Biggest Relationship MISTAKE Tamil GEN-Z Always Make | 20s Arc EP 04 - Attachment Theory

[@kat0524]

I actually have blamed my parents for many things, but we need to understand they're humans too, they could have gone through trauma too, their societal pressure etc. so we cant change the past but try to change here onwards and accept it and put it behind. ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

This!

[@jacks_wasted_life]

avoidant here! the thing u said about avoidants needing someone who would just let them talk and feel heard, that was so on point

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@sethuhello234sethu6]

Best Underrated channel.... Wishes You to deserve more bro

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@sivashreethiyagarajan6927]

I am facing Anxious and avoidant attachment😢

[@ksquarecovers]

More people need this awareness. Glad you are bringing it to tamil audience in a creative and interesting way. Cheers to more similar content.

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@kishoresai794]

This 10 min video of yours gave me the same feel of After watching a new feel good movie for 2hours..

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@tharunamxl-a3070]

As a psychology student i really enjoyed and liked this content. Keep doing videos like this❤

[@Kasikaaran]

Will do! ❤️

[@bhaviniiiii.]

Kandippa pesa vendiya oru vishyam, kudos to that!! And 11.36 mins la detailed as cover panna mudiyaadha topic dhaan - but I still think you could have added that as adults, it's our responsibility to heal ourselves and reach out too, as much as waiting for the other person to reach to us. Idhu oru complex two-way path dhaan, but still, andha accountability is also important. And also secure attachment a oru destination aa paakkama, something you try to do more and more each day vaa paakkanum.

[@Kasikaaran]

Hence mentioned the rule of thumb 😇

[@yashaswinikrishnan1878]

4:31 breaking up first is a form of exercising control in their life because they never felt like they had a control over their life in childhood

[@AswinAK10]

Don't know why i felt like i belong to all the attachment you have mentioned, afraid to enter a relationship, always have to be anxious and think about others, always think that whatever i like wont last long with me, and have trouble in expressing emotions. Hope I can change. Great video by the way.

[@FunnyBanjo-my6jn]

Last one bro 🤧 literally aluthuten. I'm subconsciously being an attention seeker. Easy ah hurt aagiren. Neenga sonnathu neraiya match aachi. Psychiatrist ah pona sariyagidum nu oru hope varuthu. Thanks ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

Consider going to a psychologist before psychiatry if these are your primary symptoms.

[@ranjanvk2199]

Bro top notch content bro.. How could every content suits me😂

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks bro😂🫂

[@gaayathridk]

Today only I realised that I have both anxious and avoidant attachment style. This video helped me so much to have a self-analysis. Thank you so much for the video!!!!

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️🫂

[@Ahamed-k5t]

Finally found my problem and now I'm searching for the answer 😂

[@sairamj6373]

Turning out to be my favourite KZbin channel¡

[@Kasikaaran]

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Ennoda situation ku yetha content ah correct ah na time la potrukinga na 😭🫶. Subscribed.

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@_suri._]

Super video, anna. No words for the level of editing. Keep going ❤❤

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks buddy. Credits to my editor!!

[@juliechan-j]

Make more tamil mental health videos It's so good to hear Tamil therapy:)

[@Kasikaaran]

It will come in abundance soon! 🫶

[@Nehahahaha_33]

Perfect ah explain panninga anna 👏🏻

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks! 🥳

[@Priyanka00158]

You are ♾️ % right about something thats really bad right now Its super tough to change our generation Feeling bad bruh

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@ranjanvk2199]

Bro background looks cool better than previous videos

[@Kasikaaran]

Wait for the Next Video 🥳😇

[@vishruthvasagam6382]

Vera level bro! 🔥

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@ArunaKryys]

super engaging ah irrunduchu 👌 padam reference laam on point uh 😂👏👏

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@prithii_art]

Bro, dhanush movies attachment style sollunga

[@kat0524]

Im all the above 😂 secure, avoidant, anxious and disorganised 😅

[@rksampathbala8473]

