The Ngubane Kids speaks about the hurt that their famous dad caused them.

[@candidconversationpodcast]

This boy will be a brilliant Director /Writer and Storyteller. He narrates exceptionally well.

[@doreenskosana6084]

I was just saying that to myself he is very good hey.I even like the way he speaks yhoooo🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@lisebomarykotelo77]

Very cool, calm and collected. He masters emotional intelligence

[@mamelloisme1496]

He is expressive, eloquent. His future can only be bright from here on. Great kids they are

[@whynotKelly]

I agree , wishing he becomes greater and more successful than his father ever would be or was

[@angelamhlongo1749]

Expressive eloquent just like his mama 💯🥰

[@zandimeme165]

A man who has money for lawsuits but won’t pay school fees 🚩

[@mmathapelomthisli3591]

Yoh

[@mathapelomafagane4962]

🤣🤣🤣

[@botse6088]

Very painful

[@Reegan317]

The baby daddy will have money for attorney in child maintenance court claiming not to have money to support his OWN KIDS sooo 🥱

[@karabomahlako4959]

Yoh ds is painful💔😭

[@tanginahelao]

WHO WOULDN’T WANT THESE GORGEOUS CHILDREN, my God 😢… They’re Beautiful, Rational, Intelligent and the pride of any a parent! They’re Mother did a sterling job. The Father should never raise his head again 🚮🚮🚮🚮… I think one day with old age, sickness etc, he will realize that these children were the best thing that God gave him and as with many many regretful folk, it will be too late. We all know were Ayanda will end up 🚮 As an edit: That Boy is so wonderful and he should be seriously proud of himself. God Bless him for me💟✝️☮️

[@dorcushatlane9525]

Very true..tough, outspoken, intelligent, firm, watch the space... LEADERS OF TOMORROW ❤

[@_molebogeng6281]

People who are respected in public are usually something else when at home. I wonder how he feels when he sees this interview, it's a pity that things have to get to this point. Stay strong kids you gonna be just fine

[@nomvulobaduza9891]

❤

[@Ladydee510]

This young man is more matured than his father 😮

[@RayOfLetsatsi]

The kids are so well spoken. The son is so matured. This is painful no child deserves such treatment from their parent. They sound so detached, you can tell they have been through a lot.

[@sindikhoza8084]

😢

[@sisananxumalo5694]

Beautiful children.

[@lehakoesefatsa887]

Only a single mother would understand. Marrilyn you are a true definition of imbokodo. Big up sis. You've raised exceptional children. All the best sis💕

[@dipuomangope8424]

I'm not a single mother but I understand 😢it's heartbreaking 💔

[@Tando_Bam]

I am a single mother and i fully understand 😢

[@BusiPhiri-ru1qo]

I'm also a single.mother , so I fully understand.The children are so well articulated . Stay strong kids and sending all our support to you and Marilyn.

[@nellymathibe2069]

The father is suffering from self hate, Marilyn was giving him what he never experienced as a child unconditional love and patience. The things that he never got from his mother. He gravitates to what is normal to him abandonment and abuse. Marilyn is a great woman, she raised beautiful intelligent kids God bless them, as for the father he needs healing, there is no sanity in his actions. The father's mother wants her son to be like her, that's why she encourages a behavior that hurts children.

[@zethusonjica7758]

You make so much sense , my thoughts were exactly like this because I listened to the mother. I pray as mother we try and raise better man in this horrible world we live in. May God cover this family and many other families gong through challenges.

[@laurreinmaritz9142]

My thoughts exactly. Well said. His childhood traumas are navigating his life, very sad 😞

[@azukentapaneingazi1808]

One thing about these kids, they are going far. Well done Marilyn. You didn’t deserve all those negative comments. I’m sorry you were shunned for sharing your truth

[@kamogelokoloane5182]

She deserves that apology mama. People went hard on her thinking she was holding something back

[@naremokgwele9246]

It's just so sad. May God bless Marilyn & her kids abundantly

[@msngema1380]

The girl looks like mom, so beautiful ❤

[@kamogelokoloane5182]

Yeah.....she did say she had beautiful kids

[@etvscandalfanpage2011]

She's very beautiful. She has a Model features

[@nomiheathertshumastigkas6023]

This is a proud moment for the mom! These kids are so mature and well spoken. Mama you should be so proud. Your son will be a gentleman and your daughter will never stand any form of abuse. Bravooooo mama and kids for standing up for your rights. I’m a wreck, tears all over the place.

