Black Greek Sororities & Fraternities || Reasons They WON'T Choose You (Opinions ONLY)

[@OOTD_]

You can do everything right and still not get picked. These organizations pick bad members all the time because of who they were cool with. That's why you see so many inactive members. Really you just have to get cool with the people in that chapter because it's all going to come down to a hand vote and you want as many votes as possible. Start going to the events, get phone numbers, be cordial and get to know the members, but don't bug them. A person with a 2.8 GPA will get picked over a person with a 4.0 just because they plugged themselves in with people who matter in the organization.

[@suave_d]

That's true.

[@khaliahlaura]

"I pray to Jesus not AKA!"....That's all I needed!

[@TheMissNewNew32]

J_Khaliah yes

[@rosemarythomas4202]

J_Khaliah amen!

[@jessicajohnson3363]

Amen

[@khaliahlaura]

Update: I’m now a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated!

[@ladielibra7659]

Me and my friend wanted to pledge delta. An Aka came to visit us. She told my friend she "looked like an aka". My friend asked her what does an Aka look like and told her she wanted to pledge delta. She told us that Deltas were ratchet and she couldn't explain to us what an Aka looks like Lol. We were like damn. We didn't pledge either. We didn't pledge at all where we was because no one gave us a reason to.

[@Jerseychica973]

This long standing MEMBER of Delta Sigma Theta, Inc. concurs with your presentation - I have nothing to add; I think you hit every point...

[@flyyceethemilitant2946]

Bring me that azz ma

[@SoSoSteph]

I will never understand why anyone would willingly subject themselves to someone disrespecting and or subjecting them to physical abuse just to be in an organization. that taints things imo.

[@CatHarlem]

I'm not apart of sorority but I believe if these members truly understood initial purpose of these organizations they wouldn't disrespect or abuse each other. They were meant to uplift, network etc. Somewhere along the way the message and purpose got lost. Now we see members abusing potential members because "it was done to them. We have to do better.

[@ApplesThatRead]

Well now it's gone lmao

[@SoSoSteph]

+ApplesThatRead I didn't ask for a thesis.

[@chatty2164]

+SoSoSteph I wasn't light enough to join. I know you know what I'm talking about. These people will not help you get jobs, or pay you're bills after college. They are always arguing. Why do they call themselves "Greeks"??? Actual Greek people think they sound dumb hahahahahah

[@Olo833]

Bye!

[@queenregina1943]

This is a great video !!! I am a proud member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Inc. The truth hurts however it need to be said. The reason why you should want to join a organization is to give back to your community and grow as a person. Remember when you become a member you are now representing a organization. God 1st School 2nd membership follows.....

[@dyamondhowell7813]

At my school, before you even think about joining the NPHC, though have to go to a meeting where one of the advisors gives you a run down of the standards and qualifications of the organization. I think it was really helpful in giving people an idea of what they really wanted to do and if they really wanted to join.

[@saraht6558]

Yea, they have them all campus' for any sorority/fraternity. It wasn't mandatory at mine but it was helpful to go so you knew what exactly the interest of the org was and to meet chairs. But they give you the run down of what is expected of you and what they stand for and so on.

[@katanaq4077]

Dyamond Howell like that idea

[@MsTbaby8]

Girl, thank you for putting this information out there. I have been a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. for a very long time. I was introduced to the organization by my older sister; however, she even stated that before I join any sorority that I should do my own research and make sure that their values lined up with my and what I stood for personally. I encourage anyone looking to become apart of the Divine Nine to do your OWN research and watch the organizations on the college campus and attend their events. Learn about the members and the organization itself before joining because this is a lifelong commitment.

[@blaque2reality449]

I, too, am a proud member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. since 1988. when my sister expressed an interest in Zeta, I made her attend ALL organizations' interest meetings, to ensure Zeta was the right organization for her. after attending those meetings, she stood firm in her initial choice! I love Zeta and my fellow sister greeks. unity is the key to success, as we all essentially seek the same things!

[@JeffCorryMusic]

Greetings my Soror!

[@KellyTheZeta]

Zphi!

[@Nurse.Kryssss]

Thank you so much! I went to two informationals for one D9 organization, but I wanted to look into my options and I didn’t know if that was okay! So this makes me feel so much better!

[@Bubbl3sCupcake]

I'm a non Greek but I am a PROUD MEMBER of the National Association for Black Accountants. I tell people all the time who are interested or curious about our organization to join forte right reasons not because you want to meat the CEOs and CFOs of KPMG, Deloitt, E&Y, etc. NABA has a great history and an interesting background where 9 Accountants came together because there were not too many people of Color as Accountants. We except dedication and participation and most importantly a lifetime friendship.

[@SuperDamian6669]

That is a fruitful organization. I pray it all goes well for you & the ORG'.

