfully put. very good insight :)

[@iamchrisolace4066]

i'm so dumbfounded by the mind of nikita. he thinks with optimism and uses his heart and gentle soul to guide him in this life. i really love how he expresses how he wants to be perceived more as soft, rather than strong. also his ideas of breaking down everyone's definition of "masculinity" was something that stuck out to me as well. nikita, we need more men like yourself. thank you for being authentically you.

[@Helga7850]

You dont understsnd. Everyone has a different taste. There are gay men (and also many women) who prefer Nikita 's body. Most gays think bears are perfection..and muscular bodies are eww.

[@NomSauce]

What I liked when he approached masculinity, was that he approached it not in a hostile way. Like he didn't have hostile emotion towards masculinity, there was no negative basis of it, at least that what it sounded like. It was more like he was insinuating that masculinity is just one of many parts of you, masculinity is relevant but there are other things too. I think when we question femininity or masculinity, it so often or easily turns into hatred against said terms. His approach of viewing it a lot more grey, in such a gentle way, was really nice.

[@lanye2708]

@@Helga7850 I don't think you understood the comment...? it wasn't talking about nikita's body. the commenter said they appreciated that nikita was more focused on his own values rather than society's

[@slurmpederp7642]

IK!!!! Like I noticed in the video he was like "yeah this is my body, I don't want you to feel like you have to compliment it or make me feel better about it. My body is my body and it's just the way it is"

[@policialatinoamericano9954]

@@Helga7850 yo prefiero a los musculosos 😁 así que me gustó Jesse😆

[@geehanel-abbassi7220]

I love how Nikita shut down those comments Jesse was making in order for Nikita to feel more masculine; its refreshing to see someone so comfortable with their body in its natural form and just loving it wholeheartedly and understanding that compliments toward peoples body in an clear effort to try to "boost them up" are just wack because that just perpetuates insecurities even more

[@averagecalisthenicsguy1504]

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[@samuelvilches7374]

I think jesse's compliments towards Nikita were sincere actually. I feel like him being skinny (and being bullied for that) when younger explains why telling another man that his body is masculine and strong looking Is a very nice thing to say. He was very much proyecting himself in a nice way.

[@theepicolaf-gunther1389]

@@samuelvilches7374 I can relate to that very much, me and my best friend also have very different body types. He envies me for being naturally defined, having a sixpack and "looking like a greek statue" while I envy envy him for his naturally buff build, having arms as thick as my legs and for his "passive ability" to make people repect him because he kinda looks like someone who could and would kick your ass. So we both kinda proyect onto each other, but at least we are aware of it lol

[@Yuhon100]

Interesting that the two best friends draw each other's body.

[@samuelvilches7374]

@@theepicolaf-gunther1389 the exact same thing happens with my bestfriend and I. Lol.

[@datutturugang666]

Nikita is such an interesting person.. i can feel his whole aura like he would’ve been right next to me..

[@charnayadams9677]

Yes he is. I felt the same way about his character.

[@MightyFartBomber1]

He's like a russian human baymax

[@findingyuri5467]

He's like an aesthetic series main character

[@jordanpearl1210]

I find it interesting how Jesse constantly covered his private area, while Nikita stood open, hands on hips. It's amazing how the comfort levels differ.

[@sofiyaniyan6637]

And actually Jesse just tryna look good

[@David49305]

if you understand human psychology, it makes perfect sense.

[@vulc1]

@@sofiyaniyan6637 This constant talking and cracking jokes whilst covering his private area - Jesse is trying to hide his deep and profound insecurities.

[@GeoOsaka]

@@vulc1big time projection here lmfao

[@vulc1]

@@GeoOsaka Sure, it was all projection when Jesse started talking about being bullied as kid while appearing all disturbed and emotionally affected

[@ghoultooth]

Nikita is absolutely a soft animal. A gentle and calm capybara, I love him.

[@kjlo3168]

Omg he totally is a capybara thats so cuteee

[@natashamargarette8394]

i just looked up what a capybara is . i love capybara energy

[@tortillawrapper5454]

just because hes asian doesnt mean you have a right to call him an animal

[@aiden5246]

@@tortillawrapper5454 he’s not Asian?

[@aiden5246]

@@tortillawrapper5454 he’s Russian, the Asian guy is Jesse

[@Shiv-jg6gs]

I’m so attracted to the Russian guy, he’s so intelligent and asking such sensitive and reflective questions I love it so much

[@ruspotter2037]

He definitely is different than the Russian stereotype in media. Made me reconsider

[@Seba-sb4cl]

@@ruspotter2037 yes, we arent evil, as they say, we dont have bears at home, we dont drink vodka every day, balalaika is a rare instrument, and we also love tea and we're glad and hospitable to every tourist

[@donainchhinayon2057]

@@Seba-sb4cl You don't have bears in your homes? Unpossible.

[@Seba-sb4cl]

@@donainchhinayon2057 I wish i had

[@Nessa33318]

I was thinking the same thing... his personality actually really surprised me and i find him so interesting and intellectual. His confidence and happiness and view on himself is amazing

[@miplanx]

THIS IS HOW I WANT TO SEE MORE MENS FRIENDSHIPS TO BE LIKE. THANKS. So healthy, communicating, affectionate. I love how there is no toxic masculinity at all here. Love love love.

[@hazelskiesalt]

it depends on if you are male or female, a lot of women tend to misunderstand relationships between men, some are tough and reckless, and some are soft and loving. if you are a guy, it’s important to keep an open mind when looking for friends, as you may find yourself in either type of relationship

[@jahdielheywood5277]

Ummm most Guys friendships are like this. Girls just gotta mind their business.

[@ienjoydrpepper5938]

why do you think most guy friendships are not like this?

[@florentinenice9146]

I feel the same way. I see so many "gang" like friendships where it is about being manly and who is the best... I wish we could see more diversity when it comes to male friendships. Not only in the media but also real life!

[@mvddii]

@@ienjoydrpepper5938 ah, for me personally i don’t assume all male friendships are like this but where i live, there’s a lot of insecurity / toxic masculinity circling around male friendships if that makes sense. so i really appreciate these types of friendships!

