Brace Yourself… He is NOT for play! You are not ready for Nicholas!

[@kayemendi4501]

Aaaaawww…. Nicholas started out a little slow but once he started talking he made it very clear he is a good man who wants a woman who will be good to him in return. He also makes it clear he’s not a push over. I love that!! No woman wants a man she can walk all over.

[@siesies000]

👏👏

[@flatbkush6]

*Good men always finish last. Fellaz do not follow his lead*

[@ChristyKayKirk]

Purpose Driven!!

[@ASH_ketchum_99]

The first part😏

[@uwilberforce4628]

He was one of the best guys to ever come on the show...

[@jaelee6390]

Please stop the 🧢 lol on god 😆

[@MrsBliss-dw3kw]

White men are the perfect men to marry.

[@MosherMike]

So when is your date with him?

[@jaybloc6485]

@@MosherMike 🤣fr

[@SunnyandNova]

FOH

[@coachpatty2889]

Nothing weird or unusual. In fact, I wish more healthy minded people existed like this in the world.

[@LaLas-Vision]

I agree 💯

[@jonathancoleman6482]

A lot do y’all just overlook these men

[@oliviajenson7067]

@@jonathancoleman6482 I agree with you, but then the women who are with men like him are called squares or clowned or say they’re using them for whatever they made up in their minds.

[@godsgirl7201]

I think the lady from New Orleans would be good for they both seem really genuine💚❤️

[@godsgirl7201]

@@jonathancoleman6482 yeah

[@5LeafClover12]

He’s going to be a productive and caring husband and father to someone. His values are there and there is a long track of stability. Hope he finds who he’s looking for

[@ishkuro]

Thanks I hope I do as well

[@wonttrickmea1869]

Awww he’s a sweet man, he knows what he wants. He doesn’t want casual sex, he values honesty, relationship, love before god. If men in our community had this mindset of not sleeping around and actually having morals and respecting their mind, body, and spirit it wouldn’t be so much hate and division between us. Hope he finds a good lady.

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

He won’t. Not on this platform, anyway. 🤷🏻‍♂️🙄🤦🏻‍♂️

[@mrakw7364]

@@johnbrowntheprophet very true way too many modern females, etc are here, he needs a lady

[@boots4974]

Are we pretending like Yt men don’t sleep around? If anything most yt people would see this man as an incel

[@marquismadden3685]

There are plenty in your community but they are treated like they are invisible

[@DBrown-vg1fi]

@@marquismadden3685 Could you direct me to where that is Thank you!

[@kiki11974]

He’s a genuine dude. I hope he finds his true love.

[@ishkuro]

Thanks I hope I do as well

[@katmagical]

I'm with ya Nick about irrelevant sex. Protect your energy. He may talk slowly but atleast he is a straight shooter.

[@aprillondy7326]

And he's very intelligent

[@brooklynforever1990]

Yes he is

[@sweetma4life]

He deserves REAL LOVE! We ALL do but he deserves to be in the V.I P. line!

[@onset5610]

💯

[@C-millie]

I haven’t seen you on KZbin yet in forever!!! I hope that you are doing well Sweet Ma! I watched your videos from when you were really going through it and people talking negatively about your adorable child! I pray that all is well with you and your family Mi lady! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@latifah5150]

Based on this video alone, he seems like a great man. I wish you the best Nicholas.

[@skyfalldeadpool1633]

If I wasn't happily married. I would give him.a ring. Ladies. If he is nit a criminal, had no baby mamas. Is working hard and is loyal. That's a good man. Period.

[@DBrown-vg1fi]

Facts

[@nylotus]

I'd rather be single than date this guy... the slow speaking would drain my soul and I only like black men but hey, I hope he finds what he's looking for. Seems to have his head on straight.

[@jaelee6390]

@@nylotus 😆

[@jfelton3583]

@@nylotus SMH

[@MrsBliss-dw3kw]

@@nylotus u gonna suffer sis, good luck 🤭

[@justjared2009]

This guy is so sweet and underneath the surface we all long for what he is saying.