[@Dablkwid0w2008]

Morgan :) I'm not an accountant major but lawd know we need to be more exposed

[@Bubbl3sCupcake]

+Dablkwid0w2008 yes 😂😂

[@ciciharp6025]

Yaaassss!!! A fellow NABA member...

[@Roses-Peonies]

Morgan :) Hi i am a black female accountant and would be honored to join. Please explain the process. Thanks!

[@CatHarlem]

Another great video! I'm an older adult who will be going back to finish my Masters in the Spring. I NEVER developed good studying habits. I would love to see a video on "good study habits" and "time management".

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Coming right up!!!

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Coming right up!

[@naturalw33]

in graduate school now and it's still hard for me to apply those habits.

[@ApplesThatRead]

I will never for the life of me understand why people feel so DESPRATELY they want to be in sorority! I get it's nice, and I think that you have the opportunity to enhance your own life and the lives of other. If you don't get picked, calm tf down. And geez, if you're in it... do something cuz otherwise that's one expensive t shirt. I met this one AKA way back before i even wanted to be greek anything. I swear one day she crossed and lost her damn mind. She would see me in public and expect me to come up and GREET HER. I kid you not. I wasn't playing any games and slick sat right down one day, and that B whacked me with a folder in my arm. Granted it didn't HURT but girl the disrespect... we almost had a REAL, PHYSICAL problem. tl;dr Don't let being in a BGLO get to your head because it can lead to a swift ass kicking. Not everyone wants to be a member of your org, and those people will nut up on your disrespectful ass real quick.

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Agreed hunny 💁🏾

[@Always_Leveling_Up]

I'm sorry but I am cracking up at this. You are too real fa me honey!😂😂😂👐👐 You like "look this ain't yo flex zone, back back." You kept it 💯

[@stillettopumps86]

+ApplesThatRead i agree with you 100%.. i mean im tryna figure out why people really, truly want to even be in sororities? I mean..whats the underlying purpose? People who are in college are gonna build some type of relationship at one point or another..i dont think people need a sorority to do that.. i dont think a person needs a sorority to make a difference or a change in someones life.. i just dont get tit..

[@ApplesThatRead]

stillettopumps86 I can answer that in more detail if you like but the short answer is you are correct, no one NEEDS to be an AKA it is simply a choice some of us WANT to make. I joined for Sisterhood, Scholarship, and Service to All Mankind. And to be honest that's all AKA has to offer- I'm real tired of all this Illuminati mess. There's no "underlying" purpose, there aren't any life changing secrets, and any question you could possibly have about AKA that is approprate for you to know I guarantee is answered on the aka1908 website lol. To be frank about why SOME girls join tho... Hmmmm. They think people will fall to the ground and worship it as they walk on it. They took one slap too many during their illegal pledging processes and actually BELIEVE they're goddesses among outsiders. They're hoes (full shade, as Dr. Nina said not everyone wearing letters is of good character). Undercover hoes trying to use letters to hide their hoe antics. For frats, quite a few (not NEARLY all but a decent handful) are gay and not necessarily "down low" but very private and use frats as a means for gay sex. Some people are involved in masonry, OES and all that occult stuff, but that isn't really a thing in AKA or Delta. People come with lots of ulterior motives, but the three reasons to join AKA are very public and very straightforward.

[@stillettopumps86]

+ApplesThatRead lol well now.. all i can say is thanks for the response. all you said was new to me but I can def believe it..

[@drealovesmickey]

I am a member of Alpha Nu Omega Sorority, Inc. It's a Christian Fraternity and Sorority. And I totally love this video and I want to show my chapter members this video because we as Greek, even the Christian ones, need to understand this concept as well. And people need to know even though you're in a Greek lettered Christian organization that doesn't mean you automatically have to become a nun and a perfect angel. Doesn't mean people in Christian organizations don't sin. And it definitely don't give you a one way ticket to Heaven! That's Jesus job.........

[@djpalm88]

You can't do both give an oath to follow and obey and organization and to god.

[@Jarretthicks12]

I agree with you 100 percent. My entire life as a child I was around Alphas and thought I would be one too. As I got older and started to really pay attention to organizations, the Sigmas were the ones who I always saw doing positive things in my area which is how they inspired me to become a Sigma instead. I did my research and what Phi Beta Sigma Stands for fits so much more into who I am as a person. I say all this to say #1 every chapter is different #2 make the letters do not let the letters make you and #3 join something that has ideals similar to your own

[@willieleefrancis8091]

G.O.M.A.B. Frat!

[@aran08504]

I know two ladies members of both aka and delta and they say they don't feel a real sisterhood and that actually they received hate while pledging and afterwards. it was actually kind of sad to hear you shouldn't have to pay thousands of dollars just to feel connected or wanted esp. if you are a grown established adult.

