BLACK MEN are done dating BLACK.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Watch the FULL video on my KZbin channel: kzbin.info. Join in on the conversation!

[@MissKlassy]

_He's angry because like the BM in my former office all the did was chase WW/other races while they put educated BW down. Those relationships didn't work out over the decades they try to swing back to BW to accept them "As is" in which most BW say "HELL NO!", I don't blame them!_

[@linrey3397]

I just found u today and think you're amazing as are ur topics especially the one on teachers. TY

[@bigart9488]

I have had so many arguements with black women when I tell them how my encounters with them are, and they say that's not true, or they're making excuses and say that oh, sometimes we don't want to be bothered. So if a man says hello to you you can't be bothered to smile. We don't encounter this with any other race.

[@artofmusic2000]

So true. Majority of time when I encounter Other Women of other races they initiate the smile and speak first to me and I know I'm not all that but the black woman they don't even look at me at all and even I say something to them it's like you're bothering them and it's a pain to even have to acknowledge you. So yes I'm 56 years old and I'm done with black women I don't even look at them anymore 😏

[@str8alphamale]

@ThisBahamianGyal I love black women. Let's get married. You seem real classy. I like.

[@tghamilton1079]

This topic has been beat to death. Be done. Be happy.

[@veganista5096]

@tghamilton1079 You beat me too it! Yes! WHO CARES?!

[@upallnite79]

I agree, God created MAN & WOMAN. There's no law that says you CAN'T date who you want. The first quality that people should look for is.. Do you know God?..

[@bigart9488]

​@veganista5096 You'll care in a few years when you're looking for a man and you can't find them. Women are already complaining that men don't approach them anymore. It's not a problem when you're young and pretty, but wait till you're 35.

[@broco6608]

​​@@bigart9488 It won't be a problem when/after bw turn 35 either. Black men are free to be with who and where they want to be. The sooner you ALL go, the better. Bw will be ok.

[@DaRenegade]

@@tghamilton1079 facts bro

[@aprilclover2429]

I don’t see anything wrong with a woman being educated and independent so long as she is kind and caring. I will tell you that it is much easier for me to smile or compliment White women than Black women. It is refreshing when a BW is friendly or cordial.

[@Transformersarecoming4yourkids]

And just the fact that we feel like that that it’s “refreshing” when a BW is friendly or cordial is telling & speaks to what the majority of America is saying; that BW are the most hostile women compared to others

[@kyleanuar9090]

DO NOT smile at ghetto women or risk getting attacked, they see it as some crazy instigate.

[@debrajames3865]

This poor perception of black women must change. Black women definitely need to be more compassionate towards others as a whole.

[@labyrinthoflies4438]

​@@debrajames3865just for the record, no one is obligated to be a certain way or do anything for anybody. But, if the content of your useless character is trash, then trash you shall beget in return. 😂

[@Janet-zk1vi]

I see all races of women who act this way in person and on the Internet.

[@Transformersarecoming4yourkids]

Of course, there’s gonna be some women in every race that are like this but there’s a disproportionately high concentration within BW which is what the point of this video and all other videos like it are trying to make.

[@MissKlassy]

_Yet BM like you married, chased poor White women and single parents while putting educated BW like her down when you did nothing with your life except chase WW for 40 years* Now 68 yrs old dying alone in poor health with nothing!_

[@Michelle.1952]

No insight as to why they might be? ​@@Transformersarecoming4yourkids

[@sidearmsalpha]

More and more women are becoming intolerable. Thank feminism for that. They think they can do anything a man can or have daddy issues.

[@tinytee7777]

Nah, not like Black women. Black women stay angry

[@KRW3321]

As a non-black woman of color, I have to say that the girls and women who were more welcoming to me throughout my life were black. Whether American, African, Caribbean or South American. I’ve come to love, admire, and appreciate black women. Despite my mostly positive experiences, I can acknowledge the existence of the kinds of women mentioned in this video. The women who are nasty for seemingly no reason. However, as unpleasant as they may be, at least they’re openly hostile. I’d rather know who to stay away from than have to deal with certain people’s propensity to smile in your face and befriend you only to talk nasty behind your back. And though I’m sure that phony behavior can be found in people of all backgrounds, I haven’t encountered it in black women.

[@BigScorpio87]

Most black women treat people how we wish to be treated.. its difficult because we are always talked about mostly in a negative way, which is crazy because all races have people who act the same way its not just black women. Just like other races have women who have degrees, good careers, no kids, married we do as well.

