BOTCHED! Is 24 trans plastic surgeries too many? volume 3

[@Luxeria]

Hello Lovelies! Today's go to lip is actually a lipliner! you can shop my look here (affiliate link) amzn.to/49WxgQd

[@crazycatchick4111]

Thank you for another *Botched* episode! It really is a fiery trainwreck EVERY...SINGLE... EPISODE 😅

[@thecatlurking]

Your outfit was so cute in this one too!

[@CoMorbiditty]

💗🤍💙

[@L-K-Jellyfish]

Loving this Botched series! I'm actually learning new things from it! And this is completely OT but I would love to know how you do your stunning eye make up. It is always absolutely 💯% perfect!

[@loveyourselfplease6842]

Hi Luxeria, I just wanted to clarify something there is a major difference between wanting to get some plastic surgery, a little lift, some bigger boobs, one maybe two small procedures for small improvements & Body Dysmorphia Disorder. BDD is a constant drive for perfection & NEVER being able to achieve it, being willing to do dangerous things & feeling like you just need this one thing, one more thing & after that one thing there's this euphoria that lasts for sometimes a few months, weeks, days even just hours before those feelings of ugliness & imperfection sink back in. These can lead to eating disorders, looking for adrenaline rushes for happiness, addiction & agoraphobia because it can be so severe people actually think they are so unattractive they don't want to leave their home. It doesn't matter how many people tell them how beautiful or attractive they are it takes deep psychological work & often medication but some can improve without it but no amount of love, surgery or weight loss will ever be enough.

[@tracyjane7724]

I'm completely shocked at the statement "men don't have breast tissue" Men can get breast cancer and its hard enough to get them to check themselves and go to the doc without professionals on the TV telling them they don't have breast tissue! Medical misinformation can be so dangerous.

[@ttintagel]

IKR? My grandfather survived breast cancer, but his treatment would have had to be far less intense if it had occurred to him to get it checked out earlier. I wish more men knew it was a thing.

[@yomigonzalez9870]

There have even been documented cases of men lactating. Wtf?

[@RetroMonkey1999]

He didn't actually say that verbatim, he said less (tissue and fat)... but yes, it was unclear and poorly worded.

[@Insertia_Nameia]

​@@yomigonzalez9870 men have everything they need to produce milk, just since cis males don't get pregnant they just don't really get the hormonal signals to start lactating. However there are several ways to induce lactation in cis men, even without hormones.

[@virgofairy88]

That’s so ignorant someone would be even say that. I work in the medical field (I’m behind a computer all day) and there are diagnosis codes for male breast cancer. If it’s in the diagnosis coding book (we call it ICD 10, or 11) it’s happened thousands or even millions of times.

[@RedWinter88]

"time for a brow lift" makes me laugh everytime without fail😂

[@Luxeria]

🖤🖤🖤

[@kianalautner99]

SAME LMAO

[@trixxart777]

Dr.Dobrowlift

[@m3t4l.h34d]

that, and ‘the SWAN GIRLS’ or ‘WHY DODNT YOU GET INTO THE PAGENT’ or whatever it is lmaoooo they kill me wverytime

[@Savvy_Fandoms]

Same!

[@Clownbunnycosplay]

If Trans women are dolls, are trans men action figures?

[@Luxeria]

Oh my god I love that!

[@Morgan_le_they]

Yes, it’s canon now 😂

[@lhproductions61]

I… I’m an action figure 🥹

[@MoonMagickMayhem]

Love it! Gonna have to run this by a FtM friend of mine haha.

[@NoRatHere]

Oh yes ! I want to be an action figure, love the idea

[@Morgan_le_they]

Sex work and trans people goes back so far because, like you said, we had nowhere else to go for the means to survive. They forced us into one specific niche in society, then look down on us for filling that role

[@Luxeria]

Yes it’s honestly exhausting having to explain sometimes

[@Morgan_le_they]

@@LuxeriaI know your channel isn’t about activist content, but I still want to thank you for the emotional labor you put in to explaining these things from our side of things, despite the hateful people it means you have to deal with

[@chronicallykat4920]

​@Morgan_le_they Two things. I love your user name my fellow they. Second the disability experience in my life has made me aware the most impactful advocacy is not the legal battles that happen by people who choose them but the people just living who do not stop existing when the demand comes. That has been a beautiful part of social media

[@robinw.8083]

They refuse to let trans people be part of "polite society" and then demonise us for getting on with our lives anyway. It's almost like they don't want us to exist -_-

[@RoxxyKaosGG]

All 3 of those doctors are super creepy! Keep those “jokes” in your head, DOCTOR!

[@TheDarwinProject1]

Or at the very least, edit them out so the patients & people like them hear those very inappropriate & unprofessional comments. Even if they're just concerned with business repercussions, edit that crap out!

[@carolitoffana]

I've never been more uncomfortable

[@DivaAllyC]

I can’t even imagine what kind of guys they are in private if they’re ok with making those jokes on camera

[@truebornseeker9767]

Tbh everyone in that room was so incredibly creepy and immature- I have the slightest understanding for the patient because I get that the predatory patriarchy places a disturbing amount of importance in a woman’s vagina/vulva being as close to that of a prepubescent cis girl as possible, but 3 professionals making ‘jokes’ about their **patient’s** ability to achieve orgasm and lack of ability to be “virginally tight” and a fully grown woman flashing a room of unconsenting people in a professional environment, completely unprompted, is **vvviiillleeee**

[@quester09]

the way they recoiled when v was mentioned

[@Morgan_le_they]

“My transsexual dog” surprised this wasn’t an early 2000s reality tv show 😂

[@Luxeria]

Omg it probably was 😂😂😂

[@ghostinthecity]

It sounds like a story in Chat magazine 💀

[@trixxart777]

Reminds of those joke videos where people where allowing there pets to pick there pronouns that conservatives took way too seriously

[@emilydearinger5830]

So that was a joke right I hope they don't actually do that

[@iamveryuncomfortable5354]

I feel like there’s a strong difference between body dysmorphic disorder and the common everyday insecurities that everybody has. As someone with diagnosed BDD I recognize that everybody around me has insecurities about certain parts of their body, but the extreme mental anguish and intrusive thoughts about self mutilation that it causes me are different than what most people deal with. I see your point, but I think it really depends on the matter of degree.