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

That's why it depends on where you are and who you are dealing with. All people are not the same.

[@Ms.Tasha.]

That's my story! ☹️😢

[@AuthorLHollingsworth]

As a proud member of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Incorporated (14 years), I will admit that your video is on point. The Divine 9 were created to assist the African - American and not for popularity purposes. Unfortunately, some people have joined the D9 just for the name, and many don't care to be active/ financial once they have received the letters. Before anyone joins a D9, they should research the history, and not look at the strolls and stepping styles. A few years ago, a young lady was interested in stepping so much that she wanted to be an SGRHO. Thanks, for another amazing video!

[@WillieFordham]

This video is good just for anybody that wants to join an organization period. Thanks for the video!

[@tabkins]

Happy you were willing to talk about this. Some members act "funny" when non members ask questions. Why wear the t shirt if your not comfortable talking about it? Some people are just curious. It is refreshing to see some openness. Thanks.

[@forbesferrari1157]

Dope video and I'm one of those people that think its so dope to enjoy and watch black greeks from a distance meaning I don't have a strong interest in being in it but I get existed when I see them and I also respect them.

[@samuelwolfolk3364]

Excellent video! I will share with others, especially my college age family members. I am a proud 40+ year member of a BGLO. My interest was peaked as a high school student when I was positively influenced by Black men of my environment ( neighborhood, schools, church, etc.) My father was my greatest teacher, mentor and hero. However, the other men most of whom did not even have the opportunity to pursue an education still were outstanding leaders in my community. Once I realized that I would have a chance to attend college, some of the men I encountered really impressed me with their intelligence, commitment and yes their swag. I have never regretted my decision to join my BGLO, it has enhanced my life immensely. I have enjoyed the friendships, fellowship, brotherhood, concern, commitment exhibited by not only the men of my organization but by all of the others as well. Everything is not for everybody! However, I for one can say that BGLO enhanced my collegiate and lifetime experiences for the better.

[@raynikawatkins2271]

Proud Member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority

[@JT-tx2ns]

Greetings Soror

[@JeffCorryMusic]

J Lor Heeeeeeey Soror!!!

[@adriennegibson9035]

Zphi, my sweet soror

[@windyfields7939]

Raynika Watkins Me TOO SOROR!!!

[@JeffCorryMusic]

Leah Princess Heeeeeeey Soror!!!!! #BluPhi

[@slaybae777]

lol I love how real you are. You gotta let em know wassup! I needed this. I've myself wanted to join a Sorority one day but I'm still doing my research on all the originations. Actions Speak Louder!

[@awol0103]

As a member of Delta Sigma Theta, Inc. I completely agree with your assessment. Many don't understand that we make the letters, the letters don't make us. Be a productive member of society and we will seek you out. All of our organizations want greatness.

[@onmyhhj]

I really appreciate that you communicated having your own values and beliefs separate from the organization. I think that is key! And that you said you were not "bowing down" to your org, and that you love Jesus! I had been sort of discouraged because many persons in the Christian community demonize D9 orgs.

[@djpalm88]

Don't join you can't make an oath to follow an organization and God. God tells you to make an oath to him and only him

[@autumnjones9937]

​@@djpalm88amen

[@jessicajamesspeaks]

As a nongreek who eventually wants to join a BGLO, I am glad that I found this video. You cleared up some common misconceptions that have baffled me since my undergraduate days. I chose not to pledge undergrad because of the risk of being psychologically and physically abused and get belittled for three letters. Not happening! If anyone think they can call me out of my name for one second, they have a problem that they won't want brewing. Thanks for posting this video!

[@SuperDamian6669]

We need more sisters like you. Be proud of who you are. Joining a gang doesn't define you. Everybody's trying to be black & majority of black people are trying to be like everybody else.

[@Slayton701]

Jessica James I think the mis conception is that this is okay, unknowingly dealing with "ancient spirits" and free masonary. Yes there are christians involved. ..... because some 1, has convinced them its okay. Jesus refers to this as the blind leading the blind. I just so happen to be a man. and seeing so many men fall into the same mind state of followers in local communites, drugs. robbing. etc just because some 1 convinced them it is okay. now what you're doing is not illegal. in the eyes of the law. but it is immoral in terms of the house of the "" Lord. getting ppl. to join a secret society is not soul winning "" for the Lord. Jesus. the deciever always. .... makes ppl, think something is okay when its not. aka Lucifer. ancient wisdom and free masonary linages are " Satanic. the same way he has convinced ppl same sex marriage is okay. and lots of other things. 1 reason the world is falling apart. ....

[@theenergyisoff]

I loved this video! Very good points. I'm a member of Zeta Phi Beta, pledged a graduate chapter. My mom and grandmother are ZPhiB also

[@stk57thst]

Please, you ask questions respectfully and you'll get a stare and an answer of, "do your research...." How?!

