🖤 Black Woman Called Out For Saying This to 🤍 White Women

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Destiny Uteh

Destiny Uteh

Күн бұрын

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@queennanny4792
@queennanny4792 Жыл бұрын
When i see them get loud in support of black women wearing our natural hairstyles, I'll take them seriously. When i see them speak up in support of black women being discriminated against, i can believe they care about something BESIDES stealing. It's all about them, once again they don't get the point.
@miram2053
@miram2053 Жыл бұрын
THIS!
@Kevin.e.Turner
@Kevin.e.Turner Жыл бұрын
You seem to take their opinions seriously when they are pandering to you all when it comes to the so called passport bros. So keep that same energy now. The fake sisterhoods of failures are at it again.
@babytt8487
@babytt8487 Жыл бұрын
@@Kevin.e.Turner go away f'in clone! Get out of bw's business. Government sponsored troll.
@lmgeranaeava9749
@lmgeranaeava9749 Жыл бұрын
Honestly, at this point, I don't care if whites get it or not. It is what it is...
@kaseyb.4440
@kaseyb.4440 Жыл бұрын
It’s crazy that to this day people seem to forget that black women were and are forced to assimilate in order to work! Jobs still have the ability to discriminate on the basis of hair texture. For the guy talking about Beyoncé, blonde hair is not a culture, and for Michael he had vitiligo. It kills me how many people want to discredit black women and black culture for the sake of a trend 🤦🏾‍♀️
@lmgeranaeava9749
@lmgeranaeava9749 Жыл бұрын
It's allllll under the umbrella of racism. lol And racism is strongest against ethnic peoples that can be profited FROM the most ie--> Blacks, Native Americans, etc
@les1den2
@les1den2 Жыл бұрын
This is so upsetting! The gaslighting is real… nobody else’s “culture” has been demonized like ours especially when it comes to us participating in said culture and at the same time nobody else’s culture has been wildly appropriated like ours either!!!! And that one biracial chick gets on my last nerves she’s not black and she shouldn’t be speaking for us period! Until white folks are forced to cut their hair or take it down because someone deemed ur hair unkept they shouldn’t be allowed to wear our styles! Until the crown act affects them then they need to take several seats🤨🤡
@veronicagates6779
@veronicagates6779 Жыл бұрын
Demonized and stolen our culture.... we can't get a foot in the beauty industry... or more specific the hair industry yet we are its largest consumers.... smh
@Shante-330
@Shante-330 Жыл бұрын
We aren’t wearing Bulgarian braids and white people aren’t checking for them either.
@veronicagates6779
@veronicagates6779 Жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂that part..
@Jjay257
@Jjay257 Жыл бұрын
And at that, if the first humans were black and it took CENTURIES before whites, Asians and others appeared, then anything that has been cultural for us to this day, literally since the beginning of time, has been appropriated…
@moremelessyou6525
@moremelessyou6525 Жыл бұрын
Actually.... This is the point.... We were CRITICIZED and DEMONIZED for the same thing, by the SAME PPL who are appropriating and monetizing the culture they degraded. It's DISGUSTING! They mock and disrespect the very ppl they try to imitate. Our hairstyles and culture is a development of strength out of pain. It was our way of preserving our roots and remaining defiant against a society that tried to erase our history and humanity from us. It's more than just a style. And these ppl don't respect that, nor do they care. It's just another form of blackface to them.🙄
@canningscharles6392
@canningscharles6392 Жыл бұрын
I think this is mostly in America as the Aruba girl states no 1 cares in the Caribbean we live as 1 no matter the color
@Blkjuice
@Blkjuice Жыл бұрын
The lady who said "as a REAL African" and then went on to tell ww to wear it, really woke me up to understand that bp in America is alone in this war. I'm fed up at this point. "I have a dream" in MLK voice, that everyone would leave us tf alone for once in their life.
@sho1470
@sho1470 Жыл бұрын
I'm tired of black folks almost acting like people pleasers for these white people 🤦‍♂️that part pissed me off
@sho1470
@sho1470 Жыл бұрын
And no bp in America aren't alone there are many non American bp who agree
@marlak4203
@marlak4203 Жыл бұрын
well it would make sense if folks are going to reference them a lot. As others said in the video its America complaining again.
@charleeshaw7423
@charleeshaw7423 Жыл бұрын
@@marlak4203 and it’s a good thing people have choices .. so I suggest you choose not to listen
@marlak4203
@marlak4203 Жыл бұрын
@@charleeshaw7423 absolutely. no listening,
@LethalLemonLime
@LethalLemonLime Жыл бұрын
This old lady really thought she did something. She literally explained WHYYYYYYY and she was like I hear you and proceeded to show how she really didn't hear her at all.
@valeriehouston50
@valeriehouston50 Жыл бұрын
I'm sick of these stories. My son's friend has grown his hair for I don't know how many years and got a job in security and asked from Employer to cut his hair. When I saw him with his hair cut it broke me. He could of just left that job but he did their will. His hair could be pulled back and no problem. It seemed like Authority to demand he cut it reason it looked messy. This bothered me alot. He's still handsome and still working but I just still feel a way. TY to All who reads my comment just wanted to vent. Be Well.🙏💜
@DestinyUteh
@DestinyUteh Жыл бұрын
🥺🥺 that's so heartbreaking
@iy4563
@iy4563 Жыл бұрын
In all the jobs I've worked I've seen white men with they long natural hair with no problem. Nothing is said when he walk into the job all scraggly looking hair look like veggy oil in it smelling like my dog 🐕 coming in out the rain. The make black people cut they hair because they know it's your GLORY FROM THE MOST HIGH.