[@jericothompson8636]

@@BigScorpio87 that’s not the experience of everybody else. 🤷🏾‍♂️ only black women seem to think they’re nice to everybody.

[@monicagomez4616]

As a Caribbean woman myself I know what you mean. Thankfully not all Black woman are as he describes. In my personal experience, some Black women are very pleasant and accommodating. Nevertheless, many are indeed unpleasant to deal with. Their bad behavior might be a type of defense mechanism stemming from trauma[s] in their lives that affects their personalities. Either way, being polite, cordial and respectful is a simple matter of CHOICE that doesn’t cost a thing.❤

[@taratarat5818]

I disagree. A lot of them are unpleasant because they were raised that way, and they are ok with it. They use trauma as a defense to being that way and bullying other people into accepting it instead of using change.

[@monicagomez4616]

@@taratarat5818 ‘some’ BW are as I said and ‘some’ are as you have said.

[@taratarat5818]

@monicagomez4616 Not from where I'm from and traveled. It's more than some.

[@labyrinthoflies4438]

​@@taratarat5818I always kicked their azzes. They tried but could never bully me.😂

[@labyrinthoflies4438]

​@@taratarat5818😂😂😂😂😂

[@brooklynjoy7144]

Black women here… black men can date outside their race. It only bothers me when they use black women as their excuse to do so. They take a few bad encounters with black females and blanket all black women the same. But when treated badly by a female from another race, the black male will judge her as an individual. I come into contact with a lot of black females and most are kind, talkative and very helpful.

[@LeeLee_Diamond]

u said nothing but facts they do exactly what they complain about nonblk people doing to them to blk wm

[@user-gt5vs1su2n]

Not so, sweetie!!!!

[@LeeLee_Diamond]

@user-gt5vs1su2n it's very so sweetie 😘 She said nothing but facts

[@labyrinthoflies4438]

@@brooklynjoy7144 where? What planet? And I don't even believe in planets.🤣

[@erinngodfrey6172]

You've just about summed up everything that I was thinking. It's really sad when a black woman sides in blanket statements such as this. They may add will side with blanket racist statements about black people. Smdh

[@broco6608]

Be free black men, be free. Go where you want to go, be who you want to be, be with who you want to be with. Black women will be fine.

[@mrs.garcia6978]

For some reason kindness is considered weakness in many groups of “black communities”, ESPECIALLY IN DC. I lived there for 11 months, longest 11 months of my LIFE.

[@debrajames3865]

Indeed that is your experience so I can't disagree with you. What I will add is that Black people often feel deprived and bully. They are at the bottom economically.

[@piricarmen]

Oh no! You will NOT lump all black women, yourself included into one category. That is offensive and that would be why I am reacting. The main reason why “these complaining men” want black women to be alone is because they either want to control them or they are insecure and not attracted to them. And that is it. There are these pervasive stereotypes about the different races and ethnicities of women and it is not wrong to call it out and say it is unacceptable. Simply put. No attitude, just stating what is.

[@alwaysandforeverados1455]

Her skin is black, but she’s not a true black American woman!

[@labyrinthoflies4438]

Thank you!

[@Joshua-eo5hr]

Oh brother take accountability

[@simonecodrington5515]

Thank you!

[@LaToyaWilsonLondonStarr]

Get her straight! No group is a monolith and whoever is encountering this nasty energy everywhere they go should question whether they're receiving the same energy they're giving off.

[@MsLotusBlooms]

As a black woman, I do not care who black men date at all. They are not my preference.

[@MBD-ec8wn]

Says the zaddy worshiper with no ring!

[@MsLotusBlooms]

@@MBD-ec8wn I'm happily married. If I were single, I would never date men I didn't like or want, just to get a ring or anything else.

[@spreadlovenotlies77]

​@@MsLotusBlooms Ditto, I could care less who bw date, Mr white man please take all the sisters lol

[@WholisticBlackBeauty]

​@@spreadlovenotlies77 we will see if it's funny 10 years from now lol!!!😂❤

[@hmmok5791]

You entered the comment section to let everyone know how angry you are. Your "husband" is secretly embarrassed.

[@nicford548]

My husband was a street photographer, as his hobby, in NYC. He said whenever he approached various women for pics, out and about, black women were THE MOST approachable!! White women would look at him and not wanna be bothered. And he’s in their ethnic group.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

I'm happy his experience was positive. That's a good thing!

[@Michelle.1952]

Thank you for sharing his experience. BW like this content creator wants the narrative to be the opposite so that she can seem to be better than the average BW. It's sad and quite confusing to see BW fight for literally nothing.

