BOUNDARIES IN MARRIAGE

Establishing boundaries with ex-partners, friends and other people away from your marriage is crucial to maintain a healthy relationship and avoid potential conflicts. We need to Consider setting boundaries.
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[@realitycheckicfc]

Dear GratefulHearts FoundationSierra, thank you so feedback. While your concerns and emotions are highly appreciated, please take time to do a bit of reflection on this so-called "BEST FRIEND" concept in marriage. If I may ask, between oneness and friendship, what is more superior? Apparently, this friendship thing is the most abused concept in marriage and parenting relationships. No wonder, people throw it around so carelessly that it loses meaning. In my parenting coaching, I have met parents who are desperate for the "best friend slot" in their children's hearts. They forget that what children are looking for in them is a good parent, rather than a best friend! In an attempt to be best friends with their children, parents have ended up being permissive parents who are unable to offer balanced guidance and nurturing to their children. Similarly, what our partners need in us is not a friend husband or wife. The scripture you quoted in Genesis 2:24, speaks of oneness and not best friend. God, in his wisdom knew that the friendship thing is quite fluid and subjective! Please note that we are not advocating for partners to relate more intimately with people outside of their marriages. As I explained in the segment above, TWO most important things in all relationships are 1) EXPECTATIONS/NEEDS and 2) BOUNDARIES!! With same or opposite sex relationships, as long as our partners open up boundaries and permit intrusion by friends, parents, siblings, into the oneness, insecurity and confusion are inevitable!

[@Mr.Articulate146]

....i suggest that Dr.Evas takes us through the salty waters of friendships with Exs ....it has become a detriment to marriages also...........thanks for the show mdm Rachel

[@rachaelmwine611]

This noted😇

[@TheFranny31]

True....

[@ritanambooze6742]

I call them "HOME DEVILS, STREET ANGELS"

[@InspiredbyBNatifu]

Thats a good one...

[@samalienamugga4453]

Number 1 need for every person in a relationship is security… and security is rooted in exclusivity👌

[@hakayi9130]

Indeed marriage is not for kids. Its for mature people only. Lets choose well ❤️

[@beinganajessica4748]

I wish the individual who switched off had listened on. Valuable information

[@gerarradmajella8804]

In your relationship be real or authentic. It is a statement for me

[@muhimakaziesther8393]

Thanks Reality check for this insightful conversations, this is so true, I have experienced too much of these relationships in my marriage but where it has always ended is not good.

[@dorothynyakaisiki4717]

Lord I come to with a heart full of gratitude thanks for the years of love that you been my Father and mother am forever grateful 🙏🙏

[@christinemajanga9324]

For me ,it's the family boundaries what are the boundaries really because....

[@josephangira6498]

Great conversation!! Having or setting boundaries in any kind of relationship is very key!

[@GloriaNamuli]

Thanks listened and learnt something and I believe am not failing in my next marriage or any other relationship

[@nakittohellen3934]

Indeed boundaries are needed in any relationship

[@christinekabahuma9457]

RICH INFORMATION

[@nightstella6292]

I agree with the view above but also relate with Dr Eva's view. Indeed pure opposite sex friendships can exist but of course must have clear boundaries and limits.

[@namiirojose6824]

The shock on Rachael's face when Dr said ....it's okay😮

[@rachaelmwine611]

Ikr? 😂I realized it is possible, it may not work for me but I think it is possible.

[@lilywhite8029]

​@@rachaelmwine611😅😅😅 From bump love I had to follow you here. I'm from Kenya

[@ahabwamukamabenjamin220]

Thank yoy these highlights, though I feel there was more and you ended suddenly

[@morohphyonner9107]

Yeeeey first one here🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@florencenkiru7274]

Thanks for sharing 🎉

[@acenvicky5425]

Great conversations here, ❤

[@bernicerogo9190]

Yaaaaayy finally there's an episode..I missed you guys last week kept on refreshing my feed unsuccessfully. I'm ready to indulge because this show is therapeutic yet insightful ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉❤

[@rachaelmwine611]

Aww apologies we were off last week 😊

[@rodgersowomugisha9647]

🎉🎉woke up to this great conversation...❤

[@politeayikiriza4605]

Great information ❤

[@joannakaweesi405]

wow thank you for this episode.

