Boldness in the Era of

[@21s]

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[@thomasjones9920]

This guy is an inspiration for how to live your life as you get older. Forget the myth about your 20s, 30s or 40s being your "prime", life should always get better and better as you mature and develop as a man.

[@younggrasshopper3531]

Rodin fuck yeah, 26 years old here and pretty stoked

[@gordongekko2781]

I'm in my mid 40's now, and have found that life gets easier with each decade.

[@joselanda433]

@@younggrasshopper3531 I’m 70 and I still don’t get tired while running

[@younggrasshopper3531]

@@joselanda433 any advice for long term fitness?

[@JaredLaswell]

I just turned 30. Wife left. And I found out I'm way too nice. It has helped me to find out 30 really isn't old from getting back out there and talking with people.

[@kenewangtsosane2348]

This man's book changed my life for the better. I have read it 7 times. I am more confident, purpose-driven and unlikely to settle for mediocrity. I thank him greatly. Love from South Africa.

[@kenewangtsosane4361]

@@Sk-fg8bh No more Mr nice guy - Robert Glover. Hope this book helps you to become a better man.

[@kingpin377]

It seems there is still hope in this shitty country

[@amit77]

How have you improved your dating game

[@kenewangtsosane4361]

@@amit77 More confidence when approaching and talking to women.

[@amit77]

@@kenewangtsosane4361 better results? U getting laid a lot more? In more relationships?

[@ernstrobertalmgren9057]

An absolute legend, saved my life!

[@ByRaymondFerguson]

He saved mine too

[@lelandkwong]

This was pure gold. For those looking for hard facts and statistics, you're thinking too hard and missing the point. Go out there and get some action, the ladies are waiting for us. Thank you 21 studios and Dr. Glover.

[@matthewbaumann630]

@Dan T That's true!

[@ByRaymondFerguson]

I am successful by many others accounts and thought I had it all together. Except my marriage sucked. This book changed EVERYTHING FOR ME. I’m only a few days out from finishing the book and getting a copy for my wife and brothers. I am including them in this journey. When I give my wife the book I am also giving her a card with my boundaries on them. Let’s see how this goes. I am looking forward to a more fulfilling life and marriage. One with no secrets and pure real ness. I am no longer a nice guy but a real good man.

[@abdelkarimmohammed9066]

I don't recommend giving it your wife. More a guy thing. It'll be much better if *show* it to her, understand?

[@YourWingmam]

I always recommend his book, No More Mr Nice Guy. Great talk, great resource for men @21Studios Conventions!

[@richardsmith8504]

Just found this guy, what an inspirational speaker , and “nice guy “.😎 When the student is ready the teacher will appear.

[@jake18111996]

This guy has put cherry on the top of my life. But the guy who completely changed my life is coach corey Wayne . If you are interested in this area then I highly recommend you to check his KZbin page!!! Best of luck for your future mate!!!!

[@andylindsey]

32:36 That was golden! I'm gonna remember that one. :)

[@Kdizzledub19]

27:50 . Love Dr. Glover! He is awesome

[@I_luv_my_fans]

This was hands down the best talk of the convention. Balanced and informative

[@nobodysperfect06]

His book is very eye opening

[@chuckmartin935]

he speaks of count of monte cristo- a book written in the 1800s that is still an awesome read today- because it's about revenge - and the count serves it as a COLD dish.

[@yevhen-bondariev]

The actual talk about Boldness in the Era of #MeToo starts at 27:50

[@travisbickle473]

Thanks legend

[@vincivedivicilextalionas4036]

Youre a goddamn champ

[@fazalhazh3511]

Thank you bro

[@Rawyalty220]

What a g

[@princerockless2000]

Thanks broo

[@Mrbobster87]

Glad I found glover

[@smb2265]

One of "THE BEST" Videos I've seen in a long time. David is a national treasure

[@raytotherose10101]

21 studios is like the father i never had

[@umeshpujari2634]

This video has changed my prospective towards women in general. I used to have resentment against them but the way you explained it why they are that way... now I have started having respect for them.. I used to hate women for not liking me. And they dating multiple man who are bad ...