[@brooklynforever1990]

True, true

[@grititandgetit]

Purpose Driven unless why are you doing it...Absolutely 💯

[@bornwithclass2365]

Truth

[@angelgreen9945]

Factory

[@ItsGoingDao]

He’s former military and seemingly kind. Hopefully he has strong discernment since he fits the typical prototype of men who get fleeced by floozies.

[@Roccofan]

Could you get with him? If not, why not?

[@Enigmajestic1]

@@Roccofan 🤣

[@TruthbTold777]

@@Roccofan I bet she could get with him over a Pookie any day

[@jaelee6390]

Lynn stop the 🧢...if he approached you at Walmart you would run lol 😆 on god

[@bornwithclass2365]

My grandma says “ floozies” 🤣💀💀I love it

[@The1BLACKGOLD]

He sounds like a good man!

[@jaelee6390]

He sounds a bit touched 💯

[@traetrae11]

I like Nicholas. Seems like he’s kind, understanding, a straight shooter, don’t play games type of guy. I’m sure he’ll find someone to love him and give him the kids he wants. Good luck Nick.

[@redbunnyclassic]

Kendra's full smile is contagious.❤️❤️❤️

[@angelgreen9945]

Gorgeous

[@indigoGoddess7]

Nicolas said he’s done counselling and the works! 🎉😎👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿 Whatever this man desires - he will get the right woman!! He’s one of my favourites!❤ 😭😭thank you for the kind words about BW. Got me crying!

[@ishkuro]

Thanks

[@R.Yvette.X.]

Better than any prospect I've had in the last 2 decades. Including the one I'm trying to work with now. Father God please place a hedge of protection around this man, in Jesus name, Amen.

[@Roccofan]

Oh HECK NO. Do more than that. Hop in his DMs and make it happen. No? Oh, I see, you want that nice beard. You want that butt gripper, that back shot giver, that bean flicker. I see you. But NOPE. This is your good guy…the nice guy…the provider….Mr. top 40% of all men. Get him while he’s hot. Lol.

[@jb9911]

Relationships are reflective

[@dasmith1207]

May as well tank it and "do over", sound like you've blocked that blessing.

[@TruthbTold777]

God doesn't believe in you trying to make a relationship work out with a man you're not married to. If it's already hard then he's not the one.

[@jaelee6390]

God ain't listen to you lol 😆💯

[@dhqbrandi]

He seems nice I hope he finds someone who is intentional as well

[@BettyWhite2171]

If you listen on double speed and don't look, he's actually pretty cool. Nice guy I hope nobody hurts him.

[@greenytaddict]

And don't look 😭

[@leahhamil8514]

“Don’t look” 🫠😂😂😂

[@shantechavis2489]

Lol

[@1219monique]

Lol thank goodness for your suggestion I put it on 1.75 to keep my attention ADHD

[@Iamkrystamarie]

@@1219monique cause girl my I'm struggling with my adhd right now 🤣

[@selfmaderish4690]

Refreshing to see a genuine man

[@angelgreen9945]

Well said

[@IbriyGad]

He’s appreciative of a good woman as all men should be.

[@HumbleTestimonies121]

Vice versa

[@shaunie3450]

Nicholas is a catch, ladies don't sleep on this one. He comes off like one of those extremely smart guys, that's a bit socially awkward. I get the feeling that he'll give you the world if you just love him and treat him right.

[@theveryplumdarcey]

Agreed 😁

[@R.Yvette.X.]

He has a sense of humor too. Love him.

[@citi360]

And that's exactly how our sistas end up getting found dead. Don't ever let charm gas you up.

[@DBrown-vg1fi]

Love seeing BW encouraging us to date good men…everyone seems to think we like hood buggers when I have never dated one in my life. My friends either!

[@marquismadden3685]

“IF” is the key word.

