BM Kicks His GF & HER KIDS Out For Being LAZY 🙄| Thee Mademoiselle ♔

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

I’m not mad at him… no one that is tidy & responsible wants nasty lazy ppl living with them. I’m sure he warned her prior. Maybe next time she will take someone seriously. Constable comes whether it’s raining or not. Women need to give that same energy to men. She has been using him, thought she had a lick. He did the right thing.

[@YunikuYosefMomoka]

Nastiness is def a reason to kick someone out. People saying she should’ve taken the job were just being ignorant what if she wanted to be a stay at home mom but of course stay at home moms are clean 🧼

[@samariajayytv]

@@YunikuYosefMomoka but she wasn’t a stay home mom.

[@treshelljacksonmcclendon4178]

I’m loving your hair Sis

[@sheepyleepy..2806]

me too

[@jeangriffin2536]

He is right to kick his girlfriend out of his house. She needs to pull her weight around the house . I feel sorry for the children being caught up in the mess. These children are home less because of their mother.

[@sj-9212]

No, he's not. This is illegal. She can file a lawsuit against him.

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

@@sj-9212 🤣✋🏾 she’s a bum & a baby factory not his responsibility. Even if she did have a 30 day notice her situation would have been the same

[@dragosanders4234]

Legally you have to give a 30 day notice it happened to my mother in law when she was alive .And had a friend that was toxic live with her.They said we couldn't throw her out and had to give 30 days .Because she was invited to live there temporarily

[@MarloB]

umm did he not know she was lazy before she moved in with him ? .. this is why I believe it’s best to have your own .. now sis & her kids are left destitute

[@brandoncole5533]

I think he has a sense of how lazy she was and thought it was ok or that he could live with it initially but after advancing the relationship and seeing just how lazy she is He tried to put up with it out of "love" but he reached his breaking point

[@IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink]

@@brandoncole5533 that part. Some ppl are silly. If someone is showing Bum tendencies and you decide to take over for them and take care of them and pay all their bills… what they think is going to happen??… the Bum tendencies become the bum lifestyle.

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

You find out a lot when you live with someone… I agree this is why you have your own… she evidently didn’t have her own but decided to have multiple kids this could be why he didn’t know she was lazy. Even if he did ppl will meet a good person & either do right or take advantage. Advantage is her.

[@kotaku636]

It's a new thing every day chile

[@Beccathree]

You made a great point he was very vague about what happened. Her turning down a job ain’t enough to do all that, record and post it

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

Being nasty not working & staying out all night while he has HER kids & pays all the bills isn’t enough for putting someone out 🤔. What more did you need to know date & time stamps ? Even if she didn’t do all that if he changed his mind he has every right to put her out. You can be in your feelings about it but it’s his house & he warned her prior.. maybe women shouldn’t be baby factories expecting other ppl to take care of them putting their self in a situation like this.

[@dragosanders4234]

I get his frustration she could have did a minor job to help contribute instead he was the breadwinner and trying to feed all of them and pay the bills.I wish she took him seriously and got her stuff out where it wouldn't be in the rain .I wish she would have took him seriously and did her part then they wouldn't have issues

[@damnkevindeaderthanamf6068]

I mean paying bills and being breadwinner is normal for the man but I get that she was lazy

[@dawonfields7360]

@@damnkevindeaderthanamf6068he didn’t have to do that to them for being lazy and it’s raining why

[@Luv4glocks867]

the typa community we live for...

[@brandiewillis987]

Yes your right if it was the other way around we would be saying omg he’s trash and how come you can’t answer the phones, but I need to hear her side to cus I’m nosy I wanna know the 🫖

[@Cheerleader644860]

Ikr because I wanna know exactly what she did like cheat or something? Because in the traditional old ways from the Bible a man is supposed to take care of the woman and he works outside the home but I could be wrong but that's the way it goes traditionally though.

[@mrpeach2023]

@@Cheerleader644860 Being “traditional” doesn’t pay the bills. Everyone has to do their part. Can’t just be at home all day and solely rely your partner to bring in the money.