[@anissjade]

the Russian guy is just so fine man, I loved how he sees masculinity and he defines himself... literally a legend speaking... and for the other guy, he spreads facts and not lying about anything, I love that too... great show great concept.. seeking for this platonic friendship...

[@bunni2256]

russian guy seems really comfortable with himself, he doesn't give excuses and just stays honest and the fact that he said his body is the body of someone who doesnt give attention to it is literally describing my body.

[@bigmitt4081]

These guys have such a healthy dynamic. Props to both Jesse and Nikita.

[@niya1761]

which ones whickr

[@pancakeperson8472]

@@niya1761 Jesse is the one with the lime green robe. The one on the left.

[@elmochats1569]

@@pancakeperson8472 whats the last name of jesse?

[@pancakeperson8472]

@@elmochats1569 i don’t think they mentioned it at all. So idk

[@markangeloelias3941]

@@elmochats1569 Jesse Warren

[@iiandrewii4769]

wait why are they both so attractive. LIKE goddamn theyre so smart and like,,,,deep YALL FEEL?

[@jaidynalyse3870]

Yes, yes I do

[@adelina-805]

Love them both so much

[@Barbara-lw9lx]

We feel 💖

[@ll-xs7jy]

Ye

[@Beatness121]

I definitely feel more intimidated by their thoughts more than their bodies omg they seem so thoughtful

[@Setrius]

Wow... Nikita is a very comforting person to listen to. That kind of...comfort in who he is as a person vs. Jesse who doesn't quite have that comfort just yet. It's a very valuable relationship for the both of them I feel, that willingness to be vulnerable, that opportunity for growth. Very beautiful. Also Jesse definitely has that painting put up somewhere. Bro was LISTENING man, and what an amazing feeling that must be.

[@indigobluerainbowsun]

"A buff guy, is a child's idea of a confident guy" - mans dropping pearls of wisdom right here

[@lizzygrant13]

💀

[@kensei4237]

Literally though, people see a man’s body as who they are (most of the time) and often make a false or inaccurate image of them

[@Christopher-cq6bz]

Nah, I know he's just stating his opinion but children do not think about things like masculinity and confidence... that's all projected onto them and then they start viewing things differently. As a child it's all about feelings and emotions not the confidence of a person.

[@yajei4305]

@Krazy Guy lol that hate is real

[@abdulla10955]

@Krazy Guy herobrine profile picture talking about being buff

[@kaitlynnrose9294]

What is interesting to me is that Jesse seems more uncomfortable even though he’s more “conventionally attractive.” Jesse seems to be more hyper vigilant about his appearance and Nikita seems to just appreciate what his body is the way it is and what it does for him. Very interesting dynamic and really down to earth, cool guys.

[@_immie_6629]

@@ngmusic5665 yhh I relate.

[@pussydestroyer69285]

@@ngmusic5665 ya I think so too. I wish people weren't so bothered about human bodies...

[@luzvez]

maybe cultural differences? Asian guys are more shy than white guys.

[@Snarkulous]

Seriously. My jaw dropped when I saw Jesse (and my jaw never drops). He looks like Spiderman, but in his mind, it's all about how other people perceive him. Nikita isn't concerned about how other people may perceive his body.

[@mrclean2022]

Bless your sweet heart for spelling his (and my) name correctly, appreciate it 😂

[@formoftherapy]

Nikita describing his body as a "messy apartment" is hilarious and relatable.

[@mylifeisupsetting]

PD-NIMMM !! 😎

[@cassie3028]

Lol he said that right when I was reading this comment

[@vernonjc1818]

Lmao......I THINK I KNOW YOUR ORIENTATION NOW

[@vernonjc1818]

@@mylifeisupsetting ☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️

[@aaronputu6313]

Are u pd thaat usually reaction kpop mv ? Lol 🤣

[@patientxero8853]

I LOVE Nikita's painting. It is expressive and shows his understanding of his friend

[@emanueldargan]

I love how honest and truthful the Russian is towards himself

[@azadog1233]

ikr, great fucking guy

[@lvmln7843]

and the way he speaks, so soft, gentle and eloquent! i can't get over it, he's like a wise gentle movie character!!

[@darlingnine8803]

Мы все себя ненавидим

[@Ella-fv4hm]

@Bing Bong dude what? I don’t think that’s what he was doing at all

[@emanueldargan]

@Bing Bong what are you talking about 😐

[@dj_ccc]

The way his face lit up after Jesse gave him those "non-masculine" compliments 🥺❤️

[@ShanaLawson]

I think Jesse sees masculine things as compliments bc of the way he grew up getting bullied until he got some muscles so I bet it’s weird and difficult for him to think of none masculine things as compliments if saying to a guy.

[@sakshamtyagi9652]

@@ShanaLawson I think Jessy's image of himself is too much influenced by public affirmation

[@privatep2730]

I think it was more just laughing at being called curvy

[@Azeron_sk]

I see naked men, I tap that button so harrrrd!

[@pia_mater]

@@Alim31507 I don't think they're gay, they just don't fit the tough macho stereotype which is okay... but even if they were gay, why can't they be friends? Why do you guys like to sexualize everything? It's not like gay guys are attracted to every men they see

[@Ella-fv4hm]

I could listen to an audiobook by Nikita, his voice is very soothing

[@joaoteixeira]

Yeah! Totally!!!

[@sof6371]

Hellye we need this

[@louiseguindan5405]

Yes, I would buy it right away

[@sarasirotic9115]

RIGHTT OMG

[@CarolineofTheInternet]

Came here to say the same

[@SMon-wh6om]

This is the kind of homosocial bond that young men need today. Not even an ounce of toxic masculinity here. Blown away by Nikita. He's a gem to be treasured and his friend gets cooler by association.

[@Twerpjuice]

I’d really like to know more people with their mindset

[@ghitarakik8508]

There is no such thing as toxic masculinity

[@JammaOfficial]

@@ghitarakik8508definitely is

[@user-l6s2m]

@@ghitarakik8508most definitely is.

[@j2174]

@@JammaOfficialJust like there is toxic femininity.

[@DSmith-gs4tr]

I couldn't help but notice that Jesse seemed far more insecure about showing his body than Nikita was. I've often heard that the insecurities experienced in childhood remain with many people despite their transformations. I sense that with Jesse.

same!!

