Men in Suits : What Women Think

[@sandykl]

As always.. I loved this. I get so excited from true men’s fashion and prestige style. It exemplifies their values, expertise, their lifestyle and list goes on. There is nothing more exciting then to see a man wearing textured clothing and hats. True elegance.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

I'm really happy to read a passionate response like yours. Thank you so much. ~Sonya

[@Friendly_Neigborhood_Astolfo]

Doesn't change the fact that I hate suits (unless it is a wedding, funeral, or for a cosplay)

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

I couldn't have said it better. Thanks for your smart words, Sandy ! ~Sonya

[@thepsalms2806]

Literally had to wear a suit for a presentation in college, that day I knew what it felt like to be famous/millionnaire😂😭

[@OriginalPuro]

I had to wear a suit for a presentation in college, that day I knew what it felt like to be famous/millionaire.*

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

That's awesome ! Sonya

[@castelodeossos3947]

'Literally had to wear a suit' as opposed to?

[@traumatizedgermansoldier3856]

@@castelodeossos3947 metaphorically

[@massimo7219]

Like the song says, “every girl’s crazy about a sharp dressed man.”

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Guess ZZ knew their stuff, haa! ~Sonya

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Meaning sharp as a razor? ~S

[@jeannet7443]

LOL, so true. I love that song.

[@cashau2965]

...yeah but don't forget that in the end " diamonds are a girl's best friend..."

[@crisyorke1328]

Cas Hau LOL

[@joesilvas4299]

I'm literally a dishwasher yet I wear suits when I'm out of work. People always think I'm a lawyer or something

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Yes, you have an apt point. Congratulations on your noble efforts. Cheers ! ~Sonya

[@thespacesbetweenstudio3346]

I'm a lawyer and I used to look like a dishwasher out of work.

[@ricardo2573]

@@joesilvas4299 your are a gentleman sir

[@hhattingh]

Class and character cant be bought

[@michaelvargas2005]

@joesilvas4299 you may want to reconcile your dressing style with your pr0fession.

[@ryanwolfe8578]

My father was voted best dressed in school. He had many admirers. Later in life after his military career he would still wear his military dress blues and would often be the center of attention. He would satirically threaten my friends girlfriends if they were ever rude he would wear his Tartan to their wedding and upstage them. Style can bring joy and opportunities just wear them well.

[@ٴۥٴٴٴ]

sounds like an attention seeker

[@davidk.8434]

Sounds like he had panache!

[@krunoslavkovacec1842]

I was blessed with beeing the first to see this video. Absolutely wonderful. Hugo and Sonya remain classic and better dressed than 90 percent of "celebrities" who are trying to reinvent the wheel. Keep going and teach men and women about elegance! Best regards from Croatia!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

You are generous K---thank you very much and I do appreciate the encouragement a lot ! ~Sonya

[@krunoslavkovacec1842]

@@SARTORIALTALKS You apsolutely deserve all the praise. Cheers!

[@timmymorris91]

Only 90 percent?

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

@@krunoslavkovacec1842 So kind, much appreciated. ~S

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

@@timmymorris91 This is when I need an emoticon [throwing my arms up in the air]. Cheers, ~Sonya

[@leopoldalbarracin-castaney1120]

This woman has the beautifulest way of speak I've ever heard

[@johnrodriguez2438]

This is how it was back in the day. You should hear how they spoke back then. Videos of women in the 50's and 60's. It is waay different. More feminine.

[@DJVARAO]

Man, Dandy guys are like from another dimension

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

This genre is fascinating, I agree! ~S

[@showmethewater2160]

Panache my dear, Panache 😁

[@DJVARAO]

@@showmethewater2160 hahaha True, I love her level of sophistication :)

[@none167]

This channel has given me so much insight and I was inspired by the immense passion you radiate in every video. I also have great respect for your efforts to reply to so many comments which demonstrates and strengthens the sense of community. As someone just starting his sartorial journey (and a german on top of it), it greatly encourages me to be warmly invited, independent on "where I am on this personal journey" as Sonya put it in one of the videos. If I may request a topic, it would be pants. It is an important part that often seems to be overlooked. Best regards

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Hi and I want you to know that it is comments like your which push us forward. I read and appreciate every word. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@dirkt6921]

After watching a lot of your topics on Sartorial Talks I must conclude this: you not only understand the art to explain things like a skilled professional teacher would do (I know, Im a professional teacher 😉). You give just enough detail without losing the main goal of the explanation. You speak in a very pleasurable way, with lively intonation and emotion. You don't read a pre-written text, you tell us your stories. But most of all, I absolutely love your voice! It has a warm and cosy timbre, calms the listener down and opens him up to the content of your story. You're also always a joy to watch. Sonya, I could listen to and watch your vids for days! Keep them coming, please.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

