BIG GUY ON his marriage and public divorce

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[@lebom2456]

I never opened up myself to like Promise simply by association ... die hard Ninja here 🙋🏽‍♀️🙃. BUT I must say, this was classy and tasteful 👌🏽... no bashing no retaliation, simply mature and unbiased. Well done Promise! And well done to Big Guy too. I used to love Big and Owamie when they were together 🥺💔. Was definitely heart broken when yhey broke up. Hopefully one day they can have the conversation/closure they both deserve ❤️🫂

[@nokuzolantanga3349]

Something O should have done, tell her story in a respectfull manner. I really wish she never stood so low especially with this man's family. Hope she heals and move on bcoz BG sounds he's in a better place.

[@yangankenkana5034]

@@nokuzolantanga3349 but remember the time was short here ,the issue of divorse delays that provoked owami ,bg was not asked about talking about owam in his family ...according to tis video its as if owam suggested divorse and big guy accepted on the get go simple like that bcz of time i gues .to be honest owam was a bit better at first but divorse delays and allegation of GG family cz a problem .but here BG didnt touch that .

[@tibuCooks]

I totally agree with you.

[@monicadhlamini2019]

Big Guy is maturing, this interview was way better than the one conducted by Lynn earlier in 2022.They must now do us a favor, call it a day and stop fighting.

[@LieslJames]

She doesn't deserve that conversation

[@Isabella_Bella601]

Not being sexual active at the age of 21 should not be seen/labeled as "late bloomer".

[@Mbalings]

We have normalized teenage sexual activity

[@mafadimakatsosurprise5182]

Social constructs are bad😂

[@Isabella_Bella601]

@@mafadimakatsosurprise5182 Very bad. We end up normalizing things that should actually be prevented.

[@lungilezungu9843]

100% Agree

[@unathimvambi4088]

Owami is a bully

[@CoachThirdhope]

This guy reminds me of someone I once dated, if he comes out in public you would swear he is an angel, cheating is cheating full stop.

[@Vv-fl2rm]

The voice note speaks for itself. That’s the personality / character he was married too. 🤮imagine that for the rest of your life.

[@mirriamthenjiswa4916]

She is out of that relationship now she is with son of jesus let's see what is gonna heppend course man cheat shym

[@Yassmiinn.]

@@Vv-fl2rm LOL

[@sayursaytv290]

Tsege

[@sybillamula]

Periodt!

[@abigailtakobana2950]

The comments are killing me😂😂, the humble respectful guys in public platforms will always show you fire in private, don't be deceived 😅

[@mazwideamahle4091]

Like the women who pretend to be angels in public, buy low-key spiteful and devils in real life.

[@mabathomosekeli]

They're so deceived my dear. No man will come out and make noise, they are always so humble in public but are monsters behind closed doors. And they are liers! I don't believe this guy!

[@hildainziani7147]

😂😂😂😂😂😂fact

[@pamellayantolo3797]

This is really sad how their marriage got dissolved. I've learned that do not publicize your relationship. 2. Don't publicly bad mouth your ex no matter how things get ugly, just move on in peace.

[@joshuambemba5509]

People think my husband is a very nice quiet guy because that's how he acts around them they don't know the real person, only those one who are very very close to us or stayed in my house that knows him , what im trying to say don't judge a book by it's cover

[@Anonymous-td9iv]

💯

[@sims_sibeko]

We are not taking anything away from you ne, but the problem is we tend to paint all guys with the same brush because it's so hard for us to admit when a woman is actually wrong. I personally know this man because he was my teacher and he's not narcissistic he's very kind and soft hence his ex saw that as stupidity, he used to share what was happening in his marriage with my brother and show him Whatsapp conversations btwn him and his wife.... There are man who wear masks but each and every person be it a woman or man, deserves the benefit of the doubt.

[@Welhy.Modiba]

What does your husband do?🥹

[@hildainziani7147]

​@sims_sibeko, you must be a single lady,looking for a husband .you don't know anything about these quiet men yet.

[@TheeMsutu]

Guys let’s get one thing straight- Owamie did acknowledge and still does acknowledge that BG took care of her when she was depressed, her sister when she was pregnant and gave birth and Ray. She also acknowledges that BG helped her start her channel, let’s not act like she didn’t talk about those things🙂. These two people have both said horrible things about each other on the internet BG is no saint- he said Owamie is dirty, ugly, did an abo**tion etc Big guy called Owamie a b**tch and an ugly bi**ch via text while they were still going through the divorce and now Le Owamie has sweared at Big Guy via the voice note which came out. Y’all are here on the comments section making Big guy this sweet and humble saint, naye he’s not innocent the only difference is that he is soft spoken.

[@mbalifisher]

Exactly. Most abusers behave like big guy; soft spoken, "sound intelligent", etc

[@moe_ramz]

Amen these people forget because owamie is loud.

[@yangankenkana5034]

and we must remember at first it was not bad up until divorce delays and allegation of gossip around free state. ... if we say BG is nice why he vented to someone who hate owami cz he should have better platforms.

[@kgotatsothobejane6761]

Someone said it 🙌

[@TheeMsutu]

@@yangankenkana5034exactly, Owamie started getting frustrated after the divorce delay which was caused by BG himself. BG is no saint shame

[@baobabcontent77]

The biggest mistake is judging someone by his/her demeanor. You all will fall for the mask. Start paying attention to people's actions. The man went outside and cheated on his wife. That alone should tell you the character he is. No amount of intelligence, calmness and explanation can exonerated you from those actions.

[@jerushatogba1969]

The explanation is not there or being made to exonerate himself , rather to shed a more holistic view of a story to eliminate any bias narrative.Cheating is undoubtedly unforgivable , but what he’s sharing sheds light for other woman as to why their husbands cheat.Very informative, and he does have equal right to share he’s story even if he’s the wrong doer.

[@iambloopy]

@@jerushatogba1969you can never trust a liar and cheater. If they’ve manipulated their way through relationships, you will never hear the real truth.

[@andolinesibanda6664]

The other big mistake is judging someone by their gender. Believing what they say because they are a woman and trying not to believe what the other says because they are a man. A lot of women use that because they can see that its easy to gather sympathy out there and they use it for manipulative reasons.