[@doraimahesh8787]

@D.Smith I feel like it has more has to do with the cultures they were brought up in , he also said his parents never talked about body which makes him think of it like a private thing ,it doesn't mean that his actually insecure

[@lisam8608]

That's true, I've heard this guy telling his story, about the journey of him losing weight, and how he got bullied when he was younger, really affected him, to the point that, he said "even though I'm fit now, I feel like me mind is trapped in my previous body" meaning he still thinks the same way, even though he changed his body Pardon me English isn't my native language so I didn't know how to articulate this

[@heyescusemee3954]

Yes that's right . I've seen it too .

[@tylerthejetsuarez8902]

I feel like its because They were doing a portrait and had to hold a pose for it, if you look in the beginning when they're naked standing next to eachother they both seem alot less rigid and uncomfortable. I really dont get why you guys went all internet therapist and try to psychoanalyze a stranger based off a 10 minute youtube video.

[@vidhikapoor9834]

I am absolutely in awe with how Jesse's mindset is. His words were really wise and well put and the way he laughed it off about his bullying is really nice. Because being bullied can actually be very traumatising. I mean he was smiling and all while at the same time talking about those raw eggs and his bullies list at his home. You just know he is a nice guy.

[@Τοπαλικάριτουκάμπου]

I love how he's not ashamed or hypocritical when it comes to admitting where his motivation comes from. When people dramatically change their appearance, it's very rare to see them admit they did because of insecurity as if it's the worst thing ever. I love how unapologetic, earnest and honest he is.

[@asvd_2200]

I feel like Nikita has read more than a 1000 books! He’s so intelligent and well-spoken.

[@smaicrag2654]

Reading books could change how you see things. (It depends on what kind of books you read) (Also if there's application)

[@Grimscribe732]

This was genuinely wholesome. As a straight dude, this is a very different experience to a 'usual' male friendship as I know it. I might be a bit late, but thanks to Jesse and Nikita for being in this episode, hope they're doing well!

[@Abigail-eu2sj]

i dint realize that these people aren't like supper professional and talented painters until jesse revealed his paining

[@averagecalisthenicsguy1504]

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[@katsukiiismine4everr]

Awesome spelling-!

[@waltwengel41]

Same lol

[@dr.harleenquinzel4783]

Nikota did pretty good with perspective and capturing the packs ngl

[@metroboomin8895]

i read your somment as soon as i started the vid and for full 4 minutes i was expecting him to reveal some masterpiece

[@alexss3661]

As a woman who's attracted to soft men, I like the fact that Nikita is not pursuing an image of masculinity that remains strong in Russia. Masculinity is not a bad thing, nor is femininity a bad thing. Soft and emotional men are still high value men, you just have to wait to meet the right woman, someone who will love you and accept you for who you are. And yes those women exist (I include myself here ;D)

[@sunflower-vz4du]

I don't understand people who like very masculine men, i love soft men, men who can convey their emotions and Don't bottle it up it's just so attractive and it's easier to have a healthy relationship with them because they don't hide the most important thing, feelings (I feel like so many people are misunderstanding "masculine" I'm not talking about physical appearance honestly I couldn't care less. I'm Talking about emotional way, so many boys are taught crying is for girls, they should not complain, should not good around, don't laugh too hard don't be "gay" etc. The stereotypical masculinity that the society made I'm saying about how if you don't want to pay for a meal you can say it, if you're tired don't want to work say it, don't bottle it up it's ok to feel burnt out, it's ok to want to not take responsibility sometimes, it's ok the cry you don't have to "masculine" and all manly to be attractive I'm not dehumanizing masculine men I'm lifting "feminine" men and ps it's really my choice not everyone likes the same type of people, I haven't said anything about masculinity being bad I've just said that it's ok not to be masculine)

[@jetoux4881]

@@sunflower-vz4du as a guy, lots of society pressure us into being masculine, not having emotions etc. People have to understand that we’re human beings, not robots! It gets to a point where a guy with toxic masculinity can’t have fun with goofing or jok8ng around with friends because he may peruse it as acting “gay” or something like that. Idk, I just feel like it’s easier to talk to a guy who isn’t crazy about his masculinity and can show emotion.

[@leaf8009]

@@sunflower-vz4du You don't have to be soft to expose your feelings lol

[@SSarah15]

I thought I'd be attracted to Jesse, like at first glance through the thumbnail I was more focused on Jesse. But like 10 seconds in Nikita's personally stole the spotlight, he's such an amazing and genuine man. Some people don't realise, personality over looks bevause once a personality is attractive the person would become the most attractive in any way for them.

[@wisslyoo]

The world need more girls like u :))

[@ebo_only]

When they both posed for each other, it seemed to me that Nikita was more confident than Jesse even though Jesse has the better body based on beauty standards. Jesse was trying to cover himself while Nikita was comfortable to expose all of himself.

[@KoolAidSquirt]

I agree that Nikita seemed comfortable with his body but just because Jesse covered his private parts does not necessarily mean he’s insecure about his body. If anything he might insecure about his private parts. But generally speaking, he did not try to cover up his body or chest or anything other than his private parts. A person who is insecure about their body would want to cover up their whole body.

[@ebo_only]

@@KoolAidSquirt Never said Jesse was insecure, he stated himself that he liked where his body was at currently. Nikita was just more confident visually.

[@jamilaissa6628]

one thing that might also be a factor is that generally europeans are more comfortable with nudity than americans are.

[@standbae]

I don't know in their country. But Nikita's body type is more desireable for a husband in my country. Jesse's body type is more desirable for be a model

[@kathloveeee]

@@standbae eww

[@MrAbilash11]

I love Nikita’s vibe, he seems all knowing and all powerful, love how in touch with his body he is

[@TomRod-tl1le]

I totally agree with you! ❤ love you

[@anaritadennis6005]

Nikita is so sweet. His voice is sweet and philosophical but not in a know-it-all way but more in a “i always willing to know more and teach others too”. He’s very calming and I could listen to him talk all day. His humor is very wholesome and so honest

[@freshstylin]

Me

[@kensei4237]

Agreed 💯 Guys like this are so rare (he’s 29 tho so it might also be that my age range of friends is just a bit lower ..)

