Best Friends React to Their First Date

[@umvemnyama]

Can tea for two come back. It's so much better to watch meaningful dates than the quick blind dates

[@_enithecreator]

No wonder I didn't see any new videos on the channel. Did they make any statement on why they stopped it?

[@samgiselle4354]

If you like meaningful conversations, you should definitely check The Skin Deep, I found that channel not long ago and I’ve been loving their videos of deep conversations :)

[@g.spyracheak3943]

This exact kind of relationship is what makes a long lasting marriage. My husband and I met and immediately had a connection and deep friendship just like this. We never officially dated, we just hung out all the time and then got married 8 months later. That was just over 20 years ago. We recently were talking and realized NEITHER of us has ever even considered divorce. We like each other. We know the other is on our team and doing everything to benefit both of us. We’ve been through one of us having an addiction, through over a decade of infertility, through depression and anxiety, job losses, losing family members, and we welcomed our third child, our third daughter, a month before we celebrated our 20th anniversary this past summer. I’m still so glad I chose him. He’s still my best friend. I’d choose him over and over again. I hope you guys have a future like ours. I wish a relationship like ours for everyone. But it started with FRIENDSHIP not animalistic attraction. When times get tough, attraction won’t help you get through but friendship will every single time. Many blessings to both of you! Take care! ~Gretchen PS, I’m 5’10” and my hubs is 5’7”. It doesn’t matter to us!

[@sweetwheatsy]

Brilliant. Always grand to hear stories like this

[@lunamartinezzz]

I agree! It was like this with my now boyfriend since we were young. We are not married yet but i dont think either of us consider breaking up as a possibility, the connection is so deep it feels imposible to think about living life without him, and we had that feeling since the beginning of our friendship

[@imposterchild5688]

'But it started with FRIENDSHIP not animalistic attraction. When times get tough, attraction won’t help you get through but friendship will every single time.' I love that! thank you for sharing

[@Imagineunicorns_zm]

Words from the wise. 🙌🏽 WE need more women like you teaching our young women on relationship and marriage.

[@leanthonysain4476]

Same story for me but because of my partners culture we immediately started dating after I told her how I felt 😂😂😂

[@jendoubitakwa578]

Why do I lowkey want them to be radio broadcasters! The voice, the peach, the way they talk and their VIBE! oh la la SOMEONE PLEASE HIRE THEM

[@pmpslim5414]

Clicked this video and did not realize it was an hour long 😂

[@lindseywheldon2790]

I just realized this💀💀

[@thandoluvschoc]

Realll😂

[@Akan_120]

Same here

[@cheese5939]

did not realise it was an hour long until i read this comment

[@AlexanderVocotie]

Far too long… let’s recap not rewatch!

[@wajizzi]

As a person married to my best friend, I definitely think their connection reminds me of mine. How they talked about showing up for each other, understanding each other, and the biggest being able to go through conflict and not losing love for the other is beautiful. But I love that the relationship is platonic, and I agree ppl should have more genuine relationships.

[@BenSwagnerd]

SAME! My husband is first and foremost my best friend. We communicate like we are best friends more than we communicate like we are what people would expect of a married couple. And I think that's what makes our marriage so strong

[@lazyteima]

I honestly do feel that they have romantic feelings for each other. You can definitely tell the girl loves the guy romantically when she pauses clips and says things like, "I wanna know how you felt here" or "why were you nervous?". You can definitely see that she's waiting for a specific answer. I don't know about you but opposite gender friends always end up catching feelings 🤣

[@peytonrodgers1916]

Hi Jubilee. Can you tell nectar that we want a dating by Spotify wrapped pls

[@jenwitcher2877]

This is a great idea

[@nicolas11197]

No one wants that

[@pulsar3483]

The Spotify CEO donated 100 million to the military while artists get paid pennies. Fuck Spotify

[@itplop]

NAH THIS IS A GREAT IDEA

[@palomaIoma]

YES UES YES YES YES

[@tess229]

I love the way they can express their emotions so well, it’s very inspiring and beautiful to see how attentive and patient they are when communicating with each other. They clearly feel very safe and comfortable in each other’s presence! Amazing to see!

[@WilliamJEC]

I hope everybody experiences a genuine friendship like this. Whether it’s male-female, male-male, female-female. This was enjoyable to watch beginning to end. They feel like the same person but still differences that make it a perfect match.