Love the video na, very informative video, I learned a lot in these 12 minutes with a pinch of laughter and lots of thoughtful questions, Will be waiting for the next one anna My heartful wishes ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

❤️❤️🫂

[@amirtheshsivakumar2824]

Bro neenga neraya solringa ana video end la enna solida sonninganu theriala lasta summary mathiri 2 points la sollunglen

[@ramananjagarajan9854]

Your content is good bro.... Apadiye stress pathi video podunga

[@Kasikaaran]

Potruvom seekiram

[@monsselvam3982]

whatta beautiful ending ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

Like how things should be!

[@pranavkirthicks8408]

Thank you very much! Much needed one.

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@darkknight8199]

Bro, this is a very good video and need of the hour for most relationships. I hope this reaches many people so we bring up our kids with secure attachment which I think is the best future we can provide for them. Very well done 👏! Oru chinna request. Please make a detailed video that explains ways to recover from these several attachment styles and how to handle them in various dynamics of attachment styles in partners.

[@Kasikaaran]

Yess noted!! Thanks buddy ❤️

[@BharathKumar-iq7ku]

Yaru bro nee yaru...en manasukule irukradha thondi kandu pudichi solriye😂❤..you earned my subscription 🎉

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@N-3-U-R-O-N]

ur videos are amazing. the editing style and the content you choose to speak are perfect

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks N3URON!!

[@aloneking2529]

Bro Reality Correct aa soltriga Good information ✨

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@harikaran999]

vera level editing and content bro

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks!!

[@cgodtu64s47tit8]

You got a new subscriber!🎉 You are a savior to tamil gen-z like me. thank you, anna.please keep it up!

[@Kasikaaran]

Welcome!! ❤️❤️

[@supe_dev]

Nice Content ✨

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@FocusedFrames]

Bro your videos are unique. Learnt a lot about myself and people around me with this one video. Waiting for the next one . Keep inspiring

[@Kasikaaran]

Love it bro! ❤️

[@vigneshkgs9532]

Sema video bro.. enna prachana na first 3 um eh enta irukey 🤣🤣.. Thanks for the video bro semaya irundhuchu clearly explained about things I do.. Ivlo naal enga irundha en dhivamey 😂

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@tamilcinema5674]

You earned my subscription bro 😅

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@pranava1316]

Today I realised that I have avoidant attachment issues. I could remember the incidents that led to these issues.

[@Kasikaaran]

Healing is what matters from now!

[@Jasmine-tweencrafttamilachi]

This is like a chain reaction .... How to break this chain? And not pass on our anxiety, chaos to our kids?

[@Kasikaaran]

Healing. Either gather the knowledge on how to handle your anxiety triggers or seek professional help

[@hariharanthangaraj2301]

Best bro keep going ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@Lokesh-em6gk]

Thx bro.... this video really going to help me 👍

[@Kasikaaran]

I hope it does for every video 🫂

[@aravindb2392]

Nalla video 🎉 I think I am in anxious attachment 🥲 trying to be Normal

[@Kasikaaran]

Trying is what matters👊

[@rubyrahman3772]

Unique presentation ♥️

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks buddy ❤️

[@sanjays7361]

Thanks for the video much needed

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@juliechan-j]

Evalo periya vishayatha simple a soltenga

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@Kasikaaran]

It will come in abundance soon! 🫶

[@dynamic1927]

Thanks bro...❤ Itha story vaikura mari shorts ah poda muiduma bro...

[@Kasikaaran]

I’ll soon start uploading shorts aswell bro.

[@sanobarshiereen6229]

Ellathayum puttu puttu vekkura bro 🥲want more of these type of videos

[@Kasikaaran]

Kandippaa

[@itxpravinraja]

Amazing Content ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@shanmu2021]

Fell in love with your editing, bro! 😍😍Are you doing it all on your own?

