Are you REALLY STRAIGHT if you DATE a TRANSGENDER WOMAN/MAN?

[@kennethmaye]

It’s ok if you’re Heterosexual and don’t want to date Transgenders, neither do you owe a mf an explanation either🙅🏾‍♂️

[@Cortez0]

Damn right. So sad you had to even assert that.

[@Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv]

As a trans woman I completely agree with you. Everyone has the right to be with who they want…😊

[@masonasher9689]

Ok but don't be hateful about it or come off as hateful either.

[@TravelAlwaysOfficial]

Point blank period!

[@Prieze868]

Problem is they're born with a female brain and you may have already dated one without realizing

[@VuDuGrrrrl8075]

It's no different than having every right to choose NOT to date someone with an STD or someone who is terminally ill or someone with kids. It doesn't matter WHY you say no. It only matters that you said NO. Trans men and women can avoid all of the heartache they describe by dating each other. But wait! They PREFER not to, and their stated preference not only is to be respected, but everyone else is supposed to compromise our sexual preferences and atteactions to affirm them. That's not how any of this works.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Exactly! It only matters that you said no.

[@eileencalder2804]

But it is actually not just a preference like blond hair, height, build etc It is SEXUAL ORIENTATION and people who are Gay are same SEX attracted. Sex is biological reality, gender is simply an individual’s perception of this non tangible, subjective thing they call gender. Gay people especially Lesbians are lectured on the so called “cotton ceiling” and emotionally blackmailed into accepting bearded men into their spaces and their beds. No Lesbian, Not One has ever had a penis. Magdalen Berns….watch her videos.

[@VuDuGrrrrl8075]

@@eileencalder2804 I agree completely.

[@jayl878]

I am in my 50's and for my whole life, the LGB community has been saying that who they are attracted to is not a choice. They were just made that way the same as heterosexuals. Now, the T&Qs are saying that it is a choice and that if you don't want to have sex with them that you are transphobic. It's one or the other it is a choice or it is not. You can't have it both ways. Personally, I would not want to have sex with anyone with a penis or has ever had a penis. That's just how I am. From my understanding lesbians are being particularly targeted with this ruse. Since they are in the LGBT community, the T's are trying to pressure them into having sex with them.

[@deedame6624]

Right why do ppl need to comprise their sexaul preferences for them. There are plenty of ppl with in the lgbt community who will date trans women but they don’t want them

[@WackyChu]

Me and my best friend are sometimes scared to tell me trans friend we wouldn’t date trans people bc we don’t want to look bad or offend him. Even people in the LGBT community don’t want to date trans people. I’ll respect and support you but don’t hate me for not wanting to date a trans person. It shouldn’t be seen as wrong.

[@heyitsalannaluv]

Trans people don't even wanna date trans people..im.sorry you can't even be upfront with them, you shouldn't be scared or stating your truth, or beliefs..if they can't take that then that's not someone u need to be friends with imo..but I hope all is well with your friends and there's no drama

[@subliminallyme7456]

​@heyitsalannaluv That is true if they have such a problem with biological men not wanting to publicly date them why don't they try dating each other. Simply it's because they need biological, straight people to validate them with s3x period that's why it's hard to be friends with them.

[@bkstandard882]

​@@subliminallyme7456 It's true. They are definitely thirsty for validation from straight people

[@triggeryy]

Stop being cowards and tell them straight, if they’re a true mate they will respect your right to choose.

[@a.mp.m7340]

Love if you're afraid to tell your "friend" the absolute truth. Not YOUR truth but the real truth. Then y'all are not friends, y'all are acquaintances. You should be able to tell your friend the truth. If it's really important to you, if it's not chalk it up and keep it pushing. No harm, no foul.

[@michaelnealis1926]

It’s radical topics like this (as well as males in women’s spaces) that make people understandably lose support for the trans community. If the trans-community demands respect from everybody else, they should give that same level of respect back.

[@ramsesstafford4640]

Agreed 💯% .👍🏽

[@Garbeaux.]

Exactly. Except they refuse to. They not only say we will respect them but also use whatever pronouns they tell us! Even when people told them we don’t like the term cis or that women are not chest feeders but they continue to openly disrespect the majority is us.

[@Duchess-of-Camelot]

Well said.

[@David-bm5xy]

As a medical student , your wrong trans women are women and they’re so hot too

[@BlackThor-f5i]

I'm a heterosexual man. I want a heterosexual woman. And the host of the show was very beautiful. Looks like a woman I would definitely date her.

[@thewisdomdivatv]

I’m all for letting fully grown adults choose for themselves who they want to interact and partner with. And totally against telling another adult (who’s strictly attracted to other adults) that those preferences are problematic.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Absolutely agree!

[@timsmith8506]

At this point I don’t want to date anyone…….I just want to be left the hell alone.

[@ShaeNik]

😂😂

[@Pana-anna63]

I’m married, but if I was a single woman, I would NEVER! Go out with a man who previously dated a trans-woman.

[@giariu5269]

The problem will be men lie and some will insist that trans was a real woman. I confronted my friend for dating a trans woman and told him boy you’re gay bye.

[@YourUpstairsNeighbor]

Lesbian here: That's a pass I like women. Period. And idk when people stopped thinking genitals mattered...

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

#GenitalsMatter....I'll give you the credit for it in my presidential speech. Haha. But, I totally get it. I have relatives who are lesbians and they say the same thing. Thanks for watching and commenting.

[@rodb66]

I think that really know that it matters. That's where the shame come in. It's okay for them to identify as they please but when it comes to sex, genitals matter. Straight men and lesbians don't care for penises on their lovers.

[@eileencalder2804]

You should never have to explain or excuse that fact that as a Lesbian you do not want to deal with males regardless of their delusions, perversions or pretence that they are women, they are not. 💜 🤍 💚 My daughter is. Lesbian and a proud TERF xx xx xx Stay Strong

[@machellovelivelife658]

Back in the day: Christians to Lesbians/Gay Men: women should date/marry men, Men should date/marry women. Present: Trans Cult to Lesbians/Gay Men: females should be open to date/marry males, males should date/marry females. As a straight woman, I feel for lesbians. Cant catch a break.

[@Selliroi]

That's what super-straight was about lol.

[@YourUpstairsNeighbor]

To answer your question: No Edit: It's okay to be gay/bi! People are trying to twist the definition of being straight because they are afraid of being gay.

[@rodb66]

Exactly!

