Blaire White Gets Vulnerable

[@adnamakeany]

This is why Blaire is so protective over children.

[@Matthew-ij3zm]

And the fact that people dismiss that and act like she's just a nazi going after minorities is insane.

[@mysteryyyy]

​@@Matthew-ij3zm masses always dismiss the different one. Blaire is not like today's lgbt people. It is easier to go with the masses and be a brainless zombie than actually think for yourself. Blaire is nothing like that, which is why they hate her sm. She's so brave to be doing this.

[@saltycat662]

​@Matthew-ij3zm They said they're coming for the children. Which is why Gays Against Groomers was formed.

[@TheCc064]

“Blaire” is a narcissist.

[@Diewolustigist]

@@TheCc064 narcissism also can be trauma respond. if you can focus to yourself , you can protect your own in yourself. But nontheless, call someone narcissist without being her therapist is without meaning.

[@BlaireWhiteX]

I can't belive the breakthrough you were able to push me to have. Thank you for facilitating this experience, David!!

[@JR-id4mo]

Thank you for sharing this! As someone with similar trauma it was really eye opening to watch how this therapist worked with you. Personally I do believe that see you as yourself, I definitely dont glorify you but I respect you. You're definitely more than a quick KZbin video and more complex than a character or celebrity. We don't know you, we know what you've shared with us, but there's lots more to a person that unless you meet them face to face, you just cannot know or fully get. I hope you find this journey healing and that you can feel safe to knock a few windows into those walls ❤, coming from someone who has walls herself.

[@ZZlove77]

I know you don’t really respond to messages but I just wanted to say thank you for what you do. It really is appreciated.

[@Lucifleur73]

Thank you for allowing us to be part of such a private and vulnerable piece of your life. You doing this has helped me and so many people. You are a precious gem to this world, and you are very much loved and appreciated. ❤

[@jimiace9797]

Awesome way to give insight into yourself!

[@roni1384]

Thank you for all you do Blaire. ❤️

[@DramaticTrumpet]

My hearts go out to all the kids who didn’t have a dad to protect them.

[@Thoth_BC]

It's soooo many that's it's insanely sad. Where I'm from it seems like the norm and the kids dads go make other kids and continue the terrible trends. But there are some amazing single mothers who are doing some amazing jobs

[@poopyfartballs5363]

Thank you ❤ means a lot to me

[@Alexorwhateverr]

Thank you

[@Raphaeltheslayer]

@@Thoth_BCbut you gotta admit you can only do so much as one person

[@Thoth_BC]

@@Raphaeltheslayer oh I know I watch my mom do it, be stressed, depressed, struggle emotionally and financially but still kept it strong for me and I was able to to help her when I was old enough. Remember mowing lawns and raking leaves for some cash and boys making fun of me because I was a girl doing "boys/men" work. But I didn't care I needed to help my mom because my donor (can't call him a dad) and decided he had better things to do than help the child he made with my mother. Going and making more children he couldn't take care of. I'm sorry I'm not trying to be sexist or anything but man many men are horrible when they do that to women and children

[@ness0388]

I literally burst into tears when he took the bat and screamed at her dad for her. I needed that . Lemme take that to therapy this week.

[@meowmix238]

same, i totally lost it once he said that.

[@Thoth_BC]

Ugh it was too much but was soo good. Fuck my dad, fuck Blaire's dad, fuck all the dad's who are trash.

[@11risingphoenix22]

Me too

[@nataliej82]

That for sure was a powerful moment. I felt it too.

[@nicolevarnam2290]

Absolutely! It hit me so hard that I choked and started crying like a baby. Very powerful 💙

[@marcusdib]

This made me cry too...Blaire is such an amazing human being! Nice work David!

[@whiteraven4590]

Amazing therapist, and an amazing Blaire ❤️

[@brittanydelacruz4694]

I cried at the end, when he screamed stay away from her, and she started crying. I literally bawled. It was such a beautiful moment, in grateful for blaire and her honesty on this

[@Alexorwhateverr]

I BAWLED OUT too. Omg i haven’t cried like that in so long. That hit my soul

[@Hello_hey]

Same here!

[@JadedJarvis]

It didnt make me cry. But its late at night and i got tired eyes so that probably affects me. Not to say it doesnt make me feel sympathy for Blaire. I respect and love Blaire. I just wish she had a better father figure.

[@hellenepatriot]

I literally cried too. THe power it had was crazy. It broke my soulto see her cry like that.

[@wrh41]

It was nice to see Blaire transition from intellectualizing her pain to actually expressing it.

[@gracetruthandlight]

His

[@fashupora5487]

@@gracetruthandlightjustify your reasoning for you commenting on every single persons comment.

