BLUE THERAPY: EPISODE 4 - "I Didn't Call You Fat, You Have A Guilty Conscience"

Join us on Episode 4 as it gets deeper and more intense. Chioma and Paul talk about their sex life - or lack of. Meanwhile Jamel and Deborah hear things they've never said to each other before.
CAST:
DEBORAH: @debofamo
JAMEL: @jdfitnessuk
PAUL: @mrpaulbridges
CHIOMA: @chii_neke
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[@TRENDCNTRL]

WOULD YOU LIKE US TO HOST A CLUBHOUSE WITH THE COUPLES AT SOME POINT?

[@kkurzeid]

Depends if Deborah allows it.

[@theresaita4466]

Yes and yes and Denise!! She’s amazing

[@donnyd9372]

@@kkurzeid LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

[@teepope7231]

Yes

[@genevieveadiegwu2587]

Yessswe

[@SAMSONALEXANDERR]

The Word Babe Is Literally The Only Thing Holding Chioma & Paul Together

[@abz1hunnit748]

😂😭😂😂😂😂😂

[@teesmith765]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@judynwoguh8479]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MiszPha]

Chaiiiii

[@forlove9229]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@littlemisssunshine890]

3 years, no ring, he expects you to cook for him every day, doesn’t initiate sex, THEN calls her fat. Chioma, move on sis!

[@selwa03]

Exactly!

[@beethchile9150]

Wordd

[@dehoneydelight9403]

Chioma please RUN and never look back

[@mfululizowak9899]

She's literally playing wife 😭🤦🏾‍♀️

[@maggief1851]

He is already treating her like they are married,imagine how he would treat her after they have kids🤦🏽‍♀️

[@forestsprite30]

Paul has the mentality of a lot of men who used to be fat and lost the weight - he now thinks he's too good for the partner who chose him when he was big and had no confidence, and tries to make himself feel better by putting her down and projecting his insecurities onto her.

[@truthteller4274]

I genuinely hope chioma can understand that. Their relationship is finished

[@rudozi7644]

But Chioma doesn't help the situation she nags him alot

[@naderawarsup493]

Well said👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@dlove3480]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@lovette7684]

I've dated one of those types before (used to be big, and lost a lot of weight). I think they are still insecure inside; it is like they lose the physical weight, but they haven't lost the emotional weight.

[@ndapandulash2038]

Update: Chioma moved on and is getting married🥳

[@willmart4321]

🎉🎉

[@beemonique8466]

Where can I message her and congratulate her!

[@mareeaproperties]

😂😂😂👏👏👏

[@CW043]

Awesome!!!! I'm so very happy for her!!!🎉🎉🎊🎉🎉

[@alethiagamble9796]

Where can we see her new relationship 😂😂🎉

[@1night1day]

he is embarrassed of chioma. the part where he said he goes from his clients who live posh lives in mansions to his home where chioma is dancing to loud rap music while frying food... the internalized racism has him down bad

[@UwanimbieHome]

Absolutely

[@simranmehtab3757]

@Michael Hendricks nah probably becuase now days woman do jobs etc eqivalent to what women think more different now days and that’s not our fault !

[@BumFluffer1999]

@Michael Hendricks problem is he’s mad ignorant and he’s a fucking Oreo man child

[@blademanx]

@@simranmehtab3757 Im not saying dont work. When kids arrive the job will probably need to change or take a back seat while the kids are raised. Tbh the traditional wife only works if the man provides where she doesn't need to work. I knew one Pakistani woman who still worked 4 days a week even though she didnt need to. But whose taking care of the kids and the house...Physically for the modern woman working and raising kids and housewife is not realistic. So youll need a high value guy so you dont need to work..Whose also attractive to other women 😬....or a normal guy but then daycare costs or relatives will bring up the child...

[@andims82]

@Michael Hendricks are you trying to prove a point? You post this under every comment 😂😂

[@ppshikongo]

Paul is a typical example of a person that thinks they are deep and intelligent, but nothing of the sort comes out of his mouth.

[@lebogangmokone_pmbl8281]

Ke bhari this guy

[@emmanuellakegyamensah9536]

Very True 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@CJ-jp3zw]

Lol

[@reitumetsiii]

He's also deeply insecure, controlling, and lost.

[@heiidie9102]

I have always had so much hate for these kind of people

[@oyinloyeayodeji216]

The way Paul talks about making money, you will think he is a billionaire.

[@omosehin79]

I tiyah ooo I think they are both selfish.. but Paul is more selfish.

[@MsChantae]

at least you know, he's no way near it...imagine if he was. Sex wouldn't even be in his vocab, he'd be like, "Sex??what's that?? never heard of such a thing." hope he isn't cheating on her because it's not normal to go from having tons of sex to not having it at all.

[@sofi1672]

Lmao! You’re hilarious 😂 @Oyinloye Ayodeji

[@alidaanjeh9282]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@jamieleecamacho6046]

Hahahaha right! He probably got a a little change in the bank & acting like a billionaire

[@OG-S1158]

The irony is that chioma is wayyyyyyyy out of Paul’s league 😂😂😂😂

[@OG-S1158]

@StrikesBack-tj4kx try class and humility

[@thevegene]

@@OG-S1158Whew! Your response, perfection 👌🏽

[@OG-S1158]

@@thevegene thank you - I hate when men make those sorts of comments as if we have nothing else better to offer !

[@sunlightnicholas9668]

paul is gay😂😂

[@Laoriginal718]

@StrikesBack-tj4kxagreed. I do think she’s probably pretty without it but until we see her with no weave or makeup we can’t say she’s naturally beautiful and natural beauty is the only beauty that matters.

[@tutorialsbywinner]

Chioma said she calculates with her eyes 😂😂😂 real African girl!

[@Ugh_mommy]

Right... weight for what? What are we waiting for 😂😂😛😌

[@kingsleynwafornso]

Our mums cook all sorts of vegetable okoro and all other types of soup and it never use to be a problem on our grandfathers fathers Uncles and brothers how come now it`s giving us bother

[@Goldie-lx]

She knows the vibe 😂😂

[@GodMajik]

@@kingsleynwafornso quality of the ingredients used, GMOs are heavily used typical nowadays

[@demaals]

@@kingsleynwafornso also we have too much food. There weren't so many fat people 50 years ago because people didn't eat as much. Now our portion size has doubled. People eat until they're full not satiated.

