The Untold Story of Nivea’s ‘Complicated’ Career |

From “Don’t Mess With My Man,” to “Laundromat,” to relationships with Lil Wayne and The-Dream, this is Nivea’s story-in her own words.
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[@antoniahill3832]

The way she comes to tears when she talks about her babies... nothing but respect!!

[@cheriselundy415]

It's mad genuine and just so touching.

[@brittanynicole4370]

Loved that part!! Makes me so happy to know what she’s talking about

[@carlatuck7485]

It brought me to tears! I felt her💕

[@travisrichard9642]

All the emotion was the coca

[@gracxxiachannel]

Brittany Gail-Regula how you know that ?

[@shantalstone519]

"I'm not finna give them to no nannies! they didn't ask to be here!" I.Aint.Never.Heard.Such.Awesomesness.from.a.celebrity. someone give this lovely devoted queen a TROPHY!

[@ValerieAbena]

Misses Queen nothing wrong with working and using a nanny for help though

[@shantalstone519]

I just thought it was commendable to hear that statement from a celebrity it is very rare for a celebrity to put an end to their stardom to exclusively care for their children

[@themanyphasesofmimi1116]

oh please...Life doesn't stop once you have a child and neither do your dreams. I hear what she's saying but she's not any better than the mothers who need help because they're working toward a future for themselves and their children.

[@shantalstone519]

Yea but she choice to terminate her "bag" so that her children may lead healthy lives with full support and dedication from their mother. I dont know about anybody else but if I worked my butt off to have a singing career and I started making millions, I dont know if I could stop. Some could see that is being a lil selfish but what she did was extremely self-less.

[@ertfgghhhh]

@@ValerieAbena Theres also nothing wrong with taking care of ur children. She has FOUR. All want attentiom and need her with no father present

[@JennaLeigh]

A celebrity mama who refuses a nanny? Who selflessly gives of herself for her kids? Nivea is a GODDESS. wow.

[@cyndie-anjellvernet4114]

I agree with you but more importantly she's a real mom who wants a real connection with her children. These ritzy moms who allow nannies to raise their children, will one day wonder why their kids are belching the alphabet & possess the mannerism of their nanny... basically they won't recognize their own children ijs.

[@emfancyy7736]

Totally agree. Couldn’t have said it better myself. One of a kind.

[@trawlins396]

I wouldn't exactly call her a celebrity.

[@TheTinyJames]

Right💯💯💯

[@JennaLeigh]

@@cyndie-anjellvernet4114 you said it perfectly! 🎯

[@Shmurda_Inc_YT]

When she talked about her kids I cried. Women don't get any credit for how amazing they are. How versatile they are. How strong they are. I cherish my queen every day.

[@theegirldrew]

The passion she has for kids is SOOOO beautiful!

[@mariesmall688]

THAT PART!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@chatty2164]

Amazing

[@MRWHITTYSSTUDIO]

Amen!

[@kkingmusic13]

No shade but which one of these Instagram hoes Insta famous groupies who had kids you've heard them showcase that type of love for there children

[@tsmitty5782]

That shit made me tear up 🤦🏽‍♂️😂

[@carmellabreedlove314]

She says she supports both of her baby daddy's and respects them whether they respect her or not!!! She's a real one wow!!!

[@zoradaughter]

They need to respect her as the mother to their children!

[@Deenique16]

@@zoradaughter exactly. I dont understand how that makes her "a real one".

[@Cargo_Bay]

she's a real one because she respects her 2 deadbeat baby daddies?

[@Deenique16]

@@Cargo_Bay fr shame. This is like "hood" mentality.

[@angeldollbreano3670]

@@Deenique16 without her two baby daddies her kids wouldnt be here. her kids r the ones to save her n be there for her caz no one else is.she loves them so much...so despite how her baby daddies might be toward her and her kids...she respects them... for being succesful for once helping her with her music or whatever else and granting her with her angels that will be by her side till the end.... theres a point in life when life beats you and breaks u over and over then you start counting your blessings and count your blessings... till u cant live with no hate in your heart...you start to see the light in everything and start understanding nothing is the end ... it takes a big person to say that.....not hood mentality at all...its called being woke . and not sinking down to her baby daddies level shes above them despite what they may have material wise...she has a soul and a understanding of life...she forgave them in her soul... so she wont be stuck and hurt , now she can progress with wisdom and love .