[@thabangtlou9343]

mukadzi anoda guhwa uyu plus kurwisanisa. tsek wake

[@evankimngomezulu7664]

true, he could even shed tears to gain sympathy. and as a woman i can tell owamie told the world probably 60% of the problems she had. let her loose one day you will hear mehlolo

[@Updated_]

I have dealt with a narcissist who was as calm and respectful to the public 🥺 The fact that he feels the need to paint a scenario before answering a question is a red flag. People keep saying he never insulted Owani but if you listen carefully, you will realise he insulted Owami from the onset 😂😂😂😂😂 Anyway 🤧🤧🤧

[@azanianbantu]

Why? Cause he wants to live in a clean place?

[@no_prisoners6474]

Owamie is a narcissist of note ke

[@nae1487]

He kept throwing jabs,this guy is not a domkop at all.

[@lindal3841]

He never really gave a straight answer hey

[@goitsemangpearltshoane3324]

But how many times did we hear about him😮

[@neomohlamonyane7934]

No excuse for cheating but Owami broke this man’s dignity 😢💔

[@iconfess7486]

I’m not a prophet but i know dazzling diamonds and Nunjus are camping here😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@zena3413]

1.9k 🤣

[@modishimaapea2580]

We are here😂

[@proudlysa774]

😂😂😂 Go deeper

[@bongiwemasina5389]

Sinje

[@thusimphahlele5085]

Then you are a prophet 😂😂

[@moe_ramz]

We literally saw owamie go for hiv tests because she feared she could have contracted it through your cheating. This man is not being honest about the cheating part. You’re a humble speaker, owamie is loud and outspoken. People will definitely believe you over her. Narcissistic tendencies.

[@ayandasam2269]

But Owamie said also it was messages and he also said it was messages... She went for the test just in case it wasn't.

[@Yassmiinn.]

@@ayandasam2269 LOL!

[@Backroom_living]

@@Yassmiinn.felt this LOL😂😂😂😂

[@Prism446]

But with a qualification in Computer science you would have grown big during covid coz the online space was booming .Owami is very innovative so sticking around an easy going person would be frustrating for her .Look at how she can stick around & do videos all day .That's a hard worker who would need a man who does double what she does for her to feel she has a man .

[@ginarachel2996]

Yeah neh.. narcissistic tactics 😮 mxii

[@leratomichelle9363]

Imagine people saying Owamie is stupid for leaving a guy who used to sleep with kids(allegedly)😩😩😩we lack self love as basadi mahn😢😢cheating ke cheating

[@ayandasam2269]

Owamie never said he slept with kids though.

[@naledindlovu976]

He had intentions to

[@nothandomyeni1359]

He was flirting on Facebook. Listen to understand.

[@Vv-fl2rm]

Imagine people thinking it’s ok for a woman to compare her husband to other men and be verbally abusive and he must stay focus on her and not cheat 😂 yol are crazy and think women are angels. Far from it dear.

[@marykhumalo8394]

Still wont reveal the age of the person he is with

[@ModernMom102]

Guys Owamie has always speaking highly of Big guy, when it comes taking care of her and her siblings

[@Zine_Ngcobo]

Now ikhohliwe🤣😂

[@andilengubane5178]

Yes they we’re good together, and it was good whilst it lasted divorce evokes different emotions to different people… I hope healing will prevail for both parties.

[@TheeMsutu]

@@andilengubane5178no don’t act like she wasn’t even acknowledging it after the divorce coz she was and still is acknowledging how BG helped her and her siblings even with starting her channel.

[@andilengubane5178]

@@TheeMsutu how am I acting? I’m also agreeing to that statement they were good to each other but unfortunately it ended.

[@mrsx2596]

Yes she did, Owami gave him his props always.

[@andilemthembu8674]

The same red flags you see early on in a relationship, are the same red flags that will make you leave the relationship.

[@becomingwz]

This is the gospel truth!!!

[@nomvelisobovu8255]

This guy is sitting on a goldmine career. Like he can be a data analyst and there're in demand. I hope he realises that.

[@nomvelisobovu8255]

@@ronellecandice1536 he can also try coding and cyber security

[@justvee871]

He wouldn't make it as a Data Analyst, you need good communication skills and be very articulate, he's lacking that. The guy was just book smart that's how he got the degree. To make it on the real world you need to be intelligent. There's a difference between academically smart and intelligence.

[@nomvelisobovu8255]

@@justvee871 my brother is a data analyst at Stellenbosch University and he is not a good speaker. Please don't be negative he is intelligent that's it not siyoyo you were told he is.

[@justvee871]

@@nomvelisobovu8255 Your brother definitely got that job through bribes or was put in by someone he knows or to fill up BEE quota. You need to be very articulate as a Data Analyst, you need to do presentations in front of the executives and other stake holders. This dude doesn't even know the difference between woman and women 🤣🤣

[@mphohappiness1736]

This is how you tell a story. No insult, no name calling, no swearing of families and no revealing secrets shared in private

[@user-iq8em5nb3j]

No revealing of families health statuses, coz that one is thee most disgusting thing from her mouth.

[@ptalord5198]

gentleman

[@mbalifisher]

Lol vele if you are the culprit, you will play nice duh?! You guys are so stupid

[@PinkietheBosslady]

Akere.....well reserved

[@Mhizzy88]

Well said.

[@Nonkosi_M778]

I resigned at work so just I can watch this interview😂

[@thatobaloyi6194]

I took leave 😂

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

😂😂😂

[@sinazomakileni3938]

Amanga😂😂😂

[@letsiribaatseba4887]

Me too🤣🤣

[@masentlentholeng4524]

😂😂

[@Thandi899]

Owami is angry because of what Big Guy did to her. But here is Big Guy talking about how she divorced him because she caught him flirting on FB. I stand to be corrected, but that cannot be the whole story. All I see is a manipulator and someone good at playing the victim like Owami said. And as for the finances, is she not the one who gave him her bank card so he would feel like a man? Fear men.

[@kingl794]

Yhoo I know Big guys type.

[@mazwideamahle4091]

Kanti Nina don't you listen to understand when you watch owamie as ninjas.....this guy only reiterated what she has always said in her videos....don't follow her anymore , but heared this many times from when I was still a viewer.