@cherryrue89
@cherryrue89 Жыл бұрын
I don’t like when people from other countries give their 2 cent cause they don’t know our history and need to mind their business.
@ZDHTJ
@ZDHTJ Жыл бұрын
The main problem I have is bw getting punished for wearing our hair the way we have been doing since forever. It drive me crazy when I see news articles about a black girl being sent home for braids or having to cut their hair to come back to school. Smh
@auntiedollbaby
@auntiedollbaby Жыл бұрын
Black Women in 2022 had to sponsor the Crown Act, because Black women experienced discrimination in the work place for our hair. They just don’t get it
@mosellafelder2171
@mosellafelder2171 Жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Our experience with braids and other black hair styles are totally different in America then in other countries! The Crown Act is real!!!!!!!
@puclopuclik4108
@puclopuclik4108 Жыл бұрын
Campaigning again discrimination in workplace and school is the right way. Bullying people just because they like originally African hair style is putting you in the same row with all those racist who don't see your natural features as professional look.
@NaturallyKoilyKuteness78
@NaturallyKoilyKuteness78 Жыл бұрын
This is the comment.
@NaturallyKoilyKuteness78
@NaturallyKoilyKuteness78 Жыл бұрын
@@mosellafelder2171 Very much so real and non-Black people will never understand nor have our experiences.
@rogerpace3749
@rogerpace3749 Жыл бұрын
we as black people have to gate keep our culture, hair, music, fashion, slang and food but this sister has the right to question appropriating our culture period, when other people ware our braids it's a disrespect to our black culture period.
@sweetonyxakararegem692
@sweetonyxakararegem692 Жыл бұрын
Especially when we are not allowed to wear our hairstyles ourselves and they CAN!
@finding-my-trueself704
@finding-my-trueself704 Жыл бұрын
Yesss ❤❤❤❤
@q.t.gamingfamily
@q.t.gamingfamily Жыл бұрын
@@sweetonyxakararegem692 that's my ONLY problem. We're all Americans yet is black Americans who are abused wearing braids where wp get praised. 🤔
@vanellesmith4598
@vanellesmith4598 Жыл бұрын
I agree ten fold.
@s.s.6329
@s.s.6329 Жыл бұрын
And to an extent it's ok to hate keep our culture, because us and the culture have been abused and stolen, but of peoples own free will, we can't tell them what to do, and other people and their personal lives are not my concern
@sierradougie8559
@sierradougie8559 Жыл бұрын
At this point people are being WILLFULLY ignorant on the topic. Being bullied, ostracized and discriminated against because of our hair texture and cultural hair styles, while said group of discriminatory people praise these textures and styles on people not from the culture, IS NOT THE SAME as black women wearing eyelashes, acrylics, hair extensions, etc. Yt ppl hate to be wrong and it's been showing for centuries.
@INDIGO.GODDESS_573
@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY.. They will never change.
@q.t.gamingfamily
@q.t.gamingfamily Жыл бұрын
What's worse, because we won't shut up and peacefully accept their mistreatment and abuse, WE'RE creating the divide. This is why I don't immerse myself into this oppressive US American culture.
@ca7889
@ca7889 Жыл бұрын
It's obvious who actually hate to be wrong-those that have the inability to have their so-called knowledge challenged and those that defend such-just to receive some form of validation, if you post it on a public site the public will respond.
@erinwilliams57
@erinwilliams57 Жыл бұрын
Real Talk🎯
@ariannahawkins5945
@ariannahawkins5945 Жыл бұрын
TALK YO ISH SUSSS!!!
@kay.2144
@kay.2144 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Folks stay being obtuse about topics like these. It never ceases to amaze me.
@charleeshaw7423
@charleeshaw7423 Жыл бұрын
It’s a white girl on KZbin who dates black guys and wears braids and she doubled down about wearing them and she didn’t care what we said… then she came back on without the braids and said she took them out because she had a job interview and this is w she is talking about… the audacity and entitlement they have is what she’s referring to…
@ariannahawkins5945
@ariannahawkins5945 Жыл бұрын
She getting backlash for it because they want to be ignorant and want to keep our stuff. Which they shoudlnt and I am glad ol gurl hair fell at in the beginning thats exactly why we say dont wear braids. Stoo trying to be us and wear our style. Whats made for us by us is not meant for you. It was made by us for us for a reason.
@4abrownafrica420
@4abrownafrica420 Жыл бұрын
But bw wear yt people's hair on their heads.
@ariannahawkins5945
@ariannahawkins5945 Жыл бұрын
@@4abrownafrica420 Ummm are you saying anything to just prove a point? Hun black women dont wear white women hair. When black women wear weaves and extensions most of that hair is Brazilian, Malaysian, and some of the hair comes from Indian women, which I dont think are white women. Another thing is that there are a lot of black women who wear synthetic wigs, weaves, and extensions because human hair is too expensive and we know how to tweak it for it to look real. But babe is just straightened plastic. I wear synthetic hair which doesnt belong to no human, becayse himan hair is too expensive, plus.....(whispers) there are many black women who just get thier hair straight and they have ling lucious locks, but because people spread lies about how we dant grow long hair you may think its extensions but it is really her hair. Dont no black women wear white women hair, even white women try to get Brazil, Malaysian, and Indian hair, and once again thise arent white women. People who say what you just said try to push it back on black women when white women do the same thing, but dont get on white women for it. Plus weaves, extensions, and wigs arent cultural like braids are. Braids helped black women escape slavery, what do wigs, weaves and extensions have in common with that. Braids gave freedom, those are not comparable. Please stop using that as an excuse.