[@aDubOneLove]

I hadn’t even realized that Adrien was trans until I went to his IG. That really gives a ton of context to some of the hate that they may have dealt with. Shout out to homie and his journey. From black man to black man, keep living your truth brodie! 💪🏾

[@myjin4127]

their relationship is so genuine and sweet, you can tell they understand each other and have a real connection between each other. It really makes me wish i had someone like that in my life... I wish i had someone i can be so open with and comfortable showing my emotions to the way they do

[@Wizzard_only]

This is what real love is. No labels, just passion.

[@tomiwaaina5499]

3:39 that Anxiety john mayer moment was so cute. I love inside jokes. Never really had that with anyone. Friend or partner

[@tomiwaaina5499]

BTW, does anyone know the reference

[@mattsven]

Probably a reference to the John Mayer song Gravity? Just a guess

[@pela907]

Gravity

[@vixytina]

i love this duo, their friendship is so geniune!

[@dudemanguy930]

So much about this makes me smile. As a bi man with women who have become close friends, I feel so seen. The way the two communicate reminds me of the platonic relationships I've established with them. The care and support. Feeling the depth of platonic love and its transition to a label-less love. The way I want them in my life for as long as I live on this planet. In knowing a friendship like this, I've allowed myself to feel like there could be more. And I recognize the rarity in finding connections like these romantic or otherwise. But it's so much more worth in being and loving they way I am currently experiencing it. As Tatiana said, there's no fear associated with moving into something different but an awareness that I have more of me to grow towards, more experiences to have, and the bond is too sacred to unnecessarily challenge it. I'm grateful too for Adrian standing in his identity, despite folks misperceptions on his sexuality, intentions, and history. I know too well the way folks have relayed their assumptions on me without reason. I so appreciate his honesty in wrestling with those feelings and his ultimate resolve to move forward, leaning into confidence in himself and his friendship. Love to yall and all the close hot homies. It's okay to be attracted to your friends. It's okay to really really like your friends. Have boundless love for your friends! Respecting a relationship doesn't look one way, that's for each of us to figure out. I hope more folks will know the rewards of a truly loving, thoughtful platonic relationship. Thanks for living and loving out loud Adrian & Tatiana!

[@honeyjars]

Only good comment so far

[@chippomchenga8215]

THEY ARE NOT DATING! You are welcome😂

[@lukhanyisobrukwe5980]

Thank you!!!!!😄

[@Monty-Rose]

Thank You 1 hour of suspense

[@ChikaJihyo]

LMFOAOAAO THANK YOU

[@Prayersanddeclarations]

Thank you!

[@cleomalinga5167]

THANK YOU!!!🎉🎉

[@-rapha]

They both seem like the type of ppl one would be lucky to befriend! Two things: 1) im genuinely curious (esp. w/ opposite sex friendships) is there no fear that you can independently find a bond like this with other ppl romantically? It already seems so rare for even friends, your future partners would have to understand & respect your history with eachother & be secure enough not to get jealous.. that's tough these days! 2) imo Adrien has a comfortable balance of masc/fem energy... i used to get bullied for such things so much that i shrunk the more expressive sides of my personality & now maintain a sort of flat affect when i engage w/ others.. it sucks lol. Especially as a black guy, i need an environment that's safe enough to express the full spectrum of my being but im too worried abt the judgment of others. Its refreshing & I'm noticing a societal shift esp. with younger generations. This was a great watch, goodluck with everything & thanks ✌🏾😮

[@Ki-KisWorld]

I decided to use this hour and twenty minutes to watch this instead of doing homework, and it was so worth it. Y’all’s story is so touching. Also you guys are hilarious, and I’m very hard to make laugh.😂

[@Monty-Rose]

😂do your homework

[@kano--]

nah if you're reading this get back to work!

[@iDidntEatURmarshmelo]

Thanks for following up, because that og video was still on my mind all this time. 😅😅🎉 Wishing you two the best!

[@zyaicob]

That comment about labels being stickers went so incredibly hard Tatiana

[@FoldyHold]

How tf do yall not give them an account with youtube premium to watch this on lmao

[@xKeepTheFaithx]

Thanks for giving us a follow up with them! This was very insightful. I love their friendship dynamic lol.

[@NorvellMolexJr]

My wife is 5'10 and i'm 5'6 and we've been married for 26 years

[@DeleciaCann]

They are so cute. You can see true friendship and love. I think at some point later in life they might get together, if not they still have their friendship. Their vibe makes me smile.

[@mmsmhs2x14]

This is why I love queer and expansive love!!!