[@itzabiez6745]

It's funny how after 4 episodes I still don't know what Paul's job is exactly

[@mimiidrissou6638]

Lmao all I hear is my clients this client that 😅😅😅

[@itzabiez6745]

@@mimiidrissou6638 right! 🤣🤣 clients for what?

[@evaeva-ju5pd]

He's a high value client executive !

[@jerilyngillenwater8]

He’s a personal trainer

[@oneoneday]

He sprinkles skittles 😄

[@laidbya8173]

Whenever Paul starts off a sentence w/ “Babe...babe” just know he’s about to say a madness

[@olliematanhire3540]

😂 it’s always “Babe babe

[@mia-gj6hj]

or when he starts shaking his head side to side saying hmm

[@laidbya8173]

Chioma be looking @ him like: “Babe...I’m not ya babe🤨🤨🤨”

[@Ms.Baidoo199]

Sis‼️

[@tokolohomokoena7882]

Some MADNESSSSSSSS😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kefilwemahloane6869]

Paul is always calculating 😭😭😭 I can’t deal with him

[@taviajones284]

Yes but can’t calculate the fact that his girlfriend is unhappy and sexually deprived 😂😂

[@thevegene]

He deprives her to starve her emotionally and intimately so she begs him to make him feel good about himself. Most healthy people want their partners to desire them but unhealthy, toxic and insecure people, like “Pawl” want their partners to resort to desperation from their neglect.

[@nokuphiwamkhize8866]

Crazy!!!

[@glorypeace7732]

And now he has a show about calculative couples 😂😂😂😭

[@Pablozwtrendtalk]

😂😂😂

[@zenitsutanjiro8356]

LOL it's weird that Chioma has assigned herself as a wife to a man who doesn't even respect her as a Girlfriend.

[@averiarmani]

PREAAACH *paul’s vc*

[@tatendadzvimbo941]

This is deep !

[@theglamannequin]

Period! *In Paul’s voice🤣🤣

[@TheSydneycc]

1000 percent

[@jade-chan3291]

@@theglamannequin not Paul's voice 🤣🤣🤣

[@kugzsarah1933]

I think Paul wants to be with a skinny white woman. Coz he seems to hate being associated with being African. Is embarrassed by his woman’s africanicity.

[@dinasau5958]

I also see it

[@emifyn]

I also said he already might be with one white Lady from the gym already 🙄. HE his insecure and selfish. See the thing is , never reduce your Standard for a man . Never! Paul use to be a FAT frog and Chioma was his trophy, now he Thinks he looks better and so he want,s to impress pple Who see right through his insecuriities..

[@beachlover9705]

Watched for 3 min and saw this . He cheating wit a white girl ..smh . Another one bites the dust

[@emifyn]

I mean she reduced her Standard for fat paul.🙄 now he feels better in his body, he wants something else.

[@ericafriyie868]

damn his girl is really pretty and sexy as hell any guy will wanna be with her, her man is very childish and very inconsiderate and is projecting his prejudices into their relationship

[@anfalahmed1935]

“When I met him he was fat” how can she just drop it like that 😂😂😂😂😂

[@christinemimi7066]

😂😂😂😂That was a bombshell

[@Cursty]

Paul deserves it 😂😭

[@amania9967]

He needed to be humbled sis 😂

[@judechukwuelue617]

Just know that if a man said this to a woman she would be well sensitive!

[@dreadedduraggod2715]

@@judechukwuelue617 that's exactly what happened at the end too

[@emerald2046]

Chioma, your calmness and elegance should be a course in school. It needs to be studied

[@evelynamadi2183]

The fact that Chioma finds Paul’s coconut head attractive is beyond me

[@lavonnealexander6936]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jacklinekinyua8042]

Tragic..,,

[@olajumokejoyce]

The matter tire me cause I don't understand.

[@aderayoakindipe6507]

😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ryaa24]

Literally😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@3maaan]

Paul: "babe look at me, not in a cocky way just look at me" Chioma and the rest of the audience: ***looks him up and down in disgust***

[@Dobetter15]

🤣

[@perryrand876]

I had that look too ... who does this guy think he is ?

[@deeryn]

He's so full of shit! Chioma please leave that shitass squirrel.

[@loismensah9293]

🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ezigeoffrey7219]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@lkmz_]

"And i hope our children become addicted to pounded yam" 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Jay_picassa]

💀💀💀💀💀

[@chi3812]

🤣🤣🤣

[@amandaseaman6366]

Lol

[@julielove8932]

😂

[@love_mm4148]

Period

[@saritahmillie]

Paul wants to be in the therapist head...he wants therapist to say exactly what he wants to hear😂😂

[@D3busCollects]

Fr😂

[@nubianqueen2474]

How the hell is Paul making an issue over the fact that Chioma is "too African" are you not embarrazed??

[@Tan-ns2hr]

He's on a different wavelength to her

[@nice1cool]

Right , sounds bit self hating

[@kwameopoku3576]

How he born here he has every right to b like dat

[@kwameopoku3576]

Half u naija lot scream ur Nigerian like mad yet cant cook cultural food or even spk ur languages brits in denial

[@josephfofana2920]

@@kwameopoku3576 hey Kwame did aunty give u permission to use her pic as ur profile pic

[@nextgengaming6614]

Liking the sister, training the ex and secretly getting afronation ticket. Bro i can't help you

[@avidchelseafan24]

This is exactly it😂😂

[@nopainnococaine8066]

At first we all thought he was in the right... Now he's beyond saving - Edit: just seen the onlyfans bit, they should just finish this😂😂 Both beyond saving

[@fuse2232]

Brooo😂 I was fully on his side as well

[@ngugidaniel1030]

Shady af.

[@carleylester9691]

@@fuse2232 me too! Jamel, bro, buy the Louis Bucket Hat! She deserves it! 😆 You're embarrassingAF!