[@JOSHUABULLOCK-nu8xt]

@@Michelle.1952you see it! She doesn’t really consider herself black . She considers herself Caribbean. And only sees herself as black because that’s how others see her

[@SheyB-sl5kg]

​@JOSHUABULLOCK-nu8xt true. Caribbean Is a whole identity. Black is an imposed adopted description.

[@user-vh8gs1sw1j]

@@Michelle.1952 But she is right.

[@Niona_Shashai]

Can we dead this conversation? Never have I ever dated a BM in my life. And I never plan to. Ever 😂

[@thomslick3636]

Either has I or ever will 😮

[@farmhouseonthemountain]

Exactly. And our uncles, cousins, and brothers been showing us for years that they don't want women that look like us. It's really not news to most of us.

[@chiefakachi2296]

Listen, to the black women in this comment thread, do you. You are under a psy op But here’s the thing. If you are going off your anecdotal and social media content centered around black men, then you are out of touch with reality. The black men who choose to date out and bash black women on the way out are part of the problem also. What black people do not realize is that your ethnic image precedes you to other races in statistics for black women, and in media for black men. All they have done is exaggerated the negative statistics and down played the positive statistics centered around black. This strategy works vice versa black women. Their strategy is based on the male and female nature. Two different outcomes that pit us against each other. Makes the black women feel powerful and above reproach. Yet it makes black men seem powerless and incapable but statistics prove otherwise. The reason why most women don’f notice this psy op is because of how they make black women feel in the media, this is why you see this mindset accross the board with black women. The reason why some black men don’t fight it is because of of him not only getting it outside the community but you have black women who participate in the psy op is because they are usually not raised around successfully married black people, first black men don’t own and control their image, their contributions to society etc. Black people we have and always been the pets of society, we miss critical opportunities to unite and build to become a sovereign nation of people, unfortunately, now the damage is done. This is why Martin Luther King was wrong and Malcom X was right. The government has brainwashed us into believing we don’t need each other, and that your saving grace is to depend on them. Really, we should have been left. The media pushes that passport boys date out when they travel. But most brother date within the diaspora, like myself, i still include black american women in my pool, but i would date a carreabean, afro latina, and any other women part of the African diaspora. I’ve dated out before, but my preference is African diaspora women, because i still had majority healthy connections with these women. I think this is what black people should do as a collective, assimilate back into the diaspora. I have traveled before this passport bros movement, the problem on both sides is us, Black American men and women. We now perpetuate psy op played on both of us. Nothing has changed since slavery ended and they first showed birth of a nation. Willie Lynch in full effect.

[@Omgitsme323]

Fr. Black men have never been at the too of my list. Nor will they ever 😂

[@broco6608]

​@@farmhouseonthemountain Exactly.

[@Iamshe932]

It's a woman or man's character not race that makes a person. If it was just black women being the problem why r the white, brown and every other race getting divorced. How many high profile black men who has dated or maried white women women still end in divorce.

[@melissamcintyre2574]

Finally the truth spoken here, ❤

[@kokowalker]

Im a black woman and love white men always have always will so no arguments here

[@debrajames3865]

That is your preference. However do not be surprised when you find out they are calling you the Nasty N word behind your back. They don't even like women.

[@Michelle.1952]

Every group has their faults and BW are no different, but seeing these pick-me comments and knowing the research and statistics about the relationship outcomes amongst various racial pairings is sending me 😂. If you ever come to the truth, I hope that you haven't lost too much along the way.

[@MBD-ec8wn]

Another one with no ring

[@demetriusjames9535]

Just the mere fact that you have coined a term for women who speak differently than you tells us all we need to know...

[@Veracityseeker7]

I'm totally happy about this. Let other women deal with them!

[@TheDCDenizen]

I feel the same way - Save a black woman’s life and sanity and leave! I feel sorry for the black woman who gave birth to this specimen.

[@unleashthekeish]

Exactly they are riddled with issues, felons, down low, alcoholics, addicts, homeless, jobless, no discipline, he wearing multiple earrings with his feminine self. Black guys are not a prize 🤷🏽

[@ladeec5124]

And I'm done dating black men too! Let's shake hands

[@agreen3127]

Damn lol how many hurt you?

[@ladeec5124]

@@agreen3127 let me guess, you only have a high school diploma! Next...

[@agreen3127]

@ladeec5124 lol I don't need a degree to figure you out..just another almost average angry bird...

