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@scottishrestorian19995 жыл бұрын
i reacher...than you for the post.
@litabril5 жыл бұрын
It is a great talk, would love to share it. Perhaps you can upload spanish subtittles! ❤
@stacyplane97965 жыл бұрын
@@litabril he looks very drunk 😂
@notredox24 жыл бұрын
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@carmenrincones73184 жыл бұрын
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@sandyrose50364 жыл бұрын
Finally.......a man who gets it! I’m not just crazy. Thank You Dr. Gray!!!!!!
@martinhealourlovecamden91913 жыл бұрын
Not just crazy = crazy + what else? AND your crazy causes me misery -- how can I interact with your crazy, so as not to drag you down, and or not get miserable myself?
@satoshinakamoto72533 жыл бұрын
rich cooper and rollo tomassi are where the truth is
@Sbannmarie3 жыл бұрын
Sandy- agreed. 😀
@marthahoushar54283 жыл бұрын
Understanding the biochemistry of relationships utterly validates his insightful, and often comical, explanations of behaviors. The reality and lightness with which he addresses so many issues is hugely helpful. Thank you, John Gray.
@jenniferlakhal49754 жыл бұрын
This guy not only helped me understand my relationship but it helped all my health issues too! He's the BEST relationship guy!
@sugarsnap10004 жыл бұрын
This makes sense to me because it’s based on science and biology, there are so many relationship gurus teaching manipulate tactics that if put into practice never work, because ultimately its against nature.
@Professional_Nobody4 жыл бұрын
sugarsnap1000 I think those gurus teach how to be a narcissist in relationships because sadly narcissistic people are charming and get a lot of dates...before destroying them, of course 😩
@angewels4 жыл бұрын
That's why he's so successful...it makes sense to so many people and it's all true
@veebee84613 жыл бұрын
That is so true,i laugh so hard thanks Dr.Grey
@satoshinakamoto72533 жыл бұрын
rich cooper and rollo tomassi are where the truth is
@Sbannmarie2 жыл бұрын
Sugar snap- agreed! Science and biology
@ElizabethClark123Ай бұрын
Dr. Gray is the Best Mentor for life’s relationships! I finally feel empowered w/knowledge that helps me understand myself and others better❤️
@BBGshop73 жыл бұрын
I am going to be able to speak publicly like this one day. I am so inspired by Dr. John Grey!
@TheGoodLifeStarterPack3 жыл бұрын
This was exactly one of my takeaways from this too!
@louisar42273 жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@reneecrotty69102 жыл бұрын
Everyone needs to listen to this on repeat. Everyone.
@sarahlynn89634 жыл бұрын
What a relief to hear John talking about women....he so understands women and also shines the light on us understanding man too.....thank you
@suzanneemerson97873 жыл бұрын
He is so wrong in everything he says. Typical man saying how great he is.
@sarahtaylor84832 жыл бұрын
I am crying, I feel like I have been battling alone. I can’t thank you enough.❤
@madisonandthefarm3 жыл бұрын
I listen to John Gray every day, he is inspiring
@katbruno97973 жыл бұрын
Love listening to John Gray. I've always had questions about a couple of failed relationships in my past. And now I understand why, Because everything he explains and teaches us makes 100% sense! Thank you for the answers. 🙏💖
@Indigo_outlaw4 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love him and this talk. I am laughing and learning the whole time. Thank you!!
@charliedavies32364 жыл бұрын
awesome work from evidencehackers911 on Instagram, he helped me spy on my fiancee phone last week, now am sure he that he was cheating so i can make the right choice before our marriage. been cheated on really sucks,you can contact him to solve you problem of infidelity…
@6ixvamp3 ай бұрын
This guy is a national treasure
@mirkarosa18996 жыл бұрын
I agree 100% with him. He is not politically correct but he is right. You may dispute on theoretical grounds but if you observe people and are honest with yourself - that's what you get. I think we should redefine equality in a few ways - instead of pushing women into the choice between women's world (emotionally happy but underpaid, not appreciated, not recognized) and men's world (well paid, successful but unhappy) - we should leave women more ground to create their own ways, to merge the two. That's true respect and that would solve the problem.
