Bottle Girl Claims Men's Insecurities Prevent Them from Dating Her!

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[@eon001]

Don't let women shame you out of having boundaries. Yea I'm insecure, now what? Go that way...

[@tonymontez2358]

It’s crazy how she tried to gaslight by saying she could cheat at a office job too, the deflection response was crazy lol 😂

[@pipedreamism1]

Lmao facts

[@beach_boy1141]

@@tonymontez2358 It’s true tho. If a female is loyal it’s because it’s naturally who she is no matter where she’s at.

[@tonymontez2358]

@@beach_boy1141 yea you keep thinking that lol 😂 until a guy with money who’s her type comes in on her bartending shift at the strip club and offers her $1500 to smash she gone do it and take it and go home to her man like nothing happened these women are sneaky af.

[@krashdummiez007]

@@tonymontez2358she actually proving our point 😂 if she can cheat in the office then her cheating at the club is x10000 more likely

[@MrReedGrantberry]

It's never them. It's always a coworker or friend.

[@TEDDYTHELEGACY]

😂😂

[@ontimingtv8210]

Always lol

[@undercover656]

😂

[@Maxwellhanes]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 “Asking for a friend”

[@njpme]

😂😂

[@specialk5340]

Notice how they can say they won’t date a guy with a certain profession and it’s not insecure, but when men say they aren’t dating women with certain professions it’s insecure, I swear sometimes I look at women and see adults with children brains.

[@FordFitness334]

They act like kids bro , they tend to not wanna grow up for some odd reason

[@theworks75]

@@FordFitness334the problem is that when they were teenagers they experienced adult things so they missed out on being teenagers so that’s why we see them acting like big kids now

[@ontimingtv8210]

They definitely got kid brains

[@HondaXr650L]

They damn sure dont grow up at all and mentally they are kids.​@FordFitness334

[@Taparrish7Outof100]

They women would laugh if broke men said that women are insecure for not dating them because of their finances.😂😂

[@djsalteenuts]

It’s not insecurity, it’s about respect.

[@FordFitness334]

Facts

[@pipedreamism1]

Yes and it's call standards so for the host to say it's insecurities is mindless

[@ddavis8988]

Not wanting to do something high-risk and stupid doesn't make you insecure.

[@vodoumyers]

PREACH!

[@nannio]

👏🏽

[@qikstar]

I would never seriously date a girl I met from any party environment or sex culture (clubs, strip clubs, IG, etc). Smash only! You marry the women you meet in professional or spiritual spaces.

[@Providence365]

On bro😂😂😂😂its just best to leave these non linear mfs alone

[@mechfrza]

Bottle girls are pimped out by club owners. Everyone knows this.

[@Blackrage843]

Hell no, that nightlife is the underworld you are dealing with all types of people

[@lroyjetsonson5060]

Exactly 💯

[@Blackrage843]

@lroyjetsonson5060 Hitman robbers dope boys bum dudes who be slaying girls in the club bathroom all types of mf

[@ibezag0]

Imma use ur analogy, thanx sir lol

[@Blackrage843]

@@ibezag0 no problem

[@lisosaboy]

gaslighting is crazy

[@Eliyah-EliyahuYahudah-tr2om]

"Self-respect" now means "insecure" to these women 🤔?

[@jermaineandrews5913]

yup & corny/goofy means being responsible and clean appearance.

[@bigvarotv3595]

They trying to flip the script on us…only simps fall for this

[@Eliyah-EliyahuYahudah-tr2om]

@@bigvarotv3595 Gosh darnit', you're right ✅️

[@DE_Impeccable_Man]

"If I'm gonna cheat I'm gonna cheat." Wow. You don't deserve to be in a relationship w/ that mindset. You literally told everyone that you'll do what you want if the moment is right

[@joelrobert4053]

Facts, no man should waste their time with her

[@Illtechnica]

She's a modern independent woman, not an interdependent woman. That's the difference.