[@Cheerleader644860]

@@mrpeach2023 ik I know full well that but for those who can let your wife be a wife at home without forcing her to get a job and teach the young men how to work outside the home and take care of the daughters until they are married.

[@JustMeandGod_]

@@Cheerleader644860 she supposed to at Least keep up with the home ..cook clean and watch the kids

[@Cheerleader644860]

@@JustMeandGod_ I know I said that

[@comelordjesus4078]

Me personally I agree with him

[@farrahc7055]

Now she's learned her lesson, I hope she finds a job and gets her own place and stop using men like this. She was very lucky it didn't escalate any further.

[@truthtimetarot]

I feel his pain!! You go boy!!!

[@fakeidonthaveahandle]

You legally have to evict her. Then yes, I agree. He doesn't love the kids at all btw, otherwise he would have just evicted her like he legally should. Instead, he threw the childrens' and her things out in the rain.

[@bxcutie4life2007]

Exactly, this is an illegal eviction and he's really acting like he's a good guy. He's either a liar or a clout chaser.

[@samariajayytv]

@@bxcutie4life2007 but if a woman did this y’all wouldn’t be saying this like💀

[@sj-9212]

@@samariajayytv it's illegal for a woman to do this too. Happy now?

[@kyeolukanni-phelps961]

A responsible woman and mother wouldn’t be in this position period. Even if you take the relationship out…my parents are property owners that have tried to help and be nice to nasty tenets. That fact that y’all are defending this mess is sad! And side note: these are not that man’s kids…most men won’t create a deep attachment to children that aren’t there’s. Just a fact.

[@Jess-ew3tm]

He supposed to keep her kids hostage? Tf

[@raynellemccathern3018]

If I were him, I would have given her an eviction notice.

[@jennifergoodwin3290]

Dude should have went to the courthouse talk to the Court Clerk about eviction notice to put out the tenant and give the tenant certain amount of days to leave your residence or the sheriff office also the U.S. Marshalls Office (if you live in Washington, DC)

[@EspritsFantomes]

I’m not sure men don’t care at all about what women make and what they do. When we met 4 years ago, my partner didn’t care about what a woman does. We were grads at the time and had only been working for a year. Now he has a good salary and I have an even better one since I’m in tech. I don’t know how we went back to that topic but this time he said the job the woman does matter especially in this current economy 😂😂😂 The price is rising, everything is expensive now so he said two good salaries are important otherwise how do we live 😂😂😂. Also I’m in Europe not the US. Here living on one income is what extremely rich people do or people who are religious and have tons of kids because it’s just not possible

[@bashengatheblackmanta7003]

Key word"in this current economy ". Also the thing about we men is that we want our girlfriend or wife to evolve in status with us during the relationship. In the beggening of the relationship we don't really care about your status but in longterm relationships we want to see an evolution, to build something together with her.

[@macygray5984]

I wish people would listen to their mates when they say what they want/don’t want. It’s like my cousin, he’s not necessarily looking for a woman to go 50/50 but a woman who is on her ish, who doesn’t completely rely on her looks to get what she needs. He has this girl that he deals with, tried to put her on game, put her on to different opportunities to make money for herself and her daughter, but since she’s pretty she either wants to be kept or she wants to do dumb jobs like be a bottle girl. He tells her that he doesn’t want to be with her because she lacks drive, but she keeps coming around, cooking and cleaning for him, even taking care of his son that he had before he was dealing with her then jas the nerve to get upset when my cousin doesn’t want to deal with her. He told you what he wanted from the jump, so why are you mad when he doesn’t want you around?!?!?

[@Barbiecakezz]

It’s just rain 😂 it’s literally water … it will dry . Y’all way too sensitive. He asked her SEVEN time to leave and she wouldn’t !!

[@livelovely4681]

Water damage is a thing. Don't allow people and their belongings in your home.