@atticus3195 жыл бұрын
@Sophie It seems to have it's origins at the universities, which have become toxic due to feminism. The feminist professors of the past few decades have successfully brainwashed the graduates who are now running media and teaching future generations.
@dbsk064 жыл бұрын
I agree 100%. As a feminist and stereotypical strong woman I avoided this book after reading the complaints in the reviews but after the dissolution of my last relationship I realized everything he said was true despite how much I didn’t want to believe it and was taught the opposite in society and school
@marthahoushar54283 жыл бұрын
@@dbsk06. Brave of you to admit that. Interesting how it can take a crisis to nudge us into opening our mind to an alternative way of thinking. I lament the time I’ve wasted in my life rejecting such sound, reasonable, scientifically based advice.
@janicemarsh1669 Жыл бұрын
Bingo!
@allisonblaustein78982 ай бұрын
This is so true. My husband is in a masculine scientific respected high paying career. He’s in awe of what I do & I’ve spent a lot of time learning and practicing my Souls calling - but as my husband says the works doesn’t appreciate the more feminine work yet but that doesn’t lesson it’s importance.
@mariek43626 жыл бұрын
Thank you for bring up the war and women 'needing' to work. The womens movement wasn't all about women wanting to push their testosterone. So many women have had no choice. Men walk out, just like you said.
@ktnow883 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Many would love to be home 🏠 makers running the family if that was supported.
@ellanola62844 жыл бұрын
Talking & compromising is only possible if one is lacky to be married to emotionally healthy person or an empath. If one is married to narcissist, sociopath or psycopath you got to do everything their way & even when you do they are never happy. No amount of sex can fix marriage to toxic person!!! Majority of people is clueless about these types of people. They are everywhere(men & women). Needles, to say they are not capable of loving anybody.
@charlottehowe28343 жыл бұрын
True words
@suzanneemerson97873 жыл бұрын
So true.
@jessiethornton-scott49932 жыл бұрын
Its so scary how frequently and casually these "medical diagnosis needed" terms such as narcissistic and toxic humans are thrown around and often used in place of accountability, accepting personal responsibility, understanding each person is only in control of their own selves and accepting others for who they are rather than demanding everyone change as we see fit and best not try and control us oh hell no!!! Healthy people do not suddenly unsuspectingly innocently end up in one sided, blame free, unhealthy, icky relationships and actual narcissistic personality disorder diagnosed individuals are quite rare!
@nikitag4213 жыл бұрын
Oh men....I simply like Dr John..he has understood the real science. Thanks a ton for dis deep pearls of wisdom and making marriages prosper to ultimate point
@kangarookids74973 жыл бұрын
You share kids, who have your grandkids (your legacy). You have holidays together, and create memories. Someone to nurse you when you are sick , and cheer your successes. Just make sure about the person, their maturity, and kindness. " Measure twice, cut once". " Look before you leap", ....Ben Franklin.
@charlottehowe28343 жыл бұрын
I mainly follow greta berishatas work but i love learning about the science behind what makes us masculine or feminine. Keep going with the videos please.
@RealLadi2282 жыл бұрын
I must be in Zen mode @58 permanently 😌 I do not experience the cycles of need and getting it on vs craziness anymore...in fact the thought of giving up the peace of abstinence scares the shit out of me! My new found estrogen has become no drama less stress and a peace that passeth all understanding 🙏 😊
@patriciamoran52794 жыл бұрын
God bless this man forever ...
@evag82645 жыл бұрын
This is a game changer! I will remember this day when I discovered john gray ❣💎
@CCCC-tq8yo3 жыл бұрын
2 yrs later
@suzanneemerson97873 жыл бұрын
Women say that because he is so effeminate.
@fgdart2 жыл бұрын
You explained so well ! Thank you for explaning this. I wish every men know it. I was so tired how they make me feel there was something wrong with me. But actually it is about i can not get validation and produce enough estrogen. I am so tired of doing everything by myself and being my own man.
