Blaque Women’s “Bad Attitude” Explained And Why Men Are Opting Out | Passport Bros Are Inevitable

To this day, there are misunderstandings about what is meant by the "attitude" of black women. In this video, we dive deep into what brothers mean by the "attitude" of black women, with the help of some of the best and most knowledgeable content creators on the subject in this space. Modern Dating is confusing for men and women. Our videos are made for educational purposes.
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0:00 Intro
2:42 What is "Bad Attitude"?
11:13 Causes of bad attitude
19:30 Effects of bad attitude
35:40 Bad attitudes can change, but not for now

[@bigwill9421]

"Telling Blackwomen The TRUTH Comes With A HIGH COST." -Kevin Samuels

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

Your *life.* Although to be honest... you're very likely to headbutt yourself to the exact same outcome woth any race of women whatsoever, as a black man. Specially when mixed race Latina, of Arab women, of Maghrebi women and any kind of white women are around.

[@jasonBGI]

He would know...the stress cost him his life

[@superfan7052]

@@jasonBGI not stress - his death was highly suspect

[@darbyohara]

It ain’t just black women. It’s ALL women. White folks gotta take note of what the black men are saying, those same issues are coming to all communities

[@angelawalker6950]

Iike death..with his lying ass

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

Makes me smile when I hear a woman proclaim, "I PAY MY BILLS!" like she did something extraordinary. 😂😂

[@jaycantar6190]

Yup. Like men haven't been doing that for ever - for themselves and for women and chikdren too. And this is what they fought so hard for, 50 years ago - to work, (which has caused all costs to go up, including rents, and mortgages) - and pay bills. Congrats - you got it whamens! Men are now leaving on masse to gladly pay for other women's bills - but overseas.

[@antoniomckissic5402]

Fellas when you hear a woman or women say they pay their own bills and they pay their own that just simply pat them on the back and tell them congratulations you are officially an adult

[@MysterENigma]

You are EXACTLY right!

[@theworldviewers3586]

Imagine, mate!

[@jamiesatyr1309]

It's the brainwashing of their mothers. Instead of training to be a good wife, independence is pushed; hence the defensiveness and bad attitude if you make demands of them. 😮😢😊

[@kevinm.8682]

Whenever I hear a woman say "You just can't handle a strong, confident, independent woman!" I just smile and chuckle. There's something that woman doesn't understand: men "handle" things everyday. They handle challenges, they handle adversity, they handle situations, and they handle problems. The only thing that ever needs "handling" is something that's undesired. Why should a grown man need to "handle" a grown woman? Why should he sign on for confrontation? He's not looking for a doormat, he's looking for a willing partner. Nobody wants to handle issues all day, and come home to handle more issues at night.

[@ericmcmurren6296]

Amazingly stated

[@QED_]

props

[@GBU61]

When she says strong, independent, she is thinking short term. A man wants a woman who he wants to keep around for decades. If she would adjust her thinking for the “long game” like our grandparents, marriages would benefit both sides.

[@hainleysimpson1507]

Apparently women do, because they cause drama.

[@devinlatimore]

Well said brother... Well said...

[@davidfence6939]

"You can't handle us." *throws hands up like animal* No need to handle a weak, worthless woman.

[@Bergerons_Review]

Adults don't need to be handled. Children do. I don't date children.

[@davidmcknight236]

The juice ain't worth the squeeze.

[@marcopolo7768]

No need to handle what you don't want. Just walk away leave them standing there running their mouth

[@chantelllovett4335]

M To call another human being worthless. Your heart isn't right anyway. Stop being prideful humble yourself.

[@Samuraiblack-nj5qb]

​@@chantelllovett4335for what 😂

[@ELcoyote576]

Attitude Is not strong, Attitude makes a person Unpleasant to be around.

[@ProudBM19]

Facts!

[@BRICKCITYALLDAY81]

EXACTLY 💯 💯 💯 💯

[@darbyohara]

It’s actually a sign of weakness. It’s a lack of control and a need to dominate their environment out of fear. But women can’t dominate their environment, they don’t have the characteristics of need to take control

[@sole__doubt]

@@darbyohara exactly its too bad so many women want to have the benefits of being in control but not the responsibility. The whole "have your cake and eat it too" attitude is popular especially with younger women.

[@byronparker4088]

Drop the mic

[@brianwaller7383]

Not only bad attitude but highly masculine. A lot of these women will be willing to physically challenge a man if he disagrees with her. This happens because she was taught this by her “single strong and independent woman mother”

[@Ozzie_Mandias]

Isn't it their right to hit an abuser though?

[@adrian100]

@@Ozzie_Mandias Equal rights equal fights. Thats all.

[@8bitdragoninstall182]

Then cry victim, whenever they get knocked back into their place. 😂

[@custos3249]

But remember, it's black men who cause fatherless black kids lol

[@bacongl]

"And the cycle continues". Also these women are the ones raising the new generation of men. And boy are they a joke.

[@GaldenX]

As a black man I was ridiculed for years and told I could never "handle" a black woman because I'm too soft and easy going. Years have passed and the same men who were mocking me have admitted themselves that our women are difficult and hard to get along with. And the same women who were mocking me are unfortunately single mothers or trapped in abusive relationships with the hood dudes they wanted so badly. It's sad but funny seeing how they finally realized that having a partner who always has a terrible attitude makes staying in a relationship long-term near impossible.

[@susanschuck8841]

And let me guess your either single or with a white lady

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

I mostly dated girls off campus, a few girls who were from Japan, flirted with some latinas and other types but there was one girl in my major who I would tried to date, she was beautiful but her angry attitude ruined it for me. The girls she was friends with were even worse. Attitude has a lot to do with it.

[@marcopolo7768]

She was part of a hyena pack

[@travisgarrett9398]

Intimidation is not the reason we don't want a relationship with you, it's IRRITATION!

[@jonathancue1584]

PREACH, DAMN IT, PREACH

[@Peakfreud]

Facts.