[@FELCURE]

​@@gracetruthandlight yadda yadda if someone looks like a woman just call them she

[@ChristianF15cher]

Pun intended?

[@gracetruthandlight]

@@fashupora5487 no thanks.

[@kuschelfreddy]

Look at Blaire's body language. She's so controlled. It's like there is a wall to protect herself. I'm glad he got a little bit behind that wall so she can let go and find a way to trust people and let herself be loved. I hope she finds her happy place where she doesn't have to protect herself from the people around herself and can just be free and not controlled.

[@rocksy3480]

I started crying like crazy when he was acting protective over her. I feel like I knew exactly how she was feeling at the moment.

[@naomi-so5sr]

Omg same here!

[@NayshaMolina]

I agree. Me too. I never had that. And I just teared up and allowed myself to cry. So powerful.

[@Matthew-ij3zm]

This video needs to blow up and go viral so bad. Not only because I want more people to know David and understand Blaire, but because this is definitively very healing, and I say this as someone who's been very skeptical about therapy my whole life.

[@klbklbklb]

Wow, I feel your comment Matthew! I am so skeptical of therapy and the handful of times I tried, It has been so useless and eyerolling for me. As a parent, I just wanted to reach into my computer and wrap my arms around Blaire and hug her. I wish I could find a therapist like David!

[@Queen0fHearts0520]

​@@klbklbklbI totally get what you're saying. I was where you are at. Don't give up!! It can take awhile to find a therapist that really sees you and hears you. I finally found mine and it has truly changed my life. You will find yours, keep looking. 🙂

[@JoppingBen10Fan]

Honestly this video just makes me love and respect Blaire even more.

[@writtenbyrenat3106]

Christopher from Gilmore girls therapy session with Blair White was not on my 2024 bingo card😂

[@ClementineDaydream]

Shut up!!! I only just noticed that’s who this was, thanks to you! What a fully circle moment for me.

[@astridway4240]

no fr I had to do a big double take

[@KDFL-hf3ds]

omg thank you! I knew he looked familiar but couldnt figure out why lol

[@4rr0wss]

OHHH THATS WHERE HES FROM LOL

[@doireallyhavetoask]

Omg he quit acting to become a therapist! I love him even more now. Two of my special interests have converged

[@IsidorTheNordicGuy]

What the heck happened?! I felt like I got something through this video i have needed for so long. Seeing him act protective for her made me cry like a child. I never ever thought about this but it explains why i am always on guard and never relaxed. My mind is blown! Thank you and thank you Blair (i am one of your followers btw) for doing this amazing video.

[@Hello_hey]

I had the same reaction! Lol such an amazing therapy technique and execution! ❤ we’ll be okay maybe? 😅

[@IsidorTheNordicGuy]

@@Hello_hey Shared experience 😄 The reaction alone makes us stronger i think so we’ll be fine 😊 There will always be someone to talk to when needed, that’s what’s so amazing about the internet. Hope you’re ok and that you’ll have an awesome day 😉

[@Hello_hey]

@@IsidorTheNordicGuy Agreed. - to everything you said😅 And likewise, have fun doing life today/in future todays! 😆

[@ID_PHOTOGRAPHY]

The moment when you didn't realize you needed to hear what was said in the video, until you did and realize that you're not the only one who has had these experiences. Even when you are alone in life, you're never alone in experience.

[@morcchoppa]

❤

[@batdyke3065]

I love Blaire opening up, so many people think she’s heartless but she says ugly truths instead of the beautiful lies that people want to hear. And I love how she says when she was young she was very almost timid and she’s so strong now and takes no shit and I love that growth.

[@gracetruthandlight]

He

[@fashupora5487]

@@gracetruthandlightaw poor baby

[@aabracadavra]

It's he. He knows he's a man. You don't have to sustain a delusion.

[@batdyke3065]

@@gracetruthandlight hmmm looks like a she to me

[@gracetruthandlight]

@@fashupora5487 aw poor baby, can't figure out which bathroom to use cuz mommy's on cr💩ck.

[@nataliej82]

This is the only kind of therapy I would trust to be authentic. This channel needs to go viral and has the potential to help so many people.

[@sutcliffedavid]

🙏🙏

[@winkles2314]

Sharing something like this is huge. Mad respect

[@chrissyscholl816]

"I AM Blaire. Because I created her" is one of the most inspiring things I've ever heard her say tbh. It's so very simple yet profound. You don't have to be trans to re-create the person you are. Just be whatever and whoever you choose at whatever time you choose to do it. Because it feels good to you... Not because you're wanting to please anyone else or gain approval. Break those cycles and change your family history. ❤ I love Blair! She's such a gift! I'm glad she uses her mind and her voice to not only heal her own trauma but in return helps people heal their own as well. The best part is she doesnt even try to do this. She just does because shes just genuinely herself.