[@meganakinsanya4702]

Watch all the women say “I can’t find a good man” but yet would pass on him

[@snnysydeup]

Did you dm him for a date? Being a good guy doing the things good men should do does not make you instantly attractive. Does he have to be a supermodel....NO. Do i have WANT to get to know him or have sex???YA DAMN SKIPPY. And nobody on this planet was born without hormones sexual urges or EYES.

[@wantitgogetittv6704]

Protect Nickolas at ALL cost...

[@samadgriffin6853]

He needs a couples ministry that helps Christian singles find each other.

[@jones2277]

finally a helpful comment!

[@aprillondy7326]

Exactly

[@angelgreen9945]

@@jones2277 Well said

[@angelgreen9945]

Amen 🙏

[@CyberWorld999]

They are full of single women with the same problem

[@gachalove6361]

He actually makes so much sense...

[@michaelmcdougall7367]

Most crazy people do before they snap.

[@MrsBliss-dw3kw]

Omg he sounds like a sweetheart, I hope he finds what he is looking for.

[@sweetnsour2352]

He’s genuine and I like his personality.

[@gerripearson9647]

Nick is a good guy I pray he finds a great love that appreciates him 💕

[@moehammondmedia]

Nic is the man. I wish him well. He deserves love. He seemed a little socially awkward but nonetheless very sincere.

[@TAHJ1987]

If there is anything I learned from watching Kendra show...is that its not just me out here having difficult time dating...no matter the looks,status, money,education...it appears alot of people are having hard time making true connections beyond casual sex..

[@coffeeblack9316]

Exactly. I tried to speak to him on Facebook and he laughed. I really don’t care I don’t like men anyway. I was just trying to be nice to Pee-wee Herman

[@TAHJ1987]

@@coffeeblack9316 😅😅😂😂

[@bornwithclass2365]

@@coffeeblack9316 oh no he didn’t 🤣😭😭😭🧐

[@tabbypanda82]

@@coffeeblack9316 oh he got HIS UGLY ASS NERVES😡

[@fruit032]

@@coffeeblack9316 not Pee Wee Herman!! 😂😂😂

[@ladylibra0262]

LMAO "if I can't touch you I ain't paying shit!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@InfamousJay22]

I died when he said that💀😩😭

[@corettejones]

Kendra, This broadcast was one of the BEST, as the host you show empathy and caring to your guests no matter what their dating/life shenanigans! 😅Maybe not for me but I love this guy perspective!

[@coko6641]

If black men on the show had this mindset, then there wouldn't be so many one night stand babies and single moms with 5 baby daddies.

[@Ev-rd2lw]

Amen 🙏 ❤

[@MsEconway]

I like him. He seems like a smart man as far as the blueprint to a positive relationship. Great communicator. He is socially awkward but I think if you got past that he could be a good catch. I feel him on the paying part. I tell my friends the same thing. If I asked you, then I'm paying.

[@patrickdorsey5449]

Stop lying. Women just use men like this.

[@eugenecaldwell9619]

@@patrickdorsey5449 🤣🤣🤣EXACTLY. That's the reason why he said he ain't paying sh!t if he can't touch you. He knows they'll try and use him.

[@MrTru2it]

@@eugenecaldwell9619 💯‼️

[@angeleyes3386]

@@eugenecaldwell9619 🤷🏽‍♀️lol

[@Frugal637]

He also said he was joking about the her paying part

[@khenzanimyers]

This was so beautiful and there were several moments when I was so touched I felt like my heart jumped into my throat. And I swear if i was light enough you would have visibly seen me blush. Wow. God bless you and send a wonderful woman your way.

[@dp1202]

Ok I think I know the barriers with Nicholas. Bw are use to games and the “talking stage” and we end up getting scammed. Whereas non bm they date with intention and if they like you they will move right into a relationship/exclusivity. There is no try outs. If they like you they court you. That is really how men are supposed to date women. He checks all the boxes character wise and I love the God fearing/chivalry/self discipline/straight forward aspect. Very purpose driven. He is a good catch. Good luck ladies. I hope he finds a good bw to experience his life with.