[@itechnwrite]

Nobody wants to fight all the time. It’s exhausting, boring and unpleasant. Why invest yourself into a no-win waste of your life. Bitter spirits.

[@jaycantar6190]

Bingo!

[@seldonwright4345]

If you have a bug in your shirt you Change The Shirt. Off it goes into the laundry. Or trash if necessary

[@banks615]

"its not intimidating, its unattractive" My thoughts exactly.

[@Hero-and-Hooligan]

The only thing intimidating about it is that we can't knock them out like we would do if it was a man disrespecting us 😂

[@koolshaker7615]

​@@Hero-and-HooliganEXACTLY 🤜🏽🤪🤛🏽🤔

[@eldredcooke7054]

Well said😢

[@CaptainVillanueva1]

I'd argue repulsive. If they act like that God knows dealing with them in the long haul will make you want to French kiss a loaded gun

[@Robert-ky4vx]

​@@Hero-and-Hooligan As bad as it sounds that would humble alot of these billy badass women

[@wileynicholson1682]

I lived in Newark growing up. I played the cello and would get clowned. Moved to California and became a concert cellist in the symphonic youth Orchestra Orchestra

[@jbdsvld8175]

A salute to black men in the US. You guys have to put up with a lot of shite I wasn’t aware of as a white European guy.

[@keepingitreal5322]

What do u know about our struggle

[@Karl-fg8nv]

Why do you even care?

[@bikboi8768]

I'm Mexican,,I had a crush on a Black girl in college,,,but her attitude repelled me. She wonders why I stop being romantic. But it's not worth the headache.

[@terrencemcphail5782]

Bingo I was dating multiple women different races and backgrounds only the black women was combative and controlling they all what the don't like and not gonna do ok nice meeting u.

[@CategoricalImperative]

Join the club. It’s like 50% of them. The other 50% have kids and are married.

[@yungveganindahood7481]

Damn Sunn you may have been her only shot and she blew it

[@dj4monie]

You want a badge? We don't need your review of BW behavior, thanks for your participation.

[@danielaramburo7648]

“You can’t handle my attitude and strong attitude!” Lady, I work my ass off, come home with a bad back and sore legs, 12 hour shift…… I expect a peaceful home and a warm meal. I already fought battles at work, I don’t want battles at home.

[@CodeFatherX]

I was in chipotle yesterday. Me and this girl were the only black people there and she was the only one in the building with an attitude (demanding a fresh pot of rice, adding ingredients after closing the lid, under breath comments, snappy, you name it). I was directly behind her in line so the workers thought we were together. I literally took 5 steps backwards. We gotta just let those beyond saving, sink

[@mrehollis6288]

Congratulations brother. 😂 I would've done the same.

[@AntiMasonic93]

These ghetto, Black women make other Blacks look bad. It is a damn shame!

[@workconverseify]

Lol good job bro. Let her sink by herself

[@americanedokko2782]

💯💯💯 Do NOT try to save them. Save yourself.

[@BisonNews1]

b dubs are beyond saving. they are long gone

[@jimmyfreeman9968]

This is not a Black Woman thing, it's the United States women mentality. Black men are not the only men going through this. WE are all tired of all of them.

[@toastcrunch9387]

That is true, but black women really lay it on thick. They're a very small part of the american population but the majority of the time i see a woman being casually or consistently hostile/hysterical, it's usually a black woman, with latinas being a somewhat spotty runner up.

[@nagarake]

@@toastcrunch9387Latinas are definitely up there with the attitudes and tantrums. But they offset it with other skills (cooking, cleaning, mind blowing sex, etc). If black women were to take notes, they would be much more tolerable to date.

[@GBU61]

And it gets worse as we age. I am in my 60s and left the US years ago. In the time I have been gone (9 years) it keeps getting worse. I only return to see my 93 year old mother. When she passes, I hope to never have to set foot in America again!

[@Zeus1701E]

PASSPORT BRO!!!!!!👍👍👍👍👍 French kissing a piranha is better than dating current western women.

[@misterl0gic]

"When the White community catches a cold, the Black community catches the flu."

[@ericlane659]

"A good man can make a woman feel bad because she knows she's not a good woman.... that's why they prefer bad boys!" --- 💯💯💯

[@jaysouthmusic8230]

That makes so much sense now

[@ayandamafuyeka1952]

A white woman with attitude is called Karen. A black woman with attitude is called strong, confident, independent and intimidating to men😂.

[@tigerstripey4885]

Sign me up for an intimidating woman! Yes Purleeeze!

[@paulbentley1705]

In their own sick mind.

[@XperimentorEES]

I'll call them both karen because they both treat men in the same openly hostile way, some just start doing so much earlier than others.

[@youngsavagefury7138]

Wow, that is very true

[@marcopolo7768]

No they're called a Shaniqua/Sharon

[@johnsonfrance2616]

Men want peace, love and support. Men do NOT want drama, bullying and rude behavior.

[@pandaman1677]

Facts!

[@manfredschmalbach9023]

... or entitlement, or having to even bargain for whatever humble expectations we have in our relationshit.

[@KingB88]

Big Facts

[@nunga9803]

Women want the same things

[@theepidemicpro2]

Exactly

[@rhammond1963]

Accountability is like a cross to a vampire with these women.

[@jmlkhan5153]

In original polish fairy tales, the way to deal with a vampire is to "cross" yourself three times, spit, and throw your dagger into the ground at its feet. Crossing yourself is reaffirmation of your beliefs. Remembering and recognizing the self, who you are. Spitting shows the vampire your disdain for it, which it cannot stand. The dagger is an establishment of firm boundary. "You come no further." This is how you deal with a vampire, or in other words, a narcissist, which folklore has been warning us about since the dawn of time. Garlic makes its breath smell bad, which ruins its image of perfection. A vampire has no power over you unless you invite it in. A wooden stake through the heart has been lost in translation over time, the stake is supposed to be at least ten feet long, enters from between the legs, and afterwards you post the vampires staked corpse up outside your castle walls. High enough for everybody to see for miles around. Showing clearly how your manor treats vampires. All the metaphorical parallels are there.

