Devastating Betrayal: Losing Two Years Of Hard Work In Just One Week

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Mel's Big Van Small World

Mel's Big Van Small World

Күн бұрын

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@LiamTheTerrible
@LiamTheTerrible 2 ай бұрын
We might be able to store some stuff up here if you need
@SACREDTRAVELLER
@SACREDTRAVELLER 2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Liam, might well take you up on this offer ❤
@LiamTheTerrible
@LiamTheTerrible 2 ай бұрын
@@SACREDTRAVELLER I’ll do what I can to help
@El-Tel63-Terry.
@El-Tel63-Terry. 2 ай бұрын
What a sad ending... good luck, Mel.
@listonflanders7458
@listonflanders7458 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely disgusting how you both have been treated. After all you've done for everyone, f**k them all !
@van-gabondramblinrose6398
@van-gabondramblinrose6398 2 ай бұрын
You're a sound bloke too Liam.
@airlinephoto
@airlinephoto 2 ай бұрын
We dont know whats happened. However in the UK its best to keep yourself to yourself. Ive always found group activities in the UK to be odd. People spend more time running others down than working together. Avoid groups in the UK.
@robertmclean6629
@robertmclean6629 2 ай бұрын
Same in the US.
@jackworsley2562
@jackworsley2562 2 ай бұрын
It’s human nature, people are worried about being at the bottom of the social pecking order, so they find a target to keep them safe and everyone else focused on that target. If the target gets driven out, it’s soon going to be someone else’s turn, probably one of the people picking on the last victim.
@Narrowboat.and.offgrid.living
@Narrowboat.and.offgrid.living 2 ай бұрын
British people have become so miserable
@riboid
@riboid Ай бұрын
Me too, always kept to myself, no cliques or anything like that.
@airlinephoto
@airlinephoto Ай бұрын
@jackworsley2562 so what actually happens is someone tries to become a leader. They then turn the group against a individual. This is a phenomenon known as group think. It's a sad part of human psychology.
@vivienneburke7096
@vivienneburke7096 2 ай бұрын
“There are three sides to every story: your side, my side, and the truth. And no one is lying. Memories shared serve each differently.”
@karlossmith3714
@karlossmith3714 2 ай бұрын
Until we got the full story it’s hard to give an opinion without it being biased. That being said I hope you’re both okay. 💪🏻
@JazzFunkNobby1964
@JazzFunkNobby1964 2 ай бұрын
Yup, there's always at least three sides to a story.
@Firthy77
@Firthy77 2 ай бұрын
Hard to say if you’re being treated fair mate as we don’t know what’s been happening. Good luck though 😂
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
It all started when we got the news that the barn would be demolished in January and Ade asked me not to promote it anymore on my channel. As we were over booked anyway. I knew then that my time was up as I was no longer needed and the space I was taking up was more valuable to Ade than me. So I was expecting something like this to happen. So when Becky’s van got damaged I wasn’t surprised by the way Ade handled the situation and turned things around to make Becky seem reasonable for damaging her own van turning everyone else at the barn against her literally making her feel unsafe and unwelcome so when she stood up for herself making a video on her channel this upset everyone at the Barn made things difficult for me so I decided that I would leave as soon as I could and started to film this video that same day Ade and his so called community ask me to leave given me 5 days notice but made things so difficult I left in 4 days. Hope this helps you understand what’s happening thanks for your time and your support really appreciated. Mel
@karlossmith3714
@karlossmith3714 2 ай бұрын
@@BigVanSmallWorld something to think about is someone that’s willing to make you both feel like that really isn’t worth the time or friendship. You obviously had something in the beginning that he valued and decided somewhere along the line he didn’t need anymore. Unfortunately these things happen as people can really cruel! Had a similar thing happen to myself and it makes you realise how used you were essentially. You’ll both get over it and become stronger because of it! His loss, go onto bigger and better things!! ☺️ Goodluck
@robmackins2111
@robmackins2111 2 ай бұрын
@@BigVanSmallWorld is it Ade’s barn?
@sandyp196
@sandyp196 2 ай бұрын
I hate these kinds of video, thst discuss the aftermath of a conflict wanting understanding / empathy but not explaining what the conflict is actually about.
