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[@BlackPantherrStudios]

Bizzy Bone is the greatest. Great video 😊😊☀️

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Beautiful family beautiful family that bizzy Bone and jcàss.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Even though your mom and dad or not together anymore JCASS your mom and dad will always have love for one another

[@charlita25]

Bizzy is very supportive husband

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I hope I find a man that's good like that to me because it's so hard nowadays to find men like that because so many men are out for themselves and they don't care about other person and they don't care about the relationship they in only thing they care about is what they can get out the relationship.

[@introvertedbrainygirl181]

@@monicamariamclean2198 once you find out who you are , you will attract a like minded person on your frequency or higher

[@shanascott7413]

Yes he seems like a very very supportive husband

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Everybody everybody has to be supportive of her you know in this very important for us to be supportive of JCASS. because you know she's going to need our support everybody's not blessed to grow up in a loving caring family home everybody's not blessed to have that

[@pridefulebony3905]

Thank u for being so transparent & sharing. I just love how Bizzy loves on u! ❤❤❤. I had an aunt/uncle that got divorced after 26 yrs of marriage and it shocked me to my core. I used to spend summers at their house & looked up to their marriage because they were so cute together then BOOM! Divorce news. I could not eat the whole day when i received the news so I feel where Jcass is coming from. But hopefully u move forward in a positive way.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Stay strong JCASS you'll get through it you're stronger than you know

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Jessica is good that your mom and dad are still friends always and forever and that's how it's supposed to be you shouldn't feel sorry about anyting because you have a beautiful husband and a beautiful family with your step children from Bizzy Bone Bryon Anthony Mccane mr. Wonderful

[@ericanelson1461]

Good words Bizzy & JCass. Through it all you can still make it.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Good words Bizzy Bone to help JCASS get through all her pain from her mother and father,s divorce

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Love the family God has blessed you with don't complicate things if you don't have to cuz when you complicate things you only make it harder on you when they don't have to be

[@bva5362]

Take thoughts away from yourself, and appreciate the wonderful relationship your parents still have for each other. Yes, keep looking out for your father’s wellbeing, but continue to be thankful for having both parents that love you, your family, and each other!

[@snowpoodie2870]

I Love You JCass Stay Strong Bizzy Bone Is One Of My Favorite Rap Lyrictists Of All Time I Respect Bizzy Bone On Supporting His Wife Hes A Real One BTNH4Life Cleveland Legend

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

And to be honest, I wouldn't even be thinking about that. If I was married to someone like Bizzy Bone And the only reason why I said. I wouldn't even be thinking about that. Because I wouldn't want to put my parents. Problems are my problems. With my parents on his shoulders. I would just focus on my husband and my family and my child. And my children that we would have in the future. Cause when you focus on the past and you bring it into your new relationship. You bring it in more baggage to your new relationship. Your new marriage that don't need to be there. And that's gonna put a strain on your relationship and your marriage.

[@angiemendoza2098]

God bless you two and y’all’s family

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Bizzy Bone help her through a bizzy bone to be there for her and we could help her through it as well the jammers

[@stacey_1111rh]

You two guys are an inspiration. That’s the type of love I’m looking forward to having. Best wishes

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Yeah it's hard for anyone it's hard for everyone but sometimes in life you have to deal with the hand that your dealt with in time it will make you a stronger person .

[@tiffanyblack6911]

Damn, she made me cry😢... Keep ya head up👍🏼

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

Yeah, but she fighting a Battle that she can't when And Jessica needs to realize that I said it's not up to her. It's up to her mom and her dad if they don't get back together And it's up to the Lord above.😇😇🙏🙏 If God is willing, then it'll happen. But at the end of the day it's up to Your father and your mother to find a Union back to each other, it's not up to you. It's up to them too, cause at the end of the day. They once they have to make it work.

[@siswitvision75]

We Love you Cass! Stay strong 💪🥰🙏

[@monicamariamclean2198]

We do we do love JCASS Bizzy Bone she just have to learn to stay strong and she'll do it

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

Show make it, Jessica is a lot stronger than she knows. Where she gotta let go. Of her pace and the things that hurt her in her pace. So she can look forward to her future with Bryon and her son Jesse

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

Only the stong 😊 survive.❤❤❤

[@shanascott7413]

I love hearing jcass story about her parents far as hearing that she's close to her parents

[@monicamariamclean2198]

But it's not going to be easy for her it's not going to be easy for JCASS just to get over it we the jammer have to help her get over it because it's not going to be easy for her

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I love you know I love Bryon to pieces I love them to pieces and it's nothing in this world that I wouldn't do for him because I love him that much I love him very very that's my best friend that's my my real dog that's my everything he's everything to me and even though we can't be together I'm so happy that he's found someone to make him happy and I'm so proud too be his friend 10