[@FrankiKaye]

Right, I was hoping someone down here could articulate it better than me, but that's exactly what I was thinking... it's like saying "we're all on the autism spectrum somewhere, lol"

[@bugbear89]

Agreed it's a lot more intense and consistent 😩

[@Mad_Madalyn]

Yes, I was thinking the same thing. As with other mental health issues, it's a matter of degree. Everyone experiences anxiety at times, but having an anxiety disorder means it chronic and significantly affects your life in a negative way. The same can be said for body dysmorphia, it's more than insecurities. It's a very obsessive/compulsive and enshrouding ideation you have about your body image that often doesn't align with reality.

[@FoxxyFire-HellFrost]

Same. When I was 15, I had severe BDD, an eating disorder, and agoraphobia. I would have anxiety attacks about going to school after trying on at least 10 shirts and believing I looked fat. I would sob and cry because I just saw the fat kid who used to get bullied for it. I was 103-106 lbs and 5'3" and after losing a lot of weight from cancer treatment, I suddenly developed anorexia. I had stopped eating because the treatments cause loss of appetite and to cover it up, I would lie and say I ate so I would stay thin. That's how crazy BDD is. It's not just insecurities, it's when you see something in the mirror that is not reality and it causes mental anguish.

[@chronicallykat4920]

Are you me but short? I hope you are doing better now. It's something I still run into but I have an excellent support system and the times I can't crush the brain weasels alone they help and vice versa. I mention in case someone needs to know that is possible be it you or someone else​@@FoxxyFire-HellFrost

[@christine13black]

having a bunch of doctors saying vagina when they refer to the vulva really grinds my gears....

[@lin-ni2885]

its SO unprofessional

[@monkfruit2389]

That's botched for you😕 these men are ICK.

[@daniellegillett4801]

It's infuriating.

[@FeralRubberDuckie]

SAME! I understand the show is mostly for entertainment purposes but there is an educational component and they need to use the correct names for the correct parts.

[@anniek3866]

Literally wild

[@sweetstacks3631]

Hi Luxeria!! I'm a transguy, and I've been watching your channel for a few years. You and other trans youtubers helped me a lot. Finally, I've gotten everything I need in order to schedule my top surgery consult! The clinic told me I'll most likely have it done this year!

[@krisdiane]

Congratulations! 🎉

[@Gulamaja]

Congrasts! So happy for you! 🎉

[@tiffanyh2219]

Congrats!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Financiallyfreeauthor]

Congratulations!!!! My friends who have had it are so happy with it!

[@dot4562]

Congrats! Well wishes on your journey 🩵🩷🤍

[@gleipnirfenrisulfr2860]

I feel bad for the first lady body dysphoria sucks, her friend was doing her best to cheer her up by saying she looks expensive but, on days when it's bad there is nothing to do but hide under a blanket and watch videos.

[@Luxeria]

That’s exactly it!

[@chronicallykat4920]

The dysphoria is so clear to me. I cringed at her level of pain. I wish I could tell her that I was not thinking she was trans at all even when speaking just pretty if sad. Though my brain is terrible about spotting folks in transition because they are who they are so I don't care enough to consider (non binariest of brains perks)

[@lmsmith015]

If I saw her on the street (at the start of the show), I wouldn't think "botched." Of course the details can bother someone, but from an outside perspective, I think she looks lovely! Maybe it's just because she doesn't look like the modern version of someone who's had a lot of plastic surgery.

[@Arizonacan69]

“I feel like a walking mistake” broke my heart

[@RoseWilder]

Speaking of neather regions. Back when I was in university (my first attempt at least, I also just discovered that I went to the same university as Lux when I made my second attempt at a higher education) they had a sort of 'protest' when it came to the pornification of what women were supposed to look like down there. They placed large photos of vulvas from volunteers all over the place with the words 'this is normal' written under it. Shaven, unshaven, various sizes and colors. It was a big thing back then in 2011-2012 because a new study had come out where a lot of young women thought there was something wrong with them because of shit men said and what they saw online. Honestly, I think it helped, at least I and many of the women I studied with did feel a bit better seeing just how damn different we all look.

[@elizabethwojcik1620]

Yeah the size/shape of of her labia majora would have nothing to do with virginity, but I guess everyone really has that drilled in their head. I've seen a lot of guys on the internet making fun of labia minora as if having any means you're a slut and if you correct them you just get laughed at of course. 😂

[@elizabethwojcik1620]

Yeah men still making fun of different labia shapes as if that means you must be a slut, I mean I know our sex education is bad but damn lol

[@AshChiCupcak]

As a vagina owner who struggled with similar insecurities, I appreciate the sentiment but I would 100% be distracted by then comparing my vagina to all the ones on the posters. Insecurities run deep 😩

[@Itri_Vega]

As a trans guy who's on hormones, I was not aware of how different vulvas look until I was trying to get reference images of bottom growth (for those unaware: testosterone therapy often causes considerable clitoris growth) and couldn't find genitals that looked like my pre-hormone ones at all. It's pretty amazing.

