Black Women Celebrate Colorism But Nobody Cares!?

Black Women CELEBRATE Colorism But Nobody Cares!?
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[@medesrevenge9192]

LMAO!!! This discussion is about 40 yrs too late. As a dark skin dude that grew up in the 80's it always cracks me up to hear black women scream and cry about "colorism" when nobody practiced it and pushed it harder than them. But now that black women see it as a form of rejection it is a big problem. LMAO!!!!

[@justiceforjuicy9795]

Yep-It’s so annoying to hear them gleefully lie about this.

[@BluEx22329]

They're playing victim Olympics to cover up their colorism

[@freddywayne]

This has always been the desire of Black women since forever! They prefer lighter skin and soft, easy to manage hair (a.k.a. Good Hair). 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@GoldXBlackXKing]

Let them have their mixed babies 😂

[@blackexcellence4166]

When bw see a black newborn for the first time , they first check for the baby's skin tone , eyes color and hair texture. The closer those are to caucasians' , the prettier to them . That's the epitome of colorism . A bw on a Dennis Spurling's stream said something we all knew all along.That bw never abort mixed kids , only the full black ones ...

[@Exodus26.13Pi]

My white friend has been approached more than once to get a women pregnant with no strings attached. They didn't want dark babies. Disgraceful

[@D13vest]

I have said this for years. BW will show disdain or curse the child if it comes out too black from the womb. This is why Beyonces daughter got attacked when she was born.

[@elmahdi5]

Black men primarily don't care about a womans complexion. Black men want feminine, fit, and friendly women.

[@prid6427]

Bro a man literally passed away(KS) saying this....and BW are playing dumb....or at least I think they're playing 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@prid6427]

@Ingoc Its NOT about their "dark" skin color. It about their OVERweight apperance and their unruly mannerisms/attitude!! BW especially darker skin ones leave that part out!🤦🏿‍♂️

[@k-dot2427]

@@ingoc8446 yeah you have some blck men that are like that but men, black men in general, don’t care about complexion. They just want a feminine, fit, and friendly women. Men are simple.

[@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701]

Don't lie. That's true for broke black men maybe. Rich black men and economically stable black men have made clear that they have preference or liking for any type of women; except dark women.

[@justiceforjuicy9795]

@@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701sigh-we really get tired of arguing this with you all No bw of any complexion who are attractive, fit, feminine and friendly are complaining about being alone. Y’all need to stop feeding yourself lies.

[@malarki5]

In my experience and observation it's primarily women...i.e. mothers, aunts 'n' other female elders who advocate for colorism. This is something so normal in the Black community globally.

[@ChezCharde]

You’re not the first person to tell me this.

[@BluEx22329]

A lot of black single mothers have mixed babies

[@RahsRant]

Yup Str8 erasing real blk ppl.Its disgusting

[@RahsRant]

@theesquireofsports7251 With women of our community like this,who needs enemies.Smh.They are retarded

[@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701]

Most of them I have seen have had black kids.

[@_---__]

If I hear another woman say "skinned-ed" I'm going to scream 😱

[@raquelrichardson6362]

majority African and Caribbean woman love them pale man and light skin.

[@DefiesAllStereotypes]

Hypocrisy is rarely a topic BW dwell on (with the obvious and brilliant exception of Chez Charde), unless it is directed at them. When it comes to interracial dating, dating overseas, colorism, etc. BW always have two sets of rules.

[@ChezCharde]

Facts 😂

[@goodguy...badrep.]

No lies detected.

[@AxelfoleyTheGreat]

Rashida Strober complains about colorism but admitted she was with a light skin guy. SMH

[@andrezroizaezarel]

All of our complexions are beautiful from the darkest shade of brown to the lighter shades of brown. I’m glad the colorism agenda was never a part of my household or family.

[@MrKavonne]

Yess 🤫 they don't won't to talk about that though smh.

[@ChezCharde]

Not popular at all

[@toughloveyo]

@@ChezCharde this show these black folks have a immigrants back round. They are not black American nobody on the show is black American. Black immigrants female have this fake colorism scam going on As for black Americans females it who got the best coochie and best sex game 🎯

[@moenlighted7681]

@@ChezCharde just a genuine question. Paris Milan is married to a Nigerian and promotes interracial marriage and said the Africans sold us not white man meaning the white man isn't an oppressor instead the west African is the oppressor. Do you think someone with such deep hatred can%m sustain a relationship or love genuinely.