As you are coming from a related background, of course I respect and cherish your words. Please accept a heartfelt "thank you" for the time you gave to relay this message (with such a staying power). With gratitude, ~Sonya

[@cameronmitchell5854]

Great video. Always look forward to a new episode of Sartorial Talks in my inbox! Cheers

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Glad to read this and thank you! ~Sonya

[@forceforgood4669]

One of the best coverage of men style. I really appreciate and enjoyed how you tied the inner us and our struggles to reveal and express ourselves to others through style. A few are naturally gifted, however, for many of us it is coaching such yours is how we can find our way. Thank you indeed. This was well presented.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

I value your thorough comment so much. Thank you ! ~Sonya

[@josepantojas5129]

Part pragmatic and part dashing. Absolutely. I can’t tell you how much I’ve enjoyed this particular video. Everything makes absolute sense. Thank you Sonia.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

I just read your comment and it gives me a lot of joy. Thank you ! Sonya

[@FatherTime10]

I've been attending on KZbin for a while the "Satorial School of Fashion", and my style has been elevated by a thousand miles.

[@glengraus4529]

You and Hugo have such pleasant dispositions. Thank you both for the very informative videos.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Our pleasure Glen! Hugo and Sonya Glyn

[@soulbasedliving]

I love the number 9...so I'm glad I am called "1800"; I like the term "composed" as we do have music that plays when we enter a room. In the 80s I dressed in "Futuristic" style, and yes I had a WW2 coat

[@vercingetorix2923]

I can't really say if I'm 3, 4, 5 or 7. But luckily one doesn't have to choose. I am still at the beginning of my style jurney and I am open to everything!

[@dandybubble9098]

This is the best video that sartorial talks have done for a long time..... and defiantly the button boot is my favourite footwear out of all of these....

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

This reply means a lot as I complained a bit during the production out of self-doubt, haha...so thank you for writing. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@tla3420]

I really enjoy how this video talks about natural aspects of how women interpret a man's presentation. Extremely informative.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Thank you. I attempted a level of objectivity and am appreciative of your comment. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@redshifttrucking4537]

One of my favorite episodes... Thank you Sonya

[@Sam-lj9vj]

it is important to dress differently. I always dress like Tommy Shelby from Peaky Blinders, makes you feel unique and comfortable.

[@justcaused6182]

Three peice suit everyday?

[@Sam-lj9vj]

@@justcaused6182 Yes correct.

[@mihanovak2228]

@@justcaused6182 You can go with a 2 piece suit or a double button suit for everyday too. You can go to the opera buy the 500$ seats and go in white tie or little less formal black tie.

[@justcaused6182]

You definitely can. But sadly it's not the golden days of man's style so everybody is wearing joggers and T-shirt. If tomorrow they were to start wearing suits as casual clothing, I'd be the first to jump on that train. I love suits. Sadly I feel alienated whenever I dress up for an event, because I will most likely outdress everyone.

[@mihanovak2228]

@@justcaused6182 It's same for me too. I really enjoy wearing suits but if I were too much overdressed than other people in my class (I'm high school 20yrs old) I'd would look weird. I wear casual, sometimes business casual - button down and still outdress most of the classmates. But I've reached a level where I would feel extremely uncomfortable wearing sweatpants, nikes and hoodies. It would be as uncomfortable for me as if I were only dressed in swimming trunks. But when you walking outside you can dress in a suit and you will look good, no one will make fun of you. In class I've seen professors take me for more mature and respect me more than others. I like to be 2 levels dressed up than others. For example if someone is wearing hoodie I'll be wearing a polo shirt or a dress shirt, if people around me will be in casual suits with no neckwear, I'll go more formal and wear a tie. I always try to be well dressed but not over dressed because that would not make me look well dressed, but weird. What do you think?

[@i_accept_all_cookies]

6:18 The Pragmatic 8:09 The Minimalist 9:18 The Dashing Man 10:54 The Circa 1800 12:52 Countryside Elegant 14:15 Futuristic 15:53 The Panache / The Dandy

[@rogernobbs6559]

Another gem from Sonya. Thank you. Have coincidentally just been in a work session about introverts, extroverts and ambiverts. Like those categories, I think most of us have elements of more than one archetype. Love the research from Ariel and Men's Health. A lot of women I know would simply like men to shower and shave on a regular basis!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Great point regarding correlating outward dress styles with levels of "outgoingness", for lack of a better term. Thank you. ~Sonya

[@davidbiagini9048]

Fun - and educational. This is a great topic that is deeper than first meets the eye. Great video.