[@weloveangel509]

*nether

[@luucyharris]

LUXERIA, the "angel opening her legs part" ...there is literally a purring / growling sound effect! UNBELIEVABLE

[@chezsrandombs]

Hiya! (trans) guy with Body Dysmorphia Disorder! Just wanted to sort of open up the conversation and let it be known that the reason its seen as dangerous is because while, yes, everyone who gets plastic surgery may be very insecure, that is not synonymous with dysmorphia, and its called a disorder for a reason (it makes their life and mental state disordered or chaotic) In extreme case like my own and likely in that Renee's as well, body dysmorphis can cause urges and intrusive thoughts for self mutilation, and can even cause a distorted perception of your own features, almost akin to hallucination I dont personally find the way it was brought up in the video to be offensive at all, but did want to get that info out there and hopefully create a learning moment for everyone out there who is curious

[@chezsrandombs]

Also, the reason they ended up choosing not to fix it at first, was because they had a point with BDD causing issues with reconstruction BDD causes issues with ANY change, even good change, good change just happens to be less painful mentally The reason her having that surgery would've caused issues, is because she would have ended up with a still rather average butt, not the butt she wanted or the volume she wanted, which would've likely lead her down a rabbit hole of getting her implants or other volumising surgery all over again

[@cmaden78]

Couldn't find a place to say this...but just came here to say thank u for the educational info, learning is always something people should want and it cannot happen without discourse. And that eye makeup is gorgeous 😍

[@romeezydabreeze]

Yoooooo I never laughed so hard @13:10 mark 😂🤣🤣🤣 The walk out was hilarious. I think that was a first for Luxeria. I have never seen her walk out the room so offended. Not even while reviewing Janice show

[@Luxeria]

Never have I ever!! 😂😂

[@Morgan_le_they]

She’d had enough of the internet for the day 😂

[@montauk081]

F-you, F-you, your cool, I'M OUT

[@ChrystalVanDusseldorp]

That entire segment of the show should be next to "UNHINGED" in the dictionary 😄😄😄

[@astridquarry1248]

I read this comment before it happened and still wasn't prepared 😂😅

[@Lindsay-zn2zq]

I understand why doctors would be cautious about operating on patients diagnosed with body dysmorphia. But unless they’re SCREENING everybody for body dysmorphia, it seems like they’re just punishing someone for being honest. He sounds like he’s more concerned with legal liability than anything. But maybe I’m reading too much into that? Im glad he’s helping that woman regardless because she really needs help.

[@itsalwayshalloweenexceptwh5118]

I've encountered that sort of attitude from a plastic surgeon working in a state hospital. I haven't had anything done but I went for a consultation a few years ago because I wanted to look into my options for a neck lift and brow bone reduction. It's really like they're punishing you for being open and honest about wanting to improve your looks. Even though that is what they make their money with. The surgeon I saw thought there was something wrong with me for wanting to improve my looks and not being satisfied with my current look, so he really emphasized I get a screening (it wasn't standard). I got the screening in the same state hospital and I got the green light, they could not find any reasons why I shouldn't continue with the procedure. After the screening I had another appointment with the surgeon and during that appointment I decided not to continue with the surgeon. Firstly it didn't sit right with me that he insinuated that I had body dysmorphia just because I was open, realistic and honest about what I thought about my current looks. I wasn't even talking in a negative way about my own appearance, I just got the impression I wasn't allowed to dislike my own looks at all. He was also just rude and seemed to think of himself as superior. He then offered me a bunch of botox treatments I did not ask for and explained a plan that had me coming back to him for years. He liked what I wanted done during the first appointment, then completely changed his mind during the second appointment and disliked the procedures I wanted done. He was really trying to convince me to get his suggestions done and for me to come back for another appointment. I made up an excuse so I didn't have to make an appointment then and there. I have rarely been that uncomfortable around a dr. This was at a state hospital too, not a private clinic.

[@clarisaxpianist]

Here's the thing with body dismorphia - it is a real psychiatric illness that has had its meaning diluted by how it is used by the general public. Body dismorphia is an extreme dissatisfaction with parts of your body where NOTHING that is done will make the person happy. Either they will continue to find something wrong with that part of their body or will then go on to fixate on a different body part. It is way more than simply going "I think I'd look better after having this procedure done." I'm of the opinion that anyone seeking elective cosmetic surgery for things that wouldn't be considered reconstructive should be evaluated for body dismorphia because it can be a liability to do surgery on someone with the condition who then turns around and is not satisfied with their end result. But, it can be nearly impossible to diagnose until after a person has already undergone multiple cosmetic procedures. Part of the protocol at many bariatric clinics also involved psychiatric counseling for similar reasons, actually, both before and after surgery. For the lady in this video, I think the surgeons were wrong for not being willing to help her correct what is obviously a botched job that has left her with a clearly abnormal appearance.

[@itsalwayshalloweenexceptwh5118]

@@clarisaxpianist Exactly. I looked it up yesterday and multiple definitions defined it as an excessive concern/preoccupation or obsession with an imagined flaw. People with body dysmorphia see themselves as abnormal looking or even disfigured because of their own perception of one or more features of their body and/or face. That's why they will never be happy no matter how many procedures they get because their perception doesn't align with reality. But a lot of people these days think that thinking you are ugly, or being dissatisfied with something about your appearance counts as body dysmorphia. Even doctors. I did a few free screening tests last night out of curiosity. I got almost zero or zero on all of them, so no BDD. I might not like some things about my appearance but I still think I look normal, and most of the time I don't think about my appearance.