@taty9872
@taty9872 Жыл бұрын
The Asians girl sounded so dumb!
@Kevin.e.Turner
@Kevin.e.Turner Жыл бұрын
The Asian girl didn't sound dumb when her Korean sister was going off on travelling black men. Hmm, I wonder why 🤔🤔🤔
@naled1987
@naled1987 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY she didn’t even make sense
@kayc421
@kayc421 Жыл бұрын
The girl in the blue shirt is probably a mixed kid with a white mom 🤣😂 Did the other girl say "as a real African" the audacity of these people.
@ct7853
@ct7853 Жыл бұрын
She is so ignorant and She has no idea about the black experience and it shows in all here videos or 80% of them, and the other lady looked mixed, therefore she’s not a pure blood, coming from multiple tribes. She is so ignorant as well. As the majority of the videos posted.
@meliaj1228
@meliaj1228 Жыл бұрын
Right, if you are such a real African why did you come to America? American hair discrimination is different from the rest of the world. Like stop it.
@naled1987
@naled1987 Жыл бұрын
Exactly like why are you here bc if African American weren’t made to build America “real Africans” wouldn’t be here if it was not for African American it’s the disrespect for me smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ but since in Africa is shady AF that why your here now so STOP IT RESPECTFULLY….
@terrencemyers1033
@terrencemyers1033 Жыл бұрын
What people are missing in the stiches is that black women are discriminated against for wearing their cultural norms.
@charlajefferson9220
@charlajefferson9220 Жыл бұрын
OMG I have never heard so many people use incorrect evidence to make a point. Black ppl lets gatekeep our stuff. Theses heathens do not need to know so much about us.
@tredinabrown2249
@tredinabrown2249 Жыл бұрын
Psalm 139:14 This scripture always comes to my mind!!!!!!!
@mizzpoetrics
@mizzpoetrics Жыл бұрын
The responses are soooooooo ignorant! Almost makes you want to give up, but I'm gonna gatekeep my Blackness! Everybody sure AF defends their cultures....or lack thereof! 🙄🙄 I still don't get WTF does all their responses have to do with the way we Bw are still being harassed over how we are culturally, shht, just for the way our bodies are naturally shaped, our hair textures, our skin textures etc?
@staciquinton2794
@staciquinton2794 Жыл бұрын
In 1786, Governor Esteban Rodriguez Miro enacted the Tignon Law in Louisiana, which forced Black women to cover up their natural hair. The regulation of the Tignon Law was meant as a means to regulate the style of dress and appearance of Black women. Black women's features often attracted male White, French, and Spanish suitors, and their beauty was perceived as a threat to White women. 12-12-2022(Mon )
@Glowing-zr6vg
@Glowing-zr6vg Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the empathy of young man in the red shirt. He’s a real human.
@wandaharris612
@wandaharris612 Жыл бұрын
what black women you know tan. That old white woman when she was younger wouldn't have been caught dead in braids, and I think she was wrong actually about the false eye lashes as well and she kept mentioning Egypt and I wonder do she know where Egypt is and I know damn well she is not trying to school black people on our black hair and style and where it came from. That's why when people stay in your lane, it was meant for people like her. Once she started on that I fast forward her real quick.
@jeanettevelasquez777
@jeanettevelasquez777 Жыл бұрын
Egypt is Africa!!! The ignorant white woman trying to school us on our history kept saying it as if "Egypt" which in Africa she's the real ignorant one!!! It's sad we have to always re-educate the masses about our struggle. Remember Moses resembled the Egyptians, that history in the Bible is Black History! Pharaoh sister would have never took Moses and adopted him as a son if he did not resemble them!
@battlefieldopen6232
@battlefieldopen6232 Жыл бұрын
She was Definitely wrong.. we're considered the old people.. sorry but eyelashes were way before white folks stolen it... This what I'm Talking about when it comes to non blk people love to credit themselves and does no research . The true people of Egypt were indigenous people there before non blk step foot under that hot heat Sun. And let me give you a little bit of History .All these other continent within African Weren't there the whole map is Africa that includes Morocco recreated by you people to hide our identity. We didn't land on Plymouth Rock !! Plymouth Rock Land on our people. Never, ever forget that!!! Eyelashes were done way ahead your time.. as the word say; nothing new under the Sun.
@LadyG4ever
@LadyG4ever Жыл бұрын
I don't care about other people wearing braids because black hair can slay more than just braids. Fades, waves, afros, bantu knots, all natural, pressed, pixie cut, wash n go, twist out, blow out, jerri curl whatever. Our hair can do it all and we make it look damn good.
@kayc421
@kayc421 Жыл бұрын
"We should be pulling together" b**** we don't trust y'all!
@queendygravy9437
@queendygravy9437 Жыл бұрын
Black women aren't mad they want to wear braids, we are mad they say it's BAD FOR BLACK WOMEN TO WEAR BRAIDS/NATURAL HAIR while they look stupid wearing them smh. Us being brown is bad but they tan til they have cancer smh #makeitmakesense
@angellag9373
@angellag9373 Жыл бұрын
Some of those people do not know the meaning of culture.
@lashernedickson8675
@lashernedickson8675 Жыл бұрын
The white woman with the braids n glasses.... pure appropriation & her braids are WASHED!!!
@empressmoon5589
@empressmoon5589 Жыл бұрын
So true, and why do we get so much push back when we talk about this. They said nothing to the Japanese when they shut kim down for trying to use kimono.
@iy4563
@iy4563 Жыл бұрын
HELL she washed. Lol she look a hot dog smelly mess.