[@kateranda3061]

I love the fact that even though chioma is in a foreign country she hasn't not forgotten her African culture.... Chioma will make a good wife to someone else

[@SnS-Fitnes]

she will make a good wife to a Russell Wilson if she can find him, then she can shout and scream at him lol hahahahah

[@jellafigo22]

You know this isn’t real right?

[@chiamakaonuoha2794]

Relationship ain't slavery... Why perform duties of a wife as a girlfriend? Omo na she cause herself this see finish.

[@njamiublanche9707]

Chioma was trained how to be a wife,she wants to do the most🤗🤗🤗🤗,sorry chioma ,😅someone loves you and and you want to love him how you were taught to "love"

[@jaimeeeyelashes5881]

she doesn't even want to cook for what are you talking about. she is done out here

[@mariammari1741]

The way Paul came for African food it’s no way this a Nigerian man 😭😭😭

[@sharonezeh6731]

He’s just really really fake. Everything about him screams fake. I really don’t know how she’s with such a toxic person. Being with someone like him will destroy one’s self esteem.

[@joelashley2491]

Paul and chioma are too entertaining, palm oil is ruining their relationship 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@nameundefinedname5307]

LMAOOOO

[@vuyokazidube4719]

😂😂

[@TabethGiselle]

Loooool

[@chez_etoile]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@patriceesela5000]

I always thought Palm oil was witchcraft 🤔😅😅

[@sananajmaddin4757]

Paul’s the type of guy to buy you a present then use it himself 😭

[@sandianbc8732]

😂😂😂😂🙆‍♀️

[@medinekamga549]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@exauceembuyi5473]

😂😂😂😂

[@chidomapiravanana9342]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂word

[@justcallmero1643]

🤣🤣🤣☠️

[@stephaniegati1051]

The therapist needs her own therapy because these couples are draining 😖

[@idongesitoliver8576]

Seriously! 😢 😢

[@matty1099]

The therapist in the show was a actor but the couple’s are real and the situations are real too

[@SalmaBegum-lp9nv]

This comment killed me 😂😂😂🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@feliciaaiy]

@@matty1099 the couples aren’t real bbe

[@takemycoints]

@@feliciaaiy nahhhh I’m confused is this whole thing fake?? 😭😭😭🤣🤣

[@anisaibrahim806]

I literally relate Chioma say she measures food with her eyes. She’s me 😂😂😂

[@heyitsprincess1]

Fake or not! This is some premium content right here. 😂😂

[@toxicvv2294]

facts we all still back here for another epsiode

[@essoresco1809]

I thought this was real

[@kash6592]

Yeah definitely fake, they reinforcing stereotypes. But its funny as hell tho

[@Malebo_Jr]

I don't care.. I'm here for it. Maybe will eventually get tired of it with more episodes. But for now..... Please feed me.

[@melmel24247]

This is bloody entertainment pure entertainment

[@chatswithh3674]

“I’m coming home and she’s pumping afrrobeats” lmaooooo this has to be a joke 😫😫

[@segunaluko266]

Big joke!

[@iizisatoud1945]

HAHAHA like what’s going on

[@nayooomiiix3699]

🤣🤣🤣

[@koneaminata6283]

😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ex548]

"Like she's in the village"😂😂😂

[@taviaskitchen]

Paul saying ‘PREACH’ and ‘PERIOD’ is making me want to slap Paul’s face omg 😂😂😂😂he’s so calmly condescending loooool

[@talk2s5061X]

😂 legend mate

[@taviaskitchen]

@@talk2s5061X he is not a legend 😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️

[@fejiroemmanuel1389]

I felt the same way too

[@dreadedduraggod2715]

@@talk2s5061X paul might be an icon in the African uncle community

[@VenxmMusic]

Nah I was screaming when he said preach 🤣🤣🤣

[@efe8085]

Is it just me or is it hard to believe this Paul is actually a real human being.

[@magaliemongambuya5805]

😂😂😂😂

[@dede_487]

ACTUALLY.

[@Figure7Content]

Yea I’m struggling to believe this isn’t scripted 100% bc of him 😂😂😂

[@kurtishacharlery]

Paul: "my clients-" Me: *rolls eyes all the way to back of my head*

[@fathia2677]

nah fr hes full of shit

[@kevinsefa3285]

🙄

[@esther_aoduro]

My eyes stay back there for a good while too🙄

[@sheggy3658]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@wambogitatui2193]

I literally rolled my eyes

[@enapng]

paul: “okay long story short” also paul: *tells the whole story*

[@DrEngrCEng]

😂😂😂

[@dawn6348]

lol 😂

[@femi6493]

😀😆🤣

[@karamira7809]

𝑰 𝒘𝒊𝒔𝒉 𝑰 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒔𝒌𝒊𝒑 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒑𝒉𝒂𝒔𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒚 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒈𝒐 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆𝒔 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒚. 𝑭𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒕𝒉 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒔𝒂𝒇𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈. 𝑻𝒉𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒍 𝒎𝒚 𝒘𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒔 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒈𝒖𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒘𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈. 𝑴𝒚 “𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒏𝒆𝒓” 𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒎𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒑𝒊𝒆𝒄𝒆𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒊𝒕 𝒇𝒆𝒍𝒕 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆 𝑰 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅𝒏’𝒕 𝒎𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒅 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒇𝒂𝒔𝒕 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝑰’𝒎 𝒈𝒍𝒂𝒅 𝑰 𝒕𝒐𝒐𝒌 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒑 𝒐𝒇 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂 𝒉𝒂𝒄𝒌𝒆𝒓. 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝒐𝒏𝒍𝒚 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒕 𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒊𝒔 𝒎𝒚 𝒌𝒊𝒅𝒔. 𝑯𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒅𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒅𝒊𝒗𝒐𝒓𝒄𝒆 𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒚 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒎𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒅 𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝑰 𝒈𝒐𝒕 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑,𝒕𝒆𝒙𝒕-𝒎𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒈𝒆𝒔,𝒄𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒍𝒐𝒈𝒔,𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒘𝒔𝒆𝒓 𝒆𝒕𝒄. 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒕𝒊𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒐𝒇 𝒃𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒃𝒖𝒔𝒆𝒅. 𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒅𝒐 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒔𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒉𝒂𝒄𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝟏𝟎𝟎% 𝑺𝒑𝒚 𝒂𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒈𝒆𝒕’𝒔 𝒅𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆 𝒐𝒏 𝑺𝒌𝒚𝒑𝒆,𝑭𝒂𝒄𝒆𝒃𝒐𝒐𝒌, 𝒄𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒔 𝒍𝒐𝒈𝒔, 𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓, 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑, 𝒕𝒆𝒙𝒕𝒔 𝒎𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒈𝒆𝒔 𝒆𝒕𝒄 𝒅𝒆𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕. 𝑺𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒍 𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒆𝒔 𝑼𝒑𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒆, 𝑪𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝒄𝒓𝒊𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒓𝒆𝒄𝒐𝒓𝒅𝒔, 𝑪𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝒃𝒂𝒅 𝒅𝒆𝒃𝒕, 𝒄𝒓𝒆𝒅𝒊𝒕 𝒔𝒄𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒐 𝒐𝒏 .. 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒉𝒊𝒕 𝑴𝒓. 𝑳𝒐𝒖𝒊𝒔 𝒗𝒊𝒂 { 𝑾𝒉𝑨𝒕𝒔@𝒑𝒑 𝒐𝒓 : +(𝟒𝟒)𝟕𝟓𝟐𝟎.𝟔𝟒𝟖.𝟎𝟖𝟗 𝒐𝒓 𝒄𝒓𝒚𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒍𝒉𝒂𝒄𝒌𝒆𝒓𝟏(@)𝒈𝒎𝒂𝒊𝒍 .𝒄𝒐𝒎 }. 👍👍

