BOUNDARIES. | EP 20 | SavedNotSoftPodcast

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[@minggi_]

How to rebuild boundaries 1)Prayer and fasting (to understand the instructions of the Lord) 2) Let God's word be the standard 3) Be self discipline and draw your strength from the Lord Only God can heal you.

[@iliananajera363]

Girl. When you said, “Close your eyes and ask God to take you to your damaged walls” I closed them and immediately pictured Jesus hugging me, I asked him and he smiled nodded and I was transported to a memory of my ex-husband. That divorce killed me…. I have a boyfriend now and I struggle with intimacy problems, trust issues, and I’ve been trying my best to cling to God after over a year of distance because of the divorce. Then when you said GREIVE IT. I was just shocked. Thank you for taking the time to let God speak through you…

[@missnina5273]

i literally just finished the book of nehemiah & wow God definitely directed me to this video. i loved loved loved the way you spoke i felt like it was me you & God😭 thank you, please continue this💗

[@zoeyedo6521]

" our temple ( us )is so sacred that it needs walls to protect itself because when the walls are down and compromised and corrupted, you are open for attack and vulnerable; and things from the outside that aren’t supposed to see you just yet, are seeing you " this was incredible, i am in tears. this was so spirit filled, may God bless you emy ❤️

[@BuhlePhakathi]

I literally wrote this down it was too good ❤

[@benedictakissi1955]

I needed this. I let my boundaries crumble because the opposition was so strong. I needed their validation, forgetting only God's validation is important and I'm struggling so much to forgive them and forgive myself. I really needed this message. Been praying about it. Thank you❤

[@Emily784]

And sometimes you gotta set boundaries against yourself! Your flesh. This is so powerful thank you Emy!! ❤❤ Splendid as always

[@zachrigsby6468]

I have Watched almost all of your videos, my father is a very successful well known speaker I told him about what your videos have done for me breaking chains and addictions and we are both so thankful, god is using you as a vessel to reach my generation keep doing you!❤️

[@BaileyBeck811]

i had a wow moment the other day talking to my mom. that when it comes to our relationship w God. there is boundaries/parameters all over the bible. and sometimes we feel like we need to be in control & tell God we can do it ourselves & want to follow our will because we don’t feel God moving. when ever i do that i notice, i get so anxious, i get overwhelmed and feel distant from God. & i worry a lot. i realize it’s because i’m stepping into a ‘role’ that is not mine. i need to trust God. trust his plan, give him my burdens. let him have control. & that is a boundary! a boundary, w our heavenly father. God commands us to do certain things to protect us. which is why he gives as ‘rules’ to follow. when i cross that boundary and try to take over, that is the result of my! actions. it’s like that cute/funny quote that’s like “you wanna make God laugh tell him how your days gonna go” i thought that was a cool perspective. to remember our place, remember where we get our instructions from our love from. that sometimes we feel we “need” to be in control. but when we do things go wrong.. because we never will be. so the best thing to do is surrender that to the Lord & trust him & trust his promises. remembering you can’t do this alone, and more importantly you don’t have to.

[@shalbec3232]

Amen

[@afrofaeries]

Boundaries are really important. I’ve been church hurt in a Pentecostal environment since birth. Church members hitting me with switches, touching me without consent (not in a sexual manner thank God), causing me panic attacks that they saw as the Holy Spirit possessing me, it was insane. I had little to no form of confidence and I was angry at God for years. How can He let other people be happy but me? Why did He make me born with this family? Then, I sat in my new bedroom for 30 mintues just talked and praying to God. And I felt one second that my crying stopped. Right then, I cut my abusive family and church friends off and bought a new phone. Now I attend a nice Episcopal church that has weekly Bible study for women and they do volunteer work. I am also in therapy for learning how to set up boundaries and the meaning of self-love. Self-love is God’s love, through and through. God bless you for this podcast and for your service, Amen 🫶🏾💗

[@StefuhneeLee]

God enjoys you so much that He dwells within you - that was so sweet to hear.

[@shairisrosario2484]

I don’t think I have ever got emotional on a podcast. And I really did when I had to sit and grieve what destroyed my walls. 🙏 It’s been 3 years and sometimes I think I am over it but I know deep inside I am still healing.

[@ashywashyash]

We are a perfect example of Good things that can come out of damaged Goods, first before Christ we were "damaged" and with the world. Then God showed the Good in us! ( 19:08)

[@isabellaadams4695]

Thanks so much that messages impacted so bad.😭

[@Splenda333]

I can’t grieve it anymore… I’ve grieved enough. By this was the closure I needed. Thank you sis

[@makia7001]

This ep just changed my whole perspective. God was definitely speaking to me through this video, i thank you God for Emy.

[@mirandapanda__]

22:17 I was walking on the treadmill listening to this and stopped the treadmill just to put this in my notes. I had the same reaction as you!! Yes sister!! Spill the knowledge!!

[@taliw7736]

Thanks so much needed these reminders . God is truly using you Emy ❤

[@alyssiatorres6532]

I love u too Emy. Thank you so much for what you are doing for the kingdom.