[@whood3]

Thank you for posting this video. I have been a member of My Fraternity for over a year now. I find it amazing that people would not give you the time of day but when gaining three letters across your chest, and you're an instant celebrity. I was already involved on campus being a part of various organizations, and I didn't pledge until my senior year. I have experienced the groupies on my campus, but always try to shed light on being a part of an organization. Again thank you for the insight. 06-08!!!

[@tiapayne6139]

I was so confused on this topic and even tho I am a sophomore in high school I am a person who plans ahead. Thanks so much for those tips😊 I'm definitely going to follow them

[@lebaronpacker8974]

this is real talk

[@AphroHippie]

I'm not a Greek member but first entering college I thought I would be a part of one of the divine nine. However upon researching I realized that as a working, single mom I didn't have the time to devote to the organization. It's important that people understand the time and financial commitment attached to being a part of a Greek organization.

[@STARLIAFIRE]

grad school info! how to prep for it? conquering fears of being good enough for it. Maybe talk about your experience or any concerns you had.

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Good deal!

[@melissasmith4254]

I love this video. I can't relate cuz I never been in one, but this is motivating in general to be aware of things before getting into them. So thanks miss beautifulbrwnbabydol :) I think one suggestion I have is maybe a video on time management

[@marciajoi3213]

This is THE BEST vid yet. It may be my reference tool for those who come asking. Kudos

[@Jabarikjay]

Becoming members is not the hard part because nowadays they accept almost anyone. Whether or not their MADE is the real question.

[@tararenee3312]

Soror you did a very good job at explain this but there's one thing you left off. Please do not message up on FB or approach us asking us about when our next line is and how the process goes. We cannot tell you this information and once again Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. is a nonhazing Greek organization do not ask us if we haze. Nobody is going to put your life in danger and please do not agree to anything you feel is not safe. If you are trying to be my soror my job is to love you and take care of you and help you become the best person you can be, not hurt you! And I'll speak on the swollen heads some Greeks get its normal but that's were you see how some will live up to stereotypes instead of expectations. Every organization has it it's not just sororities.

[@janeporter1283]

Every single one of these are on point. thank you for posting Soror.

[@biancabaxter8426]

This video was on point! I'm Greek and I've witnessed all of these points.

[@kiaralaryah95]

I was never really interested in Greek life because of the movies and stories I had heard. The majority were negative about the hazing and the making you feel like you have to depend on others. As I got older I met a few people that were apart of organizations and they explained that it is helpful with studying, networking, mentoring, etc. I’ve thought about joining and be apart of a sisterhood that will support and help develop me as an individual. I tried to do research and look into the different organizations, but it’s had to find out about the differences and what they do. How should I go about learning more

[@venessatalbert4602]

My Momma is an AKA and it inspired me to want to try and see what they are about. Thanks for sharing this information and video. It was very encouraging and enlightening.

[@Womanofmanythings]

Love the video!!! I am not Greek but do know people who want to be Greek. Hit the nail right on the head!!! I am sharing this video.

[@delorespulliam4025]

I forwarded the video to my freshman daughter at Hofstra University...HOFSTRA PRIDE. Thanks for the video.

[@truebeautyforever]

I have had some friends almost pressure me because they want me to join their sorority, I've had several of my friends from several different sororities over the years do this to me, but I have no interest because I know for a fact on my campus they haze and beat the girls and tell them they are nothing before they will call them a "sister" that is a concept I will never understand. How you can belittle and beat someone but but then say that you're sisters. Idk If that's everyone's experience in the divine 9 system but I could never.

[@taylorbowie5280]

You and my sister have helped me so much with the advice that you ladies have been giving. I can say this I was a cheerleader for AKA in high school but something my sister asked me " What are your interest in being a K?" I never really gave her an official answer til this day and it has been 4 years ago. I have started my research since 2012 and I am not as much of a cheerleader as I was then. My first thought in college was to be on top of my classes instead of being in a Greek organization. Because I have been watching you episodes I knew more of what not to do... So I really want to thank you

[@lettaboo3]

This upcoming school year will be my last undergrad year, I would like tips on funding grad school and any tips on applying to grad school thanks in advance. I really find your videos very helpful and informative.

[@efthimismavrikos8942]

I am Greek and I don't get why there are Greek organizations/ sororities and why do they have Greek letters? please someone explain this to me

[@angelwallace6319]

Efthimis Mavrikos how are you Greek and you don’t know the reason for your organization’s existence 🤔🤔🤔

[@liquidlightz]

Angel Wallace he means he's actually of Greece ancestry. An actual Greek person. 🤔

[@animateddepression]

Cultural appropriation. You would think the comments in here would highlight that, given the experience of most of the posters but....

[@alicacrockett6444]

Thanks for the info because I was def a "this is the popular sorority" rather than do my own research....Busted!! I'll read up on them and prepare to move forward.