[@BBrunnel]

me ngl lmao

[@osokoyaseyi4255]

Paul doesn't have a point. He should just say he's tired of the relationship instead of looking for silly excuses

[@missp.8017]

right

[@beatriceanyim4764]

Same, I don't understand why he finds it so hard to end things. Its like he doesn't want to seem like a bad guy for leaving her so he's purposefully hurting Chioma so she'll be the one to end things and not him.

[@itzzjustrae1771]

but even then ... Chioma knows that he’s full of it. she needs to leave , because it’s even obvious to me that it’s all about him .

[@nthabeijobe7965]

Lpng story short

[@funmioshindele8913]

Simple

[@symphony2929]

Paul sure knows how to avoid answering a question directly 😂

[@oliseemeke1459]

Chioma lost the accent when she said "But you can eat beans". The Nigerian in her came out😂😂

[@sabamutmainah7476]

😂😂 I swearrrr

[@ruchymartins355]

Literally came out 😂😂😂

[@chromes_nk]

Swear down 😂💯

[@chiakaunegbu]

I swearrrr😂😂😂

[@tomi568]

it happens when we are angry abeg

[@hana1801]

Dear women my advice to you is that you don't ACT like a wife when YOU ARE NOT the wife.

[@francesjeanlouis9285]

AMEN!!!!!

[@peaceemmanuel7044]

Best advice

[@villagegirl90]

Preach gal

[@emeldanjiki6099]

Exactly 💯💯

[@margaretndichu7737]

Very true

[@karmatsintop2016]

With the way Paul talks about his business, you will think he is a billionaire

[@kone_magency]

😂😂😂

[@wendyo1253]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@christinabelloge6750]

The audacity!

[@gracemat9474]

You’re going too far, I bet he doesn’t even earn more than 100k a year

[@ifunanyaiyi1769]

This guy is broke!! There are no high end clients

[@SOIC3Y]

Chioma: "There's men out there that want what he doesn't want." My new name is Men out there! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@IHashim98]

Out of all 4 characters, Chioma seems like the only one who genuinely wants to improve her relationship.

[@rotimitaiwo3562]

hope u know it’s fake

[@Rnb602]

@@rotimitaiwo3562 let people enjoy themselves 😡

[@rotimitaiwo3562]

@@Rnb602 😂u can , it’s good entertainment

[@IHashim98]

@@rotimitaiwo3562 ​ Which is why I said Chioma seems like the only one who wants to GENUINELY improve her relationship.

[@rotimitaiwo3562]

@@IHashim98 Ah yh cool

[@bummite05]

If Chioma doesn't leave Paul after this, she needs an intervention.

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

I agree

[@gracembakop2813]

Yesssss lorddddd, at this point i don't pay any mind to paul anymore. He really manipulated her so much that she truly believes he is the right one 🤦😒

[@Babybaby228]

I can't stand her. She's rude to him and disrespectful to him during all the sessions. She speaks over him, denounces his feelings, puts him down, gives him dirty looks, mutters under her breath some sarcastic and rude remark.. the list goes on.

[@naturalbby1722]

@@Babybaby228 yeah you literally described Paul as well...that’s why they are in therapy...regardless, I just can’t stand Paul!

[@chrisabutu5767]

They should end the decit.. Paul stopp fooling urself.. Chioma take a walk.. A million guy will do anytin to have u in the life.. With ur "character"

[@lol-lz1gr]

Damn a lot of Nigeria guys in Europe are praying for girls like chioma with this African mindset... i hope such comes my way

[@adigun]

I swear

[@ancyp.v.7455]

Good luck 🤞

[@jenma3717]

I'm here biko. What's UR Ig?

[@adigun]

@@jenma3717 onelacho

[@adigun]

@@jenma3717 Onelacho

[@petrareneilwemaruapula9079]

Paul is the definition of A RED FLAG

[@googleemail7369]

Paul's a straight gaslighter; once Chioma complained about no sex, he went for the passive-aggressive “its because you put on weight” attack. Man's cold as ice.

[@NeverLetLoveGo]

That was tragiccc

[@BeEnOn]

Currently on that part & I definitely saw the bullshit. He couldn’t wait to change the subject smh

[@louishawkins3193]

Dudes a pure dickhead

[@sammy__dray]

But that's his reason though. Weird that he's only now saying it. Weird that there's a lot of things that they're just finding out about each other tbh

[@ifoundhisjams4075]

@Michael Hendricks if he's not sexually attracted to his woman then it's time to leave especially if she wants sex

[@elissalayson9909]

“Look at me, do you like what you see?” “When I met him he was fat.” I’m done I’m so done 🤣

[@chapchap5818]

And then she has the audacity to be mad when he doesn't want to have sex with her lol

[@CeeJayLive]

I didn't see that coming to be honest 😂

[@huldah1605]

@@chapchap5818 What's the correlation?