[@hagron5702]

I appreciate that Jesse is honest with his friend and himself about his body image. What appears to be vanity shows a lot of insecurity and it's not an easy thing to admit. I went through the same process younger. I just turned 40 years old and I'm at a place where I don't really care what people think of me when they see me. If you can get that mindset earlier in life, make it so, it's liberating.

[@thewanderingwolf7116]

@Michael Same! Esp as a female. I had to change a flat tire the other day and then walked into a store with dirt all over me without a care lol. It is nice to escape what society says regarding having to look like perfection all the time.

[@hikazayanikushi9086]

I am still pretty young in life compared to some of the people I’ve seen here however I’m also developing this trait of not caring about what people think of me. You’re very right, it is liberating to not be bound by the shackles of people’s standards. There are times where I kind of go back and care, but in the times I don’t, I just feel really happy

[@djmixnmagic]

Wish I could get to the place that y'all have, but I'm too focused on my physical appearance to the point of spending hundreds of dollars a month on skincare that makes me look marginally better. Want people to fall in love with me, but hate when they stare at me, and live on the one random compliment I get a year

[@tatumshumway9713]

talking about the body: “it’s a finite box for an infinite mind” SIR-??? 🥺

[@sorbet_salamanderd2014]

IKR

[@yoanraggoo1876]

nietzche reincarnated

[@preach9]

That's my favorite quote in this video.

[@mintaroum.9096]

He said the quote

[@ynocoyote]

flesh prison lol

[@naznazifoglu3574]

i think it's the first time i've ever seen two healthy men having a decent conversation... you guys are too precious

[@jakubpodskalsky399]

This conversation is just a pure example of how a friendship between two people should look like. It's unique, vulnerable and free of judgement. Like they both are feeling good to be just their true themselves in front of each other.

[@jaybirddee3790]

Yes. Emphatically agree. I was so impressed.

[@Yuhon100]

Let's just pretend that they are friends and just get used to seeing each other like this.

[@moonraker30]

Perfect comment. And you could see why they are such great friends, they build each other up and there was no competition

[@myththryl]

Beautiful to see such a young soul having such wisdom :) there is still hope for young generation.

[@axelsylvian]

The Russian guy is a whole philosopher, the way he articulated his sentences seems like he had been thinking about doing this his whole life

[@moonbycul]

@@AxxLAfriku bro are u ok

[@Hari-sl3dw]

Exactly

[@broskies1]

Reminds me of a typical classic literature Russian author

[@lokievergreen196]

@@AxxLAfriku✨nobody asked✨

[@sonal4753]

Yeah I didn’t understand shit lol

[@johncruz1379]

“Can you give me a compliment that’s not masculine?” GUY IS A LEGEND

[@carolineharvey6305]

seriously! i could not imagine a man saying that about him being complimented. i love that for all of us

[@0Iive]

He’s honestly so wholesome. And the way he speaks 😚👌 chef kiss

[@sarahwithstars]

He's so interesting! But his posture is shockingly bad!

[@Zaidency]

@@sarahwithstars why does that matter

[@shawnz127]

strong is only masculine if you believe woman aren't strong

[@mikewrack3]

i love love love this. so healing. i love having conversations like these with those i care about. they both come off as such genuine and down to earth people. nikita’s apartment analogy and his quick wit is so so good. i love jesse’s insight on his growth and journey and he seems very self aware. love it love it love it

[@rukihaniff5045]

I thin Nikita is my favorite person on cut yet. He’s just so wholesome and real it would be great to have someone so positive like him in your life all the time.

[@jfs6329]

YESSSSSSS

[@blueblood-_-]

Yes and i want to see him more in this

[@imperfectblkgoddess99]

You can easily see how they are best friends

[@supboi5248]

@@Jay-us7pc Please dude, leave your religion out of this. People like you have messed up so many innocent lifes. Keep it to yourself

[@adlerzwei]

Makes sense that Jesse admires Nikita's body for it's strengh. The guy was bullied as a kid so ofc the idea of a strong man who can physically defend himself is something beautiful to him.

[@MrEysox]

Correct

[@hemicuda123ify]

Good God.... I was bullied as a kid too.... but I learned how to defend myself and I got Strong by myself I don't need some corn Hammer trying to treat me like a little defenseless little boy.... And then having that be some sort of creepy fantasy that gets my rocks off ....ick yuck ick

[@vodkafarmer6591]

@@hemicuda123ify he clearly also got strong, he just continues to idolize masculine and strong men.

[@hemicuda123ify]

@@vodkafarmer6591 I just can't do it creeps me out sorry

[@oofgottarunn]

@@hemicuda123ify well that's the beautiful thing bout human, beauty is subjective for us, what some may find bad is good for another

[@senkkella7664]

Jesse looks like a Spartan warrior and Nikita looks like Socrates or Pythagoras hahaha no wonder they are friends. Also Jesse drew a triangle on his Nikita painting.

[@nikitaberejnoy4359]

Actually they probably were buff. For example Pythagoras won Olympic games in boxing as well as Plato

[@senkkella7664]

@@nikitaberejnoy4359 Oh I guess people depicts them very wrong then, or maybe they had dad bods but were strong.

[@senkkella7664]

@@nikitaberejnoy4359 You're also a Nikita heh

[@nikitaberejnoy4359]

@@senkkella7664 yeah this name is like top-15 or even top-10 in east slavic countries

[@Xrayflames]

Plato was a nickname, basically meaning buff. Also Socrates and Plato fought as holplites

[@xbsidesx]

So refreshing to see a very unusual and generally uncomfortable scene with sincere people. These two guys are awesome. Thanks for doing this video.

[@matteolaylo]

When Jesse said "A buff guy, is a child's idea of a confident guy" my bullied childhood felt that.

[@averagecalisthenicsguy1504]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/pX21potqeceka8U

[@izzyh8458]

the second i read this he said it ahahah

[@xizikx4128]

@@izzyh8458 love it when that happens 💀

[@xizikx4128]

@@izzyh8458 also my user name also is izzy- (spelt like izie) lol

[@mikaylahoaks]

nikita is honest, and realistic. jesse is wise. he has a beautiful perspective on the world.

