Do "THIS" to Make a Girl Chase You

[@alirezaRahmanikhalili]

"any time you explain yourself to a woman, your value in her eyes drops" awesome

[@theoffworlder]

The push pull game is key. No attention at all to a girl early on she won’t think you are into her even if she is into you. You gotta give some crumbs.

[@eapartnersllc9321]

One thing to add to Bobby's message: In order to create more value in yourself, you need to WORK ON YOURSELF. What I mean by this is gaining self-confidence. Do things like make plans with friends/family/dates that fill your week up which will make yourself scarce (which creates desire when it's "rare" or hard to make plans with you), working out or dieting to feel more confident in your physical attraction, being so busy that you don't answer txts immediately at any time during the day (or just put your phone away for a few hours at a time so your not always connected), and having hobbies during downtime that keep you busy and make you an interesting (aka not boring) person. It could be working on your car, sailing a boat, learning to play an instrument, or just any type of activity that isn't work-related. These things can create a LIFE for you, which you give you a sense of priorities and VALUE, which will be projected onto her. Value and self-worth should never come from a women's validation of you. It should always come from WITHIN YOU, which will show through naturally to a woman.

[@ssnydess6787]

Thank you Bobby. I have been in a position of dating a lot of women over the past six decades and as a military pilot with confidence and charisma, I have never had a problem getting women, but keeping them has been another story. Since my last break up I have taken time off from dating and been watching and learning from your videos and a few others. Including subscribing to your scrambler. It has been a slow process, but I have been making progress. After taking time off, I am slowly reentering the dating process and being more selective; it is working and I don't feel rushed or pressured any more. I keep myself in 95% shape, groom and dress well and take care of myself way better than I used to. It is a process; one that I will continue to engage in with your guidance. Thank you again.

[@NEGAO699]

Same here

[@Beardedguy89]

My ex had conditioned me over almost 9 years to devalue myself and now I do value myself a lot has changed and for the better thank you

[@danielmartin5016]

I can tell you right now. Being myself and being nice brings women into my life more then I could even tell you. Has nothing about trying to hard. If you value a women and showing her that you take the time to include her into your life and you value her like she's everything. Trust me be just yourself and keep your confidence up about who you are as a man. Trust me women flock. If she sees you as less value then move on and she's not worth the time. If you value yourself and give that same value to someone your into. All is golden.

[@vivianjohn1011]

I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back.

[@vivianjohn1011]

Whats"app him ....

[@vivianjohn1011]

[phone]

[@jimzimmerman5288]

I agree with this.

[@wdrumz]

100% agree with this. There is a difference of being FAKE nice and genuinely like no I care about you and want the best for you. And that is me and what I can offer. SO many today are brainwashed. A God fearing man is what would keep them all in line honestly.

[@patrickben4276]

From today I will be a high value man

But with that will you get her back??

[@idris609]

You don't know how much hard this made me laugh

[@valelelentin]

Wear gold clothes

[@lenroywalcott5253]

Same

[@ketchup5099]

You said this 5 months ago. Evaluate yourself today.

[@Carloshernandez-tv5jg]

I needed to hear this. From now on I will not give my time away to any female so cheaply. It all makes sense now.

[@eduardodiaz8661]

This is pure gold and soooo true.Thanks Bobby !

[@robertatkinson1347]

Thanks so much for this, very helpful. I'm a typical nice guy that has no luck with women whatsoever simply because 'I try too hard'. Thankfully though i'm older and wiser now and have realised that being 'nice' gets you absolutely nowhere and watching this video has only educated me further so thanks a lot! The one who is being chased has the power over the person who is chasing them it's as simple as that and to keep it that way you simply just need to sit back and play it cool as like you said being over eager lowers your value to her and comes across as needy and desperate then the power switches right over to her. Let her chase you and you are simply the one in control it really is that simple.