[@sakidevi7329]

Had to double check that I was subscribed 😂😭 I love your content...keep preaching golden child 💖

[@lovely1foru]

you suppose to give her 30 days to leave since her and her kids live there... he is doing too much out of emotion

[@comelordjesus4078]

He said he told her 7 times

[@lovely1foru]

@@comelordjesus4078 7 times in a day🤦🏾‍♀️ like she supposed to take her kids to the corner right then and there

[@dragosanders4234]

She probably didn't take him seriously thinking he wouldn't do it

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

@@lovely1forunot his problem or his kids

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

She isn’t doing enough… those are her kids & his house she apparently couldn’t take care of them prior

[@seleciaa]

Yup. I changed things up after my last relationship. I'm talking to someone, and he approached me first. Intelligent, well-educated, forward and leading. We'll see where things go, but I'm enjoying myself far more. Men generally don't care about your education or degrees. They care about your personality and intellect.

[@XammoX89]

10:43 I was singing right with you 🧡 And yes, Sage is black 🖤

[@dotdot_8003]

So why let her move in?? He should have seen how she was living /her behavior before he even chose to get to that point

[@lovinallofna870]

Ya hair is so pretty 💕

[@ebonyoverload3009]

“ I lu Da Kidz” yeah sure buddy.

[@allieb03]

Yessssss!

[@tiffanykim2773]

Why do we always comfort women when they finally decide to leave their dead beat boyfriends but when it's a man we talk about them having to take accountability for choosing the type of women that they do? I'm just saying the double standards are real.

[@JustMeandGod_]

Exactly some of these comments pissing me off😐

[@FT-vv2lo]

i disagree, cuz i see people literally ALWAYS say to women “you should’ve chosen better” in situations like this.

[@kayleewilliams1232]

I think it's only the kids. I couldn't imagine loving my kids and kicking them out over the laziness of a partner.

[@sj-9212]

@@kayleewilliams1232 He probably already knew that the kids will be fine. They’re always at her mothers house anyways when she goes out.

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

Don’t say we say delusional women 😂. I don’t do single mother sympathy nor do I even like black men but I support this man. He did nothing wrong with this lazy female that was using him. Women that are defending her I bet are single mothers. Any single woman that has her own kids or not will understand that he had dead weight 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@sheepyleepy..2806]

4:45 yeah true too cuz over here dont nothing matter and dont nobody got double standards

[@sheepyleepy..2806]

12:48 i get the double standard because men impress wemen to get with them wemen dont have to do that plus its not their role the man is the provider the woman is to submit to her husband

[@K9Shelle]

Okay okay this is my next hair style. Iwl I be watching the videos then get stuck on the hair like hmm my locs can do that too 😂❤

[@mayaharris8231]

At the end of the day he tried to help and gave her multiple warnings that he was gonna put her out if she didn’t start pulling her weight. So he put her out and she just so happens to not have any stability so her kids are homeless. I’m pretty sure if she didn’t have those kids he probably wouldn’t even have tried to get her to do right so many times. She didn’t want to so now she has no money to move them in even a rented bedroom. That’s her fault. We all have our limits

[@jennifergoodwin3290]

Dude did right by recording putting his girlfriend and her kids things out and explaining the situation also he should have went to the courthouse in his hometown talk to the Court Clerk about eviction notice to put out the tenant and give the tenant certain amount of days to leave your residence or the sheriff office also the U.S. Marshalls Office (if you live in Washington, DC).

[@badcuzimpeachey]

Lesson learned make sure you both have jobs both can support yourself in case yall argue want to move on

[@truthtimetarot]

Yes!! I know a so many women and men like this!!! Lol... today's world your Lil 25$ an hour ain't gonna support Nathan...

[@sheepyleepy..2806]

5:27 damm

[@debbyluxe]

I get this but he could’ve hired a van for all her things instead of just leaving it out in the rain.