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

We've all been there my dear.

[@sparta23dh]

It's the Occult, dressed-up....

[@victoriamathews8701]

sparta23dh amen

[@N2beautiful]

Now that I am older I am older I am glad that I didn't join a Greek organization.

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Sometimes that's best.

[@naturalw33]

I can agree on that. I joined a Greek organization and I don't think that particular chapter was right for me. now it's hard for me to want to be an active member if my sorority because of that experience.

[@ShelbySteele23]

+naturalw33 Same here

[@tamikatisby1770]

N Mills Yes girl all it is they are paying somebody to be their friends smh ain't worth selling their souls smh

[@snickerdoodle212]

Same. I'm way too headstrong to be a part of a sorority. But I do admire their sisterhood.

[@khadijahgreen9682]

Im a new mother, I plan on going to a 4 year college, and I have done my research on the Black Greek organization that I want to join. However, I figured since I had a baby I wont be considered, Is this true? Will me being a mother hinder my opportunity of pledging? Thank you for your response

[@AnastasiaOsho]

I know several women who had a child before joining a BGLO. It shouldn't be a hindrance.

[@misshottytoddy14]

Like my Soror below said, as a collegiate member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. you hit these points on the head.

[@Mikki220]

Thank you for posting this video, Soror. I never know what to tell people who are interested other than "oooh, don't tell everybody the way I did." That was my Mom's advice when I went to college: "Slow it down and I will never have my letters on when I come to visit. Some people don't view it as a good thing if they don't know you and I will beat my little sister bald for hurting your feelings! So just hush and survey your surroundings."

[@SimplySoumaya1711]

Proud Pretty Girl and fellow doctor, here! Great job Soror! On point!

[@Msttdiva]

BeautyBrwnBabyDol, I first want to say thank you for this video. I have always had that thought in that back of mind to join a sorority. Personally I wanted to join to gain a social life so I can learn and start networking and just spreading the positive aspects and joy that I have in life for my lord and savior. Now I was told that I had to have bachelor’s degree years ago and now that I am in school with a year under my belt heading towards my BA, I am told that with my "choice of schooling" that joining still may not be an option. I would love to be in a sisterhood with women who know their worth and love themselves so there are willing to teach others and help others and not barging of what they have or can do. I feel (personal opinion please don't take offense) But I feel that us women already have a hard time giving or accepting a compliment and evening working with each other so( in some situation not for everyone ) an organizations is needed. It would be nice to have more than one woman who can prove the theory wrong and show that that truly care. To have the experience and the knowledge of developing a relationship within the community, your sisters, and new things about yourself would be a beautiful thing to accomplish and become part of. No matter what age if we are willing, there is always something to learn and gain from another women that is walking on the right and positive path. My apologies if I am all over the place. I was wondering if you can point me in the right direction. Now far as school, I am an art major in Interior Design program at The Art Institute. Have a wonderful and beautiful blessed day love and thank you in advance.

[@ShakeshaWilliams]

"Nevermind. Some people can't." Ahhhh😂

[@sunnypatchkid3588]

That caught me off guard 😂😂

[@SatPumpWorkOut]

@melissasmith I agree I'm glad you pointed that out about how it applied to getting involved in any organization or even job. I too also would love to see a video on time management as honestly it is my area for sever growth:-)

[@williamrobinson8859]

Preach! I dislike shirt wearing Greeks. The ones who come in just to get booty or say their in the org. I enjoy doing community service and the brotherhood of my fraternity. Omega Psi Phi Inc....

[@belinreport5986]

Your video helped me in 2019 and I thank you for that Queen ✊🏾.

[@blackNproud365]

I've been doing my research on the divine 9 and still continuing my research. After watching this video it has given me a boost of confidence to express myself in joining an organization. Can I ask for wisdom and advice from the alum Greeks thanks and God bless

[@CreativeDiva12]

14 years and still financial and active in my Grad Chapter. I'm a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta sorority inc.school was always first for me. Delta allowed me to network and showed me ways to put myself out there. I agree with what you said wholeheartedly and like my Sorors above said you hit it on the head.

[@Jerseychica973]

+CreativeDiva12 We know that our sorority Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated, is an organization of college educated women committed to the constructive development of its members and to public service, with a primary focus on the Black community. That's our mission. Love you soror!!

[@Slayton701]

CreativeDiva12I think the mis conception is that this is okay, unknowingly dealing with "ancient spirits" and free masonary. Yes there are christians involved. ..... because some 1, has convinced them its okay. Jesus refers to this as the blind leading the blind. I just so happen to be a man. and seeing so many men fall into the same mind state of followers in local communites, drugs. robbing. etc just because some 1 convinced them it is okay. now what you're doing is not illegal. in the eyes of the law. but it is immoral in terms of the house of the "" Lord. getting ppl. to join a secret society is not soul winning "" for the Lord. Jesus. the deciever always. .... makes ppl, think something is okay when its not. aka Lucifer. ancient wisdom and free masonary linages are " Satanic. the same way he has convinced ppl same sex marriage is okay. and lots of other things. 1 reason the world is falling apart. .... these pledges and oaths are demonic.