[@MarvinAlcidesM]

That’s emasculating imagine if he said that to her y’all would be mad

[@huldah1605]

@@MarvinAlcidesM There is no if lol He did say it and even said he didn't find a attractive cos she wasn't intelligent

[@donnyd9372]

If this is acting chioma is the best actor from the uk. Trend central you really saved yourself with this blue therapy I’m tellin ya

[@renaidavis9859]

Honestly

[@Tuncapoo]

💯💯

[@genevieveadiegwu2587]

I honestly do not think this is acting

[@nice1cool]

@@genevieveadiegwu2587 right , is this is acting she is the best actor and they’re improvising amazingly

[@jrreidmusic]

@@genevieveadiegwu2587 I didn’t before either.. google denise waterman, she aint no therapist 🤣

[@afroandglasses]

Deborah constantly talking over Jamel when he’s being asked a direct question is wild.

[@loveovereverything6872]

She is annoying

[@melissagreen3864]

That little girl irritated me so bad, I had to fast forward her interview

[@Amlamekvids]

Paul is such a magnificent subject that I can't focus much on jamal n his gf that is super sus and don3 with him but wants to win the break up... I dunno

[@deedeegaines2629]

Paul is so controlling, manipulative, and narcissistic that he never answers questions posed to him, he is only concerned with how things affect him and don't take Chioma's feelings into consideration.

[@jdavid6801]

It’s actor

[@246Shanti]

I totally agree , he is in his own world

[@aelae5652]

Not to mention dismissive and borderline misogynistic

[@kingschmidt9804]

Deborah: “I need you to read this because I don’t want to embarrass you” Jamel: 👁👄👁

[@jozyyyyy6337]

Underrated comment 😂

[@cyn1373]

Ngl she caught Jamal Red handed there 😂😂😂

[@Rayrkrk]

😂😂😂😂

[@youknowwho444]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@vwedeek]

(Jamel with a small voice) ’Thank you for your order heh, Jamel innit😂’

[@vitamindj5274]

I don’t understand what’s wrong with being at home, frying palm oil and blasting wiz kid? This guy is a miserable man and chioma deserves a man who appreciates her.

[@patra0kelo]

Say that louder he’s with her cuz he doesn’t want to be alone. Such a toxic man

[@sashav.3189]

Right, he says blasting Afro eats like we’re in a village, so if she was blasting Taylor swift it’s be better? He’s so whitewashed, it’s sad.

[@seraysese2995]

Everyone seeing his fault and not choma what a sad world

[@shanakaycameron1644]

He find someone else y everything bother him about her

[@jaynechidinmaechibuogo8082]

Like I am sitting here and wondering how Paul became like this....he's driving me nuts

[@danielosarobo4335]

Chioma is one of the few real lady that is proud of where she comes from. Just because you were born in England or America don’t mean you are British or American. You are a citizen but you are Nigerian. Be proud of your heritage. I like Chioma

[@madeleinerose8843]

Somebody should slap me right now for thinking Jamel was too innocent for Deborah. That guy is way too shady.

[@olajumokejoyce]

I don't know who to believe. Jamal and debs are so intertwined.

[@gypsylady947]

@@olajumokejoyce He has some honorable qualities, but he's gotta work on his honesty. His tendency to lie will prevent him from marrying the right wife. Deborah has her flaws but I hope she's strong enough to walk away from all this gaslighting. She needs to be with a man who makes her feel emotionally secure.

[@Dd1NlyB3B3]

I said he was immature from the jump and people were jumping down my throat... I almost took it back even!

[@honouroke9107]

@@gypsylady947 she needs to walk away? And Jamel doesn't? Mans wanna get a house and all she wants to do is flaunt. LMAO

[@tyronelorenzovalentio3414]

@@Dd1NlyB3B3 and Deborah is not🤡

[@pelinpolat]

Chioma if you are reading this; you are SO beautiful, so smart, so confident!! This man is not on the same wavelength as you and is such a narcissist. Please don’t waste your precious youth on a man you doesn’t make you feel appreciated.

[@MrGayle_]

@i Rolls Well said, AMS would be proud 👌🏾😎

[@abysaa506]

I love how they are not happy with each other and still calling themselves babe😂😂😂😂😂

[@CeeJayLive]

Right? 😂

[@juniorkagbanda5326]

Toxicity 101 😅

[@mambi_07]

It's disturbing😂😂

[@gathonisupu]

Ikr 😂😂

[@stick2itfit]

Sounds like the British version of bless your heart

[@ohsnapthatskingdom]

Chioma is an amazing woman! 😩 God please give her a great husband who will honor her.

[@Leelove1391]

God did

[@syca5094]

​@@Leelove1391 really????

[@r2chy55]

Having a convo with Paul looks so difficult he just talks down to everyone😂😂😂

[@rebeccahinde6914]

frrr his ego is huge

[@r2chy55]

@@rebeccahinde6914 facts guy thinks he’s something he’s not

[@thabontimba5766]

he thinks he's the smartest in the room

[@winnieboateng5334]

It is sooo disgusting Behaviour

[@malz5596]

@@thabontimba5766 i do think he is the smartest he’s just a narcissist

[@naturalbby1722]

“I calculate with my eyes” Chioma is a proper African girl!😅🤣🤣

[@sophiasal-fache336]

I love her

[@lindakachona7500]

@@sophiasal-fache336 lol came here to type the same thing

[@h1media579]

Jamal got hit with the uno reverse card with the afronation 😂

[@rezlaso2742]

Lool nah he deffo crumbled

[@abdullahrazak3081]

@@rezlaso2742 his girl has onlyfans tho tf

[@SAMSONALEXANDERR]

no caaaap loool

[@crashbandicoot430]

For 3 eps i was on his side. Wtf is this

[@kiela4214]

@@crashbandicoot430 yh he’s very shady

[@kcb342]

Paul being fat when they met makes complete sense as to why he is the way that he is now. He lost some weight, got some money and has an incredibly beautiful girlfriend now he thinks he's better than everyone, his girlfriend and the person he used to be. Canon sequence of events

[@forestsprite30]

I also think that spending time with all his rich, posh, white "Mayfair clients" has given Paul a massive insecurity complex. He now calls African restaurants "bush" and looks down on African food and afrobeats music, as well as his African girlfriend. I forsee him either leaving this girl or pushing her away and him eventually shedding his roots and identity to better fit into white society.