[@jurgen129]

This is an excellent video. I think it goes even further: what's the value of the gift of life? Do you value your life enough? This is not just about women. This is about you and your boss, your plumber, your parents, your insurance guy, your friends - everybody! And it starts with yourself. Do you value your life enough to not eat shitty? To not sacrifice yourself for work? To to fall for the cheapest emotion that media can trigger (embarrassment)? Think about it. I did and my life changed. Rapidly. Respect yourself, the gift of life and set boundaries.

[@randhirmungra390]

This is one of your best videos Bobby ! Thanks

[@mavindraganga3398]

I ghosted for months but did sent an unexpected birthday card and wrote in it!

[@medo5296]

Bobby changes a lot of things. I love listening to you

[@alirezaRahmanikhalili]

one of the best video in dating ever uploaded in youtube, Good job

[@BobbyRio]

glad you enjoyed!

[@joeuscanga7235]

Listen to this guy crowd, he's right on point!

[@amanet7198]

this guy hero after listening to his advice and taking his course so much changed in my relationship

[@keanagila2023]

I strongly agree with you Mr. Bobby. You got the point. Personally I experience what you're saying here. You've got my highly respect on you Mr. Bobby. I know you're desire to help other Man like us.

[@robertlaguirremusic7381]

Hey Bobbie thanks for the pep talks I glean a lot from ur videos. Thank You!

[@judyjames729]

I know of someone great and powerful who can help you he helped me restore back my broken relationship and he can also help you just as he did mine too

[@judyjames729]

Text him on WhatsApp

[@aligncars10000]

Absolutely love your videos. You're the only one I follow for tips on getting women.

[@BobbyRio]

I appreciate that!

[@Gabriel-Kazu]

Encountering this vid was the best thing. Perfect timing. Especially the birthday. Cause it crossed my mind literally am hour before this vid. This helped me regain my self and my position. Thank you for the nudge back.

[@hassaanaden4480]

Bobby, the legend big respect for you brother and a hug from somalia 😊

[@1sincerenaz]

Man I'm high af and this like the best video I seen in mad long. 🙌🏾

[@blendon1463]

been watching you for a week, and I'm a changed man. I wish I had found you 20 years ago

[@wulfclaw4921]

How true....If you got put in the friend zone, you set that in motion

[@cdn20782]

Just started listening to your videos for the past couple days. You are the best on youtube man!!!

[@niallmurray9725]

Unfortunately for me, I believe every word your saying. Time to up my game in the importance of my time and value stakes I think!. Having had a few ‘relationships’ in the recent year or so, it is the ones you give less time to that keep being interested months later. Though on the flip side it’s always the one you want and put the effort in with that isn’t. I need to learn from my own experiences 😆

[@chrisdoheny7081]

You’re exactly right I’ve been too nice in the past

[@thetruecyde]

Pretty cool, atm it blows my mind. I had a girl on my work, and she's playing the hot and warm game. As mutch i dont care, it seems she puts more work on on the realtionship. Thank you so mutch for your help, but i have still watch the Rest of your content. Sorry if my english isnt that good, greatings from germany

[@jessedesimone2260]

I'm glad I listened to your video it actually stopped me from doing things that I was gonna do today and we only been talking for 2weeks so I do appreciate your advise thanks

[@vivianjohn1011]

I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back

[@vivianjohn1011]

Whats"app him ....

[@vivianjohn1011]

[phone]

[@teddyzam8114]

Very well explained u drive it home abt high value thing thank you.

[@BobbyRio]

glad you liked it.

[@chicogaming182]

OMG this is insane 🤯 This is reality... I was a low valued men past days... Now I need to change

[@terryaultman9933]

I want to thank the great customer service from his team. They came through with what he said.

[@WorldCollections]

Bobby is the avatar, the Jedi, the sensei of dating and female psychology and persuasion. He can teach you more than what any scientist or psychologist ever could about a woman, attraction and about your own confidence as a man. He is beyond expert level, he’s mastered the art of how to approach women and it works like pure magic.

[@TheIllerX]

Well, yes, there is a lot of truth in this. I have heard so many other people say the same and the reasoning is very sound. However, I still find it hard to apply in real life. Yes, I can play cool and don't contact girls too much. But typically that just seem to lead to they loosing interest and probably think I am not interested. I have a really hard time finding a middle way here. Somehow you have to signal interest, but at the same time not too much so they think you are low value. I find that hard.