[@TLJohns]

I think she was tryna say it don’t matter what occupation she has; if she wanted to cheat she could/would

[@jayo208]

​@@TLJohns literally all it was lol......and she's right 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@insight1428]

Obviously that’s not what she’s saying. A loyal person will be loyal no matter what, and a cheater will find a way to cheat. Doesn’t matter if they are working as a bottle girl or are a stay a home wife.

[@zb2747]

No right man is going to date a woman who is CONSTANTLY in that environment All it takes is the RIGHT guy THAT NIGHT to slip through Stay cold my boys

[@roncall6065]

Only a fool would take a bottle girl seriously

[@Kinggunna87]

They making a male bartender seem like he's a nail tech

[@lroyjetsonson5060]

That's because they are basically strippers at elite Black clubs. Wild West saloons had men. Hole in the Walls usually have men. Biker Bars have men. These chick's think most bartenders are sassy. Most bartenders in certain spots never ever been to mixology school, and their customers don't even know 1/3 of those fancy drinks anyway.

[@Themusicalhealer]

im not secured enough to let my girl work in the club.. all it take is an argument, right to guy to shoot his shot and she will have her feet to the ceiling.

[@samuelmarshall3658]

😂😂😂

[@spanky_3o]

LMFAO

[@krashdummiez007]

That can happen to you if she works at Walmart or the piggly wiggly 😂 her working at a club is like playing roulette with the gun fully loaded

[@Themusicalhealer]

@@krashdummiez007 😭😭😂😂 Aint no man safe

[@bigvarotv3595]

You are secure …you just have self respect and don’t let no bop tell u other wise….no women who work that life have god in their life and have no respect for themselves …..selling their soul for money….and have no morals as woman….most woman who work in clubs have no daddy or don’t have a relationship with their daddy so they have daddy issues

[@KNETWORK100]

Birds of a feather .... "Two can't walk together unless they agree" - Amos 3:3

[@acod24]

Every interview like this they say everybody is doing it but it’s never them😂

[@slimmsg7]

exactly lol, its like asking a white person if they racist lol ...

[@Kyall3]

@@slimmsg7exactly the same lol

[@CharesWhite]

Her definition of insecure, is my deifintion of risk managmemt!

[@jelanitarik8452]

🔥🔥🔥

[@jovelhamilton601]

👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

Women really live life like they think their decisions don't have any consequences, but eventually everybody learns or they die ignorant.

[@josebless5152]

Fellas stop wasting your money on these over priced bottles n inflating these skill less masculine women egos. 12:56

[@pipedreamism1]

First off why dudes pay to be tease strip club is for the simps

[@DreDaGodSon]

Facts and don’t forget leaving TIPS.

[@doublepromo8240]

It’s not insecure to not want to date a woman that’s in the nightlife. That is a preference. It’s a headache that most men do not want to deal with.

[@bsanon4796]

The only part of what they said I agreed with is the guys who meet these women and get mad or try to change them. That's goofy to me.

[@lobmob3235]

Exactly. No way you can expect the best from any woman you met at the club

[@passportpapi713]

That’s true but that’s just these 304s saying u met me dressing like this. Mmmmmmmm not really I met u dressed decently it’s just that now that ur comfortable u decided to push the boundaries and wear some wild shit and I never knew was in your wardrobe , but even if I did meet u dressed like that Bih when you in a relationship u adapt and stop dressing and advertising yourself when you are single. Dressing for all that sexual attention while ya man’s ain’t around is serious question of what are u trying to accomplish and why are u are u increasing the odds to increase your approach rate??” Men approach me if I’m in sweat pants and a hoody “ ok thats life and that ain’t no excuse increase sexual attention. Prostitutes dress a certain way to attract men looking for sex so they can get paid. Simple

[@colihon3552]

agree

[@Carl-gd1st]

But playing her motherly role inside of a relationship should be as natural as a web coming from out of a spider just as long he's willing to provide the average lifestyle that's required to get through life for a family. Moderday (bw) women are oblivious to inflation all though they claim to be the most intelligent group in America many still want the most expensive things that's clearly out of their reach and have been reserved for the wealthy.

[@qikstar]

Simps! Any man that leads with his wallet or try to change a sex worker is an absolute 🤡

[@Noir_Nouveau]

They are high maintenance and more likely to bring drama/attention you don't want or need.

