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[@lorddenselmichel8796]

This man is a tremendous source of guidance for us increasingly lost young gentlemen out there. real difference maker

[@JelaniB28]

Much needed

[@skinfanjay]

Real talk

[@Imma_Gee]

Yup, helps tremendously

[@wolfdna788]

Dude I’m white and 40 and I can’t get enough he’s Tony Soprano level leadership I’m picking up all sorts of stuff from him.

[@Innoz1337]

It's probably because of the fatherlessness in the society...

[@joshs.47]

If I could count the number of times I ran into someone and wished I was looking more refined. A uniform helps.

[@tonycarrera69]

Countless

[@agentsmith1595]

That sounds expensive though

[@mr.dccomics9018]

As a introvert with no friends. This video is very helpful for a guy like me. I want to go out more but going out alone make's me feel weird and out of place in public. The part where Kevin say's have three regular spots that you go to for lunch or dinner on a regular, is something I never thought about but will try.

[@AlonzoLivin]

Try a steakhouse and enjoy the fruits of your labor at the bar top. 🍽 You don’t even have to drink. I usually just get a water with the juiciest stake possible. And most importantly, say “hello” or “hey” to whoever sits next to you. Even though I’m a regular, i tend to ask “so, what’s good here” hahaha easy and affective icebreaker. Even if it don’t go as planned, at least you went and had a good meal. 😋 #DoItAgain

[@mr.dccomics9018]

@@AlonzoLivin ill try it out.thx

[@AlonzoLivin]

MR.DC COMICS steak* 🥩

[@Shardayel]

Good luck!

[@bjtucker5]

@MR. DC COMICS, I can relate. For the most part, I'm an introvert and more of a misanthrope. People generally annoy me. That being said, I'm still a man on my purpose, married forever with 2 "sexy sons" I'm eternally grateful for. The ladies love me and I love them... Perhaps, too much. Tho I work best in solitude (artistic creative), I know how to play the game. KS is right. A smile goes a long way. I've forced myself to learn the art of socializing and flattery. Some of my best encounters are striking up conversations at bars, etc. and just getting to know someone's story. I applaud you for giving it a try. It gets easier and you'll find, sometimes, it's downright pleasant.

[@spicerack73]

I agree with you wholeheartedly on this topic. I have 3 places in Dallas that I go, each on a different day of the week and generally at the same hour. Regardless of what the crowd may be, my table is awaiting my arrival. To be waived through the clutter of folks asking about wait time, is priceless. Consistency is key. One thing I would like to add though: People should never underestimate the power that a welcoming smile possesses. You must make it easy for someone to approach you. Smile, be receptive (not off putting) and open up to be engaged.

[@AJB_313]

I have a particular restaurant I visit often on lunch. They are never packed during lunch. Back in December, I stopped in for lunch and it was packed due to a Christmas party for the "important" people in the city. Host proceeds to tell me it will be a long wait. The owner says "no, he gets his food first. He's here every week, I see these people once a year." Consistency is definitely key.

[@spicerack73]

@@AJB_313 Made you feel good right?! The owner was right, you are there all the time.

[@justinhenryrebel]

Yup. I learned the power of being a regular living in NyC. Raises your social status and people are familiar with you.

[@jj-bu6yb]

Thank you so much!

[@jj-bu6yb]

I did no have father could teach me this! I’m Learning from all of you!

[@johnnyblaze2257]

He is 500% right, I wear nothing but Tailored made to fit suits, my shoe game is on point, after hours I dress “Polished Casual” with blazers or sports coats.. Everywhere I go people treat me like I’m their boss, I’m always asked what do I do for a living. I highly recommend adopting this style and self love and attention to yourself, but if you do, remember your shoe game has to be on point, women notice and shoes will make you or break you with your suit with the ladies!

[@p.reneeblue7799]

True....

[@jj-bu6yb]

Thank you

[@montystith]

When I was drinking, there were 2 clubs that I hit regularly. I made sure I knew the staff. I tipped well. When I walked up to the bar, the bartender had my drink ready. The ladies at the bar were automatically curious.