[@Thandi899]

@@kingl794 He took no accountability at all, the hurt by a cheating spouse impacts one gravely. Yet see how everyone is now singing his praises? The type that will burn you alive then help your family look for you.

[@ayandasam2269]

But that's what Owamie said she left cause he cheated via FB messages. U ninjas don't listen to your own Ninja hey.

[@khanyingosi9229]

Owami is bitter, so happy for the big guy,all the best bro ❤

[@ketie_]

Speak your truth Big guy Speak your truth… Owami has dragged you a lot n did we have to all know that you lost your job?? NO … but ofcource she had to tell us to embarrass you and bring you down🚮

[@youandi9244]

Cheating breaks relationships, marriages, families. I wish it is not taken so lightly.

[@maloasevilakazi3853]

Yes that's why she chose to leave BG and we applaud her for her bravery and choosing her but question is why is she clinging on him like this, why is she working so hard to hurt and try to turn everyone one against this guy. Why is she casting stones as if never made mistakes that she is not proud of? Huuuuu ai it's boring

[@julietkaunda9600]

Why did she leave vele coz she said there were in an open marriage?

[@maloasevilakazi3853]

@@julietkaunda9600 monies and it's okay but only if she can gladly admit this hore guy was no longer meeting her financial status and standards

[@Yassmiinn.]

@@julietkaunda9600 she asked for an open marriage AFTER he cheated, just to spite him.

[@julietkaunda9600]

@@Yassmiinn. Thanks for the clarity.I missed that part

[@TheeMsutu]

Will men ever take accountability mara? Basically it’s Owamie’s fault that he cheated? Wow

[@moiponemotaung2719]

It's annoying

[@patienceikombele9161]

Never,

[@SIBABALWEBAYISA-vy5wh]

Imagine! 😂😂

[@timesup4454]

Imagine 😢

[@nondumisomhlongo]

The story of Big Guy taking care of Owamie and siblings will forever be heartwarming (and I love how Owamie also told the story). Things were once great between them.

[@maiterapetsoa9044]

True❤ And she did mention a lot of good things about Big Guy.

[@zandilezabengunigumede3069]

oh yes She did mention and she was greatful

[@mrorsenthesopranotraveller]

And this comment is important- she spoke of many good things about this man.

[@no_prisoners6474]

I think he's a decent humble guy. Not so much that it was between them

[@LethoHali]

Neh?

[@tatsohrams]

😂😂😂😂😂 all I’m missing is Owamie’s laugh 😂😂😂😂

[@sanabanda2151]

I am glad he managed to tell his side of the story👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@everydaythings2819]

Of cause

[@BlackRose-rk7zs]

I’m not a fan of Owamie shame but I do feel sorry for her. Just from a woman’s point of view. Also I find it grossly distasteful for other women to use her story for views , gains and to make themselves appear better. I know what divorce does to people and even though I am aware of some of what she’s shared on her platform; divorce shakes the very core of your spirit. For me it’s just sad , sad for both, sad for all. Sad sad & I hope everyone involved finds healing.

[@julietakanyang6635]

Well said, That's the truth, this Promise lady using owamie for views and people don't see it. she is also, fighting Owamie passively. She has a vanadate against her. Pliz note, im not owamie fan but I can see what promise is doing

[@everydaythings2819]

It's only sad bcz it doesn't fit the narrative that owamie was pushing all along, now you're hurt just bcz the big is here telling his side, bcz women can never be wrong and it's always a men's fault

[@yongamamakehleni4826]

I MEAN.....They're all using him to get to and at her....Funny how women think they "CARE" about "his" side of the story....COME ON!

[@julietakanyang6635]

@@everydaythings2819 No no women can be wrong, we all know that. Is ok for Big guy to tell us his side of story, we appreciate that. Nd I commend him for not being messy and being a gentleman. He even refused to answer some petty questions. My problem is with the interviewer, she has a hidden agenda, Questions like " She didn't bath, just applied the make up? How much was she making in a month? , so her mother was a helper, etc." Even A blind person can see where interest is highly invested

[@sjuly5178]

Owamie has hurt people too for views, many people. she was a whole bully even musa khawula is better. She is little better now

[@noziphokhumalo2963]

Emotional cheating is also a deal breaker, though. There were definitely a lot of underlying issues in this marriage, but cheating is cheating.

[@everydaythings2819]

I guess that's only applies to men bcz when it's a lady 100% of the time we're reminded that it's your body your choice

[@jabulilenkambule4166]

I now understand why they say there are 2 sides to a story, such a humble guy. But, I have learned also that men take pride in being respected through acts of service.

[@Yassmiinn.]

3 sides actually, but ok

[@madeinafrique2849]

I actually like Big Guy, he seem like a nice person … too bad they didnt work out.

[@lebolenepa8266]

They loved each other, but unfortunately Big guy betrayed her. He probably wanted to explore since she was his 1st. I think it’s time for Owami to move on. This relationship is holding her back and Big guy has moved on.

[@Yassmiinn.]

💯

[@katlin1615]

shap, a man will cheat on you for no reason.. now imagine when you disrespect and belittle him, outside is where he is going.

[@NsikeSibisi]

I understand that waiting for marriage is considered good for various reasons. Kodwa sometimes it can be dangerous, it’s important to explore (safely & within reason) when you are younger ngoba once you get into marriage the demon will test you, now you want to live your youth inside your marriage. Jola uzifunde before ushade contradictory advice but it is what it is.

[@zandilesibanda5588]

Just from listening to that audio clip. I just can’t imagine how BG managed all these years

[@dasiwemodipane]

Im happy how promise was not talking bad about owamie she was even on her side yet owamie is talking trash abt her❤if Lyn was the one entervieweng him yooh i don't even want to say it🤦well done promise ❤

[@ayandasam2269]

That's why I said yesterday she should have waited for the interview to drop before shading Promise.

[@dasiwemodipane]

Exactly

[@nondumisomhlongo]

Promise wants to reinforce that no woman can leave coz of cheating, so she’s stamping gore Owamie left coz of finances 😂. Oh well.

[@happiness_moth9295]

😆 🤣 😂 😹 to be honest, this guy wanna look good but deep down we all know that the re 99% chances that he would remind his ex wife about her being unable to give him a child and taking the sister's child was his way to try to prove something that I don't wanna state.