[@CreamIceMs]

Yeah, it wasn't clear to me if she actually had a diagnosis or if she self-diagnosed. Like, if she self-diagnosed, indeed it's best to get a professional to evaluate you, but if she doesn't have BDD, then maybe she can be greenlit for the surgery

[@lwoods1940]

Well said. Either he's concerned with liability; or maybe the show was setting up for a follow-up episode. It feels disingenuous to me that they are not willing to do the surgery when it's not "just" that she doesn't like how she looks; she was literally botched and as Lux points out it's more reconstructive at this point.

[@buracarolina5462]

On the topic of trans people in sex work I happen to have quite extensive knowledge and experience with talking to people in this exact situation and i can say that as far as trans women are concerned, in most cases the reason they resort to sex work is out of need (as opposed to the ideal situation where you have the luxury of thinking about it as any other work option). As far as I have observed, the stories are usually centered around the fact that they may not 'pass' well enough in order to be accepted at conventional workplaces. And just like anyone else, trans women have to work, make money, pay rent etc. I can talk for hours about fetishisation (some love it, some think its disgusting) and about the obvious issue of - in the year 2024 we are still confronted with people going into sex work bc they are told by our sick society that they are not welcomed in any other way. Paradoxically, trans people are being told to stop making everything about their sexuality whilst not letting them exist in places other than sex work.

[@Itri_Vega]

People hate us yet they want us. It's quite bizarre.

[@gardensalad7169]

My grandma used to work booking for the county jail, anytime she had to book trans sex workers she would come home talking about the “men dressed as women” who looked better than any “real” woman she had ever met. She’s transphobic as hell and very against sex work but those stories always made me giggle a little

[@buracarolina5462]

@@gardensalad7169 say what u will but the gays ( lgbtq+) usually look better than the straights bc they just put more emphasis on expressing themselves via their looks. And as far as gramma is concerned, it's fair to say that to some extent, she is most probably also a product of her time. Just the sheer amount of access to information we have today was unthinkable to them. Not that I'm justifying the hate, ofc but its always wise to look at the bigger picture and make sure history does not repeat itself.

[@XemeraldXD]

It sadly kind of makes sense, trans people are often seen as taboo and extreme (even when were literally just existing) and a lot of fetishes come from taboo. Im happy for the trans people that have chosen to do sex work and are happy and proud in that, but i do wish it wasnt so fetishised.

[@yesterdaydream]

When did we first see Dr. Dubrowlift's jack-in-the-box gif? Because that's exactly how long I've been searching thrift stores for a jack-in-the-box so I can craft one IRL.

[@Luxeria]

😂😂💀💀

[@montauk081]

Love this idea!! I will literally send you the Mickey Mouse Christmas themed jack in the box I have...and with a little" plastic surgery " it'll be PERFECT.

[@sarahjo5570]

Omg I hope you find one !!!

[@montauk081]

FUN FACT about Dr. Dubrowlift: His older brother Kevin was the lead singer for the popular metal band Quiet Riot!! The more you know!!🌈🌟

[@S_H9260]

The first non-kids record I chose myself was a Quiet Riot 45.

[@BlackCatBF]

Come on, feel the B R O W L I F T 🎶

[@bxnvrr763]

​@@BlackCatBF giiiirls rock your browlift! 🎶

[@montauk081]

🎵Your eyes will get wide-wide-wide🎶

[@johannas.l.brushane2518]

One of his kids is trans. Saw he mentioned it in an interview I think it's been something in the TV-docu his wife is in (real housewife's).

[@Lindsay-zn2zq]

Cohost Mr Biscuits !! Welcome back! My dachshund is blonde (maybe slightly darker than biscuit) and everyone assumes Chase is a girl 😂

[@Luxeria]

They’re far too pretty aren’t they 😂😂

[@C-U-Never-Troll]

My partner must think I’m mental cuz I laugh so much at the editing and the unhinged things you say sometime while listening with headphones ahaha

[@Luxeria]

😂😂😂 im glad you enjoy!!

[@ChrystalVanDusseldorp]

My husband started watching with me back with Bridalplasty because he wanted to know what was so fabulously funny! 😄😄😄

[@C-U-Never-Troll]

@@ChrystalVanDusseldorp Omgg I love that :)

[@hannanadine]

Not Luxeria taking after Rolys ”I’m walking out now” statement in a video🤣🤣🤣 I love it

[@nincure]

Also, I'm a trans man, and I really love your content and I'm glad I discovered your Chanel. I started my transition in 2005. It's nice to see someone else who started their transition a while ago (I don't know how long it's been since you started transitioning). And I really can relate to/have a lot of things in common with you and Roly! I have a lot of piercings and several tattoos. I really appreciate both of you! 💚

[@Luxeria]

2005! Goodness! Nearly your 20th birthday 😂 glad you’re enjoying!

[@rosvokisu]

I'm also a trans guy and started my transition in 2013, so 11 years ago now. I feel the same way ❤

[@pssurvivor]

i once explained to an ex how foetuses develop in the womb in terms of their genitalia and he unironically commented that that means that men are more evolved than women. My eyes rolled into my skull and didn't come out till i had left him!