[@motsatsipertuniamakoti6975]

I pray that the boy child does not loose the opportunity in the industry since the father was the one opening the door since they speaking out, he’s a very good child trying to protect the young siblings

[@ntombikhumalo6397]

This is eye opening. We are raising kids that are aware ,and vocal . Talking about it will help them heal and be better humans . The mother has done well in raising kids who can stand up for themselves.

[@zuzuh5755]

I applaud these kids for being strong,vocal and brave.

[@Elizabeth-vu1tb]

The justices system works for those who have MONEY. He would rather pay 3 lawyers than feed his own kids. Yhooo!

[@yozareason1803]

I love how this young man supports the family 😢❤ he will be a good father to his kids one day!!😊

[@pheladitau6762]

True

[@nelzg5819]

After listening to the son , he makes a LOT of sense, i realize why the whole notion of bekezeling is useless and damaging. Not only does it break and destroy the abused wife's entire life but it definitely breaks down the kids as well. Now you have kids roped in to BEG their father to man up. To chase after a man who has chosen to abandon his responsibility towards the family. This is more than the Amanda woman and brenda woman. There are men who cheat on their wives but provide and sleep at home. Just that some men believe or were taught that a nyatsi keeps strengthens the marriage so they eat outside but dont abandon their families. This man is toxic and he is broken and beyond reproach. Lets normalise walking away cause some red flags are not a joke. This story is so common and not unique to this family . no wonder some women are taugjt independance and that marriage is not a ticket to heaven. Because of such stories. Shuuuu so draining but bekezela is not the way to go. If something is yours why must you bleed and your kids bleed just to keep it and force it to love and nurture its kids.

[@_molebogeng6281]

As the new woman this is a red flag. A man who has kids and goes on with his life like they don't exist, please don't fool yourself to think your kids are special 😂

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

True.

[@PoliteMbowa-eb4zr]

True

[@amalhasan6180]

You are nailed

[@marciamohale6720]

You know us women "think we are better, he will never do that to me" she will learn 😂

[@lesam965]

Imagine and he gets to move on and be happy despite having 5 kids (priviledge of having money as well). Us women will date/marry a man even if he has a 5 kids. Imagine that time you don't have your own. How must the mother of these kids move on with 5 kids. Dating will be extremely hard. Apologies if I am offending anyone. Ha ah no wonder their mother is so scorned.

[@thembimagwaza1693]

I read somewhere a long while ago that a beautiful gift a father could give his kids is to love their mother.

[@movieguy9592]

❤

[@mphonkuna9490]

Definitely

[@mphonkuna9490]

Definitely

[@user-wl8op5tz2w]

So if she doesnt love him?

[@mbalimngomezulu7263]

Character doesn’t change, Ayanda will soon find out

[@mphohappiness1736]

Triggered to the core. My dad openly rejected me and everyday you just choose to accept it.

[@_30777]

Mom Ngubane you raised your children well❤ I've learnt a lot from them. Good luck with your future endeavors 🎉

[@babalwa___]

Who is their father?

[@ndileka216]

​@@babalwa___I also would like to know...

[@ladyqngomane]

Bathong is this father a secret? Who is he?

[@adelaidesisasenkosi6361]

Yhoooo!!! Deadbeat fathers are vilest men 😭🙆🏾‍♀️how dare you deprive your children food and now the bigger son has to fill up his own shoes😭Mxm may the tears of these children not fall on deaf ears o’ dear Lord🥹👏🏾

[@tabithamacfarlane5549]

So heartwrenching how these kids have to speak about their own dad. NO child deserves this nonsense!!😢

[@memorymalunga670]

You are grown now. You have a voice and you're using it. Kudos to you guys. Your mom did well guys. You carry yourselves so well. You're so intelligent and well spoken.