[@stephenandrew7314]

They aren't high maintenance they delusional

[@RaySmith79]

I am insecure and I will remove myself from this situation.

[@jjayphilly342]

The STIGMA is well earned. Your profession is entrenched in a negative environment.

[@vodoumyers]

Thank you!

[@qikstar]

Absolutely

[@Kenxftm]

beautifully said, literally couldn’t have given a better explanation

[@krashdummiez007]

You’ll never understand how easy it until you’ve taken somebody’s girl

[@vodoumyers]

Damn right

[@Kgfurniture47]

She was never his

[@cashoutjm]

they love running to that word insecure smh lol

[@nemesisenforcer907]

Guys make these clubs go out of business stop supporting these overpriced clubs they are doing nothing for you they're doing nothing for the community put them out of business stop going

[@blackpoptart4781]

I'm 30 and I have never been to a club or a strip club.

[@vodoumyers]

​@@blackpoptart4781 I'm 23 & I've never been to one either

[@tajdyer2803]

​@blackpoptart4781 unless it's overseas, it s a waste in the states bruh! Been to one 3 years ago, boy do I regret it!

[@Blackfist030]

Won't happen, as long as they let the ladies in for free they'll always be in business

[@coolrunnings9506]

There’s NO 🚫 justification for the streets. You aren’t meant for relationship, you in the streets then you are for the STREETS. Period.

[@sicklymaad]

Bruh. We go to club to get girls. We know the offers y’all get. It only takes one time.

[@OverEast34]

Women who work in night life are advertising themselves to other men. It’s not insecure to refuse that.

[@2k9mobbdeep]

Buddy can be a Bartender at a night lounge and you wont date him but he has to be cool with you shaking ass behind a counter for 1's as a "Bartender"????? Man...Women are something special alright.

[@lalofeliciano1443]

No REAL man wants a woman that everyone can access. Straight like that 💯

[@sirpream.clientele]

No man of means is going to take women of any nightlife seriously. It would be oxymoronic.

[@ishyameru6232]

How do yall look these birds in the face and not chuckle 😂 this is TOOOOOOO good 🤣🤣🤣

[@brainiacbold169]

This get the bag culture has young women’s minds warped.. the bag justifies any behavior no matter what.

[@alHuwariyunMuslim]

The product of capitalism and individualism.

[@oz70nyc50]

And this gents, is the reason why women who work in specific professions should IMMEDIATELY be disqualified. Whether they're trickin' or just making money, the image is what matters. Don't even bother trying to build report with them, they're entertainment...ONLY.

[@kuroyama95]

So... As a woman you should be secure in yourself when a man goes to strip clubs and are surrounded by attractive woman.

[@_CPerk]

So now, men can’t be bartenders either 😂

[@DefenderOfTheEnd]

Right like who tf you think made all these recipes yall like or who makes the alcohol and wines in general. Cause it ain’t a woman 😂

[@_CPerk]

@@DefenderOfTheEnd right. Also shows what spots they frequent. They thinking nightclubs and strip joints. But literally anywhere else You go with a bar, it’s more likely than not a male bartender serving.

[@colihon3552]

bartenders not getting cheeks like that he still gotta do the work. a bottle girl or stripper has to do nothing but look good and probably still get paid for getting clapped 😅

[@ObjectivelyBias]

What limelight is there being in a club?

[@garrisona5669]

None it’s washed the hell up 😂😂

[@CS-wn2sz]

Putting your body on display for money and then expecting to be taken seriously is insane

[@passerau]

A bunch of hypocrite, they got caught. they know bartenders always have a lot of girl

[@user-ye2sm1gq7l]

That's why they tried to imply that they were gays, to shame other men into not doing it.

[@nannio]

I’m happily insecure!! I ain’t dealing with these type mentalities in women!! no way Jose!

[@Timianospeech]

It’s actually very secure telling anyone what you don’t like

[@OzWorldChannel]

So in order for you to respect my wishes, I have to provide you with a financial replacement? IOW, I have to buy your decency? SMH.

[@kponds1992]

I dont understand why a man having standards is always labeled insecure.