[@MyFaraz786]

check out his book man it will blow your perspective ten folds

[@umeshpujari2634]

Yes man... it has actually blown my mind.. I read his book online but still got the paper back version for honouring his work

[@МавзСауски-д6ж]

you should also invite "Alpha Male Strategies" he is also very good.

[@Rawyalty220]

He’s a clown

[@ARdave311]

@@Rawyalty220 how? Ams teaches gold dude, just apply it you’ll see

[@cracklingsoda]

this book was like a revelation to me when i first read it. going to the roots, to the fucking childhood, that's what he fucking did.

[@bigtimbolim]

37:20 Life changing advice in just a few minutes right here

[@Trinhnguyen714]

Thank you kind sir

[@trevorr8834]

Just heard Dr G is coming to the 21 convention in 2021. Awesome 👌

[@morganalexis6147]

Idk what it is but his boundaries are so attractive!

[@ARdave311]

What do you mean by boundaries? Thanks

[@morganalexis6147]

I love his authenticity! It's the way he hones his power as a man. He's very loving and kind, but also really powerful/strong as a man. As a female, hearing him talk, I feel very safe, and like I could approach him vulnerably without fear of being assaulted emotionally for my vulnerability as a female. And what he says is so true too! There is nothing more safe to my own soul than a man that is unapologetically man, in not harsh or hard ways. It makes me feel so safe. He's very masculine and it feels so good to watch

[@morganalexis6147]

@@ARdave311 and, the part where he realized he doesn't have to listen. That's good boundaries! Also when he says give me the guy version, that's also really good boundaries too! He's willing to be authentic, and be so true to himself but still loving in his views of women. He presents his need, bc he does want to hear what's being said, just in ways that he can hear.

[@ARdave311]

@@morganalexis6147 thanks for clearing that up for me Morgan! One thing I like about him is he knows how to be kind but also masculine. I’m a recovering nice guy but my nature is kind, I want to keep the kindness but show the masculine, a lot of times nice men are seen as feminine and that’s what I don’t want

[@morganalexis6147]

@@ARdave311 yeah! I love so much that he isn't compromising his masculine needs. In this way he is leading which is so attractive ☺️

[@kylemedeiros6907]

Loved the book. Loved the speech. Glad the Q and A was only 5 min haha

[@tonyoliver9728]

Love this guy.

[@МавзСауски-д6ж]

I buy all your books in Amazon! Amazing books

[@aromals555]

I'm actually dowloading this man's stuffs, what if this kind of videos could be aginst YT policies in future. So much of facts and insights.

[@alimemari1646]

starts at 27:50

[@vassilimina9312]

Thanks lol

[@smartduke4739]

Thanks Man

[@davidcombest1134]

Shoot thanks

[@xaviermercado2079]

I got the book on order great 👍information keep speaking 🔊

[@guidoretro]

About women being more sexual than men, the book "Sex at Dawn" talks about that. You are right, Robert.

[@mgtowarena9636]

So what are your thoughts about ALL of the sexless marriages? Even when men still meet the burden of performance. Theres countless articles, Ted Talks, all about sexless marriages.

[@guidoretro]

@@mgtowarena9636 About sexless marriages? that they are people that prefer to be unhappy and follow society mandates than be happy and free of other people telling them what to do.

[@mgtowarena9636]

@@guidoretro Regardless of what you claim that they prefer... do you have any other thoughts about it other than anecdotal statements?

[@guidoretro]

@@mgtowarena9636 I don't know what you want me to say, that's what I think, that women are more sexual than men and that marriage is a culturally imposed thing. Tell me what are your thoughts and maybe we can discuss this.

[@mgtowarena9636]

@@guidoretro Yes, I agree that marriage is a social construct. As for "women more sexual than men" I dont agree or disagree with that notion, however, all the sexless marriage talk that I hear/see/read about might suggest otherwise that women are not more sexual than men. Make sense?