[@ladeec5124]

@@agreen3127 You're illiterate comment just proved my point. Go get a degree and share the ignorance with someone who truly cares. Lol

[@ladeec5124]

@@agreen3127 High school diploma is all over this illiterate comment. Lol boy bye

[@tabithabaker8538]

How long we gone run with this narrative as far as I’m concerned every race and every gender especially the new one’s added has it’s flaws and issues but for some reason only black women constantly gets talked about and looked down upon by everybody and we wonder why she’s angry and masculine 💁🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@shamch22]

I agree sis

[@brooksrush29]

Indeed. I’m tired of this narrative. It seems like the thing everyone takes part in to get ratings. Why would a woman from our race even take part in that? I get it there are some of us who have bad attitudes just as any other race but how can we work in changing the narrative? How about we find ways to embrace one another?

[@TayTay0812]

Agreed, but you know they're scared to have that conversation ❤❤❤

[@KeronSmith-nk7te]

I don't support that brother 💯 who talk like that about black women

[@paulasmall5113]

How can you ask what do you bring to the table then be upset when you get an answer? I love black men but not stooping or begging. Please go get what makes you happy. Everyone should be loved and happy

[@demetriusjames9535]

Black men are men. By and large, men don't see value in any of those "things" brought to the table; because, they actually have no relationship equity.

[@DorothySpang]

The Term angry Black Woman exists for a reason 🤷‍♀️

[@Yourfavoritephenom]

Sis!!! FACTS!!! 💯

[@carlosacosta5930]

It’s their own fault .

[@Transformersarecoming4yourkids]

Exactly. Stereotypes are based in reality. An observation of behavior and patterns. They just don’t apply to every single last person in said group but they apply to MOST. That’s enough to keep most decent men away.

[@shawnmariep]

Yes, because a few, as compared to the majority, are angry. Perceptions are largely influenced by media. Ex if you view 10 movies w soft yt women and 10 angry blk wemen, yoi're inclined to THINK thia is the majority. Blk people need to stop reinforcing negataive stereotypes. It's a form of genocide

[@TURBOMIKEIFY]

Diary Of A Mad Black Woman? 😂

[@user-zd6vs5zb6u]

She's putting out her resume for all receiving Pookies. Letting him know she has a car he can drive and a couch he can sleep on while playing the video game smoking a blunt. 😂😂😂

[@alphonsomorris793]

Its a 🧢 to act like bw just angry for no reason. Its all these moral, upright competent black men out here.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Watch the full video. I address that. Then come back.

[@shoppernista]

I prefer a BM - the problem is - some of BM are bitter - so they blame us

[@beehay3361]

There is a lot of healing that needs to be done with both male and females. The problem with men or women saying they wash their hands of the other is that they appear to clump all women or men into the same category. They let a few bad apples spoil it for them. Also, let God bring a vibrational match to you. But you have to be positive , respectful, and loving to get that vibrational match in return. The same energy you put out there is what you will find or get in return. Don't go out here searching. That's how you find the one that most likely isn't for you. Equally yoked is true. Have a Blessed day!🙏🏾🙌🏾💜👁️

[@user-rt7sd4sp2m]

As a black man, I’ve been done, years ago! Fellas, y’all can definitely have em bro!

[@1234itbeme]

Their not dating outside their race. They are dating outside their country.

[@MarcusBarrett-zi8od]

Bingo.

[@IndelibleDoll]

There's someone out there who is your love match. Just stay focused and grounded.❤

[@heyheyhey40]

That man was out of line. Black women are the most educated group in the US. But we also have problems with obesity and single parents.

[@KarlaAnn-if9jm]

@@heyheyhey40 you are misinformed. I just looked it up because I knew you weren't accurate in saying black women are the most educated in the US. It's actually Asian college age people. Not black women. And yes, that's in the US. That's based on facts it's not my opinion.

[@jericothompson8636]

@@KarlaAnn-if9jm I’m so tired of the black community making emotional statements with NO research being conducted.

[@yakhalheart]

BW have the lowest marks of all races of women in just about every metric

[@markelraya10]

Also BW make the least out of every group, just because you’re educated doesn’t mean you make more😂

[@deboraha4908]

Those black men that date outside the race….good bye!!?

[@Baykid707]

Its cracks me up when people brag about being an adult. 😂

[@DirkCaswall]

The Bahamian Gyal is pretty

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@MBD-ec8wn]

Yeah, she's a cutie 😅

[@debrajames3865]

She is a natural beauty. That's how women should carry themselves. Wear less make up and fake nails.