[@ayandasam2269]

@@happiness_moth9295 assumptions, but Owamie never said that. That will be something she would have said.

[@ptalord5198]

women never leave due to cheating. trust me. ain't no women gonna leave a man with a good income. most women know men chow ngaphandle. hell most women want them to eat outside sometimes if the man is very horny

[@happiness_moth9295]

@ptalord5198 aowa mara Lord. They do leave. What if they had other issues apart, cheating and finances. That made her consider leaving

[@Yassmiinn.]

@@ptalord5198 you're not making sense.

[@lethabotlomatsana3279]

So this whole interview was centered around Owami 😂😂😂😂 aowa lenang Owami is powerful bolelang nnete

[@user-uj4jf1ii6w]

The blogger they blog about indeed 😂😂😂

[@modiegimatlebyane6996]

As we wait for Owami to get baby mama s to talk......... This won't be the end.

[@katlin1615]

eya aker we needed his side of the story.. kante???

[@NsikeSibisi]

He’s telling his side of the story about his marriage with Owamie 🙄

[@pointa2b388]

I want to believe him, something does not add up. I will wait for Owami's proof

[@SIBABALWEBAYISA-vy5wh]

Eh! Even though I hope she doesn’t respond, I hope she brings it if she does.

[@bakerstransport959]

"There she was wearing a white dress" 😭 Big guy & Owamie hurt each other yazi

[@maneo_tso9201]

They did love each other Shem, it’s the hurt 😢

[@tshikejanematlala5292]

Eish,it's so painful

[@pasekamakgwale4069]

So just because of the guy is calm and soft spoken y'all think hes a good person weeeee

[@user-uj4jf1ii6w]

I mean ❤🤔🥴🙄😂

[@user-uj4jf1ii6w]

South Africans are dumb even ANC knows don't be surprised if they win outright next year cos wow 😂😂😂

[@mbalifisher]

Imagine!!

[@pasekamakgwale4069]

@@user-uj4jf1ii6w 😂😂😂south africa

[@pasekamakgwale4069]

@@mbalifisher 😂😂😂😂

[@sithabilekhomo5364]

Big guy is genuine, rare to find, nobody is perfect, Miss O will never ever! find someone as genuine as him in life. Image after all the bashing from Ex wife he still speaks positive, non bashing, ukhuliswe kahle lo bhuti. He was Gold pure gold husband, she passed by engaboni I golide u Miss O.

[@no_prisoners6474]

100

[@thebaddie391]

Blessings come from God, we can't decide what will happen to Owamie's future. Can can still bless her, as evil as she can be naye lowo Owamie

[@user-iq8em5nb3j]

Lol after speaking that way about a mans private part, she's about to experience dryness for the longest time. Men are very sensitive about their manhood, which man will risk showing it to Owamie lol

[@mbalifisher]

So a cheater can also be a genuine man?! Njani?

[@Thuli_Kumalo]

The guy cheated🤭

[@tibuCooks]

Owami once mentioned he was book smart and he got straight As....he just wasn't street smart

[@nondumisomhlongo]

Yes we even know his qualifications. Promise keeps trying to act like Owamie never mentioned all these great things about Big Guy.

[@sinehope_]

It convenient for "us" to forget all that. "We" have forgotten that Owamie till this day credits Big guy for her success

[@no_prisoners6474]

Yes. He wasn't street smart and that's what made him husband material. He's a good human. Yena she's street smart I guess but here she is having to rely on views to rent a place to stay

[@Zamashenge35]

You need many types of smart to navigate in life. What he lacks in street smarts he more than makes up for it with his emotional intelligence.

[@mbt9820mpp]

Not everyone is street smart. We wouldn’t be having so many graduates sitting at home doing NOTHING. Being street smart and hustling is an art. It’s not for everyone. Certainly not for the unemployed millions who are sitting at home now.

[@tshepimatlala8381]

I love how Promise conducted this interview, not disrespecting the other party. 😊

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

What did she do to Owamie? Are they close?

[@tshepimatlala8381]

I still don't know why they are beefing

[@thebaddie391]

Promise was sarcastic and condescending to Owamie. If you missed that part its ok

[@ayandasam2269]

@@hlengiweyourstruly viewers made Owamie and Promise to fight for no reason... Promise said women with no kids cannot give her advise about raising kids, am just paraphrasing. Then people tagged Owamie for what only they know, then as always Owamie did a video.

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

@@ayandasam2269 thank you, I'm not on tik tok so I didn't know how it started

[@maiterapetsoa9044]

But Owami did mention that Big Guy took care of her siblings the time she wasn't getting an income bathong!

[@nondumisomhlongo]

Even now she mentions it, even when she’s bashing BG but she’s forever appreciative of that time between them.

[@thulisindane9989]

​@@nondumisomhlongoExactly! Like people don't like women who stand against cheating. They're basically bashing Owamie for leaving a man that cheated! Who does that?😢 Some women tho'!

[@nondumisomhlongo]

I don’t have a problem with BG telling his story, I just wish he was telling it in his own platform so he can monetise his content since now everyone fighting Owamie uses him to promote themselves and he’s not gaining anything from it.

[@modishimaapea2580]

This!

[@lindagwe1680]

Love this comment, His still slow for a big man that he is tho be used by these 2 ladies to fight owamie... If he want to tell he's side of the story he should be doing on his platform

[@tatsohrams]

Same

[@ModernMom102]

I feel the same way

[@ModernMom102]

​@@lindagwe1680he is really being used

[@biyelwetrading1215]

This interview was very wholesome and respectful. BG is a well articulated person. It is very important for us to know that in relationships there are always two sides to a story. It was good to hear "this" side of the story. BG admitted to his faults which was good to hear. As wives we also need to reflect on ourselves on the way we address/treat our husband's. No hate just a mature conversation. ❤

[@user-db3ty9bj9u]

Really we women are turned to tigers with these big salaries. Even me when I got big salary, I started to misbehave. I have been married for 17 years. May God help us women. This thing women working is destroying many homes and families.

[@simphiwer8970]

The platform must be given to Big Guy to also respond and defend himself concerning the divorce

[@noziphokhumalo2963]

👏👏👏👏👏he deserves to have to his say as well.