[@MrMaverickD]

Well done ! Great speech , great book , great man!

[@iseektruth64]

Just finished reading his book. Anybody in the Tri-Cities area of Eastern Washington want to form a group and work on it together?

[@31manhood]

Interested

[@iseektruth64]

@@31manhood [e-mail]

[@ByRaymondFerguson]

Anyone in the Delaware area?

[@basedandbearded]

@@ByRaymondFerguson I am 👌

[@GENzReactions]

I loveeee you soo much guys❤️❤️❤️❤️ know l give advice to my dad about him being passive, nice guy, female nature Nd he really listens ☺️☺️☺️

[@youngmirre8874]

Yea you should invite alpha male strategies that guy really changed my life but this guy is really good too thanks

[@ronhoek69]

"Give me the guy version". Great advice.

[@Mrbobster87]

Maan i wanna come.... When is there one in Houston?

[@21s]

Orlando this October

[@arthurclarke983]

A lot of good material here and I bought his book as a result. Now- was anyone besides me struck by his comment that one should just live the NMMNG life without talking about it to your wife/GF "because they aren't interested"? I think he is absolutely right-- but think about that for a minute.. You are guaranteed to get a minute-by-minute commentary on every random thought SHE is thinking, and she'll bitch that you "don't open up to her", but if you do, she's not interested? Hmmm. It almost seems like the ladies don't know what they want...

[@Jack-zr3mx]

I heard a story on how test pilots, back in the day would swap wives. So that if one of the pilots would die, his pilot buddies would take care of his wife, for life.

[@DanThomas1161]

I’m a nice guy (read want to be nice to people) and I truly don’t give a fuck that women hate me for who I want to be in human society.

[@arthurclarke983]

NOTE THIS: At approx. the 13 min. mark he asks: "How many of us here hate women?" then states not a single hand went up. Yesterday I did a search for Red Pill, and most of the articles attacked it as "radicalizing men", "misogynistic", and how hateful the members/commenters were. That is exactly the problem; I don't hate women- far from it. But I do hate feminism for its smug condescension that merely to question their claims is to be aberrant. Guys need to call "B.S." on this and not be afraid of the outrage that will surely follow.

[@pseudonymous8702]

The movie The Red Pill is more or less about this. Any time men's issues are discussed, it is lied about and smeared in the media.

[@chenugent]

this man sounds 70 years old but looks 50

[@bobak5126]

What kind of activities are available for men in the Midwest and who are not religious?

[@robertvantassel102]

"Save it for the one you love" .....lmao

[@remc0s]

Who else misread the title as "Baldness in the Era of #MeToo"?

[@acamacho023]

54:00 Men in village: tag out man tag out! Chief: Take my sloppy seconds bitch, this is my house!

[@porter2241]

Dr GLover.👍🏻

[@fredivalente3586]

This is fucking amazing he is so right in everything

[@МыколаНетребко]

23:45 How is it possible to be at peace facing own death?

[@spiketrademark1099]

If you are not you are living wrong

[@МыколаНетребко]

@@spiketrademark1099 thanks, but how is my question.

[@SilvanaDil]

I'm no feminist. Some of what this guy says makes sense. OTOH: bankruptcy in middle age + three marriages = idea on how to make money off men. Dicey.

[@matthewbaumann630]

Do you have a better idea on how men can be successful?

[@InGrindWeCrust2010]

FWIW: He was unmarried for a LONG time before marriage #3. Says he didn't get it mostly figured out until that one, and wouldn't have got married again if it weren't a good bet.

[@Rawyalty220]

@Mailbox 2002 bold honesty works for u? I’ve only recently started doing it and haven’t had any success yet but my self esteem is better

[@elathiaskade7311]

He doesn’t address the family courts, nor does he comprehend the modern cultural expectations of younger women today, growing up in woke society. This is the boomer version of “just be more alpha, bro” just “be more energized”. Nothing will change if you don’t change culture, laws, and social expectations. This is not a personal issue, it is a societal one.

