Black Women Ain't Got Ta LIVE Like This! 🛑 Why We Deserve Better

Black Women Ain't Got Ta LIVE Like This! 🛑 Are those brunch pics in Atlanta worth it? Is that winter in Chicago / Detroit / Minneapolis for you? That paycheck from that “good job” got you crying in the car? So you move in silence, huh? How’s that working out for you? Black women deserve BETTER.
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[@StephaniePerry]

✨ You deserve ALL GOOD THINGS without struggle. And you enjoy those good things OUT LOUD. ✨

[@getfit2852]

Agreed 💯 ❤

[@sistahamina]

🙌🏾

[@reginagriffin4251]

❤

[@sandraholmes4541]

SO very true! All truly good gifts and blessings comes directly from the Heavenly Father, the ones “that makes one rich And he adds no pain with it,” as Proverbs 10:22 says.

[@vivveene1675]

1:00:29, I couldn't agree with you more. I am currently in Customer Service Support and the daily mental, and emotional pain to deal with issues which is no fault of mine but of course it is my job makes me feel now like a worn car tyre. I so can't wait to create an online income and move to Mexico.

[@freespirit-111]

We don’t have to entertain toxic people just because we’re bored.

[@empoweredtoshine12]

Amen

[@CarinSottedEagle]

❤

[@janinegrantham8145]

Say it again, Sis

[@diamondjack-cooper5322]

AMEN!

[@tania0070]

Amen. My biggest problem.

[@Itsdanammm]

I love the idea of living out loud but I often feel I have to move in silence. Some people can get jealous about the smallest things.

[@lesliewilliams9072]

Girl, don’t hide your light under a bushel. Give them something big to be REALLY jealous about.☺️

[@sayyidahthewriter]

Find a new crew!

[@Black-Butterfly-B1]

I have a similar situation. I have started telling some of my classmates in a language class that I am taking. One was supportive, one was not. Learning by baby steps..

[@sandraholmes4541]

Me too. It is really sad. 😔

[@dwn2earth260]

Sometimes moving in silence is good for peace of mind.

[@brigittemaxey4197]

Say it again, sis, we deserve peace and happiness without the struggle.

[@msevolution2317]

I love this corner of the internet, I’m so glad I found it. I’m learning to embrace my “laziness”

[@msjlewis9981]

Me toooo. It's fascinating how hard it is to do nothing and feel good about it.

[@meliw4142]

​@@msjlewis9981I struggle with doing nothing all the time. When I moved to Mexico last summer I would call my best friend and vent about doing nothing. She told me that I will get use to it 😅.

[@melissaforbes2173]

We deserve to put ourselves first without the guilt

[@breezluize3282]

Stephanie's dropping many gems in this video. One of which is you shouldn't have to prove your worth to people who don't already value you by performing superwoman labor, which only benefit OTHERS anyway.

[@dews3340]

Eze and unbothered non working spouse child FREE thankfully. Thanks for sharing this morning. No to black excellence, no to so called black love. No to religion.......... Just got home from the farmers market $$$$$$$, organic foods, raw milk, meats eggs, herbal teas, Wildcrafted incenses, essential oils, too............ Stay safe ladies regardless of your age and geography

[@lindawhite4683]

How does Stephanie define Black Elegance? Why are you guys against it? Thanks

[@GigiWorldT]

Black women deserve a life of ease and all the good things. Amen.🙏🏾 Spread that gospel Stephanie! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@enigmathegrayman2953]

“Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.” -Bruce Lee

[@GigiWorldT]

@@enigmathegrayman2953we didn't ask for your opinion, tell that advice to YOUR people!

[@enigmathegrayman2953]

@@GigiWorldT Black women ARE MY PEOPLE AND MY CONCERN

[@GigiWorldT]

@@enigmathegrayman2953 Like Stephanie has said many times, this forum is a Black women's space. We don't need unsolicited toxic advice from non Black Women or folks who are happy with that plantation life. Kizzy already put in that free work so we don't have to anymore. Free labour, emotional domestic and otherwise from BW over here is done. Run tell dat. Good day.

[@enigmathegrayman2953]

@@GigiWorldT Do you hate us black men? Be honest, or do you just hate life in general and how difficult things are right now?