[@seanmceneaney1784]

Thanks for the video Sonya. Very informative and interesting. Your delivery and presence are almost hypnotic for me... really enjoyed listening and watching you talking...too bad there aren't videos of you and Hugo coming out more frequently...but the quality of the ones you put out are of the highest I've seen on the internet. Thanks again!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Hi Sean, Among other things, we do a small talk show for our Patrons on our Patreon site, which is helping us increase productions. But most of all, thank you for all this encouragement---without it our job would be MUCH less fulfilling. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@marquepadley2715]

Sonya you have such an Elegant way of speaking, I love all the video's you and Hugo produce, you are making the world a more Elegant place. Keep up the fantastic work. from your Sartorial disciples in British Columbia, Canada

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

We do not take these words for granted, so thank you for writing. Cheers from Bourgogne, ~Sonya

[@josepantojas5129]

As always your voice and comments commands respect and absolute attention .👍

[@peteridinger5743]

I could not stop smiling wachting the video. The shoe recoment-ation of Hugo absolutely nailed it. Me and my bro's very often "judging" men by the type of shoes they wear- with more or less the same result. Good job!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

So nice of you to say, and I have to agree in regard to the power of a great pair of shoes to transform a man's appearance, no matter what garments he is wearing. But the greatest thing is to see a person feel better when he feels good about his shoes. I can't explain it but have seen the phenomenon repeat itself. ~Sonya

[@peteridinger5743]

@@SARTORIALTALKS thank you for taking time to answer! I totally agree with you. Ps: the most inspiring part of the "parisian gentlemen" was definitely chapter3 "of shoes and men" -Peter

[@dangaines405]

Well done Sonya. Original content, great presentation, very impressive!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Really appreciate this kind reply, Dan ! Sonya

[@blksheepramirez]

When you dress great, you feel great. Buy three to four different suits. A black, a gray, a blue and any other option you’d like. Then two to three dress shirts, three different ties, dress socks and finally a pair of black and brown dress shoes. Make sure they are fitted, not lose or too tight. You’ll feel like a million bucks! Trust me

[@marioburgos712]

My environment requires minimalist or dashing, but my heart is at the circa 1800; countryside elegant; and dandy. She and I will follow our own path, and these little big details can make it all the more enjoyable :) Thank you for the nice video.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Flexible and diversified---these are desirable traits for sure. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@holywaterandgreentea]

Excellent, I'm new to the channel and I like this video

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

I'm so glad to read this. Thank you ! ~Sonya Glyn

[@benedictjudegovender2458]

Good day Mr Jacomet and Ms Nicholson. I can't recall how I've come across your videos but it has been extremely educational. Such a different way to view men's clothing in this fast fashion, throw away culture. If possible I would appreciate your opinion and advice. I live in a warm climate which makes dressing well difficult from a practical perspective. Added to this is that the standard manner of men's dressing here (South Africa) is extremely casual. When one aims to dress well one is perceived as trying too hard, you certainly stand out from the crowd. There are many who dress well, but sadly sacrifice so much to do so. Many go into debt to acquire good clothes . Many guys come across as focusing solely on clothes and appearance. Which is why some guys don't aim to dress well as they do not want to appear vain/proud(sadly that was my perspective). What I appreciate about your channel and approach is that vanity and pride do not come across at all. What are your best suggestions for dressing well in warm climates? What would be a good start for a young man aiming to dress better? It would be great to afford the best but that is beyond many budgets. Grateful for your work and long may it continue. God bless

[@stevechristie2569]

Look at what works in Miami

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

A high twist open weave summer blazer could change a person's life for the better in a warm climate ! God bless you and sorry the the very late reply. Yours, Sonya and Hugo

[@jag2709891]

I love the intro to these videos!

[@davidjackson4112]

Thank You for sharing your knowledge. Greatly appreciated. Enjoyed the music and back ground blended smoothly with the conversation.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

I appreciate your reply and am happy to know you have an appreciation for the (original) soundtrack composition by Justin Melland just for ST. Cheers to you! ~Sonya

[@muse-mech-moda]

Thank you for telling us the numbers who took part in the survey.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

A fellow "analytical". Nice to have you here and thank you for your reply. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@brickempire4427]

I feel that I may be a mixture of the dashing, circa 1800 man and the countryside gentleman. I tend to make my own style. Mixing the silver pocket watch with a modern suit and waistcoat. But always warm. Always joyful.

[@Kometheus]

Still a gentleman none the less.

[@MrRooibos123]

Don't stop doing what you're doing. Us dandies are a dying breed.