[@danielasanto8872]

Accurate

[@alwaysbekind9450]

His getting a white woman after this relationship.

[@maame-bev5712]

Exactly my thought. He will best suit a white only way is Essex kinda girl hahaha. Choima deserves waaayyy better.

[@forestsprite30]

@@maame-bev5712 My thoughts exactly....watch this space!

[@mariaezeani258]

So accurate. Chioma please leave that asswipe. Denying your African roots because of your white clients! Smh! Paul irritates me

[@frankm5834]

Imagine finding a Nigerian girl in london who actually enjoys/cooks Nigerian dishes and has a high sex drive? Boy I’d be married long time ago. Paul is wasting time.

[@genuinediasporan6661]

Exactly. The Coconut head guy is lucky.

[@blademanx]

Yeah and complaining on a podcast

[@migueljordao2894]

Maybe he use nofab

[@frankm5834]

@@blademanx he wants to be white so bad…a man without culture is like a zebra without stripes.

[@frankm5834]

@@genuinediasporan6661 wait a minute. I kinda look like him. Easy on the coconut head slander now 😭

[@kytolesly]

I now understand Deborah's trust issues Jamal is sneaky

[@kav1111]

Very sneaky

[@KateCameron1]

He’s definitely cheating

[@niqueness2988]

I said this previously. I seen it.

[@Will-nr9kl]

@@KateCameron1 wouldn’t you cheat on her too?

[@mrskurd5605]

Yup trust he’s not clean. He don’t love her like she thinks he does

[@poptropicaaa]

"I'm not wearing clothes 24/7" this man is unbelievable😭😭

[@s.muysers4610]

Paul is the only person that can make the therapist Look for their own therapist😂 He’s so annoying 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@ngozimiracle7860]

I swear

[@Blacktolite]

The acting is incredible 😂😂 so much script

[@thandekantuli4884]

@@Blacktolite so they acting?

[@fundiswakhuzwayo2946]

😂😂😂😂😂true story 😂😂😂

[@theodoraokpewho5829]

Hahahahaha

[@janettinotenda6635]

Who else thinks Paul is sleeping with someone and is giving excuses?

[@josephanuoluwapo1096]

🙌🙌

[@prillaevents8908]

Paul is seeing someone else.

[@Lady_zulz]

Paul is either bisexual or seeing someone else.🤦‍♀️. Very slow to comprehend things as well.

[@sandylopesgds3163]

Has to be

[@nanaohemaa9351]

He is fed up with the relationship he just doesn't know how to spit it out to chioma

[@healthybetteryou]

"pumping WizKid like we're in a village" this man is so lost and self hating

[@misslynda82]

I was like "What's wrong with Wizkid? And what's wrong with the village?!"

[@sheroyatikkeya5422]

Literally a huge problem & the white therapist ? How would she even understand how to break that down especially a culture so intricate like African!

[@wordsbymaribeja1470]

It's actually sick, and he thinks he's being impressive. When will African men like him realise that people cannot respect a people who do not respect themselves.

[@wordsbymaribeja1470]

@@sheroyatikkeya5422 The white therapist isn't a problem, if anything she is helping Paul reveal his idiot self, he is going out of his way to impress the white therapist which says everything you need to know about him.

[@T.O32]

Loooool I hope you guys know this is all an act! 😂😂😂😂

[@seif-eddinederrough8170]

Chioma was the one who healed Paul from his depression and obesity and when got better he started sobbing her

[@Frankwallz]

Paul: Look at me... Do you like what you see? Chioma: When I met him, he was fat. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Elegan_te]

🤣🤣🤣

[@theromadziba]

Dushwaaaaaw

[@ajileyemodupe7710]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

[@princessisibor1513]

😂😂😂😂😂😂I love her

[@envisagestylebeauty8324]

As in

[@reagilesekele9780]

Paul doesn't love and value her anymore, he just loves the fact that she is doing wife duties for him and the idea of having a woman in his life, otherwise, a man that loves you would not treat you this way. He underestimates and disrespects her. He will never know what he have until he loses her. Chioma is such a beautiful woman she deserves better.

[@flystr8697]

🧢🧢

[@oladipupoabimbola6179]

God bless you for this comment, the disrespect is just too much.

[@chiamakaadirika]

Nothing truer than this 👍

[@ampomaaa7828]

And that is why I think she should take the bold step and leave him! His justification are lame and not married after all!!! There are better men out there for her. 3 years is enough!!!!

[@djqris11]

I'm sure Paul isn't for another depression thats coming coz if Chioma leaves his selfish a*s, he'll be f*cked!!!

[@benedeh6840]

In just 4 episodes, Paul has made it possible to have a compilation video of all his iconic quotes

[@toneswisdom168]

I would save his compilations lmaooo

[@Sandra-dd3fe]

He’s something else , I guess that’s what he meant when he said he pulls the strings

[@jadesolaadigun2626]

send the link 😂

[@zsanettgalantay1772]

Quotes, gifs, memes the whole lot for years to come 🤣

[@Nellyouattara]

Babe, babe, you need healing

[@NoeB87]

Chioma and the crazy Paul is a mini reflection of what's wrong in society!! Beautiful intelligent women who have to deal with stupid little bullies man 😭

[@kayprenueur]

Exactly

[@lynnicyy]

Chioma was spot on with us African people not calculating ingredients. The eyes do it for us… That food conversation is killing me.. “ I hope our children become addicted to pounded yam” 😂😂😂

[@hawacosme8508]

She's a true African woman and she's not shamed of where she comes from.🙏🏼😍📌

[@joanaodoi4662]

Many times have I seen Africans who are shamed of their cultural foods and it’s sad 😞 but Chioma is doing good

[@officialam8772]

As peng as these foods are, they are very unhealthy and hard to calculate when on a diet

[@LondonsPointOfView1]

But Paul didn't lie, they are generally unhealthy.