[@nobettermazhindu2426]

As someone who has been there from day 1 , Marilyn i am supper proud of you and the kids for finally having the courage to speak out about what you have been going thru ,noone deserves what you have gone thru and are still going thru my God , this man is a true definition of narcissist, MQ you brought these kids into the world they do not deserve the treatment u have been giving them,never in a million years did i ever think u would turn out to be like this .

[@Mo_Tlo]

He is 100% a hardcore narcissist

[@nobettermazhindu2426]

Am telling you, you don't even know the half of what they have gone through with this man, and trust me they have not even began to tell it all , Lord knows I know it all,this man is evil and heart less,the devils advocate in person

[@preciousmahosho839]

@Nobbs just saw this ….heartbreaking 💔

[@user-lh7eh8mh6q]

Merlin I am proud of u u’v raised warriors ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@janekhumalo9201]

Saddened watching as a single mom. They will never be the same again as babies.Praying for your healing.Hope one day all parties are peaceful.Psalm 23v1.❤to the Ngubanes❤

[@pheladinare2876]

I have never felt this heartbroken by strangers I pray God heal this family and soften the heart of the father. Such gentle souls. The Mother is such a great woman and raised them so well concidering their situation.

[@mkhizedb5692]

😢

[@GrowWithLew]

Mama you should be proud , raised such brilliant kids 🥺 The brother is so mature ❤️🫵🏽

[@nodumoradebe5478]

I pray these kids heal and forgive their dad. Just for their own peace. This is a heavy burden to carry. Deadbeats never change and they feel no remorse.

[@sparrow62210]

It's sad to see many children in this country growing up without fathers who want to punish the mother of their children.May God protect and bless them to reach their dreams....

[@faithsdollsville2662]

Oh my goodness, I’m listening to these kids and crying because they were forced to grow up before their time. At 18 my only concern was passing my studies and daydreaming about my boyfriend. The son sounds so mature. It’s like I’m listening to my 40plus year old husband. Yeah it’s good to be and sound matured but not at the sacrifice of childhood.

[@Ngunikaz]

These kids should start a podcast and invite all other kids whose fathers are useless

[@phindileforbeskhumalo2571]

Good idea they can turn this negative experience for good but they need to forgive first.

[@lungilengele7963]

True I agree they should

[@ncebamalima5842]

I agree

[@user-rd4nm8qn5j]

Cos that’s a world wide pandemic

[@Her_Self..]

Right...... you said it best. Black ppl are not ready for this conversation tho😢.

[@emmabaloyi8566]

The thunder ⛈️⚡ in the background just remind me on how we are burdening our kids. They are good kids carrying too much 😢

[@anniemaimela9359]

when he said "we're not fighting for him to come back home, but to take care of his two children" 😥😥😥 Why should kids fight their father to be a dad to their siblings to a point of self detaching. May God bless and protect them 🙏🙏🙏

[@sueeland5675]

Haaaaaaa my heart 😪😪😪😪

[@victorioussisters3307]

My goodness my heart goes to this young man 🥲. He had to grow too fast and fit into the father’s shoes. This is too much!

[@azukentapaneingazi1808]

And then people question this families bitterness😂

[@MapEve4]

"You just left a seed and not there to nurture it." Powerful, so true 👋

[@bmonama]

This one actually made me cry, no child deserves this kind of treatment, Some Men are Heartless & cruel!!! they punish us but in the process hurt their kids as well

[@msngema1380]

Yho guys I fear our kids! They are holding us accountable

[@modikiramaisa4619]

What beautiful ,smart and articulate children

[@mosimamakwala8832]

The brother is so matured guys. I love they were he is protective over his siblings . big up broooooo

[@thandiwemahajah6800]

Marilyn has done a good job raising these kids.She is a mbokodo.May the good Lord guide her as she enjoys the fruits of her sacrifices❤

[@isurviveditrixongile]

I really really want to support these kids in court. Lets also consistently pray for tis family.