[@poozizzle]

I feel like little bit of all these on occasion. Great breakdown!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Thank you, Jay. Why not embrace variety in this way? Cheers! ~Sonya

[@budokarate6212]

in a very professional way, as a fashion lover and photographer, I cant stop listening to you and taking my eyes off you.. Very well spoken and great information relayed over. Thank you so much. I'm learning quite a bit. Keep up the videos please.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Hi PPM, You message fuels me to push further and do better. Thank you so much. Cheers from Bourgogne! ~Sonya

[@budokarate6212]

SARTORIAL TALKS thank you ! Michael

[@mikebarnes6423]

Thanks so much Sonya for the amazing way you continue teach and share from a womans point of view on mens fashion. I continue to learn alot from your video and look forward to the next one. Have a great day. Mike

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

This message means a lot, and I appreciate the time you took to say you learn from our talks, and will continue to listen. ~Sonya

[@DominusEstOK]

Yet another great video Sonya. Love Hugo’s shoe recommendations as well.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

So glad you replied! ~Sonya

[@robertdee648]

Wonderful video that was very well delivered.

[@johnflynn4923]

Great content and very nicely delivered Sonya!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Thank you very much, John. ~Sonya

[@Bizzitch3]

This is so good, love to you guys from Chicago

[@samtsang8471]

You presented excellent categories to help men find their own styles. Thank you.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Hey Sam---thanks so much !! Sonya

[@Oakdieu]

Yea it.s quite amazing how many women find you interesting when you are dressed in a £5000 bespoke suit.....

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Haha, sorry for that! ~Sonya

[@Gilamath.]

Better $500 worn well than $5000 worn like the rest

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

@@Gilamath. I do understand your point. ~S

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

@@SirMopy ...absolutely, plus SuitSupply usually has on-site alterations---and is especially good for the "fit gentleman" (SS is not as easy to fit men with outside-the-norm body types). ~S

[@ahmadzarruq6439]

In my country where it's cheaper, I got my bespoke suit for 200 dollars. Tailored personally.

[@SGBoffice]

Thank you Sonya, I had to watch this video twice, if only to hear and see you talk but also to get a better idea of who I am and who I would like to be. Simply beautiful video.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Because of your kind message, I can tell you that I was nervous about making this talk, but a sincere spirit apparently came through, and now I'm happy to read your perceptions--and glad you took the time to write. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@pericatokic9634]

As every painter has his own palette of colors even though he uses the same basic colors as other painters. So your "basic colors" that you present here Hugo and Sonya, are really interesting and original! Thanks for the great podcast!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

You're welcome and lovely comment which is much appreciated. Sonya

[@adamgm84]

I'd like to see her use photos of men wearing sneakers to describe how to use various types of pants like light blue, dark blue, grey, light brown, dark brown, white, burgundy, olive, denim, joggers paired with various shirt types, and extremely importantly, how to make decisions related to complimentary colours, analogous colours, triadic, earth tones, pastel, monochrome, textures, patterns vs. solids. I'm 35 and I'm fairly advanced, but I need extremely accurate and precise information about how to extend into the next levels of sneaker expression. As an example, I'd love to hear her talk about Nike Blazer Low GT, Nike Blazer Mid, Nike Air Max 90, and Nike Air Jordan 4... I consider those shoe silhouettes to be art pieces, and they are in my opinion fabulous starting points for some outfits, but I'm not sure how to decide if I want to aim for 2, 3 or 4 colours, and where, because splashes of colour in the watch, belt, socks, hats. My hair is blond, so I want her to talk about hair colour as well. I hope my "request" is sartorial-grade. Any videos over time will be much appreciated. I would love her to take a deep dive into those above mentioned shoe models and figure out what makes them tick for the female mind.

[@TAM-mj9lb]

Most men that I know who happen to have a deep knowledge of gentlemen's clothing style(s) simply do not care what women think of our dress code(s) and associated archetype(s). We wear our clothing for our own personal enjoyment. If, as an ancillary resulting effect, my dressing style communicates that I am unapproachable, then it is excellent that poaching women stay clear. Such an outcome translates into clarity and prevents any misunderstandings which in the current social climate is tantamount. Should I see a woman that I happened to be interested in, she would know and understand in perfect time...

[@MrIanfurniss]

Loved the insights, especially with the nod towards psychology. As a photographer, colour theory is something that always fascinates me and where you mention red, I agree 100%. It's the same reason that red lipstick is popular in women, or you see lots of reds in flamenco dresses to really bring out the passion! Rich colours in general work well I think (golds, browns, orange, the colours of autumn for that 'snuggle by the fireplace' feeling) and are, perhaps, a subject for a whole video or book of their own! Great episode! Loved it!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Now I am inspired to try a splash of more color and see what happens. Thank you--and the red in your thumbnail does relay a nice energy, so bravo! ~Sonya

[@LargeEnsemble]

I am not a scholar in this field but based on my experience, women notice when you „just“ take care of you and your wardrobe. I don‘t need to wear a suit at work or when I go out; but I want to. Just to make me feel good, have a good time and of course, people notice that you feel good. I can dress more than decent with a pair of jeans, a shirt and a pair of derby shoes or Chelsea boots (which I love). I would say, that I fall in the minimalist category. I am 6‘4“. So I stand out physically, so regarding wardrobe, watches and shoes I try to keep it simple.

