big changes

[@hedakom]

in regards to england and marrying your cousin, it's one of those things where just because it hasn't purposefully been made illegal doesn't mean it's a normal socially acceptable thing to do, we also consider it very weird 😂

[@chantellevanderwalt7720]

Cammie giving cute mom vibes with her look today

[@paigebruhn7390]

This is my favorite episode y’all have ever done. The vibes were great. I loved what Cammie was saying about realizing that our partners should be the first person we defend, etc. Made me feel less alone bc I’ve had that same thought process too! Loved the reflections and loved y’all’s energy here ❤

[@joeljanzen8121]

Congratulations on your 50th episode! I'm so happy for you and proud of you for growing this podcast :D

[@PenelopeStrong-r9g]

Loving the “big Changes” to the pod , look forward to seeing the final result!

[@stayinguppod]

we are sooo excited

[@TheMslove2]

Congratulations on Eppie 50! And the hope in both your eyes as y’all were talking about the group chat is so inspiring 🫶🏼🌈

[@cherylfedele6280]

Soooo happy for you on episode 50!!!Love you guys!! Happy Valentine’s Day ❤❤

[@stayinguppod]

can't believe it's been 50 eps!!!! love you!!!

[@skyylovespace]

*i love that you uploaded at 3 am EST* 🫶🏾

[@stayinguppod]

gooooood morning!!

[@DJMetzler337]

Right. I am like going through a panic attack and boom! New pod to calm me down in the middle of the Michigan night.

[@emrose3391]

Best thing to wake up to! So excited for all the upcoming changes!💕

[@sofiabessette7025]

im so excited for these changes - MERCH PLS

[@J_Themborn]

Ever watch Jessica Kellgren-Fozard? She covers a number of topics, from parenting as a two mom family, to having a disability, to LGBTQ figures in history and baking!

[@grndouwn7338]

wow 50th episode, that is a cool milestone

[@circleofleaves2676]

Cammie totally has heart eyes when she looks at Taryn

[@grndouwn7338]

obviously have to mention the two legends rose and rosie who had a podcast talking about their pregnancy

[@liakoch1220]

The outfits are giving Danny and Sandy - Did we know this going in?

[@jayweasley]

For me it’s j the concept of family……I have “cousins” who aren’t related to me, but I was raised w them being called cousins and so even tho they aren’t related to me they fall under the umbrella of family which puts them just by default outside of my prospects (I’m married so there’s no prospects lol) but to take that even further, my wife’s cousins r now my cousins, so even if they died or we broke up………that’s my family lol. But not everyone feels that? I guess?

[@jayweasley]

Also guys like I said I’m married so I’m not dating but if i was….its still a pandemic. I would still be concerned about getting Covid. Let’s not pretend it’s in the past 😭 not w all the anti vaxxers out and about!

[@giamaresca1179]

“my journey into gaydom” LMAOOO

[@Carriehammer718]

Journaling is also good if you have a bad memory. Make it into a book

[@dawnlowe9524]

Happy Valentines day to you both ❤🎉😊😊

[@Aquanaba]

On the subject of why incest is... not great... outside of procreation... There might be this subconscious idea that because this person is related they're "safe"/not going anywhere regardless of what struggles any normal relationship goes through because with family there is this built in connection that keeps you tied regardless. But no relationship is truly impervious (let alone what a gay/going through a divorce relationship inherently Messy thing this would be.) If a relationship formed, it would be subject to the same stakes ANY romantic relationship is, including losing that person forever. And if you think not, WHY not? Two family members may also have grown up with one being an authority figure over the other and there's also all the baggage that goes with that being a formative aspect of the relationship. One person having been In Charge of the other from a young age. There's an inherent power dynamic built in there that isn't healthy. (This doesn't exactly apply to the person asking as they weren't raised together, but generally speaking.) Sort of in line with what Cammie said-- why this person, as opposed to someone outside your family unit? Why can you not relate to anyone else on that same level? We can experience deep love and appreciation that is platonic, not romantic/sexual, but it can definitely be possible appreciation for something on a different level. Conflating those feelings with a family member is something kids do, because that is who they're around the most and they don't have wider context for their strong feelings. There genuinely should be A Lot of people in the world who you can relate to, even at high levels. Do you have any deep/long standing platonic relationships that feel safe/secure the way a close family member does? Or is that actually a social skill that needs developed? Why this married person with a built in taboo? Is it possible there's an element of not wanting to pursue something with a real chance, because that protects you, in some ways from the pain of trying with someone who might have a more reasonable chance of reciprocating? I'm sure there's a couple of cousins out there who can answer all of this, but all of that is just... stuff to unpack.

[@DJMetzler337]

It’s the year of the dragon, so happy dragon baby. LOL.

[@stayinguppod]

let's go dragon baby!!!

[@FarynCowley]

also this is the year of the dragon

[@gioiamusc]

Taryn try the artits's way to get back into journaliing!! it was such a game changer for me

[@polinavyakhireva9962]

Happy Valentine's Day!!!

[@stayinguppod]

happy valentines day! ❤❤❤

[@nataliaparias9208]

50!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Pitabread-vj8ms]

It’s Rina Lipa fasho

[@FarynCowley]

in CALIFORNIA yall dont know what seasons are

[@TheStovernation]

Great Epi !!!

[@jaeligonzalez]

Did you guys know that there was a shooting at the KC chiefs Super Bowl parade?? I was there! So if you guys can give a shoutout to the chiefs kingdom

[@mayodowd9807]

Look...she stole a base...should of been the title of this episode lmao

[@rruysch]

There are a lot of people who experience Genetic Sexual Attraction In Adoption Reunion Relationships. There's no scientific theory behind it but a lot of anicdotal evidence of people who are related but didn't grow up together forming a sexual attraction to the relation they meet. Sounds like it could be something like that honestly. Our brains do not always act logically and often take short cuts. Our feelings are not always right or valid for us.

[@Rikki.64]

Yes, her sis is Rina

[@skyylovespace]

*i don’t care if it’s your first, second, third cousin… having a romantic or sexual relationship with them is weird* 😅

[@skyylovespace]

💗💗💗

[@stephlang4272]

Commie My idol❤❤❤

[@Carriehammer718]

Come back to nyc

[@DungNguyen-nm8zx]

What do you think of a LGBTQ+ version of The Kardashians?

[@permatired_]

Pod looking fresh today. Nice job. Can tell Cams not on her period today #allwhite

[@CammieScott]

hahahaha!

[@Carriehammer718]

Oh I thought you quit drinking

[@adrianaavila5672]

How old is Tarynm she looks aging, with all respect.

[@kristenr2853]

Jog on

[@TillyRain]

Congratualations on your 50th episode. You guys are great :) What's Taryns .D.O.B., please? I know Cammies. Cammie is exactly three years older than me.