@lashernedickson8675
@lashernedickson8675 Жыл бұрын
Guy in the red shirt seems to be the ONLY one who really gets it.
@NgoziNgozi799
@NgoziNgozi799 Жыл бұрын
Plagiarism not just present but from ancient times.
@cherryrue89
@cherryrue89 Жыл бұрын
It’s so crazy how people forget what the hell we been going through to wear our hair they way we like. It really pisses me off cause it’s like people don’t care to ask why we are upset about it. If your not a black American and don’t get it just shut the f up.
@marlak4203
@marlak4203 Жыл бұрын
But why would others know what another group has been going through with their hair? Why would that be expected of him? Things like this is why there is such conflict, confusion and no connecting.
@cherryrue89
@cherryrue89 Жыл бұрын
@@marlak4203 are you an American cause if your not educate your self on hair and black people in America. If that don’t help then move on.
@marlak4203
@marlak4203 Жыл бұрын
@@cherryrue89 I am. Do you know what other groups went through with their hair? How bout clothes, shoes, etc? At best very, very little. And that isn't wrong. Why expect tou too? This stuff isn't taught in regular history or schooling. All this anger constantly gets you nowhere.
@cherryrue89
@cherryrue89 Жыл бұрын
@@marlak4203 this is what I mean when I say keep your 2 cents. What I’m talking about with hair is not something that happen decades ago then stopped. No. It’s still happing today and if your American you should know about it and if you don’t your deciding to ignore it. you don’t know what I know about other cultures cause you don’t know me. Also unlike you I research what I don’t understand before I open my mouth to give a opinion maybe think about that in the future.
@marlak4203
@marlak4203 Жыл бұрын
@@cherryrue89 Nah no thinking about nothing You couldn't answer those questions so its good. Lol. Bye, anger.
@sys691
@sys691 Жыл бұрын
The lack of education and the ignorance to find out the truth is appalling to me. If, BP are the eldest race on the planet, 🤔 where do you think, original ideas came 🤔 from? Why are we always on a Venn diagram ?🤷🏾‍♀️
@CrownS-n-LessonS
@CrownS-n-LessonS Жыл бұрын
Y are africans always the first ones to run to zaddy defense 🤔
@ariannahawkins5945
@ariannahawkins5945 Жыл бұрын
Exaccttllyyy!!! I had igerian women tell me that its okay, Im like I'm sorry what? Yet other African American women, men, and children are being denied the right to graduate, play a sport, or ger a job because they wear their natural hair, yet you dont say anything about that. You just stabd and watch, but when we speak up yall wanna come for us, come on now!! Its very backwards and just shows how whitewashed some of us are. They want us to turn on each other.
@miram2053
@miram2053 Жыл бұрын
A good question.
@latoyatrytosilenceus4760
@latoyatrytosilenceus4760 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Kevin.e.Turner
@Kevin.e.Turner Жыл бұрын
Because you all do it. They are just copying your trends.. remember.
@TransmutedLiving
@TransmutedLiving Жыл бұрын
The little old white lady got the history of cornrows wrong. Cornrows came from slavery. Tribal hair styles like "bantu" knots, Fulani braids etc... that's tribal. Those braid patterns are connected to a whole African ethnic group. I think the issue is renaming it Boxer Braids when they are just cornrows. It's the attitude of "it looks better on us" then the people who created it that really passes people off then the actual wearing of it. If a white girl got Fulani braids and acknowledged where it came from I think there would be less push back tbh
@nicolehill4812
@nicolehill4812 Жыл бұрын
She spittin' facts.
@csexitube
@csexitube Жыл бұрын
Its not just a hairstyle "SIS" Braids represent our heritage and survival of our ancestors. Mothers often braided rice seeds into their children’s hair to have something to survive on while on the slave trips or escaping from raided communities. They also hid beans, small cassava cuttings, maize and other grains depending on how thick the hair was. The ones who escaped the plantations to start their own settlements used those seeds and beans to grow food and live independently. Our thick hair texture was both purposeful and beautiful.
@canningscharles6392
@canningscharles6392 Жыл бұрын
Can I ask what's the history or story of weave?
@charleeshaw7423
@charleeshaw7423 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying this.. I was going to until I saw your comment
@slarvadain188
@slarvadain188 Жыл бұрын
@@canningscharles6392 Weave has been used in many ancient cultures all over the world. What’s your next question ? And Oh, I don’t wear weave but have at it.
@canningscharles6392
@canningscharles6392 Жыл бұрын
@@slarvadain188 so it's not a black ppl or white ppl thing right? ........ its all just so confusing me.
@csexitube
@csexitube Жыл бұрын
@cannings charles to elaborate on what @S Larvadain said, I read In Ancient Egypt(BC) both men and women wore wigs to help avoid the danger of lice infestation, protect them from the sun, social & political status etc. Its also stated King Louis XIV experienced hair loss at 17 so he hired 48 wig makers. 2022 men are wearing "man weaves" due to hair loss.(search it on UTube) its seamless and amazing. Some women wear them for the same reason, but in my opinion most women wear them as a preference, myself included...No I'm not bald😄 I love the versatility, I can play with color, lengths and styles without damaging my own hair😌
@djx_5430
@djx_5430 Жыл бұрын
This is why Aunt Jemima is off the shelf.
@naeemahsloane-booker193
@naeemahsloane-booker193 Жыл бұрын
The female who commented first, missed the whole point. People stop with all the bullsh*t and research what she's talking about.