@daveberry2177
@daveberry2177 16 күн бұрын
we all choose the way we live, some folk seem to make very hard work of it all.
@Millie-Rob-Mitchell
@Millie-Rob-Mitchell 2 ай бұрын
I gave up on friends years ago, now I have distant acquaintances , very distant 🤣 good luck on your new lockup , things usually happen for a reason so in hindsight moving on to pastures new is probably going to be a blessing for you both👌
@JazzFunkNobby1964
@JazzFunkNobby1964 2 ай бұрын
Friends are overrated.
@aliengrey6052
@aliengrey6052 2 ай бұрын
@@JazzFunkNobby1964too bloody right.
@Countrymouse123
@Countrymouse123 8 күн бұрын
💯 aggre
@mpjkea2000
@mpjkea2000 2 ай бұрын
We full-time living in our motorhome. We tend not to over mix with groups of us humans as usually the first to walk away from the group will be the first talked about.
@justinlinnane8043
@justinlinnane8043 2 ай бұрын
Couldnt agree more !!
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
That’s so true it’s like being the first to leave a dinner party every one talks about you the minute you leave the room 😂👍🫶
@mikebourke1185
@mikebourke1185 2 ай бұрын
Mel "Bread Eaten is Soon Forgotten " 😢😢 I'm 80 in six months and the amount of men n women I've helped over the years Not One of them ever checked to.see if I needed help It's a Sad world (people wise) Any wonder their is Conflict Everywhere Stay Free and Safe. 😊
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Sadly I’m learning this lesson over time
@incywincyspider8748
@incywincyspider8748 2 ай бұрын
Happy 80th birthday 🎉
@BigReptileCrew
@BigReptileCrew 22 күн бұрын
Expect nothing in return, and you won't be disappointed
@HowievYT
@HowievYT 17 күн бұрын
I think it might be that our purpose on this life (and I know how huge my assumptions are to venture we have purpose) is to discover one's innermost - ultimately a solo journey. There do seem an awful lot of cunts along the way. Humanity, eh.
@shrekontow1212
@shrekontow1212 2 ай бұрын
I love watching your KZbin and Becky. I’ve learnt a lot. I hope you have no more problems and have a really good holiday. All the best.
@williamj.dovejr.8613
@williamj.dovejr.8613 2 ай бұрын
This is why I pulled away from most people...less chance of betrayal.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
You’re not wrong 🍻👍
@puffyjet
@puffyjet 2 ай бұрын
Hi Mel sorry to see the problems that you are having and we hope you have a much nicer time in the future keep smiling and keep on keeping on all the best Kevbo &Babyjack
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@ciaranokelly3693
@ciaranokelly3693 2 ай бұрын
I'm gutted for the both you Mel. I've been following your channel for a good few years now and you strike me as a pukka bloke. When you and Rebecca introduced us to the barn I was immediately impressed with the concept... It's a bloody shame how you and Rebecca have been treated... Oh well, it's their loss. You two appear to be a great team so, keep on keeping on! 👍
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the positive vibes really appreciated
@thwangsworld1123
@thwangsworld1123 2 ай бұрын
Same I've watched mel on and off for a few yrs and he always comes across as a sound chap. Very knowledgeable on the van life.
@thwangsworld1123
@thwangsworld1123 2 ай бұрын
​@@BigVanSmallWorldfrom what I've watched your a sound chap and you don't need childish people like that around you.
@Q-wz9xv
@Q-wz9xv 2 ай бұрын
Don't know the full story Mel, but if it was me I'd move Dragonfly out now even if you have to pay for a tow truck. Better than having it possibly damaged. Hope it all works out for you. Stay strong Mel.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you we are out now and all ok 👍
@alanhat5252
@alanhat5252 2 ай бұрын
​@@BigVanSmallWorldthe only paperwork you need for a situation like that is insurance provided the vehicle is safe to drive. MOT & Road Tax are needed for normal driving not for emergencies or for moving home.
@matthewjenkins1161
@matthewjenkins1161 2 ай бұрын
@@alanhat5252 The only exemption that exists to drive without a current valid MOT and tax, is when going to a pre-booked test, or driving home from a test failure. I'm sure you mean well, but such advice if taken, could well leads to someone else's day in court.