[@bratatouille]

Another way of looking at it would be that everyone develops female, until some get a developmental defect and end up becoming male. Both are wrong, but honestly, when there are species entirely comprised of only females, it would be more logical to view maleness as a defect than as being more evolved 🤷

[@carolitoffana]

Tell him that Cancer is just a cell who evolved too much 😂

[@Leoji0325]

just looked her up and kimber seems to have gotten everything she wanted, she's absolute thriving from the looks of her ig and her nose looks stunning now.

[@sweetaudrina_]

I don’t think that’s her.

[@justacellist3989]

@@sweetaudrina_ It is not.

[@lhproductions61]

“Who was doing nose jobs on 15 year olds!?” Right!? Unless it’s for repair from an accident no reason you’re still growing! My older half sisters have been getting Botox and other surgeries since 16 I think it’s crazy that their mother thinks it’s even okay. They get their “crows feet” and “smile lines” done once a year. They’ve each had breast surgeries and tummy tucks as well. One had reconstructive surgery from a DV situation but yeah insane to me

[@ChrystalVanDusseldorp]

A lot of times ,especially in LA, people will go across the border to Baja California (Mexico) and have procedures done. It's cheap and fairly easy to find. 🫤

[@allisonking3553]

Hello Luxeria!! So excited for this video! Sending love to you and mister biscuit!

[@Luxeria]

🖤🖤🖤

[@everogersdownunder1242]

I really felt for this lady. Must be *so* hard, especially back then in LA, trying to be comfortable in the skin you're in and be happy with yourself. It's already such an intense journey, I can't imagine how expensive and arduous this process was. And then to feel it's "botched" must be very disheartening.

[@FairyGoffMother]

Omg no fucking way I am absolutely gagged! I can't believe I got an Instagram shoutout, i literally screamed my house down! You are like the Queen of Queens, i love you Luxeria❤❤

[@ethankirk8244]

The way you left when she flashed her preferred bespoke curtains killed me, that is literally me. Seriously though, who does that, if anyone did that to me, ELECTRIC CHAIR. Way too much lip in this episode, but, imagine going through lower surgery and hating it, any reassignment surgery infact, in this economy? The therapy alone would bankrupt anyone, I would sue them so much, they would need therapy themselves. love you though. This episode was gout. ❤😂

[@eurosez]

Haha, I remember this ep from when I saw it on tv years ago and I was waiting for her response to that part 😂

[@kuna3397]

You can have the best surgeon in the world for gender ‘confirming’ surgery and still end up never being able to orgasm. Things can always go wrong, and there is always a risk!

[@Luxeria]

That is true!

[@ohcontraire1915]

My understanding of body dysmorphia is that it's less to do with "regular" insecurities or wanting to change the way you look, and more about your self image, including the way you physically see yourself in the mirror, not lining up with reality. I struggle with it immensely (thanks 2000s trash tv) and on a bad day, what I literally SEE with my own two eyes in the mirror is radically different to what I see on a good day. I have heard before that surgeons would rather refer you to a mental health specialist first if you have BDD, because physically changing your body won't necessarily change what you see - it's a mental issue not a physical one. So ultimately, patients with BDD are significantly more likely to be unsatisfied and want further surgery, because their brains are liars and they can't see any difference.

[@gluteusuterus5592]

As someone who has recently accepted themselves as a trans woman, I just want to say that your content has educated me and helped me so much. It's weird how similar your humour is to mine and I feel like we'd be besties IRL ❤️

[@Uncle_Smidge]

OT but your username is AMAZING

[@Lizardkitmin]

The phrase "A Transgender" makes us feel like cool aliens im here for it

[@matchbox420.]

It reminds me of the show Kyle XY lmao

[@peachxtaehyung]

What i do like that botched does is they at LEAST they SEEM think about whats the best for their patients they dont just do plastic surgery on whoever walks in the door! Dont know if thats fully the truth but yeah

[@veryboredpug]

We don't all have "a little body dysmorphic disorder" same way we don't all have "a little OCD" or "a little Autism" -- just because something overlaps or is relatable doesnt mean it's as distressing and debilitating as the clinically diagnosed form. We do all have unrealistic beauty standards and lots of people are hard on themselves, but BDD is specific intense distress around specific body parts.

[@weloveangel509]

She was referring to people who choose to get cosmetic surgery. You would have had a point if you said not all cosmetic surgeries are done for non cosmetic reasons, but something tells me you weren't

[@Slimerancherchicken]

She was talking about people who get plastic surgery babe..... Which is exactly the types of people who have a body dysmorphia disorder... Please invest in some critical thinking

[@lewis_is_medicated]

Fallopian tubes on display?! On a Thursday?!

[@Luxeria]

😭😭😭😭😂

[@Morgan_le_they]

In this economy?!

[@ChrystalVanDusseldorp]

Right in front of my salad! 😄

[@everogersdownunder1242]

I remember many moons ago, for some people (let's just say who's patents had money), got their noses "done" for their 16th bdays. It was a little trend for a while. I think this was back in the early 90s (could have even been late 80s) until they regulated plastic surgery more. This was in the USA, and I only heard of it there. I may be wrong, but I've seen shows on it in the past.

[@MarcelWhy]

so strange that Dr Dubrowlift is actually the one doing body rather than face work on Botched 🤔 thanks, Lux!

[@Luxeria]

I know!!!

[@nincure]

​@@Luxeria I don't know if you've seen the ad on KZbin for the UVlizer? But there's a doctor on there saying he uses similar technology in his office. I recognized the voice. So I looked at the screen and it was Dr. Dubrowlift! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@melissaf88]

As a regular watcher of Botched, I understood that he mostly did body work and Dr Nassif did the faces. He would actually admit that Dr. N was the better for that category. So imagine my shock that he was notorious for doing all the Swan brow lifts! Oh that's not... 😬

[@dietotaku]

DR DUBROWLIFT I'M CACKLING 🤣🤣🤣

[@grassfolk]

@@melissaf88same!! He rarely touches a face on botched.