[@fredcarpenter1027]

Gotta agree, I've never met a black woman without a bad attitude and aggressiveness.

[@victormuhammad1393]

I have. They were not from the United States

[@Mariem090]

And black women put their disrespectful behavior in social media so other will think that his how ALL black women are

[@DeeTried]

I have but the truth most of them with meek attitudes are not the most physically attractive. I felt bad because their attitudes were kind, open and agreeable but because how they look guys wouldn’t give them a chance

[@nemui9654]

I’ve met 2 and they were both married.

[@silsahchne7236]

The day I started a job, I was introducing my self to fellow employees and all the fellows had fine and normal behavior. When I introduce myself to this 1 short chub of a black women she gave me an evil look of disgust and I've never see this person a day in my life. It was a good thing she quit her job a few days later. That was the last time I've ever said another word to a BW. I don't know why they are so pissed all the time but, it's unflattering. I avoid them at all cost.

[@redtom3022]

And this is why, one of the best traits you have to develop, is your ability to say no and walk away. Let them want their shopping list of requirements. Just walk away.

[@shorts26]

Exactly

[@dred9174]

Actually the men are flying away.

[@hardplans2366]

Guys pay their rent ?!! Are they wives ? GTFOH Some of you SIMPS have walked into a money pit! That's CULT SERF DRONE ISH Grow a spine FFS

[@shawnmorrissey1866]

I tell women from the "get go", that I'm not interested in marriage. I've done it once, and that's it for me. Take it or leave it, because I will always put myself in a position to walk away. Women's emotions can have them loving in one minute, then suddenly hostile the next.......

[@redtom3022]

@@shawnmorrissey1866 exactly! Nobody deserves to suffer anyone

[@amarumann8187]

It's not "attitude"...it's the fact that Black Women actually think that they are "better" than Black Men!!! It has been ingrained as a personality trait!!!

[@chess-is-king]

This!!!!!!!! This has never been addressed on a mass scale. And unfortunately, it probably never will be

[@renzopeterson153]

It's the attitude that stems from the "we're better than them" attitude.

[@shawnmorrissey1866]

I think its more that if you don't like your situation, you can always do better. No matter what kind of man you have, you can always do better.

[@amarumann8187]

@shawn morrissey Sounds like a woman who thinks she is "better" than men to me!

[@spankitout]

Sad.

[@spectrallines1695]

There is a difference between confidence and just plain annoyance

[@mawouleafan4434]

You are a true hero. The way your content is structured is pure art. I salute your work Sir.

[@rickshaw9219]

I been married 15yrs to a BW. She was feminine and submissive before we got married. She would bring me a plate, see that I got a something to drink, made sure I got a desert, take care of me sexually often. After we got married and had a kid, she don't cook, clean, want to have sex, support me in my endeavors, or value my opinion. Now I can't even get a cup of coffee. I got tricked by a chameleon. If it weren't for my son, I would have divorced her over a decade ago even if she would have taken half. Once Jr turns 18, I'll become a single Passport bro.

[@joshua6889]

Well though I am much younger than you I think all women are chameleons because from my observation they all wear a mask until they acquire a man's commitment.

[@David-tk4rj]

Same exact story as me. I divorced my wife tho because she unbearable to live with. It's better for your health and sanity to drop that baggage

[@slambk]

Fly away...we need options so sad. But keep the boy on ur toes...women are not reliable

[@slieafrica]

This is why the elders told us not to engage in sex before marriage, she only did that to get you to wed her. It's sad that father's have not been able to tell their sons this but toxic women share all kinds of sexual sorcery tricks to lure unsuspecting men in. In her head she thinks she did what she was supposed to... Protect yourself at all times

[@ImperfectD]

I pray you take and keep custody of your son. He'll be infinitely better off with you than her. Advice from a man raised in a single mothers home. I'm still repairing the damage that was done, and I'm now 32. My mother used to tell me to always choose a fat girl cuz she'd take care of me and always have food. She herself wasn't even big so it was weird. I got NO training or support/guidance in life. Awful.

[@Ladyhotfire78]

As a BW, I’m so embarrassed by the women’s reaction to what that man said. They literally illustrated exactly what he was talking about. So cringe. The whole “you can’t handle me” thing sounds so combative. Sounds like someone trying too hard to seem bad ass but it has the opposite result. As for the men not being there, why are women having kids for non-husbands? Such a stupid decision and preventable from the offset.

[@dred9174]

Because educated guys like me are boring most black women prefer Pookie and Ray Ray because they have swag which is code for he's a thug.

[@super-engineer8437]

This is why they are the most undesired, most undateable and the most miserable demographic people in the around the world. They do this to themselves and refuse to understand their disgusting unattractive behaviour until it's too late. This is why BM are just going overseas to find a more feminine spouse. 🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

[@davidwhite206]

Exactly right. I "handle" my business, I "handle" problems in life as they arise, I "handle" my emotions in a stoic manner, I "handle" life in general. I do not want to have to "handle" you also when I get home. Women definitely need to get a handle on that mindset. Pun intended.

[@Peakfreud]

Honest sincere question not throwing shade or making an indictment at you personally just a general curiosity. What makes women think those antics, the eye rolling and neck twerking is intimidating my first thought when I see that is ignorance not intimidation.

[@Peakfreud]

Men arent even intimidated by other men postulating and showmanship the loudest one is usually the weakest.... What intimidation factor does a women have other than calling & relying on law enforcement and the system? What does a woman have to intimidate a man with? I dont seriously think men are intimidated by "Emotional Exhibitionism or Manipulation". Without the legal system and certain social laws I cant see women possessing anything intimidating and its been that way since the beginning of human history. I've encountered loudness, spit fire cliche rhetoric, and diva mentality a thousands times it just appears self destructive and like an internal issues, or hormonal. Intimidation was never on the list.