[@kimmry9406]

@@LondonsPointOfView1 facts

[@NicoleDavies]

"I hope our children are addicted to pounded yam" - Chioma is such a Nigerian!!! 😂😂😂

[@queenellie3455]

You can live on your cauliflower and broccoli 💀

[@cheekoescobar1849]

This had me rolling 💀💀

[@JenniferNghishitendeTunga]

“My ancestors never calculated” I Stan, a Queen

[@Hezekiahsmom]

That part! She dropped the mike with that statement!

[@justinabenson7229]

lol

[@wintersummer1633]

yeah but loads of people in the black community are suffering health issues because of the cooking

[@thabisokhumalo6516]

@@wintersummer1633 And??

[@wintersummer1633]

@@thabisokhumalo6516 Um if you want high blood pressure, cancer and any other illness common in the black community then be my guest

[@abanhyira9221]

paul : look at me...do you like what you see" chioma: "when i met him he was fat" me: rolling on the flooooorrrrrr

[@taniwack7112]

he did not just say listening to afrobeats is like being in a village. I cant with his man lolllll

[@wuraolaritaa]

Even mentioned Wizkid!!! Wayyyy too low blow😬

[@linaaboketshu]

Fr that’s so disrespectful and he’s I not proud of his nation😬

[@sammyz4eva]

He actually sounds like a self hater. Identity crisis

[@Ellaenchanted20]

I think he’s self hating trying to fit in 😂

[@cadyg2531]

@@sammyz4eva I said the same thing. He wants to be a white man. Yikes.

[@sadieglam5454]

This therapist is too soft for these personalities. They need someone like IYANLA

[@thembisithole2498]

Amen

[@belle3055]

True

[@funmioshindele8913]

Exactly

[@ifyossi7794]

THANK YOU. Said this from Ep 1. Denis (with all due respect) is a poor match for this show.

[@kadeemmarajeen1879]

Same thing I said like when is she gonna say something other than just asking questions

[@itunuoluwaakinsika6135]

As a Nigerian, I represent everyone to say “we now denounce Paul” you can remain unseasoned.

[@ngoziosigwe6512]

Hahahaha

[@tealifewithgiftedteju6794]

😂😂😂😂 yes oohhh we send Paul packing in a Ghana must go bag. 😂🤣😂

[@uzomajoe8354]

i seriously concur...that happy ending and sex part though was hilarious :) :)

[@joeylegodi3737]

hahahahaha this is so funny!!! this is hilarous. As an African myself, i think he can be European, we are ok with that

[@kehonromeo470]

@@joeylegodi3737 paul is gay

[@BabyndWigs]

Paul is someone that would piss you off every single time and have the feeling that they are always right. I once dated someone like that and didn’t see such behavior as an issue until i decided to leave. I kinda understand where Chioma is coming from because once you are inlove you tend to ignore so many things and hope it will get better.

[@Foodloverbug]

The fact that for 4 episodes, Paul still hasn’t gotten the point is just embarrassing 😳

[@missp.8017]

RIGHTTT

[@manisymone8622]

About a 2-2.5 hour session this was

[@TheFavourBoluwade]

Louder!!! Grrrh right

[@rukkyederebs7404]

Exactly mehn ..Sad🚶🏽‍♀️

[@melmhnd13]

Its Paul asking Denise if she has eaten palm oil before, for meeeee😂😂😂😅

[@renateemretane617]

Lmao

[@ritaopara8458]

My dear Lmaooo Paul is just one kain I don’t think he still likes Chioma

[@ceciliaorji8894]

@@ritaopara8458 he doesn't n I hope she really realises that on time and stop wasting her time with d dude.

[@olaakinfolarin2515]

💀💀💀💀💀

[@melmhnd13]

@@ceciliaorji8894 he's so narcissistic and talk down everyone but him and his sis ugh draining

[@chelseaehimare597]

I sincerely adore Chioma, she is literally a vibe. Plus Paul was just basically talking out of context, like he wasn't even getting the point. Well, it is what it is.

[@lebogangmokone_pmbl8281]

I think his slow

[@Godivaa]

@@lebogangmokone_pmbl8281 serious low iq

[@armamia.1701]

I really wanna know her @ cuz the energy, the class, this is the kind of woman I want to see in my feed.

[@chelseaehimare597]

@@armamia.1701 100%

[@saritahmillie]

Deborah is 24 behaving like a 58 dating a 22 year old guy...she wants to be the mother in a relationship but still hopes for the child to be the dad😂😂you know what I mean 😅

[@uncharted2916]

not at all

[@DevilInHeavenx]

‘’All this body he’s wasting it because we don’t even have sex’’... Sis fully put Paul in a coffin. RIP😂💀

[@aimemaleka6199]

In my eye is gay

[@dominicclarke3206]

@@aimemaleka6199 o shit 😂😂

[@sja6331]

Might be on steroids .. they mess with your labido

[@MiszPha]

Yesssss ohhhhh

[@MiszPha]

We are not animals paul is maddddd

[@lizImoleayo]

Paul enjoys putting chioma down to boost his confidence. This is a hugeeee red flag. Chioma is holding on to this broken relationship. Chioma is not dumb. I know she says other people can appreciate her etc.. but I think it’s fear of leaving and not thinking she’s good enough. Paul has made her feel like this & it’s so bad.

[@thetgrenadegranada1570]

It’s acting so just calm down

[@emmanuela.c.2416]

@@thetgrenadegranada1570 Do you really believe what you just typed?

[@Jed-sl7lg]

@@thetgrenadegranada1570 when you watch a show you talk about the characters whether their fictional or not. Acting or real like this isn’t a new thing 💀

[@Ahoto_papa_bi]

@@emmanuela.c.2416 did you watch the whole video before replying ?

[@lindaa6527]

I completely agree with you. It is really toxic to be with someone who feels the need to put someone else down or stop someone else's progress to make themselves feel better/powerful/confident.