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Yeah because everybody don't grow up with families like that that I worry loving a lot of people grow up and dysfunctional families which is very sad and it's good to see that she doesn't come from the kind of background that bizzy bone comes from you know because I've always wanted to be with a man like busy Bone and the only reason why I say that because I know that busy bone would treat me like a woman and he wouldn't treat me like a child and he'll give me the family that I've always wanted cuz I've always wanted to be a part or to be with someone that came from a big family or had a big family that's the only reason why I said that I would have loved to be with someone like busy Bone or crazy Bone you know cuz busy Bone and crazy Bone out of everybody in Bone thugs and Harmony they have the most children so and I've always wanted to be with somebody that has a big family because I've always I've always wanted to be a mother and I've always wanted to be have children of my own

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

Yeah, hurt me to see her like that true. But she'll learn how to deal with it. Cause I had to deal with the same thing. When my father and my mother wasn't going together. They never get married but I had to deal with the same thing. And then my mother got remirred and I had to. Get used to him in order of a kind of stuff though I understand it how Jessica feels.

[@alexismartinez1981]

Ahhh I'm hooked on yous!!! As long as they both have your love they will aways be yours🥰🥰

[@monicamariamclean2198]

She'll get through it she'll get through it she has Brian and baby Jam so she'll be fine only thing she has to do is keep the faith and ask Lord to keep her strong through her mother's and fathers divorce 😭😭😭😢😢☹️☹️

[@jdb9388]

wow much respect, i appreciate Jess opening up this what unites the Jam Fam closer Im happy for Bizzy he really found a good girl, she is one of the sweetest and circumspect young ladies i ever seen God bless yall and may Jesus cover your beautiful family

[@charlita25]

Lol 😂 the bear 🐻 claws and Cleveland pajamas look hella comfy

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Don't cry Jessica it's going to be alright you got something on family now a husband a man that loves you you live in your life with a legend and don't get no better than that

[@maxnguyen22]

Brave hearts. Y'all make such a great couple. I'm a super jammer now

[@keyscott-hale939]

Well, Bizzie im you .. So far as family goes. I damn sure did experience a broken household. That shit fucks wit me ALOT. Ironic part is.. No one can ever see it on me.. Til i speak it. But to this day i experience depressing moments cuz i still wished i had family up bringing that was together. I suffer many days as far as family cuz i aint never really experienced mine..and surely have envied..and now just admire anyone who has a close family and disciplined childhood.

[@wonderwomen2800]

He's so sweet

[@monicamariamclean2198]

He is he is very very sweet 😌😌Is still sexy all these years Mr .Bryon Anthony Mccane

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

Yeah, but you gotta understand I understand that too but you gotta athough Jessica. Everybody was not raised like that's we are everybody was not raised like that, me and Bryon was not raised like that.

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

I hope I find a man like that one day. He's he's sexy and sweet and so understanding

[@monicamariamclean2198]

A break-up in a relationship is not easy for anyone or a break-up in a marriage not easy for anyone that's why I'm taking my time living my life having my have my fun waiting for God to send me my mr. Right. Stay stronger Jessica like bizzy Bone The mid West çowboy

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Yeah Bryon always be here for you and I'll always be here for you because I know how hard it is I mean my my father and my mother never been married but they were together and I've always wanted my father and my mother to be married you know so but like I said life don't always paying out the way you want it to so I understand that it doesn't always happen when you want it.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I know you wanted your family I know you wanted your mom and your dad could stay together forever JCASS sometimes who people are just not meant to last forever some things I just not meant to last forever some things happen for a reason

[@ErinDeNis]

Ya’ll are just the cutest couple to me.

[@justinwood8225]

Its all in God's control. You got great husband B ❤

[@monicamariamclean2198]

God don't put nothing in your way that you can't handle God don't put nothing in your past that you can't handle you just have to have faith and if it's meant for you'll mom and dad to be together it will happen by the grace of God 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

That's kind of how it is with the only child from my mother. But I have other sisters and brother from my father. ❤❤😊 😊

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

You might have a lot of rainy days, but it's not gonna be like that forever. You have to enjoy your life while you live it. You know, that's why God made this world for us, too. Enjoy it You only got one life to live. And when you go up there to hevan, you can't take none of this stuff with you.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Sometimes people don't realize that they have a good thing untill it's too late I understand how you feel but sometimes it's too late to put a relationship back together again and as much as you want your mom dad back together again they have to want it too you can't put relationship back together if it's meant for your mother and I happen when it's supposed to happen but if I were you I wouldn,t worry about that I was just worry about that about keeping my family together like it showed that we have that strong bond so I won't lose my husband or my marriage if I were you because sometimes it's not worth worrying about things you can't change what's done is done.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I'll always be here for you Jessica

[@vikkistar3104]

Wow I didn't know that much about Bizzy bone

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

Girl, I know everything about bone thugs n harmony When I grew up, I had all bone thugs. And how many posters on my wall? When I was a little girl I had the posters on my wall. I hate the types the cd,s I knew everything about him.Why you didn't call me girl?I kinda told you about your man