[@lollipopsfordays3610]

I’m so tired of seeing girls claim people think they’re intimidating, bless them, they think they’re intimidating and that it’s a good thing. It’s not. As a woman I aimed to make people feel comfortable and good about themselves when they’re in my company, you don’t want to be intimidating, you want to be warm, welcoming and alluring. Men love it, women relax around you, everyone feel good.

[@jeffcee9457]

M.J.had the last laugh and had the opportunity to remind the world what black men has to go through

[@user-gm6go7jr9k]

Good comeback

[@djbefit9656]

Her: The problem is my brother is that you can’t handle them. Me: You absolutely right. I don’t want to. I shouldn’t have to.

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

Men hunt, camp, fish, and play pool because by and large, it's peaceful and quiet.

[@shawnmorrissey1866]

Exactly!!! It's not written in law, that I have to deal with you. Once I see behavior I don't like, I turn around & walk away.

[@thepayne7862]

Oh he can handle them but life is too short for him to put up with their crap.

[@CarlosRamirez-no2js]

Her: YOU CANT HANDLE ME🤬🤬 Me: You can’t handle your self 😐

[@djbefit9656]

@@CarlosRamirez-no2js 🤣🤣🤣🤣Fax

[@buschg7106]

My mother spoke these EXACT words. "I'm the mother and father," etc. These messages made her unable to maintain relationships. On her deathbed, she told me how wrong she was and how she regretted buying into that mentality.

[@shawnmorrissey1866]

By the time a number of them figure out what their doing wrong, it will be too late.

[@CFO341]

Wow

[@doovplayz]

Let them suffer, we will have the last laugh 😂😂😂. My mom said it too

[@jaycantar6190]

I see that happening to more and more women, but now I see it happening long before their death beds. Some are already slowly starring to realise it, but it's too late. Damage done, with the red-pill spreading world-wide. After 50-60 years of s.h!t.ting on men, it's time to finally pay the piper, and that bill can't be erased of forgiven. The question is: Will the young girls of today and tomorrow learn the lessons from the women of yesterday, or will they follow right along in their footsteps? Personally, I think it will be decades before things turn around.

[@DusTeeJones99]

I don’t want to gloat about this subject but my first wife said the same thing prior to her passing. My sons now speak on the environment they had to deal with and now understand why I moved the way I did.

[@Leo-xf2mo]

My mother’s youngest brother, the uncle I’m closest to, once told me that he loves his sister, but she’s the meanest person he has ever met.

[@KenHSr]

Brother is enjoying it. One statement about BW's bad attitudes and watch their heads explode. They literally took turns proving his point. Good work sir.

[@hdcvo2570]

Social media has expose what women are, and when you see it, you no longer treat them with such hope and kindness. Treat them just like any man you would see on the street. They will never love you like a man can love. Wake up men, it’s hard to understand that.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

Exactly. Dudes need to get that fairy tale out of their minds.

[@rexbanner7256]

I understood, and understand. Not going to date another dude. Looking for feminine friendly, nurturing women. Not many left it seems.

[@slwilliamsjr]

Social media definitely shined that “Batman” style search light on the modern day westernized female nature….although all women can act like this…westernized women are the worst IMO!

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

​@@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 Yep.

[@b4zz3d59]

Watch The Post-Feminism Man by barbar fellas. 💪🙏

[@ungenerationed9022]

Men don't want a partner, they want a wife. Men don't want to "handle" a woman, they want one that brings them peace.

[@aunttriciaattic]

That goes both ways.

[@ungenerationed9022]

@@aunttriciaattic like body count and income go both ways? Y'all never get it.

[@otismorgan7840]

@@aunttriciaattic you're just like all these hyenas when you hear the truth about your Manish disrespectful ass's 😒

[@victoriahardin1560]

That partner talk is and has been a mind fck like "wifey" and "friend."

[@rutrakainmeiez5107]

How can they bring us peace if they're walking chaos

[@MRHEEL-ys2rq]

The attitudes of the majority of modern BW will cause a BM to not want to do nice things for a woman nor be romantic towards them. I dated a BW in college and her attitude towards me was one of sheer disgusting. The ONE(and only) time we ever were intimate felt as though she was talked into it from a "friend" of mine who I later found out had dated her before I arrived on campus. Long short of it is between her and my black ex wife, those two women killed any hope of me doing anything nice for a woman even if it means buying lunch or dinner because their attitudes were just horrible towards me and how they treated me

[@reefjack9731]

What's funny is I have said this for the last 13 years to the men protect your self at all times like a boxer😂...

[@brianwaller7383]

I just laugh when a woman says I’m intimidated by their independence. No ma’am there’s very few men on this planet that I’m intimidated by, but there’s not a single woman on this planet I’m intimidated by

[@izzo2998]

Thank you for saying this. I’ve long said that most men are intimidated by nothing. The idea that a man is intimidated by a woman paying her bills and being successful is ridiculous.

[@arnoldjohnson3317]

This is true, I don’t understand why a women doing what any responsible adult should be doing is intimidating. Independence just means being an adult.

[@NinjutsuSeeker]

My first thought is " you can't beat my ass 😅"

[@cockoffgewgle4993]

There's no such thing as an independent woman. Society runs on the backs of men. Men pay the vast majority of taxes, do 95% of essential jobs and 95% of protective jobs. The state commandeers men for the use of women so they think they're "independent".

[@BigPuddin]

@@izzo2998 Women be like "you're intimidated that I do my own laundry and pay my phone bill." lmao

[@kennethjenkins1094]

She proved his point!

[@jasonwolfe3252]

They always do

[@darbyohara]

That’s the best part! “Some black women have a bad attitude and we don’t like it” “HOLD ON! We ain’t got no attitude! You can’t handle us! We’re confident! You’re wrong, we don’t have a bad attitude!” All said while shouting at a man who never even raised his voice 😂

[@shawnmorrissey1866]

​@@darbyoharaRolanda did those body movements, because she knew exactly what he was talking about. That's also why she laughed while doing it.