[@bjtucker5]

"Social proof" 😉👌

[@dnangel4277]

Smart

[@samadgriffin6853]

I love this dude. He keeps it 100. He understands the politics of daily operation to add prestige to your name.

[@wutang23361]

I was at a restaurant at the bar and this dude was standing near me waiting for a something and he was clean. I ended up asking him "are you someone famous or are picking up food?". He's was a singer (nobody big but that didn't matter) and he told me he was just out with a few people and was paying the bill. Kevin you're right. I gotta step up my game. I was looking like a bum fella's. 😂🤣😂 A suit makes you feel and look like somebody important. Thx for the knowledge.

[@shmo3723]

Id rather be comfortable and not care so much what others think of me . dont need any one to look up to me . My family is enough to get my social needs met.

[@shmo3723]

@@RAZASHARP Im married for 13 years with 2 kids 2 houses and i work no more than 15 hours a week . People need to learn how to make life easier . I have only one suite for weddings . Dont need to get so dressed up to eat at our favourite restaurant ,cheesecake factory. Wasting all that time to impress people , what do you want from them they will still respect you in a t shirt and shorts. If it makes you feel good to catch someones eye than go for that . Dont lose your life to hard work . Always thinking bigger and better, when will satisfaction happen . Do you real want to get dressed everyday like your going to be on the cover of a business magazine .

[@shmo3723]

@@RAZASHARP Every thing this channel is about is to impress the people around you . (Bring your value up)

[@kingvolt8694]

@@shmo3723 it’s about being the best version of yourself. Clearly you sir are a bum and idk why you’re on this channel

[@shmo3723]

@@kingvolt8694 Best version of myself based off of my opinion , not yours . If you feel wearing a $ 1000 outfit on, is your best version than be you . The best version of my self is in shorts and t-shirt laying back in a hammock with my tunes on . Why dont you get back to work for a few months so you can buy that 50 k watch so you can flash it to the ppl you think will give a shit . I watch this channel because it releases some type of emotions .

[@piplyf]

Kevin keep the gems coming. I'm a 40 y/o male who lives in California at the current time. But as a youngster i was apart of organizations that groomed young men (500 role mdels of excellence) on how important image was. It taught young men the very thing you are teaching today. I wish young men would engage and listen more. Anyone who has ever had "a Bespoke suit" will never ever shop retail again. Keep up the good job Kevin.

[@TheDh111]

Kevin I want to say I really appreciate you. I've followed you for a little over a year, & I have learned a lot. Im getting my clothes custom fitted now, & they look amazing. Thanks again!

[@lw9306]

KS stands for Konversation Starter.

[@unplugged301]

🤡

[@henrygarner4649]

Facts! When I lived in Baltimore I was a regular at the Havana Club(when you could still smoke cigars there)and people thought I was a member though I wasnt. I knew the owner, head server(owner's niece), manager(her husband), as well as the staff at Ruth's Chris downstairs. I took clients, potential clients and dates there. I was the man!👍🏾

[@ericneal8582]

You're the second high value black man to tell me this. I'm going to listen.

[@bestpossibleworld2091]

Actually this was a great Vlog. Culturally, I am about as far--180 degrees--from KS as possible. I am an early Boomer white guy that is in the ministry (traditional conservative) that has been married 49 years. However, I think Kevin has a lot of wisdom and is helping a bunch of people.

[@queendelacroix]

Great content ! Dr. Cornell West has a uniform too. In the New York Times, I rememberer him stating that it “keeps him ready for battle”.

[@spencerspencing-rodriguez4188]

I typically wear Dashikis for casual wear on top of Jeans. The Dashiki is a definite compliment magnet and conversation starter (especially after I tell them I made them myself) I am building a collection of suits as well

[@leprekhanlove1467]

Congratulations; much success to you!

[@thecapone45]

I looked up what a Dashikis was and I loved it. I honestly want to buy and wear one but I'm afraid I'll have people tell me I shouldn't wear it because I'm Latino instead of African or African American.