[@niya1761]

which is which

[@mig4121]

@@niya1761 nikita is the guy with the dark blue robe in the beginning

[@mikaylahoaks]

@@niya1761 Nikita is the Russian man

[@Nonamegirl1]

I really think Nikita is all 3 of them

[@jetoux4881]

This is the first comment I’ve seen that doesn’t only focus on Nikita, but Jesse too. I appreciate you

[@SuperManderz1]

“Your body is a finite box for your infinite mind”-Nikita Are you kidding me??? INCREDIBLE 🙌🏼

[@exq.707]

Not a single reply in 10 months?

[@matthewgurule7580]

Literally moved mountains with that

[@atech2011]

❤

[@sigerlion8608]

@@exq.707 You should have wait till infinity for a reply, your mind is limited to 10 months.

[@exq.707]

@@sigerlion8608 i do not understand

[@VingaAgny]

"Finite box for an infinite mind" "It's a prison of flesh", very well said

[@sabrinadowney2471]

These two should start a podcast. This is by far my favorite Cut video not just because of the video idea, but because of the characters.

[@hannahwhite07]

Wow yes yes yes! I’d listen to that in a heartbeat

[@StatesMusic]

mfs have one good conversation and want a podcast… Not everything has to be broadcasted.

[@sohlanasution2665]

The sad things, some people need the right questions to speak their mind clearly. Having a great answer is equal to have a good question.

[@samanthasherman6750]

Nikita is a mentor. He offers challenges alongside his love.

[@SirCommoner]

Well said

[@milanvondelft268]

Everyone's talking about Nikita, and yeah, he's great. But shoutout to Jesse. He achieved his goal. I related a lot to him. And it was nice to hear about someone with a similar experience.

[@archibaldarchibaldovich6224]

Actually he did not. He wasn't confident in his pose, had doubts about whether his laugh is perceived as a mock or joke, always looked for confirmation in conversation. He has his body, but his beaten-up-child is still within him, which proves the point that people who invest in their looks has deep scars inside.

[@o_o-lj1ym]

Idk. He said that he only keeps his body that way only because of what others will think. He’s not living for himself.

[@jetoux4881]

He only kept his body for others though not himself

[@karma6795]

The point is - he's 9/10 happy/confident with his body and this random person was just relating to his progression so calm dowwwnnnn

[@henloworld514]

He didn’t. He only became buff to protect himself from the bullying that hurt him before. I definitely do think he’s gotten closer to reaching his goal, but he still needs a push more to build his body for himself and not to avoid judgement from others

[@josephbsearch]

The beauty of their conversation struck me with such wonderful reality. I usually have no issue putting my thoughts into words but I am struck with so many emotions.

[@HarunaMaurer]

this is how i imagine ancient greek philosophers debated

[@averagecalisthenicsguy1504]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/pX21potqeceka8U

[@aiden5246]

I’m DYING 💀

[@myushankaiswarm]

Y E S

[@OoiYunKai]

😭

[@u6uggg6hguiuggy]

They did it in a warm spa, not a studio.

[@enderwiggins8248]

What Nikita said about his body being a messy apartment in a culture where hard masculinity is the norm really resonated with me. Being non masculine feels like a failure but the kind of masculinity I see around me is not what I want for me

[@alexwells1127]

Be man

[@alexwells1127]

Be strong and produce

[@ivikivi8527]

There's no need to be masculino even if it might feel like it. If you don't feel comfortable with what energy you project then what's the point, you wouldn't be yourself and seems like being uncomfortable with yourself is not better than being uncomfortable from people's expectations. Also, a girl here, I and a lot of girls I know don't like masculine guys (as much as society makes it sound) so you'll be fine and you'll find someone who doesn't expect you to be something you're not which would be horrible.

[@ivikivi8527]

Just be your ideal person no matter other people. Good luck❤️❤️

[@Amor_fati.Memento_Mori]

@@ivikivi8527 What is going on with your dp picture? 😳

[@manuelrs5015]

I would buy that russian guy's painting. It was incredible

[@alexmbever4196]

i know right! it's beautiful

[@FelixMomentvm]

I'm in awe too! Like, he just doesn't frames himself with that much positive aura that light on him naturally, he brings out the light in others too!

[@sarah458]

@@Jay-us7pc Likewise, friend 💗

[@RobertofDetroit]

Darn, I want some elevated guy friends like this! Open, honest and just vulnerable and intelligent growth. Humans being human! Love this!

[@headcoatee]

So are we just gonna ignore the fact that Jesse ate whole raw eggs WITH THE SHELL like a snake?

[@aurska4061]

😂

[@l.s.11]

I had to pause to take that it in. Haha...

[@kithibram6202]

@Ghost Boy are you saying Jesse would vomit it too?

[@SaheeliRai]

The shells dissolve in the stommach, because of the acid

[@Jenniferspace]

🤣

[@pietracumim]

I feel like Nikita would like a tea party with strawberry shortcake and lavender tea, with lemon cupcakes and coconut macaroons

[@sof6371]

Now I want one am I invited?

[@X0kyn]

@@sof6371 yes i will make one for us

[@kid-ava]

I would too 💜

[@cxxghie]

INVITE ME RN

[@nahimgood4]

Haha who wouldn’t like that??

[@roguex9469]

The way Nikita carries himself and articulates his desires, his vulnerabilities, his entire sense of self is very admirable. We need more honesty in this world.

[@Sharkbayy]

Nikita has such a beautiful soul. So calm and attractive. Definitely written by a woman

[@tshaune]

what does written by a women even mean?? cant a guy just be calm and nice.....

[@darronmarcel3261]

@@tshaune im sure they mean it in a best way

[@neighneighthecamel2700]

Bit problematic to see masculinity as something without intelligence and calmness, because it makes people like Nikita insecure about their masculinity if they have those qualities which makes the young boys who strive to be 'masculine' stay away from those traits (kindness, generosity, empathy) because they are seen as feminine. they dont wanna seem that way either because of misogyny or because they feel you are attacking masculinity as a whole/misrepresenting them.