@RagingButtafly23
@RagingButtafly23 Жыл бұрын
Most of them don't count Egypt as an African country
@DestinyUteh
@DestinyUteh Жыл бұрын
They want to claim that too
@MonicaLAllen
@MonicaLAllen Жыл бұрын
The first chic totally missed the point and why. Especially in this country in America. No one said anything about elsewhere
@aprilsjewel3998
@aprilsjewel3998 Жыл бұрын
These people just don’t want to understand at this point. We should GATEKEEP especially the important and sacred things. Not one of them except the young man in the red shirt got the fact that these things are sacred to us and we were DEMONIZED for it!!!
@marlak4203
@marlak4203 Жыл бұрын
But HOW do you gatekeep? Talking like this ain't gonna do crap. How do you stop someone from the music, clothing, hair, language etc. How do you do that? I guess one way is to take black people OUT of popular media so that others won't imitate. How else are you going to do it?
@Itzyhani
@Itzyhani Жыл бұрын
I have never gotten upset at seeing a woman with braids. I think most black peoples get upset at the double standard. When you have experienced racism, hatred, and discrimination for being you. Then in the same day watch someone else be praised for those same things it takes a toil on you. I hate when people tear down people for wanting to experience or try something from another culture. BUT I also hate when people minimize other peoples pains and struggles. Also this is not just a black thing. There will always be people from all cultures who get upset when they see other people doing something they “feel” belongs to their community. They feel robbed or upset.
@cosmicinsight3255
@cosmicinsight3255 Жыл бұрын
It def is a black thing
@myhicks
@myhicks Жыл бұрын
On the day we are free to fully celebrate all of our culture everywhere we go, without being called unprofessional and/or being ostracized, then we can continue this conversation. Until then they can all take several seats - in the back, especially the other POC. You clearly do not understand the history, the issues, etc., and you are not ready for the real smoke.
@yayahallene3207
@yayahallene3207 Жыл бұрын
You did not show equal response to her video, most of what you showed were in disagreement with her. I am in the Diaspora and I can tell you Black women in America have been traumatized and you African women do not understand the depth of it. So don’t address these things half way. Please! You showed people mocking what she said. You do not understand.
@DestinyUteh
@DestinyUteh Жыл бұрын
That was the were the people response, there will be a part 2 of a black Queen calling out a White girl that respond to this video. A lot of Black Women didn't respond to this video
@ZDHTJ
@ZDHTJ Жыл бұрын
It’s ok though. Let them have their hair fall out since they think it’s fine🤣
@Haterzarefans
@Haterzarefans Жыл бұрын
Right! They gotta wash their hair everyday ! We don't! Let them find the fuk out!😂😂😂😂
@tenjahanta9456
@tenjahanta9456 Жыл бұрын
😂
@ct7853
@ct7853 Жыл бұрын
I don’t understand how everyone with an objection to her request missed the mark. They’re so quick to comment, and respond. They’re not listening, and don’t care. I’m one of the most absent minded people I’ve ever known, but I totally understand where she was coming from and not cause I’m black. I can’t stand when black folk or blacks from other countries speak up but don’t understand the struggles we had n still endure. How in the hell can they not hear what she was sayin. I’m done……😮for real???
@marlak4203
@marlak4203 Жыл бұрын
So then what is she actually trying to say? Because others have dissed some black people over some hair that means everyone who is non-black should not wear it?
@lovetemple3610
@lovetemple3610 Жыл бұрын
Don't mind those black women who came out to oppose her...they are either from the tribe of Ham or Judas's off-springs !
@dharmon8798
@dharmon8798 Жыл бұрын
I do know one thing,let me go to a company and they tell me that I can't wear Braids, I'll sue the shit out of them. Even let the media, and news outlet know all about it.
@yessilinaisrael3706
@yessilinaisrael3706 Жыл бұрын
Isn’t Egypt in Africa?
@kishacallwood4017
@kishacallwood4017 Жыл бұрын
Well said Sis. ❤
@kayt4019
@kayt4019 Жыл бұрын
BS to that woman saying whyte girls wasn't wearing braids more than 10 years. That is a bold face lie. I knew many in the 90s who weren't even adults that were wearing it.
@ladylydia762
@ladylydia762 Жыл бұрын
Stop showing the Edomites everything thing you do especially on the internet! You show them how to apply lace fronts and how to glue them down. You braid their hair etc etc etc
@shawnni3014
@shawnni3014 Жыл бұрын
That’s the same thing I keep saying keep the stuff off the internet
@naled1987
@naled1987 Жыл бұрын
Ummm they do that to help black ppl like them duh are you ok ?
@pinkskies.8395
@pinkskies.8395 Жыл бұрын
@@naled1987 I understand ur point and there point but u know the heathens are still gonna stay in our business and watch our videos soo
@ladylydia762
@ladylydia762 Жыл бұрын
@@naled1987 are you okay, is the question. Hundreds of years people have been mistreated by people who have shown the world how much they do hate, and u have the nerve to ask if someone is okay. Are you yourself seriously okay?
@naled1987
@naled1987 Жыл бұрын
@@ladylydia762 ummm 🤔 it’s too early for foolishness go to bed
@illyannadeshields9835
@illyannadeshields9835 Жыл бұрын
If you notice they bring up blonde hair not understanding blonde hair and blue eyes are common in African and coastal Africa but all life comes from Africa. A WW wearing braids the way BW do is insulting to me because they take everything but down BW for wearing braids this is why BW really do not like it and locks they use to insult Islanders for them claiming they're dirty etc but it's ok for them to do it.
@sherlyfrancois5799
@sherlyfrancois5799 Жыл бұрын
Please go in history and see who invented what. So many blacks invention have been stolen. Your always want what we have done. And it’s not about the hair. She stated stop taking credits from us.