[@postpunker82]

I'm def a Dandy with a mix of Dashing. I like mixing unusual colors and I wear vintage wristwatches and vintage sunglasses in my outfits... I just can't do hats in general though.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Hugo does not have a "hat head" as well...so great you can unleash yourself and enjoy expressing who you are through your clothing. ~Sonya

[@King_Harrold]

My daughter is 5 and I've already told her if a young man asks her on a date and is wearing tracksuit bottoms, to walk away 😂 setting the bar high now. Ps she can date at 30 😜

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Hahaha, I'm sure she'll remember this ! Cheers, Hugo

[@Zezezeze69]

@Armando Sturzenegger calm down.

[@paulitique7818]

At 30 ? Sounds overly possessive of your daughter

[@lavonnealexander6936]

Omg 🤣😆🤣😆😆You sounds like mom and I am 24. She is crazy like you.

[@jandonbones2535]

lol you should be careful of doing that, kids doing the opposite of what you say :)

[@anukrampratap4716]

Thank You Sonya, it was an excellent and such an engaging video.pleasure listening to you and Hugo as always.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Adore the encouragement; thank you so much. ~Sonya

[@downingbethune8758]

Absolutely fascinating! Where have you and Hugo been all my life? I so look forward to all your videos.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Wow thank you !! ~Sonya

[@zacchaeusm4085]

Such great advice and wisdom bringing clarity on what persona someone would like to portray. It’s always a pleasure to learn from you and Hugo. Thank you very much and God bless

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

You are really generous. Thank you for your specific reply. God bless you! ~Sonya

[@valmontgroup]

Thank you Sonia, this presentation is very informative!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Thanks for your reply Luvensky ! Sonya

[@florianhess]

Would be very interesting to have the same conversation again today after the pandemic/working from home has driven forward a 'dress down' culture.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Very good point ! Sonya

[@EdwardVarner]

I would suggest that you do an episode or series on each archetype. I especially would like to see the circa 1800’s and dandy unpackaged a bit more. Great video!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Now I can tell you, this video was difficult to do, as coming across as an authority on the matter didn't seem possible---but Hugo insisted. I will reflect on your suggestion and a heartfelt thanks for the encouragement! ~Sonya

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

@The Vest Practice Yes AND I am curious about your vests as well. We recently recorded an episode on waistcoats, but I would really like to understand the story on the knit vest too. Thank you for your support here and on Patreon! ~Sonya

[@Trunk874]

Haha. “Geek suave”. Digging this. Thank you and Hugo for sharing. Great media and tips for us geek/pragmatic guys

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Glad you liked, ha---I think your style could even be defined as a culture ! ~Sonya Glyn

[@ianarn]

I try to avoid wearing business suits daily through fear of misrepresenting myself but whenever I’ve worn a tie say a shantung with a denim shirt it seems to signal to women that I have a desire to appear elegantly and they seem to respond to this with favourable looks and makes some of them appear to be safer as to what my personality is! They let you in just a little bit more!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Beautiful gestures; I hope you continue. Cheers from Bourgogne, ~Sonya

[@samisatlacc7736]

Beautiful video, and I love the beautiful insights. I never knew men's clothes meant THAT much to women. "The More You Know.." I was wondering which archetype the very dressy glam/Savile Row rockers like Bryan Ferry, Paul Weller, or Robert Palmer, Marvin Gaye, would be considered, more a Futuristic or a Panache?

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Thank you very much for your feedback. I would say more "futuristic" to the latter, if only for functional purposes (with the occasional dandy moment). Cheers! ~Sonya

[@melvinhollenberg]

Great video. Where or how can I find inspiration and examples of how to dress the pragmatic and minimalist way? I am drawn to these styles, but I've no idea of how to begin.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Hi Melvin, welcome and I hope you will find Hugo's video on "buying your first suit". It has been a great success so far, and you may find it of interest. Cheers! ~Sonya Glyn

[@russdrummond7292]

Another great video. Thanks.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Thank you so much for watching! ~Sonya

[@henrywest7217]

Really interesting! And breezily entertaining. Tank you.

[@keithnorris8982]

I agree 100%. That being said, Today I went to the grocery with old sweats, although they were pressed with a crease (I was moving stuff), a white t-shirt and a Ralph Lauren denim shirt worn as a jacket, clean white tennis shoes, my hair is curly and neat, my hands are manicured, a wood bracelet watch and wearing two wood rings (middle and pinky.) An attractive woman my age flirted with me. Bottom line, sometime if everything else is tight they see through the other stuff.

[@labrat5262]

Is she tight?