[@jmlorenzo3639]

Thank you

[@deedame6624]

Exactly, ppl can’t accept they are gay or bi so they say they are straight it’s impossible to be straight

[@Autumn938]

For me it’s a no, I wouldn’t date a transgender person bc no matter the surgery or hormones I’d still see them as their gender at birth, but other consenting adults can date as they please. It’s none of my business.

[@bipolarexpress830]

Great, and don’t try to label others.

[@ChrisCross2014]

@@bipolarexpress830 Transgender isn,t a label, it,s a defintion.

[@bipolarexpress830]

@@ChrisCross2014 It’s both. Try again 😚.

[@kiasams8715]

​@@bipolarexpress830you have to label or they'll try to blend in with natural folks. So you try again

[@bipolarexpress830]

@@kiasams8715 I said what I said, so YOU try again, Ms. Thing 😚.

[@Aureliosb]

For me personally, the answer is no. It's not that I have never looked at a trans person & thought they were attractive; the biological aspect & the thought of seeing genitalia that doesn't match is something that I can't get over & that's just how it is. Even with bottom surgery, I still can't get over it so I wouldn't even go there out of respect. Someone who dates a trans person, I don't consider them to be truly herterosexual. I look at them as being somewhere on the gay spectrum. Which I don't think they should be shamed. We all have our own attractions. As long as it's consentual & legal then it's none of my business. I also don't think it's transphobic if you wouldn't date a trans person. Plenty of people don't find me attractive & I don't get offended or consider them phobic towards me. Trying to guilt someone into wanting to get with you is very predator & creepy in my opinion.

[@sissysovereign1294]

This right here. Even with bottom surgery, it still won't 100% look like the real thing. Most of them don't even have sensations down there or a sex drive anymore once it's all sliced and diced so it's STILL a no

[@Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv]

As a trans woman I definitely see your point and I do agree. I feel like trans attracted men are Gynesexual. If you don’t know the term, please google it.😊

[@BSoCreative]

You're spot on and I agree that they are more on the gay spectrum in my opinion as well.

[@ejwennerstrom8299]

​@sissysovereign1294 that's not really true, I would suggest not spreading misinformation about something you don't know. However I agree it's not transphobic to not date a Trans person and no means no.

[@Cortez0]

@@BSoCreative They would be bisexual

[@GenXfrom75]

Biological women are having our right to privacy taken at every turn. Our right to fair sport. And heterosexual people are literally being *bullied* into dating people we're not attracted to.

[@subliminallyme7456]

Yeeesssss, that's why I went from being an ally to not supporting quietly, what ever happens to them happens to them.

[@subliminallyme7456]

Simply, I just don't want to be with someone who don't identify with the body they were born in. I don't care how insensitive that sounds. I just don't want to be with a trans person, I can't relate, won't relate. Also, their genitals look weird to me. No matter how advanced science is, they will never truly recreate a biological person's genitals PERIOD!

[@sianais]

Gay people are being bullied too, especially lesbians who are being gaslit into accepting male bits. I think it's all homophobia mixed with a severe overcorrection for the bs that was common in the past. They need their own words to describe that sexual attraction because trying to cover it as "straight", "gay", or "bi" is causing more friction. Pansexual doesn't account for guys only into women and transwomen only, and the other preferences based on pre/post-op status etc. The people pushing this really need to understand you can't pressure someone to be attracted to something they are not. The LGB is splitting off from the T+ because of this bs and other moronic stances by the current movement.

[@khadyadjisall5708]

@@subliminallyme7456if they are so comfortable with their “identity” why do they need allies? I have never supported this movement, and right now I highly dislike it, ever since young women are forced to change in a room with a grown biological male. Fair sport has just disappeared

[@idkGBT]

No one is being bullied…

[@christschild818]

I agree with your statements. I am a natural heterosexual I have a son in my marriage. I will never be ashamed of being a natural heterosexual, the way, God Almighty created me to be. He is a master creator. A creation cannot change the way they were made by their creator. In Genesis of the holy Bible after God made man, He said, “It is good.” 😊

[@CyberMachine]

No and it's so dangerous for women to let men continue to call themselves straight while doing this!

[@haleykubala5578]

Condoning the delusion is dangerous and it’s why men are raping women in prison right now

[@JessicaCJones]

Why is it dangerous for women?

[@squarcircle2254]

@@JessicaCJonesyou cannot be straight while dating a trans woman, especially if you only date trans women. It doesn’t make sense. Because, why not date a biological woman, why must it being someone born as a biological man? That’s not straight. It’s also another way for DL men to get away with engaging in non-straight sex/relationships, while trying to maintain the “benefits” of being a straight guy in society. It’s like the new “I’m NOT gay, I’m Bisexual”, that gay men who were afraid of rejection from the straight community used to gain acceptance in the LGBT community while also having a foot in the straight community. And what’s worse is that I’ve seen many of these men that chase trans women, be openly trans and homophobic in public. Also, a straight woman that still dates a man who says he dates trans women will open herself to heartbreak because he’s really not straight and she’ll always have to compete with his attraction to the LGBT community.

[@psychospartanchick7701]

@JessicaCJones because some of these men are Gamps (transwomen call them chasers)

[@ne9835]

​@@psychospartanchick7701 What are Gamps?

[@RhondaBryant-p3r]

I absolutely adore the realness and beauty of Blair

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

She is unapologetically real. I respect that so much.

[@inserter400]

Yes she is absolutely gorgeous 😍 I would definitely date her 🙂😉

[@shauntelhall6329]

My issue with people that say they’re straight but date trans is it gives the trans community this incorrect idea that “well other straight people have dated me so if you don’t then you’re just transphobic “ when in reality that person is Bi and not straight. I feel like on a certain level these bi people know they aren’t fully straight but just say they are because it’s more radical like “look at me look at how open and supportive I am” it’s a form of attention seeking.

[@ejwennerstrom8299]

I mean generally most Trans people in real life are not gonna call you transphobic for not wanting to date them. I don't agree with telling other people what they are though, I think it's unfair to label someone as not straight when they know themselves better than you do.

[@jazzminbechtel2366]

​​@@ejwennerstrom8299yet they are sleeping with someone who is the same biological sex. It is what it is. Same homo, opposite hetero, Two Bi.