[@pinkyjudithngxulelo5055]

My heart is broken. 😢 This father is something else

[@thophishabangu2504]

Bantwana be successful for your own future and sanity. Don’t give him the satisfaction by straying. You have come a long way I congratulate you and I pray for you. You’re only going to see your adversaries going down

[@martharadebe9465]

Wow, what a great lesson from this brilliant young people. Well done for standing up for your rights, giving your mom love and support. Thank you for being a gentleman bhuti and advocating for women's rights❤ ❤️ ❤

[@charlottemothogwane5089]

These kids are beautiful hle. And well spoken. The girls skin, wow. I hope they become very successful in life. They deserve everything beautiful coming their way.

[@khanyisomathebula1464]

I so love these babies, they are brave , brilliant and very strong. These are people I look forward to see in 5yrs to come. Mommy thank you for doing a great job parenting these souls, you've done very well, God bless you my sister ❤ love and light 🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️ to all of you. The host: Siyabonga these are stories that give us hope and inspires us to do better and push harder, God bless ❤

[@azukentapaneingazi1808]

Now you understand Marilyn.

[@etvscandalfanpage2011]

I listened to their mother and I fully understood the role that we play as women into these marriages most specially putting other people first, making other people happy first. It's hard. But God will make that woman the happiest person through these kids. She has done a great job here and I know it must have been difficult. These are future leaders, I'm inspired.

[@annmthembu9373]

I echo your sentiments well said these kids are going to do best in life and to their mother thank you for your intelligence that 8s being displayed through your children

[@sibongilesibamba9445]

I am also inspired 🙌💖❤

[@tebogolemao3389]

Please advise these kids to start a podcast that will be talking to kids with deadbeat fathers 🙏🙏

[@nosiphopromisethusi777]

😢 Chasing a father for love or provision of basic needs breeds life long trauma. Love and light to the Ngubane siblings.

[@PoliteMbowa-eb4zr]

Awu Mqondisi you are not ashamed

[@phililemgabhi8734]

Kids are watching and they are growing. When it’s time they start to stand up for themselves and their mom. I love them. Stick to each other you have your mom, learn to move on and love yourselves and be the happiest and strongest family ever

[@lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6]

Lord have mercy 😭😭😭 parents we really putting our own offspring through hell, why do they have to suffer because of our differences 😭😭😭 I can really feel their pain and hurt they going through and what kind of families they're going to build because of bad experiences they endured😢😢😢😢

[@mamodibedikotlolo6204]

Shame the older boy is so protective of his siblings and is too much for the boyi feel for this kids

[@user-vq8vs8tg8c]

They come from pain but these kids are brilliant. You have done exceptionally well Merylin . The future is bright here. Diamonds are made from very high pressure. So are these kids.

[@Afro_Sims]

This is so heartbreaking, children don’t deserve this

[@mamelloisme1496]

She raised her kids well. I like how they love her mom❤

[@thebaddie391]

So sad seeing how broken and detached these beautiful children are. This man is truly a piece of work. Their mom has done a great job, when she spoke i was imagining hungry and kids in torn clothing. They are beautiful and strong minded and yet so broken.

[@tracymasha5550]

The pain in my heart for how some mothers we have to go through all this with our kids 😢😢 Well done Promise ❤

[@winxbratz]

The next time he takes them to court they should make a spectacle and invite news and newspapers so then he can literally see how crazy he looks suing his 14 year old 😗 then he’ll really know what it means to have a tarnished image

[@AsaMPodcast]

Promise I read comments on the previous video we’re she was talking about her situation in a mother perspective and the negative comments and people blaming her somehow but on this episode the comments are different because it’s from the children. When women speak up they are sidelined and restrained and it’s sad Thank you for speaking up and sharing your story, this episode breaks my heart 💔 my mom and my siblings we’ve been here and experienced everything you have said,my step sister is my neighbour and my father visited her, He dropped clothes,food and he was there for her and we watched that( my sister is my neighbour and we don’t have a relationship and her mom use to be my mom best friend) we relate to these stories and thank you Promise❤ I have a house of my own, I graduated, I’m earning well and he tried to reach out,and my step siblings reached out and to be honest I have no hate towards anyone but Ndibusy raising my kids and building a healthy home for my kids. Grieving my mom death.❤

[@slieafrica]

I also noted the difference in the tone of responses 😞 sad. I'm sorry about what you went through

[@mmecow1363]

Super proud of the mother, what a strong woman. The kids are amazing. Well done

[@tshepangmohlahlo1388]

This Gentleman is matured.

