Bob the Drag Queen was not invited, a compilation

[@bobtdqvideos]

remember to watch #DragRacePH!!! ❤ and tip to motivate me! ko-fi.com/bobtdqvideos

[@BlueIvysBlackberry]

Bob is that friend who wants to be invited everywhere even though they never respond to your invites and when they do, it’s to tell you that they’re not coming😂

[@thatsseauxnish_]

Lowkey hate those friends lol.

[@esmieadele8865]

classic cancers.

[@heidibangbang]

But he still wants the invite. Everyone wants to feel wanted..

[@BlueIvysBlackberry]

I agree but I can also see why people would stop inviting him if he doesn’t seem interested.

[@redduskironsky1058]

@@BlueIvysBlackberry problem is that if he is not invited, yall wont hear the end of it like Monet, those type of friends just need to feel important, thats all. And yes I know Bob is generally joking...but you can tell sometimes he is being serious, but not too serious.

[@robertmarshalljr3750]

Bob: "u never invite me!" Also Bob: "I don't owe u an itinerary of my day"

[@bobtdqvideos]

RIGHT?😆😆 when they were nominated together

[@fajarsetiawan8665]

DRAG HER!!!

[@plenilunium]

This seems very toxic. I do like Bob very much and know that these clips should not affect my opinion of someone but I hate to admit, that it does. First Bob is upset at Monet for not inviting them to any social gatherings and pointing out that it is Monet her task to inform her. Then they get on the defensive when confronted on the change of plans for going to the award show and from what I can see from their facial expression, totally undermining and downplaying Monet her emotions. Fully in the wrong here and still not able to state that they (Bob) are responsible or at fault (also the gaslighting). P.s I still like both queens but I just cannot understand Bob their mindset.

[@fajarsetiawan8665]

@@plenilunium ok, calm down. It's all for entertainment. Don't do a Dr. Phil.

[@plenilunium]

@@fajarsetiawan8665 Yeah, I might be reading too much into it. I am just allergic to this kind of behaviour and I think it resembles some traits my parents have. And yes, you are correct. I also, like Dr. Phil over-analyse people without having a proper diploma/degree :].

[@jml6263]

Monet: Bob, you're the nicest girl I know. Bob: So you know other girls then?!

[@sunnymarie2060]

😆😆😆

[@mjr373]

I laughed so hard at this

[@portcharleslibrary1365]

This is my toxic trait 😂

[@EmyN]

😂

[@edgarrosas8456]

Charisma, uniqueness, not invited, and talent

[@rf1206]

🤣💀💀💀💀

[@cdarrillo103]

Not the CUNIT ⚰

[@jameslucas129]

The NERVE! 🤣🤣

[@sonifyoudontandtheywereroo7142]

Thank you for this comment. This is my free therapy

[@MoximB]

best comment

[@muchomango11]

Monét bringing up a specific event that she coordinated that centered around Bob and Bob having no recollection of it whatsoever after that whole argument is so funny to me 💀

[@bobtdqvideos]

right? 😆😆

[@crazzee247]

Sibling Gaslightery

[@seandomingo666]

AFTER a 17 minute argument is wild 😭😭

[@star0nyx]

Bob has separation anxiety lmao

[@muchomango11]

“WHAT THE FUCK IS Y’ALL NIGGAS DOIN THURSDAY?!” “YOU’RE A MEAN GIRL LINDSAY” Bob is so ridiculous I can’t 😭😭😭

[@mjr373]

i died at this😭

[@neeliknowsnothing]

Monet hanging out with Bob's S8 top 3 judies is so funny to me 😭😭

[@bobtdqvideos]

they did do werq the world together in 2020

[@carlabrackenbury7964]

well monet and naomi are as4 top4 judies too

[@tchaugn]

Lol the MOMENT Monét flips it on Bob, Bob says "I changed my mind, what's your problem? I don't owe you my itinerary, I don't owe you everything I'm doing" jesus christ lmao

[@elliphant21]

the fact that this is a 26 minute video im cryingggg

[@atorwlf]

omggg the kim, plastique and naomi thing i caaaantt 😭 roberta never gonna let it go

[@sydney5225]

she’s gonna see this and it will spark back up again lord god 😭😭😭

[@devilstaco1878]

I felt like I was line for the register behind 2 friends about to fight 🤣😭

[@shipbare]

Put that in her tombstone

[@showstopper17]

if Monèt pulled what Bob did in that last clip and went w/o telling her we would STILL be hearing about, it's so wild that Bob didn't see the problem with it😅

[@itspyxis]

right!!! Bob would still mention it on her all stars winner season 5 years from now 🙄

[@BlueIvysBlackberry]

that argument still burns me up😂 Bob really acted like Monet was wild for being slightly bothered when he gets mad about missing random lunches that he doesn’t even want to go to lol.