[@CharlesRaines4946]

Seeing how some black women are behaving I can say that I agree with these men.

[@cheyennejackson512]

You dealing with the wrong ones. Where you from? Cuz i live in Atlanta and 99% of the time they are hella nice when i give other black women compliments

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

The DMV. It's brutal here...and sadly, I'm not the only one who has noticed this or talked about it.

[@user-vh8gs1sw1j]

The wrong ones are all over.

[@jericothompson8636]

So, because black women are nice to YOU, you assume they’re nice to black men as well,…. 😂😂 the delusion is real.

[@Keevus03]

Any man can date whomever they please! I don't care! My only issue is, when speaking on black women, these guys tend to want to lump all black women in the same category. All black women aren't the same as the black women THEY CHOSE to date.

[@XoXoG]

I don’t even date black men. 😂 this algorithm is funny

[@NaturalMackie]

Look I live in a very multicultural city. Try saying hi to the women of other hues and see if a lot of them don’t do the same. To say you can’t find one blk woman out of literally millions is silly at this point. It’s an excuse. When the women of other hues give them attitude and they do, they’re not bothered. Let’s let this rest. Not everyone is the same and with the way the world is now not everyone is comfortable talking to strangers. I’m married to a blk man, only dated blk men, most of my friends have done the same. We’re good. Finding a man has never been my problem and I had my pick in any colour if I wanted.

[@jericothompson8636]

Other races of women don’t call us bullet bags and knakers. Name the NON BLACK woman that makes content like Cynthia G

[@PrestonGarveyofthesettlements]

As a black man, I learned in my experience that not all sistas are not like this and some are approachable. Speaking to someone can tell you alot about the mindset of a person. I generally avoid people who makes simple points sound more complicated in an attempt to sound intelligent. This is why I've been with my Black Trini American woman for 8 years, engaged for 3,

[@MarcusBarrett-zi8od]

You proved her point by who you are engaged to.

[@PrestonGarveyofthesettlements]

@@MarcusBarrett-zi8od explain

[@MarcusBarrett-zi8od]

@@PrestonGarveyofthesettlements Your future wife was probably raised in her Caribbean culture just like me. Correct me if I’m wrong. Her values is some what different than FBA’s. Sure your fiancee could have adopted the “American culture “. The difference comes to play is if the Caribbean person is first generation American. You will see a difference with second to third generation Caribbean Americans.

[@liliwms508]

I was just talking with a friend the other day about this very subject. I love complimenting other women, but it’s usually met with the same sentiments that you expressed! I love to receive compliments from anyone, but it hits different coming from a woman. I’m in a great mood after and can’t understand the attitude that I receive when trying to do the same for someone else!!😕🤔🤷🏽‍♀️

[@vapidculture]

Watching the anti blackness unleash in the comments. 👀👀 It's clickbait and will get increased engagement. Get your money 🤑.

[@user-vh8gs1sw1j]

It's the truth though. People can't be accountable through.

[@Kaye321]

Why generalize black women, just say some black women. So crazy, all of my black girlfriends are doctors. Entrepreneurs, etc. I make a crap load of money in real estate, and guess what, I don't want the black men that have tons of kids and broke. There you go

[@mowmowchan2691]

As a non black woman I kindly decline black men. On my dating profile I don't read their bio nor their messages. I skip them and maybe block them so it doesn't affect the algorithm. If they don't want their own black women which btw most of them are absolutely gorgeous and smart then I'm not sure why other women from other races would wanna date them. If they treat black women bad then they'll treat non black women bad as well. It's a hard pass from me.

[@MarkieMcG.]

Nobody cares but them. Date who you want. Save BW the trauma.

[@ZDHTJ]

I know this is true though it’s becoming true with black women being done as well. What matters is how you act when you are obviously done and people can be petty asf..

[@DNile-500]

Dating outside of your race is fine, it is the reason as to "why?" 😊

[@mayalunics4740]

Kindness, Caring, Gentleness goes a long way for any race of women.

[@bigart9488]

So if a woman encounters this type of reaction, imagine how much worse it is for us men, for whom women would rather deal with the bears than deal with us.🤷🏾‍♂️

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

I feel sorry for men. I really do. Because I see how "stank" some women can be. BTW....I'd take my chances with a man over a bear any day.

[@michaelchristmas8760]

HERE COMES THE TRUTH 🙏💯

[@meeletuube9106]

I am tired of this conversation. It's just not true... there are positives and negatives in every group of people. If you want to date outside your race, that's your perrogative.. Just take the good and bad with it.. just like anything in life and don't cry wolf if it does not work out.