@coilycrown5130
@coilycrown5130 Жыл бұрын
I love her youtube Content and what she stand for and her outspoken attribute to natural hair gate keeper fight and help she provide to care for natural coil hair.. If you have love for your natural self then go support Her. Comment at 16:04 makes valid points to the reason why is necessary to gate keep black culture and outspoken about it yet nobody is going to stop 🛑 anyone for wearing single braids or corn 🌽 row hairstyles but I am proud of those who try to give self respect and keep history alive of gate keeping Black Culture before it is erased without history for reasons of Black culture appropriation. For Black anti Black Bullies who wants to go through another self destruction have you never will learn historical moments of history from your self Hatred Misery.
@sosgirl6846
@sosgirl6846 Жыл бұрын
I'm African-American, I agree with the first young lady, but black women wear long European-styled hair that clearly isn't our texture or anything.
@jadedconversationgrabyourb9918
@jadedconversationgrabyourb9918 Жыл бұрын
And also as far as the little mix girl message about were she went back-and-forth with her on Dr. Phil no she didn’t. She didn’t go back-and-forth with anyone and her argument is still stupid but that’s what happens when you’re mixed and you’re born with a certain privilege that everyone else isn’t born with but to let her to that she doesn’t have any privilege but I bet she can’t say she was ever kicked out of school for her hairstyle While she’s so busy trying to say that it’s not a problem she’s never had to live that problem so to her it isn’t a problem, but I wish you would keep her mix self in mix peoples business and out of black peoples business because she constantly makes these weird statements that does not make any sense according to her, there is no racism. There is no systemic racism. Everyone is doing the same as everyone else may be in her household maybe in her mixed household but I know a lot of people who are not.
@ZDHTJ
@ZDHTJ Жыл бұрын
She probably one of the biracial kids with a white mama so 😅🥴🤷🏾‍♀️
@babytt8487
@babytt8487 Жыл бұрын
@@ZDHTJ She does her dads Nigerian. Tragic Mule for real
@lane89
@lane89 Жыл бұрын
Black women wear braids as a protective style to not have to maintain our natural hair all the time because our natural hair was viewed as unkept braids and weaves became a normal thing in black homes. During the black panther era black women wore their natural hair proudly but over time som kind of way assimilated to straight hair. In recent years we have become more accepting of our own natural hair but for sure black girls have been discriminated against for their braids and when we wear them they consider them ghetto when they were they it’s cool. It’s just the facts. ❤😂
@leyleye.9118
@leyleye.9118 Жыл бұрын
The last woman ❤️ 💯
@denisemarcus5633
@denisemarcus5633 Жыл бұрын
What i can't understand, why is Egypt not apart of Africa? 🤷‍♂️
@DestinyUteh
@DestinyUteh Жыл бұрын
What. Egypt is apart of Africa
@denisemarcus5633
@denisemarcus5633 Жыл бұрын
@@DestinyUteh Thru out the stitches every one of the so called defenders talked like Egypt was on another continent and different from Africa. "Make up was made in Egypt" like ...Yeah Africa 🧐 They acted as if Egypt was in Britain
@tenjahanta9456
@tenjahanta9456 Жыл бұрын
@@DestinyUteh egypt in Africa is an amusement park...not real
@marlak4203
@marlak4203 Жыл бұрын
Much, much better topic to discuss.
@Warrior-Princess
@Warrior-Princess Жыл бұрын
This is EXACTLY what cultural appropriation results in. After generations of rebranding the story of Egypt, casting wp as Egyptians in film, etc., ppl no longer KNOW that the ancient Egyptians were dark skinned black people. Black Egyptians STILL live in Egypt, but have been isolated to one small part of the country and are NEVER shown when showing footage of Egypt. Unless you’ve travelled there, have walked the temples, viewed the temple artwork you’re easily deceived by the alternative history that is presented over and over again in media. So, they boldly speak of what they do not know and as a result, they sound and look like bold miseducated fools!
@chocol8doll
@chocol8doll Жыл бұрын
Too bad they're not as smart as the guy in the red shirt.
@davidatkinson5858
@davidatkinson5858 Жыл бұрын
Celtic people were using Dutch plaits over 9thousand years ago 👍
@lashernedickson8675
@lashernedickson8675 Жыл бұрын
THIS THIS THIS IS WHY DF I CAN'T WITH THE CAVE DWELLERS
@ladylydia762
@ladylydia762 Жыл бұрын
Bka Edomites 😂😂😂
@lashernedickson8675
@lashernedickson8675 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU DESTINY!!! Because they were so so arrogant about it. I'm embarrassed. I'm African-American yes... I'm also Ghanaian that African woman with the Blonde braids beautiful but RUDE af.
@ca7889
@ca7889 Жыл бұрын
Thanks to the content creator. This has been my point over the years-social media has given a platform to the uninformed and those that lack a certain amount of intelligence.
@traceygregory7365
@traceygregory7365 Жыл бұрын
The last commentator said it best.
@capricornus89
@capricornus89 Жыл бұрын
The point that she’s trying to make is that we have to have a crown at in California just so we can wear our natural hair
@TwiztidPixiel
@TwiztidPixiel Жыл бұрын
I don't say anything when they get braids. I know their hair will fall out. Move in silence ladies. 💗
@emjohnson7207
@emjohnson7207 Жыл бұрын
I was in the Air Force and in early to mid 90s the military put in regulations that braids could be worn, while in uniform. A blonde ww had a bw braid her hair. I thought it looked nice on her, but she was ordered to take it out. Those Officers (wm) told her it was not her culture. She had it taken down. I remember way back where Oprah has a black hairdresser on and he said white people damage their hair when they do braids. He explained it was the curve of the follicle or lack of curvy texture.