[@the-lil-x]

Fathers matter

[@PJ-po6xy]

Goofy

[@Stonecoldalston]

9:08 the reason they don’t want a male bartender is because women got the game messed up shaking ass etc they got that image in their head like that’s what a bartender supposed to do

[@magnumstrike1]

Women mix up caution as if it's insecurity, she even said women are doing acts of service in that profession. So if she admits things go down in that profession men have to trust against probability that you're not like what's around you

[@toxicmelody6228]

They always use abusive language towards men boundaries and disguise them as you being insecure, sassy, or whatever else if you don't support their habits, bad decisions, or whatever

[@UnlimitedCurrencyFitness]

She’s Really Trying To Make The Comparison Of An Office Job & Sex Work🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@UnlimitedCurrencyFitness]

Nah They Didn’t Take Advantage Of Anyone! HE WAS TRICKING!

[@MrBossuporbowout]

Men back in the day didn't have to deal with these kinds of women. My grandparents were married for 50 years and ain't no way women were married and doing that back then

[@MelRivers]

Not insecure just would rather a respectful woman on our side.

[@willieking3249]

She asked what nightlife industry is and don't even know that's LITERALLY bartenders and shit but shes a bartender...

[@apebabel]

That's why I don't even listen to what women want. They gone always say you wrong and gone always say something ain't good enough. Misery at its finest.

[@deemtime1007]

“HUMBLE” 😂😂😂😂is she using that word right? All I heard is yall got a price this don’t tell me nothing about morals,how likely is it that people who hang out with or be around people,don’t do what the group is doing that their around😂😂😂😂

[@MrJkusmc23]

It's like being a waitress...minus the clothes 😂😂

[@giveli101]

I laughed so hard😂

[@johnserosanguineous1886]

"I feel like if someone's gonna cheat they're gonna cheat, it shouldn't matter where they work." *4 seconds later* "Ha come yo secretary is like... you know... (she's single, 23, fine as hell) I.... I.... don't feel like know knows what she's doing..."

[@johncapo2843]

QUICK MONEY comes with slow long drawn out headache

[@antoniolondon5878]

Gents play the game accordingly, if she’s a part of heau culture, treat her as such!…Trust me, you will save yourself a lot of unnecessary grief!!!

[@sdot1988]

Broke woman wanting the most 😂

[@day-vid]

I have insecurities about things that personally apply to me. I have preferences about things that publicly apply to others.

[@DreDaGodSon]

“Birds of feather 🪶, flock together” If it acts like 🦆, quacks like a 🦆, it’s a 🦆 ‼️. It’s sad what these women will do for 💰 but call a man with standards working a honest living broke/insecure.

[@slimmsg7]

can she hear herself talk !?

[@Toneieo]

I feel like every six months it’s gonna be something new about why it’s men’s fault.

[@HewittShaq]

Arguing with delusion is irrational

[@jermainejohnson1043]

These woman have unrealistic expectations and can’t do for themselves what they want other men to do for them smh

[@Loow.K-nowme]

Too much gaslighting I can’t😂😂

[@chuchunwele8846]

I’m sorry to say this but any girl that works in that type of industry you can never take seriously, they could of chosen any line of work but they chose to be in that certain type of environment and setting just let that sync in

[@richdevaysolid1]

These endless conversations

[@dricoirving3236]

Don't let these chicks gaslight u 😂😂😂

[@Funghost1]

I rather be insecure then with someone who belongs to the streets

[@leebishop7591]

Cmon DRU crew 500K plus by the end of the year...✊🏽

[@Timianospeech]

The way she speaks she’s “ on that “

[@shanedoughty6844]

This is why I date outside of the race

[@user-io9sy5zf1z]

ITS INSECURITY WHENEVER A MAN HAS BOUNDARIES ....FELLAS DON LET THEM FOOL YOU .....YOURE GIRL WORKING IN BOTTLE SERVICES IN NIGHT CLUBS IS A NO NO ....DONT LET THEM TRICK ...