[@UnknownNev]

@@thecapone45 wear that shyt out of love for the culture

[@thecapone45]

@@UnknownNev I had the same idea but after I posted I read some articles and yeah. Folks don’t really like westerners wearing, or just anyone not of the culture, wearing it cause “cultural appropriation”. ):

[@stevenedwards891]

We miss you KS.

[@CalvinGriffin91]

Can confirm, been doing both of these for a while now with excellent results.

[@freshTiza]

I wear suits almost everyday thanks to this man

[@nickgeorgiou7770]

KS the uncle every young man needs.

[@SoundScientist1]

It's probably easier (now) than in many prior eras to cultivate a distinguished "look." Most American dudes dress sloppily or wear nut-hugger pants. Many dudes wouldn't know how to select 2-3 pairs of quality men's shoes (even if you gifted them $1,500 - $2,000). They're mostly "stuck" on increasing their 'Jordan' collections (cheap Asian footwear made for $30 & sold for $200+). The bummy (& casual) look has even become accepted in office environments. So, be encouraged if you aim to elevate your swagg.

[@CoffeeRaven]

Nut huggers gotta go. Those privates are screaming for air

[@setapartaay925]

Bwhahahaha!!! Dang, I don’t know why the term but huggers made me laugh so hard!!🤣🤣🤣

[@Jame6999]

Our society has changed A LOT. Look at a picture of a public setting in let's say 1930s EVERYONE was well dressed. Even at relaxed setting such as a beach. People were modest. Fast forward to 2021 women are damn near naked, men are just not putting the effort. I know I'm guilty of this

[@SoundScientist1]

@@Jame6999. My Dude, I love tits & ass just as much as any other HETERO man. BUT, the skimpy shyt that some women wear in this era? 😳😳😳 Hookers in the 1920s - 1950s used to dress more modestly. 😳😳😳

[@InvestLarge]

I am afraid to dress better because "When in Rome, do as the Romans do". If I stand out, I will become a target for mugging/robberies. There are just too many drug addicts, homeless, and thugs in cities. I don't like looking like sh*t but attention from poor and uncivil idiots is worrisome. I'm pretty much a recluse, society sucks so much.

[@thebotfather.1]

You will find me in 511 cargo pants and Lululemon’s slim cut polo. Color coordinated of course. Appreciate the knowledge Kevin.

[@rafeeqwarfield9690]

The brother is killing the game and breaking it down so simply

[@kemetazubuike8958]

Man, this video came right on time. Excellent video.

[@CandyC.]

Agreed

[@d0cn0tes]

I definitely agree with the concept of the uniform, however , I do believe that we look best in certain color schemes. There are certain colors I would never wear with my skin tone. However their are colors that look good on me. For example, if I look good in 3 or 4 colors , I put together a wardrobe with those color schemes or variations. This way I can basically be in the dark room and be able to pull a shirt, pants, ties, sport jacket, a pair of shoes, and basically be ready in minutes--color coordinated. Using these multiple color schemes , gives you more uniform options even on a budget. You got great content. And I really enjoy how you expose the delusional cycle that so many of us have in relationships--especially women.

[@SUGAH92]

Once again thanks Kevin, i moved to the uk recently and trying to build new friends

[@jj-bu6yb]

Hit me up man! Where are you from ?

[@fahdazez8519]

Im i the only one who feels a fire in my heart after watching this video ??? By that i mean motivation?

[@JereckLG]

We love you Unc! Thank your for the game 💯 🕊

[@p.reneeblue7799]

Woman here🙋🏽‍♀️. This man gives AMAZING advice that actually transcends gender. I hope that more people tune in, as this can be life altering.

[@leprekhanlove1467]

I'm a woman (*love lurking here*) and this is some great advice; as I am looking to upgrade my life thru wardrobe --which isn't as simple as one would think, when you're entire 20's has been a monochromatic drab. Lol. Thank you, for this!

[@a.r.jackson4590]

Woman Here As Well! Hi Sister!❤

[@leprekhanlove1467]

@@a.r.jackson4590 lol... Hey, Queen 👋

[@tnzem2917]

me too Im a woman and in nursing school. I want to cross over and brand myself for my non-scrub days.