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Understand how you feel we all want that for our family members and father to stay the devil but sometimes life sometimes life doesn't turn out that way in life doesn't always turn out the way you respected to

[@daisydaisy1696]

You’re dad reminds me of my uncle. You are not Alone when it comes to your dad. Trust me I’m familiar with the personality

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I feel you and I understand how you feel Jessica Mccane but you can't worry about that you have to stay strong and keep your family together so you won't lose your husband Bryon Anthony Mccane it's not up to you to keep your father and mother together it's up to you them to keep their marriage together it would have been nothing you can do to keep your mother and father together they will have to do that on their own and they will have to fight to keep it together I know it's hard for you you have to accept things the way they are and and worry about your family and your husband staying together .

[@MoniqueB83]

Yep

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

Jessica mccane What doesn't kill you make you stronger And God doesn't give you nothing in your life. That you can handle your stronger then you know

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Don't cry Jessica you'll be able to get used to it as time goes on everybody wants their everybody wants their mom in their dad to be together forever you're not the only one you're not the only one that goes through that I wanted my my mother and my father to be together forever but sometimes I like don't always end up the way we wanted to be you're with a man that all of us women want cuz you got a good man in your life and a lot of us when we get into relationships and marriages we don't get blessed to be with a man who Loves us women unconditionally

[@monicamariamclean2198]

You can open up to Bryon you can tell Bron ything he'll be there for you he's so understanding

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

I know how you feel, Jessica. I'm a daddy's girl too. But but every relationship you get most relationships. You get intò not meant to last forever.

[@blacklatinabutterflycortez6354]

Omg. Those bedroom slippers. 💀😂

[@blacklatinabutterflycortez6354]

I am in agreement with J.Cass about a divorce hitting adult children a lot harder versus when they are young. I am definitely a witness. Holidays haven't been the same since my parents divorced 20 years ago, and alliances have formed amongst some of my relatives. 💔

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

That's all Bryon used to because hes used to dealing with his family members. Not staying together for a long. But when you get married to a person, you really have to know that. That's the person you want to be, but for the rest of your life. Because marriage aint nothing to play with.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I'm the only child too from my mother but my father has more children so have more sisters and a brother on my father's side of my family so I'm kind of like bizzy bone in that sense we had the same father but we don't have the same mother but we still love each other like

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

Jessica, your mom and dad will always have love for each otheven even though they're not together and married anymore.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Don't cry Jessica Mccane if it's meant for your mother and father to get back together it'll happen in it's own time.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I feel you JCASS I feel you JCASS I I'm a daddy's girl myself and I'm closer to my dad than my mother cuz my mother was so strict on me when I was a little girl but our relationship is getting better because I'm getting older and then I don't live with her anymore I stay by myself so I'll never move with her again and if I have kids I will be I will teach them right and wrong but I won't be so strict on them like my mother was on me because they think that healthy and it's not because that can make your kids become real barbarious towards you and I want my kids to know that they can trust me you know if I ever have the kind of family that you and Bryon has.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Everybody want that family to stay together when they get together they mother and a father but sometimes life don't turn out that way life don't always turn out the way we wanted to be you just have to learn how to adjust with the new situation that you're in because if not it's going to tear you apart and eat you alive and then you're not good to know one you're not good to yourself you not good for your relationships you not good for your friends you not good to anyone that's why you have to learn how to let go and move on with your life and if it's meant for you and your friend and your family and your mother and father to get back together Jessica Mccane it will happen .🙏🏼🙏🏼💯💯💞💞💙💙😭😭

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

I mean, I understand how you feel. I'm not. I have a baby back. I had my baby back in 20023 And i'm not with my baby,s father but I will always love my baby's father because he gave me a beautiful baby girl .👶👶👶

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I understand how you feel you know I wanted my parents to be together forever but sometimes JCASS the people that we love and the people that we want to be with forever and be with forever we not meant to be with forever that's just the way that it is sometimes because God has something better for us

[@monicamariamclean2198]

We understand how you feel and not understand how you feel but at the same time you have your own family now you and Bryon are married and you have your own family now you can't be worrying about your friend your mother and father's problems if it's meant for them your family mother and father to get back together it'll happen and it'll happen on its own.

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

I understand how you feel. Jessica cause that's how I felt about my family not being together about my mom and dad. Not being together and not getting married, but every battle is not for us. To our parents to get back together, it's not up to us. And no matter how much we might want that to happen. It doesn't happen all the time like we want. You know, we can't always get what we want in life. You know, I want a sweet man like bizzy bone but it's no guarantee in life that I'm gonna get a man like that because I want a man to treat me like a Queen. I want a man to. To door me and to love me and not treat me like a mother. F****** doormat, cause I'm not that I've never heard of that, and I've always been a type of woman. I've always been a independent person. You know, I've always been that way. Because my mother raised me to be like that.