[@marquismadden3685]

Yet the wm with good intentions that loves BM is the one being scammed and treated the same as BM of the same caliber so what’s the issue?

[@homebody61]

Players come in all colors.

[@jaelee6390]

💯

[@mollygrace3068]

There are plenty of man-whores in all races.

[@pavlab3353]

People will miss out on a good man because of judging looks. When people say “he’s a nice guy” that normally translates to his looks are not quite there. As Kendra said, this man is presenting with what women say they want-however, this is still not enough 🤷🏾‍♀️. Women say they want a good man but it actually more than that.

[@snnysydeup]

So what you're saying is you will date marry and procreate with someone you have NO attraction to simply because they sounds like a good person?

[@edema2274]

Did you DM him?

[@pavlab3353]

@@snnysydeup yes! I’ve done it! you can develop attraction to someone-we all know that! Look at those people stated were ugly-like Jay Z but guess what? He didn’t get play back in the day but once he got on, his looks went out the window. That’s the same here.

[@pavlab3353]

@@edema2274 nope! I’m married.

[@snnysydeup]

@@pavlab3353 Money makes anybody attractive. If he wasn't famous with money he would still be getting NO play. I see where you're going. Maybe wrong example. We are talking about regular everyday people. Yes it's possible develop attraction over time. You have to want to. Personally I'm not looking for perfection but if I'm not initially attracted(more intellectually than physical) we won't get far. Time is too precious to be forcing something that don't fit. But I can only speak for myself. What's meant for me shall not and has not passed me by.

[@Shavier777]

He’s a sweet man. He just needs to pray and ask God to lead him to his wife. 🙏🏾💕

[@ishkuro]

Thanks. I will keep doing that

[@debwright3190]

👍🏽👍🏽When different cultures talk share be upfront with one another,beautiful things happen.😌😌

[@eggy1225]

I hope he finds what he's looking for. He seems really humble!

[@glowlight69]

Awe he's so sweet. Ladies come correct. Thanks for the compliments to Black women.

[@testahuh]

We need more men like Nicholas

[@ladyajohnrose3274]

Nicola is a honourable guy and you deserve somebody who is going to be great to you❤

[@tiffanyjack4079]

Iove this dude ladies this what u want!!! Don't get stuck on a tingle that will come with good loving

[@Frugal637]

This man made me smile. I love his personality.

[@luvleebreeze108]

He's a descent guy I hope he finds someone finally Kendra got a match maker.

[@ShnikR1986]

I’d love an update from him! To see how things went/are going

[@ishkuro]

I will get on if I actually get a date or more. Thanks

[@candace27co]

​@@ishkuroupdate??👀👀

[@ishkuro]

Nothing to share? What about you?

[@tyanaz1498]

I wish I would have crossed paths with him in my single days..he is a good man

[@queenivy8600]

He is a good man? How do you know that?

[@queenivy8600]

@Anthony Rice Right... I think women can be naive. When we hear what sounds good, see a certain skin tone or someone that looks nice, he is automatically labelled a good man. Your words and actions must consistently align in order to be a worthwhile man which can only be determined through time....

[@Frugal637]

@@queenivy8600 Let’s say he appears good. Let’s be honest there are a lot of trash bag dusties who call in with 7 baby Mamas and no shame.

[@queenivy8600]

@@Frugal637"He appears to be good" because he don't have a trail of kids around the city? What appears to be good about him iyo?

[@bm11775]

I agree he’s worth getting to know who seems like a decent man

[@89cjenk]

I like Nick. He's the real deal. I knew he was for the sistas when he complimented Kendra. GOD bless him with his equal, he love you.

[@MsEconway]

I knew he was when he started talking 🤣

[@theDecisiveLibra]

I definitely agree. He wants a relationship not a smash buddy or one night stand.