[@Imma_Gee]

It’s great information women should be aware of as well. Women who consistently dress well and classy will also receive the same respect

[@taz9234]

Hi 🙋🏿‍♀️ Ladies, I am lurking to. I actually sent this to my son also.

[@jasonf3963]

You can be sure wherever KS goes people will notice this is a high value man simply by the way he dresses.

[@nikkiwalker2017]

Kevin is a very well-groomed man...not just the suit. But that tailor fit is💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@tylerdinis958]

This is golden... Gonna start putting together my uniform now

[@KUROSHURA]

Thank You Sir for these StrataGems That’s why I just bought myself some shirt stays so that my dress shirts and casual button downs are always tucked. I have an athletic build and I don’t want my shirts all baggy around my waist.

[@revgoodgame1317]

I Agree.. Its a subconscious thing..A uniform does have power

[@vernonstones]

Makes a whole lot of sense Mr. Samuels

[@KozyBearRadio]

Jeez Kevin.. I see why you do this for a living. It all makes sense. Make more of these tip videso

[@RamsonOpoku]

Thanks Kevin, will use this as my new image blueprint

[@raphealcross3]

Mr. Samuels your genius in part is in how you compile great info. Thankyou. Even for those that know you are the reminder.When you speak to kings you are Grafiki in the lion king. "Remember Simba"

[@markizzo3919]

Sharp, consistently sharp.

[@gnostic.1]

Man was a legend.

[@killakangz5317]

im not a suit man... but yur advice still top of the line. appreciate u brotha, peace.

[@str8phuckin]

Try it and see the difference.

[@fernandocamacho1708]

So much confidence and so much fashion wisdom, I'm getting serious into self improvement

[@MarcosDavizdj]

Great video!

[@JohnMikaelian]

RIP to this legend

[@warren2398]

This is just so damn simple, it's almost common sense! I can't lie, I never realized this. And I was already about uniform (albeit a boring uniform), just not this specific. This info is 💥🔥🔥🔥

[@DeADvElOciRaPtor]

These type of videos are the most informative

[@RaymanticM]

Quality over Quantity

[@thorsteinelstadolsen2005]

Hello Kevin you look soo good ,you talkitive , very analytics and what great swaag you have ,I from Norway and I wanna try to have better stil , as Barney say suit up!!

[@edwardmason119]

He's right about the accessories too. It's a load off your mind hen the biggest question you're asking yourself is "silver or gold" or "What shade of brown Leather am I wearing?"

[@ericmckenzie2010]

This is valuable information for me.. Thanks Kevin ✌🏾🥃🥃

[@kalikaputra]

Excellent advice

[@heavyontheheart4207]

Shout out to your video editor! Clean ☺️

[@missfavoured]

And short.

[@jj-bu6yb]

Thank you so much! I did no have a father in my life and these advices are essential

[@bigmig7877]

Most under rated video. Great content!

[@jageee5227]

Game 101... Great work

[@JackTheStrippa]

This is very good for a baseline... but guys. Take this advice and implement it but please be yourself always.

[@jeffmiller9798]

the truth!!

[@mikatteba225]

I have 3 different dark blue suits and like 8 different sky blue shirts and misc colors of ties (even if i hate wearing ties). Blue is very easy to wear guy, black derby, brown richelieu it doesn't matter.

[@pastorcharleshumphrey9418]

Great advice for upward mobility single or entrepreneurial types who depend on social settings to create key connections. Not so much for the father of 3-4 kids whose weekends are devoted to coaching and running kids to sports practices and recitals, or doing homework on weeknights... but still tips that can be modified to improve one’s overall appearance.