@BboyGraphicx4 жыл бұрын
John Gray brings it home! Thank you Mindvalley
@suliyahida34215 жыл бұрын
i love this man , i got lot of value from his book ( Man are from Mars & Women Are From Venus ) very helpful & open minded
@eduardolay91774 жыл бұрын
My name is Eduardo lay, All thanks to PROPHET EHIAGWINA the best spell caster in the World, I am Writing this as a result of his performance in helping me get my woman back to me within 48hours after i contacted him. Before i contacted prophet ehiagwina i read so many testimonies about him on the internet and today i am very happy that i am also writing a testimony about him and his super help that he rendered to me in getting my Ex wife Back, If you are seeking for an everlasting solution in getting your lover or restore your marriage home just contact prophet ehiagwina via mail ( prophetehiagwina@ gmail. com ) or add him on Whats-app: +2348139182295. and get your lover Back permanently 100% you can also reach him for various problems such as: *MONEY CHANT *DEALTH SPELL *WIN COURT CASE *PREGNANCY SPELL *LOVE SPELL *CLEAR BAD ENERGY *MARRIAGE SPELL *TAKE SOMEONE OUT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE LIFE *BREAK FOUNDATIONAL COURSES *REVENGE SPELL and many more
@cari789105 жыл бұрын
John Gray is my favorite! He speaks from an authentic place. 💜
@wshelby832 жыл бұрын
So true!!
@beverlyallison47685 жыл бұрын
Thank God for John Gray or I would be lost trying to understand the opposite sex! He is a genius
@MindvalleyTalks5 жыл бұрын
Our pleasure! Glad you've enjoyed John's video. Thank you very much.
@satoshinakamoto72533 жыл бұрын
rich cooper and rollo tomassi are where the truth is
@healingypsy2 жыл бұрын
John Gray's advice to both men and women deals with the problem from the roots unlike all these wannabe "relationship gurus" who aren't even certified psychologists who give you only a quick temporary fix band-aid advice but the ulcer in the relationship never gets healed and remains because there is no genuine appreciation in the difference behind a man's and a woman's differing response which boils down to natural basic biology.
@salkinfamilychiropractic31424 жыл бұрын
John Gray and Mark Gungor both know what relationship is all about.
@annabellanillas6772 жыл бұрын
I love this . I am laughing about the truth. It’s actually a reality which I now understood, by listening to you Dr Gray. Thanks for your wisdom. If I could rebirth my previous marriage. Well done.
@lyzaulrych3 жыл бұрын
Thank you John, I thought I had a lot more figured out about relationship dynamics at age 52 but apparently there were key areas that I was seriously lacking in. Also the hormonal aspect has been extremely enlightening. Bless you 🙏💫
@evrk293 жыл бұрын
I should start reading the famous book. I am blessed with your talk, Dr. Gray. Thank you!
@svoboda8262 жыл бұрын
i wish I have heard him years ago...such a great information he brings WOW!
@LittleMissHoop4 жыл бұрын
49:10 YES. Never actually heard this answer, yet it is so simple and pure
@ilovemylife20125 жыл бұрын
I honestly cannot say how much his stuff is right! Totally matches with the things I naturally do to make myself feel better ( what increases good feeling female hormones)
@FF-fb3vd7 жыл бұрын
Love this man... changed my life ♥ great books
@hrealthyfoods60322 жыл бұрын
I love you Mr. Gray! PLEEEEASE talk about your new marriage more. I am in the same situation with my wife as you. She is from China and 30 years younger than me. I think your insights would help me and offer a little comic relief. (John married Lin Wang on May 4, 2020. She was his tour guide and translator for years when he was in China.) There must be so much he could share about finding love through these very different cultures, dating habits, and their age difference.
@sunny_dhende62892 жыл бұрын
Wow! lessons learned in a comedic way saved me a trip to the gym, thank you John Grey for your intellect! I want a John Grey in my life 🤣
@wshelby832 жыл бұрын
Me too sunny, I want a John gray in my life too
@varuno75605 жыл бұрын
I have the popular book created by him. I even gift this book to new couples. It feel like I am saving the world.
@melodyellysse43773 жыл бұрын
The biological & scientific information is life-changing. Does the book give the info he’s sharing without the “f” words?