[@helenjoyner241]

CreativeDiva12 X

[@MzDiva2yu]

Greetings professor. I'm glad you came across this video. I'm getting my degree in Human Services as well but im also going to pursue a degree in social work. I'm in the military so I go to an online college. However, once I move going to be going to school on campus. I would like to become an AKA for a few reasons The Original Nine Marie Woolfolk (Taylor) was a Social Worker I live by those values that AKA represent. Educational Enrichment, Health Promotion, Family Strengthening, Environmental Ownership, and Global Impact. I don't know how to go about trying to join being that I'm in the military.

[@dlbarnes]

Hey love just wanted to say I love your vids keep up the good work queen

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

Thanks!

[@AngiesDoingIt]

Attended a probrate. I left there trying to buy a ticket to Wakanda. Saw some on KZbin, but in person, it's one of the most honorable and exciting events I've ever been to. Left there going AKA forever.

[@matthewfreeman5114]

Thank you sis! My auntie is a Delta and my cousin is a Kappa. I'd love to join Kappa since I would be consider a "legacy" however, I don't know if I could dedicate myself to the community service aspect. I have a lot of thinking to do.

[@Queenin06]

What advice do you have for women trying to join Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc., at the graduate level? How do you get to know the women? I read on the website it was invitation only

[@ashcatt89]

Most chapters have public events on their website or social media pages. You can start to attend those events and get to know chapter members that way.

[@Queenin06]

Thanks ladies. Very helpful information, ***** I didn't know they had interesting meetings. I thought that once you got the letter you were automatically in. ashcatt89 I've been going to several different events. Just patiently waiting. Do you feel like you get less respect if you join on the graduate level?

[@Briannajoi17]

I have a disability would I still be able to participate in Greek life can someone let me know.

[@daradiant1]

Omg! Did she say some of yall can't get alone with yourselves? LOL! 😂😂😂😂😂 Now that was too funny!!!

[@McKellen_R]

I know I'm late. However, I agree wholeheartedly with your presentation as a relatively new member of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Inc. (ΦΒΣ) (Spring18) There are a lot of common misconceptions about black greek lettered organizations. The sad thing is, most of the time these misconceptions are started and spread by people who are not members of any org and haven't done any research on them.

[@napturallycrowned6931]

Yass Soror you spoke nothing but facts ! I agree with everything nothing up for debate ! 💯

[@CoCoAdREam22]

I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS VIDEO!!! YOU WERE AMAZEBALLS!!! LOL! And now....ROUND #2!! #REVIEW

[@Club-rx5xz]

One thing you said, RESEARCH! RESEARCH! RESEARCH! Great advice...

[@smartandpretty97]

Hey I loved your video! I'm currently a freshman at FSU & I would like to eventually join a sorority. But I'm not sure how to go about it. We have this thing every Wednesday where all the Greek organizations have tables set up & they stroll. Would it be a good idea to walk up to the table and show my interest, or is there a better way to go about it ?

[@brianpratt3672]

You absolutely hit the nail on the head.

[@nyekole2010]

i definitely agree with this I am not greek but i have witnessed people be bitter/salty towards greeks behind their back talking about greek this greek that but turn around and be in an formal rush and yet still wonder why they are chosen. I have never understood nor will i ever why people don't just realize that hey i tried joining i wasnt picked i'll either try again undergrad if i can or i'll try grad chapter because i want to join this organization and it's not the people that were picked fault i wasnt picked and theres a limit of how many people they can accept so just like with a job interview not everyone is going to get the position

[@sheilaosborne6210]

I would like to know why it is that when you start to consider joining a Greek organization, people who are not interested in or didn't make it into an organization seem to try and find something negative to focus on or they try to dissuade you from joining. What's wrong with just supporting the decision?

[@spottinglyd]

I know I am SO late to this video but hopefully you may still see this comment. So I’m interested in crossing in my undergrad year into a D9 Sorority. I’m currently in the very early process of doing my research and just trying to go to events and really see what each sorority has to bring to the table in beliefs and philanthropy as well as how it’s members conduct themselves online. So my first question is, is there anywhere besides those organizations websites that you would suggest going to do more research. And two, the only thing that’s holding me back from fully committing to this process are the specific chapters at my school and just some things that I’ve heard on campus. That have made me a little unsure about crossing into any of the sororities on my campus. How would I go about talking to some chapter members to really just have honest dialogue and hear about the good, the bad, the ugly and everything in between. Would that be rude to ask? Is that something that they’re even allowed to tell me? I’m mostly worried that I could cross over into and organization that I really like and believe in but also into a specific chapter that I may not.