[@davidocean1669]

Right she sure did prove the point spot on.

[@jaycantar6190]

They always do!

[@travisarvene]

As a preference of mine when dealing with women, I try my best to stay away from women that talk vile and disgusting like cussing because of my mom.

[@koolshaker7615]

Dealing with the average modern blk women is just as frustrating as dealing with the police...🤔😔✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️

[@jaysouthmusic8230]

Ain’t that the truth

[@dottenday]

I'm not black; I'm a white guy from the midwest and grew up in the 60's and 70's. I knew from a very early age that I did not want anything to do with American women. I had a vague idea of what I wanted in a woman growing up. I met Japanese kids in high school and realized that that is the kind of woman I wanted. I learned the language and came to Japan to find my wife. I emigrated here and I love it. I will never go back to the US. The wives of my american friends look at her and feel jealous because she embodies everything a women is supposed to be and everything a man wants in a woman in his home. I can tell they feel like they should have done what she did, but believed that BS that is feminism. Love your videos. I"m happily married for 35 years - but I still enjoy hearing how young people are today. American women are F'ed in the head.

[@BaconNBeer]

You are one smart and it seems happy man.

[@Wilphart]

White midwest guy here, too. Married for 23 years. We live here, but we were married in Costa Rica, where she's from. Our teenage boys have lots of friends, and two of their friends live permanently in our basement right now because they have nowhere else to go. Every one of our boys' friends happens to come from a single-parent or otherwise broken family. Marrying a woman who was raised with the goal of being the support of the family was the best choice I ever made. Once upon a time, it was the norm. But unfortunately, a tradwife is a rare and precious thing to find the USA these days.

[@lilithclaws832]

You've never met a real J woman... conniving, materialistic and don't forget materialistic and wants to be a just at home wifey. Maybe you want a DOLL like your wife.

[@dwaynefoster6184]

Excellent points my brother!!!

[@jaybarr8098]

I’m a white man from the US. Having dated all shades of women it’s the US women that’s the problem . Now enjoying life in South America with my wife . Yes wife because the women here have more common sense and still enjoy being feminine. If it’s a black or white women you want to be happy with your going to have to leave the US.

[@vincentwesley5767]

"Attitude is everything" nuff said.

[@manlybaker3098]

This used to a bad thing to be told when someone was trying to set you up with a blind date "But, she has a nice personality." Nowadays, that would be a big plus!!

[@BJ15598]

This is a great video, and all of the characters shown here is right on target with the video title, it's their body movements when expressing themselves, the Sha na na attitude, even when the lady Samantha Lee was giving good advice and points, it was hard to determine if she was happy, upset or angry, her movements and her way of expressing those points, was a display of the very same thing she was trying to message as a point!

[@sammythompson3694]

My first wife was 10 years younger with 3 children. I wasn't the biological father, a phrase I heard many times. My second wife was 10 years older than me with 5 grown children who had their own families so I got to enjoy their children instead of the parents bs. Its harder being a stepfather than being a biological father. Shirley was the best thing that ever happened to me for 22 years until she died from covid.😔

[@youngsavagefury7138]

Sorry for your lost

[@IffyEdem]

My dad was a single dad of 4. His children came out excellent. He didn’t become feminine to make up for the mom not being there.

[@chitownstorminnormin4154]

FACTS!!! they act like being a adult is some kind of accomplishment!!! It's funny!!!

[@mexgee]

Your attitude is like a price tag, it shows how valuable you are.

[@mrehollis6288]

Can I coin that? That was priceless. I got to remember that.

[@redavis6581]

Your attitude is like a price take, it shows men how cheap you are.

[@the-btc-tradingfloor2808]

Priceless

[@kevinwilson5711]

This is the message, that constantly needs to be played...over and over again.

[@Randy-Bobandy]

@22:34 This right here is proof that things are beyond repair. If this woman can have a list of demands and actually believe she's worthy of getting them from any man, is downright insanity...

[@eugchriss4394]

Bro this is some serious documentary. You clearly put some effort to create this. Keep up the good work!

[@shawnmorrissey1866]

Yes, he did a great job.

[@dj4monie]

Ummm Tommy Sotomayor said all of this when ya'll were wearing diapers. Nothing new here.

[@1968dogg]

I have bite marks from just asking a Black Woman out. And 3rd degree burns.

[@qlasalle]

"You have to date fat women, you have to date baby mommas, you have to date the town harlot." Yes, these are modern women's ideas on women... until it's time for their sons to get into the game. Then women don't like women... go figure.

[@gsmithstudio1]

Women understand women and they hate each other.. AL Bundy.

[@KNGDDDE]

If they even respect him enough to actually raise him. They avoid that abuse of blk boys convo like the plague. We all just assume blk men are everything bad in the blk community meanwhile they expose themselves online daily.

[@blackice8824]

The cognitive dissonance is amazing. Like when I heard a white boy bitching about " prejudice " against him of course by a Catholic run organization which is now suddenly an issue because he feels like a negro... They only care when its them and theirs .

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

If this these women were food, and we were told to eat rotten, fat-laden food someone else regurgitated, it would be a crime.

[@vincevoyeur]

A lot of these women don’t really care about their sons.

[@yvonneglass2566]

I just finished watching this episode and I agree with them. The attitude of the black woman is horrible towards our black men. Then women wonder why the brothers are going to other countries to find their wife. I have my King and I’m going to treat like one because he treats me like the Queen that I am. Catering to my King is what I do.❤️❤️❤️

[@jaysouthmusic8230]

God bless you I wish there were more black queens like you who get it and it’s unfortunate that it is this way. It’ll be a miracle that I find a black queen like you who thinks highly of black men, men in general and not putting us down

[@hammbone1612]

I know this took a lot of time to create. Appreciate your work

[@BobbyMarley718]

They blame it on intimidation because it allows them to avoid looking at or improving their own behavior.