[@MariaWitlof]

As a transman I wanna thank you for even taking the time to discuss this topic. It's craaazy and exhausting to see a lot of those trans activists demanding people to adjust their sexuality otherwise they're transphobic. Also, yes, my datingpool might have gotten smaller, but for sure there are people out there who are open for a trans person. and just how traditional transsexuals used to live life in private and go stealth (passing as if theyre from the opposite sex) so should then the sexuality just be the business of the couple and what body parts they have or how theyre going to reproduce. Anwyays thanks for being so respectful and kind. Im also subscribed to learn about racism, in a healthy way. Your content is really good ❤

[@MariaWitlof]

Oooh and Blaire White is amazing! And you're right about the sex based attraction ✨

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thank you so very much. I can't thank you enough for your kind words. Thanks for watching and for subbing!

[@tarathoughts13]

@@MariaWitlof wait can I ask you something? So if someone dates you, let’s say a guy asks you out on a date (gay guy - not assuming just hypothetical) would that guy still be gay? Or if a woman asked you out then would that woman still be straight? Even if you’ve had surgery and physically look like a man? I’m genuinely curious

[@AbsoluteApril]

Got no problem with people wanting to be with whoever they want (so long as it is legal and reciprocated); personally I think if someone will date trans then that would place them in the 'other' category or something other than just 'straight' and there's nothing wrong with that.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

I like what you said...so long as it is legal and reciprocated. Well said!! And I am with you...I think they would be in the 'other' category. That's just me.

[@aliciakerber3682]

It's a person' choice and there preference. It's no difference than liking a person because they are tall, muscular, blonde, with dreads, has broad shoulders, has hair or bald. It's your preference. One cannot be forced to be with someone they are NOT attracted to.

[@troutfisher7182]

Heterosexual people who are open to dating trans people might want to explore bisexuality because bi is what they are.

[@Selliroi]

Not bisexuality, pansexual is the word.

[@sugarzblossom8168]

Would they want to Date non-trans people of the same gender?

[@Akkatlah]

I don't know, man. Sexual attraction is largely visual. Big round buttocks, tiny weist, large breasts and generally femenine body type. You can be attracted to those things and it just happen a transwoman has them. It doesn't mean you're bisexual or homosexual.

[@sugarzblossom8168]

@@Akkatlah I agree if to you she is a woman and nobody questioned her gender or thought overwise that aren't family then how is that not straight? I have heard women say that men don't actually know that much about a vagina( I remember this especially being said by a women with 2. When she told men they freaked out but when she didn't say anything they were none the wiser).

[@cherrrycola3902]

​@@Akkatlahok makes sense. That is where pansexualism comes in

[@joyciejd9673]

I think people should be more willing to say “it’s none of your business”…..when someone tries to put them on the spot in these “on the street interviews”…..(PS, I love Blaire White). Really interesting video, thanks for it! (But, I am a lesbian and would not date a trans woman because I like biological women and because I could just not be vulnerable and open with someone who was a man at one time)

[@subliminallyme7456]

Straight up they're not. DUH!

[@ghju]

To your question: lesbian here and absolutely not. I am a homosexual female. The end. (And besides not being attracted, these people's narcissism, entitlement and ideological terrorism make my life as a woman and as a homo harder, which doesn't make me sympathetic to their dating struggles tbqh) Edit: and no, nobody attracted to a trans person is hetero or homo. That's a shade of bisexual that even most bi people don't align with.

[@lusciouslipslibra]

👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@jmlorenzo3639]

Bi here and when I'm dating women it's specific to their sex ... 🤷‍♀️ It's insane to me that I've been out right called transphobic because I won't agree to date trans folks. It's insane that as a bi woman I'm expected to be attracted to a trans womans p*nis smh ... WEIRDLY trans men aren't as pushy to force peopleto date them... (well not weirdly I guess) because idk they probably understand the misogyny in FORCING women to date trans people in the name of inclusivity.

[@Selliroi]

It's pansexuality.

[@ghju]

@@Selliroi I don't think so. For example, a guy who would be attracted to women and transwomen but not men and transmen is not pansexual ("pan" means everything, it's all encompassing).

[@Selliroi]

@@ghju well, i'm sure they have random labels who fit the definition of what i'm describing. Transexual would be a great label for them tho. We just have to change the definition the same way they did and done!

[@Selliroi]

This wouldn't be an issue if sexuality hadn't become a personnality trait. Those words aren't supposed to trendy inclusive labels. Heterosexual/straight means female x male sexual or romantic attraction.

[@ULTRACERTIFIED]

No!! If a Guy would press a Trans Woman, he's NOT 'Gay'... He'd be some kind of weird Bisexual Hybrid 😂 🤣 😅

[@Autumn938]

Maybe they’re pansexual

[@Ginza92]

I would say sexually fluid, but I agree he's not strictly gay since he visually sees trans women as a woman.

[@nancysewell6670]

Duke said, "It don't mean a thing if it ain't got that swing." That's sexual preference in a nutshell. You like what you like. I can appreciate women's beauty and have even experimented, but it's guys that attract me. I wouldn't have any problem being friends with a trans person and would treat them with love, but if the dating question arose, the first thing I'd wonder is how mentally and emotionally heathy they are. Knowing there's a biological female underneath all the surgical and hormonal changes would be a turn off to me. Gender dysphoria is real and I can sympathize, but I'm not going to encourage a romantic relationship with a person that has deep issues. Why would I? I've already been there, done that and have the scars to prove it! Relationships are hard enough without handicapping yourself from the start. I someone tries to guilt others into dating them, that just tells me they are unstable. No and no... .

[@MaceyPrice007]

I am Lesbian and part of LGBT community and if you are dating someone who is transgender not straight you are bisexual or gay.

[@deedame6624]

Thank you, what happened to common sense

[@marierex8490]

The minority trans group is overreaching in wanting to be front and centre of debate about their issues. I call them issues that those with the loudest voices have because they have a problem with expecting to be accepted by everybody. That expectation is totally unreasonable and moreso when they behave agitated, objectionable, bullying, and aggressive.

[@GenXfrom75]

I love this woman! ❤ Her vibe, her honesty, her intelligence. I'm so glad you're here, Rogan!

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thank you so much, dollface. 😊

[@Erinb8185]

Yay!!! Another video! I love your stuff. You are kind but honest. I am so here for it.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thank you so much for saying that, Erin. I mean that. I appreciate you watching and commenting. It really helps me. What did you think of the trans woman saying she wouldn't date a trans person?

[@psychospartanchick7701]

@@ThisBahamianGyal I am going to answers this because what I read and what I have seen in videos is that they perceive themselves as straight; if they date a transwoman then they perceive themselves lesibans . I have to say for me everything has to do with biology for them it is identity.