[@D13vest]

@@moenlighted7681 Shes not married. None of them are married

[@moenlighted7681]

@@D13vest she claims to be married to a Nigerian but I'm wondering who would marry a bitter baby mama drolling over white sausage.

[@RandallW43]

Women aren't race loyal I love hearing this argument. You are free BM to be whomever you want to be with. Remember "I'm strong independent and don't need no man". Do you brothers you are free!

[@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701]

Black women have been loyal to black men. Black men have had freedom since ever. The black race exists for black women. It would've stopped of exist if it would depend exclusively of black men.

[@bashanwashington4801]

The woman at 1:09 literally has the same situation like my coworker. My coworker has 2 or 3 kids with a Puerto Rican man and was with him for 21 years and never was married. The hypocrisy of a lot of black women that they will never talk about

[@liveinwisdom3610]

Projections. Anytime, I hear sisters complain about b/men. I always test to see if those same accusations, apply to them, and 9/10 it always does. Especially this "b/men, just want white w/man for light skin babies and social status!", there are definitely black men, like that, but I have come across much more sisters with that mentality. This is why, they will gladly date a lame white guy, but never a lame black guy, because a white man, that is a 5, is really a 8, for this type of b/wman, whereas a average black guy, is a 3 to them.

[@ChezCharde]

Whiteness is seen as a social status in these cases so anytime a sista can marry out she may lower standards somewhere else because whiteness can cover over other areas where he is lacking.

[@liveinwisdom3610]

@@ChezCharde Exactly, you said it much better than me.

[@prid6427]

You and @Chez Charde said it PERFECTLY!!

[@ericdeadmon401]

@@ChezCharde As the late David Carroll always said, "His white skin covers up a multitude of sins and imperfections"

[@xocolatl3682]

I'm dark as 2 am and have always been pursued by lighter women or non-black in general. I've also heard my whole life from these women that they wanted a tall, dark, and handsome man. Dark-skinned bw call us colorist but in reality if you don't love your own dark-skin you can't possibly love mine...

[@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701]

You have been who have persued light skinned women and white skinned women perhaps. It's not a secret for anybody that dark skin men have demostrated to be the most colorists.

[@xocolatl3682]

@@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701 I never chased women of any race. Every woman I dealt with pursued me.

[@sdneytaco2226]

Lol dark skinned women KNOW dark skinned men DONT want them. Duhhh

[@D13vest]

Cynthia Gs entire family did this but it didnt work out well

[@goodguy...badrep.]

Thank you for talking about this. Never heard a man say "I want mixed babies".

[@ChezCharde]

Literally!

[@rhondell]

Not many men will vocalize that but it’s the same for some of them. I have heard two men actually say it. Some BW self esteem has been so damaged they don’t want their child to experience it. Do I agree either way, no but it boils down to self hate for both men and women. We’re continuing with the slave mentality within our own race. Peace

[@justiceforjuicy9795]

@@rhondellstop pretending like this is equally distributed between bm and bw. This is overwhelmingly a bw issue that they’ve projected to bm, like everything else treacherous that they do. 🛑 it.

[@justiceforjuicy9795]

@@rhondellnot many men will vocalize it because not many men care about this crap. Trust me.

[@Qbabe2448]

I have 🤷🏽‍♀️.

[@BELLARINGS]

Unfortunately I am a result of this. My mother is dark skinned & my father is very lightskinned with the intent to make my mother’s children (especially her daughter) as light as possible. Besides… my eldest brother is half white…

[@ChezCharde]

This is not uncommon! Many black folks have older folks in the family who played into it as a way of survival. I don’t judge them because in the era was much more outwardly hostile but can help to bring clarity to the self hate that impacts us today

[@BELLARINGS]

@@ChezChardeI agree. Unfortunately there are psychological affects to these children that also aren’t discussed either. Good video Chardé!