[@jimjohnson394]

Yup, the "intimidation" is just a made up word so they don't have to hold themselves accountable.

[@victormuhammad1393]

It’s not intimidation. It’s irritation.

[@victormuhammad1393]

@@jimjohnson394irritation actually

[@jth_printed_designs]

Him: “They have bad attitudes” **Several women immediately proving what he said is 100% true** You can’t make this ish up 😂

[@nameredacted1995]

The problem is, just like we saw with that woman on stage, the minute you tell a black woman that her attitude is the problem they shut down and get combative….and that’s the issue in the first place.

[@joebeta1837]

Thanks! As a non-Black person, I've always wanted to know why anger and attitude is something that alot of Black females frequently show. This video answers my question very well. Excellent video.

[@igotaction]

I feel so sorry for all the brothers, it seems the sisters are all married to each other. If they were careful enough not to upset their men as they were the sisterhood, brothers would adore them.

[@izzo2998]

Or: if they at least treated their men like they treated their white bosses, things would be good.

[@tonymistreacts4158]

​@@izzo2998 bingo. Neither will happen though

[@dred9174]

​@@izzo2998 Even if they did it's a waste of time because most of them are single mothers from Pookie and Ray Ray.

[@InfiniteYasin]

Facts, I’m from Africa, my father told me that if I wanted a wife. I should keep her in Africa, not America. Too late. Sorry dad

[@dj4monie]

Wrong, this started way before the talk shows of the 1990's which where MHD got this from. Late to the party Gen Z is a riot. Retread

[@redtom3022]

The problem with the attitude is that, they make it like they wanna fight, but as soon as violence comes along, they run back to be a "lady" and real men don't hit women😂. In other words, they are cowards

[@KNGDDDE]

Say it again!

[@ProudBM19]

Yes!

[@FPSzerogaming]

Yup feminism is all fun and games until war breaks out. Then women scramble back to the kitchen to avoid the hardship of war.

[@KNGDDDE]

@TPGzero it's all fun and games until men call their bluff. Strong and independent? Yall better Tham us? #kxllallmen huh? Aight bxtch prove it 😂💀💀.

[@solusaldrain]

Cry bullying. They cry out in pain as they strike you.

[@Neozio]

00:52 " 10% is what happens and 90% is our attitude towards whatever happens!!

[@markaym3735]

When they don’t have an “attitude” men think they’re doormats. These men are at the bottom of every social measure for a reason. They worry about “attitudes” instead of being better husbands, fathers, and human beings so women don’t have resort to “bad attitudes” for protection.

[@wren23_bass-synths]

We have been saying this for decades and they still refuse to change. It’s only gotten worse. Why tf do I have to handle a hard woman for? #SYSBM #PASSPORTSUP

[@aaronmcdaniel82]

The amount of women who refused to change has made me to pull a power move by walk away, live my life and been improving better. No longer being the cleanup guy. They're colder than us with a cold behavior. I'm at a transition of not caring. I used to be the programmed nice guy. But I have more time to work on myself and my life to work for.

[@dred9174]

​@@aaronmcdaniel82 That's exactly what the Blizzard King talked about black men are walking away (or flying away) from American BW from their bad attitudes, single motherhood from chasing Pookie to ostracizing educated guys like Michael B Jordan.

[@asunmusicc3331]

She said handle like they furniture or a bull in a rodeo. We dont want to handle you, we want love , peace and harmony.

[@aaronmcdaniel82]

Agree. A lot of men want more peace than before. I said this many times. I've never seen myself as a boyfriend material to them. Better to be a loner than to suffer from a Stormy conflict. I'm 30 with no women and no kids in my life. Blessed that way.

[@JKingMustang]

Talking bout “handle me” like lady you think you a pitbull or something? Explains a lot on why i have to “handle them” because a lot of them be acting like straight B- Now I’ve noticed where that B word originated from.

[@goawayimbating8405]

Expect immediate animosity when telling the truth. 🙏🏿

[@will201084]

The whole men dying to protect women should be reevaluated going forward for modern women as it is reserved for traditional women only.

[@guitarbrothers9395]

I was lucky enough to find a black woman that appreciates and respects me but I do encourage everyone to go wherever they are appreciated. I was a “corny” brother like Michael B Jordan. I watched anime, I played guitar instead of drums, played baseball instead of basketball and wore Lacoste instead of Polo so I was an outcast from black society and black women but a few did appreciate me for me. Don’t give up and say F all black women but whoever appreciates you invest in that

[@tonymistreacts4158]

Some of us will go where we are valued and some will stay and make things work with the bw. Both things can exist at once

[@WillmobilePlus]

I was a huge nerd as a kid. Still am. Listened to classical music, loved my telescope, went to the library every week, and flew kites I made. Black girls wanted Snoop and Dre clones or wannabe NBA players, not nerds. Oh well! Women came in all different colors, and there were more of them that liked the same stuff I did. So why should I have limited myself based on a skin tone? I didnt! And I didnt have to live a life with that annoying ego and attitude that we knew was a problem back in the 90s.

[@Bxconnect]

@@WillmobilePlus I’m born in 69’ to a woman that had three sons she despised and couldn’t support by three different men. It started in the 70’s like KSam said. He and I were the same age, so when he said our mothers generation was the first women to look at their mothers and decide they didn’t want to be them, it resonated. My mother actually told me when I was younger that she wasn’t the woman her mother was. Again, this was in the 70’s.

[@minervainri2]

@@Bxconnect The dis function goes back further. Your grandmothers generation went through the great depression so they needed their men during the 1910s 20s and 30s. Before and during that time black women were running around doing what they wanted to do. My great grandmother who was around during these times had multiple baby fathers, one of which was by a white man. Most of my grandmother's brothers and sisters look different.

[@shadf7902]

@@minervainri2 hypergamy and 304s have always existed and always will. And woman always needed men untill men civilized the world and made it so easy in recent times.