[@RaVyN86]

Thank you for Sharing. This is the Kind of Content the 🌍 Needs to Hear, So that there Can Be Less Toxic Relationships. God Bless 🙏🏾

[@realbrandii2479]

this message was truly needed , Amen ❤️🥹

[@nnchayes.]

Taking temptation by the metaphorical, theological, hypothetical throat and casting evil out by way of the Lords prayer has been most helpful as of late in my spiritual journey, shout out the Breviary. Nice message, keep up the good work ⚒️.

[@theronirose]

I needed this, thank you for your obedience🤎🤎

[@mmalove1650]

I started reading the book of Nehemiah yesterday and I'm amazed how much knowledge GOD has brought to light in my life. Thank you and may GOD BLESS YOU EXCEEDINGLY❤❤

[@MissHunnii]

You are such a blessing. Praying over you so that God will continue to light the path for you. Just know. That you are touching hearts out here. We love you & God loves you.

[@lifeofliz22]

I really really really enjoyed this episode. I am one who struggles on a daily with setting boundaries. This episode gave me so much clarity. I am also praying and fasting right now, so this just gave me so much confirmation. thank you so much.

[@annagrigoreva7230]

Thank you so mush for this video! It was very needed, though I was hard for me to finally face this question, as it brings back a lot of memories and pain. But thanks to our Lord Jesus Christ, He gave me peace and strength to overcome it again and again. He heals my pain over and over again! I don't know where I would have been without Him. The topic of boundaries is very complicated. Especially if we are talking about people that we're supposed to be close with, parents. Some of their behaviours can be damaging to us, and we need to protect our peace. But it is so hard not to compromise! Societal pressure is real, and it's so hard not to give in. But I understand that if I give in, everything that God build, these walls, will be burned down. I need to respect them, but I can't allow them to destroy me. God bless! ❤

[@JesusFreak...]

Loving the stuffing GOD is unloading through you, and for those who might doubt this message I just felt lead to leave this message of edification. So the Spirit told me to support this message with scripture 2 Corinthians 10: 3 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh:4 (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;) 5 Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;. So basically GOD is saying we should bring down the boundaries and walls (basically renovate our mind and space) that go against the knowledge of GOD(which is truth). The battle is in the mind ya'll, but Jesus is saying in Matthew 16:18 and on this rock I will build My church, and the gates of Hades(Lies told to us by the enemy) shall not prevail against it. So let's not just strive to build boundaries but let's build the right boundaries. This all just goes to support our sister's whole message even from other episodes. I hope you take what she is saying seriously and I love that little 2 cents I felt lead to share makes sense to yall. GOD bless you sis your podcast is really blessing a brother. Much love keep doing GOD's work🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤

[@tlhopilwelebelo2075]

❤❤Thank you so much for dedicating your life to Christ for it is because of you that the broken can find their feet and bask in his Glory 😭

[@Olivestx]

I haven’t even finished but wow this one is sooo 😮‍💨!❤❤❤❤ God is good!

[@npelehacs]

I'm so grateful that God keeps speaking so powerfully through you, Emy. I truly needed to hear this. Keep up the good work and God bless you!

[@valerier4418]

Girlll I came here just to watch!! The moment you said hold on close your eyes.. I felt the Holy Spirit trying to speak to me in this moment! When I tell you I balled I BALLED. Honestly just thanking God for you! Thank you for being one of His true disciples 🩵

[@nokuthulamthimkhulu8008]

Wow today's episode slap me so hard, because wow my walss yol are soooo.... Broken but i know God will fix them🙏🙏🙏Emy you're heavenly sent please keep on blessing us with your revelations from God ❤

[@Camel56000]

Trust and believe in God for he cares for you and loves you. Remember to repent of your sins daily and even get closer to God as God is coming soon and we don’t know the day or hour so be prepared. Be blessed. Matthew 24:36-46

[@laquaishakelly7522]

this msg came right on time, I am currently reading a book and setting boundaries was chapter 1!

[@Angelina-ft7lg]

what book?

[@cerenasejour]

Amen this video came right on time I’m learning to teach myself boundaries on what I like and what I don’t like🦋

[@Camel56000]

Just to add more helpful verse to build boundaries. Read Philippians 4:8 (Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.) So basically this is saying that whatever you think something that is not of God is not worthy thinking. Try to have holy thoughts which can lead to fighting temptations and help you to build boundaries.

[@jennxoxox]

Loved this! Keep em coming Em. You’re God sent 🤍

[@mariawinfred832]

Thank you sis. Thank you so much for this. I love you. Thank you so much for this❤

[@calvinfreemanii5690]

Awesome word thanks for sharing!! KEEP GOING!! 🔥🕊️

[@jordanoboza]

Keep up the great work on the podcast, God Bless You!!

[@kierralynn6454]

I just got done listening to boundaries and one that stuck out was u saying to greive what hurt me and well at this moment I didn’t have much to grieve for bc I had already done that and one big one was leaving my ex bc god was telling me too and it hurt so much but honestly I’m so much happier ! I’m recognizing how god is talking to me and it’s changed me by listening to him❤️

[@Rachelvalee]

“Uh oh, a cute dark skin” has me weak cuz why is that me😂😂

[@moniquejade.704]

Absolutely loved this!