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
@@melodyellysse4377 Yes...no f words in the book. Don't be silly.
@danishaferreira77963 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! This school for men!!! How to keep a woman happy!!👍👍👍
@jeannemeger54912 жыл бұрын
First time I heard him talk. He has been around for quite a while. About time I got educated. Never did get to the relationships tapes he made when married to Barbara De Angelis. Never read his famous Venus/Mars book. Have to get his sequel and read it cover to cover. He speaks from science and biology. All about the timing of male and female hormones! So insightful. I am dumbfounded. All about the timing of what and when to speak. He has it right. A little more info that could be of help: Know that an Aries wife has to be right. Check out his strategies to work with, not against, that trait. Allow her time to cool down. Keep your cool. A hot brain cannot process even peacemaking overtures. Never wimp out. Know that a Leo man is a king. Sociable. Loves parties. No attitudes. Stay sociable, even, to diffuse discord. Stay prepared with an arsenal of relationship strategies to try out. Moods come and go. What doesn't work could work next time. 😊 Remember Ma and PA Kettle in the 50s movies? The actors worked well together on film. The characters respected each other's talents. Be great if we could be complementary to each other instead of conflicting. John Gray delivers a menu for understanding each other. Rah. Rah.
@ktnow883 жыл бұрын
Just love this, can watch it over and over again
@selena_shey Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Dr. Gray, very informative and helpful , hopefully my husband will listen to this.
@kendalladaramola4 жыл бұрын
This man is a gift
@veritevraie44333 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk, very meaningful. I wish I learned that stuff earlier.
@LeafySpreads2 жыл бұрын
That makes sense! You're so kind and wise.
@Gigi-Anai8c7l8 ай бұрын
listen I've been applying his suggestions about nutrition and feeling better, inflammation is going down and have had no PMS. Thank you John for being so generous with your life changing teachings
@nilishii72 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed listening to him ❤️❤️❤️ More power to you Dr. John Gray.❤️
@lauralamanna5133 Жыл бұрын
This man!!! You are amazing. You are right!! 💥💥
@stephaniefortney223 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Brilliant Insight, this helps one to do life in a new way , that creates love and builds other’s up…. Your wisdom is Priceless ….Grateful
@ehh2273 жыл бұрын
This presentation was great! Favorite 🤩 part was when you described the stage of a women’s PMS and estrogen. That was me a few days ago 😂 “You never do anything fun with me.” (But he did last week) 🤪
@dellachow31249 ай бұрын
John Gray is so hilarious and authentic! Love this talk ❤
@kimberlylechnick16082 жыл бұрын
Your work in the relationship biology is groundbreaking. Thank you!
@local_bred36523 жыл бұрын
This mans words is honestly str8
@dinaoser77252 жыл бұрын
Captivating. Watch To The End.
@vickieporter8223 жыл бұрын
That was so great. Should we share it with THEM 😚😂 MUCH refreshed information...helping
@angelaarden82042 жыл бұрын
Awesome teacher. Thank you 🙏
@jonathanlaurince80853 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot John Gray. I’ve learned a lot.
@MariaBanholzer2 ай бұрын
Merci❤❤❤❤❤send you love from South of France
@Moneyney-3 жыл бұрын
I really loved this. Thank you for all the knowledge.
@raynakumar66622 жыл бұрын
Marriage counsellors don’t know this though. They question our behaviour.
@ramatine5 жыл бұрын
This is amazing stuff, but the sad thing is that men don't watch or read these things. They think they're great just the way they are!
@johnny722735 жыл бұрын
rama shaar lmfao
@guittatim43004 жыл бұрын
John Gray also says that we are the boss, we have to teach our man how to do it.
@krow4494 жыл бұрын
Really? All men? Lol.
@ramatine4 жыл бұрын
@@krow449 there are always exceptions 😉
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
@@ramatine Exceptions only? Maybe it's you and your own energy that draws to you what you believe, so you end up thinking like you do. Most of the men I know are not like you claim. In my case the exceptions being how you think they are.