[@JenelleFraser]

So accurate. Spot on! 🎯

[@ruthgoldflam-un4cw]

I just have to say this because someone needs to hear this. The the feeling is mutual.

[@corymartin100]

I stopped giving black women a compliment a long time ago. It's always some weird response🤦I remember giving a Asian woman a compliment in the store and she literally started crying and said, OMG sir: u made my day. Clearly she was going through some stuff and needed to hear that. And I felt really good for doing that. But black women....

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

It's sad, isn't it. One of my girlfriends was just telling me how she complimented a black lady and the woman looked her up and down and didn't even say thank you. What is wrong with these people. They seem so unhappy.

[@sandiso7596]

Black Women are beautiful 😍 ❤

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

They absolutely are.

[@JosiahWoodward-cv8by]

Loves black 🖤 button 👇

[@gthomas3609]

40+ year old woman here, you are so beautiful. Makeup is professional.

[@FYRFOX198]

Why don’t they just bring love…the materialism means NOTHING. It’s the journey…

[@Happymind-happyworld.]

Until you have to pay bills. Man you all live in delusion

[@user-zd6vs5zb6u]

Bc she's auditioning for a Pookie to take of. 😂😂😂

[@thatcrazymick]

She was sounding good until the last sentence. Then she went down in flames LOL

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👨‍🚒🚒😁

[@skuastone9698]

I miss the black women of the 80's when Kim Fields and Janet Jackson were role models for young black women. Now you got celebrity Jezebels inspiring young nlack women 😅

[@kimclark1352]

BM complaining and criticize what they created

[@sneakydollar9870]

🤔...You're the table?? A table with nothing on it is nothing but furniture.🤣 Furniture just sit there gathering dust and at some point, it gets replaced with newer, better and more practical stuff...😎

[@bladecross5146]

Also gets banged an screwed by hammers an tools.

[@JOSHUABULLOCK-nu8xt]

Hello!

[@derrickb.alexander6472]

They want to be independent! Then, so it shall be! You bring you to the table and watch and see who will be there with you? You! All along! 😂

[@carlosacosta5930]

Right on 👍🏾

[@BOHAWGGRIND]

Church!

[@larrylacause1899]

I / understand / I saw this 20 yr ago / 😂 / / /

[@radedfaded3700]

They get it right for white men , we are wasting our time.

[@Michelle.1952]

They didn't want to be independent. They were forced to. BM make themselves obsolete. Life is hard enough without the dead weight attached.

[@ashleystevensarverjr9309]

I do hate giving compliments to very beautiful black women and they look at me like I just insulted them!

[@Corporate_Carolyn]

I must agree with you. I see this from corporate settings to the streets, so I do understand a lot of what Black men are saying. We almost need a town hall to discuss how we are portraying ourselves to each other and the world. 😔

[@tosyn-08]

Honestly it has come to that we need to go the local way

[@MarcusBarrett-zi8od]

Too late. It’s in bedded in black culture. Sometimes it’s best to let things run its course. Didn’t Sister Shahrazad Ali warn them over 30 yrs ago??? So what’s the outcome presently? It’s a wrap…it is what it is.

[@tosyn-08]

@@MarcusBarrett-zi8od If others can let go of despair and do what can be done they is hope for the future. It is Well

[@MarcusBarrett-zi8od]

@@tosyn-08 The OP is correct on seeing it in corporate setting and seeing it in the streets. So the plan is to inform black ppl especially black women on improving the black families image??? We can not even support our own local businesses, politicians, etc. They can’t even wear their own hair, stay in shape, not have a litter of kids by multiple men. It’s a lost cause. If our black dollar does not circulate more than a day. How we going to turn this around through this inflation? Highest evicted are BLACK WOMEN.

[@MarcusBarrett-zi8od]

@@tosyn-08 Other groups bank on us having this divide. Why??? It’s profitable for them. We are basically the only community that is not self sufficient. We are the biggest consumer and do not produce anything. We are already being replaced by those crossing the border illegally. How many homeless Asians that cross the border illegally? They have a community to go to.

[@Raymond-xy4jt]

Black women simply respond to strength in character. I've seen strong brothers that have it together and black women feeling inferior are scared to speak fearing he may reject them. The thing is this, if a woman has an attitude towards you first place to check for the problem is in the mirror. You're not as together as you think you are .... Some cats walk into a bar and girls jump up, run to the ladies room to doll themselves up in hopes he chooses them. Get yourself together, then grant a more honest opinion of the situation.

