🐈‍⬛ Black cat vs Golden Retriever Energies in relationships

[@offbeat173]

I'm a guy. I've spent pretty much my whole life believing that doing the most to show your love for someone was how its supposed to be. Hopeless romantic. Love letters, random gifts, poetry, whatever... also, being the man a woman would want to be with. You know, have money, security, emotionally stable, emotionally available, and vulnerable for a woman. This is what I wanted to be for the woman of my dreams. Well, I was... I fell in love hard and did all of those things. However, 3 years in, I found out she was cheating all the time. She never cared. So basically, what I learned was that you can be the best person possible to someone, and your reward will be betrayal & rejection. So I will never chase again, nor will I do all those romantic things because it was a waste of time and energy.

[@DamianMarines00]

T’was not a waste of 3 years, just a long learning period (:

[@hardcorepreparation6740]

this has nothing to do with masculinity and femininity, golden retriever energy is happy, positive, friendly amd good vibes meanwhile black cat energy is judgemental, negative, non reactive and not someone to be with if you like fun in your life both men and women can have these energies

[@itismetotori]

I do feel tired from chasing...

[@rangolovesmangos]

Yeah. Agreed. That's a lot of us.

[@SDv-ho4vz]

Such a nonsense. Just live your life alone if you are going to manipulate a person