[@Gohardchick]

As someone who lives in Atlanta, the Atlanta comment had me cracking up. 😂. We do deserve better.

[@levelupgoddess9289]

My mother says I can’t be jumping from jobs to jobs because it doesn’t look good. I told her look good to who? I don’t care any job or what they think. If I start hating a job then I leave. I’m not sacrificing myself at any job. Also, I’m still researching and so far I want to go to Denmark or Sweden. Black Women seriously need to stop with the struggle. Stop struggling with black males and kids. Date out, don’t date or stop having kids because males have SHOWN US (of all races) that they ARENT dependable. PS We just started getting snow a few hours ago. First winter day for this winter season. We moved from spring to winter. The summer was cold and extremely rainy and we have not been having fall.

[@MissBeJoy]

Stephanie, THANK YOU! I don't think I've ever had the words to explain the feeling, but rejecting black excellence and the idea of "doing" your way to value is IT!!! So, THANK YOU! I'm going to work on articulating my wants and sharing them boldly this week. 💜

[@BanquetHallManager]

Why would you reject black excellence? Black excellence is just black people being the best version of themselves. A black woman moved to Dubai and started a real estate company over there, and her clientele is Americans. They fly to Dubai to meet her and she shows them homes. That's black excellence.

[@initiateit]

Unfortunately we live in an age when people are lovers of self and instead of asking what they can give to others, we ask what can we take.

[@Tigerrobinson3765]

Right, and folks stay asking BW to do or help with " stuff", we done done😂

[@tianickolemua2355]

I, Tia, deserve all good things without struggle and enjoy those good things out loud! Amen!🤗

[@skabeads]

We deserve all good things with ease and enjoys them unapologetically

[@debbienamugayi3503]

The end brought me to tears, it was very affirming to hear you repeat that. I needed that!

[@anastasiamukamusoni6828]

yes we are. the best people. We deserve every good thing.

[@tamara9762]

I deserve all good things without struggle!

[@jjeannette1277]

All black women Deserve All Good Things without struggle and we enjoy those good things OUT LOUD!!!!!

[@jjeannette1277]

Black women Deserve to be loved ❤🎉

[@sowsweetdeborahallen7256]

There is nothing you can do to be more loved, treated better, viewed as valuable. This is soooooo true!!! Stephanie you have been speaking to me for along time!!!

[@user-gh2lj7mc2g]

100% Spot On! They want to use women of color laboe for their ease. Dr. Claude Anderson wrote a book, "Black Labor, White Wealth".

[@JenJHayden]

thank you for this. I'll check it out

[@MegPank]

I'm beginning my 5 year (hopefully sooner, though) plan to move abroad. My plan is to start getting my finances in order, and finding remote work that I can do anywhere, as well as passive income streams. I'm also following/watching channels and creatives like Stephanie Perry, Blaxit Global, and Thea Duncan to get info and tips to prepare for moving abroad. I'm also going to sign up for Stephanie's house-sitter school. I DESERVE ALL GOOD THINGS WITHOUT STRUGGLE, AND i DESERVE TO ENJOY THEM OUT LOUD!! 🙂❤

[@ladonnawashington1643]

This was like my favorite flan: DELICIOUS. I scribbled notes on the back of junk mail like I was in a lecture hall so good we’re the nuggets of information and quotable soundbites. The bit about rejecting Black Excellence brought tears to my eyes. I’m going to marry a NOT Black man who adores me and supports my want and need to live life on my own terms. Doing so will allow me to give my time to the volunteer passions that make my heart sing. Thank you from my hearts bottom ❤

[@nikitadm5]

I love fall and winter😂. It gives me a reason to wear my cozy sweaters and boots. Yes to not having to move in silence. So many of us are living in survival mode though. It takes healing and a supportive community for us to feel safe living out loud.

[@user-ym5cd4nt3w]

Good day! Listening 🎧 from Texas.