[@Deedee-tn5zi]

I’m a lesbian woman and I personally don’t see myself dating a transgender person. If I could I would think that it would just be a ftm because I’m a homosexual and they are the same sex as me. I would just have to try to look past their beards and deep voices if I tried hard enough lol 😂. But I honestly consider anyone who messes with trans people in a sexuality of their own, neither gay or straight. Have a good one y’all ❤

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You are hilarious. But, yes...like I said...I don't view them as gay either. I would view thrm in a category of their own. And I absolutely understand why you would be more into FTM...because the person is biologically female. Thanks for watching!

[@rodrickmcdowell6682]

I would not date a trans woman bc I go by biology and I don’t want to date a man. You’re also not straight if you’re attracted to trans people. However, that doesn’t mean you’re a bad person or that there’s any wrong with you. You like who you like. All good.

[@Selliroi]

It's annoying how we constantly have to reassure them about how valid and normal they are, as if they were insecure toddlers.

[@sugarzblossom8168]

That doesn't make sense how would you not he straight if ypu are attracted to a trans person? You can't help physical attraction. If you see someone with defined breast (which some women don't have btw) and looks like a woman in every way even down there would you not be straight if you are attracted to them? Why do you think telling men you are trans before you have sex was such a big debate? Also there are trans people who hide they are trans so unless you remember them in their childhood, are their parents or doctor you don't know they are trans.

[@rodrickmcdowell6682]

@@sugarzblossom8168 First, she doesn’t look like a woman “down there”. Trust me. The “down there” is in a slightly different location than a natural “down there”. It also looks different. So eventually you do find out no matter how good the trans person is at hiding it. Second, that whole soliloquy you just wrote to explain your stance…yeah that’s gay. Or at least it’s not straight. Straight people don’t need to come up with an explanation. Neither do gay people. Nobody does really if they’re living in the truth. But when you’re living in denial. When you need to write a paragraph explaining your attraction. You ain’t straight. Blair White is smokin’ hot. So is Samantha Lux. I wouldn’t date them or anything though bc they’re men. Or at least they were born men. That’s it. I don’t need to do some new math type calculation to allow myself to hook up with them. No mental gymnastics needed. And again, it’s fine if you are attracted to them. Just tell the truth. Own it as we used to say.

[@sugarzblossom8168]

@@rodrickmcdowell6682 well the people needing to come up with explanations are the people who tell others that they are straight. To others it is simple they are straight and like women trans and otherwise. Also not everyone sees others private parts while dating. The whole controversy was stupid I guess some people said that if you sleep with a man and not tell him you are trans then it counts as rape. The men must have already known.

[@Nigerian-born_American]

@@Selliroi Sorry they are not normal. What’s next? Is it “pedophobic” to not want your underage child dating an adult?

[@AmbrielTheChosen]

I truly appreciate your authenticity.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thank you so much for saying that.

[@Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv]

First off, let me start by saying that as a trans woman I appreciate you talking about this topic. I like that you were completely transparent and honest about not wanting to date trans men. You also made some really good points that I agree with. personally, I will definitely date a trans man if given the opportunity. I also believe that trans attracted men are more or less Gynesexual. Please google the term. Anyway, you’re incredible and you’ve got yourself a subscriber for life.😊💕

[@deedame6624]

Yes I’ve always said trans atttcted men are gynosexaul not straight alot of ppl don’t know what it means but it’s an appropriate fit

[@deedame6624]

@janda5816 lol good point

[@Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv]

@janda5816 I get your point, but Trans attracted men are still in that heterosexual space. They are attracted to feminine features and qualities.😊

[@giariu5269]

@@Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv I am sorry but they’re not heterosexual, you may be sweet, but you’re a biological man. No matter how many surgeries you had it’s plastic and you were not born a woman. Keep lying to yourself sir!

[@kashmerekeys2476]

You don't know how much I appreciate your channel!!! You discuss the Ugly stuff and I love it.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thank you soooooo much for saying that. A lot of people don't like to touch these topics, but they are so necessary.

[@seth4035]

I personally wouldn’t date a trans woman simply because I’m a gay man that’s atttacted to other gay men but I do think trans women deserve so much better dating-wise. No one wants to be a secret.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

I absolutely agree. No one wants to be a secret. That's not even cool. Thanks for watching.

[@Cortez0]

Would you date any trans men who you may find very attractive?

[@seth4035]

@@Cortez0 no

[@jazzminbechtel2366]

Then they shouldn't keep it a secret. No one would consider them a secret if they were very open about it. No man would consider someone a secret if they knew the person was open about their identity.

[@MiaFranzeB3stet]

I am hetero, and just am not attracted to trans men. Also, I would be freaked out if I found out a man I was with was messing with trans women on the down low! I would feel that meant he was kinda gay. Just me thinking that?

[@dontheador6649]

Everyone has the right to their own likes and dislikes. But, I think it's safe to say that if you're making love to a biological man (let's say "trans woman") then you are at least bisexual, if not outright gay. Which is fine! But miss me with all that "pressure". I love my women to be actual women. Thank you for another great video, ma'gyal!

[@christineride1301]

men who date trans women and hide that from the world are ashamed of themselves because they can't come to terms with the fact that they aren't straight.

[@MichaelYoder1961]

As a gay man, I know trans men and have seen some very attractive trans men, but when it comes to sex ---- there might be a "plumbing" issue.

[@michelle_in_multimedia2217]

19:36 Answer: No, I don't believe a person who identifies as straight can date a trans person and still identify as completely straight. And yes, Initial attraction can be influenced by external appearances, and it's true that many trans individuals present as the gender they've transitioned into. However, I believe that genitals, our lived experiences, beliefs and the way we think as men and women can still hold significance. 19:46 Answer: I think so. I am bi. I've only ever dated biological women and men but I am open to the idea of dating a trans person if the chance ever presents itself. I am only saying maybe because I've had a crush on a transman before but then again, anyone can have a crush.

[@isabelleboulay2651]

Genitals do matter because the intimacy is not only psychological and emotional. A trans person I know told me that most trans will end up with other trans because they understand each other better plus cis people, in his opinion, prefer cis as well as a major. Being curious about a relationship with a trans person is exactly that:curiosity. It does guarantee long term any more than any other relationship.

[@btand]

I would be curious to know if the hub started putting trans and gay stuff on the front page because it's more popular. Or if they started promoting it more first and thats why it's getting clicked on 75% more.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

I don't know. But, that's an interesting question. During my ahem "research" I found that on other sites, heterosexual content is the default content.