[@MuyBonitaDee]

Wow! New subbie 😊 loved your video!

[@Brittsays1]

I have no problem with creating organization to uplift but at what cost. Why is there a list of ppl who actually die from hazing. You guys talk about brotherhood and sisterhood but I would never ever treat my brother or sister the way you guys do during pledging even if it's a small as allowing someone to write a paper for you, Why would you do that?

[@micaelacollins934]

Thank you I needed that and I know whatI need to do.

[@RosefromPittsburgh]

A very good video! You kept it real!

[@abigailr.7487]

Your videos are so helpful!!💖💖

[@annamichelslife3343]

I love the Vedic it really helped me because I am applying to go to Rutgers Newark and hopefully join a sorority, I know that I don't have much for college but God has the way I wanted to know what to expect on becoming a doctor :-)

[@BeautywithinUrself]

And there it is!

[@aaliyahfan313]

what if someone was to ask a member of a particular organization about certain things pertaining to Greek life (I.e pledging) but that someone didn't necessarily say that they were interested? In other words say if somebody asks a sigma a question about pledging but they lowkey wanna be an alpha but didn't just up and say "I wanna be an alpha" to that sigma, they're just asking questions about the process. Would that become a problem when it's time for their own process??? I hope I didn't confuse you lol

[@akillloyd7615]

She said that. These rules are so applicable across the NPHC.

[@ghameurn]

I have been trying to get in to AKA in the New Jersey Philadelphia area for the past ten years! I have even emailed the presidents of the local chapters recently to their presidents and received 1. Downright attitude and the other didn't even respond to my sincere email. I have always water to be involved in the community as well as the mentoring aspects. Makes me very wary these days of late. Any ideas

[@kristafrog10]

Um, you don't have to be greek to do work for your community! There are plenty of FREE organizations that do the same things these greek organizations are doing. Why consider something where people act like they're high and mighty? IJS

[@Preciousangel3710]

I know you might have wanted to join Greek life but have you thought of a Kiwanis branch or City Year. Those are some great service organizations in the area but they're a lot more out there.

[@lisacrooms167]

Ten years! That's a sign to give up. Why continue to try to be apart of something that does not show interest in you becoming a member. That's like chasing a guy for ten years...get the hint. There are alot of community organizations that you can join. Create your own identity and serve your community on behalf of yourself. There's something that you are expressing to this Sorority that is a turnoff. I don't know what it is but listen to the video again. Maybe you are trying too hard for the wrong reasons.

[@ms.birmingham5220]

AKA's graduate chapters are VERY hard to get into (I'm assuming you are referring to graduate chapter; no college was mentioned). You have to first, wait for them to have a line; which is not often. Then, you need several recommendations/sponsorship from financial and active members. There are some other requirements your sponsors must have. I suggest you stop emailing the presidents and visit their website. Find out what events they are hosting that is open to the public-attend and mingle. If you know any Greeks that are active with your local NPHC ask them what the AKA'S have going on. They should know. We all get invites to each other's programs and events. Like we tell ladies that are interested in DST; if you are busy in your community you will run into a Greek!

[@Nestle245]

Give up it isn't that serious

[@freshmangurl091]

great video soror! very informative! :)

[@BeeJ3]

Thank you for this video ..very helpful

[@atouloupas]

As a real Greek, I have a question and I'd like to get an answer if possible: Why do you call yourselves Greeks? I mean, it feels kinda weird when people say "Greek life". The real Greek life has nothing to do with the things you do in sororities and fraternities. Do you ever discuss about Greeks and our mentality, philosophy and stuff like that? Have you ever been to Greece to meet the people and know how they are like? Some people even think that Greek life is like the life in a sorority/fraternity. I have to say that this false use of the term along with the concept and role of sororities/fraternities (in comparison with the original ones, in the 18th and 19th centuries) embarass the Greek people and our ethics.

[@BrittWoodley]

You're taking it too personal lmao

[@stk57thst]

"Greek" lettering used in mathematics today (I'm a MEngineer major) derived from us Africans when we ruled, civilized and cultivated southern parts of Europe.

[@SuperDamian6669]

Thank you. I'm a black man and I don't understand why. The only thing I can think about, is a bunch of confused people, who're unsure of themselves, wanting a sense of belonging. It's no different from joining the crips & bloods. Still trying to understand, what is the meaning of Greek life and it's purpose? When you've never been to Greece or lived the life.

[@quab3371]

my Greek friend is going to join a sorority that's generally a Hispanic one. she basic explained it to me as this: what this sorority is saying, I vibe with it. I admire the sisterhood. I understand how you feel, because you're seeing someone appropriate your culture. but it's something completely different from what you're thinking of. it's mostly just using the Greek alphabet to identify and pass a social test lol.