[@ciawn1218]

@@neighneighthecamel2700 At no point did the original comment say that about masculinity. Being "written by a woman" is just a reference to how male writers have been known to make their characters stereotypical, while women wouldn't shy away from breaking the mold. I see you had good intentions but it was just a misunderstanding

[@neighneighthecamel2700]

@@ciawn1218 You sound very smart we should get married

[@fragileasglass3192]

It surprised me tbh, seeing a Russian man like Nikita being the way he is. Not expected at all. I appreciate his existance.

[@gavi7627]

US media has indeed done a lot of work to portray Russian people in the worst ways possible.

[@johnlastname8752]

Most Russians I know are similar to Nikita. I guess it's just the post-soviet attitude.

[@nikitaberejnoy4359]

@@johnlastname8752 I guess people should stop connect individual qualities with nation. Russians are diverse as well as Americans, as well as Chinese. I'm from Russia btw and met plenty very bad, cruel people and very good, open and soft people.

[@ivikivi8527]

@@johnlastname8752 I know a lot of Russians and they're all very different and mostly not the way media stereotypically depicts them

[@getcucked7900]

Because of how the media portrays them. They basically stereotype all people.

[@forgotmyname2462]

“That’s a bigger issue.” “A smaller issue.” “An average issue.” 😭😂

[@nooffencebut8175]

I’m weirded out by the fact that this comment has no replies

[@jasperro5839]

@@nooffencebut8175 yeah seriously

[@claravaccari3537]

@@nooffencebut8175 do you feel... offended?

[@HonorViego]

No one reply so I do owo uwu roar scratch

[@rice_fields2338]

@@claravaccari3537 thats there name-

[@iso5423]

It is so incredibly beautiful and touching to see two men being so vulnerable and honest with each other. Thank you for allowing us to be part of it

[@Rosetta.Stoned]

This is the comment!

[@ya.thegoat8795]

Gay

[@briannecastillo6355]

@@ya.thegoat8795 bro shut up

[@leaf8009]

@@briannecastillo6355 He is not wrong lol.

[@cyanidebutera2285]

This show is a total form of art. The way their discussions and thoughts about each other goes on is something I want to have with people around me, the calmness and positivy highlights this episode.

[@idealbus3]

Nikita is one of the first people i've seen online and in my life who has the type of vulnerability and peace that I hope to embody one day. I really admire him and I'm glad I get to see his way of speaking and being. Also, it made me laugh so hard when Jesse tried to give Nikita a non-masculine compliment, and he said "you're curvy... delectable" LMAO

[@henrycollins]

Nikita: “The bigger issues” Jesse …“A Small issue”… Nikita: “An Average Issue” Lmfaoooo

[@eloryosnak4100]

That really was excellent

[@dragneel3394]

got you to 1k B)))

[@tabrris]

skill issue

[@lisilein2]

that was kind of adorable

[@jayonamoyer2930]

“you would take,,, a whole chicken egg..” “yes.” 😭😂 friendship goals

[@ikeaschnitzel]

the way i read this exactly when he said it 🤯

[@shakiradd623]

@@ikeaschnitzel sameee

[@rebeccalynn3980]

it got me too 😂

[@EleyReiHer]

They both are lovely. Jesse was eventually open up as he slowly get more comfortable; it is simply shows how surrounding is very important. You just neead a very condusive environment to grow further. They are encouraging each other. The arts are amazing

[@jasonchan3157]

as a man who is incredibly insecure about every inch of my body (especially my receding hairline), it was really nice to hear a man openly talk about it and to hear his friend respond by saying that our bodies remain beautiful as they change.

[@rexrad9735]

I'm sure you are far more beautiful than you think you are. It's hard to completely see ourselves, sometimes.

[@Jenniferspace]

Am sure you are very handsome

[@yasmin-nk5oc]

Hi :) i think you’re very handsome

[@jessewski]

Hey, I completely feel this. As someone who has crippling anxiety at 36 years old, my absolute shame of my body has only added to the anxiety. It's hard to see the good in yourself some times, especially physically. I can nearly promise you, what you're insecure about, most people would not think a thing of it. It's just really hard to realize this, and I struggle with that every day of my life as well.

[@abbygrace1038]

‘Give me a compliment that isnt masculine’ hit me in the heart- there is more to men than how manly they appear ❤️

[@everythingemzy1219]

Exactly, and how Jesse’s response was “I think you’re curvy and delectable” 😂true honest friendship right there

[@Jorge55951]

Do you guys realize how confident and comfortable Nikkita seems being naked? Even though he’s a totally average looking guy, He looks totally chill, whereas on the other hand Jesse even though he’s physically “perfect” he reflects a lot of insecurities within himself. This shows us that a “good” looking body will not give you the confidence you want, it’s all in ours heads!!!

[@pagethreemodel]

So so true.

[@leonmelichar2882]

Looking in the mirror and being happy about your accomplishments is what gives you more confidence than money can buy don‘t sleep on that. A healthy mind can only flourish in a healthy body.

[@pdruiz2005]

Nikita is European--he sounds Eastern European. In European cultures, nudity is not shamed as much. I feel that's where Nikita's confidence comes from--having grown up in a family where nudity was probably just normal and ho-hum. Jesse is American and he's got that American prudishness with nudity. Furthermore, to get a very muscular body like that with such a low body fat percentage, that requires a lot of hard work. Jesse's clear hard work is fueled by strong insecurity with his body.

[@cjc9719]

​@@pdruiz2005 Nikita is Russian - so technically he is either Eastern European or Asian (depending on what part of Russia he is from). "Nikita" is distinctly Russian name. Nikita alluded to his being Russian early on in the video. When Jesse stated, "I didn't know he (Nikita) was uncircumcised," Nikita answered, "Most people in Russians aren't." Jesse then provided final confirmation by beginning his next question for Nikita with, "Being Russian..." I think one can easily develop an obsession with body aesthetics from the enormous amount of time and work necessarily spent on achieving a perfect body like Jesse. When this obsession zooms in on defining the "perfect" body, the details begin to multiply and move toward the extreme. The idea of the "perfect" body becomes an unachievable goal involving too many details, requiring disproportionate sacrifices for results that only the truly obsessed even notice. Eventually all one notices are the flaws which are preventing the unachievable perfection. Thus, despite impressively achieving a sexy as hell, awesome body; they are ironically uncomfortable in their birthday suit, looking damn good.