[@nicoleeliz]

The way Biscuit looks at you 🥰😍

[@elizabeth_reads7]

I am stuck in a long car ride so the timing of this is perfect! 👏 Also, when season 4 of ANTM reactions starts it’ll be incredible because I have always found that season to be the most absurd.

[@Luxeria]

So so so so soon!!!

[@jayyy_rose]

Sometimes I have more complex / detailed comments to leave, but I always wanna help the Chanel out (even on older videos; I hope it still works that way lol), so for when my brain isn’t going full force, just know I love your work, am thankful for your presence, and if I leave “💜💜💜” I mean it! Sending love and well-wishes your way. Also, I really do enjoy this show. I watched it all the way through when I first could access it, and as always, your commentary makes it so much better! There’s something about raging over deranged and problematic moments alone that feels better with a virtual friend. Thank you for covering it.

[@KingOfGaymes]

THAT VIDEO OF THE GIRL FLIPPING HER BUTT IMPLANT HAS HAUNTED ME FOR YEARS

[@checkoutchick9023]

This is the first time that I've seen it and tbh her flipping her implant in her butt made me feel nauseated 🤢🤢🤢

[@amiahh6157]

i miss who i was before i saw somebody’s ass do the biles II.

[@martinjrgensen8234]

You sense of humor is just perfection ❤. These doctors are really, really good.

[@Kwisten050]

I'm a straight cis woman and I found that interaction really inappropriate, from calling her a "transgender" to indicating she can't experience sexual pleasure to calling out his wife to making fun of micropenises. Much of that can be triggering to trans people, causing dysphoria, but it's also just obnoxious in general. We don't need the locker room talk-they can leave that back in the 70s or whatever. Oh god, it's getting even worse. I know these guys are excellent surgeons, but I'd feel uncomfortable dealing with them after seeing all the inappropriate behavior and comments.

[@DasChainsaw]

"I WANT TO BE MYSPACE" 😂 SOMEBODY GET THE SHOVEL-I AM DECEASED ALREADY

[@elaexplorer]

In this show Dr. Massif (sp?) was definitely the grown up in the room.

[@Cheyscrochetshop]

I feel like saying everyone has A little body dysmorphia is akin to saying I have a little OCD or everyone is a little AuDHD. Whilst yes everyone might have some qualities of the disorder, the degree and effect on daily functioning is what makes it a disorder.

[@Milkugh]

Thank you for clarifying this for her and her audience. I have diagnosed BDD and it’s not just having an insecurity

[@RenaeG135]

Perfect comment! I think she was half mixing it up Body Dysphoria maybe?

[@tapemo]

1:05 Mr. Biscuit looking straight into my heart/soul 😊

[@Tashargh]

Really hoping surgeons these days have grown up. They're so rude! Conversely Though 'Right, OK, vagina!' is my new go to conversation stopper 😂

[@middleofnowhere1313]

queerplantfamily has a point. I heard about this long ago and so I do my best to schedule anything medically important on days and times when the doctor will be mentally sharper and well-fed.

[@Luxeria]

A good choice!

[@angelmarie1112]

I have alot of binge watching to do to catch up on all your recent videos!

[@heidiullrich966]

My day just got better!! Always does when Luxeria posts!! ❤❤

[@Luxeria]

Hope you enjoy this one!

[@nincure]

Agreed!

[@heidiullrich966]

@@Luxeria There has never been one that I haven't loved!! ❤️

[@jbear3478]

Thank you for keeping Mr Biscuit on your lap, it's a huge pet peeve of mine (hehe pet) when creators make their animal leave. Like what are you doing. Give me your pet. PS this first woman is gorgeous, I hope she knows that now

[@NSN_CYND]

Aw I love seeing Mr.biscuit In your videos he's such a cute little guy^_^ Also imagine you get a botched surgery just because they didn't give the surgeon time for lunch

[@Luxeria]

💀💀💀

[@nincure]

He's soooo cute when he just looks up at Luxeria! 💚

[@mestillme3026]

Filler isn't a good long term option for nose projection. It is much more likely to shift and settle over time. Permanent facial fillers also often have side effects of infections, and complications, even years down the line.

[@ellierenae8620]

22:00 Body dysmorphia is slightly different from body/gender dysphoria! Dysphoria is to be unhappy with what is really in the mirror, dysmorphia is to have a warped perception of what's in the mirror, sometimes to the degree of seeing a "monster" or severely exaggerated or shrunken features. The reason it's important not to operate cosmetically on someone with body dysmorphia is that they probably will not mentally register even the best results and may go for more dangerous and extreme surgeries to compensate when what they need more urgently is psychological and/or psychiatric help. Hopefully I'm not getting any of this wrong (my degree is from a few years back).

[@Draggonny]

Yes, you are correct. People with body dysmorphia don't see their bodies as they really are so changing their physical appearance won't change what they see when they look in the mirror.

[@johannasmith1579]

Thanks! I love your botched series and you are absolutely hilarious and so inspiring and relatable

[@KerryABirchall]

Ive been waiting for this one. I just want to give Kimber a hug. She's so sweet.