[@NurseWright-mp5gp]

“I’m obsessed w them, I can not breath w out them!”- I felt that😔 being A parent that’s speaking the truth

[@Barmella]

I swear

[@hamptonsfnst2014]

That statement hits deep. I can't imagine not seeing my child everyday. A child's love is the purest thing! Only my creator can keep me from such a divine blessing. Thank you Nivea for sharing your story. Blessings and love to her and her beautiful children💕

[@TheTinyJames]

💯💯💯💯

[@mariannebaskerville-hillia406]

Your story touched me so much. You are a beautiful and talented soul. Keep doing what you're doing.❤

[@natashadargan4254]

You have me in tears.. the woman is ALWAYS the one who has to sacrifice for everyone and is always last.. i love you keep pushing

[@sonyab2u974]

The reason why so many black women walk around carrying so much hurt and pain

[@SweetLove86761]

This is always so true we give up EVERYTHING for our family and sometimes we have nothing to show for ourselves

[@nataliewhite1691]

She is the most unselfish person I have ever seen and a great mother

[@crystalmcclain2844]

NATALIE WHITE I agree she is unselfish and raw...she has my support

[@blakyoni7418]

Nivea is a real one ya na! She never threw *Dream* or *Wayne* under the bus, she stopped her career to take care of her 4 kids as a single parent because the fathers could not be there (remember it takes more to being a co-parent than sending money) and in her words did pretty much nothing to help her personally even though she asked 😔 something during that time mentally broke that woman I think it was the mental and physical stress of it all. That is a real woman right there! Nivea, you are a queen and you are a great example of why as black men we need to ride for our black women the way our black women ride for us and we need to treat them a looooot better. I will be streaming the shit out of her single and albums because I want to support her and see her win, not to mention that-that girl sings so beautifully! Here is your 👑 Nivea you deserve it mumma! **Hands the crown to Nivea** 👸🏽

[@cpdp42]

Nesa Joyner: You Ned to stop hating and get yourself a life you 🖤demon.

[@janai1793]

TRUTH SPOKEN YOU BROKE IT ALL THE WAY DOWN SOOOOOO TRUE YOU CA N HAVE EVERYTHING BUT IF YOUR MENTAL IS SUFFERING NOTHING MATTERS LORD I FEEL HER ON SI MANY LEVELS TRUE QUEEN RIGHT THERE !! 😥❤💙💜💛💖😊

[@jaclynnacadore1998]

You Are Entitled To Your Opinion BEAUTIFULLY SAID❗️❤️

[@pla4825]

You Are Entitled To Your Opinion Beautiful compliment 😊

[@XDCakesssss]

You ain't said nothing but a word! I second this motion and am mad this is JUST NOW popping up in my recommendations :( NIVEA GIRL!

[@wannillman8423]

Da industry is sick thats why you see so much pain in her eyes and voice. She still beautiful beyond the drugs

[@simewo]

I was definitely wondering if she did them. That jaw kept moving like Bobby Browns.

[@seanadams4629]

She had a stroke from the stress of motherhood. It wasn't drugs.

[@candiedwards974]

Sean Adams, when did she have a stroke?

[@adonnarowe1811]

Damn I was wondering why she kept messing with her nose

[@jazminearceneaux7452]

She absolutely looks high or drunk one of the 2 she’s slurring her words.. I love her heart for her kids but she seems like she’s been through a lot and she’s using something to cope with the pain.

[@NatashaRaisorGlam]

I always loved her singing. But after this interview I love her energy and honesty. She was ahead of her time. She is so beautiful inside and out🌸

[@rein2430]

That's a woman who loves her babies more than a career. There was nothing fake in how she spoke about her children. True woman right there ❤👍💖❤

[@derricknregina]

There's no doubt about that.

[@flchick1900]

Ill luv the hell out them to when both they daddys rich an she dont have to work an live off child support🤷🏾‍♀️

[@roxannejohnston9237]

Oh my gosh ,this is sad, I always wonder where is nivea

[@zerogodno-higher1788]

BOUGHT TEARS 2 MY EYES, LITERALLY💯💯💯💯

[@Tia....]

Nivea is beautiful. She is a selfless, passionate, and LOVING mother. Her children are so fortunate to have a mother like that. A parent that could have chosen money, fame, etc; that could have passed the buck but chose to commit herself to and protect her beautiful children. There are sadly so many mothers and fathers who wouldn't have done what she did. I love her and I hope her children grow up to realize the pure love she has for them and appreciate the sacrifices she made and make her heart happy so that her sacrifice was not in vain. I wish her peace, joy, success, and God's blessings abundantly.

[@siesiechampion]

She got child support checks

[@SBEEZ]

Very kind words. God bless you!

[@briannadaylon90]

She’s so transparent and lovable. Who’s here after the encore on BET?

[@spicysizzling1600]

Haven’t seen it but I’m about to watch it asap ! She’s so dope I never knew it

[@briannadaylon90]

@@spicysizzling1600 yslaaaaas

[@nickolebartlett6879]

This the realest interview I've ever seen EVER

[@vernettawilliams3582]

Yessss! Beautiful!👍👍👍♥️

[@ddoubleu170]

Has me in tears! Do you hear me! 😭

[@yw6502]

😢😭 It’s so hard being a woman. “I choose to be a mother, even though I know it’s not all that I am”. Best line to describe the sacrifice and inner battle we face as women who choose to have children

[@theTruthSeekerishere]

Early in the video, she said she didnt want to be a nurse and just get by...as if getting an education and becoming a nurse isn't respectable. Maybe being a nurse wasnt for her, but clearly her priorities have always been in the wrong place.

