Borderline Personality Disorder screwed up my life bad

[@timdowen76]

Thankyou sir for this video. I’m a 47 yr old male and struggling with this. My life has been torn apart by it, ruined a 17 yr marriage . Ruined friendships. Lost friends. Lost jobs. Impulsive spending, lost all my money I live check to check. And now I’m losing my current girlfriend.

[@TheBorderlineMan]

Man, I am so sorry for the things you go through. I wish there was an easy solution. But our condition is so dependent on our life conditions. I know way to well how these things are. My only, and I do mean this, fairly good tip other than trying to get help, is to talk, with an open heart with your girlfriend. It might not fix anything, but not talking is a sure way to not fixing anything for sure.

[@TheBorderlineMan]

I’m always interested in your opinions and experiences. Are they similar or different? Please let me know! 🧡 Please consider liking the video and subscribing to the channel to help me grow my channel. And do share it to people you know might be interested.

[@heatherblack8311]

i enjoyed this video so much. in absolutely every way. thank you. i understand pirate ship emotions. from one human to another. i see you and i love you. 🤟 keep going. orange cats are the best.

[@TheBorderlineMan]

Thanks for the comment! I’ll make sure my cat is in future videos more often. 😄

[@alphadog3384]

Your Danish correct, your accent sounds.😊

[@TheBorderlineMan]

Almost correct. Swedish.

[@alphadog3384]

@@TheBorderlineMan wow l've got that as well in my DNA.

[@johnny1334]

What caused your BPD?

[@TheBorderlineMan]

Difficult to say with any objective certainty. I can point out certain events in the last 10 years time that made it a LOT worse, but I can also see things going back my entire life that could be BPD-related. But regardless of really old events or genetics, it is the events in the last 10 years that are most relevant for me and my path to feeling better since I became diagnosed a year ago.

[@johnny1334]

@@TheBorderlineMan interesting, mine would be invalidation from my father. Maybe a good idea for a video in the future, would love to hear about your life story

[@TheBorderlineMan]

Interesting idea. I think I will.

[@joshy2joshy]

I can imagine that it's been a tough journey trying to work that out. Emotional arrested development by or before the age of 2 causes BPD. It's all about object relations theory. I hope that gives you a little candle of curiosity. I wish you the best on your journey and healing.