[@sallysharp4126]

Prayers To Our Creator For Nicholas To Find His True Love Who Will Offer Him True Love In Return. 💜💜

[@chalkkey433]

He seems gentle and would suit a humble Christian lady. If he can't find her in the states, he should travel. (Some of those Filipinos are soft enough) 🙏

[@Tienatra]

Are you single in a Christian that man can be your future husband 🤣

[@ourtruth216]

It’s only about 8 comments here and y’all already starting with the ignorant comments. There’s somebody for everybody…. He seems like a good guy. Wish him the best 💕

[@mrakw7364]

Wish him the best too

[@tezsgino]

But they stay running for the dirty dusties with 15 baby mamas and no future prospects, lol.

[@mrakw7364]

@@tezsgino like they are predators

[@nylotus]

@@tezsgino I think the real problem is there's more dirty duties with 15 baby mamas than guys like this one.

[@WGAGENCY]

@@nylotus get out your bubble. Only people in poverty/lower middle class are around men like that.

[@buybaebaskets9252]

I love this guy. He made me cry.

[@ThePomskysPalace]

Not Nicholas kicking game to Kendra 😆

[@laybkwya3101]

That's a real dude😁 Im on your side homie😁

[@DanaFullylove]

Come on Nicholas!!!!!! He the realest

[@Army_Brat1980]

Kendra..you look amazing! Wow! A guy that wants to feel something for the person he's seeing! Something is definitely wrong with him because that never happens! Hope you find what you're looking for Nick.

[@mrakw7364]

This is not the place for him based on what he is looking for, run from here fast lol

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Lol rite

[@ourtruth216]

So you know everyone that watches her lives?

[@mrakw7364]

@@ourtruth216 yep 😆

[@OItsSasha]

Why do you say that?

[@peaceispriceless6051]

🤣😂💯

[@cortezchevelle1272]

So many gems here for women and men.

[@detriabaker4622]

Whoever wins his heart and genuinely loves him the way he deserves to be loved, will have an awesome husband. Praying that he finds his queen. 🙏🏾❤️

[@jabari1027]

Honestly I feel what this dude that's coming from I hope he'll be blessed soon with female that he deserves

[@iambubblez]

A female what. The word is woman. We don't say males. We say men. Female is jist the gender of a species... Calling us females diminishes us being human women.

[@afropolitaine]

Somebody put the #blackwifeeffect of Nicholas 🙌🏾

[@tahirahsmith101]

Ahhh bless his heart! I hope he finds his partner!

[@monamonae3170]

He’s a sweetheart 👍hope he finds his dreamgirl

[@kennettabradford6566]

He is so my type. This is why I'm single until I come across someone like him. I love men that has sense

[@rubyb.4007]

100% Agree. You don't advertise it, but you keep your options open until there is a conversation about exclusively and monogamy. If a man can't handle that he's not a hunter.

[@marquismadden3685]

my question is how long are you gonna date around on a quality man with good intentions until you decide to take him serious and reciprocate the energy?

[@jesterarts734]

Aye, do what works. So why do you think so many ladies usually ask men this same question, "Are you dating anyone else?" if many won't tell you if they are or suggest not to advertise it? To get an advantage maybe? Should I not advertise it the next time I'm asked? I know most ladies will say they hate liars...

[@wudacudashuda_]

@@marquismadden3685 Fair question, assuming he's a quality man.

[@kaytlc3092]

He's a catch 💯💯

[@sharonhicks-jones5471]

Indeed

[@kaytlc3092]

He's careful, mindful, sure of himself, healed, and stands by his morals. There is more but these things are most attractive to me.

[@edema2274]

@@kaytlc3092 Did you reach out to him?

[@kaytlc3092]

@@edema2274 no I watch for fun. I'm engaged.

[@CrazyDealsandSteals]

I LOVE HIM! I hope he finds an amazing wife ❤️

[@HumbleTestimonies121]

Inbox him sweetheart

[@LadyK007]

@@HumbleTestimonies121 😂

[@prettiilexii672]

I love it because alot of people DO NOT practice what they preach!!

[@angelgreen9945]

Factory

[@debwright3190]

🤓🤓He seems like a great guy. He will get someone he likes and wants him.☺️☺️

[@MyJaxJingles]

He is telling the truth!