[@defsouul3127]

Yeah that's really messed up honestly

[@danwilliams2551]

Bob is almost always on point for me but her opinion on inviting people and being invited places seems to be "Rules for thee, not for me"

[@Edson07bs]

sick and psychotic

[@mannypedib]

I blame Kim Chi for the majority of these issues. 🤣😂🤣

[@dbfangirl8484]

Yes. But Kim is the one to do it bc she was bored but yet think it's funny and forgive her.

[@juliantapia1407]

We've even had katya say that they don't get invited (and often with kim), but just like with Bob, katya doesn't respond to messages much, but still wants people to make an effort.

[@floores]

@@juliantapia1407 really? When did she say this?

[@portcharleslibrary1365]

"It was Kim! Kim Chi!"

[@juliantapia1407]

@@floores it was on one of trixie and katya's podcasts I think? Or it might have been an episode of unhhh. I'm having trouble remembering

[@kokiladutta]

I was watching the second to last clip and in my head I was like “actually I do see Bob’s point, he doesn’t want Monet to change anything and do X or do Y, he just wants Monet to say I understand why you’d feel left out if we’re all hanging out without you” and THEN THE LAST CLIP CAME ON AND ALL THE GOODWILL WAS LOST.

[@C_M_R]

Bob can't be trusted. He didn't even remember the birthday dinner Monét gave to him. 😄

[@RunnerEye]

If someone did to me what Bob did to Monet in that last clip… it would be my villain origin story

[@sunnymarie2060]

😆😆😆

[@jbaby362]

Seriously 😂 I'd become a Batman villain it's so silly

[@chelseamag3125]

#JusticeforMonét 🙌😂 the last part had so much gaslighting from Bob, even I was starting to feel crazy lmao

[@JeremyMYG]

17:39 “Don’t make a spectacle of my feelings, you monster bitch.” This shit took me the fuck out ☠️ ☠️

[@BlueIvysBlackberry]

Imagine Monet telling Bob she wasn’t going to the Queertys only for Bob to later find out from someone else that Monet was now planning to go with Kim/Naomi lmao. Had Monet said “I changed my mind. I don’t have to tell you my schedule”, Sibling Rivalry would’ve died that day😭🥀

[@tracytracy4971]

This is COMPLETELY ACCURATE 💯💯💯

[@Edson07bs]

100%

[@Luke-rm1kw]

Not the clip of them singing to Bob at the restaurant and him looking completely dissociated and unaware of what's happening 😆

[@valerie3058]

Matteo's "Oh God" the minute that he's told he's on the podcast cause he already knows it's for some shit KILLED ME 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sw1195]

bob is such a hypocrite omg 😭

[@bobtdqvideos]

truth has risen #justiceformonet

[@dkncd]

Bob was being rude as fuck in that last clip and he was COMPLETELY in the wrong lol

[@Pollo.a.la.crema.]

I’m sorry the last one is WILD bob can you not see how shady that is? 😂😂😂

[@Ggxbgdryvxd]

It’s so wild that there’s 26 mins worth of footage on this

[@bobtdqvideos]

more, actually. I missed one moment and i cut up and fast forwarded near the end

[@KayShort21]

I think we all need to remember they are best friends and if either of their feelings were hurt about any of this they’d be taking it off the podcast lmao

[@o_o8203]

Exactly!

[@Edson07bs]

yeah, but Bob invalidating Monet on the last clip after all the shit he puts Monet through for not inviting him doesn't sit right with me

[@AliceBunny05]

​@@Edson07bs that's fine, if monet had a serious problem with it I'm sure he brought it up afterwards

[@Val17282]

​@@AliceBunny05 same here. They probably already worked it out off camera

[@nailartguy3363]

@@Edson07bs I don’t think Bob was being serious. From the tone of his voice and his facial expressions, I think he was saying that just to get a reaction out of Monét.

[@Syberpvnk]

We need a compilation of every time bob called someone and they didnt pick up!!