[@ladyashephd727]

I L❤VE Black woman 👠♀️

[@melaningoddess7310]

I approve this message. ❤✊🏾💯🇿🇦

[@voilecohen3652]

I enjoy listening to you immensely. You are transparent, wonderful, and honest. Most importantly you love your people. I appreciate you…

[@kailisanderson6686]

Confession…I like the winter ❄️❄️❄️ actually hate the heat! Love y’all though ha

[@pamelar.edwards2617]

I desire community but that’s something I haven’t had in my adult life. I have had bad experiences with other black women as well but I give my sisters a pass a lot because I know being a black woman is hard and it can be worse without support. I do agree with the “live out loud “ saying regardless of what unhappy people think. Thank you for the affirmation and positive words.

[@freespirit-111]

We all desire community and connection,but building community requires communication, opening up and being vulnerable, that’s how we bond and form relationships. The conundrum is that we’ve all been hurt in the past, we’ve all been traumatized to a certain extend, therefore making it difficult to trust.

[@JenJHayden]

​@@freespirit-111those are lessons not to do it again. my life improved when I stopped opening up and being vulnerable with people that don't know me. an elder once told me, " if they won't be at your bedside, they don't deserve your story." so I keep it surface level and cordial and encouraging. my story is special and not for everyone. i learned that the hard way. ❤

[@MsLotusBlooms]

I wish we could escape. The internet is hell. I wish we could create our own KZbin just for bw. A refuge for us to have safe space that is nurturing and healthy.

[@Mesofine4652]

Amen! We deserve Peace and Happiness!

[@aquamoon1935]

I love your message girl! Keep doing what you do and all the other ladies that encourage us to live better. We got this! Much love form the cold weather in Detroit. Lol.

[@africandreamsinhaze365]

I love winter. I have a small collection of faux furs I enjoy wearing, there are no flies and mosquitos during winter, the blanket of snow makes everything look so pretty, I enjoy snow days with hot chocolate. I don't think I would be happy for long without experiencing winter😊

[@BacktoBasics1]

Hello Stephanie and sistas! I am watching the replay 🎉

[@kalirhodes3666]

“Your internet is bad and your restaurants hate you” 😂😂😂

[@anastasiamukamusoni6828]

Good morning everyone. From DFW Texas

[@lalat5899]

❤

[@denisechilds2391]

Denise Deserves all good things without struggle, stress, or strife, and Denise enjoys these things Out loud!!!!!!!!+

[@kailisanderson6686]

Chris Rock “Life is long, especially if you make the wrong decisions!” 😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@Changin4Me]

Hello! I’m watching the replay. Thanks so much Stephanie for helping me feel empowered and deserving of peace, happiness, and respect!

[@melissaforbes2173]

You put out good and it’s what you get back. We are the best..❤

[@tamsparris-bah8283]

Some of us just need to take time out to heal from the trauma and toxicity we've had to deal with our whole lives. It's great to get out of the rat race, focus on ourselves and cultivate a peaceful, loving and fulfilling life.

[@dews3340]

ADDED LATER, this week I received 7 bunches of FRESH CUT FLOWERS sitting in the 🛏️ bedroom & bathroom................. From the wood burning sauna this afternoon , just the 2 of us

[@drayblack8776]

Ah man I'm watching the replay and it's really hitting home... Job doesn't serve me anymore.

[@fdoctor79]

What a POWERFUL affirmation, Stephanie! 😊 I also subscribe to Goodness and Mercy shall follow me all the days of my life. Tfs

[@sayyidahthewriter]

Sayyidah, you don’t have to live like this! I enjoy all good things and I deserve to enjoy them out loud.

[@MediterraVegan]

Sherimane deserves all the best and I enjoy them out loud!!

[@tgsg858]

I got engaged and i then saw the nastiness come out of women close to me. What was suppose to be a happy occasion was also a loss for me because it exposed women in my life that I thought were my support system. I didn’t even end up marrying the guy.

[@jaiyabyrd4177]

😳Say What❓😳

[@mosesdennis9060]

Good morning Step

[@ritahillman1069]

I love you Stephanie! You are my inspiration and I am preparing myself to live better!

[@jaiyabyrd4177]

🌿🌿I truly love this Channel. Thank you Stephanie for creating a safe & kind place for Black Women 41:56 👿Dang Themis & Thot can't stay out of the Ladies Room and Conversation

[@fiercefab711]

I agree one hundred percent with you!!! My new mantra 😀

[@breezluize3282]

"Rest reparations." Yes!