[@vivburnette7869]

Ms. Rogan, really appreciate your content. You actually engender thoughtful conversation around important topics instead of just sensationalizing messy mainstream isht. Since a phobia is extreme fear (unreasonable or not), transphobia has nothing to do with it when someone says that they are not interested in a trans person sexually or in other intimate settings. A trans woman is a trans woman. A trans man is a trans man. In being trans, they made a determination about who they are and how they show up in the world. That is fair and should be respected.. They can choose to be who they want and be with who they want who wants them in return. However, they do not get to dictate to anyone else who decides that they want to sit in their own authenticity and be with someone of the opposite or same biological sex who retains those associated attributes (physical and otherwise). If a heterosexual person has no interest in a designer V/D, they should not be bullied into choosing someone they would not under other circumstances. Respect goes both ways.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thank you so much for your support, for watching and always leaving such thoughtful comments! ❤️

[@AliciaTheTroonSlayer]

Here’s how you know it isn’t: they say gender and biological sex are different right? Yet they quickly disregard heterosexual and homosexual as biological terms in the next breath 🤷🏿‍♀️ And tbh I’ve yet to find anyone who actually cares to define someone else’s relationship so I’m not sure why the Mulvaney community 👰🏻‍♂️ keeps popping up with this new grievances lol. Crazy times.

[@charliehartman5626]

Personally, I'm bi so for me personality is a way way bigger indicator than attraction. Don't get me wrong, attraction is still a major factor. But if you have the body of Jason Momoa or Scarlett Johansson with the personality of snooki or Andrew Tate, that's a no-go for me. Otherwise, this was a really great video. I love how you talked about both sides of the argument honestly and fairly with a good mix of actual statistics and personal anecdotes. Your craft is really improving and I can't wait to see your next videos.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Charlie, thank you so very much for saying that! That means a lot. Yes..I agree...if you have a crappy personality ain't nothing happening for us. Personality, respect and kindness go a long way.

[@dragons_flight]

Agree. The person, their personality is what is most attractive. I'm way past wanting to date someone I don't like and feel comfortable with no matter how good looking.

[@rashadcash7742]

Roe, this was another home run topic/discussion, well done. I pray that people don't take everything you say out of context but take the time to listen and watch "the whole video" before they run with some false narrative. This is what life's about, having healthy honest dialouge and respecting one another views and differences. Keep up the great work!

[@Poeticfloetic]

*dialogue

[@BSoCreative]

It's the feeling as though you don't have to tell someone that you are not who they may think you are for me. You changed yourself to who you felt you were deep down, great! But, the other person involved may have wanted to be with someone who was one sex all along. If they are comfortable with who they are they'd accept the fact that they we're once men/women and be honest with a man/woman who they may encounter. Transparency is key and just may save a life or two.

[@netpasya]

Do you guys see all the confusion when something is not how it was meant to be? Sure I can make a square peg fit into a round hole if I trim the edges. But that's not how it was meant to fit. It was meant to fit seamlessly. Mother nature already figured it out over billions of years. I'll go with her.

[@nyshyn307]

The biggest reason I don't see myself dating a trans woman is because of my perspective about them. I don't think I'll ever come across any trans woman I'm attracted to that would also be okay with me saying "no, I don't see you as a woman." There are some that exist but it's certainly not common and I understand why

[@cuteanimalseverywhere7620]

Blaire White thinks exactly that! So lots of other trans hate her.

[@nyshyn307]

@cuteanimalseverywhere7620 the real-life treatment of those that share her views isn't much different, I'm sure Blaire knows that and uses it as a fuel. In my daily life, I've only met 1 trans person who agrees with her that trans women aren't women, the rest do consider such thoughts as innately hateful. I'm not against the idea of being friends with them but my perspectives generally make trans people uncomfortable and upset so it's never been the case and is unlikely to change

[@cuteanimalseverywhere7620]

@@nyshyn307 in what way are trans women actually women except in people’s imagination? In reality they are not, never will be and everyone knows it. If I see an identifiably trans person in a changing room, esp with my daughter there, I will tell them so and make it hard for them. And dating one is definitely not straight.

[@denisechristman8399]

I like your absolute honesty about a very difficult and controversial subject. I absolutely will continue to learn from you. Thank you

[@EternitysSlave]

I'm bisexual. Yes, I'd date a trans person. I don't care what genitalia they have or don't have. The physical form isn't a big deal to me as my interests are wide. However, I am not actively looking for a trans partner. If it happens, sure, but times are bad for trans people right now. It is too easy to be trans with low self-esteem and high insecurity issues. I'm attracted to confident partners with little to no baggage, but I think it is rare to find a trans person like that. Who can blame them? Just look at the world we live in. It is so much harder for trans people to just live their lives.

[@Alan112573]

FYI, the Bible does much more than merely "advise" against homosexuality.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

You're right. It forbids it.

[@Alan112573]

@@ThisBahamianGyal Thanks for responding. I've just recently started watching your content, and have enjoyed it! Keep it up

[@masonasher9689]

As a trans man, right now i feel so lucky that my cis boyfriend loves me for me and not for whats in between my legs or under my shirt... Edit: he went from straight to bisexual (he used to only date women but he is more attracted to men now)

[@Alltimehottie]

You both are walking confused individuals

[@NotSoEntertaining.]

@@Alltimehottie😂 let them live!

[@Alltimehottie]

@@NotSoEntertaining.didn’t say they couldn’t,they can live in Lo lo land if they want

[@MsJimmysgirl]

As a heterosexual woman, I have nothing at all against people who are homosexual, bisexual or transgender. Live and let live is the moto I live by but I would personally never choose to date a transgender person. It bothers me though, when people try to shame you by calling you transphobic if you immediately say NO. I personally don't care what other's choose to do but to claim they are still straight while dating a transgender man/woman is totally absurd. Even Blaire White said that a man would have to be on the Kinsey scale to date her. Lesbians are having to deal with issues because of men identifying as lesbians, going onto their dating apps. It is also a huge problem when transgender women/men aren't being completely honest about their biology and hiding it from the heterosexuals they are trying to date. That is predatory behavior in my opinion, because it takes away the person's ability to give informed consent to the relationship.

[@cynthiajones4332]

Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature. Romans 13:13,14

[@ladybistre9596]

I love how fair you are to both sides of the argument in your video. I dont feel it's my place to tell others how to live their lives nor vise versa. I wouldn't date a trangender but if others do that is their choice. Having said that, I think it's also about one's world view - which could be religious. I"m glad you brought that up because so many people ignore that. This may rub some the wrong way but I think its also about living in a world of reality vs. subjectivity. Fifteen, twenty years ago men were dressing up as women but they were called "cross dressers" and they wouldn't claim to say that they were actual women. What has changed? They knew they were men who had an interest in feminine things but knew they were men. I think when you lose your grasp on reality, then anything can be argued as "real" when in reality they are not. It's a slippery slope of the mind.