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

Understand your family and your mother. And your father means the world to you. Jessica, but you also have to understand that you have a life of your own now and you have your own family and you can't be worried about your mother and your father's problem. they have to work it meant for them to be back together again. They will get back together again. But only your mother and your father can make that happen.

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

I understand that you're very close to me. And that's your mother and your father. And they mean everything to you, Jessica. But at the same time, you have to have your own life. Your own friends for you and Bryon You have to have your own Union for you and Bryon. You can't be worried about your mother and your father relationship. Is this meant for them to get back together by the grace of God they will, but. But if they don't. Press pray For your mother and your father, to stay close to one another.

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

It takes 2 people to make a relationship work. It also takes two people to make a Marriage The man his And the woman have to do her part everything in between.

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

I'm the only child from my brothers and sisters on my mother's side. My brother and sisters. From my daddy's side of my family

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Only the Strong survive only the Strong survive Jessica Mccane

[@monicamariamclean2198]

You're with somebody that will help you get through anything JCASS because Bizzy Bone really really loves you and he'll help you get through anything because Bizzy bone has we have been friends for so many years I could have told you what kind of women that Bizzy bone like cuz I know Bizzy Bone the like the back of my hand so I could have told you you know because I know my best friend you know that's my best friend and I've always loved him and I always respected him and I've always been his number one fan in love always been here for him no matter what he wanted to do that's my best friend Bizzy Bone my best friend and even though we can't be together and we can't be together we can't be in a relationship or nothing like that me and busy Bone we always going to be tight because that's my best friend and you know he loves me no matter what just like I love him no matter what now I'll do anything to make I love the pieces that's my best friend

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I understand how you feel Jessica if it's meant for your family to get if it's meant for your mother and your father to get back together again and be married and be together like they they used to be your mother and your father used to be then you have to let God handling you can't stress yourself all about it cuz you going to lose your relationship and mess up your relationship with Brian cuz you have to you have to think about Brian and your son you can't be worrying about your mother and your father that's there relationship and if they want to be together it's their responsibility to put it back together it's not your responsibility to put their relationship back together that's your mother and your father's responsibility it's not yours because they have to want to be together and if it's meant for them to be together and they really love each other and want to give you one more try then it'll happen but you just have to keep your faith in God and stay strong you know so you can be there for your son and and for your fiance and your husband because you crying over it it's not going to make it that's not going to understand that you're hurt and I understand that your heartbroken over the fact that your family is not together no more but crying over it is not going to make your father and your mother that's not going to make them get back together just cuz you crying and just cuz you're hurt and just cuz your heart broken they have to want to be together you know

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

I understand how you feel Jessica, but at the same time, it's not up to us for our parents to get back together. Our parents have to want to be back together. You know it's not up to us and sometimes we can't always get what we want in life. You know, I always wanna mama. Lend my father to get married and be together forever. But sometimes it just doesn't happen like that and we gotta take it. We gotta, we gotta take life. The wealthy and sometimes that's a good thing, and sometimes it's not. We? Just have to take it the way it is.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I understand what you're saying but at the same time everybody's not blessed to have parents so close like that that been married so long but I feel what you saying though everybody wants their family to stay together but sometimes whatever reason things don't always turn out that way is sometimes no matter how hard you work to keep it to to keep a relationship together sometimes it's just best to go your separate ways and let God work it out for you and if it's meant for you to be your parents your mom and dad to be together let God handle it put it in God's hands and let God handle it and let him work it out let God work it out in the name of Jesus Christ

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

I understand that you don't get to see your family member like that, but, but you have to go see them if you want to be closer to your members You have to make the effort Jessica Mccane If you want to have a relationship with them you have to put in the time and the work.😢😢 😢😢

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

I understand how you feel cool, Jessica, but even though. It was like that in the past with you and your mother and your father. Thanks doesn't always stay. The sign And you're a lot stronger than you know. Then you give yourself credit for you are a lot longer than you think It hurts me to my heart to see you in so much. But what doesn't kill you makes you a stronger person. I know it doesn't seem like this now, but you will get through this. You will get. Throw Through The fact of. Your mother and your father not being together anymore. And it'll be hard to deal with always, but. But to deal with them, not being together will become more easier for you to deal it. But you're a lot stronger than you know.😭😭😢😥😭😭

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

Jessica Mccane, next time you don't want to put a hole in Bryon Anthony McCane shirt. Use the sithers, use the sithers and cut. The tag off.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

You feel that way Jessica because you're the only child and you don't have brothers and sisters I'm closer to my dad and my momthe reason why I'm closer to my dad dad then my mom is because my mom treats me like a baby my daddy treats me like a grown woman.

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

If it's meant for your parent. To get back together, JessicaMccane It happened by God's graces. Sometimes we can't fix. Always fix our parents relationships. Sometimes it takes more than that for our parents to come back together, but if it's meant for your parents to get back together, it'll happened by God's graces. Yes And it will happen. Only if it's God's will. And God, destiny. For your parents. To get back to the together In the long run.