[@bobtdqvideos]

that might be next!!! since i can't continue my winners series until watchery has finished

[@Syberpvnk]

@@bobtdqvideos i would love it :D your videos are awesome keep it up

[@rf1206]

@@bobtdqvideos omggg I will be deceased with that video 🤣🤣🤣

[@peach_bearies]

fr justice for monet on that last bit… i would’ve totally been hurt! “i don’t owe you my itinerary of my day” :((( monet just wanted to go with bob and then.. wasn’t invited to go with him lol it would make sense going together seeing as they were nominated together

[@cereyza]

still gagged that Bob didn't think changed her mind about going to the queerties without telling monet was shady LOL

[@TheGiftyK]

Ending it with Justice for Monét is sending me!!!!

[@kaylinsmith6921]

Bob's face at 8:42. I am undone. I felt it in my soul.

[@darwynn17]

I clicked the time stamp and I’m dying all over again

[@JoaoGabriel-cz1ci]

I spat my food omfg I’m cryinggggggg

[@rocketgum0]

Omggggg hahahahahahhaa

[@fufufuaru]

I was about to fall asleep but NOW I CAN’T 😂 This is like bob’s video doing yvie-style make up 😂😂

[@channiechanniechanchan4145]

BOB'S FACE AT 8:42 - 9:16 WITH THE LAG I CAN'T-💀💀

[@rocky5947]

Every new face😭

[@M4sp74]

Bobs funny online but being his friend would be a HEADACHE💀

[@TheLastAsylum]

Amen

[@ellehuncho777]

On everything!!!

[@iadesigns]

That's that cancer/Leo combo energy. No thanks.

[@abeltesfaye_]

It's just Bob teasing Monet, it's not serious 😭😭😭

[@chriiiiis]

I doubt Bob is like that off camera

[@redduskironsky1058]

I know this is a joke, but Bob is driving Monet to one day tell her "yeah I didnt invite you, and?" and that day she is going to be in her feelings about it hahahaha

[@bobmohk397]

Thank you for this, Not Bob going on an emotional Rant about Monet not acknowledging his feelings about not being invited anywhere but then forgetting his birthday dinner🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I get what Bob is saying, it feels really crappy when your peers and friends don't invite you to things and your best friend is there. But I also understand Monet saying if you continuously can't come because you are busy or don't respond people will stop inviting you to things.

[@cyberpunkfashionblyawesome]

Knowing bob she may have a lot of gigs and other things so i'm monet's side in this

[@EmyN]

5:37 “so you want me to go to the person’s birthday party…” “and get me invited!” 😂

[@AbsolPowers]

my favorite thing about that first clip is imagining brooke just sitting there in silence watching bob chew monet tf out

[@bobtdqvideos]

i think they recorded the inteo after recording the brooke (sadly)

[@zillailluhr]

The audacity of Bob lmao

[@OldMaidenType]

HIGH MAINTENANCE 🙃 I feel emotionally exhausted for Monet just watching this

[@Pailers]

As someone who never gets invited anywhere and then is later told 'you could have come', this is tooo real 😭

[@cleangamer220]

18:38 the way you had to fast forward their argument so the video wont be too long 😭😭

[@bobtdqvideos]

😭😭

[@sydneyp7867]

Am I the only one who understands Monet…….. you don’t have to invite someone to every single hang out you have. Like I cannot imagine inviting my best friend to eeeeeeverything I do lmao and then to have it on blast on the podcast

[@bobtdqvideos]

yup!!

[@sydneyp7867]

@@bobtdqvideos haha like I get the feeling of hurt. I feel like everyone knows what it feels like to be excluded but especially since Bob is an adult like… insert yourself bitch hahaha YOU make the plans lol

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

I 100% understand Monet. My friends know they don’t have to invite me even if meeting a mutual friend. We also have our separate friends and don’t force them together. I’m an introvert, besides, and my friends are extroverts. They can just tell me about the meet-up later and we can hang out next week. 😌

[@javierlopeztapia5588]

Also if a friend invites you somewhere “Kim” it is not your responsibility to extend that invitation to another friend “Bob”

[@sydneyp7867]

@@javierlopeztapia5588 absolutely agree. A bday party is very different than a premiere party

[@yourdadjustcallsmekatya]

u guys they’re best friends and full grown adults calm down 😭 just have a giggle it’s okayyyyy also LOVE this compilation kisses to the editor xx

[@JustMeowMeow]

Girl i remember listening every bit of these but especially the last one i was so annoyed with because bob just had the biggest nerve to gaslight 😭😭😭 it literally took me a while to finish the episode of having breaks in between it is so frustrating to listen to 💀

[@Thatonewolff]

I wish I had a friend who starts fights about wanting to hang out with me. Bitch, I wish I had friends period. ☠️

[@itspyxis]

The last bit was truly sad for Monet!!! That was shady af.. I remembered bob tried to change the topic quickly on patreon by posting her random ass throwback pictures lmaooo. If Monet did that to Bob we would still be hearing from bob by now.