[@BluEx22329]

Wild

[@BluEx22329]

My mom's 1st husband is lightskin but she blew it with him. My dad (her 2nd husband) is dark skin. She takes it out on him all the time cuz she ain't with her 1st husband no more

[@BluEx22329]

@@BELLARINGS you should do a vid talking about it

[@rafaelphillips6995]

It’s BW who colorism.

[@inphanta]

Really glad you made a video on this. So let me now tell you about my experience. I’m a black man of Caribbean descent from the UK, and all the colourism I saw growing up came from my mother, who always put light skinned black people on a pedestal. My dad on the other hand never did this. I visited the Caribbean with my mum and sister when I was 17 and we stayed at my granddad’s house. I had a holiday fling with a local girl who, like myself was dark skinned. Her complexion was not something I even thought about until my mum started talking disparagingly about how she was “black as the ace of spades” and saying “wouldn’t you prefer a girl who could give you children with straighter hair?” I brushed those comments off but was shocked she even thought that way. Over the years she’d make similar colourist comments (one that stands out is “One day when we get to heaven we’ll find out why god decided to make some of us dark”). When I challenged her about these views one day, she brushed them off rather condescendingly by saying “You don’t understand because you weren’t born in the Caribbean”. What of course she could not understand herself was that being born in what is essentially a white country (ie the UK), arguably makes the colourism conversation even more vital. Despite all of this, I never internalised her colourist thinking, but I’d wager that a lot of black men who’ve aired such tendencies probably have mothers much like my own. In short and as you mention, colourism is not unique to one gender in the black community, but only seems to be an issue when black men do it.

[@ChezCharde]

Wow!This is very powerful thanks for sharing. I might want to have a call in show about this

[@inphanta]

@@ChezCharde I definitely think you should. It would be good to see if any other black men first heard colourist talk from their mothers growing up.

[@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701]

What you say is certain. Some black mothers have instilled colorist tendencies in their children. Which is a shame. I'm glad you didn't internalize any of those bad attitudes your mother has taught you. Dark skin is an icon of blackness and having it or being associated with people who have it should be something to be proud of. Dark skin make women look hot AF in addition.

[@marvl6472]

I believe you, I notice a few sistas also speak about how colorism their moms are..even Oshay spoke about how his grandmother told him to not bring a dsbw home..and he is ds himself

[@marvl6472]

Most times this colorism issue is brought up its from those from Africa and Caribbean..and BAW need to stop listening to these women on their Anti-BAM rants

[@aliyahharmon9045]

Some wise men once said “cheers to more light skin babies”

[@notchthrowed]

When i was 18 a chick wanted me to pregnant her because she wanted a light skin baby. I didn't know how to feel about that

[@Blackout300]

My African friends used to say I’m not black. I was offended until I understood what being black was. Your blackness only exist in the context of whiteness. Places where everyone is melanated, no one is black. So yeah colorism is an white vs. black thing for the most part. Of course black women have always been able to date other groups of men that were lighter or whiter and no one says a word. Only black men get ridiculed for colorism. Everyone else it’s just their preference.

[@ChezCharde]

BINGO!!!

[@KNGDDDE]

Yep. Ion fw pale women but for brothers who do... I'm mind my bidness. . Ion even take so-called bw seriously

[@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701]

Colorist and anti blackness behaviors against the people of the contrary sex have been developed for black men much more.

[@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701]

Colorism is not a white vs. black thing.

[@Blackout300]

@@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701 sorry it is. I’m not even sure you know what colorism is if you can’t comprehend what I said .

[@blackmagic6]

Thank you for the work that you do.

[@rg9626]

This has been going on since the 18th century, Read the books Daughters of the Trade and Children of uncertain fortune. Even another book called Jamaica Ladies: Slaveholders of the Atlantic. Yes unconsenual things did take place but there were unions to better ones means of life, to the point there was an excerpt in a book saying how BW and Mixed race women would even want to marry a poor white, and now the same spirit back then is here now thriving again unfortunately and you see divestment everywhere now.

[@KeysOfMoab7Five]

Meanwhile I just want healthy children.

[@kandace3155]

100% I see this in women more than men. It's not just black women though, as a mixed woman, white women have also told me that they want babies that look like me.