[@stilltrying619]

@@pdruiz2005 Nah dude. He's Russian. When my partner studied the Russian language, the first day of class the teacher (who was from Russia) wrote the word SHAME on the board, pointed to it, and said, "this is most important word for Russian culture." They have a unique untranslatable words for existential melancholy. It's a different world that Western Europe.

[@Siz_LiveLifeLive]

And Nikita, you are the truest most respectful friend someone could ever have I think. Shining from within! Keep sending positive vibes ❤️

[@someoneofimportance6459]

I honestly think Nikita might be an ethereal being, dude called his body a prison of flesh, a finite box for an infinite mind. I rate him a Nikita/10

[@chihuahuasarecool7880]

Fr he’s not even real, hearing him talk is like a meaningful dream.

[@alessandralopez8413]

@@chihuahuasarecool7880 yes, I wish I could find someone with this sensibility and maturity. It would make me cry

[@m4heshd]

A lot of people like to shit on Buddhism and they say shit like this.. 😂 (none of this is directed towards you BTW)

[@ireworks2007]

‘a finite box for an infinite mind’ me when my brain is a boy but i was born female

[@matthewpoile1195]

A Nikiten/10

[@prateekyadav1464]

The Russian guys should definitely be regular on CUT. So dayum high EQ

[@jonaswolterstorff3460]

Damn oder yum? ^^

[@yagurlg5482]

Absolutely agreed

[@valse8]

Ironically, he's uncut.

[@yagurlg5482]

@@valse8 hahaaaa ba dum chhhh

[@timchaser5957]

can someone explain in his own words what EQ is?

[@theelaveaux]

This was funny, but also really refreshing and suprisingly beautiful seeing 2 such secure and open men being so vulnerable about their insecurities and the expectations men face as living up to what society might expect from them. I dont feel like i hear enough about that. Thanks for this!

[@hookshot320]

My only concern is Nikita's neck position. I'd imagine he has issues with neck and back pain, due to the posture.

[@idonthaveacreativename81]

Yeah i noticed that too

[@rum-zz6tu]

yeah it might be scoliosis?

[@leeriches8841]

@@rum-zz6tu just looks like bad posture tbh, his stance and spine is straight and you can see his head goes slightly more forward when he talks- he just needs to stand up straight. I do the exact same thing, I actually surprise myself myself with how tall I really am when I stand up straight 😂

[@natalia-uu6hu]

@@rum-zz6tu it's actually kyphosis, scoliosis is when your spine is curved sideways and kyphosis is when the top of your spine is too curved forwards

[@stickydinosaur0692]

@@rum-zz6tu its called upper crossed syndrome. I had it really bad for about 15 years of my life. You gotta stretch it daily and eventually it will relieve itself

[@klack3161]

The Russian guys painting of his bsf was so powerful

[@scrumps101]

Wow. Just wow. How these two crossed each other’s path was absolute fate. I’ve never seen two people meant to be friends more. They both are deeply philosophical, intelligent, and incredibly self aware. Both are so passionately genuine. What an absolute asset they would be to anyones life. I’d love to have lunch with the two and pick their minds.

[@nastiavolynska]

Same, I would love to see a whole video where the two of them tell the story of how they met each other and became friends. It would genuinely be so inspiring to hear what experiences they've had together and to listen to them talk about the topics that they're the most interested in 🥰

[@HfdguuUesv]

Women of culture😏

[@casandrap2809]

I don't know how many times i've watched this video in the last two years. But even in 2024, i can still appreciate Nikita's honesty and vulnerability. To be able to communicate directly for what he needs and would appreciate from Jesse, in a healthy way.

[@hollerinannes7780]

I loved when he said “can you give me a compliment that isn’t specifically masculine”. Nikita is the best

[@Blue_Stargazer]

This is what positive masculinity looks like, I wish more men would see this and be like, 'damn, I want to be like this guy.' I feel like he exudes confidence and is so thoughtful and that makes him sexy.

[@sleepyash00]

@@Blue_Stargazer beautifully said

[@ria-gk7jr]

WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT NIKITA’S PAINTING LIKE ?!?! BRUUUUUH I DIDN’T EXPECT THAT AT ALL

[@manny_i_think3507]

I think this dude is a animator I watch here

[@noor7694]

Your 1000th like

[@jessicaao400]

I love how he asked for a compliment that is not masculine

[@ricchampz]

@Waldel Martell A man wanting a compliment that is not related to his masculinity doesn't make him gay or bi though, lol.

[@dylancolon6622]

@@ricchampz yes it does

[@shqdae]

@@dylancolon6622 may i ask why would that correlate? that doesn’t automatically indicate they’re sexually attracted to their own gender.

[@sweetytweety0011]

I think because he sees himself as soft, he wants a compliment that is consistent with how he sees himself to validate and reaffirm this.

[@yassqueenslay8730]

@@dylancolon6622 it doesn't tho

[@myra197]

This is some raw, bizarre and peculiar kind of content and still it has nice, positive narrative for viewers to watch. I love it

[@thecake2373]

Whys no one talking about how Jesse was so honest about his insecurities and how he views his body?

[@jeffersonfrancisco1906]

Ikr, Jesses one is wayyy more deeper and I myself could relate to him. But i do not see anything about him in the comments

[@Mike90317]

Go Jesse.

[@aalluring]

rightt

[@lol-ot4pn]

@@jeffersonfrancisco1906 Nah2 jesse talks about things like how normal people would and should perceive them. Nikita forms his thoughts with new perspectives that are more unique and interesting.

[@thedoctor2405]

@@lol-ot4pn 100% I also feel like most of what Jesse said was him trying to be appropriate and looking good in front of the camera which isn’t a bad thing. But Nikita is such a beautiful human with no shame about his insecurities and has a pleasantly earnest approach in doing what he was asked

[@coopaur]

I'm just SO happy YT didn't age restrict this. It's so important and educational and theyre so positive istg if this happened to me i would cry in happiness

[@jessewski]

It's amazingly eye opening and refreshing. My best friend and I were *just* about this open with each other(we wouldn't have been able to do nude paintings of each other lol). He would talk to me about anything and everything. I've been overweight my entire life and have absolutely horrible self image. I would talk to him about it, but he would let me know it's such a minor thing in being a person. It didn't define who I was to him, and having that friendship really helped me out as I struggled mentally, and still do.