[@BobbyRio]

there are other high value traits other than just not being too needy... How you carry yourself, how you're able to flirt with her, lead her, being comfortable with being sexual... all of these demonstrate value too.

[@FEBob]

Bobby Rio! You’re Fkn excellent man, learning so much from you! Thanks for all you do for us hopeless SIMPS😂

[@mikegarrow5376]

i have to thank you for this video, i made every mistake you mentioned for a girl i chased for 3 1/2 years and when i finally got her i smothered her with to much and did it all wrong. going forward i will follow with less and less will be more. thank you

[@mainemceachern1521]

Bobby you've added tremendous value to the repository of men's dating wisdom. Thank you!

[@thiagosantana214]

Amazing video, one of the best of your content. Keep the good work up.

[@MenMovement]

Hmm this could be something interesting, i'll keep watching

[@nisarumrani1530]

Brilliant sir really nice to have your precious advises

[@chimeziehenryuzozie9068]

You’re God sent

[@saberzahim4017]

I just want to tell You .. thank You brother

[@vivianjohn1011]

I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back

[@vivianjohn1011]

Whats"app him ....

[@vivianjohn1011]

[phone]

[@jamesdavila6943]

From Now until the rest of my life I will be a High Value Man

[@manmohanbhatt7182]

I was that kind of guy and I ended up dating the same girl whom I wanted to date last year but the moment I started giving her everything for free she started trying get away from me, now I can understand why it happened. I won her so easily when I was so busy not giving her attention not giving her love , when I was talking to other girls, but the moment I stopped doing this she started loosing attraction in me.

[@lovaboyofficial]

2018 I really crushed on her, right now I realize that my reactions at that time made me un-valuable at the girl’s eyes when I started watching this coaching stuffs till now, around 2018 i even cried on the phone to her to give me a chance for a relationship 😂

[@Ariesmlbb-c1o]

Sir from today i will change myself whatever you said it's correct i hv suffered

[@CalvinJamesJr]

Good video brother! I have ten plus years of experience as well in the field!

[@kaspatova]

I was a god dam dancing 🐒 😂 @8:25 Great video , awesome insight! New subscriber

[@Observer82AB]

There was an old saying once, "You have to kiss a lot of frogs sometimes." Dating is a numbers game. Especially now with the internet. But that being said, there are a lot of women online also.

[@vivianjohn1011]

I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back

[@vivianjohn1011]

Whats"app him ....

[@vivianjohn1011]

[phone]

[@Observer82AB]

@@vivianjohn1011 Why would any sane man want an ex back?

[@tayebzied9868]

thanks bobby

[@akashpatil4409]

Came to know through her WhatsApp status that it was her birthday, still didn't wish her. Now *SHE IS CHASING ME* . Thanks Bobby Rio and Rob Judge u guys made me high status. "Once a women knows she has you it's over and you won't have the girl"- Bobby Rio #EPIC

[@TheIllerX]

Yes, That last sentence is true wisdom.

[@ministermadden]

When you really stop caring they really start caring😃😃😃😃

[@mccm3663]

I don't know why people watch Bobby Rio's videos if they don't want to learn. It's easy to criticise. It's much harder to change and then take the necessary action needed.

[@vivianjohn1011]

I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back

[@vivianjohn1011]

Whats"app him ....

[@vivianjohn1011]

[phone]

[@jonanjalon3783]

Thank you

[@michaelcasareo8450]

I'm guilty of that bday planning....looking back....i'm a complete failure....i fall into that trap.

[@vivianjohn1011]

I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back

[@vivianjohn1011]

Whats"app him ....

[@vivianjohn1011]

[phone]

[@edidiongeyibo2963]

Guilty! Thanks man

[@sonicitnyre]

This made me realize I was playing the game right for 3 years then I screwed it all it by lowering the price on myself

[@7550375503]

Great wisdom

[@mikeserrano3813]

You have some very truthful insights !