[@MaryRamirez-d1b]

No- No-No Devorce!

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

That's because you love your parents and at the same time. It's nothing wrong with that. Everybody should love their parents like that, but they don't. But on the other hand Jessica. You? Have to live your life too. You can be focusing on your mother and your father situation. If it's meant for them to be back together and get back to It will happened if it's meant to happen But you can't force it to happen. it has to happen on its own and if it's true love from your mother and father, they'll get back together on their own. But can't nobody do that? But God you don't want to focus on it too much, because then then you end up losing your marriage. And losing your husband. then it'll happen But. But sometimes people take advantage of the relationship. Because they're so used to being together for so long.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

That's all he used to Jessica he's Bryon is not used to being with a woman like you and that's all he know that's all he know being with people and broken situations because that's all Bryon Anthony Mccane is used to and when you're used to something being a certain way sometimes it's kind of hard to get used to something new

[@monicamariamclean2198]

JCASS this can be good therapy for you know your parents are not together anymore and yes a divorce is hard but you will adjust and you can adjust and if it's meant for your father and your mother to get back together into get married and to spend the rest of their life together again it'll happen yes the voice is hurt us and break UPS hurt us but we have to to as many women we have to move on with our life and let our parents have they own life and we have ours and grandparents too we can't live a life and we can't run that life they have to want to be together. And we have our own lives all you can do is pray and hopefully your mom and dad will find love again like they found love with each other but they'll find love with other people and they love you and Bryon just as much

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I understand we understand that you love your parents we understand all of us love our parents and we hate to see them break up we hate to see our parents and mothers and fathers and the two people that we love more than anybody in this world break up we hate to see that but it's not up to our mother it's not up to us children to bring our mothers and fathers back together it's up to our parents to be together my mother and my father not together either but I still love them they not together either but I still love them my father my father is with someone else now my mother is with someone else now but I still love her I still love my father and I still love my mother everybody wants their parents to stay together but sometimes Jessica and I can understand why you feel this way but sometimes you know people are not meant to be together forever and yes it's sad and yes it does hurt but sometimes things are not always meant to be that way.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

This is disabled Bryon and know your comments are not disabled cuz I've been leaving your comment on this on this episode for months now they're not disabled they was before but they're not now

[@briangasilos8185]

😢😢

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

The mom and my daddy too. But I love my daddy. I'm closer to my daddy. A little bit more than my mom. But the same time I also know and I also understand that they have their own lives. And they can't always be with me all the time. See, the thing is Jessica when you decide to be an adult and you decide to be grown. And you decide to get married and have a family. You will always have your mother and your father there but. It's no more living with your mother and your father. When you went to college and decide to go away and go to school and go to college. And you decided to get married to Bryon Started to get married to Bryan. That's aparthat's a part of your life that you decided to give up. To be with the man that you love and your husband and your family and your children. And Byron's children, it's no more going back home. To Mommy and daddy. When you get married. 👰 I am closer to my father more then mother because she was too hard on me Because of that, I am very disciplined because of my mother being so hard on me

[@monicamariamclean2198]

He wasn't going to think that Jessica because that's all he used to so he wasn't going to think that way about you because that's all Bryon is used to I know that about Bryon because he puts it in his music.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I'm closer to my dad more than my mom I love my mom we we argue because my mother is too overprotective of me I'm her only child

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Most of the people that get together now a days JCASS they not going to be together they not going to be together for forever anyway because they don't even know how to deal with each other that can't even stand stand being in the same room with the person so if you can't stand being in the room with a person how you going to spend the rest your life with that person when you can't even stand being around that person

[@monicamariamclean2198]

Yeah that that would be a tough situation for anybody cuz I remember when my mom got a divorce from my stepfather you know I never really liked him his name was Richard but I never really liked him cuz I never really gave him a chance I open my heart you know after you know they was almost breaking up and now they not together anymore and I told my mom you know that's why I didn't want to get close to him because I understand you know cuz I was close to his kids and everything and that's why I didn't want to get close to him because now they not together anymore and they're divorce you know and I put my heart in my soul on the line for him and he hurt my mother you know that's why I really really didn't want to get close to my step father you know I really really didn't want to get close to him you know because this is what happens and now my mother and my stepfather Richard is not married anymore so it hurts it really hurts because I want it my father and my mother to get married and have a Long foundation and all that kind of stuff I wanted my mother and my father to be together you know forever you know but sometimes things don't always work like that like the things that we want in life don't always happen the way that we want you know so and it's hurtful and and yes it hurts but in time it'll get easier it'll get easy

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

I love my ex-boyfriend. I love my ex fiancée. But that doesn't mean that I want to back them Because first of all. I don't move on with my life. I don't look At them like that no more .