[@Kasikaaran]

No bro. I dont edit

[@mohammedirfan8365]

Quality Content

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@Bakiyam-b2v]

Great vidieo bro need more about attchement how to over come

[@Kasikaaran]

Noted!!

[@KarthikRaja-w6w]

Mudiyalada samy ❤

[@deveshbhuvaneshwaran]

excellent content

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@podango6468]

Relationshipla yaen cheat panranunga why cant people honest about their feelings manipulation gasligting narcissistic personality pathi oru video podu bro

[@Kasikaaran]

Noted bro!

[@viswasarawanan171]

That's true anna ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@indicolite1705]

Good content ji

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@Shivanesh-uq5re]

I am facing avoidant attachment 🤧😂 Thanks for the video

[@Kasikaaran]

Arent we all 💀

[@Chandneeshow]

Bro make a detail vedio how to change anxious attachment to secure one 🩹🩹🩹🩹🩹🩹🩹

[@Kasikaaran]

Noted!

[@alenin3055]

Bro nala irruku bro content

[@Kasikaaran]

Thanks bro!!

[@aakashs1806]

I m anxious and disorganised attachment type , with little avoidant BTW, it doesn't apply to Gen Z but to all sorts of gen people. Especially if you have boomers as parents, whose thought process is far different from what is today. Also there is no clear picture on what will happen if partners with different attachment types get married, a worse possibility will be if both insecure attachment types mix, most of us in India are insecure attachment types (especially men). There is no space in marriage to speak openly with your partner on how you feel, because arranged marriages are purely done on the basis of wealth, no empathetic point of view between partners come actually. If a man opens up emotionally, he will be framed as weak man, and might be afraid on how the woman might treat him after he emotionally opens up. I feel it might get even worse if your partner never accepts the way you are. The person might end up going to the extreme state of his insecure attachment

[@Kasikaaran]

Absolutely 💯

[@afrith864]

Bro make a content about Myers-Briggs Type Indicator personalities...!!

[@srija_555]

Evalo prachanayaaa better to be singleee😅😂🤩(by masking my avoidant personality 🚶🏽‍♀️)

[@Kasikaaran]

😂😂 Great trick

[@vishalyt9278]

Ending 🫡🫂

[@Kasikaaran]

🫂❤️

[@dayden6724]

Hats off man! Excellent work! the content is truly outstanding. Can't wait for more videos!!

[@Kasikaaran]

Thank you ❤️

[@Santhosh__62]

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[@Kasikaaran]

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[@Santhosh__62]

@Kasikaaran precaution ah iruka sonnen 😵‍💫

[@narendrakumarv7308]

Ji ji ippo nii find panna vechita idhuku solution any alternative sonna nalla irrukum

[@Kasikaaran]

Understanding and Contemplating is the first step!

[@prakshSound-no8dr]

Bro we can't always blame on parents be cause they have brought up worse than us they don't knows anything about emotional status trauma or anything one thing for sure is they gave their best for us which is better' than their childhood

[@guruprasath8408]

Romba vegama pesringa bro,saapda pothu nimmathiya paaka mudila

[@Kasikaaran]

Format apdi dhan bro

[@HemadharshiniR-eq6qd]

Nan than ithu anxious person crt uh solluriga etha symptoms enaku iruku

[@HemadharshiniR-eq6qd]

Brother u making the right content for this gen keep going

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@KRISHANTHABHINAV]

Bro naala enna attachment ne enaku theriyiala enna attachmente illa

[@Kasikaaran]

Ivlo sogam venam pa 😭

[@KRISHANTHABHINAV]

Bro idha eppadi bro sogamunu solringa

[@Fitness_girlie]

Disorganised attachment is theeee most worst

[@kvxzero]

you sound like STR na 🙏

[@Kasikaaran]

Enaka red cardu eduthu paar record uh

[@hariharanthangaraj2301]

These concepts are related to inner child , Next topic go with inner child bro , Avan than ellathukum karanam 😂