[@LakiasWeightLossJourney]

Lakia deserves all good things without struggle!

[@marciajames9434]

Like DC also but if only I would stop getting lost driving inside DC lolol; I've had folks who live there tell me they too get lost sometimes 🤣

[@Hello_Pri]

Such a great conversation, thank you.

[@melissaforbes2173]

Hello. After a very stressful night in the hospital, I get to come home to watch you on youtube and crack the HELL up..

[@lesliewilliams9072]

All this talk of rest is making me think fondly of Octavia Raheem and Exodus Summit 2023!

[@melissaforbes2173]

Amen sista

[@vinylwaif]

Here for the replay and to absolutely claim everything I want without the struggle ❤❤❤❤

[@lesliewilliams9072]

Stephanie - you are crochet curious!🧐

[@ladonnawashington1643]

I caught that too! Made me happy. I was crocheting as I listened to this Live recap. When she learns, she will never stop. It’s that addicting. I’ve been crocheting since 8th grade.

[@medicaltourismrn812]

Stephanie you are going to LOVE Grenada 🇬🇩. It’s beautiful and the people are so nice.

[@karenmoore1477]

❤the content thank you

[@janespitfire9884]

Thank you. You are right .... I cannot deal with rude people family or not....leave them alone.I go as nomad around ATL easier that way

[@virtualcreativecollaborations]

♥️ Beautiful Blessings

[@worthwhileproductions6929]

Thank you for your message Stephanie Perry. God Bless you and the truth you are spreading.❤❤

[@ShayChenette]

Love this! Great perspective ❤

[@ladyashephd727]

Your Station is Amazing ❤

[@medusaslocoasisathome9142]

I love this for us!!!!!

[@snupjohn]

Good afternoon from Atlanta!

[@Toke8572]

Thank you Stephanie ❤. Watching the replay 😊

[@victoriagraham4376]

Good morning ladies

[@aliciaogburn519]

Beautiful ❤️❤️

[@sowsweetdeborahallen7256]

Love you Stephanie ❤

[@journeywithjackie3874]

Good morning!!

[@bernicethompson5618]

Good afternoon, from Decatur GA

[@stoddarthenningham7377]

Thank you for this video ❤❤

[@amenuf]

Good Day (replay )

[@misstownes]

Better!

[@joelduvall5679]

Goodness and ease

[@celestialj5908]

Thank you for your journey and community.

[@gwendolynblue4149]

Queen you awesome

[@patriciawilliams1375]

I am glad to be here

[@denisechilds2391]

Good afternoon Stephanie, watching replay, 😊

[@tomikomoore4557]

Very informative.

[@gesmaypaynter632]

Good morning from UK

[@pebbleministryinc.6013]

Replay good morning ❤

[@kiva5619]

Hi Stephanie! I’m watching the replay, watching and hearing you say the affirmation with each woman’s name, so powerful!!! You deserve all the flowers 💐

[@denicagilmer7951]

Watching the replay from Ohio

[@jaderoyale-brown]

Good Day, I’m watching the replay on 11/5/23. Residing in Atlanta GA

[@donnaanderson5669]

Good morning sister

[@Tee_n_FerrisB]

Yess, Black Jessica Fletcher! I’m catching the replay and the mission statement/affirmation is right on time.

[@kd568]

TBH, I only ‘rejoined’ FB to be in community with Exodus Summit, HouseSitting, and Blaxit Communities.

[@emmk737]

Good afternoon from Malaysia.

[@kailisanderson6686]

Yay Caribbean housesit!!!

[@eleanorday1854]

This video was so needed for me to see. It made me smile and almost tear up simultaneously. New sub ❤

[@melissaforbes2173]

Do less, do less…Love the slogan.

[@sukilee2486]

Buena Tardes

[@dcmomma14]

Watching the replay😂😂 Stephanie you are so funny! I love watching your channel. I'm really close to quitting that job.

[@user-gh2lj7mc2g]

Watching from the future. Good Night everyone.

[@MsArtelia]

Hi there Stephanie 👋😊