[@chelseamag3125]

The gaslighting from Bob during that part!!

[@ellehuncho777]

Bob stay gaslighting Monet

[@danchinoloves7804]

​@@ellehuncho777that's their relationship dynamics

[@SMAnthonyW]

I understand where both of them are coming from here. I feel like different combinations of friends have different things in common - like, in the same way that Bob, Kim, and Naomi are the Season 8 crew, Monét, Kim, Naomi, and Plastique are the Werq the World crew. So different groups of girls hang out for different reasons, and it’s not weird. It feels like Bob wants Monét to invite her to every thing that she’s invited to. At the same time though, I get that Bob may feel excluded when they have so many close mutual friends and Monét doesn’t let him know.

[@aaronlivesay4652]

Yeah Monét was so in the right at the end. I’d be mad as well

[@thatsseauxnish_]

JUSTICE FOR MONÉT.

[@jazzyaxl]

"I keep asking you with who, and you keep not answering." LMAOOOO

[@derickmoore1709]

The DRAMATIC earth shattering revelation music in the background is my favorite part about it all hahaha

[@melsyoutube]

the contrast between the 17m confrontation and the last clip is wild. Bob clearly has a level of empathy and understanding but literally had NONE for what monét was explaining! Maybe she just feels jaded after being left out so many times

[@fajarsetiawan8665]

Bob is the personification of Gaslight, Gatekeep and Girlboss

[@emmanuelalmanzar167]

The reason i cant feel for Bob is because when the roles were reversed and monet question them about not going to the award show they said "I don't owe you an itinerary of my day" so bob can and monet can't ? #ThisIsWild

[@bobtdqvideos]

mhmmm

[@Nano_IV]

Monét: * almost losing her shit * So you want me to go to the person's birthday party... Bob: AND GET ME INVITED. Yes! Monét: * loses it *

[@iv.no4]

the whole dynamic of both MONET AND BOB getting invited, as a pair, to an award show and Bob tryna go without Monet STILL gets me hot. I think it's especially frustrating imo because of how frequently Bob complains about being left out or not invited. He def told Monet "no" to going to the award show just to turn around and try to go solo. That's shady to me.

[@abeltesfaye_]

It's just Bob teasing Monet, it's not serious 😭😭😭

[@iv.no4]

@@abeltesfaye_ that's not the same as teasing? that's essentially Bob tricking Monet into not going, when they're invited as a pair, just to turn around and go by her(Bob)self. You go and get nominated for an award show and come back to me when you still feel like it's no big deal.

[@pobstrel]

@@iv.no4 Agree. It's double standards and isn't the right way to do things especially with someone who is not just a friend but a work colleague.

[@mdrivera8481]

this saga being 3-4 years long is crazyyyy

[@bigbrain3366]

BAHAHAHhahah the SHADE! Of the last clip after bob going off for an episode about not getting invited

[@bobmohk397]

The last video of Bob doing what she's been calling Monet out for and asking Monet to acknowledge her feelings but then not returning the sentiment🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣the receipts

[@Roberto-tt7yv]

Bob not seeing the issue with the queries thing is wildddd

[@mystical_cupcake]

Omg this is a great idea for a compilation 😆 I didn’t know it happened more than once lolol

[@bobtdqvideos]

oh it's gonna be wild

[@schrutefarmzz7950]

If it’s one thing Bob always has, it’s the audacity🤣🤣🤣

[@aruzenimon]

I’ve been frequently using “ocular proof” thanks to Sibling Rivalry 😂😂😂

[@AisleofSosu]

it’s literally in my vocabulary now. i can’t turn back.

[@mickydale8594]

When monet just be laughing uncontrollably, it means Bob is right lmao ahahahahaha 😂🤣😂 I love their duo ness ahahahah

[@baylabe]

Girl, not everyone taking this as serious tea, tearing bob down and saying monet is in a toxic friendship. Do they... Not know how these two's humor and relationship work?

[@Val17282]

People on the internet would suddenly act like they're relationship therapy experts the moment some people show their relationships online.