[@ukbluebell09]

When your telling your girl you fancied her sister you may as well stop the madness and just end the relationship

[@ybusports2819]

Exactly fam

[@felii7048]

At this point, it was so clear that the show is fake 😭😭😭

[@PlatinumBuckGorilla]

@@felii7048 another one, that gave it away for me is ... notice how they transition away from each topic without drawing to conclusion. The phone was definitely a plant. When she asked Jemal to read whatever was on the phone. It’s good entertainment.

[@oneoneday]

@@PlatinumBuckGorilla yeah she didn’t even need to look for the screenshot/email, it seemed to be there already

[@ClippedBYClipped]

😂 madness

[@ozosas4609]

Chioma is a woman indeed, she deserve care, attention and all to make her happy and paul need to know this fact, no excuse ...that the kind of relationship i want, a relationship where we spend time together, giving ourselves a lot of attention, looking at each others eyes with true love with strong bond. wish to have someone like Chioma soon.

[@nneomachikere7930]

Jamal telling Deborah he fancied her sister first shows that he is just looking for a way to end the relationship…cos no sane girl would continue such a relationship knowing your man fancied your sister

[@tarabrown740]

Yep

[@Alishawhite44]

she deserves it, gold digga

[@Khaccie]

You'd be surprised what some girls will settle for

[@mahad813]

I mean, a gold digga belongs to the streets

[@angelahurkins7736]

It simply shows the show is fake. Also the part when she pulled out the afronation receipt

[@nessanelson4130]

My heart aches for chioma 🥺 she doesn’t deserve this kinda guy

[@darkfudgee]

More like he doesn't deserve her

[@Jordan-qx4mi]

@@darkfudgee fuck off

[@joyekwedike5057]

But l heard this is just a make believe. They are acting sadly

[@niteV1]

i liked chioma until the fat topic. for a man this is the death, she says he should be direct but can‘t deal with the truth. yes the place and time he chose to say it is wrong

[@nessanelson4130]

@@joyekwedike5057 I don’t think it is tho

[@sinesiphomazaleni7064]

"all this body he's wasting it because we don't even have sex" 😭😭😩 Choima definitely knows how to go low, she's sick of the man

[@yungkingshaka1227]

TOXIC GIRL

[@sandra2337]

@@yungkingshaka1227 How is she toxic?

[@y4554]

I don’t feel sorry for her cause why she still with him

[@thehunted316]

she is not sick of him. She still loves him so much. She wont even leave him no matter what.

[@Lelo.Machaka]

I’m already sick of the man 😭😭😭😭😭

[@michaeldaniel9457]

Aww😔😔 seeing Chioma cry just broke my heart in pieces 💔💔💔😿

[@jideo2396]

When they first met, Paul was "fat!" Now that he's in a better shape, he thinks that he can do better than Chioma. That's why he's no longer sexually attracted to her. This is very common.

[@traceydumase]

But she's still a 10 and he's still a 6😭😭😭😭😭 He needs to come all the way back to earth

[@danielleanene]

@@traceydumase 6? Common! He’s not even a 2 and once he opens his mouth that becomes a generous offer

[@Nonyah123]

that woman is gorgeous that man be crazy

[@dionnesings577]

Wow

[@boomer1327]

@@traceydumase she aint no 10 yall bitches hype everybody up. All of yall basic

[@benjaminmauga3658]

Paul has a boyfriend on the side 100%. I don’t care what anyone says this man said a smile is enough for him. I’m done

[@angeelee3666]

Totally 💯

[@mohkivuti]

Facts!!!!!

[@reginanoelle1300]

He’s getting it somewhere

[@limphosheshe5587]

True..

[@shevaunbryant8554]

And that man is white

[@fos7176]

“I calculate with my eyes” Chioma is a real African.

[@dominicclarke3206]

I know she's all that and a bag off chips

[@tbg6070]

That segment showed that Chioma is not the hapless victim she wanted to portray these past episodes. There is a time when, as much as we love our culture, we have to understand that some parts of it need to be ditched. And food has always been a HUGE issue in Black households when it comes to sht like CVD's and such. Your auntie from back home will call and say "so and so just dropped from hypertension" "your cousin died at 38 from a CVD" etc..So Im shocked at how flippantly she's treating that topic

[@moemekeifeoma1484]

@@tbg6070 she said they should eat African food once a week not everyday, Paul is just being a jerk, he is the type of man that would eat African food in his friends /families house but keep demanding uncomfortable food to chioma and food she doesn’t like

[@ogoochukwu9807]

Also she forgot that we do really have a measure to this things. That voice of our ancestors in our head that say "that's enough salt" what do you think that is?

[@tbg6070]

@@moemekeifeoma1484 Eating unhealthy things "once a week" is still unhealthy for your body, especially when you can easily put 2000-3000 calories in a single meal with African dishes. And you example makes no sense: do you demand your friends/family members to cook particular foods for you? Ofc he would probably eat those African foods _out of courtesy_

[@beemonique8466]

It's clinically known that narcissist purposely withhold sex from their partners. In fact, anything that the partner like most, rather It's a thing, place, food or sex- they will intentionally keep it from you.

[@lilliannambela1900]

Chioma is so mature and just deserves better....she articulates issues so well without fear

[@veryfitting]

It's a sign of someone who's at peace with their insecurities on some level and is able to put herself in a vulnerable situation to move forward. A therapist's dream.

[@KMazibuko]

Paul is happy and feels secure when Chioma is uncomfortable, unhappy and constantly questioning her worth/attractiveness. He has major insecurities that he hasnt dealt with and projects them onto Chioma. If you say you care for someone, let your actions and words reflect that.

[@pauleendavid5027]

The guy gay!!!! Nobody picked up on that.

[@biblestudywithgrace5566]

Thank you...my thoughts exactly, His trying to break her cause his insecure 🤮

[@isaidwhatisaid6636]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@tbg6070]

The same can be said about Chioma, but you armchair psychologists only know to be biased in favor of women, as usual

[@5X.]

these people stress me but i’m still back

[@sheedashee3959]

Looool

[@christinemimi7066]

Me too😂

[@TheMogulMommy]

Same.

[@falegantunmise9134]

Me tooooo!!!!

[@ingakeitumetsi9491]

Me tooo 😭😂