[@kal3815]

@@jessewski happy for u, man

[@starheartskull15]

“I’m very optimistic about it remaining beautiful as it changes” THATS BEAUTIFUL! I think everyone should hear that, esp pregnant people who are worried about their bodies changing & looking “ugly” and what not. I personally have never disliked my stretchmarks, I think they’re beautiful. I just noticed new ones on my hips and idk, it just looks pretty, like beautiful lightening strikes.

[@anthonymungara7277]

They're beautiful

[@robosing225]

to me they are not beautiful but they are not ugly. to me they tell a history of what a person's body went through; either weight gain, or weight loss. cellulite as well isnt ugly and yet so many people, mainly women, worry so much about it, spending thousands of dollars at specialist's treatments.

[@siggi248]

I love this. Once you are completely nude you are so vulnerable, and if you take your chance like these guys you can make something out of this vulnerability: you can become more open and honest to yourself and others.

[@ValkMyda]

This is strangely wholesome

[@Mikerochip1]

The purity and innocence of this relationship is awe inspiring. They allowed themselves to be vulnerable. All guards down. No judgement. This video is a tribute to trust between two rare and beautiful men.

[@huolalupin6008]

For God's sake ...

[@RunickFountain998]

​@@huolalupin6008?

[@PlasticBaggot]

They clearly didn't know each other. But that's cool.

[@MakeedaRoberts]

I love how Nikita’s not afraid to talk about toxic masculinity so freely because a lot men are afraid talk about it but he’s super transparent and honest about it. its very refreshing to see and more men need to be more open about discussing it with each other.

[@Typicalcs]

What’s non toxic masculinity?

[@fernandocobos9949]

SO many men do, if no the majority of men do. Yall dont see it because y’all are so delusional with this social media crap

[@MakeedaRoberts]

@@fernandocobos9949 Majority is pushing it I’ve seen a few but not a lot.

[@zorlockts5744]

@@MakeedaRoberts not really , even guys don’t like loud and aggressive dudes , no one likes em (unless it’s for hyping them up lol 😂)social media loves to take one extreme of something and then generalize that specific something towards an entire group of people , hence why stereotypes are made …

[@LuthandoDlomo]

It would be refreshing if women were into men like Nikita but unfortunately they not, and don’t say otherwise because truthfully they are not, ‘hypergamy’ is the psychological term for the mentality that women have and seek in men. Be responsible and realize not just any man wakes up trying to be a he-man, i think they desire to be valued by some standards women still want. Not only physically but also financially and socially. Men say they do it for themselves but they know they want a partner.

[@mathewramos5687]

I love the vulnerability and honesty this session was able to evoke in the best friends, as well as their willingness to engage with the medium and point out issues through their experiences. Great video!

[@TheChildstudies]

Interesting how Jesse seemed more insecure about his appearance, even though he usually portrays himself as a confident guy.

[@chikensaregood9500]

It's usually an act, I am the exact same way I always try to make myself seem so confident because I feel like that's how I should act, but once I'm put in the spotlight or I'm all alone in my room that unconfident kid from middle school comes out all over again

[@notwen9779]

@@chikensaregood9500 bruh, you have a great physique! Looking very toned and muscular. Macho

[@adriand5066]

True, but he got severely bullied when he was younger. He’s insecure because of the trauma that occurs by the bullying. It puts things into prospect to acknowledge the reason for the insecurity

[@eternalgemini]

I think Jesse is still that scared little kid inside, but his outside body is amazing. He doesn't have to please anyone but himself. Heal that hurt kid inside. I was skinny like him in high school too.

[@alwo9732]

I want a man like Nikita in my life. Really wise, inspiring and NOT toxic to himself and others

[@markflakezCG]

He does not give a fuck about his appearance and tries to stand out in the modern world with rebellious and "honest" thoughts. Trying to be vulnerable is really bad because that means you can't protect and don't strive for selfimprovement. Maybe you like him because people with similiar traits attract each other but for me he is more than unattractive. Attractive are mentally and physically strong people. Call me whatever you want but this is reality.

[@frankieslittlemonster132]

@@markflakezCG You're entitled to your opinion, but that's not reality. You're allowed to be vulnerable, and being vulnerable doesn't mean you don't strive for self improvement, it means you're allowing yourself to let go and there is nothing wrong with that. You might find vulnerability unattractive, but that doesn't work for everyone. How do you know he's not strong? You can be strong and vulnerable.

[@ReluctantGarbageCollector]

@@markflakezCG hmmm a very interesting take. Let me propose another view, addressing your fears is infinitely harder than avoiding them. In that regard, the conscious choice to be vulnerable shows an unparalleled mental strength. Food for thought.

[@k.v.7681]

@@ReluctantGarbageCollector I'd add it's also opportunity for growth. Being unshakable on principle, at least mentally, tends to lead to stagnation or collapse. People need flexibility, adaptability. Moments of vulnerability for self-reflexion , leading to progression, and moments of principled strength to endure.

[@astronautZZ]

Jesse is so expressive with his face/eyes. it’s pretty interesting to see actually

[@mica4421]

I THOUGHT YOU MEANT ON THE PAINTING

[@astronautZZ]

@@mica4421 LOL NO😂. just watch him talk, it’s all in the face

[@admiralbum]

You're so right, despite how sculpted his body is ( it must've taken so much effort and dedication!) I couldn't really see it, all my attention was focused on how expressive face was. It's a rare gift to be able to convey emotions that well.

[@brenainnmacthomais]

This is brilliant! People need to be as comfortable with themselves and each other as they are! I would absolutely love to have a friendship with them!

[@kmmmm150]

After seeing Jesse’s other episode with his parents I just feel for him so bad. He needed so much more guidance than he got. He had to forge his own path and he has been on such a journey of self discovery and emotional understanding. He’s great.

[@lizanya6433]

what was the video

[@kmmmm150]

@@lizanya6433 kzbin.info/www/bejne/e2Lbpp9_er93kLs

[@lizanya6433]

@@kmmmm150 thank you

[@aarnzoo5124]

Which video was it?

[@amanda-bp8qz]

what video