[@Skyphorias]

Truth B Told I think she meant financially. Although nurses make a good salary it’s not the kind of salary her talent would provide for her as a singer.

[@digthewarmth]

Truth B Told She didn't say it wasn't respectable, she said it was a job that would make her "just be ok" financially, and she didn't want that for her future.

[@KORANHORACIO]

Men are forced into it. At least you guys get to have an abortion if you aren't ready. If a man isn't ready he gets the label deadbeat

[@brandondarby429]

She seems high or drunk

[@x1st48xiforeign5]

15 minutes interview because she kept it clean. She refused to go dark on her ex’s and fathers of her children.

[@happyj313]

Much respect to her

[@dharmony7644]

She’s not stupid. Going dark on them will ruin her comeback. She played her cards right.

[@Hero-up8hv]

Right I take pride in people who don't blame others. She could be bitter about have to give up her career for her kids. If she came out wit some new jawn I would listen. Her voice is beautiful.

[@myfriendisaac]

3:56 She has me ROLLING 😂😭 “THATS THE SAME GIRL!!!”

[@Chergordon07]

Lmaoooo that part always gets me

[@brittneybutler2491]

Right!!

[@Leisa1990]

Wow one of the best interviews I've ever watched. She was so vulnerable and honest. She showed us her heart and you can tell she is beautiful inside out. She didn't speak bad of anyone wow. Lord Jesus please continue to cover her and protect her.

[@annamaydouglas7511]

I heard that she had a nervous breakdown years ago.. y'all don't tear her down . Despite what she been through she still deserve respect. I still love her and play her music to this.very day. Where's the prayer warriors at?? This woman has all my prayers. God bless her and her family💕💖💗

[@yolandanelson9371]

amen queen

[@ErialM-cj9cq]

Yes, and unfortunately had dealings with drugs, which is why she kinda does that with jaw and teeth. Still very beautiful and sweet

[@dm4854]

I hated to see her cry. She's a beautiful woman, mother and artist. I wish peace and prosperity over her life. I hope to hear from her again..

[@Influencerjuxy]

Amen

[@bealright41]

@@Influencerjuxy what

[@shenee5]

Me2

[@rustecohle591]

Damn she raised 4 of her kids mostly by herself...she had to walk away from continuing her dream to raise her kids...most celebrities and artists couldn’t do that...👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@leahrenee6639]

I also raised 4 kids alone

[@rustecohle591]

@@leahrenee6639 …you misunderstood…what I’m saying is that most people in Hollywood or in the entertainment industry are extremely selfish and wouldn’t think twice about putting their job over their family and children’s well-being…she raised four kids instead of focusing on her career… I wasn’t just complimenting her just because she raised four kids

[@Madenthewest]

Why start having kids, she ruined her life by having kids, she should have waited to have kids until her 30’s.

[@jenniferwilliams5478]

She had 3 kids in under a year

[@misstriciak]

@@rustecohle591 A lot of women HAVE to look for jobs and go to work in other to put food on the table. If she didn't have to, that's because she could afford not to (thanks to decent amount of child support and what not)

[@monacannon6644]

Omg I'm literally tearing up. The way she speaks with so much love and passion about her children. What a blessing for her children to have a mother's love that is so unselfish, and devoted. God don't make no mistakes. He knew who to choose to watch over those 4 beautiful angels. This Queen is truly the definition of motherhood. Continued blessings and success.

[@theshoedude6166]

Her passion for motherhood & hearing her talk about being a mom was touching AF. 👏

[@Black3y3dAng3L]

She sacrificed for her kids. She stepped up so their Father's could live and have their careers. I sincerely hope she's serious about coming back. It's your time, Nivea!!! 💖

[@nenej12]

Yeah I hope so to, in the past she has tried, but in today's age you can't wait on no man, or a label to put your music out, it's gonna be up to her to put an album/project together and distribute it...because that's what fans want

[@octaviadunbar7244]

@Andre Johnson believe it or not she has wrote major hits for other people that was bangers

[@JaseekaRawr]

Andre Johnson Her songs weren't hits?! Then why am I about to go on a nostalgic Nivea song listening spree,10+ years later? Lmao, maybe you're too young to remember, but her songs were super popular. They're still good, too, because I was inspired just now to go re-bang them. ;)

[@YourNorthFloridaRealtor]

Andre Johnson Bruh I tend to agree with you but just watching her I think about a young cute girl with talent getting just ran through by dudes, managers and industry execs because she was shy and naive, I got two daughters and PLEASE BELIEVE "The Dream" would have been a "The Reality" and "Lil Wayne" would have been "So Sane" if them were my grand kids...#GETTHESTRAP

[@LADORSEY]

No , its over with..lets be honest

[@mrscarter2309]

She is so beautiful and positive True Aries I felt her 100% when she starting speaking on mother hood Had me crying with her! ♥️

[@1Deyssi]

Omg she had me in tears! Props to her for staying true to herself

[@PranaChi369]

I had a coke habbit ...those mannerisms take a while to leave even after you give up the drugs...they effect your nervous system and how mechanisms fire off and work intricately in your brain... she admitted in another interview she recently just gave up her coke her habbit...it takes a while to get back to normal... believe me I know all too well😔.....I respect her for how she channeled her energy into her children I respect her for fighting to regain her life back and not giving up!!!....I love you Nivea!! keep up with good work and progress....I wish I can find her tell her she is inspiring to me as well!!!!...I should create a fan page for her so she can get the support she deserves from her fans abundantly!!!!!!