@Ritarelay
@Ritarelay 2 ай бұрын
Having had a similar end to something a couple years ago. I completely understand how the emotions of this situation have affected you both. I truly hope you can now move forward towards your dream with dragonfly. Love to you both ❤
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you love you too x
@geraldhenrickson7472
@geraldhenrickson7472 21 күн бұрын
Never give up, never surrender. Some folks havbn't a clue, depending on how they were raised and how much trauma they experienced. Onward and upward. I am subscribing immediately.
@adamshaw1032
@adamshaw1032 2 ай бұрын
So sad it has come to this. Glad you and Becky are ok and Becky has the right idea! Go get a holiday!! Mel your channel is wicked and I’ve always enjoyed your content. Think the five days notice was harsh! The amount of business you’ve put the barns way too. Keep your chin up. If you do go on holiday take us with you. All the best
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you and yes Becky has been busy filming all week
@Smudge64
@Smudge64 2 ай бұрын
Bring back waffle on a Wensday! You have a lot of loyal followers Mel, put the barn behind you, look at some of your back catalogue and bring it back. Petty squabbles are so draining, I’ve been caught up in a few myself. Cant wait to see the Luxury Overlander taking you on your travels.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
@@Smudge64 thank you for the positive feedback I really do appreciate it as for waffle on Wednesday I will be bringing it back in the winter months 👍🍻👍
@kernow..exp.
@kernow..exp. 2 ай бұрын
I'm really sorry Mel that you had to leave I hope things settle down soon
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you buddy
@Yvonneb_
@Yvonneb_ 2 ай бұрын
I've just had to subscribe to you again, so pleased your video showed up in my feed. How Rebecca has been treated I don't blame you for getting all your stuff. They sound a bad bunch to be around. I think 5 days is unreasonable. Xx
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for subscribing really appreciate it and appreciate your positive feedback 👍🍻👍
@HAvniAksoy
@HAvniAksoy 2 ай бұрын
Some "friend(s)" he was(they were)... You and Rebecca had added so much value to that barn. I had begun to like some of those guys even... This is no way to treat people one had shared so much and broken bread with. How they treated you and Rebecca in no way diminishes you or takes anything away from you. Please keep up the good work and 'em videos coming and hold your spirits high. You guys deserve to be treated so much better.
@domwilcox8242
@domwilcox8242 2 ай бұрын
Sorry it has come to this Mel but I subscribe to you to watch you convert your vans regardless of where you are. Walk away with your head high and don't look back. The other barners will be moving on soon anyway when it shuts down so no loss there and you know who your friends are. You and Beckie have successful channels with your subscriber base who will mostly stay loyal. Keep it up mate and I for one will keep subscribing and enjoying what you do.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@GaryMon5050
@GaryMon5050 2 ай бұрын
Hi Mel Been watching your Chanel for years I enjoy your churpy and positive outlook its very sad to see you upset and despondent , we as your subscribers will continue to follow you where every go on your journeys . Keep your chin up mate 😎 Gary Mon and Ruby🐶 This will be our Chanel once I get my self organised but struggling with video editing etc formally (something blue)
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so very much for your support and kindness good luck with the channel it’s not easy being in the public eye but the reward is always getting the support from people like yourself ❤️‍🩹👍🙏
@garyhills2336
@garyhills2336 Ай бұрын
1st time watching your videos, I have no idea what occurred, but I hope your new location works well, good luck with the reorganised workshop after you have had a long break.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld Ай бұрын
Thank you so very much for joining us and for the positive comment it really means the world. Thank you 👍🤓👍
@Johnkol88
@Johnkol88 2 ай бұрын
For all the work you have done there to help people they wnated you out so sad to see that chapter end but am looking forward to the next one
@MartinJose-g4x
@MartinJose-g4x 2 ай бұрын
It’s so sad to see you in that situation. I’ve watched you from the start of this build on this fan. You put a lot of work into that community with all the different people and I cannot believe it ended up like this..
@SACREDTRAVELLER
@SACREDTRAVELLER 2 ай бұрын
Yes it is sad after all the time, love and commitment of two years - oh well….time to move on 😅
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate that!