[@Marshpasa1234]

Not to be mean but honestly you sound very self centered and immature. You aren't putting yourself in their shoes enough you are mostly thinking about what you like and what you lost and didnt hear you acknowledge enough what they are gaining from the separation but mainly focusing on your loss and feelings. At the end of the day life and/or situations are always changing and evolving its just what it is. Since you're married now with a baby, you can fill that void with your own family and build your very own tripod. Anyway take care guys. So glad to see you both being supportive of each other. God bless.

[@a.tempest7596]

Nah I disagree. It's not like she is disregarding them completely. She is saying that after 34 years it is a great loss and an extremely terrible loss not just to them but for her as well. And of course it is. My parents got divorced when I was like 8 but they were violent and I was glad the violence was going away. But what makes her seem immature to you? Merely because she does not wholly approve of her parents divorce and fails to see any positivity in it? There are not always positives in divorce. I agree that the man needed a wake up call but I do not know them and I cannot say therefore one way or the other. But I appreciate her being brave enough to show part of her vulnerable side to us. She does not have to share her life with us. Furthermore it is none of our business. And if it is none of our business yet she does so to possibly comfort others who have been through painful experiences I respect that. But since this is none of our business and we don't know her parents at all we cannot legit say whether it was a good decision or a bad decision merely on hearing the story told by her. We would have to know these people and gain much knowledge of them before we could speak thus as you have. I think you spoke a bit rashly. I am not saying it was intended to hurt anyone's feelings but it certainly could easily do so. And because of all of this I disagree. Nevertheless God bless you as well. And I thank you that you were not half as harsh as some of these people on here.

[@JAMtvOfficial]

We appreciate your wonderful advice but on this channel we have a right to express how we feel. You have no idea how the outcome was or anytghing to assume off of one time sharing our story.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

@@JAMtvOfficial I'm not close to my mom I'm closer to my dad cuz he's he he I'm his daughter but he also understands that I'm a grown woman and he understands that I'm going to do what I want to do you know and he understands that living on my own and I'm by myself my mother is she she doesn't understand how I feel when it comes to certain stuff that's why I don't tell my mother certain stuff like I don't tell my mother about who I'm dating and who I'm doing this good and cuz me and my mother were not as close as we used to be I mean I wish you wasn't like that because I want a relationship with my mom but the reason why me and my mother we really don't have a relationship it's because my mother still treats me like I'm five you know it in 10 years old she still treats me like I'm Jesse's age you know and I'm a grown woman and my father doesn't treat me like that and I appreciate that

[@monicamariamclean2198]

@@JAMtvOfficial And how you I understand how you feel Jessica but at the same time I would just be worried about my husband and my marriage and my family because you're not going to be able to fix your mother and your father's problems they have to want to fix it for their self it's not up to you it's up to them it's up to your mother your father and God and if it's meant for them if it's meant for your father and your mother to be together again and get married again it'll happen but that's your your mother and your father's problem you have to worry about keeping your family strong and your relationship strong and your marriage strong so you can keep Bryon

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

​@@JAMtvOfficialWe all understand we all been there. But to get Uber the pain, you have to let go of the pain because if you don't, it's gonna eat you alive. And then it's gonna take everything. That's true love away from your family. And BryonAnd it's not it's not fair to them

[@monicamariamclean2198]

It's good that you're close with your family and your mom and your dad Jessica but you need your own life you are married woman don't make your mother and Daddy's problems your if it's meant for you and your mother and your father to get back together and your father and your mother to be married in a happen on its own time if it's meant for your mother and father to get back together again but you have your own life and your own family now and you have to worry about and think about your life and your family and your son

[@monicamariamclean2198]

He wasn't thinking that at all because that's all bizzy Bone that's all Bryon Anthony Mccane that's the only kind of women that he's used to so he wasn't even thinking that at all you know I've been listening to Bizzy Bone and bone for a long time to know what kind of women they used to what kind of women they attract and a lot of times famous people like Bryon and Bone thugs n Harmony the rest of the dude attract women that's not good for them JCASS you the first relationship that I can truly say that Bizzy Bone is happy he's happier than he's ever been and I can see it

[@monicamariamclean2198]

If it was me I will feel the same way that you feel but I wouldn't let it get the best of me because all that's going to do stress you out and it's not worth and it's going to put a strain on you and and marriage and that the end of the day it's not worth it some things in life are done to teach us lessons and how to move on with our lives. because if I were you I wouldn't be worrying about that I will be worrying about keep in mind marriage strong I wouldn't want to lose my family and lose my husband over the situation that's not even my problem.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

We all understand how you feel JCASS but everybody it's not bless to parents that stay together long like that everybody's not blessed like that and dedicated to one another like that everybody in this world's not blessed grow up with family like that that just love each other over everything else and anything else everybody's not blessed like that

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I'm like Bizzy Bone I'm used to that too weather it was with my mother or my father or any parental guidance they wasn't going to be together forever no way fighting you know cheating on each other so they wasn't going to be together forever no way and I'm like Bizzy Bone you know I don't have time to be going back and forth and guys don't know what they want and I want to be in a relationship and get into a relationship that's going to leave to us moving together or even getting married I don't have time for all that back and forth teenagers do that stuff and I'm not a teenager I'm a grown woman I need a grown man like Bizzy Bone I don't have time for people you know who don't know what they want cuz I'm the type of person you do that stuff to me now you'll be by yourself and you'll never have me again.