[@sweetwheatsy]

This was a great watch, interessting to see the very wholesome dynamic between such mature people. Sort of showcases the ability to have mutual trust when your bond is strong enough, and the self-awareness of letting it become something more over time, while still wanting to explore other venues and try other things, which is an interessting balance, but one I feel becomes more and more prevalent for the modern generations.

[@lulukalilanji8416]

Couldn't get them an account with KZbin premium 😂

[@kailove8767]

Me and my girlfriend started off as friends and not best friends, but either way I feel like it made our relationship even more meaningful ☺️💖

[@senh8513]

I would watch their podcast

[@KidSterr76804]

“The energy was good before we got there; it’s us.” This friendship is so deeply gorgeous . Both are so funny and play off each other nicely, but even far beyond that, the intimacy that exists between them🥲 you can tell they have vulnerable conversations like this regularly; the comfort when each of them were saying deeply intimate things to and about each other. It’s true that not many people experience this, whether because of socialization or simply not knowing it’s possible. I value all forms of intimacy so much, and I love this being represented as something that’s unique but also so possible if we allow ourselves to think beyond the very narrow set of possibilities we’ve been taught. Also they’re both just gorgeous [as] individuals!

[@Harvb04]

They should start a podcast together…

[@elonadamhir6896]

Ohh I second that

[@Elite4mike]

Long story less long, they love each other and see each other as their person. However, they are young and live in LA and aren’t ready to “settle down”. Aka they gonna do their thing until they are done doing whatever it is they are doing outside of each other and then be together.

[@MarlonOwnsYourCake]

It's nice seeing y'all interacting when you're more comfortable

[@DustyStarrs]

these people are my maturity idols. Such role models for super healthy friendships and outlooks on life. So wise, thank you for your reflective, nuanced thoughts!

[@thoughtsonthis154]

If this guy isn’t straight in anyway bcos of the comments I’ve seen, I can say for a fact that they don’t know how big that factors in into how that helps both of them let their guards down at the earlier stages of their relationship. And yeah their is the whole personality compatibility thing but that whole not being a straight man also played a really relevant part.

[@lacrima24]

Respectfully, I am in love with both of them

[@frut_jooseomygodrod9413]

1:01:36 "I love black and white, but there does exist a gray space." That's a bar

[@frut_jooseomygodrod9413]

1:06:24 Kept watching, and she gave another bar. "There's a reason why most labels are stickers because they get stuck"

[@frut_jooseomygodrod9413]

1:11:50 "There is no room to be out of the loop when the loop is 2." Brooooooo WHY IS SHE SPITTIN LIKE THAT?! literally a walking Instagram caption🔥🔥

[@frut_jooseomygodrod9413]

I LOVE love man. This is love

[@eaeeae7207]

They're definitely going to marry

[@puhtronproductions]

They need a podcast

[@justjtv.]

Even tho they would be an amazing couple, they are even better together as friends!!!! That’s soooo rare to see and it should definitely be valued ! Healthy relationships should be more normalized and constant within our culture as people ! ❤

[@IgnacioVS]

almost never watched something, comfortably for at least an hour, with it feeling time consuming. Didn't feel like an hour. If content was more like this, woulda been easier. Just goes to show that great interesting content with people talking good and engaging, is somewhat rare

[@ciltonguedes1547]

get a room ahh friendship

[@motalkswithmo3291]

i’m having an out of body experience watching the two tea & this. bc i’m thinking about my boy bestfriend, and i totally understand & relate to everythingggggg on a very deep level lol. this is scary. but not from fear but scary lol. u get it.

[@christianblack4060]

Listen, I appreciate this update and I love you all because it shows that maturity is more than age and that there is hope for the next generation. Ma'am, your emotional intelligence is through the roof!

[@rav3n.lum0]

Omg I didn’t know there was a sort of follow up💀

[@lordy1343]

Since you guys (supposedly) read every single comment, I just wanted to say that you both seem like incredibly gentle and kindhearted people and I wish you both nothing but peace and prosperity. I also fw the slow approach to this whole idea really letting it marinate if it ain’t broke why fix it. Stay blessed

[@nicopaduamusic]

3:38 was crazy LMAO

[@zyaicob]

Anxiety 🎶 or whatever John Mayers said

[@desokie257]

Love you guys!! Your communication is so healthy and inspiring:)) much love 🩵

[@thoughtsonthis154]

I’ve gone too far in the comments looking for their names or accounts, can somebody plssssssss do gods work pls

[@Roboboy17]

Bro, a bunch of y'all about to get your comments removed, lol

[@marlonmonsegue4853]

I totally understand what the problem is now actually there isn't one You are a very strong woman and real masculinity and maturity is a plus for you I Will take back my first comment.