[@sol7476]

icl even though I'm bi I couldn't date a trans person. It's because the way the genitals don't match the overall body/gender is very unattractive to me. Like, I like boys because of their overall form and characteristics, I like girls because of their overall form and characteristics. Trans people will be having an unnatural mix of both and I personally don't like it 🤷‍♀️

[@rodb66]

Great point

[@Hecubah]

I just read about this article about how society shames men dating trans women because often people want to keep it secret because it can easily stigmatise either party. This pervasive ideology says that trans women are shameful and not worthy of being seen. So men would lose the social capital that he must date them secretly because of his standing since other men might not see him as a real man. Before I became trans, while I was thinking of dating trans people, I could kind of relate to the fact that society puts so much pressure on you no matter what you look like, your sexuality, or anything else. If you are a little bit overweight, well, there is stigma for that; if you are lesbian or gay, well, that is stigma and a problem for someone. If you trans well, that is also a problem and an issue for someone else. You can have social pressure on all of the subjects. Since I hate the word CIS myself as much as I hate the word trans, if you are a biological man, dating women is cruel, as you would be trying to date trans women. People are so picky that if you do not match a certain type, height, weight, or position, there was this research video that showed that to be an average guy on Tinder, you end up being the guy that most people on those apps would say no to. Since dating has revolutionised online dating apps and sites, it's really rough for everyone out there. If you think trans people are not dating people who would accept them as they are, it doesn't really make any difference from dating biological men or women because they kind of don´t date people who would accept their flaws and weaknesses in the first place. As a trans myself, I wouldn´t date anyone who didn't accept me for who I am or what I am, which I did also before I became trans, but I wouldn't force them into saying, "Hey, you need to affirm my gender," because, for reason X Y Z, if you don't do that, then act like pieace of shit throwing tantrums over it. I wouldn´t have any problem with people saying no to me because I am trans as much as I would have a problem with yes, who literally accepts me in every way I am as long as he/she/them (+ the over 300 pronunciations, which I didn't mean, so people won't get buthurt that I left someone out) are happy with it. Like in life, when you just get rejected, there is only one correct way to handle it: accept it, move on, don't be a bitch about it, and life goes on.

[@troutfisher7182]

A big reason i wouldn't date a trans person is, the whole mentality of chosing to medicalize and alter a perfectly healthy body for life, and perhaps going so far as chopping off body parts for purely cosmetic reasons is something I cannot relate too at all. Our bodies are innocent. Our bodies deserve our respect and kindness. The body is alive and sentient, and responds to all our feelings and thoughts about it. The body feels sadness, and fear, when we hate on it. It responds with happy alive energy when we think well of it. I also would never date someone who believes in cropping a dogs ears and tail, or believes whipping a horse will fix a behavior. The body is innocent. People should be able to be who they are, dress how they like, do things they're attracted to and feel good about their natural body.

[@jazzminbechtel2366]

❤

[@cookingwithhistory6694]

Thank you for talking about everything.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

You are so welcome! Thanks for watching and being so open to the conversation!

[@rutilante08]

"they want a lil razzle dazzle" 😂

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The good ol' razzle dazzle. Haha.

[@dennispounds605]

Thats not fair..I feel like I am being shamed for being straight...

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@seank1033]

1) If you claim you're straight and you date a trans person, you go into the bi category - you are not straight. 2) I'm a gay man and I could see myself dating *certain* MTF's (no implants, duck lips, etc...). Why? Because they are still a biological male, and I tend to like fem gay guys anyways. I could not see myself dating an FTM, because even though they present as a male, I'm not into women or women's parts.....nor am I into scars......Period. And I find it funny that, as a gay man, I can be into MTF but not FTM, and no straight women are calling me any kind of "phobic." BUT, the second a straight man doesn't want to be with an MTF, they are labeled every hateful name in the book. This is what I cant STAND about my community. Too many of us DEMAND that the world cater to our small minority's emotions and desires, and I'm sorry, that's just not the way the world works. GROW UP and GROW A PAIR......But of course, this conflict between sexualities and genders is all by design. Those who are awake know what's up.

[@Scott_King101]

Couldn’t help but think of Eddie Murphy in the 90’s right before his Doolittle and Krumps era.

[@daustin439]

No. A person that prefers to have sexual contact with the opposite sex is straight, I’ve met a few “straight men’ that have done this. My problem is when the trans person cannot even take a kind rejection. I’ve never understood seeing someone trying embarrass or ridicule someone because the other person doesn’t want them. I think that’s an extremely toxic response. Women are women, men are men, and trans is trans. Unless you know for a fact that the person you are interested in is straight/gay/trans - you shouldn’t hit on them and certainly shouldn’t become nasty with them if they don’t play your game. That’s very childish behavior and a sign of something wrong on a much deeper level.

[@ElinThen]

Very respectful point of view

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thank you so much for watching and for saying that! Much love.

[@almightytowerdiveking4636]

I would NEVER date a transgender person and idgaf who doesn't like it 💯💯 same way a lesbian (and most straight women) would NEVER date me and I totally respect that 😂😂

[@Shumetra]

Love your content! A new subscriber by the way.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Welcome aboard! Thank ya, kindly!

[@jazzminbechtel2366]

"a bookcase." LMBO 😂 So funny! I love honesty 💙🩷 Honesty is beautiful!

[@phantomopera5525]

Dear Rogan: let's be real ;-) the Bible does not "advise" against homosexuality. It outright forbids it on penalty of hell.