[@gracetruthandlight]

Him

[@Autumn_Atomic]

​@@gracetruthandlightokay karen

[@m.c.7741]

Love Blaire but she’s not a little bit autistic and that’s offensive to autistic people.

[@J1853]

​@gracetruthandlight :Get your eye sight checked hon.I hate lying and that's literally a woman over there.I don't give a sh*t about which chromosomes you have.If someone looks like a woman then I am gonna refer to her as a woman.

[@gracetruthandlight]

@@Autumn_Atomic OK CracKaren. Still him.

[@noctemheart]

I immediately started crying at the end when he yelled for her 😔🖤 I can only imagine the emotions that were brought back to the surface. WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH BLAIRE 🖤🤘🏼💞🫂

[@onepartyroule]

We’re on different sides of the political spectrum but I respect the eff out of Blaire for her forthright lack of bs when talking about her life; her experience of GD and transition, and the whole transgender cultural phenomenon. I’m so glad her voice is out there.

[@ANathan-qo5yq]

Please know she isn’t the only one!! We are out there

[@birichinaxox9937]

Same

[@gracetruthandlight]

His

[@alyssamariah235]

@@gracetruthandlightoh shut up

[@gracetruthandlight]

@@alyssamariah235 No. Sh💩t up. His.

[@RogueNeighShun]

Blaire is a natural light worker. Doing shadow work with out any "training". She is doing SO MUCH work for the spiritual plane. Keep on keeping on. Everything is in divine perfection.

[@officialchrizzz8766]

I love Blaire... and I have BEEN saying that transition CAN be a result of trauma which is crazy how CLOSE our views ARE even the "nothing we do is real" part, WOW. The fact that some people cannot admit that transitioning can be a result of trauma shows how UNAWARE of the trauma they are. A good example is non-binary people, and while I don't really care about pronouns or ANYTHING of that nature, I do understand that the human mind can go as far as hating BEING female or male or even existing as a HUMAN/living being, SO MUCH so that we end up LABELING ourselves "NOTHING"... which can come as a result of trying to stay alive with the trauma of sexual abuse/harassment/unwanted attention running in the background. You become this person who has been SO demoralized to the point that you don't even care about your gender. I wish people were more open to listening to Blaire about the trauma-transition thing... WOW the emotions...

[@ClementineDaydream]

Truth right here👆🏼

[@lucasessman1910]

Facts

[@mairamanwaring9419]

I agree, and I noticed the trauma trend amongst my homosexual friends, too. I have not yet met a homosexual that has not opened up about SA once our friendship reaches that level. Some will talk about it 1st day, others after we've been through some sh*t, but all have had an experience. If I bring it up, I get attacked, called a bigot or hater. I think censorship is a way to hide truths. We need to learn how to be offended if we want to solve the world's problems.

[@maryamjoha]

So true. Two of my gay friends have told me, point blank, that they know their homosexuality is a result of trauma. One said: "Yeah, I think I am always looking for the masculine love I never got from my POS dad." The other was raised in a cult and her parents were totally bonkers. My friend who calls herself "queer" has both trauma and has had major hormone problems from the time she was a preteen. And then my aunt is likely the way she is as a result of being born in a bombed-out munitions and chemical weapons-creating city with horribly contaminated water (immediately after WWII). Lots of people in that city were born with some degree of hermaphrodism. Sadly lots of countries could care less that poisons in our food, water, and medications are sterilizing our children and citizens.

[@lucasessman1910]

@@maryamjoha nah, I know there’s a correlation, but I think I was born gay, before my dad even had a chance to be a POS to me. I think the effect is actually reversed, and we don’t get loved by our fathers because we’re gay. I think being trans can definitely result from trauma, but it’s definitely not the same for gay men.

[@Mayavhenry]

This was such a bold & brave segment for Blaire to share with us. So much vulnerability and invaluable insight. You have my kudos & respect girl!

[@jamesnorman893]

It takes an extremely strong person to allow themselves to be that vulnerable. I was actually in tears as she excised her pain. We've been a fan/follower of Blaire for years, and hope only the best for her and this was one of those bests.

[@jillianperry5404]

"I became the person the younger me needed" ❤❤❤❤❤ I love this so much!! This is so inspiring. This is a goal society needs to have!!

[@tsrocks2029]

We found out there was insane SA abuse perpetrated against my husbands mom from her father and brother. Somehow she had decided to keep those monsters in her life forever . The brother is still around and we only found this out after the father died . We cut ties with most of that family and she seems to not be able to wrap her head around it because she “forgave”. I will absolutely not put us around this disgusting dangerous person and the disgusting family that all knew and bring young kids around like nothing happened. It’s really damaged our connections with the entire family . It’s unfortunate but we won’t tolerate this. It can be harsh but it’s necessary to stand against abuse.

