Biggest Relationship MISTAKE Tamil GEN-Z Always Make | 20s Arc EP 04 - Attachment Theory

[@kat0524]

I actually have blamed my parents for many things, but we need to understand they're humans too, they could have gone through trauma too, their societal pressure etc. so we cant change the past but try to change here onwards and accept it and put it behind. ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

This!

[@ksquarecovers]

More people need this awareness. Glad you are bringing it to tamil audience in a creative and interesting way. Cheers to more similar content.

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️🫂

[@jacks_wasted_life]

avoidant here! the thing u said about avoidants needing someone who would just let them talk and feel heard, that was so on point

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@juliechan-j]

Make more tamil mental health videos It's so good to hear Tamil therapy:)

[@Kasikaaran]

It will come in abundance soon! 🫶

[@kishoresai794]

This 10 min video of yours gave me the same feel of After watching a new feel good movie for 2hours..

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@sivashreethiyagarajan6927]

I am facing Anxious and avoidant attachment😢

[@T.M._Forum]

me too 😅

[@jenithafernand9657]

Try to do the attachment theory questions and find out your one because only 5% people are anxious -avoidant style

[@sethuhello234sethu6]

Best Underrated channel.... Wishes You to deserve more bro

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@santhoshkumars885]

நானும் gen z யை சேர்ந்தவன் தான். அனால் இங்கு எனக்கு வாழ்க்கை வாழ்வதற்கு & நல்ல துணை கிடைக்கிறதே மிக பெற சிரமம் ஆக உள்ளது என் வாழ்க்கையில் ❤. Till now pure single இருக்கிறேன் என் வாழ்க்கையில். ஏனெனில் குடும்பத்தின் வறுமை , பல விதமான பிரச்சினைகள் சந்தித்து கொண்டு வருகிறது. என்னை சுற்றி உள்ள அனைவரும் couple ஆக jolly ஆக இருக்கிறார்கள். என்னை போல பல நல்ல இளைஞர்கள் இன்றும் கடினமான இரவு பகல் பாராது உழைத்து வேலை செய்து வருகிறார் . எங்களுக்கு அங்கிகாரம் சமுதாயத்தில் சரியாக கிடைக்கிறது இல்லை. இதை நினைத்தால் தான் மனம் வலியாக இருக்கிறது😢😢😢😢.

[@RakeshMartys]

People need to see this! I definitely needed this. Understanding myself, has been the biggest challenge in my life, I'm slowly learning, understanding each and every action of mine. So far, I've been doing it alone. But I'll get there, I hope so. Rare to see such a quality content video these days, keep doing what you do! 👏❤️

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️❤️🥰 appreciate it!

[@yashaswinikrishnan1878]

4:31 breaking up first is a form of exercising control in their life because they never felt like they had a control over their life in childhood

[@ranjanvk2199]

Bro top notch content bro.. How could every content suits me😂

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks bro😂🫂

[@gaayathridk]

Today only I realised that I have both anxious and avoidant attachment style. This video helped me so much to have a self-analysis. Thank you so much for the video!!!!

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️🫂

[@jenithafernand9657]

Actually take attachment question instead because only 5% population is anxiousand avoidant 50% of the population are secure

[@Ahamed-k5t]

Finally found my problem and now I'm searching for the answer 😂

[@Kasikaaran]

Adha therapist kitta dhan kekanum 😭

[@Ahamed-k5t]

@Kasikaaran 😂

[@jenithafernand9657]

You read attachment book and there is so many free videos in KZbin you can definitely heal your self because therphy is very expensive

[@tharunamxl-a3070]

As a psychology student i really enjoyed and liked this content. Keep doing videos like this❤

[@Kasikaaran]

Will do! ❤️

[@vishnu6274]

To all my brothers and sisters out there. We have come out like this there is nothing that can be done to change that. All we can do is to ensure that our kids don't suffer like us. ❤

[@LX10680]

Epadi bro...ivlo theliva itha pathi discuss panringa...hats off brother🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Kasikaaran]

@@LX10680 bro neraiya resource iruku online laye collect panradhuku idhuku

[@Priyanka00158]

You are ♾️ % right about something thats really bad right now Its super tough to change our generation Feeling bad bruh

[@Kasikaaran]

:/

[@vjn.xdddddddd]

Ennoda situation ku yetha content ah correct ah na time la potrukinga na 😭🫶. Subscribed.