[@jasonwolfe3252]

"you can't handle me" I completely agree and so do the majority of men on the planet earth but carry on kween.

[@ProudBM19]

🤣🤣

[@asunmusicc3331]

We don't want to handle you mam. We want love, peace and harmony.

[@nathaniel3867]

If your hear a woman say “ you can’t handle a strong 💪🏽 independent woman”. Run 🏃🏽‍♂️ away so fast you beat DC flash( Barry Allen).

[@gsmollin2]

No, I need animal control.

[@agasthya9128]

@@nathaniel3867create a new timeline where there are more woman you can handle 😂

[@Linx28]

They are impolite, rude, embarrassing, non-intimidating, combative, criminal and irrelevant.

[@charlesblake7828]

Brother, You've said it clearly! It's not intimidating... It's unattractive!

[@louisdelmonte8728]

"You can't handle it" Sounds like she's looking for a handler, not an equal partner.

[@asunmusicc3331]

Exactly what I said. We dont want to handle you we need peace love and harmony.

[@dheraboy818]

She better go to the post office!! Then

[@rgw1380rw]

With "handling them" comes a bunch of counterproductive bs.

[@primearsenal]

She thinks she's a C.I.A asset

[@theawakeningblk]

Feminism + equal partnership Am not looking for a partnership Watch out for these code words. Like strong independence partnership 50/50 .any more ?

[@MuhammadAli-xw4yc]

This is exactly why I hardly talk to my mom as 43 year old grown ass man. And my mom still hasnt learned even though she is 66 years old. Smh

[@mrehollis6288]

I feel you. Got one of them.😅

[@RealMaleBsnRn]

Same boat. The one sided emotional labor is exhausting.

[@nocando17]

Right there with you. 29 years old and my mom is in her 60s. This woman will never understand why every man leaves her. It’s depressing…

[@youngsavagefury7138]

I am in the same boat. We should be friends

[@youngsavagefury7138]

I feel you brother

[@anthonywilliams7052]

They all need to pay for themselves, FOREVER, none are worth paying a dime for.

[@silsahchne7236]

The one in the green top. WHOOOOOOOOOOOOA I saw Skull Island movie a few weeks ago. Not to awful bad a movie.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

Ice Cube got his wake up call. You can tell that he was clueless.

[@mckinleycougar7338]

Ask them to define strong, is it about physical strength, of course not. It's about aggression they think aggression is strength, but aggression is a sign of weakness.

[@ericneely-nt7qb]

Exactly aggressive behavior is a sign of weakness, a person who is trying to over compensate for some weakness.😊😊😊

[@craigsmith2755]

The saying "All mouth and no trousers" comes to mind.

[@BiggieTrismegistus]

"Strong" _should_ refer to strength of character not who can be the loudest and most aggressive.

[@mckinleycougar7338]

@@BiggieTrismegistus exactly!

[@mckinleycougar7338]

@@BiggieTrismegistus in truth without deceit that which is most veritable!!! Cheers homie! Thought.. Is responsible for writing!

[@doyourownresearch2789]

Exactly 6yrs ago I worked for Kroger in my town and women hated me because I told these exact women where these men are and I told them the truth and they are in systematic denial. I came out in the open and told them we are at these sort a jobs, keeping our heads down, nose clean or making ourselves unattracted on purpose because of the simple fact it's far too risky to deal with these women at any given time without so much of a clue they are unhappy and want out of the relationship/ marriage and take us to the cleaners. And saving up our money to actually go to where women will respect us and need us. I been alive for now 35 yrs, and all 35yrs there wasn't a day went by when I heard young girls and grown women say to us men we don't need you. We can do bad all by ourselves and when you been hearing such toxic views since you were a child how you think men are going to take it? How you think your sons are going to react in the future and how you going to think men are not going to go back to the basics and treat this like an act of war? Men are natural warriors and we are not stupid warriors. We are doing a tactical retreat and going to take our skills else where to avoid these conflicts do these women ever wonder why men are going to south east asia now to get a spouse? It's because of the fact divorce is a taboo in that region of the world, it's the last place in the world that have not been affected by modern age modern feminism and that region of the world is actually fighting hard to keep feminism out of their culture china tried feminism for one year and they started to see declines in marriage and birthing rates and kicked the feminists out of their culture with vast urgency.

[@southerner404]

You hit the nail directly where it is needed. Straight out exhausting. After a long hard day at work one thinks we want to come home to the blame game, bad attitude. Nope. I am done with women period. And no not crossing the line. It is only me. No relationships needed in this mans life. Been there, done that and learned.

[@omaracevedo4784]

Brothers get your passport ready, leave these crazy Western women to screw themselves. Overseas is where it's at, Philippines, Thailand, DR, Colombia , Brazil, I got me a beautiful, smart, funny, devoted, feminine DR woman who is my Ride a Die Chick. 17 years and going strong.

[@nickmack56]

My mom always told me. Your talent will get you there your attitude will keep u there! Pure Gold

[@asunmusicc3331]

Wisdom at its finest.

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

I have that same quote on the wall in my business. Mine reads, _"Your talent will get you to the door today, but it's your attitude which will determine what side of the door tomorrow."_ Your mom sounds like one of the rare breeds the world now starves for.

[@chess-is-king]

Dirty birds 4 life

[@BadTV1993]

Attitude determines your Altitude!"- my mentor Willie Jones (rip Willie Jones)

[@devilsadvocate721]

To MHD. I've dated in the hell's of New York for over 25 years. All I received for my hard work were hellspawn hyenas and banshees that posed as traditional women. I was ridiculed, teased, and bullied by these women. I was just about to give up until I saw a light from the African continent. This woman was charming, vibrant, warm, and heavenly. She was a hard worker, cooked and cleaned. She wasn't afraid of soap or water which to me was amazing. I fell in love. After that I never look back. It's been 18 years of happiness, and peace ever since. To all the men out there. Climb out of hell (America) and leave the hyenas alone. You will not be able to change them. Sad but true.