[@doobsie8944]

Mina I respect him for not doing that big up to him

[@everydaythings2819]

Exactly

[@tshiditjia7703]

​@@noziphokhumalo2963true

[@temm_nm]

HE CHEATED BECAUSE HE DIDN'T WANT TO HELP WITH THE HOUSE CHORES.... WEEEEEEE AMADODA!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ronewakhomola2386]

😂😂Thats crazy, he just wanted to sit around and do nothing weee.

[@mbt9820mpp]

No. He cheated because he was washing her panties.

[@sisg.official]

No. He cheated because he was tired and done

[@Yassmiinn.]

@@sisg.official he should've just left

[@sisg.official]

@@Yassmiinn. right. He should have left

[@amukelanimaswanganyi4838]

One thing about parents...They always know when a partner is not right for you..The voicenote broke me yoooh..My heart sank for Big boy

[@mazwideamahle4091]

Look at Senzo's mom.

[@ayandasam2269]

Even with friends when parents say no I don't like this friend of yours better listen.

[@Yassmiinn.]

@@ayandasam2269 asoze shame

[@chwayitamaki7127]

Guys what was in the voicenote?😂

[@blessingnickiwe4454]

Guys just because this guy is calm and well articulated doesn’t make anything that Owamie went through less true. Let’s not forget that you can not tell that someone is an abuser by just looking at them.

[@mirriamthenjiswa4916]

Abuser he is far from that.....owami do things with anger and now she release she lost a man.....the fact that she wanted her baby sister to have abortion its says a lot about owami

[@yourgirrlll9975]

His not an abuser .. Owamie claimed he was a cheater , liar and pathetic (loser isibhanxa) .. This man is not an abuser sungxoka ..🙄🙄 Let the man tell his side and this has nothing to do with abuse …

[@andolinesibanda6664]

Remember the intention of many women is not to believe the guy's side of the story. You never questioned Owamie's demeanor when listening to here side. You believed her but a man mustnt be believed.

[@blessingnickiwe4454]

Also why is it that This Man is went on to grant interviews with people that Owamie has a problem with?, that’s a Classic narcissistic behavior. Lying, cheating on someone is also a form of emotional abuse. I also don’t understand why people keep telling Owamie to move on and to stop talking about this. This is HER story,Her Journey….What gives you people the right to tell her how or when to tell her story?!. I don’t have a problem with the fact that this guy told his side of the story fine good for him. My issue is that why did he decide to tell his story on a platform of people who have problems with Owamie?!.

[@mirriamthenjiswa4916]

@@blessingnickiwe4454 kodwa we forget uba u owami she sad that yena can lie and really lie so everything thing nje doesn't make sense ngoba yena can lie so why not believe the guy ngoba yena nje she can lie she make a video saying that but thina we believe in her haybo Kodwa jeso lomntu she look at us and say I can lie really now do we have to follow ixoki in the name of love okanye nathi singamaxoki

[@sisg.official]

My notification is on 😂. Owamie is not sleeping tonight for sure 😮

[@dikolizaskk5847]

She is watching I wish she can comment

[@proudlysa774]

Brace yourself for 20 videos after this. Saze savelelwa 😂😂😂😂

[@thepriestess5969]

​@@proudlysa774😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@proudlysa774]

@@thepriestess5969 I didn't tell fibs 😂😂😂 How many videos after BG's interview 😂😂😂

[@thepriestess5969]

@@proudlysa774 say no more 🙈🤣😂

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

Big guy and Owamie taught me never to badmouth my ex so I can move on and never revisit my past. The way they go back and forth you'd swear they have a child together, even us with kids get to a stage of finding common ground. I'm happy big guy can vent, but I hope that after this Owamie won't find something new to get him for. Owamie let him finish this because you started it, you've had your shine and moment to character assassinate him.

[@LightHouse31073]

The petiness of that girl will not let it rest.

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

@@LightHouse31073 yazin

[@Olcool]

This is the think i told my self a long time ago.

[@nomsatorcida9612]

I think the biggest problem of their ex marriage was the foundation. They didn't take the time to know each other before they rushed to get married. They both wanted different life styles which was a major contributing factor to the demise of their marriage.

[@Yassmiinn.]

They married after many years of staying together though... The Lobola was paid in 2018

[@ptalord5198]

No. she was greedy

[@nomsatorcida9612]

Big guy said he was ready to have somebody in life and prayed about it, and the next day he saw Owamie in a white dress which was the sign Big guy had prayed about, and soon after that he asked Owamie to be his wife and that's how their marriage started. They never really took the time to know each other.

[@zeesays726]

the most sensible comment i have read. they rushed vat en sit at 21 no shem they were tooo young.

[@conquererforchrist]

​​@@nomsatorcida9612You can never know a person only God knows us. My husband paid my magadi in 4 months after we met and had our white wedding four months after that. In total it took us only 8 months and he is everything I prayed for and even more. How many people stay in a relationship and break up after 10 years, you will never know a person, never.

[@nomsatorcida9612]

But Owamie did say that she was recommended by the university to attend therapy because she couldn't cope due to depression she suffered after her mother's death. Why Big Guy is making it seem like she was academically excluded because she was not smart?

[@Blessed224]

You still expect Big G to speak fairly about Owamie after all the insults?? Hayi you're not being fair. You must really think Big G is a robot and doesn't hv feelings

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

​@@Blessed224good question

[@shorinmamphye6890]

The guy is telling the reason why she did not finish the degree, he never said she is not smart . She was excluded 😢

[@thulisindane9989]

Promise enjoys hearing Owamie did not gradute😢. That's wrong cc!

[@MSTT691]

😂😂

[@user-uj4jf1ii6w]

As if she graduated from UP WITS or UCT we all know unisa is copy and paste university its been like that for years 😂😂😂now otherwise good interview

[@MSTT691]

@@user-uj4jf1ii6w Really?

[@mbt9820mpp]

Owamie blames BigGuy. BigGuy blames both of them. Talk about a man who takes accountability. Let’s continue listening.

[@pennelopeN44]

Listen ❤❤❤

[@nondumisomhlongo]

So if you cheat on me and I blame you, and you blame both of us for your cheating then you’re taking accountability? I’m still watching though, I could be missing your point ❤

[@PowerHouseTalk]

Nondumiso said it for me. He cheated!!!!!!