[@moreamour2869]

So glad you managed that so well!

[@nataliej82]

This is the time for many many people to break the family trauma cycle and release generational trauma.

[@iiyyxxnn]

Forgiveness isn't always real, when you have already accepted something for a long time then that connection may have already formed in a a way that helps one cope. She can deal with it how she likes though.

[@JD-pd3gl]

Ugh I wasn’t expecting the ending to make me cry!!! 😢 He’s acting just like the dad she needed. That’s exactly how my dad would protect me if someone was going to hurt me. I’m so sad Blaire never had that kind of relationship with her dad

[@elizabethschweigl2889]

I feel like most therapists dont encounter someone so intelligent as Blaire. This was probably a good session for not only you, but for the therapist. Beautiful and touching epsiode. I will always love Blaire. As the crazy right wing conservative i am. I LOVE YOU BLAIRE SO GOD DAMN MUCH

[@benm3382]

This will sound so arrogant but I feel this way with my therapist. He even said that he's more used to needing to get people to talk and articulate, whereas I had to explain to him that I need him to reign me in and keep me focused. I'm very intelligent in terms of language and thinking about things but like Blaire it means I'm also very guarded and not as good at confronting how I really feel.

[@sevena.channel]

​@@benm3382relatable.

[@uthoughtu8]

That's my heart right there 🩷 and she will never be R*bert to me in my eyes. Just Blaire. And she doesn't understand she will ALWAYS be protected.

[@jillianperry5404]

Absolutely 100%!! Whether she knows us or not, she's got body guards all over!!! ❤

[@demnoxxy5232]

Why did i think her boy name was Blake :/

[@BasuraVidz]

​@@demnoxxy5232I'm going to pretend that it was. Robert is just too weird of a name for me to process.

[@ThePathOfLeastResistanc]

@@BasuraVidzthat’s rude

[@BasuraVidz]

@@ThePathOfLeastResistanc that's rue from euphoria!!!! So true girl, you got the eyes of a falcon 🦅👁👁

[@Lowey666]

This interview is profound. I just wanna hug her fr. Such a beautiful, self aware soul

[@dayslight247]

I can tell you didn't want to cry when you were doing the exercises but I cried. I cried for you, I cried for me, and I cried for every vulnerable helpless child out there. I hope we all heal ❤

[@Blentifulbollipops86537]

I’d love to have this guy as my therapist lol I never even humored the notion of having a male therapist and my therapist is wonderful but she’s not well articulated like this. I like how he picks around to the root of the issue very quickly

[@Velvet_wings908]

I feel the same.

[@BumbieJen]

This whole interaction felt so warm and safe, I truly admire Blair for her strength and intelligence. Thank you for showing us this side of you

[@airdnaxela420]

I dont know Blair, but watching her release and feeling my own fear out of revealing my inner defenses was very beautiful for me. I'm terrified of releasing my anger and it's actually why I refuse to fight people, but watching this has not only helped me release some very very strong defenses but also be able to have some confidence in my release. Thank you Blair for sharing you here. I'm grateful I came across this.

[@gracetruthandlight]

Him

[@theturtlearchives]

I genuinely hope she knows there’s a lot of people that do not objectify her. I have high respect for her and objectifying and respecting someone is something that really can’t go hand in hand.

[@VesperGray11]

This was a wonderful discussion and I was surprised by how much I took away from it. David I used to watch you on Gilmore Girls back in the day, but this was something I didn’t know you did now. I’ve also been following Blaire for quite a while. I found myself in tears toward the end of the video when you told her she was safe and with the exercise where you take on the role as protector. I work as a nurse and these ideas and therapies would help so many, but to start with I feel like I’ve learned a lot about myself. I didn’t realize I had put up so many walls and how little I trust people. Thank you for sharing this, and Blaire too for being willing to be so open with us, I can’t tell you what this means. You are an inspiration and I hope this is one step on your own journey of healing and fully embracing the wonderful person you are. I would love to see many more interviews just like this. Just thank you.

[@ImStephana]

I love this side of Blair opening up and showing your vulnerable side , I've been Team Blair 4 years and continue to move with her , she's changing me as a person and viewing life differently thank you Blair white ❤️

[@crownhearthands]

Didn't expect him to be the dad I also needed. Damn. 🥺 powerful stuff. Love you Blaire ❤

[@twilightsparkle1412]

The last 20 minutes had me sobbing. I want to hug her so bad. This was incredible to watch and I'm so happy I can watch someone heal. I'm so lucky I had my dad to protect me as a little girl. I will never take that for granted. Thank you Blaire for sharing your healing 🫂

[@83licata]

Thank you David for recording this and thank you Blaire for allowing this therapy session to be recorded. Some people find peace in chaos and need that for stability!