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️🫂

[@nivunila7102]

Love this tanglish intellectual content. subscribed ❤❤❤

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️❤️

[@ranjanvk2199]

Bro background looks cool better than previous videos

[@Kasikaaran]

Wait for the Next Video 🥳😇

[@FunnyBanjo-my6jn]

Last one bro 🤧 literally aluthuten. I'm subconsciously being an attention seeker. Easy ah hurt aagiren. Neenga sonnathu neraiya match aachi. Psychiatrist ah pona sariyagidum nu oru hope varuthu. Thanks ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

Consider going to a psychologist before psychiatry if these are your primary symptoms.

[@jenithafernand9657]

1st try to read attachment theory books and many free youtube videos are there you can 1st do that then consider going to therphy as therpahy is expensuve

[@NavaneethanM.A-e1z]

Iam suffering for a true friend and loyal girl friend but no one is there 😢😢😢😢

[@rockykishore1752]

I am glad to say that i was in secure attachment ❤❤i feel grateful to my mom and dad❤❤❤❤

[@Kasikaaran]

😭❤️

[@_suri._]

Super video, anna. No words for the level of editing. Keep going ❤❤

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks buddy. Credits to my editor!!

[@BharathKumar-iq7ku]

Yaru bro nee yaru...en manasukule irukradha thondi kandu pudichi solriye😂❤..you earned my subscription 🎉

[@Kasikaaran]

🫡♥️

[@rksampathbala8473]

Love the video na, very informative video, I learned a lot in these 12 minutes with a pinch of laughter and lots of thoughtful questions, Will be waiting for the next one anna My heartful wishes ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️❤️🫂

[@kat0524]

Im all the above 😂 secure, avoidant, anxious and disorganised 😅

[@sairamj6373]

Turning out to be my favourite KZbin channel¡

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@bhaviniiiii.]

Kandippa pesa vendiya oru vishyam, kudos to that!! And 11.36 mins la detailed as cover panna mudiyaadha topic dhaan - but I still think you could have added that as adults, it's our responsibility to heal ourselves and reach out too, as much as waiting for the other person to reach to us. Idhu oru complex two-way path dhaan, but still, andha accountability is also important. And also secure attachment a oru destination aa paakkama, something you try to do more and more each day vaa paakkanum.

[@Kasikaaran]

Hence mentioned the rule of thumb 😇

[@yogavarshine]

Bro, your contents like a woww and good explanation and euducational for everyone. Also you were making awareness for others with using evidence like article ,research papers. (Not you iam asking a suggestion and this how i felt while watch psychologicalrelated reels.)But nowadays, what I felt that ppl were easily asses to social media. though, we use psychological term they might misuse or misinterpreat in many place. For example : i do have this same problem whatever person say in social media. So here Iam a psychology student of final year. Lots of concept deep detial and studying many DSM5 Symptoms😢. How does ppl will understand within 2 to 3 mins reels.

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@AswinAK10]

Don't know why i felt like i belong to all the attachment you have mentioned, afraid to enter a relationship, always have to be anxious and think about others, always think that whatever i like wont last long with me, and have trouble in expressing emotions. Hope I can change. Great video by the way.

[@Kasikaaran]

Try embracing any form of self care. Can make a huge difference.

[@jenithafernand9657]

Actually try attachment question and find your one I think you will have any one of them as dominant others are may be due to cultural hestatation to talk lack of self confidence 😊

[@sukanya19121]

Heyyy seriously perfect brooo... Exactly the same my ex 😢

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@Wthishappenintome]

Glad to see Impressive contents like there! Rooting for more Amazing content 💪🏻❤️

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@N-3-U-R-O-N]

ur videos are amazing. the editing style and the content you choose to speak are perfect

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks N3URON!!

[@tamilcinema5674]

You earned my subscription bro 😅

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️❤️

[@darkknight8199]

Bro, this is a very good video and need of the hour for most relationships. I hope this reaches many people so we bring up our kids with secure attachment which I think is the best future we can provide for them. Very well done 👏! Oru chinna request. Please make a detailed video that explains ways to recover from these several attachment styles and how to handle them in various dynamics of attachment styles in partners.

[@Kasikaaran]

Yess noted!! Thanks buddy ❤️

[@pranava1316]

Today I realised that I have avoidant attachment issues. I could remember the incidents that led to these issues.

[@Kasikaaran]

Healing is what matters from now!