@hoeuloeurn62493 жыл бұрын
Thanks you so much for sharing it's very helpful and educational
@marceystevens82752 жыл бұрын
Makes sense to me, thanks, John
@brittanylove67444 жыл бұрын
Mind blowing!!! I love everything
@ratumelimatanatoto24885 жыл бұрын
John Gray is the man.
@Guddilove8014 жыл бұрын
Thank you that was funny and an informative talk. I liked the fact he used real life examples and experiences. How our male and female hormones play a major role in our behaviours to each other and the balance that can be achieved. 🙏🙏🙏
@janiejauthor4 жыл бұрын
Entertaining as well as informative!
@oscarwilliamson12644 жыл бұрын
Janie J,you look gorgeous 🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🌷🌺🌹 🌹🌺
@suzanneemerson97873 жыл бұрын
So bad.
@marvindanny97393 жыл бұрын
Hello janie
@JN-0peny0ureye53 жыл бұрын
Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are NOT infact just surrounded by assholes.
@angelitabonanoni82254 жыл бұрын
Woow great amazing staff I wish everyone could have the opportunity to see this video thank you
@ericferguson41753 жыл бұрын
Hello pretty
@marvindanny97393 жыл бұрын
Hello Angelita 😊
@LittleMissHoop4 жыл бұрын
Wow. This is some quality content.
@eduardolay91774 жыл бұрын
My name is Eduardo lay, All thanks to PROPHET EHIAGWINA the best spell caster in the World, I am Writing this as a result of his performance in helping me get my woman back to me within 48hours after i contacted him. Before i contacted prophet ehiagwina i read so many testimonies about him on the internet and today i am very happy that i am also writing a testimony about him and his super help that he rendered to me in getting my Ex wife Back, If you are seeking for an everlasting solution in getting your lover or restore your marriage home just contact prophet ehiagwina via mail ( prophetehiagwina@ gmail. com ) or add him on Whats-app: +2348139182295. and get your lover Back permanently 100% you can also reach him for various problems such as: *MONEY CHANT *DEALTH SPELL *WIN COURT CASE *PREGNANCY SPELL *LOVE SPELL *CLEAR BAD ENERGY *MARRIAGE SPELL *TAKE SOMEONE OUT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE LIFE *BREAK FOUNDATIONAL COURSES *REVENGE SPELL and many more
@kathyjohnson19114 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe he said “fuck”. 😂
@suzanneemerson97873 жыл бұрын
That’s to make you believe him.
@tiffanylebron3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love listening to Dr. Gray! He just gets it!=) On minute 13 of this video he said he was walking with his wife and a group on the amazon and after walking for 5 hours, they all started saying they were exhausted of walking and that they couldn't do it anymore, when he pulled out this little bag of white power and told them to take a little. My question is what kind of white power was it? Is this bag what I'm thinking it is or is it something i miss from other videos? -Cris
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@ginabrogan86372 жыл бұрын
I believe he is talking about cocaine... a little disappointing. .
@huberthanks30072 жыл бұрын
John has used this story before in other talks. He was talking about extra salt. Perfect for dehydration after a very long hot walk.
@palomahealing50736 жыл бұрын
It's true...I love his books and there are big differences between the 2 sexes! And it's the magic of "Knowing" the differences!!!!! You just have to learn how to work with the differences......period! Men are simple in their minds and women are alot more deep and complicated......Reality, folks...face it😊
@marvindanny97393 жыл бұрын
Hello Paloma 😊
@Dreams_Of_Purpose4 жыл бұрын
What a LEGEND!
@valeriacris70732 жыл бұрын
big fan … greetings from Brazil!
@mariaaugustavieira67213 жыл бұрын
Dr. JONH GRAY, I ENJOY SO MUCH YOUR TEACHING. YOU BEEN HELPING ME TO UNDERSTAND BETTER MAN, SOME OF YOUR TEACHING, IS NOT EASY TO FOLLOW! HOWEVER, I WILL TRY FOLLOW YOUR ADVICE, IT'S SO MUCH TO LEARN, IM NOT A YOUNG WOMAN, BUT AGE IT'S ONLY NUMBERS, AND I WANT TO LEARN ABOUT HOW TO LEAVE WITH A MAN, THAT I LOVE! IT'S WORDID TO TRY! GOD BLESS YOU, DR JOHN GRAY. ( YOU MAKE ME LAUGH 😃 SO MUCH.)