[@ishkuro]

I tried to be as genuine as possible. Even though I was nervous

[@QueenSheba43]

Gone Nicholas 🔥🔥🔥🔥.. he is going to find someone great 👍🏾

[@johnjay3308]

Maybe overseas

[@Fhenixjames]

awwww he is sweet!!!

[@AuraDona]

He will find love.

[@jaelee6390]

With a flesh light lol on god 😆

[@AuraDona]

@@jaelee6390 😩😩😭😭 ON GOD

[@esengomamonga9292]

@@jaelee6390 😂😂😂 yo man, why you have to be so mean to this man?

[@coachericalee312]

Wow a normal human being who wants a real connection! Rare breed!

[@donnagreen5186]

I think he is saying don’t play with my feelings. Point blank.

[@ohheygoldi]

PURPOSE DRIVEN. I dig it.

[@Nayelee30]

His personality is so cute!

[@indigobeauty1]

wonderful gentleman 🤍

[@KezzyBoo]

Reading the comments. Not Nicholas turning people down already. Did y'all light his inbox up or what. 😂 Get it Nick!

[@justlooking1299]

Nicholas is about to have me slide in his dm😂

[@freedmanschannel4409]

U a fkn mess 😂

[@latinaherbert8759]

Yall thought he was slow❤️😭he told yall the whole truth💪🏽

[@joycereeves190]

I like Dimond. She deserves happiness in her life. Be blessed. Keeps it 💯

[@peaceispriceless6051]

Contrary to popular belief, it's proper etiquette for the person who initiates the date to pay. Just saying. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@realfreedomofspeech]

He's lovely

[@tahirahsmith101]

I hope he finds his life partner!

[@carolynmathison4981]

He seems like a nice person he will find that special person.

[@ishkuro]

I hope I do as well

[@nancyfancy1956]

@@ishkuro How is it going Nickolas

[@legend0fsports298]

I like this guy. He’s speaking how a lot of men feel, they just don’t say shit like that. Ladies will try callin a guy a lame or soft or a beta generally it’s simping, when really he speaking that real man talk. I feel the same way and big nick.

[@derrickdiggs8152]

A lot of women saying great things about this guy…that’s great! I hope he’s experiencing the same type of love in his DM’s🤷🏽‍♂️

[@ishkuro]

Thanks bro

[@blackbeauty7125]

I like the fact that he has the same bday as myself!! He seems like a good dude

[@JoyT01]

Finally!!! He seems like a pretty cool healthy guy & I hope he finds his heart’s desires!

[@ishkuro]

Thanks me too

[@kingkunta5628]

Ladies stop playing with my homie Nicholas. You know he not built like that 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@ToBHonest...]

Built like what exactly?

[@briasworld8]

At aaaall. 🤦 Someone is going to Play him. A Chick in the comments said she reached out to him on FB & asked him if he wanted to do Facetime. She said he told her "I'm not looking for a Pen Pal" & wouldn't respond after that. I'm like damn. What does he REALLY want then? 🤔👀

[@jb9911]

@@briasworld8 ngl BW need to stop being embarrassing when dating out. This guy would be lucky to get a WW, but he’s got the choosing of the bunch here? Apparently he’s even laughed at some of the BW in his dms… lawd. These WM can see desperation from a mile away, and it’s common tactic for incels to open their options to BW

[@IzzysDiaries97]

@@briasworld8 wait what???

[@IzzysDiaries97]

@@jb9911 okk i need to hear more

[@sdouglas6636]

I typically don't comment and I'm not into guys but Nick is it. It takes the right woman and he can have some swag to go with his personality 😏

[@crow2swann5]

Everytime Kendra ask, "What are you looking for in a man/woman?" People always start with a vague statement. "Someone who practice what they preach". It sounds good, but we gone need you to elaborate?

[@lalaess2426]

He seems nice. I wish him well on his journey.

[@jennaalcindor7208]

Cmon Nicholas!!! I like his style!

[@ishkuro]

Thanks