[@XtoCee]

Do you realise that Greeks have African ancestry, dating back to the neolithic period?

[@karenreed8217]

Great informative video, Soror . Thank you for sharing.

[@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol]

No problem beautiful!

[@Nupeism]

I am a member of Kappa Alpha Psi and this was a great video!

[@MakeupNMusic20]

What would your advice be for someone who has been doing their research, but are torn between two organizations?

[@Brittsays1]

Can you speak on hazing, I will be making a video soon about fraternity and sororities you could look out for it. I feel like yes these orgs have done a lot but these things that ppl do in orgs they are already capable of you don't need letters to do these things, these men and women who volunteer, maintain good GPA's, networking, receiving jobs. Did ppl forget that God created us so magnificent that they can do this without an org. That nothing is impossible

[@TeeCG]

Are you in a sorority? If not, why are you making a video on something you have no personal knowledge about? Try doing something else with your time.

[@Brittsays1]

rhoyal6 ummm one I never made the video but for one I don't have to be In a sorority to understand the affects of hazing, to understand that thousands of undergrads have died under the hands of sorors and frats, that the whole Greek organization has blood on their hands, Using MY TIME to assure that prospective college students go to school and understand they can make great friends without doing demeaning things I think that's actually a great way to spend MY TIME

[@Brittsays1]

rhoyal6 I went to college without joining a sorority made amazing friends , girls I'm still friends with to this day, I will be in one of their weddings this year and guess what?I became their friend without be hazed, I don't have to pay dues for the friendship isn't that quite amazing

[@stacynewton34]

Just to clear this up. free mason doesn't worship the devil i should know i have to uncles who are free mason's. and 1 is a pastor and has his own chruch.its bad and good people ever where its up to you to choice the right path

[@asdfghjkasdfghj4939]

I’m Greek and this was a great awesome video

[@itsallgoodnewbusiness8168]

Your accent ? I'm from STL are you as well? Cause I heard you say "You Hurr me" LO"

[@microfarmers]

Great editing!

[@talarmond]

You speaking facts 👏🏾

[@germansheppard20]

I want to do this sorority, but I know that every college is different I go to ODU in Virginia and I was wondering what questions can I ask the AKA because I live in a dorm and we have 6 floors I'm on the second floor and a member is on the third who is also a resident assistant? I did make a mistake awhile ago saying I wanted to be one on Facebook I posted it on facebook and my cousin told me never to do that I never knew you weren't supposed to say what you wanna be I'm a freshman so that's why I looked at videos online about how they step I went to the interest meeting to see what it was about. I went to this thing the college had and all the sororities and fraternities were there but what stood out to me was the AKA's even the other sororities performed too I just wanna know how can I stand out? We haven't had "rush week" yet but how can I impress them I do act myself around a lot of people but besides that.

[@buttascotchluv247]

I definitely don't think it would be handed to me. I feel the question should be how can I work hard to get this. I'm fully aware if my interest and it's unfortunate how people express interest in a disrespectful way

[@ayegrandberry2773]

Because you are a professor and a greek I feel you may be able to generally answer questions about all sororities. Maybe? *shrugs*. Any who, I am a transfer student at my my current university and I plan on joining a BGLO but I know some chapters require higher GPAs than others. I have 2 GPAs, I have one GPA that is just my grades at my current institution and I have a cumulative GPA, I am wondering which GPA is going to be considered for entry into Greek orgs?

[@mrskayhillman]

Both will be considered. When I joined Sigma Gamma Rho they were more concerned with the overall school GPA. I am unsure of how your school will look at it but usually the overall GPA you have at the school is the one that is considered. It all depends on the chapter requirements! :) Good luck!

[@ayegrandberry2773]

+Kay H by overall school you mean cumulative gpa right?

[@mrskayhillman]

Aereana Grandberry sorry i shouldve explained! Yes, I meant the cumulative GPA. But it really depends on the chapter and the school requirements because since you are a transfer student they may just take into account your grades at your new institution since that transcript is easily accessed. I have only done one intake and have not encountered this situation (sorry, hope that helps)

[@TeeCG]

The individual organizations have their own standards so see their websites for these details; the information might be there. For Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc., it is the cumulative GPA that is considered but you must meet the national GPA requirement; however, an individual chapter may have a higher GPA requirement but never lower than the national standard. Also, some colleges have their own GPA requirement for those who wish to become greek members so in that case, you will also have to meet that requirement but again, never lower than the sorority's national standard.

[@tossmc]

Wow, I'm nothing, per say IAW any such group, etc, etc, ... but I just wanted to tell you that I LOVE, yes LOVE this video and that you nailed it oh so well. Thank you very much. I applaud you, I do.