Biblical Insights On Sexual Intimacy In Marriage

Biblical Insights On Sexual Intimacy In Marriage
Sex is a gift to be enjoyed in the context of marriage. The devil does his best to push singles into sex before marriage and keep married people out of sex in marriage.
The Purpose of Sex
1. Procreation (Genesis 1v28)
2. Pleasure (Proverbs 5v18-19)
3. Protection (1 Corinthians 7v2)
4. Intimacy (Genesis 4v1)
5. Comfort (2 Samuel 12v24
Getting Practical:
1. Sex is the Superglue of Marriage. (1 Corinthians 6v16)
2. Sex is about Serving, not Selfishness. (1 Corinthians 7v3-4)
3. Understanding the Difference
A man is a fountain (always ready)
A woman is a well (needs to be drawn out)
“Sex doesn’t begin in the bedroom. It begins in the kitchen, or living room, or other places. Sex is not just an act. It’s a relationship.” Kevin Leman, Psychologist, Author of “Music Sheets”
4. Pursue Purity
Virginity is abstaining from sex before marriage, but purity is for life.
Lust, flirtation, emotional attachments, and addiction to porn will damage your sexual relationship with your spouse.
5. Deal with the Abuse.
If you have been abused, it can affect your ability to receive and give love. Be open about it; seek professional help.
6. Deliverance from Demons.
Chapters
0:00 - Introduction
0:55 - 5 Biblical purposes for sex
7:34 - Practical principles of sex
35:27 - What is NOT okay in a marriage bed?
40:40 - What is okay in marriage sex? Three questions you need to ask yourself
45:35 - Final thoughts
48:09 - Consider partnering with our ministry
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[@Cashmo90]

Sex is not carrying your cross, I believe you as a Christian should follow New Testament Jesus teachings because by the word you will be saved. This world doesn't know the truth, and the word is the truth. Christians should be humble and abstain, I think as a Pastor you are preaching a different word not New Testament

[@MelanieMartin-d8n]

@@Cashmo90 😭😭😭

[@alyzeiberries5597]

Sex is not God, Sex is not gross, it's a gift .. ..Me saying it as a rape survivor by God's grace🙌♥️ Enjoying it with my wonderful husband 🙌♥️ Thank you Daddy from above🙌♥️ King Yah I'm restored.

[@user-lo2pt6ez5k]

Hallelu-Yah 🤍🙏🏽

[@abigailharding8394]

I Thank FATHER GOD For Your Complete Healing From This Traumatic Experience Grateful You Have A Husband To Love And Care For You. No One Should Go Through This No One It Is Pure Evil. Blessings!!!

[@Casey_Bean17]

Congratulations. Praise the Lord!

[@MelanieMartin-d8n]

​@@abigailharding8394wow...✨✨✨

[@dreamiedips8624]

Wow your testimony gives me hope. 😊👍🏻❤ To God be all the glory. 🙌🏻✝️🕊🔥

[@ChildofGod98765]

Jesus give me strength. I’m trying to balance everything on my own, but Lord I feel like I’m failing miserably as a single mother. Both sons are special needs I’m so overwhelmed trying to support them on my own. I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children. Jesus guide me and give me strength. I have faith you will carry me through this difficult time.❤️

[@lewistaylor228]

May the Lord our Savior give you strength, guidance, and comfort you in your trials. Pray the blood of Jesus over your situation and that He shows you a clear and prosperous way. God bless you!

[@MaryMargaretteWhite-ek5tn]

Making “waiting until marriage” special and cool again👍

[@DanielaL702]

Amen, sex is definitely the super glue. I’ve been struggling with selfishness by not serving my husband well. Believe I might be getting attacked by demons, since I’ve been having nightmares.. This clip definitely convicted and encouraged me to change. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽🥲

[@user-bl2zy6hg6n]

1 Peter 3:7 Husband, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as HEIRS WITH YOU OF THE GRACIOUS GIFT OF LIFE.... indeed, sex is a gift from God❤

[@ALOYALLEO2815]

Sex is the super glue in marriage

[@ALOYALLEO2815]

1

[@MelanieMartin-d8n]

Absolutely....🛀🛀🛀

[@carlee2500]

Thank you for you indepth teaching! We need this type of talk and scriptural based learning of God's princples more often. This is never discussed to such an extent on the Sunday morning service. Many leading the church either shy away from it or glaze the surface. I commend you on the work you've done and are doing. This information is applicable to all of any religious background. Thank you for clearly presenting and bringing understanding to God's words regarding the marriage bed.