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

Well, everybody's not like you. I understand that we all understand that Jessica. We all understand it but at the same time. Everybody was not raised like that. I'm closer to my father than my mother. I love her and I care about her and I'm always gonna love her. That's my mother, but we just not close like that. And the only reason why I'm getting along with her name is because of my daughter. Because if it wasn't for my daughter, She would just be my mother and I wouldn't be trying to have no relationship with my mother. The only reason why I'm trying to have a relationship with my mother. Is because of my daughter because I don't want her to grow up. Don't want her to grow up the way I grew up. My daughter see her mother and her grandmother not getting along.I don't want my daughther grown up like that

[@monicamariamclean2198]

divorce and a breakup whether it's a relationship or a divorce it's never easy for anyone but it's not good also to stay in an unhealthy relationship or a healthy marriage it's not good and it's not good for your heart is not good for your mind and it's not good for your soul to stay and unhealthy marriage or relationship you can't be with people that's going to bring bring you down you have to be with people and surround yourself with people that's going to bring you up because this life is hard already in your heart and your soul you just have to know that you're worth it go find love again and to be happy again and you don't have to settle for people that mistreat you or don't know how to treat you right or hurt you or abused you you don't have to settle for that it's lovely out here for everyone you just have to know in your heart and in your mind that you're worth it because if you don't know how you going to give your love to somebody else if you don't know what you're worth how you going to bring joy into someone's life is you don't if you don't try

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I can understand why you so hurt by that JCASS. why you so hurt about your father and your mother not being together any longer because you had it they was together for so many years to the point you got used to it and you know so I understand why you why you in so much pain but you don't have to cry just ask the Lord to help you help you get through it and he'll take away the pain

[@shanascott7413]

My biological father and his wife Collette had been divorced since I can remember now I remember being around them when they were married I thought that things were cool with them and then afterwards I find out they got divorced and since then I had thought that it was basically my fault that it happened to him

[@monicamariamclean2198]

I understand why Jcass has filled away because she the only child and she want her family back together and she want her mother and Daddy to be together because she's a daddy daddy's girl and you know that's how her mother and her father's her for them to be together forever but everybody don't stay together forever and everybody that be together or in a relationship together don't belong together that's why a lot of these celebrities go through problems and cuz they with the person for the wrong reason they only want to be with the person because they got kids or they can't have the girl got key the man got kids and the girl can't have none so she want to be with the dude or do like busy Bone or do like layzie bone because they have kids and they have a family and you know they want to be with a person like them or Bone thugs n Harmony or person like Snoop doggy Dogg Dr Dre cuz they got money and they know they'll be able to take care of them but that's not the right reason to be with somebody you supposed to be with somebody because you love them about them just like give me and busy Bone ever was ever able to be together I wouldn't want him for his money I would want to be with him because I love him I love that man and I love his his family you know I met his his family you know and I love him and his kids and his family and I don't want to be with no man because of that money and you know because when you die and all that stuff you can't take all that material things with you and all this other kind of stuff I know they could sometimes people also want to be with people like that because they want a better life and I understand all that but that's not the right way to go about it because that's why a lot of these celebrities they get together and get married and a couple months later a couple years later they getting a divorce because half of them don't even believe in relationships so if you don't believe in relationships what you getting married for that's dumb that's being stupid and a lot of these a lot of these women out here they don't even they don't even love the person they just want to they just want to be with the person to say they got a man at home you can find anybody out here to lay with you and make babies with your

[@shanascott7413]

@@monicamariamclean2198 I do understand because I was the only girl that my stepmother had at the time that was basically close to them, because she had boys

[@monicamariamclean2198]

@@shanascott7413 JCASS will make it through the pain sometimes it's not meant for people to stay together forever no matter how much we want it to be that way sometimes life just don't work like that I understand that JCASS want her family back together and I understand that she's a daddy's girl because I'm a daddy's girl too I understand all that but sometimes people are not meant to stay together forever and sometimes that's just the way life goes and you have to take life and you have to deal with what is and that's what is her her father and her mother are not together anymore but that does not mean that they don't love each other and they're not going to be friends they're just not together anymore it's a sad fight to see and don't nobody want their family to break up but sometimes that's what happened that's what happens that's what happens that's the reality of it some people are just not meant to spend eternity together and that's just what it is that's just how life is you got to take it you got to take it like that my mother and my father didn't stay together forever even and I wanted my father and my mother to get married but they didn't but my mother still love my father and my father still love my mother it's just that they're not in love with each other anymore just like my ex boyfriends I love Jimmie but I love Jimmie I love Jonathan but I'm not in love with them anymore and I'm not in love with Jimmie anymore because his ass cheated on me and made me feel like I wasn't good enough to be with him so to hell with them and I wouldn't go with him I wouldn't go with Jimmie if he was the last man on this Earth we was together one time but we'll never be together again I'm not going to keep taking Jimmie back or keep taking anybody back that keep cheating on me because I deserve better than that I know what I deserve and I know what I'm worth and I'm I'm not worth I don't want no man and I don't want nobody that's going to cheat on me if I know how to keep my legs closed then they need to do the same.