[@SalamatSaburov-lw8vh]

Man this exactly what I did After a week of talking i started asking so are gonna be more than friends or no I put too much pressure on that I knew she liked me a lot but what turned her off and she went back to her ex

[@michaelburress2960]

It's true. We teach people how to treat us.

[@juliopinheiro7997]

Thank you for those insights, man!

[@johnbauer6936]

My value is at 0. After being destroyed by my ex-wife and recently a female friend of 30 years. We finally hooked up and I blew it by being too needy. Wish I found Bobby Rio 3 weeks ago, I might be in a better spot right now.

[@mrbabyhugh]

7:38 here is one, extremely high interest coming from a girl. I was away, she responds to at least every other IG post. 3 times she asked when I coming back. I did week of her birthday. The Friday she msg me, what am I doing, anyway we ended up going out. Her bday was the Tuesday after, so day before I invited her out. She kept initiating business, she came over my place to discuss it. I then invited her over for a DINNER DATE, she accepted immediately. In going away again, I said, "when I am back we do/go on more dates". SHE PULLED BACK, went "dates? Thought we friends". I also pulled back, NOW A YEAR LATER SHE IS BACK ALL OVER AGAIN.

[@j-star1]

Great one!

[@martinyeboah5526]

Powerful content and info, Bobby

[@vivianjohn1011]

I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back

[@vivianjohn1011]

Whats"app him ....

[@vivianjohn1011]

[phone]

[@JugglernautNr9]

It's the hard truth and we have to hear it over and over again to get it into our beta brains. Great content!

[@kakalee5881]

Great video !

[@emadmamlouki7973]

Thanx BOBBY. I learned the right thing to do with birthday. But l already made the stupid mistake of asking her birthday in the first impression. IDK what to do now.

[@jkkotak8093]

Hey Man I have seen every video on your channel 3 to 5 times, I think this is one of Most valuable video. But my mind in contradiction as If I apply other things like showing Intent, being flirtatious, calling her, talking to her even in authoritative way at the end I looks needy na, Then should I go and try or not try. Because of female mentality she always guard up initially than should I be Persistent or follow attitude as per this video, please Make one video to so that everyone can come out from this confusion and also suggesting that how to act when she is already attracted.🙏

[@FionMcCormack]

Downloaded. Bobbie I have a genius idea for you. You should consider working with a hypnotist such as Michael Sealy to create a sleep hypnosis track to help instill your alpha male thinking into the subconscious. I'd pay for that. Your psychology + Michael Sealy's hypnosis technique = amazing

[@BobbyRio]

That would be great. I love Michael Sealey's videos, and fall asleep to them often. But def would be cool to have customized one specific for this sort of thing

[@davidmulhern5877]

Thank you Bobby. I’m going to buy it for five dollars.

[@chefpointgastronomia8619]

Keep the good job Bob!

[@bengrant449]

Good video Bobby keep it up

[@HdHd-hp6qz]

The person that cares the least in the relationship controls it.

[@jkkotak8093]

Hey Man I have seen every video on your channel 3 to 5 times, I think this is one of Most valuable video. But my mind in contradiction as If I apply other things like showing Intent, being flirtatious, calling her, talking to her even in authoritative way at the end I looks needy na, Then should I go and try or not try. Because of female mentality she always guard up initially than should I be Persistent or follow attitude as per this video, please Make one video to so that everyone can come out from this confusion and also suggesting that how to act when she is already attracted.

[@pierrelevasseur2701]

The birthday example reminded me of something that happened last year. This woman let everyone in the social circle when her birthday was coming. I had a sort of crush on her back then. I thought about getting her a present, nothing big, just a magnifying glass with a light on it as she has trouble seeing small print. Surely others would get her something. It would have cost like $5. A nice gesture but I decided against it. Another guy gave her navel rings, about $20, she had said she lost hers. I think he did this as an excuse to possibly show his affection, trying to impress. I didn't even think they knew each other that well and turns out, he didn't. He got a hug out of it. I don't think I've seen him around much with her since. Turns out, she's not really my type although I see her on occasion. She did have a party for me on my birthday, which was nice. No presents as I asked.