[@keithnorris8982]

@@labrat5262 I meant right but yes, turned out she was tight as well.

[@harethbanimustafa337]

What a brilliant and beautiful woman. Spot on! ... I have been saying the very same things for few years now. I would add to that: Work on refining your persona and make sure that your personality is even better. That would simply be: unique brilliance!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Very kind, and thank you for the reminder to keep it in perspective. I agree with you, the type of person you are outweighs 'what you wear' for sure, yet the combination of doing both in a thoughtful way can create a sort of unique brilliance, indeed. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@Todd.T]

I'm 2 with a bit of 3. Not a fan of too many/flashy accessories. But there is a lot of thought that goes into my socks, pocket square, belt, watch, and shoes. I like to think about what I am going to wear the day before, and lay it out. During the evening, I will make many changes. I've driven home to change...my watch. Is that bad?? If I am out all day, I carry evening wear in the trunk of the car plus shoes with matching belt, a different blazer, but the pants can stay. I also carry a neutral pant and shirt in case something bad happens, like a spill.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

You do sound like a minimalist at heart. Thank you for your reply. ~Sonya

[@tonyharrison2562]

Also your videos are a must see for young men focused on building our image and understanding who we really are and Will be once again in Black America.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

I have a real appreciation for your comment. Thank you so much. ~Sonya

[@davidrundle1366]

Thanks for the insights Sonya. Was hooked hearing Carl Jung mentioned 1 minute in.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

I'm glad you replied David and we will try to add more outside references of this genre in the future. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@aaron___6014]

Because of Jordan Peterson?

[@olo398]

well done, at first i cringed at the title, then I watched

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

You made me laugh for sure; thank you for noting your approval. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@signoresummers]

I'm grateful for your dashing man recommendation, thank you Sonya!

[@jimdevalk]

Love the series. What is the brand and make of the boot shown at 13:06? Thank you.

[@muffemod]

They're leather boots.

[@advmotorrad]

Thanks but i have a question.. Why you do not make a video on the style with leather jackets rough tough-looking guy with long boots jeans peacoat scarf with the hat... Or it's not a good choice to wear all these things? Regards

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

It's not a question of being a good choice or not. It's because we talk here about classic style. Cheers, Sonya

[@ennigmaa]

The pearls of wisdom that comes out at 17:50 must be the first 'guideline' everything else is trivial and dare say superficial without that 'inner self relaying itself'. Here is my take on what I would like my daughter to assess a man on 1. Clarity of purpose in life. 2. Natural confidence that comes off of 1(never comes off brash or arrogant and always grounded). 3. Personal grooming 4. Body language- fidgety or steady poise and posture(body reflects the mind, mind reflects the body). 5. Dressing appropriate to the occasion. The beauty of the list is it is genderless. Same goes for what a man should look for in a woman. To add on 5, I cringe at men trying hard to imitate the English gentleman in sweltering 40+ degree C in Indian weather. Buffoons in uniforms that have sold their identity. So being sharp is a relative thing based on time, place and occasion.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

This is a very reflective response and I enjoyed reading it very much. Hope to hear more from you in the comment section. Cheers ! ~Sonya Glyn

[@toobalkain]

problem with Jung, as with Freud and the entire field of psychoanalysis, there has never been any empirical data to support their claims, which makes it impossible to consider psychoanalysis a science. Anecdotal as it is, I don't know anyone who wanted to sleep with their mother or kill their father in any manner, it's an absurd idea, perhaps it stemmed from Freud's Jewish background with its suppressed sexuality and since most if not all his "patients" shared the same background, they might have shared a specificity he incorrectly projected to all mankind.

[@chico305SIGMA]

you have no idea how much I hate Sigmund Freud I hate anything that has to do with psychology or psychiatry they really think they know it all but they know absolutely nothing and I find it really funny that they gave Sigmund Freud a Nobel prize and almost everything that men said was racist pseudoscience that's what I find so funny about it Sigmund Freud once said that the Irish mind is so primitive that it's impossible to perceive. What a big time racist. And I'm Jewish myself and I don't like him or believe in anything he said. Almost everything he said was based on race or ethnicity. I have known a lot of Jews and none are like that. He just believed he knew it all and he thought he was a real scientist. They shouldscratch his name off of the Nobel prize he never deserved it he was a hardcore racist and all his work is now considered racist philosophy.