[@amirawilliams8385]

Thank you for posting this comment

[@shanaadams6226]

I could tell because her mouth moves like Bobby Brown and he don't do drugs anymore as well but they mouth moves the same so I do believe as well she either has a stroke or was on some type of drug but her story is so touching and the way she talk do highly about the fathers is awesome she didn't put them down even though she could because of their actions God Bless her and I wish nothing but happiness for her 💜💖

[@vonmorris5948]

I knew that something was off. I’ll pray for her comeback and sobriety.

[@CandidlyToni]

First blessings to you for overcoming. Most people are unable to. Secondly I knew off the bat bcuz her mannerisms. Man listen.

[@novakane7720]

You right same here

[@TheConversationRoom421]

Cover her Lord Jesus Nivea has such a beautiful spirit

[@sierraforte3709]

Yes Jesus cover Nivea she is a wonderful soul

[@hightopv1352]

She was the "Weird" Black Girl before it became marketable.

[@PeediSigel]

HighTopDripDrop Kelis?

[@trawlins396]

I never thought she was weird.

[@baskiat98]

she definitely was not the “weird” black girl.

[@brittlia_]

Kiana Thomas Maybe not weird but different. Especially style wise! People didn’t like her hairstyles when she first stepped on the scene, even still now people make fun of the hairstyles she had!

[@Vasquez.213]

No she wasnt

[@ebonitaapplebum9219]

She's probably been wanting to get this off her chest for some years

[@PHlophe]

Eboni, she needed a youtube channel. those multi colored cascading remi weaves have got to go . we needs napps back.

[@fashionshowsdlh]

Yes she has

[@Jackoftrades_yae]

Ebonita Applebum definitely

[@ThisisKalaTV]

I think you're right about that, but everything happens when it's time. And it is clearly her time, and I am so happy 😊 for her! I see so much more in store for Nivea. I truly do!

[@millymilly8264]

@@PHlophe she's too busy taking care of her kids

[@jonelfreeman1233]

I always loved how Nivea carried herself as a woman. Nothing wrong with being vulnerable, do what's best for you and your children. You will always have a fan for life. #inspiring ☮️

[@leaderofthepackleaderofthe1256]

Jonel Freeman jkp

[@eddygomez8965]

nivea’s complicated album will always be in my heart. she deserves everything in life. i hope she gets all the love and happiness.

[@charlesboykin3107]

She’s has a Beautiful Soul. I cried with her when it came to her kids. If I ever become a father, I’ll put my dreams on hold for mine too. Kids are a priority no exceptions

[@missalexyzjones]

This was a bit difficult to watch because she seems like a woman who is happy with what she is and happy with being a mother but there is still some heartbreak over her dreams that haven't come to fruition. I would imagine it's hard watching other artist blow up around you and having the uniqueness and talent to be just as good but for some reason it doesn't work out. Those tears were real, she's hurting.

[@MsT-xm8xz]

Yeah definitely

[@chasityj.4130]

In watching this interview you can see the passion she has for music and her kids. You see the sacrifice she made for her kids to avoid them being without her. Much love!

[@jenniferj.5209]

Nivea looks like Baby Girl from The Bernie Mac Show😂

[@alilrazzledazzle992]

Omg. She does!!!

[@iLeona296]

Yesss

[@TeeIsHauteCocoaChanel]

Always thought that !!!!!!

[@patrinahall4257]

Yessssss

[@deshonebonyrowland-ward4552]

This made me cry... U don't know what people are going thru... The older I get I've learned to be kind because u don't know what kind of battle someone is facing... God bless Nivea and her beautiful kids ❤️

[@tratrazy1633]

Nivea You still have fans out here rooting for you. I hope you get the success your seeking.

[@TrappedLegend]

This just goes to show that no matter how much money you have in the bank, that doesn't exclude you from dealing with real life issues. Praying for her

[@Mrs.buildingblackwealth]

Yeah, she definatley in pain. Probably she wants to sing, but she wants her family and its hard for her.

[@Pursuit_Of_Speed]

This woman still has her dreams and I applaud her for that

[@gissellel663]

Nivea was everything being in high school from 2000-2004. I loved everything she put out especially Laundromat ❤ her voice is so unique and I basically wanted to be her as a teen. I’m glad that she was able to get out of the hood and make something happen when she told her Mom she was leaving. I hope the best for her and can’t wait to hear her voice again.