[@vishruthvasagam6382]

Vera level bro! 🔥

[@Kasikaaran]

🫂🫂

[@vigneshkgs9532]

Sema video bro.. enna prachana na first 3 um eh enta irukey 🤣🤣.. Thanks for the video bro semaya irundhuchu clearly explained about things I do.. Ivlo naal enga irundha en dhivamey 😂

[@Kasikaaran]

😭😭🫂🫂

[@ramananjagarajan9854]

Your content is good bro.... Apadiye stress pathi video podunga

[@Kasikaaran]

Potruvom seekiram

[@cgodtu64s47tit8]

You got a new subscriber!🎉 You are a savior to tamil gen-z like me. thank you, anna.please keep it up!

[@Kasikaaran]

Welcome!! ❤️❤️

[@ArunaKryys]

super engaging ah irrunduchu 👌 padam reference laam on point uh 😂👏👏

[@Kasikaaran]

🥳🥳

[@Priyanka18567]

Really awesome bro✨ And thank you so much ❤️

[@Kasikaaran]

🫶🫂

[@Jasmine-tweencrafttamilachi]

This is like a chain reaction .... How to break this chain? And not pass on our anxiety, chaos to our kids?

[@Kasikaaran]

Healing. Either gather the knowledge on how to handle your anxiety triggers or seek professional help

[@pranavkirthicks8408]

Thank you very much! Much needed one.

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️🫂

[@Lolhahahaha_33]

Perfect ah explain panninga anna 👏🏻

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks! 🥳

[@FocusedFrames]

Bro your videos are unique. Learnt a lot about myself and people around me with this one video. Waiting for the next one . Keep inspiring

[@Kasikaaran]

Love it bro! ❤️

[@mushysdiary]

I’m the anxious and he’s avoidance 😔

[@aloneking2529]

Bro Reality Correct aa soltriga Good information ✨

[@Kasikaaran]

🫶🫂

[@Lakshmi-Hina]

Nice content Man✨🙌

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks!!

[@harikaran999]

vera level editing and content bro

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks!!

[@ganeshkaran3872]

Great content thanks bro

[@Lokesh-em6gk]

Thx bro.... this video really going to help me 👍

[@Kasikaaran]

I hope it does for every video 🫂

[@shanmu2021]

Fell in love with your editing, bro! 😍😍Are you doing it all on your own?

[@Kasikaaran]

No bro. I dont edit

[@aravindb2392]

Nalla video 🎉 I think I am in anxious attachment 🥲 trying to be Normal

[@Kasikaaran]

Trying is what matters👊

[@monsselvam3982]

whatta beautiful ending ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

Like how things should be!

[@Bakiyam-b2v]

Great vidieo bro need more about attchement how to over come

[@Kasikaaran]

Noted!!

[@prithii_art]

Bro, dhanush movies attachment style sollunga

[@supe_dev]

Nice Content ✨

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️❤️

[@amirtheshsivakumar2824]

Bro neenga neraya solringa ana video end la enna solida sonninganu theriala lasta summary mathiri 2 points la sollunglen

[@rubyrahman3772]

Unique presentation ♥️

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks buddy ❤️

[@sanjays7361]

Thanks for the video much needed

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️

[@Parvadha]

worth uh 💯

[@sanobarshiereen6229]

Ellathayum puttu puttu vekkura bro 🥲want more of these type of videos

[@Kasikaaran]

Kandippaa

[@hariharanthangaraj2301]

Best bro keep going ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️

[@Parthiban00000]

Inga comment podra oruthana nambadha vro unnoda channel underrated need much support nu poduvan nee oru alavu famous aanona unnaye potu adipanga😢

[@Kasikaaran]

😭😭😭 aaguradhuku munnadiye en ya

[@Parthiban00000]

@Kasikaaran precaution ah iruka sonnen 😵‍💫

[@JPooja-np1ki]

Hats off bro

[@Kasikaaran]

🥳🥳

[@itxpravinraja]

Amazing Content ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️

[@aakashs1806]

I m anxious and disorganised attachment type , with little avoidant BTW, it doesn't apply to Gen Z but to all sorts of gen people. Especially if you have boomers as parents, whose thought process is far different from what is today. Also there is no clear picture on what will happen if partners with different attachment types get married, a worse possibility will be if both insecure attachment types mix, most of us in India are insecure attachment types (especially men). There is no space in marriage to speak openly with your partner on how you feel, because arranged marriages are purely done on the basis of wealth, no empathetic point of view between partners come actually. If a man opens up emotionally, he will be framed as weak man, and might be afraid on how the woman might treat him after he emotionally opens up. I feel it might get even worse if your partner never accepts the way you are. The person might end up going to the extreme state of his insecure attachment

[@Kasikaaran]

Absolutely 💯

[@Chandneeshow]

Bro make a detail vedio how to change anxious attachment to secure one 🩹🩹🩹🩹🩹🩹🩹

[@Kasikaaran]

Noted!