[@theteleisewilliamsexperience]

Its a NO!!!!! 4 ME

[@ditta7865]

This has some history to it. Of why masculinity is questioned and it has to do with the LGBT community and what views were in the past of the community vs views now. Back in the 80's it wasn't ok to be openly gay even though some gay men were out. A lot still had so much to lose. So they would play it as a bisexual or they would play it straight this has left a big mark on the community now, but they are never going to admit that they did actually cause because they are still running around with the hurt that they have now. So when aids came about they couldn't hide it anymore. People were dying bisexual men and gay men and here is where the big hole with a question mark came to the questioning masculinity. Straight people were confused because now the lines were very blurred and there were quite a lot of gay men who were still very determined to hide behind the label of bisexualy. Either because of family, religious beliefs or that they would lose everything. Bisexual men were forced into the category of you must be gay. And both sides were always playing the hurry up and pick a side you can't be both you have to be one. Then straight male society said no to it all. Quite a lot of lesbians and gays still play this game of oh I'm just bisexual and as soon as they decide to come out they completely shit on the bisexual. And this also puts stress on trans women who want a male because if you date a trans person you're blurring the lines again. There is a saying that I heard from a gay man. Gays put up with Lesbians, lesbians are suspicious of gays and both of them hate bisexuals equally. There was also the statistics that gay men and straight men are both and this is from sex clinics both very against wearing condoms and very likely to spread disease and gays and lesbians with very happy to take this statistic as much as straight people were and put it straight on the bisexual community. Now bisexual women get away with it because on the sexual list women are a lot cleaner because they have a lot to lose if they are not. History backs this up with disease and unwanted pregnancy in women and the fact that bisexual women and lesbians are fetishized by straight men so they can get away from some of the hate but not with gays or lesbians. Now time to get into the category of trans women wanting to date women. This has a lot to do with the crazies running around in the trans community who are not trans and men who have fetishes and are hiding under the label. Women have now gotten to the point where they would now never think of dating a trans person because of the ideology and the crazy and the fact that a lot of these people are pushing into women's spaces not passing. In the beginning a lot of women were fine with trans women in the beginning. But you know the old saying you give an inch and they take a mile well the wrong people have taken the mile and now the women feel that their toes have been stepped on and they're pulling back and as the other old saying goes Hell Hath no fury like a woman scorned. So now everything has become complicated because of some crazy people. Personally I use to think yes I would date a trans woman, but once the crazy came in manding stuff and that men with beards saying that I had to date them when I was looking more for a passing trans woman not a guy looking like a guy in a dress. The other reason has to do with health conditions if you really look into the studies trans people's because of the drugs and because of the way they want to pass start to get health conditions which then lead into sickness and early mental conditions and health conditions that usually wouldn't affect a majority of the population until they are older. I have a disabled family member so I don't want to be a carer again.

[@corruptmindpalace]

people forget that you can be bisexual (or pan if you wanna be pc) and that’s okay if you date a trans person. you are definitely not straight if you date someone of the same sex, but it’s fine if someone wants to say they are just to not get too into private matters with strangers or acquaintances. and as a gay person, no i wouldn’t date a trans person for obvious reasons.

[@tatsf]

I'm an older gay man, Kinsey 6 so not bi or pan. I've been around LGBTQ+ communities in NYC and SF,CA all of my adult life since 15 yrs old. From my anecdotal experience men who are into trans women tend to fall into 3 categories, and none of those categories are "gay" - 1) men who are into women and for whatever reason aren't that concerned with the fact that the occasional woman they encounter happens to be trans 2) men who are primarily or exclusively into trans women (but not at all into people who present male) and 3) men who don't identify as bi or gay but don't care who the mouth/hole belongs to as long as they get off. Sorry to be crude but this is how many men think. As much as gay men can see that many trans women are beautiful and smart (such as many of the women in the clips you showed) most of us aren't at all sexually attracted to trans women since they present as women. From the folks I've known, again anecdotal, cis women tend to sometimes (certainly not all) be a bit more flexible/fluid and some would date/hook up with a trans man, or if they're bi or lesbian, a trans woman. It also needs to be acknowledged that the term trans is a broad umbrella and there are many different circumstances under that umbrella, including folks who have had "bottom surgery". Many trans women have vaginas and some trans men have penises and balls. For some partners this may change whether or not they would date someone.

[@Cortez0]

So called straight women would hook up with a trans man?? Are women ever even straight????

[@Wenzy_Royal]

I was actually scared to click this video at first but I'm pleasantly surprised at how well rounded the conversation is. The attention to nuance is highly appreciated, to be honest I don't care whether a man identifies as gay, bi or straight, the only requirements I have of men is masculinity energy, and I've met very masculine bisexual men.

[@somerandomsmarta556]

As a bisexual, and as someone who recently started dating a trans man, it is my humble opinion that anyone who dates/is attracted to a transgender individual is neither gay nor straight, but is at some level bisexual. It just makes the most sense Although oddly enough I have yet to find a transgender woman whom I’m attracted to, 😅

[@cherrrycola3902]

As a bi, i agree 100%, including that last part😂 these people just cant accept the bisexual truth...

[@erintheresa2430]

It's the same as someone identifying as "Pan". Everyone has a biological sex, so they are bi but don't want to admit it due to all the backlash within the LGBTQ+ community against cis people who identify with the first 3 letter

[@soreiche]

An important point is that the entire sexual drive is aimed at reproduction.

[@Moicesy]

I feel like a lot of people want to talk about transgenders but they do not even know what a trans is. Even the most typical normal woman you can find (with vagina) can be a transgender. And you’d never know unless they told you that. Now when it comes to trans like Caitlyn Jenner, Laverne Cox who are still very masculine even after surgery, that’s a whole different story, and I feel like people think they are the only transgenders exist. I am not a trans expert But I’ve seen very feminine trans with penises, without penises, and also masculine trans with and without penises. I think it’s unfair to not tell a heterosexual person about being trans, however not all trans are detectable in this modern society. Edit: btw by detectable, I meant noticeable (cause I know people take everything offensive nowadays

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

I'm with you that it's not always easy to detect a transgender person. Thanks for watching!

[@tiffanykim2773]

Bold of you to assume that because you forget that people like Blaire White exist. She's very passable.

[@CyberMachine]

If the woman has a vagina then she's not trans. Are you sure that you even know anything about trans?

[@geraldbrooks8507]

@@tiffanykim2773I like Blaire but she only passes from the waist up. You can find full body pics of Blaire in a bikini, she has a masculine frame. Besides the breast Blaire has the proportions of a teen boy.

[@Selliroi]

Must be a virgin or blind to confuse a woman for a man who got surgery.

[@corackadile]

I don't know if it is either straight or gay. It might be its own category of sexuality. I base this in the fact that sexuality isn't just specifically about physical appearance OR genitals... it is a combination of both things. For instance, I think Blaire White is a great example of a passing trans woman but is Blaire someone I would date because of genital preferences? No, because of the female physical appearance. But the inverse is true as well, I would never date a trans man because even though they would have a male physical appearance, they do not have the "parts" that I prefer as a heterosexual woman.