[@angelwingz622]

My love, "you is kind, you is smart, you is important." And VERY talented. I've been listening to you since I was 11 girl. Please keep your peace and keep your dreams.

[@Tia....]

❤❤❤❤

[@cjwright5306]

Damn u are beautiful

[@shikleohair]

❤❤❤

[@blackfreethinker7480]

Iesha Lujan wow now that you say that i can see the resemblance

[@PeytonFan1816]

Iesha Lujan Amen

[@sooooper]

complicated is STILL relevant and one of the best songs ive ever heard. love you NIVEA!!! I use to fake be you in high school with the color hair lol . you were one of my biggest crushes!

[@tashied422]

I think about us all day. Dream about you always. Love ain't always complicated. Man I love that song

[@PLAYAWORLDRecords]

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[@VerdaleStinsonBOWTIE]

This makes me cry all the time because I see my mother in her single raising me putting her dreams on hold its alot on a woman

[@sabrinablack2155]

She sounds like a sweet person with her priorities in order. I always loved her song "Okay" and "Don't mess with my man." I use to have those songs on repeat and Danger is a classic too.

[@firebolt1753]

Wow!! She just poured her heart out in this interview! She was so real and transparent. That needs to be applauded...

[@lele19691]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤

[@vegvixxxen829]

So sad the men prosper while she doesn't and she is actually gifted and talented. Props to her for not selling her soul and being some deviant celebrity for fame. She is a good mother.

[@katherinesavarese6009]

Veg Vixxxen right

[@Tia....]

Absolutely is..

[@Pkg597]

Swarthy One boy reported, bye

[@KORANHORACIO]

@@Pkg597 he's right

[@jessicajames831]

I agree it’s fucked up that woman don’t really get the chance to pilot ..there always reduced to stewardess

[@femalehiphophistorian922]

Nivea I can give you 25 REASONS why I am still in love with you and your voice and your spirit! Keep pushing SIS~ Much Respect- damn interview almost brought me to tears- in those 14mins I felt your pain and saw your strength GOD BLESS

[@jenellgordy1071]

She's greatness in raw form.. and doesn't even know it.

[@lowlowseesee]

FACTS

[@vernettawilliams3582]

Yesssssss♥️

[@rlgj110264]

I've never heard or seen any star show that much heart and soul in their interview concerning their own personal life. God bless you Nivea. I wish you and your children great success in your future.

[@simewo]

Thank you for explaining this, and I wish you strength and continued courage on your journey.

[@brittanyday8820]

❤️

[@chuchib2952]

I loved her rawness and transparency. You can just feel her genuineness in this video. She should follow up with an Unsung episode. Seems like 15 minutes isn't long enough for her to tell her story. I can't wait to see all the beautiful progressions that are waiting for her. Best wishes.

[@rekeya]

I love this comment! ❤️

[@chuchib2952]

@@rekeya Thanks love ❤️❤️

[@chuchib2952]

@@aneshaxiomara6800 💗💗

[@keepkiaweird]

Funny how everything she did back in the day is a trend now.

[@rashadblunt524]

Yes

[@musiclover-cn7tb]

@@rashadblunt524 exactly

[@lunettawilliams8199]

No one should judge this beautiful soul, her actions are commended, her kids were her pride and joy, the fathers of her kids should know how much they were blessed to have such a woman to birth their children. Nivea is a true woman who didnt SEXUALLY display herself to the world for a coin...AND she didnt fall into any circumstances with R. KELLY, that says alot about her because she was the age he approves of. I would guess her head was too WISE for him to capture her heart. I send all peace and happines to this QUEEN.

[@ChrisTeeO.]

Wow. The way people are trying to judge and diagnose her is crazy. When you look at someone else, keep looking until you see yourself. I see a woman that allowed herself to be humbled by life and found beauty in her vulnerability.

[@thatgirizfly]

Exactly.

[@itssmaggie]

💯

[@ladykeke1975]

I agree!

[@hushlilbaby]

That's beautiful 💗

[@82jawanda]

yes Praise God

[@HannaB_504]

This interview is beautiful and it shows the hurt she received from the past but her voice is still amazing. Reading people comments about her mouth twisting is pointless. Try to stay positive people, she just put herself under the microscope so dont judge.

[@yoshi1288]

Hanna Bee I said the same thing.... whatever has happened in her life is what alot of ppl go through on a daily basis. People fail to realize she's just as human as you and me. I loved this interview and I'm glad she's making new music.

[@HannaB_504]

@@yoshi1288 Facts, but of course the ones that are judging and shaming are not happy with themselves.

[@malcolmliljohn3807]

wasnt ready for all the emotions..i almost cried too but i thugged it out *hides kleenex*

[@saxopio6280]

True...

[@nantaylor9938]

Malcolm Lil John ☺️

[@zerogodno-higher1788]

LOLOLOLOL

[@komicboi1623]

Yep... box on E!! ...screaming thug life!!