[@sithabilekhomo5364]

Big guy Indoda, ukhuliswe kahle, morals are top tire 👌🏾👌🏾

[@mbt9820mpp]

@@nondumisomhlongoI am referring to the entire marriage. Not just the cheating. The cheating was right at the end.

[@bemesuelly4895]

Owami had a handsome husband with a good heart and he’s been handling this interview well, thanks Promise for this side of the story

[@nongcebomchunu3894]

This lady is like me 😂shes all over the place she must let the guy speak 😂

[@carolkabot]

This is one matured man and so intelligent. Look at how he is so humble and answers with so much sense and it makes me wonder where is the stupidy and slowness... Thanks for the interview Pro Pro ❤❤❤❤

[@everydaythings2819]

People can only define you according to what they are, it's their reflection and they believe everyone must be like them

[@kevintrump6594]

The moment in yo mind u replace a man with money, the marriage will not survive

[@sunrise7640]

This is a true Zulu man. He speaks without embarrassing the people abamkhulisa. He came with the intention to say his side of the story, not to insult anyone. It all comes to No one is perfect. He made his mistakes as a human being and he doesnt deserve that much hate from his wife. Some of us have experienced narcissists and stingy men and this man is nothing close to both. Lets just say they grew apart as the years went by. May they all find healing.

[@Isabella_Bella601]

I really like how he's self-aware of how he was in their marriage.

[@sybillamula]

You should watch his previous interview.

[@tendanipelaelo6293]

​@@sybillamulaHe was angry because Owamie has been making countless videos talking bad about his family and himself. You can see that he has now calmed himself

[@hlamim3889]

Maturity got nothing to do with your tribe

[@NsikeSibisi]

🙌🏽

[@princessthelibrarian9075]

This guy would say I don't want to say this but say it😂😂😂 narcissist this one

[@leonvukona1502]

I thought I am the only person hearing this. Narcissists know how to look good in the eyes of the world😅

[@thebigdeal6671]

Ninjas right here

[@princessthelibrarian9075]

🤣🤣🤣

[@katlegomokonoto2541]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lisaray1848]

Not him saying she was academically excluded 😂, this guy low key threw shade on her, he went in to say she’s wasn’t so clean.

[@lindelwawilliams2129]

To me its like an investigation interview to get on something against someone, i see woman bitterness against another woman.

[@modiegimatlebyane6996]

Thank you

[@gmekgwe3281]

If “as a woman you should”, then “Indoda must”

[@mrs_tmi4876]

Thank you.

[@forget2182]

respect each other secrets. we were once happy and shared a lot together, and I also have your secrets, and I choose not to tell yours.

[@Rhulani_]

He speaks in such a dignified manner, well articulated

[@pennelopeN44]

I am in awe.

[@bmshik]

Kannete mayivalwe le chapter

[@Ameerah07]

He speaks well not slow. Atleast he can pronounce words unlike that one who speaks ka fast forward not pronouncing most words well

[@nthabisengkhanye2070]

And very respectful

[@Rhulani_]

@@Ameerah07 fast what? Haiii😂

[@Olcool]

18:38 My current woman can match me, she is too good. That part from BG was a hit.

[@nomangesinthala8948]

I love how matured Promise is and how BigGuy didnt speak from a place of anger and hate. This was beautiful to watch.😊

[@leratopalesankonoane3644]

The is nothing mature about Promise and this guy validated everything Owami said about him.

[@lonagwegwe]

Promise has issues with Owami and this interview is proof, she is giving these subliminal statements that shows just how much hate she has for her.

[@sindizondi1092]

Promise is dangerous woman l don’t understand why she went this far

[@rudzanikharivhe6294]

​@lonagwegwe honestly we really needed to hear both side of the story so this interview was so necessary and yes you right promise have issues with Owami and Owami have issues with Promise so it goes both ways, they both have problem with each other

[@katlegophalatse2749]

I think she has issues with Owamie.

[@mmakhumolebelo]

I still say when people get divorced the nastiest details comes out… when you not good for each other best believe it will come at the end. No one is perfect neither of them are. I hope they will both find healing ❤️

[@thapelodhlamini4439]

Promise calling Big Guy "late bloomer" speaks volume of her that's uncalled for

[@ptalord5198]

sex at 21 is late.

[@Khakhumulanga]

⁠@@ptalord5198for who? Who set those standards?

[@Khakhumulanga]

@@ptalord5198this also speaks volumes about you😂😂

[@nothandomyeni1359]

​@ptalord5198 Promiscuous much. When you have trauma, then you complain that mjolo is a pandemic.

[@th4bile]

​@@ptalord5198 please go read your Bible please you can't so when should you be active at the age of 12🤦 sometimes it's about respecting your body

[@Koketso_T]

This guy reasoning capacity 👌💯💯💯💯💯

[@pennelopeN44]

Thank you only smart people will catch that.

[@Koketso_T]

@@thegoodchow4385 definitely she did. I think if she did respect him. They could had been together,But I don't condone cheating as it's a choice.

[@nonono-rf7ox]

Very true!

[@proudlysa774]

​@@thegoodchow4385definitely

[@sazi7128]

And he's so respecting when talking about her. He's not insulting her as she does.

[@zikhonadyosi]

Kodwa ke indonda kumele isebenze. I too would get frustrated if I were to provide for a man. Big guy cheated coz he felt insecure. Both these parties are flawed. They should’ve kept it between them and not entertain enemies. Close the book and move on. I think I love Promise for not being malicious. As for Lynn, she’s just using Big guy to take down Owamie. I wish they can just close this chapter, both of them. Fair interview. Well done.

[@katlin1615]

Schools were closed during lockdown.

[@bongisadaweti8556]

Personality issues here clutches. Big guy is "A woman must". Owamie is "A man must"

[@giftkafula5013]

I totally agree!

[@ayandasam2269]

Yep wrong combination no 1 wanted to compromise.

[@naledindlovu976]

Good observation...maybe expectations killed their marriage and also we don't know if those expectations were verbalized

[@LieslJames]

Disaster

[@lifewithqueenSolo]

Perfectly Put!