[@Cortez0]

Nope, it’s definitely gay because there are only two genders- male and female. You can’t change your gender. Doesn’t matter how convincing or deceptive their “transition” is.

[@CocoCoke8]

I totally agree with you on everything you said.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thank you, and thank you so much for watching, Coco.

[@謎思特異]

Trans woman date Trans man, there, problem solved.

[@jazzminbechtel2366]

The truth is trans women are just gay men, so they can feel that trans men are really women. Same with trans women they are gay women who like women. So trans women would be a turn off because they like biological women and there is a difference.

[@jmlorenzo3639]

Im bi. When im dating a women i want a biological woman ....same with men. Im sorry but theres a thing call preference.

[@kim_da_costa]

Thanks for a great channel. I just found you a couple of days ago. Very interesting subjects. And on this subject: I'm a gay man and I would not date a trans man. Because... I like biological men. *dah*

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Haha...thanks for visiting. Glad you found me. Some of my gay friends said the same thing you did. That they would only date biological men. One said he would date a trans man.

[@TURBOMIKEIFY]

Edit: I subscribe to Straight vs SuperStraight, if anyone remembers that meme from a few years ago. Since we’re adding sexual attractions. This transgender thing really messed me up. I had intercourse with one, but I was blackout drunk. The only thing that told me was that I woke up naked next to her. I don’t hate trans people for what she did (I got too drunk too fast off of two glasses of wine, so I’m suspicious), but I am vigilant when around them.

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thanks for sharing your story. I really appreciate the honesty!

[@squarcircle2254]

So do you still consider yourself straight?

[@jmlorenzo3639]

I'm very sorry this happened to you. You cannot c0nsent if you're blacked out. I know how this feels. I hope you're doing okay 💛

[@IDKLOLIMJUSTHERE]

Just imagine if I (as a gay man) ask out a straight guy, he says nah he’s not into men and I’m like omg!!! You’re so homophobic.. simply because he doesn’t like men.. where’s the logic loll

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

I agree! Or if a woman asks you out and you say you're gay and she goes nuts and calls you heterophobic. lol. I swear...these folks are nuts. You reserve the right to be attracted to whomever you want. Thanks 4 watching!

[@bellejour559]

It’s a hard *NO* for me…

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thanks for replying! Thanks for watching.

[@dewilew2137]

8:30 I can’t stand this dude. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@arigoodfriend1762]

If someone on an app told me they were trans I would never respond with "gotta go" I find that to be a weenie move. I personally would respectfully tell them that due to genital differences I'm not interested in trans men but that I wish them well. I think that's more respectful because at least you're being honest and not leaving them to think something worse.

[@jhalakmalhotra2029]

Definitely, personally, I am not open to date post-op transwomen definitely a post-op trans man.

[@Starlightskipper]

Love your content..🔥💯

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thank you so much. I truly appreciate that. Thanks for watching!

[@psychospartanchick7701]

Your first question no they are not they are bi or what is referred to as gyandromorphophilic (Gamp). Second question no I am hetrosexual and attracted to males physically and biologically.

[@Pete-ba253]

Thank you TBG . Lovein your work , yep I’m with you friend , myself and Sally-Ann are both getting on a bit so we are prob not going to get involved in the trans stuff . Mum , Dad , granny and grandad , that’s my life here in England . Looking forward to having a cold Kalik at Nirvana Bar on Love Beech next week 🇧🇸🇺🇸🇬🇧👍🏻

[@FIatts]

If you’re a real man and you date a fake women you’re just gay. That’s two dudes dating with one convinced that he’s a girl

[@soldierofgod1106]

Can we talk about the braids though ?! They are so beautiful and neat! 😍🥰

[@rachaelhalliday1193]

I had this discussion in a fb thread talking about this exact subject. Because a youtuber had to confess to her boyfriend & audience that she was trans. And I said it might be a good idea to do like a trans, gays etc dating site, you know like a dating uniform site. And I got accused of being transphobic & putting trans in a box. And I said that's the opposite of what I'm suggesting, I was suggesting a website anybody could join & find relationships or hook up. Instead of going through the terrifying ordeal of trying to date people and either lying (which is wrong) or setting themselves up for constant rejection from straight people. I wish had stuck to my guns but it was a while ago. I was younger, I was getting all kinds of nasty comments my way. So I apologized for any offense & deleted the comment. It kind of annoyed me because they literally asked the question what could be a better way & they just cried transphobia over anyones answers.

[@Nyawilliams666]

As a Ts i feel much like all of the transwomen in the video… it is a hard pill to swallow that our dating pool is so small. It’s okay if someone does not want to date me and it is NOT Transphobic. I will never date anyone that was born with a vagina. That is my preference. I’m sexually attracted to men. If said men don’t want me I’ll move as they are not worth my time. I’ll die alone before I am ever someone’s dirty little secret again! It takes a long time to get into that headspace but my life is significantly better now that I am! For those of you who commented we should just date each other, while it sounds practical but the reality is 1 part of the trans community does not have the necessary tools to satisfy the other. It has ZERO to do with needing validation! Get over yourselves!

[@Nellufy]

Can you be straight and date a trangender person or be attracted to a transgender person? No. These people belong in the other category. Human sexuality is a strange thing. It makes me wonder if these people count themselves as bisexuals which I think not. These people are attracted to the physical aspects that resemble the opposite sex. So are they straight? Not entirely. Are they bisexual? Perhaps not. They land somewhere either in the middle or just have their own category. Would I date a transgender person? No. I won't hesitate to say that that transman is attractive, but I don't imagine myself dating that man. I am attracted to biological men. At the end of the day, we all don't want to be mistreated or be considered a secret. Everyone should be free on whoever they want to date. It's none of my business nor anyone else's. Love is Love.

[@CalThePaladin3733]

There's perhaps a term to say "attracted to femininity/masculinity regardless of sex". It doesn't have to be all kind of feminine men or masculine women, but it might give a little clue. I personally do not believe I am open to date a transgender woman even though I can be attracted to them. I'm attracted to them because of the way some of them look. My brain is into women and since we're kids we learn how to distinguish a woman from a man. A transgender person works hard to hide and alter their secondary sexual characteristics, but at the end of the day, it's just a cover.

[@heinzsight]

looool "I'm a trans and I would date men" LMAO

[@CaribbeanNatureSounds]

Another great one Rogan . Personally , I don't care what consenting adults do privately . To each their own .

[@ThisBahamianGyal]

Thank you so much! Yes, agreed. Consenting adults are free to do as they please.

[@JessicaCJones]

"Privately"? Care to elaborate?