[@veronicacravens1602]

Lol

[@itsDriasWay]

Nivea has a good heart. I pray that God strengthens her ; I can tell she's still battling with some hard times. Praying for her

[@ImJusM3eh]

Makes for hard times

[@ladykb9729]

Amen

[@brittanyday8820]

❤️

[@jesterchester8428]

She is on something the way she grinds her teeth.

[@richardmiiller1813]

@@jesterchester8428 OOOOO! IM SO GLAD U SAID IT! I NOTICED IT & REWINDED A COUPLE OF TIMES, I KNO THT BEHAVIOR BUT I WANTD TO GIVE HER THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT, SO I WENT SCROLLING THRU THE COMMENTS. SO YEA SHE DEFINITELY HIT HER A GUD LINE OR 2 B4 THIS INTERVIEW, & TBH ITS OK ADDICTION IS A DISEASE THT CONSTANTLY HAS TO B CHKD. so if she relapsed its not a big deal, happens to the best of us, so just dust it off & get it togethr. Im a huge fan Nivea & I always will be.💚

[@sassyintrovert]

One of the most raw documentaries that I've seen 💯

[@z1onnn]

Im a single parent of 3 boys, 42 years old and Im in my second semester of college. The way you talk about your children brings tears to my eyes. But tears of joy to realize its ok to not be a perfect mother

[@jasminepayne1895]

I love how she was just so honest. She made me tear up about her children though. 😰💗

[@lesmichele39]

She low key a legend I didn’t realize how many bangers she had

[@ilovemycamaro115]

Leslyn three

[@ONEANDONLY00777]

Facts!!!!

[@justinwalker2460]

Legend? Nah

[@cedrictillman1513]

wore that first album out #JE #dontmess

[@poeaugustin2907]

I thought the same thing

[@Lakechalakin]

BET.... please just turn the comments off. Regardless of what’s happened to her I’m glad to know she’s still alive and pushing . Plus she gave us a lot of bops and good music in the 2000s . Why does society always have to make something that’s positive so negative ?! ( anybody that’s really from the A remember her from Pastor Troys song “ Im Cold “. Classic Atlanta shit )

[@robertmorris7636]

Word bet b playing themselves this not black lives matter this stupid at the more I read the more I want go cry cuz I can't even help myself

[@vjpendleton7095]

This young woman make that Mama in me want to hug and hold her and tell her every thing is gonna be all right my daubhter...hold her til all the tears stop and everything becomes a rainbow...of love, strength and wisdom...and she is made whole....I love her with a healing lov...let there be light....

[@kbplus1]

East Oakland I agree if she was drunk or high which it appears to be! They should of waited a couple of hours! If she has had health issue then that should of been disclosed at the end...

[@02Nawal]

Jerm D she needs to get that child support from all her ghetto baby daddies

[@tas-life231]

the good suffer for the bad she has a good heart an men like that dump on her a move on

[@MONEY-zi8zb]

Growing up listening to Niveas music....I wouldve never thought she was this hood. Lmaoooo. But then again she said shes a true born Atlanta Georgian

[@tajthegreatone9326]

Damn I kinda feel sorry for her. Everybody is applauding her for putting her life on hold while she raised her kids by herself. However, you can tell that really ate her up inside cause the fathers are pratically worshipped and she isn't. 🙏

[@russison]

Her vocals in laundromat!!!Forever flawless singing...

[@diamondamongrocks]

Krazie B So true

[@chams_khl]

I totally agree this song is underrated

[@russison]

@@chams_khl I swear...smh

[@Adybooxo]

Laundromat will always be one of my faves❤️ She is a beautiful soul

[@otiswilliams9360]

I was there when shot that video on Fulton street in brooklyn

[@philiq18]

Kudos to her. Being a parent to one child takes tremendous energy, time and focus and she's doing that with four... that could never have been easy. 👏😏

[@solidlaw911]

Nivea is everything Fr. I can see why Dream and Wayne loved her so much. She’s a real one. A real woman. Amazing 🙏🏽

[@veronicasmith1933]

I totally AGREE ! And is it just me but does this gurl....when she was younger favors, London

[@musiclover-cn7tb]

@@veronicasmith1933 yes she looked like Lauren London .

[@shirelle5931]

She seems like a sweet person but very hurt and broken. BET could have put this together better with how they have her on the couch.

[@csmith31]

I agree with you @ shirelle fk

[@leslieabbott9695]

Yes that's a shame, she looks uncomfortable, they could've told her to close her legs

[@MalibuDollface]

I just love her & have since she’s hit the scene, this just shows that no matter what, you can do It! Go girl! 💗

[@Youvefoundmariah]

Malibu Dollface Love you and her

[@serenitykyla6306]

@Malibu Dollface Ditto! Nivea definitely has always been a go in my book 😍

[@Nasrumii]

Yesss

[@rekeya]

Hey Malibu Dollface!! ❤️😘

[@mscali1839]

Yes ❤

[@sergiogaudi5591]

Both Wayne and Dream are absent fathers but the blk community roll out the red carpet for both dead beats how sad

[@briseidaa1619]

Man :(

[@eskimoto4417]

lol so true

[@MrJreed1000]

Wayne yes. Dream not so much.. he seems to be a great dad....