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

Absolutely not she’s responsible for her & her child

[@IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink]

It would be nice if he did that… but dude was TIRED AND DONE. Also this was the 7th time she was asked to leave… Sis deserved to be put out. Her and her kids, this is her fault. I don’t blame him in this case… 7 times. If a man didn’t leave the 1st time we would be crucifying him and calling the cops.

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

@@IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink FACTS

[@cavalmegamean3281]

Wait we gettin music?!??!! ❤

[@rosejade4233]

What does “BM” stand for if it’s not “babymomma”

[@DeeHenny]

Black man

[@rockyhorrorshow7990]

Naw, my man you gots to go. I can't handle adult children.

[@anneagena8236]

I feel his pain cuz it looks like she was using him and he was paying all her and her kids bills and she don’t wanna work or do nothing . He told her multiple times. But I feel like he illegally put her out and that was not okay. He should of evict her properly but I guess he was fed up.

[@shatiadriskell5144]

Legally, he can't put her out. The best thing would probably be to leave and stop paying the bills

[@pfb74]

This sounds like all he had to give as an example was the job thing and her overall being lazy which I'm sure is annoying asf.

[@brandoncole5533]

When I saw BM I immediately thought Baby Momma I was so confused 😭

[@Nomdeplume4]

I'm still getting used to that too 😂😂 glad it's not just me

[@sheepyleepy..2806]

9:41 yeah

[@audreyagbodjan5338]

We can't treat a man and a woman differently because the main care giver is almost always the woman. So yeah when u kicking a man out .. oh its just a man. But if u kicking a woman out you really kicking out a mother.

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

i would’ve at least kept the babies stuff in the house and just threw her stuff out she has to go

[@chocolatesugar4434]

No matter how many bills are paid on my behalf, you haven’t bought me, and you can’t tell me what to do. I don’t agree with rich men will always tell you what to do and often they value degrees too. In fact wealthy men usually marry educated and established women and still cover the bills.

[@Airazaseraph]

if youre talking abt the man saying he pays all the bill then u sound foolish, if your in someones house laying up not doing anything and ur paying bills, buyin thenessities for living, and paying rent then theres no excuse. he hasnt bought her but shes in his home rent free treating him like trash.

[@Dorothyann436]

He definitely didn’t call the police on her. It makes no sense that they’d suggest kicking her and her kids out not even until they’re present first??? There’s definitely some fabrication to the story he’s telling because he can’t legally kick her out like that. He also is extremely vague.

[@Mojojoho]

Why waste police’s time? She had to go.

[@jacquelinwilliams9293]

The Mademoiselle hope your day is going well. I Don’t blame him! I can’t stand a-dirty, lazy person . I wouldn’t put that person out on a rainy day. But the first clear day . She’s be gone.❤😊

[@growinghigher420]

God ain't going save him from all the legal trouble his emotions put himself in 😂🤦‍♀️

[@livelovely4681]

​@@lenipopo The law is the law. They will tell him if he fears for his life he needs to go.

[@SPEAKSB]

Both are at fault. He should have better boundaries and not allow behavior he doesn’t like from a woman. Also she’s at fault because she shouldn’t be taking advantage of peoples kindness.

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

He evidently did have boundaries & she refused to abide

[@SPEAKSB]

@@CoCo-yv3hl no. That’s why she talked about red flags. If he had boundaries set this would have never have happened because there wouldn’t be so many instances of him knowing they’re broken and he didn’t do anything. You don’t keep encouraging bad behavior. You see the behavior and leave that person alone. You have to take responsibility for what you allow period. If he got walked over it’s because he allowed it.

[@Babygirltaja]

Yeah maybe he shouldn’t have thrown the kids out, but that is on their mother at the same time…

[@k3isha3o54]

I understand him but he put her things out in the rain. Also he better hope she doesn't file an illegal eviction. I hope he gave her money to leave

[@ashantim8734]

My thing is why did he have to record it and put it on the internet. I think it’s weird when a situation is messy and someone pulls out the phone to record especially if it’s to try and appease the audience. I understand recording a situation where you’re in danger. Buddy could of put her stuff out, took pictures of his house for proof epi dats it

[@crispri3919]

Because there needs to be documented time stamped proof in case she lies and says he beat her up then physically tossed her out

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

I agree why is a recording the first thing that comes to mind but he could have done it so she wouldn’t lie on him about something

[@JustMeandGod_]

Y’all still blaming the man this is sad as a woman y’all would be cheering the girl on if it was the opposite

[@sj-9212]

Not in today's time. Women get held to a higher standard now.