[@ToliveisChristPhilippians121]

Thanks for this, you guys! Important teaching! Been praying God teach us about such things recently! Amen! 👍👍👍☝️

[@anneb.3594]

Emotional purity is so important, loved that you guys mentioned that, thanks, blessings!

[@cams.2598]

What a great discussion from a biblical perspective! Thank you two for sharing this widsom. May God continue to bless your union and family!!

[@candiceturner8951]

Wow! This is an eye opener on both parts

[@lorraine3525]

Pure, Passionate, Pleasure & Protected

[@Ntale_]

This video taught me so much thank you ❤❤❤

[@kayaknuri]

Thank you Both of you are speaking truth.

[@BigGrammarOneWay]

Amen🙏🏽 I love it

[@andreamegec9836]

Dear pastor, blessings to you . Great video. Please, can you make a presentation about the ways, methods of contraception that are pleasing before God. This is very important, given that sometimes there are inclinations, such as illness, aging, the age difference of the spouses, or the decision not to want a child. Doctors also have their own opinion when you come to them for a check-up. That is why I ask you for some presentation, advice on acceptable ways to protect against pregnancy, and a healthy sexually intimate life for the rest of the spouse's life.

[@illflyawayohglory]

I feel a bit sad and lonely watching this, and today was already kind of a bad day for me. I don’t want to rush into a marriage just for intimacy or do anything else foolish, but I wish I could just shut down the hormones and desires and whatever until it’s no longer a sin for me to act on them. What good are they right now?

[@kopalaChristian]

I can relate 😢

[@ronellgerber777]

No pornography in or outside of marriage. Just a NO NO at all times. Could never understand why people would want to watch other people naked or having sex. Illness.

[@mihabukovsek8578]

Yes, illness. But illness of cuple. It happend when man is rejected from bedroom.

[@deepacharen4534]

🙏🏾💛☀️💛🙏🏾God bless us all

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Christ really wants he's children to be virgin until marriage but the devil wants to push me into sexual life before marriage

[@andreamegec9836]

Cherish yourself, as body of Christ, as daughter please be very careful, as you go in the sin, lust will destroy you and guy etc. Please pray and be strong, bold, awake. Live your youth acording to Bible, learn about yourself about Jesus, pray about future marriage, health wealth, learn something. Be careful, blessings🌻

[@michellefung9426]

This is TRUTH between a covenant married couple.

[@OnTheWord_InTheLord]

First off I want to thank you both for your walks with or Lord Jesus Christ. I’m soooooooo faaaar from needing this teaching.(I mean I’m 23)but I think God has called me to be as Paul.(no wife mean….obviously not an apostle) Either way,I know one thing is to be had from this teaching…..Purity of heart and selfishness between Partners.(and in my case potential partners) Also no adultery in physical or mental(thought)forms!!!!!!!!!!!

[@MMJ501]

Yes! That’s amazing!

[@Norkadalmasi5876]

Amen 🙌

[@abigailnelson6066]

I think 1 &2 are flipped. I think the pleasure comes first, and as a result of the pleasuring overflowing, we get children. First God, then your spouse. From your spouse and an outpouring of pleasure and love when two people join, Then children come forth as a fruit from the parents putting each other first.

[@ALOYALLEO2815]

Protection

[@edithruby7498]

God is always good

[@AdeelKhan-uu2pv]

Amen

[@yadiravee2766]

Yes

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I do need to be careful who l super glue with

[@mariadaniel148]

Ohio joining in.

[@shannonmims4024]

Sex is the super glue in marriage ❤

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Christ really wants me to flee from forncation

[@andreamegec9836]

Please make video presentation about natural birth control, which God aproves. We all have free will, but like in Bible says that is sin to man throw out semen outside the womb(woman). So what if that happens sudenly, during intercourse, is that husband in sin getting punished etc. There is so many questions about that theme,especially to new believeres. Thank you

[@oceaneel]

It was a sin in the Bible because the man didn’t want to continue his brother’s family line. He only wanted to have sex with his sister in law. This was disgusting in the sight of God. But it isn’t a sin if it happens in a normal context as in a couple doesn’t want babies and they use this as a method of birth control then it’s of course allowed.