[@chico305SIGMA]

@Antonio Giuseppe There is no way in HELL to have an Experiment with psychology every human mind varies person to person the reason why I love Science so much is because Science is something that you do not believe in it is a FACT Laws of Physics are a Fact the Laws of Chemistry are a Fact but with psychology you have to say "just trust me" that's what I don't like about psychology you have to believe in it there is no way in hell to do an experiment with emotions when somebody discovers something they have to reproduce their results for the experiment over and over again and each time they reproduce it has to have the same exact results in order for it to be a Fact but why psychology there's no way to reproduce an experiment and there's no way to say hey look I was right the Motto of Science has always been "See For Yourself" because if you have an enemy that doesn't believe in your work you just say hey "See For Yourself" but with psychology you have to believe in it there is no way to see for yourself there's no way to experiment with people's emotions. Unfortunately psychology is an ART not a Science until psychology can give concrete results then I will see it as a pseudoscience but as of now Physics and Chemistry are the major leagues and psychology is the little leagues and I don't think it will ever become the big leagues. You wasted your money and time on that class should have taken a Science class. Lol

[@Dalaaniel]

@@chico305SIGMA You are right about the fact that discoveries in psychology are hard to demonstrate. It's because there is no such thing as necessity relationship in psychology. In physics, you can say "Hey look if I drop this apple it will fall, gravity is real beacuse if it wasn't this apple wouldn't fall". In psychology, you can never say "Hey if a man gets raped in his childhood he'll become a rapist" there are no such necessity relationships between psychologic facts. You are wrong about the fact that psychology isn't science though. One of the most popular definitions of the word science is "A coherent body of knowledge relating to certain categories of facts, objects or phenomena obeying laws and/or verified by experimental methods." nothing in this definition says that sciences is the study of necessary laws. If trough experiment we get the fact that 80% of women like well dressed men there is no necessary law (it's not you are a woman then you like well dressed man) but there is still a tendency, a law. Social sciences are all about the tendencies no necessary relationship only general laws of behaviour. Personnaly I think it's even more interesting, it's less predictable, takes more variables in considerations and man the human is a damn mistery. There is another big difference about hard science guys and social science guys, unlike what you said, (good) psychologists are very humble about their own knowledge we know very well that we know nothing about the human mind but isn't it why we should work harder to understand it ? I agree about Freud though a lot of what he said was a big bag of ****. (sry for my spelling I'm not an english born speaker)

[@eighteenin78]

For snorts and giggles, I figure I am the following precise mix: 23% The Pragmatic 07% The Minimalist 04% The Dashing Man 27% The Circa 1800 30% Countryside Elegant 02% Futuristic 07% The Panache / The Dandy So what I need to know is: What shoe should I wear? BTW C 1800 style will be very big in Europe this winter as people recall the days of cold houses and lack of central heating. Three piece heavy wool attire to keep in the body heat should be "all the rage"...

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Well you should wear... what you want! 😉 Cheers, Sonya

[@itk2493]

Wellington Boots.

[@MullyShaves]

How dare they not love me for my inner self!! At least that’s the crap I’ve heard from women my entire life. See, it goes both ways.

[@NikoMalekMusic]

Bikinis look good because men like to see skin. Suits look good because women like to see symbols of wealth and status. Women will make up a bunch of shit about how it makes a man look “put together” or “highlights the body”, but we know what how really is.

[@Wyatt-rb4ug]

@MullyShaves the duplicity of women I'm not surprised you end up being a cat lady

[@israelporras8306]

Very nice video, it will help many people to find a style that suits. thank you, it is helping me!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

I'm glad Israel, and really appreciate you saying so. Cheers!. ~Sonya

[@TheCameltotem]

You always have great content. Keep up the work =)

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Thank you for your reply! ~Sonya

[@well-blazeredman6187]

That red-polo finding was a big surprise. Must ditch those pastels! Good video.

[@Unknowncurrancy]

A milion dollars advice, I'm putting a smile on my face, no more pocker face, I love this channel, so helpful and informative, keep it up.

[@Gizapowerplant]

Enlightening and elegant, well done!

[@ZenFighter189]

Hello Sonya, my wife is very interrested about suit, but she doesnt know wich brand is a good choice for a women suits ? she doesn et want an unthecical suit. Sorry my english is very rusty ...

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Hi, Your wife may start with Walker Slater to experiment with suits. Where do you live so I can offer more information? ~Sonya

[@ZenFighter189]

Hi sonia i live in France near paris, im from Versailles@@SARTORIALTALKS

[@dissonantstyle]

Thoroughly enjoyed this one.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

I am so glad you wrote. Thank you! ~Sonya

[@endtimeguitarist]

I’m only on the second archetype and all I’ve got to say is tear it *ALL* up and give me the *RISK*. I want to feel the creativity flowing on the edge of madness. While everyone else is wearing blue give me RED. A thought is that this may be a part of the composition that brings me the mysterious crowd I’m looking for..