[@carmen.juliana]

Everyone cares more about a couple cells then they do about the kids 😭💀

[@calistafalcontail]

"a couple of cells" ...how do we know when the soul comes into play? I say we should care about the start and the finished product.

[@Jess-ew3tm]

The cells will eventually become kids…..right

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

Her responsibility not his

[@SaweetDee22]

Yeah he decided to put their stuff out in the pouring rain. Even the kids stuff 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ Like I know he doesn’t care cause they aren’t his kids but they don’t deserve that! Car seats are so expensive! But I guess he is entitled to not have her in his house

[@Cheerleader644860]

Before even watching this video the most the I feel for is the children. The children's stuff didnt have to go in the rain, though.

[@SaweetDee22]

@@Cheerleader644860 right! Like as a child regardless of what my parent did cause I would be devastated

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

They don’t deserve their lazy mama putting them in that situation. She should have left when he asked originally.

[@SaweetDee22]

@@CoCo-yv3hl correct but that doesn’t negate their innocence

[@sheepyleepy..2806]

3:20 her stuff can get moldy to especially put a baby car seat out in that rain Uncovered is wrong. thats doing to much to put that stuff out there like its a junk yard and let things like the keyboard get wet

[@unbothered731]

He's a good one, and those aren't his children.

[@Cheerleader644860]

Yes but people need to think if it were them in. Would you want a van to pick up your stuff up and wait for you to get it all or would you want your mama's boyfriend to put it all in the rain where your stuff can get wet and possibly hard work can be ruined.

[@brandoncole5533]

@@Cheerleader644860 in the moment I wouldn't want that but after growing up and seeing the type of woman my momma is I couldn't blame him and understand that it was her fault

[@Cheerleader644860]

@@brandoncole5533 kk

[@goofynigga8456]

​@@Cheerleader644860 where the bio father tht his burden. Women need to stop putting the burden of there child will being into strangers or men u just dated under a year it make u look pathetic and incompetent.

[@Destiny-MommaTchannel]

Hold on if you would I would love to have that $20 hour job. Please send me that info cause this Momma right here would love to have that

[@niaanais895]

😮

[@erinfromorion]

You meant BABY DADDY (BD) not BM (baby mama) in the title 🤔

[@arinotsorry138]

I think BM stands for Black Man in this title

[@Barbiecakezz]

Black Man

[@erinfromorion]

Ohhhhh makes so much more sense.

[@TheeMademoiselle]

Know. Black man. Black woman. These 2 don’t share a child.

[@sheepyleepy..2806]

21 hours ago

[@Brownsugar-ye8eu]

He was totally justified

[@biNoelle]

I don’t agree with how he kicked her out. Especially when she has kids. And in the rain. But I understand why he would be frustrated

[@AlekcisIwiye]

I just know she a baddie! i wonder where and how they met.

[@JustMeandGod_]

No real baddie is a lazy bum With kids relying on a man’s help

[@teetanee1472]

You could have put her stuff out in the rain but to do that to those kids male or female is cruel. Just like when women allow some guys to lay up on them and don’t speak up, I think he might have allowed her to get comfortable and said “Don’t worry about anything I gotchu” and didn’t realize it was an invitation to laziness. I honestly don’t feel bad for adults but I feel bad for those kids because if this is true what this guy saying I’m sure this isn’t the 1st or last time this will happen 😢

[@violetk8025]

How you love them kids but you sprawled their stuff out in the yard in the rain uncovered…….. lol don’t bring god into this sir.

[@RisingSun54321]

Fake