[@eskimoto4417]

@@MrJreed1000 wayne had his own father issues birdman always has young kids around him that he makes millions off, jermaine dupri too always has young kids around him. yes im insinuating something

[@MrJreed1000]

@@eskimoto4417 I get the vibe from birdman... but not Jermaine dubri... I think hes just a business man who found out kid entertainment is huge business so he went with that ... all his artist were females and kids... easier to lead them I would say.. hes not the most impressive ...or masculine guy in the world... so kids and females would listen to him

[@CelestialGatez]

I love her INTEGRITY and owning her role as a hands-on mother. Kudos to you, Nivea! You're BEAUTIFUL, STRONG and I wish you much success and happiness!

[@charmaustin4881]

At the end of the day YOU DID IT THE RIGHT WAY!!! I hear the pain in your voice but at the end of it all your family is what matters not how famous you are. Go get that bag honey. I'm gone support you

[@ladonnalindsey1334]

I remember meeting you at the Gym when you were recording Laundromat in Chicago! R Kelly was playing ball in Maywood. And I was sitting in the stands. I was introduced to you, and we started talking about my Son. You told me that you loved his name! You was so real! We went back to the studio and you waved at me while you were as in the recording booth! I was a fan then and still a fan! You are so real! ♥️♥️

[@JaseekaRawr]

Awww, this is such a sweet comment & memory. More should upvote it so she sees it for sure! :D

[@dehjhunaeday5743]

LaDonna Lindsey i only knew one ladonna are you from out west and went to off the street club?

[@ladonnalindsey1334]

Dashynae Day Hey, yeah I’m from out West ♥️

[@LATheLyfe]

LaDonna Lindsey This is a beautiful memory.

[@jontaeward6000]

The love she has for her kids is so beautiful. I’m tearing up.

[@rareonyxx2095]

This WOMAN made me cry!!!! Love her✊🏿

[@ChanelleNovosey]

Its obvious she's going through something HOWEVER God works in mysterious ways! This could lead to her healing. Keeping her in my prayers 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Trust the process

[@RosasUtopia]

So True. My prayers for her also. ❤❤❤

[@lele19691]

Amen!!! 🙏🙏🙏❤

[@tracyblake3867]

Prayers up to God for sure.....

[@relaxchill5859]

Well said... Amen!!

[@koriribarsosio4174]

amen

[@iamzee96]

When deciding to have a baby, u see how the women sacrifice they whole life before the Fathers would & I understand why that made her feel as she did. She put her life on hold meanwhile her baby fathers didn’t & she STILL cheered them On when she could have been bitter but the thought of “ they didn’t ask to be here” kept her sane💕

[@jaycee941]

Blame society. Then women EXPECT a man to provide and take care of them. Just like how woman decide to stay home and get fat. I say lets both get out there and chase are dreams and screw what society says. Be a team and raise the family equally.

[@velasquezcarter2963]

Zanaya Vails yeh and that’s the issue. These sisters need to stop breeding with the same type of men 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@tlovemcgee]

@emon davenport thank u n well said👏👏👏👏

[@flyazzplayboy]

She basically told how her lack of discipline lead to her current situation... Someone needed to save Nivea from Nivea, but better believe she was doing what she liked.

[@kayjaeslay2461]

davenport She didn't sacrafice her life for just anyone, she sacraficed her life for her children. Unlike a lot of men, its hard for women to part from their children. When I was kid, my mother used to say that a mother is full time job, a mother's pay for that job is knowing she gave them unconditional love and knowing they will alright when comes time for them to her nest.

[@jwalker9803]

WE ARE STILL ROOTING FOR YOU QUEEN! Keep your head up mama!! Your time is no where near up & I can’t wait to see what you bless your children, the music, the culture & the whole world with next... #Nivea ♥️🎶 #WCE 👑

[@CiscoXavier1]

3:55 💀 the way she says “they was like booooo, they was throwing cups at me” 😆

[@markrobby7136]

To weep

[@SpuddySince86]

Being vulnerable, emotionally raw, open, and transparent is true strength. Thank you for sharing your story Nivea. It resonates. You’ll always have my support. 😌💎🌺💛 #SheARealOne #RealRecognizeRealAllDay

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Yes

[@jonate79]

That's what's up man happy to see her and hear her story while she still here to tell it

[@wbrandon7456]

YOU WILL GET ALL BLESSINGS THAT ARE MEANT for YOU NIVEA... YOUR TALENT WILL NEVER DIE....KEEP YOUR HEAD UP BABY GIRL!!!#

[@bevcoop6bc]

Nivea your a great mother, but also a talented woman and a lot of women look at your story and look up to you!!! You Rock and your time will come trust

[@ShawnBAGem]

This got so REAL and Raw towards the end.... You could tell those tears was coming from a real and honest place.... I wish Nivea all the best.... Cause she makes good music.... :-)

[@K_Kenya]

If you are a mom you totally understand what she is saying and cry with her YES because putting your dreams and life on hold to be a mommy is HARD!