[@Hollaback_Youngn]

She doesn’t want to give him her youth. She wanna wait til she’s older. He is friendzoned

[@clint12366]

He's gayy

[@shermj71]

Great video. I believe I had Covid when I was on vacation in Hawaii back in January 2020 too.

[@soriyapen5370]

hi :) not sure if u guys will read this but i've been feeling really lost in life and this video felt really healing for me. it reminded me about the good parts of myself i've been neglecting

[@barkanilina6968]

I truly admire these two ❤

[@chippomchenga8215]

Thank you guys for sharing your story❤

[@peytonrodgers1916]

Yall are playing mental games be so fr

[@faiqabadreldin3753]

Hey guys, please make a podcast

[@skytrotter6144]

Love is ultimately simple, beautiful and above all true to itself and you are representing it perfectly…whatever you guys have make it last and always expect the unexpected so it will only be magical ! 😉😃

[@samanthajobalmyard]

I was here for it allll... Buttttt she confused me at 1:00:00 - 1:05:00 .. Her energy makes me wanna pull some tarot cards chile lol Annnnnd I KNOW FOR A FACT it's because I'm older, in my 30's. Gen Z is on a different plane from what I've been used to dating wise. But I think they'll do great in the future. I hope they keep their boundaries clear and secure. Best of luck & joy to them both in Cali or wherever they travel

[@bengrant9316]

I watched this whole thing just for them not to get together 😂 they said a lot of good but dang 💀

[@bleeka325]

Can you link the original

[@DiamondLife7711]

The way my gaydar is going off... But Im happy they are breaking gender roles even if he is bi or not he is very feminine and their dynamic just works!

[@stacymcintyre6230]

He's trans

[@lacrima24]

I adore how emotionally intelligent both seem and would love to have a conversation with them.

[@porshp8941]

new information gained... things make more sense now

[@chazaiman6767]

She basically said everything she wants in a partner is him but she wants to ho it up in LA till she’s in her 30s and then settle down with him. That is wild. I’m leaving America.

[@ForeverOnlyOneTruth]

It makes sense. What I think she is not saying in order to spare the best friend’s feelings is that she doesn’t want to commit to a relationship with a trans man because it creates an entire different set of obstacles when it comes to intimacy and being able to conceive children with one another. Once you learn Adrian is a trans man, her explanation makes sense. Because no one walks away from The One with the certainty she expressed just to experience being with other people. She is not being honest about her feelings.

[@docdray8546]

​@@ForeverOnlyOneTruthThere's no way you can know that's true though, especially since it seems like she could be Bi or Pan. There was one point when she referred to her past relationships saying "boyfriends or girlfriends" or something like that. But with women girlfriends could literally be just friends so who knows 😅

[@karasira2696]

my boy had to get a haircut, looks fresh

[@farawaythrower]

peak wholesomeness lol

[@pastoryoutube6682]

I kept watching and was wondering why His hips and thighs are so wide, the effeminate hand gestures, now it makes sense!😮

[@Pocket2004]

Really TwoBilee trying to take down Aba and Preach. For same .

[@RPlovlee]

Now that I know y’all read the comments, Hi Tatiana and Adrienne! (Sorry if I misspelled lol) Anyway I absolutely love their relationship. The way they value each other and seem to consistently voice that love, respect and appreciation for one another is such a beautiful thing. I do believe they would be a phenomenal couple, but if that’s not their destiny, just having someone in your corner like that is such a blessing. They seem like awesome, funny people truly. Now I HOPE there are only nice comments here cause honestly what’s the point of being lame and rude? And being transphobic in 2023 is weird as hell

[@Pewpewtsss]

I mean I do think y’all do have a very genuine and mature relationship but y’all talk too much about it, if y’all are after a year still abstractly theorizing things instead of just experiencing it, it might just not be, at least for now. And whatever rocks y’all boat but it just also seems that y’all have a strong bond without necessarily having a physical attraction, which again to each their own, but the length, depth and overall pressure of the conversation y’all put on each other seems in the end a little bit redundant. In the end, I wish you both truly the best, y’all seems like very sweet people to be around with!