@bananasgonebad12302 жыл бұрын
especially applaud u for the one hour!!
@katjavuori Жыл бұрын
Wise words in a funny way! Thank you so much! ❤
@RJAamir5 жыл бұрын
If only I knew most of this a few years back...I wouldn't have messed up so much
@jooreuable5 жыл бұрын
You live and learn
@blancasalgado95684 жыл бұрын
Is never too late :)
@RJAamir4 жыл бұрын
@@blancasalgado9568 I want it to be true. hope she comes back for good
@kevinvanhorsing51414 жыл бұрын
Then fix it!!
@RJAamir4 жыл бұрын
@@kevinvanhorsing5141 she is not giving me a second chance
@Gigi-Anai8c7l8 ай бұрын
you should have given him more time, he has a wealth of knowledge
@Madisonandwhite4 жыл бұрын
A wonderful talk...I would love to watch more from him.
@angewels4 жыл бұрын
He has a website and hundreds of conversations and podcasts etc out there
@filipinaislander3 жыл бұрын
He can be true in the biological level but humans are complex being man and woman. Psychology has a big part too, each individual is different, with different specific needs and motivation, triggers and stimulations. Overall we just want to feel understood as an individual especially by someone we love.
@mindheartJamsoul6 жыл бұрын
i love john gray! funniest guy ever!!! i laughed soooo hard mu tummy hurts! thank you
@ashishit41344 жыл бұрын
Hii
@ashishit41344 жыл бұрын
Your channel is beautiful
@suzanneemerson97873 жыл бұрын
Stupid men are sometimes amusing.
@JD-dz9lx2 жыл бұрын
1:44 YESSSSS! He betta SAY👏🏾THAT👏🏾
@lotussong99086 жыл бұрын
This is really inspiring!
@suzanneemerson97873 жыл бұрын
Think about what he is saying for a while. Don’t swallow it whole. There are red flags here.
@RodriguezMM3 жыл бұрын
👍🏻👏🏻 very good , nail it !
@heathergrahame96476 жыл бұрын
There's some valuable things here, but at the same time I feel that something fundamental is missing. Men are yang, women are yin. The masculine role is to give out - to give his love to a woman, to give his sexual energy, his attention, his time, his money, his whatever to the woman. The woman is yin, so her role is to receive. There is a deep, biological need in women to receive love. When they receive from a man, she feels good. It is women who really need to be loved for who they are, not men. It is men's role to love women for who they are. It is really sad the way so many "modern men" are passive and wanting a woman to love them. When they play the passive role, they are like babies and women are then placed in the role of mothering them, and they don't want a baby for a partner. It is not the job of women to love men. It is the job of women to enjoy being loved by men.
@jeffmoore2296 жыл бұрын
Heather Grahame- That is rediculous to say that it is the man's job to love and not the women's. You are implying essentially that men need to do all the work in a relationship. You are completely ignorant for saying that. Are you single? I would not be surprised. If, by chance, you are in a relationship, I feel very sorry for your man and I do not believe it would be a sustainable relationship. It is also the women's duty to love, respect, trust and serve, just the same as the man's duty. A relationship should NEVER be one- sided or it will NEVER last. I guarentee it! Both have to give and take. But, there is a very tiny bit of truth that you say. It is more important (usually) to the woman to be loved and (usually) more important to the man for him to be respected.
@heathergrahame96476 жыл бұрын
Jeff, I appreciate your comment - and your passion! There are many ways different ways to be loving. I'm talking in generalisations, so of course there are shades of grey, but a woman's love is powerful in the way that she is able to accept a man warts and all. If you have ever been truly accepted by a woman, you would understand how powerful her role is. Some people say that love must be actively giving - but I disagree. I feel that it is the male role to be actively giving and that is his power and his passion. A woman's power is to love unconditionally, to accept without placing any conditions. So you might say that woman is not doing any "work" when she is accepting a man unconditionally, and I would probably agree with you because the masculine is the active, doing, working side of the equation. Women bring something else. Again, these are generalisations. Each person is capable of both the masculine and feminine sides of loving but to me my power in relationship as a woman is to accept lovingly, and that means without criticism, without judgement, without picking and choosing bits and pieces. Fully accepting a man for the love he gives from himself is my power as a woman.