@Bartman1965
@Bartman1965 2 ай бұрын
As they say Mel, what dont kill you makes you stronger. Its like a book, you finish one chapter turn the page and onto another chapter. Looking forward to your adventures in Dragonfly 👍
@lyndsayscott8866
@lyndsayscott8866 2 ай бұрын
Mel, Rebekah, we so feel for you. I can’t believe after all that you’ve done for the barn etc, that the ‘committee’ have done this to you. We had exactly the same done to us a couple of years ago. Enjoy your holiday.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@LiamTheTerrible
@LiamTheTerrible 2 ай бұрын
Unsubscribed because of the DryRobe seat cover
@Grandpapiyorks
@Grandpapiyorks 2 ай бұрын
😂
@LiamTheTerrible
@LiamTheTerrible 2 ай бұрын
@@Grandpapiyorks 🤣
@SACREDTRAVELLER
@SACREDTRAVELLER 2 ай бұрын
Awww man Liam! 😂😂😂
@JohnSmith-dn6fk
@JohnSmith-dn6fk 2 ай бұрын
🤣👍
@JasonGilliland-tw5qx
@JasonGilliland-tw5qx 2 ай бұрын
lol 😮
@johnpulham7393
@johnpulham7393 2 ай бұрын
Mel and Beck's sorry to hear this has happened, I have enjoyed watching you guys doing your vans. Take some time and when you're ready come back anew. All the best guys John Marie and Teddy the dog.
@Shan-outnabout
@Shan-outnabout 2 ай бұрын
Stay positive Mel I think you should have been given 30 days notice. I feel your pain and frustration with the situation. Hopefully new goals will take shape and the location change will be good for both you and Becky TC ❤
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@jordanlyon8363
@jordanlyon8363 Ай бұрын
Sounds like the vanlife comunity everyone's out there for themselves we learnt the hard way hope all is well Mel
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld Ай бұрын
Thank you and yes all it good now I think you get good and bad in any community it’s just a shame that someone managed to turn everyone against me in this one but not to worry as the barn will be demolished soon and they will all be forced out and that’s the end of there little community 😂👍
@colinabrehart5592
@colinabrehart5592 2 ай бұрын
Their loss Mel. I agree with others, and uf yiu can get Dragonfly out in case if any ' incidents' take care you two.
@markplenty2631
@markplenty2631 2 ай бұрын
One new subscriber.. one thing I’ve learned from disputes is, you can’t reason with unreasonable.. I’ve learned to be pleasant and extra nice to difficult People because it really annoys them and the can say anything.. no one needs toxic people, and most are like this because you were valuable and they want to justify their actions
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support and encouragement really appreciate that 👍🤓👍
@denisecafferky2248
@denisecafferky2248 2 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear this after all the work you put into the place x
@clarebrant5305
@clarebrant5305 2 ай бұрын
I am so sorry that this has happened to both of you. ❤
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🫶
@paulhargreaves9030
@paulhargreaves9030 2 ай бұрын
You're making a great job of the van and have a wonderful relationship and people will get envious,this manifests in out of character behaviour from insecure people. good luck guys
@Wijkkie
@Wijkkie 2 ай бұрын
There is a Dutch song made in the 80´...Friendship is a illusion, a packet of scrap with a thin layer of chrome.... ( ruffly translated ). And I never forget this song , because it is the truth. As long they can `feed` of you and you are giving they are so called friends.....
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
That’s so sad but unfortunately in this case so true as soon as we were no longer needed to promote the barn that’s when they turned against us x
@davekennedy6315
@davekennedy6315 2 ай бұрын
'A pile of scrap with a thin layer of chrome' I LOVE that! What a perfect way of putting it!
@999shaznay
@999shaznay 2 ай бұрын
In my experience, there are infact three sides to a story. Your side, their side and what really happened. When I first heard that you have been forced to leave as your partner didn't feel safe, I feared something terrible had happened. I went over to watch her video (I'm not a subscriber), and I must admit I thought "is that it??!!" Anyhoo, I love your channel Mel and wish you well.