[@g-unit8478]

He speaks very very well

[@ao6677]

consistency is the key as a man. This is just for you and not to please outside force. The only thing i find difficult in the morning is choosing the right fragrance for the day

[@str8phuckin]

Choose your fragrance according to what you have been eating. If you have been eating heavily spiced dishes with Cumin, Garlic, or other highly fragrant herbs, go with a heavier woodsy or herbal scent with citrus undertones, as citrus is a natural odor blocker/absorbent. It will mesh better with your current body chemistry until you flush out the contents of your diet. Always drink plenty of water and fruit smoothies to recalibrate your body ph and flush out. Avoid floral and fruity notes because the smells from your pores and what you have been eating will make your smell off-putting. I hope this helps. I had to coach my husband on these things, as he had a signature fragrance; however, it does not work when you alternate your dietary choices. He's a foodie.😏

[@ao6677]

@@str8phuckin that's alot, just to choose your fragrance. I keep it simple as every other men, my fragrance selection is based on the season and my mood

[@jotey5129]

@@str8phuckin Interesting, thanks for your comment. I like to collect and try great colognes - never thought about matching the fragrance to diet.

[@str8phuckin]

@@jotey5129 I worked the fragrance counter in college. I had repeat male clients who shared that their women noticed the difference. Please come back to this thread when you experiment. Maybe the gentlemen on here will accept it better from you.

[@excelself]

I miss him so much.

[@Huey111]

THIS IS ACTUALLY SO COOL wow

[@alexander.druganov]

Solid grounded energy. Perfect.

[@tourbike]

Hi fella, can you do more on the benefits of using a tailor, or how to get a better fit for your clothes

[@vanjones1749]

Good info Kevin, keep sharing the knowledge

[@ToyManFlyer1100]

This ain't "Genius Level", but, he gitn there....😊😊😊👍👍👍

[@gcastudio]

I wish the algorithm could push this guy💯💯💯

[@seanlovi8798]

He is already famous now... fast heading to a million subs.

[@Nokss87]

This is gold, thank you

[@allendunson2826]

I went with some friends to a restaurant I was a regular at. I didn’t have to ask for anything. They just brought it out. Before lunch was over my friends were asking me if I owned the restaurant

[@jamessonofzebedee7866]

You are doing great work Kevin.

[@tracyjohnson8302]

Facts Brother 💯

[@MaJeSTiCz0]

I appreciate the info.

[@MrMarcus818]

Thank you for this Kevin.

[@feleciathomas4245]

I absolutely LOVE how distinguished our black men look when they have a clean cut salt and pepper hair and beards.

[@tonytoni1150]

Salute. ✊🏼

[@MrSalazar33]

Thank you Godfather🙏🏽👊🏽

[@michaelmetrokeiv7642]

Love You Kevin.

[@SummerTyme2023]

Thats some good advice

[@disturbedkid6137]

Absolutely true! Great advice!

[@sespaillat]

Kevin should be the new 007

[@citizencaine3151]

Never friends....just ASSOCIATES

[@N_Quantum_Meruit]

Great information Kevin as always! Dope video!

[@dmark2639]

Kevin, I would also suggest that a man should have at least one high quality mechanical watch as part of his "uniform" look.

[@CG-rr3wi]

I feel bad because I’m a female and obviously these type of videos are not meant for me. But I’m not extremely feminine. However, the common theme I’m hearing is “if you look good, you feel good”. I love it.

[@garyb757]

Killer advice, thanks!

[@pauljennings7196]

He’s at one of my favorite locations

[@JeremyClayy]

Love that idea of having a uniform

[@jyoungspins2200]

Dr Cornel West wears the same suit like ...forever!

[@victormamah]

Live long king 👑

[@thePraddagee]

That was awesome advice.

[@deadringer-cultofdeathratt8813]

Nice. This was more solid advice than I thought. There’s no barrier of execution either. Please excuse the Avatar, this is my oldest KZbin channel where all of my subscriptions are.

[@Jay2.0-]

Great game rh 💯

[@kingship6320]

Great Info! Always Sharp♠️

[@tonyshlean]

This was gold

[@CandyC.]

This is a great perspective. Outside of me wearing a military uniform daily, I am always in chill clothes...I am pretty consistent on the style of clothes. but I like to change it up and be different. I dont ever want to be predictable. I see what you are saying Kevin. great points

[@herbertlewis8442]

Spot on!

[@CloutMoney]

Man this dude was a power house ... man r.i.p they always kill the great ones😥

[@mycatleo]

Dropping gems like he faild P.E

[@DennisSpurling]

This is great advice.