[@aubreylee2360]

this interview/session is so so powerful. I hope everyone who needs it, sees it. thank you both. ❤

[@chelsnels]

Not a fan girl and I don't know you but I FELT and SAW your compassion, sincerity, pain and fear. People dump their trauma and wild shit on you because you are vulnerable, honest and real with them and you make them feel like a safe place, please KNOW that. The same happens to me and it makes me feel good to be trusted. The more vulnerable you are, the more people open up to you. We all have wounds from childhood and sharing your experience is how you are helping heal others which is a brave and admiral thing. You are smart, strong and beautiful. That's what I can see and how I feel about you after watching this.

[@hannahharman4825]

Wow. I did not expect to cry watching this. I’ve always felt so uncomfortable trusting ppl because of childhood trauma and watching that demonstration… I relate so much. I always have felt my purpose is to take care of ppl around me, but I’ve been walked on so much because of it and never let anyone take care of me because it feels fucking awkward. It’s so uncomfortable to let that wall down and watching Blair do it was so motivating to me. Seeing it’s possible. Thank you 💕

[@alexandraRatliff]

Watching that moment at the end didn’t look silly at all. I actually started to cry along with Blair’s before I even noticed she was crying. Partially because hearing those words was intense for my “inner child” but also because I had so much empathy for Blaire as a young child with parents that weren’t there in the way that parents should be. In the way children need their parents to be. Thank you both for doing this vulnerable thing and sharing it with us

[@melinacassadine7617]

Wow, this was a powerful one. I'm over here sobbing! To express this much vulnerability even without being filmed, is so admirable. Add it being recorded and posted online for any and everyone to see, is a wholeeeee nother level. I felt every. single. thing thru my screen. Such a blessing❤

[@countessbathory5360]

I had to pause and restart this multiple times because you both kept saying things that resonated with me so deeply that I had to stop and reflect on it. I was intrigued by how open and even protective she is of the boy she grew up as, instead of hating and dismissing that part of herself.

[@sutcliffedavid]

🙏🙏

[@idkybutwutever]

amen brother!

[@ashlyn.rodriguez]

It's people like Blaire who help me deconstruct what it means to be trans. I agree we should focus on the possible trauma response trans people might be experiencing and if it has a connection to us being trans. It shouldn't take away or invalidate us, but just help us understand ourselves more.

[@yoshiwwaves2767]

As a fan of her it felt cathartic to see the last segment and it made me tear up. I think she doesn't realize that people want to get personal and emotional with her because they can see that she always has to go through everything by herself, and that so many people relate to her desire to isolate and show 0 emotion throughout their lives. Some people want to help her tear those walls down because there's fans of hers out there who really need that for themselves too.

[@MattGalter]

Wow, i cried too. A lot of us really feel neglected by our parent(s), I think I see, now. I didnt even realize I felt some of these things till watching this. I realize its ok to feel be angry, infact, its essential to access certain parts of us and certain pain. And that being angry doesnt make me a bad person, but, actually, mentally narrating over said anger vs just feeling it, is when the real bad stuff happens

[@lcps6805]

Spent 30 minutes watching this thinking "that guy sure looks like Christopher from Gilmore girls" and didn't realize it actually was him until he said he was an actor lol

[@Christina_Moonvibes]

Wow I kept wondering why he looked so familiar to me lol

[@WendyFilice-p9i]

Very eye opening “I thrive when I am not safe”. Some of the controversy she brings up could be repeating her childhood patterns. 😢❤🙏

[@solangelalebron1348]

That's probably why he keeps that boyfriend who you could tell is a dangerous cheater who has unprotected sex with men and other trans and prostitutes, anyone!

[@ElPoliglotaTV]

Where did u get that from?​@@solangelalebron1348

[@АлександарЦветановић]

Beautiful session. You can tell how much value Blaire was able to get out of this experience and it was so beautiful to witness. The moment she was describing herself as this "worthless little person everybody could take their dump on without the fear of consequence" really broke me, I started crying imagining this defenseless human being longing for their parent's love and protection and not getting it, it's such a BASIC thing we all need as children, I felt this great urge to step in and drag her out of that household. It's utterly heartbreaking to imagine the experience, let alone live it, gosh. 💔 And yeah, some people may say that this is what makes us better people in the end...if this is the price of becoming a better person no wonder we're all messed up.