[@m4n1c.p1x13]

This is the most non-click bait title I've ever seen

[@singingblueberry]

What really confuses me about the whole "no plastic surgery for body dysmorphia patients" argument: She already has implants in her body. You're supposed to replace implants regularly. Is she supposed to wear the same old botched implants until they're 50 years old, because "oh, we can't do surgery on you, you have BDD"? What's that supposed to accomplish? And if she's supposed to get them replaced anyway in a few years, why not fix them now? Why make her suffer with implants that flip around in her body for any longer than she has to?

[@Siilikeiju]

They are so hypocritical. There are people coming into this show and saying things like "my breasts are my whole identity" but do they ever mention body dysmorphia in those cases? Absolutely not. Those implants are completely botched so why wouldn't they do corrective surgery on her? My guess is it's because it makes a nice story line where the doctors seem so ethical... unless you look at so many other things Dubrow has done.

[@Slimerancherchicken]

​@@Siilikeiju you do realize they talked with them before the show right like before they record that whole speaking session they've already talked to the patient.......

[@neva_nyx]

I've been dipping into the older videos and I'm whiplashed to the present 😅💜

[@elaexplorer]

27:15 The main reason they (and most other surgeons) aren't going to do it, is because no matter what they do she isn't going to like it. Since plastic and cosmetic surgeons rely so heavily on their reputation they won't risk it on someone they know isn't going to get the (impossible) result they want. She needs to get to a place where she will accept her body as imperfect.

[@jenniferkeaton7593]

13:39 you just did a “Roly” right there! LOL. Hilarious 😂.

[@S_H9260]

She's so cute and seems really nice. I'm glad for her that she decided to go more natural. I hope she is doing well and has a career that she wants.

[@MrsCurioCheerio]

Some of this vaginal rhetoric is very... _problematic_ to say the least (and I don't use that word very lightly). Kimber's situation is highly complex and I hope she's doing well, but I can't help but acknowledge that their ideal as explained at 6:05 and the earlier sections of the episode is such a wild and honestly hurtful thing to hear so casually said... it's the tie between youth, looking "virginal," and bodily aesthetics as a fully grown adult. But like I said it's complex and this is for reality tv, but I just really hope in the 10 years since this aired more people have developed a different viewpoint.

[@BrigitteDiessl]

They have a spin off show called Botched by Nature where they go around the country doing consultations with people who have birth defects that are affecting their lives. It's worth watching.

[@amberTea-v2]

Hi Luxeria, I love that you're reviewing these shows. They were on TV here in Oz pretty late at night and we needed our beauty sleep. A much better way to see them, with you.

[@sassycatenthusiast]

I think this is the only channel on KZbin I can hear the word vagina said casually several times over 47mins and just be like “yeah, this is fine” 😂

[@sweetest-mia]

Ok, the title of the episode I did not expect 😂! Happy 🐱🍾'n Thursday it is 💛!

[@Luxeria]

Oh yes this one is a lot 💀

[@AlizaJayne]

9:50 it’s just a small piece of dialogue but I am happy he said “v4ginal region” and not “g3nital region” because it emphasizes that she is indeed a woman and has a v4gina (not a uterus, but that is distinct from a v4gina). He doesn’t even say “transitioned v4gina” or anything like that. Honestly sort of nice to hear! Edit: added “leet speak” so the comment isn’t flagged as inappropriate.

[@sia7051]

While I agree with you on principle. I wish he had been accurate in saying Vulva because the Vaginal region is internal not external.

[@dumbbirdwayne]

I need that “TIME FOR A BROW LIFE :)” clip uploaded on its own, it fucking sends me into hysterics every time 😂😂😂

[@user-nd7rd8jo6h]

Just to chime in as someone who's had bottom surgery and have done a lot of research. Her not having innerlips is not necessarily a botched procedure. Plenty of surgeons perfer to do the surgery in 2 stages or there simply isn't enough material to quite hit it in the first go. What I'm wondering is why she didn't book a revision with her surgeon sooner.

[@ascendesuperius]

10000000000000% excited for you to continue the botched series!!

[@samturnbull9614]

As someone who has dealt with body dysmorphia, even when I got down to the size I thought I wanted I always thought I was too big. So she probably would just struggle with a huge bout of depression after surgery and always want more no matter the size

[@nikitea123]

Just last night i was watching older botched and tiktok lux vids!! So happy waking up to a new one!! 🖤

[@BeingBriony]

Poor woman, why would they miss out full sections of the anatomy when doing the surgery the first time 😭

[@Renemor]

I'm 45 and have a complex medical history, with IBS, endometriosis, PCOS, methylation issues and mitochondrial issues..and a lot of major old injuries from serious accidents.. I've lived half my life in doctor's offices, and let me tell you; there are soooo many times I'm too, like; 'Nononononooo, I thought the doctor should know that!' In that respect I don't know weather to laugh, cry, or both at the same time, sometimes...🤦🏼‍♀️😂 Love the Energy, Luxeria - keep up being amazing, same goes for Mr.Bisquit ❤

[@ms_taree7335]

The beginning... my mood every day...lol...

[@Luxeria]

Honestly same 😂😂

[@raee_ku7027]

you are one of the most positive and healthy minded trans people i have seen on youtube. I hope more people and kids who are going through that journey stumble on your channel, it would be very helpful in their journey of self love than any of the mainstream trans people i have seen on youtube.

[@brissygirl4997]

I've seen all 8 seasons of Botched and this young lady had more work done than was actually on the show. Luxeria if you can find it there is a reunion episode at the end of this season, where the Doctors and their patients from the season meet back up similar to the Real Housewives reunion specials. Janice Dickenson gets quite upset about some of the comments that Dr Dubrow made during her episode.