[@mlbw1966]

Ms Gyal you are a true blessing... Honest and educated, you say the truth!! I subscribed to your channel after hearing two posts . I chose my subscriptions gently and because I agree the channel's podcasts 💯 God Bless You Ms Gyal

[@dh1752]

He’s not wrong 💯

[@TheMandalorian2740]

I have been in the DC/MD area for 45 years, and let me just say this is accurate. It does not matter where you go, job settings, grocery store, Wal-Mart, gas station, restaurants, pharmacies, 7-11, subway station, malls, doctor offices, Libraries, fast food joints, gyms, schools, metro, the majority of these women have angry facial expressions, nasty attitudes, are not approachable, masculine, aggressive, combative, will insult you, get smart with you, try to shame, belittle, or disrespect you, just for giving them a compliment or respectable gesture, even the women in my family. It's 3 times worse nowadays, so im definitely done.

[@GTO_CAL]

I left bw alone a LONG time ago when they made it clear I was not wanted ...cool Finally found my wife in the PH 🇵🇭 My only regret was not doing it sooner

[@KingOmegaZyro]

I love all women and don't mind dating outside my race (I'm black). Ik not all black women are the same, but growing up, I mostly had black crushes. However, where I live, there are a lot of traits black women have that I do not like. Can those said traits be applied to other races? Sure, but from my experience, it's more prevalent in black women.

[@thisendthat]

I was done 10 years ago. Raked over the coals for it by friends & family too. Fast forward to today and every single one of my partners have someone who is a non-black female. I guess we were all too lame, corny and no game. Now I get home-cooked meals and peace. SYSBM.

[@TanikaNakeyaLewis]

Because They Already Communicate "No", and "Man-Hood's" Focus Is On "Yes". 😶. Respectively. Tanika Nakeya Lewis, 6127

[@bayokoebi9351]

As a Nigerian i must commend your true sincerity

[@anthonybarlow1767]

There is a definite trend toward men walking away from aggressive entitlement. The numbers back that up. Men are becoming less commital towards American women in general. And there's criticism of men going oversees for what they like to term traditional valued women. There is a lot of channels on YT devoted to the topic. Like a lot of things that get a little to empowered for its own good, perhaps there needs to be a hard look at it. And perhaps women need to dail it down a bit and men need to not give up on perhaps whats a good thing in the long term and be a less dismissive at the get go.🍸🙂

[@MarcusBarrett-zi8od]

What are the benefits for men to stay in the states? The benefits of going overseas outside of women are currency exchange rate, real estate, investment opportunities, quality food and healthcare, better family dynamic, networking, learning a new language and culture, tax benefits, and the list goes on. Remind me of the benefits of American Black women again???

[@chrisclermont456]

This has to do with American blacks. Many men date outside their race. Asian men date outside of their race almost 50% of the time much moreso than black American males. But you are pretty much on point unfortunately.

[@teddydavis2339]

Rogan, as usual, is the voice of reason. Why do educated black women always have to talk about how much they make? Is that what makes them more dateable? I'm tired of hearing about figures and degrees. What else do they have to offer?

[@MrAmbassador11]

Many people exalt their accomplishments to compensate for (or in) areas in themselves where they may be "lacking".

[@patrickgriffitt6551]

Not just black women. All races and both genders. It seems they feel it makes them feel superior although today's education 'system' is seriously deficient.

[@the4thhorseman840]

I've dated my share of black women with bad attitudes. In my experience, it may take women a long time to let their guard down because they've been hurt by a lot of men. When you finally gain their trust, you learn they are very loving and nutriening women. Unfortunately, I think that most men are turned off and just don't want to deal with drama that comes with these women. I can't blame them. It's not easy dealing with a woman who thinks you'll treat them like men in their past.

[@pitbull4christ]

Who you date outside your preference is not my business until you start bashing an individual or people of your own race, skin tone, ethnicity, and/or culture due to your ignorance, colorism and/or fetishes, then you make it my business!!