[@tula1433]

One thing that’s interesting about Blaire is that for a latina who was raised around gang culture with her father, she never uses it as a rebuttal to being called a “racist bigot”. ..GIRL that’s your reverse Uno card! Use it! 😂❤

[@charlottelouise9921]

She doesn’t need to stoop to that level to have her points be valid and understood. Those people will just call her self-hating and that she doesn’t understand her own culture, etc.

[@spencerstanford7954]

Thats because Blaire doesn’t need to play race cards. She lives as an accountable person and knows the facts of the matter.

[@halfmoonyogi4997]

I absolutely love this. Thank you so much for sharing. I have been in therapy for childhood trauma but usually therapists take such a cognitive approach, making you tell the story over and over to understand it. Well you can understand, and still not have it processed in your body. I saw a trauma coach for about a year who used somatic and energetic work, and I am 2.5 years into my yoga practice. Moving the energy in my body has been more healing than any cognitive understanding. I want to be a somatic trauma recovery coach, and this was SO cool to watch.

[@slayeralchemist]

You trying to control it all. I felt that hard. Idk why I started to cry. This was intense in a beautiful way. Thank you so much for this.

[@wiggypop1325]

Thank you for being so brave, Blaire. Your courage is going to inspire others to reach out for help...I could feel your pain, I sobbed watching you release the weight of feeling afraid & alone your entire childhood...I know this feeling all too well so it was strangely helpful to me as well. I hope you allow this process to continue off camera because I feel like you're so close to where you want to be in the next chapter of your life...God bless you 🙏

[@laurellyesnot-animations6273]

I have never had such an instaneous emotional response in my life, as I did when David started yelling at Blaire's dad. It was like I had no say in the matter, I immediately started weeping. I am not being dramatic in the slightest, it was like a switch was flipped. David, Blaire, I have so much respect for you both. Thank you David, for being such an emotionally intelligent and perceptive person and using those gifts to help other people. Thank you Blaire, for being vulnerable with us, and sharing this vulnerable moment. I dont take for granted how scary that must have been. Listening to this, deepened my respect for you both, immensely. And the bit at the end, where I was weeping, helped me to heal from some "pretty dark shit" as Blaire would probably say. Im touched, and a little healed as well. Thank you Blaire, for using your god given energy, yes, the one that killed your dad, to help people, and to heal them. I will continue to pray for you as I always have for several years now, because life is hard, and a few extra prayers dont hurt anybody (except the devil I guess) 💛. I wish you all the best Blaire, and only the best.

[@sutcliffedavid]

Thank you!

[@dustinchaney321]

This was so powerful! As a person who is currently undergoing EMDR I really appreciate the openness and willingness to share such a deep & mindful conversation. ❤

[@denisemiller4083]

In my years working as a therapist, I found that many gay, transsexual persons may have become such due to childhood sexual abuse. Blair mentions perhaps her childhood trauma shaped, at least in part her trans identity.

[@sutcliffedavid]

Same

[@harold-thedutchguy]

Great interview. The exercise at the end was intense, beautiful and helpful. Thank you both for this.

[@everydaymama5867]

This opened up some type of feeling deep inside for me. When you stood in front and played the role of protector it brought tears to my eyes. I felt my mom should have protected me from my abuser as a child and she didn't. I felt this soooo much. Thank you for sharing.. Blaire White is an amazing soul

[@yle3307]

Best blaire's interview yet.

[@MusikPerspektive]

Gosh, this interview made me cry. You're incredibly strong and intelligent and courageous, Blaire! I hope you can find some peace in your heart and let your anger come out!

[@LDHulll]

You're such a good therapist.

[@sutcliffedavid]

Thank you.

[@gemmaartner2780]

I'm sorry. Christopher? You are a therapist? That's wild! Also brilliant video!

[@mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm4946]

Not “psychotherapy”. It’s an interview with a somatic therapist …. Basically just calling it therapy for content ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@dc9067]

@@mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm4946 Even better than therapy I guess

[@juniebob4420]

@@mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm4946hes still a good therapist

[@Zizotron]

David. Please make more videos like this. Thank you so much for showing her how to heal. If I had one video to show our generation it would be this.

[@Jcarloscastro1]

Wooooooooow, I'm in tears. That was absolutely beautiful. I love Blaire and I've never seen her this vulnerable, it just makes me more in awe of her. Thank you for opening, both Robert andn Blaire. Incredible.

[@superdave6415]

I was sexually assaulted as a kid too around domestic violence and alcoholics and recently had repressed memories and panic attacks come up ended up in hospital 2 times suicidal

[@poopyfartballs5363]

Hope you are okay ❤

[@DAJ2000]

I hope you are ok too.

[@kutentebi]

Man the exercise part at the end got through me somehow. Just imagining myself doing this in front of someone made me so uncomfortable I felt tears coming.