[@MariyahinLondon]

Something about your videos are just so comforting!! 🥹❤

[@haleyking4085]

Hello, therapist here! In the case of turning down the buttock patient, the dr mentioned 1. doing no harm and 2. she won't be happy with the end result. He suggested therapy first. From my end, I concur. Having body dysmorphia and undergoing that surgery would have likely worsened her mental state and led her to more surgeries to get that "full and phat" look back. The reason for it being botched was her dysmorphia (as u mentioned, patient error). So no surgery she does will actually help or fix anything unless she is able to perceive her body in a better light. Even recontructive, she'd still view it the same way. Therapy will help her to process the emotions/thoughts that lead to such destructive behaviours. If it were a life or death situation, or a health concern, I am sure the drs would have recommended to go ahead w the surgery. Just my two cents. Love you luxie!

[@AnniCarlsson]

And thats the issue with have body dysmorphia. Recontrution don't take that away. If it been like a bad nose job that restrikt breathing through the nose it is also bad for health to not do it even if patient not going to like it they atleast can breath again so that maybe help the dysmophia some when finelly breath. But a flipping butt can wait to rigth mindset so bot redo misstakes.

[@lauraberney4648]

Been binge watching your videos for the last few days...you are hilarious!!! You are also fucking gorgeous!! My new favourite person on the KZbin ❤

[@elaexplorer]

37:40 He did tell her during the consultation that it wouldn't be perfect ("not a home run but at least a double or triple")

[@bornagain_cynic]

Love you Luxeria! I watch you with my sister because we both find your reactions hilarious!

[@Lex_brooke]

I feel like in regards to the body dysmorphia issue, there's maybe a difference between people who are dysmorphic about an issue who then have it changed and are then happy, versus people who are unable to properly accept their appearance no matter how much they've changed it? I do agree though that Renee absolutely should've been given the revision

[@susanhill2110]

I have to say I love your eye makeup, your eyes look more gorgeous than usual 😊😊

[@youfoundwaldo77]

I just did some research and im happy to say our trans queen kimber is happily married and has a daughter! Im so glad to see she is living her best life right now and she seems like an amazing mom!

[@Isabelleix9]

Where did you se that?, I couldn’t find anything on her after 2019.

[@cyansalvatore6011]

Wrong Kimber. From The Cinemaholic: "Popularly known as Kimber James, Nikolle Colantuoni was one of the star appearances in ‘Botched’ season 1. The transgender porn artist is still active in the world of adult entertainment. Kimber turned 35 in April 2023 and has certainly retained the confidence and aura that has helped her achieve so much success in life. The artist has a significant fan following and has been a part of various adult movies."

[@cyansalvatore6011]

@@Isabelleix9 They got wrong Kimber. The first Kimber that comes up is Kimber Jaynes, while she's actually Kimber James. From The Cinemaholic: "Popularly known as Kimber James, Nikolle Colantuoni was one of the star appearances in ‘Botched’ season 1. The transgender porn artist is still active in the world of adult entertainment. Kimber turned 35 in April 2023 and has certainly retained the confidence and aura that has helped her achieve so much success in life. The artist has a significant fan following and has been a part of various adult movies."

[@Isabelleix9]

Okay, people are mistaken this Kimber for Kimber Jaynes. Kimber James seems to have totally disappeared from social media after 2019.

[@cyansalvatore6011]

@@Isabelleix9 There was an update in 2023 on her on the cinemaholic. I replied twice with the summary to the other commenters here, idk if it shows up.

[@Neesh.k]

I’m so glad I found your channel! Your beauty inside and out cheers me up so much. Love the unhinged edits ❤

[@Raztiana]

But Luxeria, Dubrow didn't say that men don't HAVE breast tissue, just that he doesn't have the same amount on a trans woman as on a cis woman. With Kimber it's more extreme, because she's so skinny and previous surgeons have removed/destroyed everything. It's not as obvious in this episode, but in later episodes Dubrow talks about the problems transgenders have had in the past, when getting surgeries or other treatments. He has the elegance of an elephant in this episode, but his heart seems to be in the right place. And yes, the rejection of potential patients are in every episode.

[@smaugkat]

What a wild roller coaster of emotion this took me on. Thank you.

[@ToriR94]

17:04 Luxeria, you almost made me do a genuine spit take from laughing at the “which is not surgery to make you a bottom” caption. 🤣

[@LadyKDLife]

I think you could do a video of how to crochet “a busy woman on the game” and I’d still watch 😂 Love your videos! Snort laughing 😂

[@DorkDork87]

I think they turned down the lady with body dismorphia because they were afraid that if they gave her a normal looking bum she would be unhappy and yet again got another dangerous surgery before she is fully healed. I think it's good idea to send her to therapy first

[@bethdavisjimenez]

I've had many surgeries and only one was cosmetic. It was a big one though but I'm happy with it. However, two of my surgeries that were to fix my neck and back, were botched and I'm miserable because of them. We all have to be very mindful of what surgeries we have, who does them and what the outcome could be.

[@heliosmongerer1]

Now I know to schedule my top surgery for a Monday haha. Your commentary made me cackle too lmao 🩵

[@valgdeluca]

for what it's worth, I got top surgery on a friday and while the vibe in the hospital was definitely "oh my god get everything OVER with it's almost the weekend!" everything went swimmingly and as well as it possibly could have, both physically and appearance wise!

[@balvyllaere]

Can I just say I love your videos! I have been watching for a long long time now and your content just absolutely hits the right spot with the subject matter and length. ❤❤

[@jcook910]

Jaw on the floor at the end of this one 💀 I so hope kimber is doing well these days 🖤