@leelendon1482
@leelendon1482 2 ай бұрын
Also Mel there are some big storage units the containers near me. They have onsite shower , water fill and toilets ect. 24 hour access as an upgrade with security cameras. In Southampton
@chrismartin5772
@chrismartin5772 2 ай бұрын
I am sure you will find another place and sort everything out out mell some times it’s unbelievable what can happen may be it’s a blessing in disguise best of luck mell
@barrieevans2570
@barrieevans2570 Ай бұрын
There are always 3 sides to every story. Yours, theirs and the truth.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld Ай бұрын
Well what you see in the video is what happened I’m just a blogger
@timstradling7764
@timstradling7764 2 ай бұрын
The Barn always seemed to be an idyllic place as you portrayed it, so I’m sorry to see that it has lost its shine right when its days were numbered anyway. Move on to better things, take the good memories with you, and leave the negativity behind for others to sort out - ultimately they will all have to leave too.
@carloknuwer1026
@carloknuwer1026 2 ай бұрын
Hi Mel, right what i thought halfway the video: alfter you would have left the barn, take a good two weeks of holliday to set your mind strait, before moving on with your project(s) Greetings from Carlo and Mascha (blue curtains) Ps we are doing oke now, as we had to leave our shop and restart our business from a appartement/van. Have a nice holliday you two and hope to see you happy again in a couple of weeks❤
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness me I do hope you are ok thank you for your kind comments over the years xx
@leelendon1482
@leelendon1482 2 ай бұрын
Hi Mel sorry to hear all this , I have been there before and know how you both feel. The feeling you get going back somewhere you don't want to be. It's time like this you realise who your friends and enemies really are . 5 days notice is not enough. I would have jumped out and lampedusa the prick. It's your stuff and he has no right to make your life hard. It'll make you stronger and maybe a small place for you both is a good solution 👌
@paulhill1641
@paulhill1641 2 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear of your troubles, we have enjoyed all the videos you and Becks made at the barn. May be it's time to start enjoying all your hard works and start traveling again. Look forward to seeing you both on adventures.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the words of encouragement really appreciated 🫶
@DaveStone007
@DaveStone007 2 ай бұрын
So sorry to hear all this and just watched Becky’s video too. I know it was a couple of weeks ago now but wish I could have helped you both. (Not that my back is much better😎). Onwards and upwards. You will be better off away from this negativity. Just such a shame after how much you put into building the barn community…
@stevenwilcox3061
@stevenwilcox3061 2 ай бұрын
Hi why don't you get a TENS machine you can get them from a chemist they're not overly expensive and they do help back pain just do not put it on any bony areas like your elbows or head putting it on pulse points also can be very dangerous only suitable for like backs and places like that they are good I use one.
@paulr7898
@paulr7898 2 ай бұрын
I have been watching you on youtube for 5 years and I am really disappointed to see you both treated like that. Two very nice people who have promoted the barn to others right from the start. One saving grace is it will be gone soon anyway. All the best and keep the content coming.
@shazdaz
@shazdaz 2 ай бұрын
Take it easy, buddy & we really hope you both get that holiday ✌️🙏💙
@andrewgarnham3398
@andrewgarnham3398 2 ай бұрын
Wishing you both the best and hope you have found safe of road storage for Dragon fly and have a few weeks to get de-stress 😀
@livingthedreambuildingthedream
@livingthedreambuildingthedream 2 ай бұрын
I have been a huge fan of your channel for a few years and I love it. Carry on doing what you do best I think your being the bigger man and not talking about the issue online protect your channel. That’s what is important. Good luck Mel. I hope Rebecca’s video doesn’t reflect on your channel.
@keithteather5579
@keithteather5579 2 ай бұрын
Don’t let it get you down things happen for a reason you and Becky will end up better than ever
@Michael-m4y
@Michael-m4y 2 ай бұрын
I would think about upgrading the locks on your lock up, looks too easy to break into and with all that good stuff inside you don't want that going missing
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
I’m on it now thank you 👍🍻👍
@mickp3526
@mickp3526 2 ай бұрын
Anything with a committee steer clear.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
You’re not wrong
@drexelspivey6472
@drexelspivey6472 2 ай бұрын
hopefully you,ll get some peace once you get Dragon fly out ,a holiday and a bit of a well deserved rest will give you both a chance to reflect and maybe build a few bridges or not ,look after yourself Mel
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the positive vibes 🫶
@stephenpoessl5464
@stephenpoessl5464 2 ай бұрын
Oh Mel I am so sorry for you both but I am sure something will come good for you.