[@heartinitaly]

My heart hurt because of that same reason. I don't have kids and could not imagine putting my life on hold so young.

[@karenbrown38]

Kenya Vernon yes I can agree I'm a single mother of 4 and it is very hard even when you put the child's father on child support and they pay whenever they want and you still have no help raising them...I cried with her when she talked about her dreams on hold to give her kids her everything because that was me also. I pray she continues to follow her dreams now...I'm praying for her and her kids.

[@JellyFace78]

Yes!! So relatable! I was over here in tears!

[@asianicole1845]

I am a school bus driver and I LOVE it, but, I had to retire to be a stay at home mom to my autistic son so I can so relate to having to put your babies first and that comes with sacrifices.

[@therealflamelit]

blah blah single mom blah..YOU DECIDED that for your life when YOU decided to have kids with a deadbeat

[@cindycordova1807]

awwww love her spirit. this made me cry . A REAL ONE FR !!!

[@irmafigueroa3734]

I’m obsessed with them🤩 she had me when she said that! She’s a queen... if she refined her self a little bit, she would take over the 🌍

[@tanishasmith3790]

She looks like a mix between Tierra Marie and Countess Vaughn

[@iblessyourname1313]

And raven samone

[@dominickaholness]

Yea she do tho... But she's sooo pretty... Not saying they are not

[@Wisdomkeyz562]

True. Definitely look like T

[@bruhtay3466]

Hell yeah

[@jojosmom8819]

Its funny u said that bc Wayne used to mess with Teairra also... Maybe saw some of Nivea in her too...

[@jadatyler7128]

I shed tears no Capp when she started talking about her kids . She sacrificed her career for love and for her family and for her babies I respect her so much .

[@jadatyler7128]

Mendy Peters I don’t care what you have to say .... you could have commented that or something else where

[@jadatyler7128]

Mendy Peters obviously. But your not getting the point your completely blind to what I’m saying .

[@elena199]

So genuine, a beautiful human being.

[@maishasway]

Girl you don't have to explain choosing your BABIES! Because of your sacrifice your children will know love like no other. We're waiting on you. LETS GO

[@Daydreamroses]

i hate that her dreams had to be put on the backburner because she had kids meanwhile these guys can have dozens of kids and it still not affect their career because they know they dont have to take care of them. i hope for the best because she has a beautiful and distinct voice!!

[@SPOKENWORDZ1970]

That's because women allow it people only do to you what you allow but God! She is about to blow their minds watch

[@staceyannchevalier8055]

She's not gonna give up that much I can say but God's gonna continue to bless her

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

THIS right here is why some people were saying what they were when Cardi got pregnant. They weren’t hating just going off of shit like this for a long time if you had a baby you could kiss your career bye...why y’all think chilli got that abortion when TLC was poppin cuz shit like this happened all the time.

[@DeliciousBeautii1]

Neo SoulZ Exactly!! I am like what is she talking about? We all have choices in life and you have to deal with the outcome of the choices that you make!

[@tellysmuse5069]

I agree this really sucks . Her kids are beautiful though but fathers could've helped .Come on now .

[@kinglongman9254]

Only 15 minutes,why?? She has a story to tell and we need to hear more...I'm def hear for sum new music....

[@bluzeta1984]

Yea she has earned a Unsung indeed. I still bump complicated. Such an underrated artist

[@jeanettelivesslots4470]

She broke my heart. She is a beautiful person. Man she got a beautiful voice. I hope she gets what she wants out of life.

[@JeanBean81]

This made me tear up a couple of times. You never know where life can take you. A beautiful soul she has; I wish the absolute best for Nivea and her children. 💛

[@sunnowg66]

Man y'all show Nivea some respect she on hear crying about her kids not no n****

[@toyatalksradio]

gerald fleming facts

[@tellymims2876]

Big facts

[@mscali1839]

Exactly

[@nitafaye4650]

gerald fleming WISH I COULD LIKE THIS COMMENT UNTIL MY FINGER NUMBED UP!!! ❤️❤️❤️ "her KIDS"!!!!

[@darshanwest3575]

Thank you your absolutely100% right

[@TheMissrealright]

I feel like...her comeback is going to be AMAZING! I wish her the best. P.S. I had NO CLUE she was singing on Mystical's "Danger" album. Oh, and next time y'all interview her, please have some decency and give the woman some tissue.

[@nikki5360]

Me either.. I was like damn thats Nivea

[@jasonxavier2030]

I peeped that! Tears rolling and she looking around for a person to give her tissues that never came!

[@misladybrilla]

Exactly! Give her tissue, and water!

[@melissamartin2876]

Me Either Shyt, And Was Just Listening To That Song Yesterday😄

[@Tammy2Tone]

I was just SHOOK myself when they revealed that was Her! 😲😯🤯