[@Yerruo2]

6’6 hopper… aye, but god got us, short kings, 👏🏽. Appreciate the content; you have so much wisdom from the lord, truly blessed your channel got recommended to me.

[@SentientMadwoman]

I was raped as a child and again in 2019 (I was 19 years old). Those events DEMOLISHED my walls. I also have some physical and severe emotional trauma from my father which also made me susceptible to letting people who don't deserve me into my sacred personal life. After the event in 2019, I developed a severe cocaine/stimulant addiction and anorexia nervosa. I have also been bipolar since around 13 years old and I was diagnosed with BPD and PTSD in 2021. It's honestly so awful in my body ngl. I am literally dissociated so much that I can never remember what I did even a week ago. LMAO my therapist is always asking me what happened during the week and I'm like "GIRL I HAVE NO CLUE BUT I WAS DISTRESSED FS." My family NEVER went to church during my childhood. I was always so curious about it so I would go with my close friends but never truly got into it. Recently, I had a severe psychotic episode that got me baker acted (basically in Florida they can involuntarily admit you to the hospital if you're a danger to yourself or others, or just not functioning correctly and under a lot of distress which was the case for me). I can't even begin to explain what I experienced during that episode but when I got out of the hospital, I asked my roommate if I could go to church with her and I have been going for the past two weeks and just trying to learn everything about God. All of this to say, your podcast has been helping me so much and I really appreciate the work you and God are doing. You and Him are slowly but surely helping me heal. THANK YOU!!! (also my church is called Jesus Image in Orlando, FL!)

[@user-hf8yx1vz3w]

I hope you're doing better🫂

[@benediemuepuc.8657]

Good bless you! ❤

[@SharonThinks]

This is great and thank you so much for allowing God to use you in such a great way. It would be great if you could make notes to remind you of where you are so you don’t forget and or mix up chronologies and remember important points because it becomes hard to follow/concentrate

[@pepperbellaaa]

Oooooh I’m ready for this one 🙏🏼

[@emilysims1885]

emy! I thank the Lord for you a lot. I hope your jaw is healing. ❤️‍🩹

[@maropengnkohla4686]

I wish you would get to the point quick.thank you for this. God bless you girl

[@Sharpeshoo7er]

Whew not setting boundaries because we don’t understand our value. Whew!

[@lorenanavarrom8691]

Amen ❤

[@tayyy4589]

A WORDDD this just hit me !

[@hxnnxh.y5275]

Amen🙏🏾❤️

[@Bayleemacklin777]

Girl. Amen.

[@Bayleemacklin777]

let God rebuild your walls 🙏🏻

[@hannahchristie2346]

Hi Emy, love this podcast ❤ I wanted to ask if you could add or link the scriptures you use? God bless 💞

[@Michelleadeniola]

Thank you emmy

[@virginiak333]

literally in awe. all i have to say

[@KaydinGrace]

Amen

[@harrietgloria8792]

I'm in ministry. Sometimes we in ministry get treated like trash by those in ministry and by those not in ministry. It has happened to me and also I've seen it happen to others we're serving with. How do you keep boundaries and maintain your worth in such situations? 😢😓😪😮‍💨

[@AnnaCarolOficial]

❤❤❤

[@zuleimazarate9712]

Thank you for this feeling blessed to have you speak! But can we do adds at the beginning or end the message your trying to speak on keeps getting blurred by this ADS 🤞🏽💕

[@taliw7736]

Sometimes we need to go off script and follow the lords leading and words

[@noahcan7853]

❤

[@justannie2835]

Omg I love you 0:11

[@WeAreRoyalty7]

I like your voice

[@helenasoaresforesti7293]

35:30 I felt that

[@bukkie9555]

🤩❤️❤️

[@makayadejarnette6671]

Teach that thang sis!

[@atimelessgrace]

Personal Note: 50:00

[@maryangela2532]

HIIIIIIIIIII

[@brycearnold5232]

17:30 32:00 39:00

[@macisrael7096]

Did the bible specify and say 4 months or fasted for some days

[@DreamyGraceASMR]

I just have a question have you ever seen myles munroe ??

[@jefferyadams8484]

Enjoyed the message but it’s hard to receive and focus when you have an ad very 2 min 😅

[@losky_88]

How?

[@giavonnahoward2462]

3:31

[@nontokozomotau]

so you just sit there andGod talks to you?cool😭

[@beulahochei4296]

I know right...I thought the exact same thing

[@user-hf8yx1vz3w]

That's when you have a relationship with Him.

[@miat4996]

loved listening to this while working out!🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@thedolldes]

Boundaries is one thing I always struggled with which always lead me to heartbreak and hardships from men. Thank you for this. Was much needed ❤

[@bernardwilliams4071]

I had the same with women I got broken heart to many times cause I did not set boundaries for women

[@rekamarky2573]

❤❤❤