[@MommyLindo]

I don't know whether it's because Big guy is so well spoken or he is genuinely a good guy but if he is being genuine in this interview, then I understand why Owamie can't seem to let go. Often as women, we end a good relationship that was worth saving not because we are stupid but because we are simply too young and inexperienced to realize what we have. Unfortunately it's not easy for one to admit to themselves that maybe they could've done better, so instead we resort to blaming the other party and highlighting all their wrongs in the relationship inorder to make ourselves feel less guilty about our part in the break up. Listening to Big guy and having watched a number of Owamie's videos, I honestly feel that they made a power couple and wish they had found a better way of resolving their issues instead of divorce.

[@Millibabe]

I agree with you❤

[@BabongileM]

Well said, they were a power couple and loved each other and Owamie needs to admit her wrongs for the end of the relationship, forgive herself and move on.

[@MommyLindo]

@@BabongileM 💯

[@Vv-fl2rm]

😂😂

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

This❤❤❤

[@Koketso_T]

That's so low of Owamie calling his ex umageza, she's a hustler self. Not everyone will have fancy occupation/career. We are here to survive & work hard.

[@nchabelengspeaks5023]

Women drag unnecessarily nje, if he cheated and they broke up there’s no need to be airing his dirty laundry all year round. She should’ve just moved and focused on herself

[@ptalord5198]

shes broken lowo

[@neosjournal_]

Nami if someone came for my mother sana I’ll DRAAAAAGGG you with whatever I can think of😩💀💀

[@charlottehanyane3443]

Promise shame on you you coerced this man to say he was bewitched? You were subtley trying to paint her in a bad light. No class there. Say it with your chest Sisi.

[@kgaogelomoja135]

What a humble,humble ,humble , human being

[@ptalord5198]

i Out e Sharp

[@proudlysa774]

Yazi ngingavuma ukuba u2nd wife 😂

[@Drip3657]

Speaking slow with a soft voice isn't humility 😂😂😂😂

[@katlin1615]

@@Drip3657 we would have picked up bad manners in this conversation.. people with no humility can't hold themselves, at least not for this long.

[@vuyokazinkosi3817]

Mxm

[@vanessamash]

Most people in the comments overlook the fact that O started disrespecting this man..

[@katlin1615]

@@marykhumalo8394 That was after all the disrespect bbes.

[@nonsikeleocleopatra377]

Promise you deserve your flowers, you handled this interview with so much maturity and class. Siya bonga Mrs Law. To Big guy you are such a gentleman may God be with you.

[@lettienahole]

To the ladies clapping for this guy here, we pray that God gives you husbands who are exactly like him. Men who will team up with people who have publicly fought with you. Men who will accuse you of bewitching them. Men who will blame you for their cheating and refuse to take accountability.

[@yourgirrlll9975]

You can’t pray bad omen to others may the darkness be within u and ur evil soul.. Yonke into emnyama ibekhuwe .. Sies injakazi 😄😄

[@lettienahole]

@@yourgirrlll9975 read your Bible well. If you want the prayer, you can claim it.

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

You can pray all u like but that won't happen, that was for Owamie we have our own journeys

[@lettienahole]

@@hlengiweyourstruly and it doesn't need to.

[@yourgirrlll9975]

@@lettienahole wena u read the bible and STOP praying for such nonsense to others … Why would u desire such if we sympathise for the poor guy .. Clearly u praying for the WRONG God .. A foreign god 🙄🙄 .. Explain ur point without wishing bad for us …SIBHANXA

[@phililemosia6956]

Both Promise and Big guy are nt against Owamie, lets hope she understands .

[@Ameerah07]

She won't understand that one

[@mademoiselle327]

Understand 🤔who, uyadlala

[@FromPeloToYourHeart]

There's no reason for cheating bathong Big Guy. It was wrong and it was a deal breaker and it broke it end of story. No reason good enough to cheat from both angles, men or women. Cheating is cheating and it is wrong!!! Doing anything as in helping in the household is good, you did your part. Is not wrong to wash your wives underwear, we too wash their jokies mos!😅😅😅

[@thulisindane9989]

Thank you mama!❤ Been searching for this comment ❤

[@esthervilankulu3233]

His reason for cheating is not make sure, thank you for the comment ❤

[@Yassmiinn.]

Yoh I'd never wash my man's underwear and he'd never wash mine. That's wear we draw the line but I agree with the rest of your comment

[@FromPeloToYourHeart]

@@Yassmiinn. you probably have not been that ill in your lives to have to do that! I washed his and he washed mine, 31 years into marriage becomes that comfortable and somethings are not even a matter of "I will never" situations calls for it.😊🤷🏽‍♀️

[@leratomichelle9363]

Imagine people saying Owamie is stupid for leaving a guy who used to sleep with kids(allegedly)😩😩😩😩Jehovah basadi we lack self love strue😢

[@nondumisomhlongo]

Lol I think when women aren’t working and men are, women clean and do all the house chores, but when BG had to do it he cheats 😂😂😂😂. Anyway society made it our duty to work and still do house chores while the hubby is locked down and is chilling or else he will cheat 😊

[@FromPeloToYourHeart]

This guy is wise...full stop! He's reasoning capacity👌🏽 And the ability to articulate himself!!!❤❤❤ I feel Promise is confusing him when she interrupts him, and he loses his train of thoughts...also jumping from this to that..then back again.... I also love the fact that he raises and highlights that..."we agreed" on certain issues, it's not like she was forced...it was an agreement. But I understand that, it's her interview and she must lead it her way. I wish she could leave him to finish his sentences and story on particular subjects they touch on. I know we also are mindful of time as well. Good job so far!!!

[@Koketso_T]

I have noticed that was even wondering why was he called stupid

[@peach.....]

And he is handsome 😊

[@FromPeloToYourHeart]

​@@Koketso_TI was listening out to the stupidity part, so far...nothing. Ebile I feel Promise is confusing him when she interrupt him, he loses his trail of thoughts...but understand that, it's her interview and must lead it. But I wish she could leave him to finish his sentences.

[@FromPeloToYourHeart]

​@@peach.....that too😊😊😊

[@Koketso_T]

@@FromPeloToYourHeart Exactly I agree with you

[@lesley_lezley]

Some of us are not sold. We know a narcissist when we see and hear one.

[@kingl794]

💯

[@kingl794]

Most narcissist articulate themselves very well ke sana. Not saying his one.