[@user-et5xx5xw4v]

EastCoast girls with this male best friend shit is a DUB that’s why I love southern woman they definitely the definition of a loyal respectful wife period

[@Mr10before9]

It's not insecurity at all, it's damage reduction and crisis aversion. When single, you should take care of yourself to display a level of discipline and discernment...when in a relationship, you need to remove yourself from single environments.

[@williamthell5930]

These dudes most of the time do a bad job proving these chicken heads argument wrong and how incorrect they are, they validate almost everything the guests say, eli tries, but even then he doesn’t disagree or flat out say she’s wrong, he just tries to present an alternative argument. What it does it simply reinforces her delusional believes while make it seems like the hosts counter arguments are excuses. That’s why they like to deem everything they don’t like that a man does as “INSECURE”, when it’s just a preference or an standard/boundary

[@tranejones416]

She took advantage of that man financially. If it was the other way around. It’s a fraud charge

[@daynejoseph2366]

Homegirl said "It's literally like being a waitress." Is being a drug runner literally like being a UPS driver?

[@kamohlaubrey336]

1:28 like she said at the start some woman are fn to move up or get bags, if it were like being a waitress than the restaurant industry would have the same stigma….

[@user-io9sy5zf1z]

REMEMBER THIS, FOR THE RIGHT GUY ...THEY WILL BREAK ...

[@worldpoole]

Woman now have a sense of security. That’s part of why they carry themselves the way they do now.

[@newheat4.043]

So if meet a girl out somewhere like a club or something and she turn out to be an escort im insecure if I don’t like the fact she do that?

[@sincere7116]

Ain’t that much security on earth ! FOH !

[@mal2541]

Is that the tik tok girl damn I ain’t know she was dancing

[@loboswildin]

Towards the end of this clip, it's crazy how these women justify taking advantage of drunk men.

[@Whotookthis]

I think its just the thought of how long your going to stay at that level in that field. If you gonna be a bottlegirl/stripper forever vs owning the club/lounge/strip club being a former worker

[@insighttheformula]

Problem is the stigma and stereotypes. False sense of morals and standards enforces those stereotypes.. even though anomaly are the real deal and they show the flaws of generalizing .. people okay with getting away with being unjust

[@WavyWagyuTV]

If my daughter is watching this I hope it’s because you want to learn WHAT NOT TO DO

[@talesofthedrip]

"im not dating no male bartender its not masculine" Moe from the Simpsons has entered the chat 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kamohlaubrey336]

9:07 aight… ima head out. Y’all ladies trippin. Comparing how you would perform a job that was originally a man’s job and act like he would do it like you just because y’all now have the industry. I need help cause I don’t understand my community no more

[@AlpinaDev]

Fellas dating women like these, in that "nightlife" profession is high risk low reward. Stay clear

[@krashdummiez007]

You are already facing enough antagonistic forces in the square world day to day, why would I subject myself to a woman who works in the nightlife 😂

[@insighttheformula]

Malicious people dictate society baby girl. That’s why the working field both inside and outside the nightlife is unfair. I don’t know how much more people have to suffer in order to keep the facade alive. The whole infrastructure of the business world is built of exploitation. I rather judge you knowing what nuisances makes you your own individual instead of assuming I know who you are.

[@ky4real___]

You asked good questions gang 🤝🏾

[@fatman3593]

So because a man realizes that ain’t what he wants he’s considered “ insecure “ 😂😂 wow.

[@kole3737]

That's very secure to have boundaries and standards. They just use manipulation to get they way and shame you. Get a decent job it's not that hard. You a bottle girl for a reason.

[@wordonthestreetpodcast5472]

U can’t ask bops that work doing bop activities💀 the lady clearly said she know people who sell it and now u dance but can’t nobody touch u💀 these bops mannn

[@TheAtemiles]

Ive dealt with bottle girls/ bartenders. Dont take them seriously becuase of the amount of times they gice out they #. If they gave it to me how many other dudes lmaoo

[@kamohlaubrey336]

5:02 in my eyes as a man night life work from bottle service to OF means your more about your money (for the most part) so the risk of my girl going for another just because the bread is more plentiful is a good reason to feel a way. So I don’t mess with that type of woman.