[@bobak5126]

As I see it, we are all at different stages. He mentioned going through bankruptcy in his late 40s. Whatever you decide to do has risks. Nobody knows how long we have left so it’s up to us to take our life by the balls or coast with the flow.

[@monkeyfaceyou]

excuses, excuses

[@izzywox8246]

Shit needs to change but that doesn't mean there aren't successes in the mean time. He has a strategy for success. He can't solve all of society's problems for men lol

[@shaun8062]

What "Red Pill" book is he talking about?

[@artix86]

What is the real title of the "Calemony crystal" (?!) book that the talks about?

[@WorstViktorEU]

Count of Monte Cristo

[@artix86]

@@WorstViktorEU Thank you.

[@TeetotheZee]

So it boils down to "women like sex" and "be confident". He is quite like a PUA in he makes lots of claims of how many women hit on him, and his past as a minister definitely helps him gather followers. I don't see where he addressed the challenges of Metoo. I did enjoy his book, but this talk is pretty weak and self-promoting.

[@danpenia219]

The Wayne Dyer of pick up

[@christianpaul-cp6746]

When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change!

[@michaelbrideau1070]

This was great

[@smartduke4739]

Is there any UK pick up community WhatsApp group we can join for free?

[@מיכאלמרטיןבנדיקטוס]

Be bold, be strong, but be very wary of your interactions with women? Prioritzie your life, your project, your development - do go for the good ones, but observe women first, don't storm into anything with them.

[@Dr.Achuth_india]

Nicely articulated... it helps me,in things to keep in mind ..

[@sanjivb53]

Pinned: 17:35 to 17:50

[@cutedoglilangel799]

Dogs grow up too fast 😢 but they stay adorable forever 🐶❤️

[@loln00bsify]

hell yeah dude

[@МыколаНетребко]

24:19 Sheeesh... I erased my porno stash today.

[@Lekid23]

Go on Operah and make women great again! :)

[@joeygk11]

Good stuff but he didn't really focus on topic of boldness

[@thim0]

Yes, he did, look at his head!

[@eztli]

good talk, misleading title

[@1stRedCommander]

Dr.Glover is RSD explained

[@andylindsey]

48:13 Hilarious!

[@morganalexis6147]

Wow! I really like you! ❤️

[@trailerfitter2]

He's read Sex At Dawn.

[@matthewbaumann630]

Sex at Dawn is kinda sketchy. The author won't even defend it.

[@haidenmorgan]

You guys need to have Coach Corey Wayne come speak!

[@craigothedago7763]

Corey Wayne's advise is absolute garbagee and will put you back in hell.... He is ugly and insecure...he advise on always pleasing the women in bed is very nice guy behaviour...keep away from Wayne..

[@charlesj97]

What is a red pill convention?

[@morotetsuke]

Lol....if you're going to ask me a question about stats, facts, and data I'm going to tell you next. Perfect champ...perfect. All PhD's aren't the same folks!

[@j-efaw]

That pissed me off

[@randojones2030]

Haven't been laid in 7 months. Though I have been pushing myself in other regards. Soon

[@kysersaucey]

Getting laid is like going to the bathroom. When it becomes your #1 priority, you'll stop everything your doing to get laid. Until then you'll just hold it.

[@randojones2030]

@@kysersaucey indeed. It's just not a priority for me at the moment.

[@redshark9537]

Seven months? So, you're married then?

[@randojones2030]

@@redshark9537 no I still have my money and freedom

[@redshark9537]

@@randojones2030 If you have your money and your freedom, you are in good shape. I went much longer without sex and without freedom when I was married. Don't get married.

[@nonnon57]

I think No more mr. nice guy describes something more nefarious then casual people pleasing, it reads like a diagnostic theory for a un-named personality disorder by the rose tinted manipulative liars 'nice guys' are.

[@nonnon57]

@Bill Sanders This must be a angsty nice guy.

[@edwin-jq4dp]

12:16

[@lukosophy]

Rollo and Anthony should grow up and join forces again.