[@danchinoloves7804]

​@@Val17282so glad someone said it it just shows they don't really watch them religiously like us

[@sukiiriinaa]

I swear Bob and Monet give me more couples energy then siblings energy lolz

[@Joseluisssss]

And then bob “Monet I don’t owe you my location 24 hours a day” this is all I could think about when they talked about those New York award things

[@DramaticDylan]

That last clip had me messed up! How could Bob just not loop Monet in? It’s an event where they are both anticipated to attend! Their podcast was nominated! And he was going to sneakily attend without his co-nominee! Shady boots 😂

[@brandon82841]

bob be gaslighting so much about invitations and hanging out lmaooo

[@973yanou]

I’m dead Not Bob being the crazy auntie 😭😭😭

[@johnnytsunami420]

It's called "Sibling Rivalry" for a reason. Only siblings could be this heated and then laugh your ass off together 5 seconds later.

[@dkncd]

After Bob said "I don't have to tell you everywhere I'm going", Monet should've said "Well I don't have to invite you everywhere" and that would've resulted in at least two weeks of no contact but well deserved because Bob was blatantly gaslighting and being a dick.

[@slightlymiffedbear1416]

Y'all will really get on Beyoncé's internet and digivolve into relationship experts just because you saw friends jokingly arguing on a podcast💀

[@normalizenatalie]

@@slightlymiffedbear1416 😂😂 like it's a joke everyone they've known each other a decade

[@ooriiaxx]

@@slightlymiffedbear1416DIGIVOLVE LMAO

[@hv9460]

the phrase "im going to go eat with kim" is now imprinted on my brain

[@foxfoxxy2692]

I just love how Bob in the beginning pulled a "Thorgy being stuck in economy" meltdown 😂

[@cleangamer220]

8:41 THE SCREENSHOT OF BOB STARING I CANT

[@JNB520]

It's my favorite part of the whole video I lost it 😂😂😂

[@thecritiqque]

This is a deep cut compilation! Author, I have no choice but to stan!

[@blackdamarsk633]

This was exhausting to watch but also very entertaining

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

Ooh, I can't wait! I need these smiles and laughs right now!

[@pililja676]

8:34 This laggy ass clip is taking me OUT😆🤣 Bob's facial expressions😭😭

[@jacksonvanmatre]

Honestly, that would really hurt my feelings too. I think, what Bob is really trying to get across is that she would like to decide what she does or does not like or want to go to.

[@darrenviniago7315]

Bob seems like that friend everyone talks shit about when they aren’t around but act nice to in person lmao

[@Lavi2020-Ha]

Bob was so shady for what he did in the last argument.

[@HausMonsoon]

That last clip... I will never forget that week on Patreon 😭 Another amazing compilation, A! x

[@bobtdqvideos]

XOXO

[@gdrox07]

We stand with you Monet ❤️

[@kerbyn]

bob flipping the not being invited conversation on monet in the last clip with a completely different situation is actually genius lmfao. what a professional gaslighter 😭😭 they’re so funny

[@iCodeSwitch]

"You betta twist! You betta twist. Up. Those. FACTS!" -Bob

[@treecko3453]

I feel both of them a lot. But one thing Bob said that has occasionally frustrated me with close friends is "If you can't acknowledge how you feel with your friends out loud without them feeling like you're accusing them of something, that is a little strange." Relationships are always a two-way street, so the wording of how one feels can certainly contribute to the feelings of accusation in their friend. But conversely, sometimes friends can be putting too much of their ego into how you're feeling to the point that they misinterpret what you're saying. Edit: #JusticeforMonet

[@ryanmeyers3434]

15:30 Monet is truly one of the most beautiful drag queens!

[@isabelladowdle2519]

justice for monet

[@javierlopeztapia5588]

Ok so let me get this! Bob is ok sharing partners, but sharing friends is too much? Miss Honey?!!!

[@RubyConn]

Something interesting about that….🤣

[@ayanatetzlaff]

miss honey!!!!! ✋🏾

[@kmaguire7161]

Part of me feels so bad for Bob when she gets left out but the other part of me is like "Wait. There is a reason they don't want her around."

[@itspyxis]

Bob is CLEARLY has a FOMO issues

[@adot9259]

Something about Bob and his reactions are just so hilarious to me.

[@lalalandisoccupado]

Bob is wild for that last bit lol he would’ve been so pressed if the tables were turned

[@Danny-jr3uy]

BTDG VIDEOS SAVING THE DAY WITH THESE COMPILATIONS 😭❤️‍🔥

[@lauriebrown1571]

Isn't it mad how I struggle to watch a full TV episode yet I could watch these two for HOURS

[@isabelladowdle2519]

bobbleheads this is your king

[@LittleBobbyBabyTeeth]

I am literally obsessed with your videos! I watch at least one or two a day haha. Always makes me laugh and makes my day better

[@bobtdqvideos]

thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@razrv3lc]

Bob being tilted that Monet is hanging out with her other two season 8 top 3 girls lmaooooo