[@shadowdawnl6930]

Yes, mam! Preach girl! I've always been one in previous years to tell a random woman how beautiful she is, or how much I like her shoes etc etc.. Women used to say thank you, smiled, and responded in a positive way. When I myself receive compliments, I always say thank you so much and let them know how positively they've impacted my day. I've found nowadays that when im complementing a woman, they don't respond or they are rude, looking me up and down rolling their eyes, or a snotty ass 'yeah, thanks' like wtf?!?! Oh, hell no! Rude, little no respect having infuriating little entitled brats. Uh, uh. I'm done paying compliments to women who think they are better than everyone and everything. It's hard to figure out if the woman you're about to pay a compliment to is that kind of person, mind you. And a much as I tell myself not to do it anymore. To stop being so nice to those that don't deserve it, I'll probably continue to dole out those compliments because it's just in my nature. Also in my nature to tell a rude terrible woman where to go with that mess, but they balance each other out😂😂😂 luv your content my dear. Thank you so much for the time and effort you obviously put into your content. Hope your well girly pie ❤

[@firewine]

So, we need to be done dating Black men periodt. Why are we still having this convo???? Ugh! Do as they do and expand ur dating pool already! Damn! I am!

[@jasminefly1654]

Done 😂😂😂 they have not started yet! Brothers’ get it together so our sisters can follow! Sisters your defense mechanism is causing problems! Heal ❤ please

[@jericothompson8636]

That will NEVER WORK. Black women are adults that have free will. Asking men to change in HOPES that black women follow is a FOOLS MISSION.

[@crunchyyellowlion]

My thoughts as a white woman... who cares. If youre happy with who you date, why are you worried about what others think? Also BG (nickname because i cant spell 😩), youre beautiful, hilarious and i love your channel.

[@Jennyzcool8787]

I dont care who anyone dates, but unfortunately, there is a truth to this. Im biracial with black girlfriends, and they even say the same thing. Wtf is up? 36 years of dealing with many black women from every socioeconomic level that are mean af!

[@stop75403]

Looking from the outside in my opinion it's not black women pacifically it's afro American women it's not color it's culture that turns MEN off these women.

[@attcustomer1863]

I not going to lie black woman do have atitudes ,i think black women are treated terrible,i started dating outside my race as well

[@Lee-f5g6c]

I dont take compliments well at all. Women or men. Im shy, and im introvert. I feel like someone want something. I say thank you, but im very insecure.

[@GiGi52020]

I agree 100% with what you said. Also me being in who I am will compliment other women and receive the same response, face twisted up, or a dry thank you with an attitude or both. So I can see why black men are choosing to date elsewhere. That type of attitude aling with the masculine energy, focus on material items, and other things is too much to deal with. So I get it.

[@sheenamo]

WOW! No, he didn't!😮

[@nickmarkis]

Truth is these days most men probably want the woman to work 40 plus hours a week and they stay home take care of home car kids and budget. Im only talking about people who have a mortgage home up keep is a job in itself most woman cant or wont do it

[@selectone-mc5yz]

Another internet clown.

[@Ax1oM11oo]

Black men aren’t just trying to date outside their race. We just date people we have a lot in common with. And y just happens that they’re not black. I dated black ladies, I’m black myself. Somehow, it just doesn’t work. You put all your 110% into the relationship just to find out that she barely loved you l, will never marry you and has cheated on you. So, if something similar happens to you multiple times by different black women then you will try to date anyone outside your date. If you do 5 times and all 5 times were great but didn’t last due to some very minor things, will you s itch back to the relationship that gives you headaches and high blood pressure?

[@islandbeauty174]

Why when you're discussing black women's problematic issues you seem upset with an attitude but when you're discussing black men's problemtic issues which are far more disturbuing, your tone is much calmer?

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

I feel like i never was met with rudeness when i compliment black women but it might be how i look [maybe i dont look "black enough"] or just my area.😅 I wanna try to compliment more to see if I get any dirty looks or get ignored. 🤔 but so far, i havent.

[@ujayet]

What I don’t understand is,, they come on tik tok or KZbin spitting these things out.. what are they seeking?.. validation?, or men?.. women that do have those things they don’t need to come out and tell the world they have those things.. so what’s all This?

[@warrenhilliard1339]

This is way and that is So Crazy. But, what you get is what.

[@GarthRoseth-wg7pu]

Loiuse Hay Mirror Therapy! Simple as you talk to yourseld as you would to another and see for yourself how it makes you feel! It makes for a humbling experience!

[@mrgeno4682]

Don't forget std's, sad but true😢

[@LadyVineXIII]

Women in general don't know how to be complimented anymore. I know some guys come up with some creepy lines, but most guys are just dropping genuine admiration. Ain't nothing wrong with saying 'thank you', giving them a smile and moving on with your day. Most men are not out to get us ladies. We need to reward the ones who are doing it right.

[@TooMean4socmed]

When you drop that ring they gone change

[@Chillmindedpanther13]

Way better options abroad.