[@hellennalukwago736]

It was nice to hear this

[@jollyaliguma5866]

Valuable information

[@brendanakirya1379]

I tap into Dr Evas' wisdom. Thank you

[@mwesigwarobert]

So educative thank you Rachel and Dr.

[@muwanguzidoryn]

Great that I now see ads on this channel 🎉. Thanks for the services

[@irenekibone4012]

Grateful to God for this great ministry. Blessings to you

[@agukuesther5512]

God bless you Auntie Evas. Great conversation

[@itscaroline3203]

Thank you Rachael and Dr. Eva’s we all need to invite more people to watch your channel so you are highly monetized. You are addressing many issues here. It’s the only way we can thank both of you.

[@itscaroline3203]

Please finish this conversation people in Uganda we don’t have boundaries. Include ladies who are always asking financial support and moral support from peoples husbands

[@itscaroline3203]

Whenever you can please Rachel have a conversation about a narcissistic personality and how it affects a marriage

[@snakayima]

Thank you.

[@asiimirejean4273]

Thanks soo much Dr Evas and Racheal

[@bernicerogo9190]

The episode has ended suddenly when Dr Evas was explaining something ..Is there part 2?

[@Mr.Articulate146]

Today's episode is electric....meticulously addressed Dr.Eva the attention you pay to details,choice of words& forethought 🤔 It's like yo walking on eggshells....very clear cut✂️ Mwebare programme

[@rachaelmwine611]

Yes some of the topics are sensitive but she tries to address them in a respectful manner.

[@Mr.Articulate146]

She is very epic at it🙏

[@Kaboneiresharon]

Dr Evas is smart woow

[@akundasharon9284]

Bambi I wish that you talk about what to do if you find you are not priority with all the insecurities...

[@kyomugisharacheal457]

I think the issue of stealing people from others people has already been discussed. A human being can't be stolen. So when I hear Auntie Evas talking about people steal people.... My head spins.

[@evasatwinekansiime5106]

Quite unclear why your head spins over this issue. If you are in touch with realities in marriage relationships, you know that partner snatching is happening every day and everywhere. Secondly, the issues discussed are related and so repetition is inevitable! We will appreciate your indulgence on this!

[@komugisaracheal1352]

Namesake...i agree with you, They steal a human being willing to be stolen

[@mariahforex]

Thank u for sharing 👏👏, However, as if Dr. Evas was cut off as she was explaining how one partner is taken for granted.....is there a part 2?

[@dorajocelynkawuma9406]

Nice hair Racheal..

[@brendanakirya1379]

I feel like this talk was cut short.

[@GratefulHeartsFoundationSierra]

I stopped listening when a you said a married person can have a best friend of the opposite. Your BRST friend should be your spouse. Your spouse should be the be the bearer of one's most intimate thoughts, wishes, and dreams. The Bible says when you married, you become one.

[@katushabesara187]

They didn't say it's a must. It all depends on how different people relate with their spouses, and having a best friend of a different sex doesn't mean that you have stopped being one

[@Gracenew-ms7wj]

But for peace and sanity in a home,the opposite sex shouldn't be the friend of a spouse

[@kyomugisharacheal457]

I think best friend and spouse are two separate things.

[@GratefulHeartsFoundationSierra]

When you are married, your best friend is your spouse. Period!! Weather it be of the same sex or the opposite sex it doesn't matter. The best friend of a married person is their spouse. It frightening to listen to so-called Christian therapists espousing non biblical counsel. Plrase read Genesis 2:24; Ephesians 5:31 and many. I'm not saying a married person should not have a friend, but BEST friend of a married person should be their spouse. I will NEVER put another person's friendship above my wife's.

[@Vivilaks075]

You have to know that much as one may be married, we have different worlds to run besides marriage. Friendships aren’t necessarily meant for only intimacy. This can be work related which impact the social capital. We won’t be spending every single minute with our partners. There times that you need to be yourself and others. That’s why there’s need to set boundaries as one relates with the opposite sex. It’s all about mindset and trust issue.

[@judeowor630]

Hello there, what are your contacts for counselling.

[@MosesUtembe]

why no long shots. i denied.