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Then I hope you go for this approach---the artist's way...superb! ~Sonya

[@optimistray1]

Very well presented... and a unique perspective. Thanks for sharing!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Thank you for your reply! ~S

[@J_David_Worthington_III]

Great video! Thanks for sharing it!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Really glad you watched! ~Sonya

[@LairdDavidson]

Sonya seems like a lovely lady and it was so pleasant to hear her talk. I don't fit in into any of the categories. I'm definitely very casual but deliberate in the way I dress. I guess I just charm the ladies with my vibrant personality because it can't be my clothes.

[@NorrinRadd1984]

I think most men. Like me myself have aspects of some or all of these archetypes.

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

In a lot of cases, I think you are right, but I do see some purists from time to time. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@HAWK_Ben_G]

+SAPTORIAL TALKS - Sonya and Hugo, you two make an awesome/dynamic couple. Brilliant subject with examples, indeed! 'Thank You' much for all that you both present in life with style. Blessings to you both! ~ Benjamin G. / NYC, USA

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

God bless you Benjamin -- you encourage us and we are thankful. Hugo and Sonya

[@MICHAEL-xr9yx]

I like this. Fun, informative, engaging.... Hugo Minimalist though?? I'm thinking more like The Dashing Dude cross with that 1800's gent. Sonya which style do you find most appealing?

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Hi Michael and thank you! Since I knew Hugo in his early endeavors, the minimalist approach stuck in my mind (e.g., he mostly uses the same rust pocket square, gravitates to a few pairs of favorite shoes and ties, has mainly grays and blues in his wardrobe). However in the last few years, he has experimented with different colors and styles---so I suppose he indeed, he may have moved out of the perceived category. Pushing the limits and stepping out of boxes can be a natural progression. The reason I enjoy the pragmatic and minimalist approaches is because I am aesthetic by nature, and dream of having an organization with these type of garments, in order to look elegant every time like clockwork. I try to take away an accessory after I dress to get maximum impact on the garments which I am wearing. However, if I'm feeling ornate one day, balance will rule in terms of avoiding looking like the town lady with the hat, scarf, bracelets, earrings, gloves, garment pins, and so on...People who "overdo" can make me feel visually overwhelmed, yet the approach is sweet at the same time (to witness someone trying to present his or her best self). Long answer, but I appreciate the question. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@MICHAEL-xr9yx]

@@SARTORIALTALKS Thank you so much!

[@jpdj2715]

Wow, that Carl Jung was ahead of his time with these 7 stereotypes, pardon me archetypes. Had he been a woman, he might have simplified it to three types: sunglasses men, after-shave men and whiskey men. When Sonya said that Hugo might be more of a "minimalist", I thought that actually he has too much "dandy" for minimalist. On a levels. I mean, "a gentleman never wears brown" and shoes have to be a shade darker than the suit. And outside the countryside we don't wear green. The minimalist - 50 shades of dark blue, white shirts, a red accent and black Oxford shoes.

[@tonycamacho3015]

I like dressing in 19th century clothing... my style is on par with Wild Bill Hickok and Doc Holliday

[@MegaSuperCritic]

Edwardian/Western Victorian is pretty greart. I'm a big fan too, always wear suspenders and waistcoat.

[@tdtoughman640]

Thanks A lot ST 🇭🇹!!! TD nan kay la🙌🏽 !!!

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Cheers from Bourgogne! ~Sonya

[@LargeEnsemble]

I think, it is hard to say how important clothes are during that moment when a man meets a woman for the first time. I would say, take care of yourself and your clothes. Wear something, that makes your comfortable and reflects who you are and what is important to you. I wore a suit, a blue shirt and black shoes, when I met my girlfriend for the first time. I still do from time to time, but mostly I wear a suit when I go to a museum, go shopping or sit in a coffee shop alone. I am 6‘4“ and slander and wear dark blue suit, blue shirt and black shoes. I would just say: keep it simple.

[@lenkaubauba1221]

Can I ask about the intro music?

[@EnlightenedRogue24]

You just did. ☝️🥴

[@lenkaubauba1221]

@@EnlightenedRogue24 Indeed, that's why I don't like the stories "You can ask me three questions"... Anyways, what is the music called, please?

[@nukie404]

Great talk as always, and great presentation Sonya! Of the given archetypes I think I most closely resemble #5, whilst I can appreciate a clean smooth look of a pristine suit, I much prefer textured and rougher fabrics as they look much more approachable. I do a lot of the housework at home by the way, my wife has to steal some away from me :) - Han

[@SARTORIALTALKS]

Adore the comment, and imagine your wife feels grateful, haaa. No. 5 is a charming, comfortable and welcoming look, and it seems like these traits could reflect who you are. Cheers! ~Sonya

[@nukie404]

@@SARTORIALTALKS Thank you for your kind reply Sonya, I'll try my best to stick to those words!

[@hydroaegis6658]

So I'm somewhere between dashing and futuristic, but mostly futuristic. I think both can be heavily casual (mostly the futuristic).