@JohnIrwin-rw8zi
@JohnIrwin-rw8zi 2 ай бұрын
Keep on doing what you’s do best put that barn behind you’s we have been a fan of your along time now keep it going😊👌onward👍
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!! For your support over the years really appreciated
@MrSteve1412
@MrSteve1412 2 ай бұрын
So sorry to hear how they have treated you and Becky the barn would never of been the success that it was without your input hold your head up high and walk away with pride Hope you are still going to show us the completion of dragon fly
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you and yes you’re right about that it would probably still be an empty barn without mine and Beckys hard work
@angeladawn805
@angeladawn805 2 ай бұрын
I've not (had time to) check into this channel for some time, so I'm astonished about the totally different vibe (it was my happy place). Being suddenly homeless /baseless can be quite stressful (been there, sans véhicule)- and all matériel goods become a burden. Hope everything is resolved with minimal damage, and nothing is posted (by any party - or viewer) that will be regretted down the line. Take care, and here's to brighter beginings
@christophermccann7528
@christophermccann7528 2 ай бұрын
If you decide to start a new workshop area plz do a go fund me or something similar, will support as best we can. Without you the van world is a sad place. Can not comment on the situation as dont know facts, not going to pry but you have taught us so much over years. Grateful. Be you . Your better than they seem to be.
@studiotwentyfive
@studiotwentyfive 2 ай бұрын
I have watched for longer than the barn days and tbh I think the concept is great but Mel should find somewhere he owns and do something similiar but properly. Good luck
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support over the years I’m planning on building my channel to the point where I can get my own work shop to be able to continue to grow 👍🫶
@markfletcher3638
@markfletcher3638 2 ай бұрын
Sad to see it come to this but things happen for a reason which is probably for the better! Best of luck from someone that has watched all of your content.
@Cheekymonkey1
@Cheekymonkey1 2 ай бұрын
good afternoon Becky and Mel i love watching your videos on your KZbin channel I hope you are all well and enjoying your conversion on your campervan sorry to hear that you and Becky are leaving the barn I hope that you too can still finish your conversion on your campervan please mel why it is called Dragonfly Can you say why please keep safe and warm please keep up on your youtube channel don't get up set please
@NickFarrar-x1d
@NickFarrar-x1d 2 ай бұрын
Well your out of there now. New beginnings. Things happen for a reason and im sure you both will be happier moving forward. no one need a bad atmosphere
@martinfield1484
@martinfield1484 2 ай бұрын
Wow Mel what a nightmare I’m glad your nearly out of there if you can get dragonfly into another workshop soon so that’s safe then I think you both need a rest and a think where you go from here I’m still hoping you’ll continue filming the van build and after that as well as you say I wish you well😉
@davidglassford2194
@davidglassford2194 2 ай бұрын
These are stress levels you could both do without. Good luck moving forward 👍🏻
@Wils-h7j
@Wils-h7j 2 ай бұрын
Good luck Mel and all the best in your new lockup keep putting up the videos
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! Will do!
@johnpatterson5744
@johnpatterson5744 2 ай бұрын
Yeah it doesn’t cost anything to be civil,sounds like you’ll both be better off out of it.Ive subscribed to Becky’s channel so ill hear more about what’s been going on god bless.and hopefully you both have had a terrific holiday 👍.✊🙏❤️👌👊😎
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 👍🍻👍
@Framinator
@Framinator 2 ай бұрын
Van life for me personally is a way of creating a gap between myself and others. It can take 10.....20..year's to trust another. Enjoy the solitude and sanctuary that our country offers. Amen bruv. Keep calm x
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 👍👍
@mike-roy
@mike-roy 2 ай бұрын
Get the hell out of there.... and don't look back mate!
@stephenlipton525
@stephenlipton525 2 ай бұрын
Sorry you are having so much trouble. don't let the "bar stewards" grind you down!