[@BjaaHobbies]

It's interesting to know about this information, but if a woman has an irregular period she will likely be taken in randomly with every little mistakes so I go with @oceanneel's idea. But thanks for sharing the topic

[@ronellgerber777]

Purity is FIRST

[@gk3330]

Sex = sacred energy exchange

[@Splunks39-lk3ti]

38:47 *DOG*

[@ronellgerber777]

Agree. Lust is not sex.

[@Lacelynn.Tavares]

I have some important questions! My husband and I are trying to the best of our ability to live a Godly marriage and do what’s right. 1: is it okay to take sexual videos with your spouse or send pictures to them? Bc were allowed to adore each others bodies but is something like that considered a sin? 2: I have been dealing with sexual spouses since I was very young. All I remember is getting touched at 6 yrs old but I know other things have happened to me before that age that I just don’t remember. That caused a lot of sexual sin in my life and I’ve never been attacked by a sexual demon until I got married. I get attacked in my sleep and ik this is tmi but I will literally have sex in my dreams and feel myself finish in my sleep and it’s completely out of my control. It feels like something is taking a piece of my soul it literally leaves me so exhausted to the point of extreme fatigue and even nausea. But my desire is only for my husband and I’m not sinning sexually, to my knowledge so I’m not understanding why demons would have authority to do this to me? If anyone has some advise pls share

[@tiongekavina3397]

Mark 16:17, Luke 10:19, God has given you authority to cast out demons. Go on a three days of prayer and fasting and command it out.

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I like being single

[@superntrl1]

Kids are not kids anymore these days small children know everything they are not innocent, including the adolescents and the Christian parents are spoiling and encouraging these kind of things Shockingly true

[@mightyhyd20]

1

[@ApiseRudy]

Sex is not dirty sex is gift from God

[@DasMutterrecht]

The Cathars knew the truth

[@Mgtowfreedom]

sounds great in theory but I live in reality (what IS not what should be) so there goes your whole argument for biblical sexuality

[@houseofvdv]

Not really, you will just have to live with the consequences of that reality.

[@Mgtowfreedom]

@@houseofvdv The consequences of what ? Not being idiotic enough to put yourself in a position where you can loose EVERYTHING including your kids ! Or the consequences of false accusations ! Which ones are you referring to

[@tonystorcke]

I am Christian. After years of thinking about rhis issue, I would say leave rhe bible at the door and let rhe man and woman enjoy each other. God does not micromanage sex in the bedroom.

[@misaghkhosravi4541]

IM NOT ALLOWED TO MARRY , SO HAVE PEACE

[@ronellgerber777]

Denial of sex happens when one of the partners sleep around

[@andreamegec9836]

but it doesnt have to be for that, some people are sick, or have trouble emotionally etc, or are struggling with some things.

[@heathersnyder8789]

ED is a problem too

[@ronellgerber777]

Why on earth would someone want to bring in toys etc? Love one another should be enough.

[@flowermoon5912]

❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Sex is a gift from god!

[@jeremycarpenter5550]

If a wife with holds sex she is opening the door for an affair for her husband do you agree .

[@connecting3066]

No one is obliged to have sex with you, including your wife. It's extremely primitive and predatory to expect sex out of a person, especially a woman. And to even try and use your incompetence to attract your wife, to betray and cheat... says a lot about what sex means to you

[@Cashmo90]

Sex is not carrying your cross, I believe you as a Christian should follow New Testament Jesus teachings because by the word you will be saved. This world doesn't know the truth, and the word is the truth. Christians should be humble and abstain, I think as a Pastor you are preaching a different word not New Testament

[@nanaronhano337]

1 Corinthians 7

[@prestoncoie4134]

I wish God would remove my burning passion, so that I would not desire sex and fall into sexual temptation 😔

[@ronellgerber777]

Just don`t start at the stove...it might be still hot...

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Awawa

[@jeremycarpenter5550]

Are you married.

[@connecting3066]

No, women please don't ever let a man sleep with you when you don't want it. Never have sex FOR the other person. A person who loves and respects you, will never accept sleeping with you when you don't want it. Respect above all. Enough damaging notions that would only impact women negativley! If someone is rejecting intimacy with you, it is your fault. There is no such thing as "withholding" sex.

[@DanielaL702]

False

[@brendagal1273]

God does not kone what he is doing.

[@viannelejero7184]

What 🫠

[@MelanieMartin-d8n]

And remember, sex is god's gift for marriage, never to be ashamed of...period!🟣🟫🟣🟫🟫🟫

[@mariadaniel148]

Ohio joining in.