[@lovaboyofficial]

If you meet a crush, I mean a girl you really love at first sight you cannot hold on a bit in chasing this is regular things all guys would be doing, unless you find this coaches, when you get the experience from them u can be a master for winning girls and most important is that you need to be able to control your self, love, feelings and, reactions when you’ve fall in love or else you’ll win nothing

[@missmorte_6817]

The only thing this guy has right is that people need to attach more more value to themselves. Build that self confidence. But do it for you, not for anybody else.

[@GeorgiaHeard]

This guy is lost in the woods, badly. Listen to this woman and find your own value. This man is attempting to monetize insecurities we all have.

[@marcusmvpgoat1236]

@@GeorgiaHeard everything he says is true

[@marcusmvpgoat1236]

Everything he says is true

[@FuelAirSparkTime]

In my experience about half of the women I've met are like this the other half not so much, and their level of attractiveness was the same. Some do want to be chased but only if they see you as potential in the first place. Others don't. Some do see you as supplicating if you explain yourself others think it's polite and respect it if you do, if the situation warrants it. The women who do go for rude, ignorant, obnoxious guys who act infallible and above reproach are usually idiots themselves.

[@paulcolin9071]

Agree

[@Albert-777]

Appreciate your video and thanks

[@josephchanda3122]

Thank you so much 🙏

[@OSCARHERNANDEZ-un5iy]

dam thanks I was thinking about her bday on Thursday coming up I was gona buy. gift. flowers n mariachi thanks for heads up

[@joan5844]

Hiii greetings from Nigeria 🇳🇬 I'm just seeing you here for the first time tho....I will like to know you more I hope you wouldn't mind

[@olatunjiunique9061]

Thank you for this and I've learned something important I'll start using in my relationship

[@stevieG.]

Very sobering message

[@dvicious11]

I was already gathering her Christmas presant

[@Jay-0011]

Protect this man at all cost

[@AM-br4ix]

It’s today’s society is why a good man has trouble! Society has corrupted men and women and have turned the whole relationship upside down! In my great grandparents days and my grandparents day as well as my parents days things were a whole lot different and better for both men and women!!!

[@wdrumz]

Facts man...

[@brent4073]

Women were protected from themselves before

[@ajb3858]

Thanks brother for the great content.

[@cartertroy8844]

Bless you man

[@abhimanyupaudel2032]

Its true and i agree with ur opinion

[@gothickingstreamer1013]

Guilty of sending the happy birthday message when don't even know them that well throw my hands up to that one

[@vivianjohn1011]

I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back

[@vivianjohn1011]

Whats"app him ....

[@vivianjohn1011]

[phone]

[@AutoBodyEverything]

I’ve never planned or used a girl’s birthday to make an impression on her or as an opportunity. HOWEVER…. I have thrown parties just to be able to invite the girl I wanted to approach. If all fails, you can tell her you threw this party just for her and explain everything it took to get her to come and that alone will do it for you. Just wait until everyone is almost gone and only as a last desperate measure.

[@paulsorentino3291]

Yes, on the birthday

[@samsirhed4886]

Talk about when she's hot into you, but wants to text video until she feels comfortable to even meet for a drink

[@innocentone9410]

I have a LDR GIRLFRIEND and Christmas is already next month.. what should I do to impressed her this Xmas..... Please 🙏 help

[@ingrained2train]

Not only am I guilty, but I literally made the mistake last week! I used her birthday to try and set up a date (we’ve been out and have had $ex already) cuz I felt her pulling away…she hit me with the I’m busy 😂 Ironically I went no contact after that now she initiating conversations with me again (I found your videos after the I’m busy text)

[@davidmclendon3670]

That's great thanks

[@jeffreyolivito8810]

Bobby !! You just kicked me in my ass!! Everything just got clearer with me … Damn !! You nailed it and i didn’t realize how stupid i’ve been -- Thank you for the ‘ heads-up’ 👍👍