@davidatkinson5858
@davidatkinson5858 Жыл бұрын
Imagine thinking that you can dictate how people can wear their hair? Or what they can say or think?😂😂because of their skin colour ffs 🙄
@marlak4203
@marlak4203 Жыл бұрын
exactly. the most stupidest stuff. it isn't deep like that at all nor are black people in America, in general, living like it was in the past when certain hairstyles meant those things. Smh.
@whitneyf7265
@whitneyf7265 Жыл бұрын
I am commenting specifically on her comments as a black woman African-American diaspora of Africa
@slarvadain188
@slarvadain188 Жыл бұрын
Well for the first woman and others NOT from the United States, you wouldn’t get it because it pertains to the racial dynamics in America. Maybe somewhere else, you don’t have to put up with the racial bs and have others put YOU down while exploiting your culture. We would respect foreigners to tell us how it is in your countries but do not undermine what we are going through in America. She’s speaking as a black American woman in America.
@lstr-wp2lq
@lstr-wp2lq Жыл бұрын
The Caribbean black people are apart of our people. We all are descendants of slaves. We are from the same nation. We are one nation inside of many nations.
@DestinyUteh
@DestinyUteh Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
@lashernedickson8675
@lashernedickson8675 Жыл бұрын
Every day I get on the internet n understand why we're gonna destroy ourselves. I can't bother yo. Like wtf is wrong with the Mayosapians
@lashernedickson8675
@lashernedickson8675 Жыл бұрын
I LOVE this content creator. She's smart n sweet
@DestinyUteh
@DestinyUteh Жыл бұрын
Yes she is
@AntoinetteMPetty
@AntoinetteMPetty Жыл бұрын
I lost jobs because I wore braids/corn rows/locks and an afro. So if you're going to wear our styles, then fight for our right to wear them too. If you're going to wear our clothing, fight for our right to wear our clothing too. It's fine to love our styles, but find out why we feel the way we do. I love your communities, but I can't move in and be safe in your communities. Just saying 😌 🤷🏾
@jojoko64
@jojoko64 Жыл бұрын
It's appreciated to see two sided arguments not just those in agreement with what she is saying.
@Jjay257
@Jjay257 Жыл бұрын
GATE KEEP!!! GATE KEEP!!! GATE KEEP!!! GATE KEEP!!! THEY CHOOSING TO JUSTIFY SO LOUD THAT THEY CAN’T LISTEN!!!!!!!!
@Jjay257
@Jjay257 Жыл бұрын
-At that, if the first humans were black and it took CENTURIES before whites, Asians and others appeared, then anything that has been cultural for us to this day, literally since the beginning of time, has been appropriated and/or still started with and by us…
@ronabeatty3685
@ronabeatty3685 Жыл бұрын
💋💋👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@RukiaBlackBlazer
@RukiaBlackBlazer Жыл бұрын
Look, look, folks.... 10:18 in. There's a human being, i wonder who raised him, they did a great job. The first young beautiful woman too. *I can Recognize their humanity as they recognized ours.* NOT LIKE THE SELFISH PSYCHOPATHS, selfish inhuman things, man kind/a kind of man.
@sho1470
@sho1470 Жыл бұрын
That's why your hair break in them,smt something that's not even DESIGNED for you,your crying over them-bruh.
@waynethompson1115
@waynethompson1115 Жыл бұрын
Lmao, I adopt the culture of wherever I live. Mix in my own. When I move on, I have more to bring. Cultural appropriation is a funny thing to whine about.
@shagrace9203
@shagrace9203 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your understanding xxxx
@dharmon8798
@dharmon8798 Жыл бұрын
Well for me I don't care who wears Braids, but know that there will he people of color who doesn't like it. For one reason it was the white employers that said that Black people couldn't wear our natural hair, Braids, Dreads, Airfros,etc. Then the school system, then there comes the outrage of what God put on our heads. It wasn't until No Derek came out in defense of a Black woman wearing Braids at her Post Office job people started to take a look at the truth. Not only was the Lady dressed to a tee, her hair was neat.
@RoRoNotRoseta
@RoRoNotRoseta Жыл бұрын
Ignorance is bliss. At one point in time they deemed our braids as "unprofessional","ratchet", and we were considered"hoodrats". They were looked down on. Countless women lost there jobs because of it. All because of ww/wm. We've been doing these styles for YEARS. But just as soon as Kim K and wm wore them on runways and in photoshoots they became "chic". Now the very people who treated us horribly because of it want to fight for the right to wear them. Funny how whenever something from us is worn or done by us it's seen as bad. Then they✋🏻 decide to do it the stereotypes are changed. It's weird.
@andramcneil5743
@andramcneil5743 Жыл бұрын
Just remember lots of things was taken from the Niijii people of American even oh we are as a people we didn't come from Africa we was already here before Columbus came
@tenjahanta9456
@tenjahanta9456 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@whitneyf7265
@whitneyf7265 Жыл бұрын
Yes many different cultures around the world have a different braiding pattern based off of culture and believe religion and hair texture. But what that girl the black girl is talking about what is being copycat is specifically black African culture
@lane89
@lane89 Жыл бұрын
Other women wear braids as a cute style we wear braids to upkeep our hair and their cute, at the end of the day I don’t believe they fully understand the history of our hair and why it’s annoying that they discard our feelings about their actions and behaviors and yet want us to fight for them for everytime their feelings hurt. It just don’t make sense that they even named everything invented by white people talking about culture when culture is about history and how that common tradition came to be. They just rocking braids like it’s a trend they copy everything we do but don’t give us credit. These people are narcissists.