[@jp3mcpherson]

Invite “Alpha Male Strategies”

[@alexhormann8931]

Hmm, i just don't buy the idea that men of a tribe shared their women. Or tell me where this "woman-ownership" syndrome comes from? I guess a man's wiring is simply the certainty to be the father of his pretended offspring.

[@LikeToWatch77]

Humans are complex. There have been many different mating strategies across the ages and the economy of mating has changed as the societies changed. My understanding is that there were many different mating strategies just within the various Native American tribes depending on if they were agrarian or hunter gatherer and if they were matriarchal or patriarchal. I believe that our days of pair bonding may be coming to an end and the future of human mating in the modern economy is going to be more tournament mating based. For a more complete discussion I suggest the book Sex At Dawn.

[@LikeToWatch77]

@Dunston - Sorry I don't mean to be dismissive but you just described tournament mating strategy. In tournament mating it is just as you say, a select few males have sexual access and a large number of males have no sexual access. That is the direction we are headed yes. If you want to understand the overall concepts I suggest the book Sex At Dawn.

[@LikeToWatch77]

@Dunston “We are not a classic pair-bonded species. We are not a polygamous, tournament species either…. What we are, officially, … is a tragically confused species.” (Robert Sapolsky) It's not a perfect analogy. I believe a pure tournament mating style would be like wild horses or bulls or lions. Under those mating schemes the alpha can only maintain his hegemony for a few years at best. Humans cannot maintain a pure tournament style at all. That would require extreme mate guarding because a male cannot tell when a female is fertile. However because of society's lowered standards of chastity for women in modern times we have moved in the direction of a more tournament like mating scheme. Keep in mind that the sexual market forces are directly affected by actual market forces. The sexual economy and the regular economy are interdependent.

[@travisbickle473]

Fuck yeah

[@emanuel_soundtrack]

sex is bad, save for those you love. ....

[@donaldwymer2791]

Sounds like Apostasy...if you jumped ship without Jesus. You're out of bounds. You get what you say because it's what you settle for. Your words. There is no Good COUNSEL aside from JESUS, My Words. Choices...

[@aaroninternet4159]

We are also heavily wired for sexual jealousy over our partners, and the asymmetry between the sexes of the root of that jealousy shows us how our behavior was directed in our ancestral past. His theory we shared mates in the manner he described is highly implausible. Our shame around sex is wired to make us engage in sexual activity in private in an effort to hide this valuable resource which is unwise to advertise to competitors. David Buss, who he mentions, states we are and most likely were serial pair-bonders. I'd recommend David Buss' interview with Lex Fridman. Also he really never mentions anything to the effect of being bold post MeToo, which is an interesting conundrum of how to act on correct impulses which may be rejected, or worse, may be interpreted as harassment to bad faith actors who have been brainwashed by victimhood ideology.

[@paulheffron4836]

It's also a manly quality to be able to discipline your tongue and not use the "F" word. Let's show leadership, Men.

[@tinariley5389]

Guys. You should probably know for some women this very alpha male approach is a TOTAL turn off .... you be you!

[@izzywox8246]

This is not alpha male stuff

[@kenyattanyirenda1213]

😂😂😂😂

[@dennis2104]

whatever

[@aceroculturaanahuac8684]

Disagree with the sex part. Many woman I’ve been with can’t hang

[@izzywox8246]

Well I'm glad your experience is universal

[@stevedavenport1202]

50 Shades of Gray because they like getting boned by billionaires.

[@williamjeffreys2980]

Sorry, profanity shows a lack of class and vocabulary. It is not necessary and will limit your audience.

[@flipthaascript]

William Jeffreys anyone who says “profanity shows a lack of class and vocabulary” has a stick up their ass

[@themachismomatrix5236]

Fuck other self righteous audience ! Can’t stand the truth and profanity, Fuck that shit!

[@biskit5271]

What the fuck are you implying kind sir?

[@josheves-jx9ul]

That he has a carrot up his ass

[@d0cn0tes]

Clueless