@heathergrahame96476 жыл бұрын
And if I don't like the way one man gives his love, I can go find myself a different man whose love I do want to accept without limitation, criticism, etc.
@heathergrahame96476 жыл бұрын
With receiving and accepting comes responsibility. In general men give out but they don't take responsibility for their actions or they forget what they did in the past. Women receive and they "accept" responsibility for what they receive and part of that involves remembering everything that has been done in the past and dealing with it, taking responsibility for its resolution. So being the receiver isn't all easy peezy. It comes with a lot of responsibility (a lot of responding). How often do men just do whatever they want to the natural environment, to 'mother earth' and expect her to just "deal with it". It is not necessarily easy to receive what a man gives to a woman because he gives her things which challenge her personally. Indeed, even his love can challenge a woman who feels she doesn't deserve to receive it. It's not necessarily easy for either side of the equation.
@heathergrahame96476 жыл бұрын
Can you see in our own small interaction here Jeff that you as a male gave out your energy and, like a ball, I caught it. I agreed to receive it and accept it and take responsibility for "it", the energy that you gave out. I did not say you were right or wrong in what you gave out. I accepted it fully and resolved it within myself as best as I could using my own feminine ways. Women can be incredibly creative with what they receive from a man. She can turn it upside down, back to front, connect it to other things ... that is our gift. Working with what the man has given us.
@diehardtats65104 жыл бұрын
So true. Been married 12 years and tried to changed to female and was difficult to me to letgo of control of finances as past trauma made me believe that my husband is not good to provide for me. And i did not know how to male him help me. And i want to be finamcialy independed coz man ripped me off. Only fun games was in his mind. And he always said that i complain. And by saying that he shut my mouth for ever. And we divorsed as i did not enjoy to have sex with him. Life was empty and i would love to man but i dont want to teach him that skills or understanding to support me. And i dont know how to go about it myself.
@guittatim43004 жыл бұрын
Dido sister. My ex didn't act like a man, lazy ect... that is not sexy. We have to do less and make man do more
@AD-cn1ov4 жыл бұрын
Wow this is great . Thank you so much 🙏🏽❤️
@theresas.3808 Жыл бұрын
My partner admonished me for wanting more after he sent me a picture and I asked to see more pictures. I learned then to never ask for anything again.
@camillemoore24613 жыл бұрын
I Love Your Manner of Speech : Practical💯
@lisadelahaye61157 жыл бұрын
This is perfect! 🙏🏼☺️
@suzanneemerson97873 жыл бұрын
This is bs.
@Virvepaulina Жыл бұрын
This is so true, I love it 😂❤
@taylorrenee3704 жыл бұрын
This is so wonderful ..my goodness
@imwatching29604 жыл бұрын
What a great speaker. What a great concept!
@hoiliswu60704 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Men and women story funny happy and true life men and women amazing Christian partner shalom.
@brandycarter99462 жыл бұрын
I'm 61 female. I'd really really like to know how or what I can do to naturally increase my estrogen. I've never married or had children and haven't been close to a man for years. What can I practice in my life as a 'solo' to have/feel some estrogen/femininity?
@Womenswell0222 жыл бұрын
Good question...
@toomuchinformation Жыл бұрын
Maybe look at your diet. I'm sure there must be foods which increase oestrogen. Sleeping well, using energy therapy.......
@awesomeanime36448 ай бұрын
Do not mastarbate 😅
@carladf3826 Жыл бұрын
Thank you John for this powerful relationship conversation. But correction the (Sabbath)is Saturday the 7 the day not Sunday the first day and we were created by God as man and woman in the beginning , we didn't evolve from an animal. The truth shall set you free.