@khem127
@khem127 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video and your opinion Destiny. I remember when Black women had to wear wigs made out of straight hair in order to get jobs. White people and others conveniently forget about that. They still talk about our butts, but White women are caled thick when they get butt augmantation. I won't talk about how lips are still made fun of, but they get their lips enlarged to be called beautiful. She mentioned the most important thing. Wytes talked aout our music, many Black geniuses died poor, because even though they liked our music, they would'nt hire the Black musician or play the Black music until they found a wyte person to approppriate the music. The Wyte appropriater then became a millionaire. This happens over and over again. They steal our clothing styles and become rich, while they deny the Black originator any credit for his creations or jobs. Wer'e just tired of this disrespect.
@bretooty
@bretooty Жыл бұрын
Some of these stitch creators are missing the whole point.
@Kevin.e.Turner
@Kevin.e.Turner Жыл бұрын
So where is that Korean girl at that was hating on black men traveling abroad that you all were hyping up? Why isn't she coming to black females defense this time, since she's a feminist who would defend women no matter what?🤔🤔🤔
@jimmycee5247
@jimmycee5247 Жыл бұрын
Even if the sister did or didn't wear other people's stuff, she's still the most beautiful in the world. She is not African by the way. She's indigenous to the American continent just as Africans are to Africa. Africans themselves know this fact. This sister is absolutely correct in what she's saying. People are jealous of her because she's the standard of the world, and the world copies her, like it or not.
@shirleylevy1306
@shirleylevy1306 Жыл бұрын
I'm just going to go ahead and say it we can't have shit.😤😤🤔
@ObsidianBlaze
@ObsidianBlaze Жыл бұрын
Hmmm, why am I getting Hutu and Tutsi vibes? I watch aesthetics. I am an American and simply don't care anymore. If we pierce a butt cheek, trust and believe some Caucasoid will do the same. Blondes??? Oh my! Check out Australian Aborigines...darker skinned than me and NATURALLY blonde in some places. Recessive genetics. Nothing to brag about, it just is. Tomorrow, my hair will be burgundy...not blonde. 😆 It was purple a month ago. 🤭🤫 As long as the melanated are coiled, don't worry about the rest. Straighten all you want, the coils will come back. I agree with the workplace mess, Crown Act. Time to work for ourselves. I can work in a robe...ijs.
@whitneyf7265
@whitneyf7265 Жыл бұрын
Why is it that Latin America get a green light pass on the fact that they had slaves first African slaves
@blessed3779
@blessed3779 Жыл бұрын
I see there are a lot of uninformed people in this chat that are not aware of the “Melanesian” tribe in Africa who have blonde hair that grows from their scalp; and I guess y’all are not aware of the “Tuaregs” tribe in Africa that has blue eyes-so please stop using the example of black people wearing blonde hair as a rebuttal, it is misguided. At the end of the day BW are the only humans who carry the genes for all races on earth-please listen to a Jane Elliot lecture or one of her books to educate yourselves. Also, stop conflating eyelashes and nails with hair. Synthetic eyelashes and nails are a fabricated product. BLACK HAIR is cultural because it is a hairdresser style connected to African lifestyle that had a symbolic meaning and even showed a social status within tribes. Oh an before some ignorant person brings up the synthetic hair used to do braids. BLACK people are the only culture that GENETICALLY grows 4A, 4B, 4C textured hair (especially that 4C) from the scalp; therefore we can actually where braids and locs without adding synthetic hair to our own hair. If you don’t know what 4C textured hair is-GOOD. Mind your business, leave black spaces alone, and keep it moving. “BLACK HAIR” was used as a symbolism of empowerment against the racist oppression of white supremacy and it grew exponentially in the 1960’s and 1970’s. It was always for the descendants of slaves to reconnect to and have some symbolence to our African roots-knowing that are lineage goes back to the CONTINENT of Africa. So it means more to black Americans than just it being a hairstyle. The sad part is that BW as annoying as culture appropriation is-we all know the “duplication” just don’t hit the same! “The look” don’t quite come off the same as when BW do our thang……even if it looks nice on other races, it is always just slightly off. For BW: we understand that we are viewed at the bottom of the totem pole in the social hierarchy-WE SHOULD PAY ATTENTION ONLY TO OUR GROWTH and HEALING and SPEND ENERGY EMPOWERING, ENCOURAGING, and SUPPORTING each other in spite of the BS; and ignore all else!
@ronabeatty3685
@ronabeatty3685 Жыл бұрын
💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋👏🏿👏🏿❤
@gem4life933
@gem4life933 Жыл бұрын
People be grasping. First off lash extensions came from Ancient Egypt, wasn't created by a white woman or firm l from Brazil. The FIRST documented use of lash extensions can be found in ancient Egypt. Tanning? Mamma the girl is black, she does into the sun she automatically tans, tf u mean. Braids come in all styles, u know what the hell black people mean, when we talk about Braids. I personally don't care either way. But don't be ignorant about what people truly mean
@shaniblake
@shaniblake Жыл бұрын
Ain't nobody internationally rocking other cultures except FBA culture.
@Kevin.e.Turner
@Kevin.e.Turner Жыл бұрын
You hear what that Hispanic woman said black females? She said, "know one cares about you anyways" Just look at that strong sisterhood at play here. Ooo
@naled1987
@naled1987 Жыл бұрын
Clearly your brain cells are of non existence bc how can they speak on something when has been to America and experienced anything you sound crazy
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