[@berthadire8615]

This young man though...he speaks his mind like🙌

[@user-qw1zp9dp5n]

These kids journey reminds me of my journey.i hope they go for councelling because the anger might cause hindrance to their growth in career nd life in general.with boys sometimes they become what their father was.painful because sometimes they become what they hated most about their dad.bigup to mom.but please consindee councelling and see the difference it will bring in ur lives.i salute u family..like i said ur journey is exactly like mine.i turned out to be a better person bcos of the struggles i endured from the young age

[@khomotsoletsatsi6045]

This is the best podcast I’ve watched since I started following, these kids have just added another spin. I was anxious at first when I heard is coming up, I am happy they are adults and can narrate their own experience

[@bridgettemadiba9496]

I hope the father realizes the damage he has caused on his children.

[@ayandamkhize9971]

I lost hope bandla. Narcissism.

[@annahradebe1087]

Sad 😭😭😭😭😭

[@GalaletsangSeema]

He won’t 😢

[@tovhitshikororo1281]

He will not when women are still falling for him and support his unbecoming behaviour

[@janekhumalo9201]

Marylyinn God is faithful. You have raised beautiful babies.May you heal.God protects and provides.❤

[@thophishabangu2504]

Marrylin please don’t fall apart hold on to God

[@sandisiwesoyizwaphi9974]

Big up to their mother. In everything she raised her kids well they are so matured and they can stand their grounds with no fear or favour.

[@Dizzy12346]

Tjo ! This young man is so well spoken 😢💔

[@MelaninofSA]

Mom has done a great job and she never had to paint this man as the bad guy he did it all by himself! Your children will eventually figure you out. This man is not ok and his life will continue to crumble! I pray for healing for these kids! That they be successful and no longer need this man financially. I applaud them for thier forced strength and taking charge.

[@ludwe7857]

I don’t understand how one can build a relationship with his kids and then just discard them and disassociate in this manner. Very saddening.

[@jelly_beanjb9183]

Umuthi ila uhamba khona akunandoda engashiya abantwana bayo nje

[@machego_M]

As a single mother I really understand where their mother is coming from, she protected their further only to cause a lifetime wound.this confirms that choosing yourself first is very important and kids will understand in the later stage..

[@chumasotomela]

Honestly I am compelled to be one of many to compliment how well spoken and matured these kids are. I really pray for this Family's healing. obviously this has been going on for some time they are bound to feel the way they do including their mother. She really did an exceptional job raising them. As for their father i really hope he will seek help because no sane human being will behave this way i really feel sorry for the woman he is currently with. I am rooting for the family's success, growth and peace

[@moelmangoegape6523]

Listening to this podcast,was like I was listening to my own life play out...I totally relate.

[@anitadyakala1886]

Askies bby sometimes when I hear these kind stories I thank God my mom was never married

[@portiamotlhala5758]

Sorry

[@ayandamadi4948]

Same here , it's not fair what parents put their children through... So saddened by this

[@lombusodlamini849]

It's triggering

[@karabomahlako4959]

That's me tlhee😢

[@kamogelokoloane5182]

And some were thinking the mom's story wasn't adding up,there. I hope Mihlali sees this

[@PRUDENT05]

😢😢The things parents put their kids through , why is this man like this

[@Ngunikaz]

My God will make these kids to stand before kings. They are a blessing to the mother , she must count this as a blesding

[@thepgirl479]

I feel your pain guys . Big up to your mother for raising you well through all odds. I wish your father can get back to his senses

[@hildadavids217]

Big ups to the mother who did a great job raising such matured youngsters.