[@hemunthkumar]

Ennoda manasula irukura baarameeyy koranji pochu.

[@juliechan-j]

Evalo periya vishayatha simple a soltenga

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️

[@Kasikaaran]

It will come in abundance soon! 🫶

[@VeenafromMadrasi]

Nice video

[@viswasarawanan171]

That's true anna ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️

[@Shivanesh-uq5re]

I am facing avoidant attachment 🤧😂 Thanks for the video

[@Kasikaaran]

Arent we all 💀

[@alenin3055]

Bro nala irruku bro content

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks bro!!

[@dynamic1927]

Thanks bro...❤ Itha story vaikura mari shorts ah poda muiduma bro...

[@Kasikaaran]

I’ll soon start uploading shorts aswell bro.

[@podango6468]

Relationshipla yaen cheat panranunga why cant people honest about their feelings manipulation gasligting narcissistic personality pathi oru video podu bro

[@Kasikaaran]

Noted bro!

[@mohammedirfan8365]

Quality Content

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️

[@srija_555]

Evalo prachanayaaa better to be singleee😅😂🤩(by masking my avoidant personality 🚶🏽‍♀️)

[@Kasikaaran]

😂😂 Great trick

[@universalunicorn8036]

Simbuku thambi madhri irukinga..voice and body language

[@deveshbhuvaneshwaran]

excellent content

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️

[@afrith864]

Bro make a content about Myers-Briggs Type Indicator personalities...!!

[@dsksworld7118]

Bro ithula enna type nu purila bro. Secure 35% Anxious 20% Avoidant 30% Disorganised 15% Rough estimation of my self

[@KRISHANTHABHINAV]

Bro naala enna attachment ne enaku theriyiala enna attachmente illa

[@Kasikaaran]

Ivlo sogam venam pa 😭

[@KRISHANTHABHINAV]

Bro idha eppadi bro sogamunu solringa

[@indicolite1705]

Good content ji

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️

[@rockykishore1752]

10:14 what is the movie name😅😅

[@v1jayyy]

dudes be like "ennamo maari iruku" and don't know how they feel😭

[@Kasikaaran]

😭🤝

[@Thedreamlifediary]

Disorganised attachment is theeee most worst

[@JothiLakshmi0912]

❤❤

[@letsbealone]

😊

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️

[@TamilIITian]

DisOrganized category aaaah naanu . . Apdiye puttu puttu vechitiye naa . . . En manasula ulla baarame poiduchu . .

[@Kasikaaran]

😭🥂

[@LX10680]

Bro epadi emotional intelligent ah irukurathunu video podunga bro

[@Kasikaaran]

Oru topic la sub topic ah include panren!

[@KarthikRaja-w6w]

Mudiyalada samy ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

😭💀

[@NiveRhythms]

4:03 Indha Pethavaloda irresponsibility nala namma therapy poga wendi iruku...🤣 Damn truth dood!🥲 U are just awesome in contents❤ Wanna meet u one day for sure🎉

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks!!😇🥂

[@narendrakumarv7308]

Ji ji ippo nii find panna vechita idhuku solution any alternative sonna nalla irrukum

[@Kasikaaran]

Understanding and Contemplating is the first step!

[@ajay7665]

7:06

[@hariharanthangaraj2301]

These concepts are related to inner child , Next topic go with inner child bro , Avan than ellathukum karanam 😂

[@HemadharshiniR-eq6qd]

Nan than ithu anxious person crt uh solluriga etha symptoms enaku iruku

[@HemadharshiniR-eq6qd]

Brother u making the right content for this gen keep going

[@Kasikaaran]

🫂❤️

[@Jasmine-tweencrafttamilachi]

புட்டு புட்டு வைக்கிறியே..... நீ சொன்னது எல்லாமே 100% உண்மை. அப்படியே அதை எப்படி சரி பண்றதுன்னு கொஞ்சம் டீடைல் அ தான் சொல்லுப்பா.....

[@Kasikaaran]

பன்னிரலாம் 😇