[@Brother_Dre1900]

This is a timely message...

[@siriusshabazz7746]

Even on the islands were most people are black they deal with colorism.

[@LutherMahoney]

Daughters of the Trade.

[@darkpower6406]

The BAF is the real colorist!

[@jonnygetdown]

Facts

[@najahriatkins]

They be getting evicted too

[@ChezCharde]

Dang

[@standup1968]

I think colorism is a major issue in the black community and yes I've seen women fuel it just or even more then men. I've been rejected by black women of different completion because of my complexion but those same women would demonize black men for the same views. I've seen dark complexion black women openly say they'd only date a dark complexion black man or white man but exclude brown or lighter complexion black men. Make that make sense. Alot of people have undiagnosed trauma that guides their actions and belief system. For some people being dark is their automatic default. Some one rejects them because their dark, didn't get a job because their dark. Any an everything bad or unfavorable is because their dark no other possible reason. I'm brown complexion black man so I only like white women or lightskin an all that dump shit.

[@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701]

Read the definition of colorism. You are a colorist in addition. Dark people are the real black people.

[@aishefasani5635]

I hear my employees say this all the time lol. They once said I should hire lighter skinned men smh. So crazy because they are all black!

[@busyrand]

Dark skinned women are typically very lukewarm to me in terms of dating. Women my color or darker, and girls with glasses typically don't like me. However, light skin sistahs, Afro Latinas, and blond whyte women like me a lot...

[@shadowbanned777]

I want Rich MELINATED children 🤴🏿👸🏿👼🏿

[@suziepickes702]

Said no black men ever

[@shadowbanned777]

@@suziepickes702 Your not in a position to assume that and you just saw 1. U Dum B*... Stop forcing pessimism.

[@barbieoutabox80]

You are a very beautiful human beings just as beautiful as any color every color is beautiful it's just too bad every color has rotten in it too but I'm here to tell you you are not a rotten when you are beautiful

[@sandybongos3836]

Figuratively speaking its been institutionalize within the household upbringing grandma's aunties, press the issue, especially in Brazil, JUST think about the Skin bleaching in Jamaica 🇯🇲, Africa 🌍 India 🇮🇳 this feeds into Anti darkness, and causes self indignation

[@johnniehilson9972]

The mothers perpetrated this on level of epic portions.. They project those insecurities on to black men..

[@KeepitOneHunnedGrand]

Didn’t they go at 50 for this?

[@shaunw638]

All you have proven is that there is colorism on both sides. My mother is of Creole descent from Louisiana and my father is Jamaican. My father is dark skinned and my mother is light skinned. My father admitted he chose my mother specifically because she was lighter and he didn’t want his children to be as dark as him. So why are you all being one sided when you are realizing that its wrong for BW to be one sided?

[@BluEx22329]

My mom's 1st husband was lightskin 🤔

[@siriusshabazz7746]

I don't think I had it much easier in life for being light skin, I definitely had it easier in dating though. But I do remember growing up light and ninjas wanting to try you constantly. I was in like 20 fist fights by the time I was out of high-school and mainly because they thought I was sweet or hating or a chick.

[@Daddyboy948]

Welcome to matriarchy community i

[@tal9973]

God is King His son Jesus is returning pleae have a relationship with Him

[@Rubrick23.]

Bottom line woman created what they now compete with. So now they blame bm.

[@nonyabiz12]

This all ties into how we've been systematically taught to hate ourselves. I just wonder what they would say if they saw what Jesus actually looked like?🤔

[@BluEx22329]

You have spam in your comments

[@achanloki1843]

Hmmm this video don’t sit right.

[@ChezCharde]

It’s not a fun topic to discuss

[@Divineniijigamer]

This ain't nothing new but we're Indians Niiji not Black African Americans.

[@wc4074]

Pretendian

[@BluEx22329]

Same difference

[@ismarjovannypalaciosmena.1701]

😂 Indians do not look like you do look.

[@Divineniijigamer]

Research history

[@wc4074]

@@Divineniijigamer fairytales aren’t real

[@tcaseyfba4518]

And a lot of these teathers are from Africa & The Caribbean they are not FBA women that lady is lying..