[@jgam6432]

crying alongside you this is something I think I need

[@yasm0nzzz]

51:00 I personally felt like this part Blaire was struggling to agree with David about not having anyone who will ever understand her fully and how that shouldn't be the case. How can they? I myself feel pride that only I will ever know myself best, it's not a bad thing. You can have people around you who get pretty close but I think it is important to also stop picturing loneliness and certain amounts of isolation as a bad thing. It is very healthy!! Still what a great conversation overall. Thank you both!

[@nicolevarnam2290]

I hope that you two stay in touch. The relief on Blaire's face is so Awesome! I can tell that she was going through a lot of emotions at the end and she her guard go back up. I really hope that she can continue to relieve her feelings that's being held back. I really appreciate both of you uploading this! It's made me want to try this to see if it would help my pain. As a child sa survivor, I still have feelings that I keep locked away for such a long time. Sorry for the long comment. Bless both of you🤘💙

[@WendyFilice-p9i]

Represssed memories, esp of sexual abuse, can come out into your 50’s 😥 That is why it’s so incredibly important to believe victims and hold their abusers accountable. 🙏

[@juniebob4420]

I definitely agree but there's the False Memory Syndrome Association accusing victims coming forward as adults liars. Its so disgusting

[@selarios6893]

I’m so glad I took the time to watch this. I relate so heavily to a lot of the feelings she’s expressing. She really is an amazing example of a person who became who they would they needed as a child. Thank you so much for being Vulnerable for the world to see Blaire. You are not alone in the world. More people relate than you think.

[@eduardomerino8098]

This is such a great video and it was actually therapeutic for me to see Blaire be so honest about her life experiences.

[@jjbean2989]

This is literally so powerful and has my heart seriously. Blaire does so much for SO many communities and when he showed up for her like that I teared up too. Thanks for bringing us with y'all, beautiful healing session. Glad I got put on to the channel.

[@kaileymaccari8993]

I am just so proud watching you hit that cushion and release. I was SCREAMING GET IT GIRRRRL the whole time!!! You are so damn brave. I literally cried with you when he stepped in front of you to protect you. That was all I ever wanted someone to do for me against my mom. I just want to hug you. Sending so much love and light and healing 🩵

[@AntiOmni.]

Nothing but love for Blaire. It was very heartwarming to see a deeper side of her. I know people tend to see her as a figure and forget she's human, so I'm greatful she took this opportunity, and had someone so genuine there to walk with her through it. I'm from the same town a few years younger with similar experiences in childhood, watching her grow both in her career but more importantly within herself has been nothing but motivational and inspirational. Thank you Blaire and thank you David.

[@Elle_Vien]

Mark 27:54 -“Everything we’re doing is a trauma response.” Living our lives in response to what we experienced as children… is vital to how society can be manipulated; and to which direction it will turn. If they get to the children - it builds from that generation to the next and to the next - exactly how we got to where we are today. Exactly how and why Robert & Blaire acclimated to what hand was dealt. The difference in Blaire - is her honesty & openness to discuss her journey. Mark 35:56 - “There’s nobody like you…” - a profoundly powerful statement. Blaire White is truly exceptional, mapping unchartered levels of trauma transformance, with such deep honesty and realism. Her level of awareness is striking. Trauma, flipped upside down, into a human being on mission to heal - not only herself, but all of humanity, especially the children. May we all aspire to such purpose. One of the best, if not the best, self-psychoanalysis interviews I’ve ever heard. Blaire White is so much more than probably she even realizes. Her insights are powerful and wise. As omniscience belongs to only one, Father God, our creator; she rises not, to the complete perfection of wisdom, though far above the commons. It is clear, she is to carry a message, for such a time as this. May her fortitude carry her through. I loved her when I first heard her, I love her still more, today. Keep ‘Fighting’ Blaire, you are soaring through the darkness. May the wrath of God be your Strength, His wisdom your guide. Godspeed ✞🕊

[@Queen0fHearts0520]

I absolutely agree. What a blessing that she would share this with us. Takes a lot of guts to show your vulnerability.

[@jackjackattack1994]

Honestly, the last part of hitting it over and over.I felt that in my soul. I teared up a bit. This is a great video. People all have light and dark. I know I have some darkness that used to make me feel unworthy. I understand it though. This video speaks very deeply to me.

[@maxweiche4066]

I can so strongly relate as an autistic woman who is detransitioned. Keep up the work both of y’all!

[@samanthagarner4836]

There are so many things you touched on that mean so much to me. I’m so thankful for you speaking out about Childhood Sexual Abuse. People don’t understand how often it is that it is your own parent or family that hurt you and it is passed from generations. People don’t understand the damage it can cause. I can’t put into words how I resonated with get the fuck away and also wanting to connect more with people.I guess I understand feeling pushed and pulled in different directions. Also, being right wing and trying to find deep conversations is also frustrating. Thanks for being vulnerable!!! It is hard and you are so strong and so smart.