[@livingubandantly4907]

A man fighting his seed, how low is low mara. SELF HATE. Eish, not yet uhuru

[@MosiaBoitumelo]

Yho! My jaws were literally dropping when watching this episode. It’s so sad to hear all those things 😭😭 They are so well spoken. I could listen to Brandon talk the whole day, he narrated everything so well. May God bless them. I wish them nothing but happiness, peace and success in everything they do.

[@elizabethgitonga3300]

Listening to these young people makes me realizing that we should never put our trust in man really sad.

[@Afrosoil11]

I was against these kids speaking up but they matured and telling their side. The dad is damage since as a child he was abandoned by his mother, he never healed, hurt people hurt others

[@servingcant]

Men like him will say the ex-wife is "Keeping the kids away" trust me I've dealt with a father like him.

[@khensanebaloyi6835]

They always say that

[@MaipeloMoreki]

True they always say that...fathers problem mxm.....

[@michellemiyen4383]

Marylin your story is so triggering but God is a faithful God, He has never and will never leave you or forsake you… You are raising beautiful, well rounded kids. Love and light

[@lydiasekete3584]

May the good God protect these children and thier mother , As for this young man continue to be strong boy kuzolunga. You both very smart and intelligent thanks to mom

[@revivalsal5316]

I feel the pain these children are going through, I wish the father can try to fix his relationship with his children. Their souls need healing. May the Lord heal them 😢

[@connie1574]

Maaaaan …I got goosebumps going thru this and their page …dealing with a narcissist is so toxic to the latter but I applaud u guys for a the mandate u carrying ✊🏿✊🏿sending love ❤️,healing and victory cause clearly the man has emerged war with his OWN KIDS…how cruel 🚮

[@lebohangthabethe129]

I can not find the page on instagram

[@phophimadaba5706]

@@lebohangthabethe129me too

[@zakhelesibiya7590]

every dog has its day! he will be found

[@lungilengele7963]

True every dog has its day!

[@dorcushatlane9525]

I am shocked, using 3 lawyers to fight your family and allowing your children to drop out of school and die of hunger..Shame Ngubane...shame on you. Shame on the south african justice system.

[@OnlyRandi]

Some people are possessed stru .....they are beautiful children indeed.

[@laurencemakgabo1766]

Who is that Ngubane

[@liciouslicious6808]

The kids are so smart yhooo, Kudos to mom, you can hear she never bad month the father but they've witnessed the whole thing.

[@gugundlovu6709]

Such beautiful and strong kids.The real game changers. Thank you so much for your wonderful mum❤

[@lisa-mm5416]

I am lacking the words to explain how I feel. This is so heartbreaking. 💔

[@nosiphomngoma7288]

My goodness, I am a weeping mess😭😭😭 this just took me back to my own experience over the years to date! Yhooo my father has hurt me so much through his actions. I feel for you boMbovu🫂🫂 🫂 ❤️ I pray for your healing even though I have not healed myself. Love and light 🙏🕯

[@nqobilezondi4314]

Yhoo Nosipho my heart is so sore😢😩

[@nosiphomngoma7288]

@@nqobilezondi4314 strength to you sis❤️🫂

[@fjhkerwoiero00]

A handsome strong young man, a beautiful, brilliant young lady! 💝

[@user-hq6lg2vh3m]

Wow this kids the way they are saportive to their mom I just see my kids standing behind me during tough time ,wish you all the best in life ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@zuzuh5755]

Hiw can a fathet hate such beaitiful children like this 😢😢😢. Nibahle bantwana and nizophumelela empilweni. Myekeni umhlaba ujikela ona qweeeh.

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

Beautiful and well articulated children.

[@hildadavids217]

You are going to succeed in life. You had to grow very fast and you will succeed in life.

[@oolalatoyamanasa5130]

It's because he hates their mom so anything linked to her is kak to him, even his own flesh and blood. It's just sad😢

[@tlotlomogana2946]

I hope all these kids grow to do good!! I wish all of them success,they don’t deserve this trauma