[@shanascott7413]

@@monicamariamclean2198 wow that's definitely deep girl and I'm a daddy's girl too, when I had saw him hurt when my stepmother Collette left I was hurt too

[@MonicaMariaMclean-zi1fs]

I understand it I understand I've been I've been through that with the person that my mother. Merry my stepfather. And me and my stepfather never getting along rest of all that I've been to all the rest of I know. We're just like to go to.

[@jasonsandate6585]

You know what I saw she'd tears and I've been there I remember when my causon told me that I was going to cry and it hit me more because I she'd tears I'm nearly crying and be happy and I said she got me a puzzle book they all laughed and I cry for reason one I miss my twin causon moni and uncle to my uncle told me to be strong and I did because I didn't want to cry I holding my tears in me because my father was a good friend to me he did all take care of us when we where kids he had job I was 20 years I got my first job Kmart and Qual valley 30 years and now I'm happy that my new friends know me they gave me hugs 🫂 and be part of the group know I have my baby 👶 💖 ♥️ my heart and soul that I miss her I am happy that she loves me very much deeply inside me I see her to morrow morning Tuesday I wait to hugs 🫂 her holding her softly and her hands hair smell and her smile is beautiful nice person to me

[@jasonsandate6585]

And I wish that we can kiss each other I be happy with her we can talk about it and she want me to move in with her and I can't wait for that have our own room together for ever ❤️

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

I understand how you feel, but that's not your job. And that's not your situation to be trying to Bryon Anthony McCane your mother and your father back together. I understand that you're closing everything but That's not your problem. You have to let your mother and your father come together on their own. And you can't let your father and your mother. Not being together, put a strain on you and Bryon relationship because a lot of time. That's why people get divorced too because they let. They're family problems destroy their family. And you don't want your family problems to destroy your life and your beautiful family

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

No to The comments are open now They need to stay open.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

You're not used to it Jessica because your mother and your father is all you know are you don't have family where you're at so it makes it very hard for youbecause you can't lean on your other family members and say well I got a lot of things on my mind my mother and my father is not together no more can you help me get through this rough path in my life so I can be a better wife to my husband and the batter mother my child and a better mother cut our children that me and Bryon will have in future.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

They tell you to move on Jessica Mccane because even though you're hurting insideis nothing you can do to bring your family back to to bring your mother and your father back together they have to do it On their own and your mother and your father have the one to be together just as bad because if not no matter how long they been together it's not going to work your mother and has to want it because if not it's not going to work it's not going to workno matter how hard they try is not going to work they both have and they both have to put in a work to make it happen their marriage is not going to last I don't care how much they each other if you want to emerge the last you have to put in the work and the dedication because if you don't it's going to fall apart and you're not going to be able to fix it like I tell my ex-boyfriend's in my friends sometimes you can't you can't make it right no matter what you do relationships they have to want to make it work they have to want to stay together otherwise it's not going to work .

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

You have to save your money. But I understand why he, why your father is like that Jcass because when you leave this Earth, you can't take it with you.

[@monicamariamclean2198]

That's all he used to that's all Bryon is used to so he's he's not going to think that about you Jessica cuz that's all he's used to

[@monicamariamclean2198]

That's how people are JCASS they don't think the person is going to leave because they so used to the person being with them forever and taken them through a lot of ups and downs and I don't believe that you say what you mean and you mean what you say until it's too late and then when it's too late that's when they be trying to make it right but like I used to tell my ex boyfriend's Jimmie and Jonathan you can't cheat on someone and then expectaniki cheating on someone that you supposed to love and respect that one that person you claim you love to keep being loyal to you and you keep stepping out and cheating all this kind of stuff stuff I love them but I'm not in love with them anymore because because I know they're not going to be able to give me a last longing relationship and I don't have time to be playing and I'm not going to put my all into someone oh and two people or in relationships with people that cannot stay be faithful to me.

[@Andy_77799]

You ok? You sent like 20 detailed messages regarding this.

[@MonicaMariaMcLean]

Time will Hills pain over time ⌚ 😢😢and it will get easier to deal with being Merried anymore 😢cause that ,s what I have to get over the relationship me and Jimmie Jackson because he left me A girl when we was in high school 🚸 and Wasn't even all that, but she thought she was all and a of chips but That's not the case i look better then all of his ex girlfriend .