[@azkabanfamily]

😢 I feel her pain. The good and bad is a struggle. But when the bad out weighs the good it hurts

[@dreadielocs]

I expected to watch this in the background and by the time you got to your breakthrough I was already sitting on the edge of my seat doing nothing else. I'm so proud of you blaire!

[@pkhn_official]

Started bawling my eyes out when he started fighting for her

[@rumblefish8265]

more power to you, david! this will be one of the most important podcasts out there.

[@Jayteaseepiirturi]

At around 28:00 or something Blaire is saying people are putting a stop on the conversation on, what might be the root of one's being trans and the explanation that it invalidates the experience. It's sort of interesting because it's a kind of a tell-tale symptom of one not being honest to themselves. They're holding on to something for dear life... the frailty of it scares the hell out of them.

[@bevkerr9861]

Love Blair 🇨🇦 starting watching her over a year ago. I am 60 ur old mom, grandma - straight, trying to educate to all the #’s out there. Acceptance is key is something I have always aware of and needed to get up to date on what’s appropriate to say, not to say- love what she is doing❣️ Grateful that she brought me your channel as well- was not aware you had one til today, sorry! Now subscribed and soo look forward to exploring all episodes!

[@natashasays]

Weirdly, I felt so seen and safe when he yelled "stay the fuck away from her!" It made me cry.

[@legrandelolo9130]

This was such a touching and inspiring video. I low key was following along with his prompts to look at my own similar “connection vs stay the fuck away”issues. Very moving and special experience to witness and also apply what he was talking about! Adore you for your realness and power Blaire ❤

[@aeleceashley8458]

Blair I want to hold you tight like my son. You are deserving and capable to receive love, honor and respect without being anything for anyone.

[@idkybutwutever]

i know. i pray for him often.

[@Manifest.Mind.Mastery]

I love the “fuck you therapy” at the end! It truly captures the anger held inside for years. Feelings are either in or out! As a new Rapid Transformational Therapist, I appreciate the video, your tools and Blaire’s openness.

[@People_Scare_Me]

I've thought this ever since I was a kid and it's been proven to me time and time again and it's that in the end all you have is yourself and all that relying on people will get you is pain and hurt

[@john.highheels.3244]

That was such a lovely few minutes between the two of them at the end. The hug right at the end is what she wanted and needed all her life but didn't get from the people she wanted it from. She's come so far and is an absolute inspiration. David is a great guy and Blaire if you are reading these comments sweetheart you are a truly beautiful person. Good luck with everything you do in the future. 👍♥️

[@abbyzabby4748]

Wow that ending definitely made me cry

[@leech1355]

Robert had everything to do with Blaire and Blaire had everything to do with Robert. If I could blend the two words I would.” Ladies and gentlemen I give you: Blobert

[@poopyfartballs5363]

Thanks I hate it 😂

[@whatisthis1262]

I had the same thought 😂

[@warumonokurenai]

😂

[@danielaaguilar6330]

NO 💀💀💀YOURE CRAZY

[@iTalkReckless247]

I’m glad that you are so honest with yourself. You are you! And you are beautiful, kind, witty, and smart. I love your videos. 💅🏽❤️

[@GarrettThompson-vk2cr]

Currently transitioning. This brought me to tears but the trauma resides with my mom. Thank you for your bravery, Blaire!

[@KatlynHaydon]

I’m autistic and have known she was autistic for ages but didn’t know if she knew. I love her so much. I swear we all recognize each other. 😂

[@JD-pd3gl]

How could you tell? That’s so interesting to me bc I was so surprised to hear her say that!! (I’m pretty sure I’m not autistic tho)

[@poopyfartballs5363]

​@@JD-pd3glautistic people tend to be able to see it with other people. I have this sense too, really strong. One example; blaire stimms constantly, touching her hair and head and adjusting her sleeves. Thats one example :)

[@JD-pd3gl]

@@poopyfartballs5363 Thanks for the reply!! I’ve heard of autistic people having that sense, & that’s pretty cool that it’s so strong sometimes! I have adhd & stim by playing with my hair a lot sometimes, so I kinda wondered if her hair thing was a stim too

[@KatlynHaydon]

Honestly I don’t know. Real recognizes real is how I like to think of it 😂😂😂 but really I think it’s kind of a different wave length we operate on. And I can always tell if someone speaks my language.

[@HelterSkelter__]

I relate so much to some of the things she’s taking about, especially the whole not being able to quit fighting thing, I love her so much she’s so incredibly talented and smart