[@TheeMsutu]

Ey!!!!🙃

[@user-uj4jf1ii6w]

😂

[@mbalifisher]

Girl, narcissist are calm. Wena U end up looking like you the one whose crazy!! 🤞

[@Yongamam]

Wow i never knew his side of the story now i’m balanced thank u Big guy for telling us ur story kusekuyavakala nou

[@MSTT691]

Big guy is thriving in his business and on the process of expanding. On the other hand clever has failed dismally with running a salon. Big Guy mentioned something about her not taking advice, I am pretty sure some people tried giving her some business advice and tips but yena ukhanda shisa... Mageza is winning 🎉

[@thabilemkhize2585]

Im strongly believe the lady was out of marriage before Big guy cheated due to her behavior.

[@eltonandfrieda]

Big guy made it easy for Owami to leave when he cheated. One can see that she really did verbally abuse the guy especially when it came to money. Life begins and ends with money with her. What didn't sit right with me is her acting like she endured so much pain yet the guy really tried. If she knew that she endured so much pain and suffering Owami would have left already in the beginning. Let's be honest, the more money she started making, she realized that she actually didnt need him anymore. Nobody is excusing what he did by cheating but that one mistake does not excuse all of the bashing about him and his family yall.. like she says that the guy is useless, there is no need for her to continue bashing him like that. Let her move on with her rich man please. I am happy Big guy got to tell his side. I am happy with this one because all he did was just put everything to bed not like the 1st one. They were both talking from a place of anger and wanted to hurt the other where it hurts the most hence he retaliated. Honestly what he did was human. Nobody will be okay with someone who publickly demeans his mother. now it's enough. Let her rest and move on.

[@mbokelenghlomuka3480]

I used to always be on big guys side just because of how crazy & bitter Owami would tell things, but I’m coming to realize Owami was hurt & still is simply coz she loved him & we overlook that. Big guy was flirting with minors that’s unacceptable guys no matter how well he conducted the interview also I’m glad he admitted the his sick behaviour though. I’m not a ninja or nunju but both parties are wrong in this. Just that the other one has healed & the other one hasn’t. I recommend for payer for Owami to go to a therapist & Big guy pray for yourself coz minors are a no go, & you’re a grown man! I’m officially not on anyone’s side I’m just advocating for these people to both change for their own good.

[@wespeakthetruthhere7413]

But if we’re being honest, Owami is controlling and always wants to be right, she’s like that even with us her viewers 🤣. Anyways, it takes two to tango. Growth is being able to take accountability for your contribution to your relationship failing.

[@vinoliahmkhondo5437]

😂😂😂😂

[@mahlohonololebuso741]

Guys guys guys, let me enlighten you of what is going on here: Owamie told her side of the story. She basically mentioned all the bad things that Big guy did. Big guy however, is a smart guy. He is doing what Black Coffee did. He is saying all the good things and defending Owamie so that he doesn't look like the bad guy. It's called reverse psychology. He wants the public to see him as this good guy and Owamie fucked up. And all of you here in the comment section have fallen for this trap. This is what smart people do. Master manipulators.

[@lebogangmncwabe8886]

!!! And they are falling for it

[@bongisadaweti8556]

We want to hear the story anyways. We all know men 😢.

[@neomanoto2140]

A narcissist of note. Well played

[@mbalinkosi8621]

Owami is that you sis?

[@elsienape3748]

🤣🤣🤣@@mbalinkosi8621

[@boitumelonyati4546]

Yoooo I don't see O as a nurse😮, imagine🙆

[@lesedikplugs9839]

Yoh thank God he knew what he was doing making her fail so much

[@Vusani-M]

She'd kill people

[@Winterflowers1]

She would fit in perfectly 👀

[@NokuphiwaM]

This interview gave me so many emotions at once; heartfelt, angering, funny

[@thndythemedtech2143]

I see now why big guy said Owami to quit KZbin They both outgrew each other Owami become too big for big guy And big guy become too small for Owami

[@lefihlilesemenya8568]

The only woman who's gonna love you when u don't have money is your mother....

[@CounselPetty]

Promise, a woman of valor, such a classy interview. Danko sis❤️🔥

[@mbalifisher]

Can someone please interview di baby mama tsa Mrs Law's husband??! We are tired😩

[@boniemaps5624]

Vayolens😅😅😅😅

[@mbalifisher]

@@boniemaps5624 😂😂😂

[@princessthelibrarian9075]

Men who speak slow are very dangerous 😂😂😂

[@phumzilemahlangu3991]

Lol very n they r the best liers... They'll make u look like the crazy one

[@user-uj4jf1ii6w]

Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂🤞🏿

[@princessthelibrarian9075]

izinja ze game these ones 😂😂😂

[@Olcool]

BG started flirting because O started degrading him because she was earning more. She started being the man, and let him felt humiliated. Isdima sakhe was wounded by the humiliation. He started looking elsewhere.

[@tabithaThabiey]

Not really there's a lot behind every action. O was earning more money from the beginning of their relationship So there's more to what led him to cheat

[@Peachcobler22]

I honestly don't think Owamie hates big guy. She's clearly hurt and hurt people hurt people. The biggest problem is she brings up her marital problems online and is encouraged to do so, which creates an unending cycle of pain and bitterness. I honestly wish both of them healing and love.

[@reftsha6007]

That delays her healing and she will not be able to move on.

[@SedzaniNduvheni]

I was thinking the same. Owamie is very hurt .

[@sindisiwempofu9769]

I’m not judging, but this guy seems responsible and intelligent, calm ❤

[@lethabo.MN225]

And I want to be his wife .. kikikikik

[@lebom2456]

Ankere

[@ayandasam2269]

@@marykhumalo8394 very important to say he wasn't, if wena u the same person u were 3 years ago not everybody. A person revolve, change, grow.

[@missymakhoba2499]

Owami ulahle indoda la and uyazisola uGirl. Watched her reply.... the people who briefed her about this interview lied to her.

[@sifisosithole9631]

​@@missymakhoba2499 Yaz bengingayilandeleli lento but I didn't like the way she spoke so negatively about his home and how poor were they

[@vonderer2957]

Promise was fair in this interview….she handled it well. I didn’t sense any malice.

[@alettatsosane3492]

The voice note hai owamie 😭😭😭 Glad the marriage is over.. All the best to both of them, they both need to heal...