@zoltar666pz
@zoltar666pz 2 ай бұрын
Omg you both are so kind & always helping them in that place bit sounds of your voice they defo have got to you. I am like you I would help anyone now I look out for number One me, I did help a person now he is making ££££ from my free help so now I do not show anyone how to get stuff it is a sad live when we have to do this onwards & upwards for you both
@WildWoodlandsSW
@WildWoodlandsSW 2 ай бұрын
Informative,and entertaining 👍🙂Look forward to more adventures. Beat wishes.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you appreciate that 👍🍻👍
@tufftavv-c1d
@tufftavv-c1d 2 ай бұрын
Been watching you for years you are a nice person. There loss i think people have changed since kung ku.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you x
@tufftavv-c1d
@tufftavv-c1d 2 ай бұрын
@@BigVanSmallWorld we're disabled and we get picked on by a horrid man on the estate police don't help us me and my partner. Green smokers all around us no good.
@RoamSweetHome23
@RoamSweetHome23 2 ай бұрын
New doors don't open until old doors are closed. Things can only get better 🙏 😊
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
That’s so true thank you for your kind words of encouragement 🙏🫶👍
@Countrymouse123
@Countrymouse123 8 күн бұрын
Love a lot trust a few always float your own canoe ❤
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 8 күн бұрын
@@Countrymouse123 I like that. Thank you for sharing 👍🤓👍
@jemmak1678
@jemmak1678 2 ай бұрын
I reallf enjoy your channel Mel, sorry thus happened. Youll look back and realise you were better off out of it anyway.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
I hope so too!thank you for the positive vibes really appreciate that
@dsmale7067
@dsmale7067 2 ай бұрын
Chin up Mel, will work out for the best in the end, 👍
@MrDezwez
@MrDezwez 2 ай бұрын
keep posting Mel love your video 👍
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, I will
@kaikito7662
@kaikito7662 2 ай бұрын
" Forgot to turn the lights off again." .........like a Ninja.
@AVanLifeThing
@AVanLifeThing 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing the reality of things. There's always 2 sides to every story but it's nice to see some reality. If you're ever in West Wales can accom You were more than reasonable asking for 30 days. Meeting halfway to give you extra time especially over the bank holiday would have been a nice thing to do.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you that’s very kind of you
@AndyPipkin-dj8sy
@AndyPipkin-dj8sy 2 ай бұрын
a barn committee for a barn getting knocked down sound like a bunch of losers
@justinlinnane8043
@justinlinnane8043 2 ай бұрын
they sound like bunch of self important tossers 😂
@domwilcox8242
@domwilcox8242 2 ай бұрын
Yes spot on mate, not a very successful committee then, lol.
@craigmelvin5206
@craigmelvin5206 2 ай бұрын
Really does doesn't it, tosspots
@zonkanator
@zonkanator 2 ай бұрын
Nobody can really comment unless u tell the whole story mel on everything but unless u have a tendency contract ur lucky the haven't dragged all ur stuff outside
@SACREDTRAVELLER
@SACREDTRAVELLER 2 ай бұрын
We had a contract yes. It was to run and manage the place until it was knocked down. Sadly this was broken by others not us.
@humandread
@humandread 2 ай бұрын
Rent a big trailer and move all your stuff at once, better/safer for your stuff and peace of mind. We living in the Netherlands so we cant do much for you but sending you much love!
@anfieldroadlayoutintheloft5204
@anfieldroadlayoutintheloft5204 2 ай бұрын
good vid on channel sorry over wot happed over you at the work place hold head up mell and beckey keep up the great vid you do and share with use thanks lee
@geoff2373
@geoff2373 2 ай бұрын
Hi mel just seen your video. When you have all your stuff out send him a pack of Pampers as they all sound like a petulant toddler's . Keep your chin up old boy don't let them grind you down to their level .hugs to all and a bone for Monty..
@trevorwhalley7466
@trevorwhalley7466 Ай бұрын
It is a normal procedure that these folks take, make things as difficult as possible for you but making out its all your doing, you are right to move on .!