[@VehementlyDisagree]

No joke, you probably DID have COVID. I work in a hospital in the bay area of California and we had community spread (no direct contact with anyone who'd recently traveled to China) in December of 2019. (The Silicon Valley has A LOT of travelers to and from China all the time. Steve Wozniak told everyone he believed he had contracted COVID while on a cruise that visited China in late November of 2019 and that he and his wife came back horrendously ill but no one could identify what kind of "respiratory virus" he had at the time.) I would bet that every major city that gets a lot of international travelers would've gotten at least a handful of cases. By the time we'd developed a test for COVID and could test our hospital staff, some nurses who had tested positive had already traveled to Las Vegas and Houston with a "cold" before they knew what it was. I can also vouch for the fact that almost NONE of this hit the news because Trump sent a CDC head to run our command center to keep it quiet. I've never been more livid in my life. I told everyone I could without getting fired.

[@VehementlyDisagree]

Boston is a major city... but you're also really close to New York and have tons of people that travel back and forth. I know New York had to have had similar stories.

[@ggwurld]

Yikes I was in Miami int airport and int hostels in mid January 2020 and then came back home to western mass early from my trip because I lost my taste and smell, had the worst fever I’ve ever had, dry cough that turned into pneumonia, nausea, muscle aches… I truly think I was a super spreader for w mass and I truly apologize if you were involved in that

[@stansmultifandoms5686]

This is not your business why lost your time. This is crazy guys.

[@finthehuman3649]

she kind of looks like olivia rodrigo

[@marlonmonsegue4853]

Darn this is complex

[@RealtalkYo]

yo she mad tall yo

[@angelahurkins7736]

What's her height?

[@ROYAL-ob6kf]

this is so sweet bru

[@keirongriffiths6361]

Did they became an couple?

[@adrian3843ify]

Not a chance lol

[@busymike]

She’s not done “dating”? lol So basically she wants to get ran through then use him when she gets old and runs out of options. This is sad.

[@khadijahbegum3546]

The guy is giving zesty behaviour I'm just saying😂

[@AmberCortijo]

Ya not wrong 😂

[@ketamine2502]

Nah he def fruity asf 😭😭

[@sweetwheatsy]

He litterally says he's tired of these types of comments, why keep perpetuating it lol?

[@khadijahbegum3546]

@@sweetwheatsy OK👍

[@kieranschoen3783]

I think they transitioned

[@Ciinko_]

Ws in the chhhhhat! (for short men) *drake voice*

[@kingbling6695]

wait is he trans or was he trans?

[@val_val_]

Why does he look smaller in this video?

[@mizzhelloo]

He transitioned.

[@williamgraham822]

Hmmm.

[@reubenrbidwell]

Guys adrien is trans

[@kobkmango7267]

never clicked so fast

[@raejraejrae]

💜💜

[@johnberninisay7752]

OMGG

[@hope_mj]

Its always nice to see two women bonding and growing together in harmony

[@Billiepippen]

I'm tired of drk skin black dissing being lght skin but always dating light-skinned women. this is gross and it is a form of ethnic cleansing. It's okay to be light skin. there are plenty of dark skin people yall not going anywhere.

[@wasubi100]

yeah bisexual just means gay

[@6ngelic]

no it literally doesn’t

[@zweij]

for men it often does

[@PlayedboiCartier]

Facts

[@ggwurld]

Means they’re bi

[@lazyteima]

I didn't watch the whole video. Did the guy say that he is gay? Didn't he say he thought about having a romantic relationship with Tatiana? So he's straight...

[@juliusfishman7222]

Bro acts too gay

[@juliusfishman7222]

Lol of course he was a girl

[@charlesross5837]

I mean he is a trans man so

[@juliusfishman7222]

@charlesross5837 yeah just realised that later on in the video. Wonder why you go all through the trouble of chucking hormones just to be a extremely short feminine dude

[@sweetwheatsy]

@@juliusfishman7222 Ever thought that, get this, people's preferences and perspectives for a joyous life are different?

[@juliusfishman7222]

@sweetwheatsy I never said I didn't know that, I just said I just find it weird , they're literally people that think a joyous life is shooting up dr*gs and being homeless. Yeah crazy people exist we all know that. Just pointing it out cause I can say whatever I want in a youtube comment section

[@Elite4mike]

Long story less long, they love each other and see each other as their person. However, they are young and live in LA and aren’t ready to “settle down”. Aka they gonna do their thing until they are done doing whatever it is they are doing outside of each other and then be together.