[@dred9174]

A lot of us are going to South America or Africa plenty of black women with ZERO attitude.

[@justmontina]

Your wife sounds so delightful! I love how you described her and the peace and joy she adds to your life. I added the adjectives you used to describe her to my lifelong list of characteristics I want to exude for my amazing Superman husband.

[@malachiy13]

What country in Africa she's from?

[@devilsadvocate721]

@@justmontina my wife is one of the most amazing. She works two jobs and asks me for nothing. The only thing she asks in return is for her to go back home to Zimbabwe. I didn't tell her it's yet but I bought her a piece of land thirty-two thousand square feet. I told her brother not to say anything because he's helping me build the house. That is my gift to her Hopi and a wonderful wife. Thank you for your comments..

[@devilsadvocate721]

@@malachiy13 zimbabwe.

[@Chazzabox1]

Very well put together, I am so thankful for all the men and woman who are doing the work to research and bring this to the forefront. We all have to think about how we move forward.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

Women need to stop letting pookies 🏃‍♀️ thru. Simple

[@williamtuite1120]

Wow! What a great piece. Excellent content as usual.

[@alvinoldham1531]

He tells them that black women have an attitude the whole room gets an attitude

[@orangeandslinky]

It's NOT intimidating at all. It is an attitude I don't want to be around.

[@Peakfreud]

Yeah, Its hilarious and quite delusional for them to think they're intimidating. Thats like being intimidated by a child throwing a Tempur Tantrum on a playground.

[@areew2766]

Excellent breakdown, Extremely on Point. Very Well done!! Salute ! 👍

[@Smoothe88]

I'm the only boy middle child of three and black. I have clashed with my aunt's a few times and my own mom included, damn do I feel this!

[@ispep8882]

I absolutely love your take on the idea that women go after bad boys because they themselves don't have to be accountable to be good women in those situations. If they find a good guy, they themselves will have to be good women and they can't stand the accountability of that arrangement. As you say, "Pure Gold".

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

It's easier for a woman to drop to a bad boy's level than to rise to meet a good man's expectations.

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

i remember watching a video with a woman talking about how it was hard for her to be a good person...i was mind blown, its actually hard for some of these women it be genuine person , they actually love being toxic smh

[@LightYagami_99]

It’s honestly incredible. Women who have affairs when married move just like this while she says “finding herself“

[@danielmoseley2546]

Soo true !¡!

[@nathaniel3867]

They like the bad boys cause their are chaotic. Most women love chaos. As a boy earlier and now as a grown man women like being emotionally charged. A man that makes a woman feel emotions every second, minute, hour days, month, year. Those are the guys they lust for with a passion. Forget about good heart and good intentions they like chaos. Typically for me I avoid women like that.

[@stevec3526]

Used to have a black girlfriend. She constantly RAN on attitude. Men want peace NOT constant childish bad attitude.

[@urbantraveler3639]

Yo, you killed it in this video. Thank you for posting. Daaaumn! Great job!!!

[@lawrencegrey7401]

This is so outstanding 🎉 great work and thanks

[@Semiam1]

What hit me was how many women back in the 90s were slimmer than they are now.

[@thepayne7862]

I think the appropriate response when someone says to you "Oh you just can't handle me." Is "Oh I can handle you , but life is too short to put up with your crap."

[@malachi405]

I handle some people by telling them to get lost.

[@joseanderson-cuff6491]

Wow! This video is a masterpiece. Well done....perfect... bravo! I couldn't have express myself any better. Thank you so much for the video.

[@Lavoss05]

Excellent video!!!

[@thatguybill34]

*I have my passport. Hitting Columbia in May & Dominican Republic in August. Talk about a peace of mind.*

[@plot229]

I would avoid DR, and goto Costa Rica

[@Acteaon]

And avoid spelling the country of Colombia with a “u”. Trust. I’ve been many times, they will correct you haha 😆

[@alazewilliams6253]

Go where you feel appreciated!! Coming from a woman.

[@rolfgerritsen]

Explaining she doesn't have a bad attitude using bad attitude to blame men. Pure comedy.

[@tarlkoroban3733]

Fantastic episode. You are doing some good work brother.

[@OMAR6575]

Truly the most educational video i have seen in KZbin....GREAT VIDEO...

[@Sleepy_Apocalypse]

Everything that they say we're intimidated by we really just find annoying AF and don't want to deal with 😐💯

[@jaysouthmusic8230]

This is what I'm saying. I'm trying to figure out how they just assumed we are intimidated by them cause we sure as hell not. They just be on that bs and that constant negativity/complaining we don't want to deal with

[@TheKingOfRuckus]

Melanie King was brutally honest about this recently on someone's podcast. You could tell she wasn't happy to say it, but she did not hold back.

[@brutalum]

you mean Melanie Grift? she's a user like the rest

[@brianwaller7383]

Anyone women in the manosphere is a grifter

[@NoFreedom702]

@@brianwaller7383 More like chameleons

[@geebee8989]

@@brutalum aren’t all women by nature user of men. The question should be is she beneficial to men? What is she reciprocating to men as she takes?

[@georgejones3526]

@@geebee8989 Whatever it may be, it’s always temporary. Once they get what they want they stop giving in return. And with women it will always be, “What have you done for me lately?”

[@manfredschmalbach9023]

"Intimidating" and "appalling" are not the same thing no matter how often they try to mix those up into one big cocktail. I just can't handle it? That's right. But it ain't the "intimidating" property that I can't handle, it's the appalling property I do not effing *_want_* anyway near my personal life, that I do not effing *_want_* to constantly having to handle.

[@jamaal8866]

Well that's the problem, we think love is a feeling and love is action.

[@00700556]

You’re telling me for over 30 years plus men have been saying this and they STILL don’t listen? They are hopeless.

[@darkarts1188]

Much Much longer than that! Here’s the legendary James earl jones saying the same shit kzbin.info/www/bejne/pmrOk6eDateBaLc i believe in the 1960’s