[@Lockdown9697TRF]

Bro, ungalamari orutharathan elarum theditu irukanga

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@harishkannadasan]

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[@Kasikaaran]

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[@abineshloganathan4192]

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[@Kasikaaran]

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[@sanjaivs2163]

ennoda life appaidye explain pandringa oru vela astrology pandichinlo

[@Kasikaaran]

Kattam solludhu 😂

[@v1jayyy]

dudes be like "ennamo maari iruku" and don't know how they feel😭

[@Kasikaaran]

😭🤝

[@ajay7665]

7:06

[@silenziabruno8212]

Your accent style is like lady pista akka

[@venkateshvenky4010]

Illa puriyala, njan Gen z than but namak onnum puriyamatingth . Oru vela irkkumo

[@letsbealone]

😊

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@sooriyaharesh2002]

pora pokula don ah adichitu poitinga 😂

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@HarrishMuthuramLM]

Hi bro. your content and editing is too good. main thing i want to share is that i guess you love to talk. i have noticed in your videos that you were excited while talking. seeing you talk like this made me happy. actually i love to listen and i have saw many videos but ours is different. i just want to let you know you are doing a great job, so keep going.🫂🌟 PS: If you ever want someone to talk to, I’d be happy to listen to you brother 😂😂🫂

[@Kasikaaran]

Get in bro 👊❤️

[@venkateshvenky4010]

Namak than relationships ilayaa 😅

[@Kasikaaran]

Non romantic iruku la aiyaa 😂

[@BHARATHKUMAR-is2ur]

edhu la sollrathu la ellathaliyum oru oru point um match anguthu😅

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@Karpagavalli_singaravelan]

Manasula Ulla baaramae kuranjuruchu ya

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@fazilmohamed2507]

I have all the three mixed lol

[@tnmemerjustforfun2069]

I am single now happy and smooth life

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@Jasmine-tweencrafttamilachi]

புட்டு புட்டு வைக்கிறியே..... நீ சொன்னது எல்லாமே 100% உண்மை. அப்படியே அதை எப்படி சரி பண்றதுன்னு கொஞ்சம் டீடைல் அ தான் சொல்லுப்பா.....

[@Kasikaaran]

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[@rksampathbala8473]

Hi anna ❤

[@Kasikaaran]

Hi bro ❤️

[@rksampathbala8473]

@Kasikaaran Epdi irukinga anna? ❤️

[@endapesura1367]

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[@Kasikaaran]

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[@podango6468]

Brooo 🫂❤

[@Kasikaaran]

Bro ❤️🫂

[@SK2K0]

Secure attachment thavara ellame 100 percent relate aguthu bro😂😭😭

[@Kasikaaran]

Everyone dealing the same problem

[@BigG606]

Azhugalam bro but pombala mari thengi thengi azhuga koodathu. Also there is nothing called as unconditional love. Even your parents are selfish and hate you secretly for your incapabilities. If someone's life is good in sense of wealth/health/physic/smartness from their childhood. There maybe a chance for them to have a better lifestyle but it can also change based on the sorroundings.

[@Kasikaaran]

Logically men need to cry more cause of how much is stored inside so that they can feel better. Unconditional love is possible to find when you become the person whom the person who wants to give unconditional love is searching for.

[@BigG606]

@Kasikaaran People like to talk about unconditional love, but if you look at it ethically, not just morally, it’s pretty clear it’s not possible. I’ve been an unconditional lover before, but I realized no one’s actually looking for that than your qualifications. Unconditional love would only work if everyone agreed to love that way universally, but in reality, people focus on things like skin color, race, qualities, or skills. Love without expecting anything in return sounds nice, but it’s just not realistic. Cry so you can relieve your heaviness in your heart but it's not that important to "cry more" often cuz it doesn't matter anymore. Life moves on. Stay and dwell on the past or move forward.

[@munish247kumar]

Mark my words he become a famous yt 🫡

[@Kasikaaran]

😉🤝