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld Ай бұрын
Thank you for the positive vibes we are definitely moving on to a new chapter now 👍🤓👍
@neilisherwood7358
@neilisherwood7358 2 ай бұрын
I'm right behind you guys. Onwards and upwards. Fu***k the tos***rs. God look to you both. I love both your vlogs.❤❤
@wayne1243
@wayne1243 2 ай бұрын
Sad for you both but you best out of it pal . There loss not yours Mel ⛱️👍
@AlanAlanAlanDave
@AlanAlanAlanDave 23 күн бұрын
So, what I take from this video is that the reality of van life is not as most van lifers portray i.e. all the gear you don't cart around with you 24/7 has to be stored somewhere.
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 22 күн бұрын
Absolutely you definitely need a storage unit for all your crap well I do anyway plus it’s an address somewhere to get more crap you don’t need delivered 😂🤣👍
@Diane-NewNomads
@Diane-NewNomads 2 ай бұрын
Given the amount of time you have spent on other people's vans (including ours!) it is really disappointing that the situation got so unpleasant. Glad you are out and on to a new chapter!
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you stay safe out there hopefully see you soon xx
@guyemmott4009
@guyemmott4009 2 ай бұрын
Mel.. I'm certain that someone out there in 'subscriber land' will have some undercover space for you to use/rent...🤷🏼‍♂️🙏🏼
@WhipperdeetsAdventures
@WhipperdeetsAdventures 2 ай бұрын
Bud I would have helped you always especially to save your back and you wouldn’t have done so my trips . Could have got a lot more in my lwb. Sorry to hear this of you both I know you worked so hard the past two years at the barn 🙏 sending hugs 💙🤗
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Thank you that’s very kind of you to offer x
@splitparadox
@splitparadox 2 ай бұрын
You have friends here Mel !!!!!!
@Hadesdetecting
@Hadesdetecting 2 ай бұрын
Dunno what to say but I had someone turn like that so kinda see how you feel totally gutting.Chin up mate your a top bloke and if you need a southern seaside break let me know and I'll join you for fish and chips...love the choice of song btw lol.Good luck to you both moving forward 🚐
@SACREDTRAVELLER
@SACREDTRAVELLER 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Chris ❤
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Hay buddy thank you we will definitely take you up on that offer I’ll let you know the next time we’re headed your way take care and happy hunting 👍🍻👍
@marcosteffano
@marcosteffano 2 ай бұрын
As a iod Brickie I spray my back with deep heat in the morning before I start using my back which helps stop the back problem.
@SACREDTRAVELLER
@SACREDTRAVELLER 2 ай бұрын
He’s got me to massage his back better 😊
@deenunya7735
@deenunya7735 2 ай бұрын
​@@SACREDTRAVELLER didn't Mel have Groin Injury Some Years Go Too 😮😂
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
That’s great advice thank you 🙏
@stevepayne9691
@stevepayne9691 2 ай бұрын
Hi Mel, sorry to see all s×!t your having to put up with at the barn, no rimes a good time i know. Anyway i bought you a few coffee's a couple a weeks ago, but aint received any stickers, cheers mate, im copy ing your hot water idea (brilliant) all the best to you both steve payne
@BigVanSmallWorld
@BigVanSmallWorld 2 ай бұрын
Oh no! I will have to check what’s happened 👍
@jamesmackay4652
@jamesmackay4652 2 ай бұрын
If I had a place you and Beky would be welcome,you help people and they take kindness as softness,f m all.
@wicksta
@wicksta 2 ай бұрын
You're fine to film while driving, as long as you aren't holding the camera or being distracted by it. Under the Highway Code and Road Traffic Act, you must maintain full control of your vehicle at all times. If the police believe that filming causes you to be distracted or that you are not in proper control of your vehicle, you can be penalised. So don't have a screen or anything visible. Hope you sort somewhere decent out - good luck!
@truth3358
@truth3358 2 ай бұрын
your not allowed to film yourself while driving it’s called driver distraction and it’s 6 points while driving your instantly not concentrating on your driving while filming yourself i do know as i do know someone who’s had this penalty
@wicksta
@wicksta 2 ай бұрын
@@truth3358 yes if you are proven to being distracted then you can be. Just talking to a camera is fine, otherwise every single motoring journalist on TV would have received a summons by now.
@carlsadventures2361
@carlsadventures2361 2 ай бұрын
Sorry to see that you've had to move out when your half way through your project really you should have had more notice from the land lord.
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