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@joshuataylor35504 ай бұрын
People can have friendships across the gender divide, but most of these people just don't want to admit they are already in relationships.
@user-fl9um8os1l4 ай бұрын
Hi Jubilee.. could you do a middle ground featuring intersex individuals and cis people (whose sex or gender aligns with what they were born as)??
@ema93674 ай бұрын
most of these aren’t actually friends these are just weird situationships 😭
@swagvdaddy694 ай бұрын
‼️💯
@AlzMarioWolfe4 ай бұрын
Literally they’re horrible examples of actual friendships
@trxgon4 ай бұрын
I mean most male and female friendships are failed situationships or people who got friendzoned😂
@AlzMarioWolfe4 ай бұрын
@@trxgon Couldn’t be less true
@kaykayal28214 ай бұрын
That’s most opposite sex friendships
@dashiamason81364 ай бұрын
this really isn’t helping the stigma 😭
@honeytea10464 ай бұрын
fr 😭 i wish my best friend and i could’ve been on this
@sarahaluzan4 ай бұрын
Ikr not everyone is like that 😭
@kurtholus4 ай бұрын
Some stigmas are just observations of the reality
@andiiiiiiiiii4 ай бұрын
@@kurtholus yuppp
@Justcatc4 ай бұрын
😽🙏me and my pookies break the stigma
@gyosob72654 ай бұрын
so basically Nick and Lexi are the only healthy and normal friendship
@Sukinero4 ай бұрын
LETS SEE YOUR FRIENDSHIPS
@gyosob72654 ай бұрын
@@Sukinero I would say they're pretty healthy and normal
@pinklypinkly22204 ай бұрын
@@SukineroI’m going to assume that they are talking about the friends IN the video?
@Sukinero4 ай бұрын
@@pinklypinkly2220 yeah
@blazenfate4 ай бұрын
Normal? Is there a new definition or something? Uncommon is the word.
@Hmm.5954 ай бұрын
Nick and Lexi are the only ones who actually have me thinking they are just best friends.
@Shawn-vw2sd4 ай бұрын
seriously, even with their body language.
@Ghostrider-ul7xn4 ай бұрын
Honestly, I low key think that Nick has feelings for her. Notice the amount of times he keeps saying "I love you", but she doesn't say it back to him.
@Gatozparty4 ай бұрын
@@Ghostrider-ul7xnhe means it platonically, I say I love you a lot to my friends
@Ghostrider-ul7xn4 ай бұрын
@@Gatozparty i doubt it.
@kurt47894 ай бұрын
@@Ghostrider-ul7xn you can love someone platonically and not be IN love with them
@deetv26364 ай бұрын
He literally said “ I can weaponize obliviousness” then turns around and says “oh no I had no idea she liked me even tho we had sex twice”🙃 LETS BFFR…. Niva needs to love on herself more and close her “open book-ness” a little
@joxxoox4 ай бұрын
So true
@hislord14 ай бұрын
He literally does what women do, pretend they have no idea so they don't have an awkward conversation. If women can do it, so can men.
@fahrenheit21014 ай бұрын
@@hislord1 Ah yes, "women". Anybody who makes such a braindead blanket statement is hard to take seriously. He's doing a terrible thing, that some women also do. Women can't do it, nobody said it was ok, and it similarly isn't ok for him. You're actually the only one normalising it to push your "women bad" narrative. Stop.
@ginapetolicchio26844 ай бұрын
Nina
@TheGATG0bBlin4 ай бұрын
@@hislord1Since it’s an unhealthy manipulation tactic how about nobody does it? 😭 I don’t see how you went “well women do it so we can too!”
@ChiGuyy4 ай бұрын
No hold on. NJ and Mary anne rented a penthouse, JUST the two of them while she had a boyfriend?? 😭 LMAO
@iswissmiss4 ай бұрын
People literally have zero respect for committed relationships nowadays 😭
@camronbitzer31594 ай бұрын
Now fiance 🤔🧐👀
@elizacrepes4 ай бұрын
i'm glad other people picked up on this. i was so confused when they didn't address that further, like hold on: you were in a relationship, misrepresenting the situation to your partner (meaning you knew they may not be happy with it being just the two of you) and something almost happened?? and this is the partner you're now engaged to?? I'm wondering if this is something her and her partner have since talked about and worked through; it would be wild of them to find out through a jubilee video otherwise also lmao at him talking about this in the middle of how great she was at setting boundaries 😭
@Shawn-vw2sd4 ай бұрын
@@elizacrepesdeadass, great at setting up boundaries that support him 😭
@jessicaarakelian38454 ай бұрын
No I thought this at first too but he actually said a past girl friend didn’t bring her boyfriend (now fiance), he said Mary Anne always did and always set that boundary.
@AmiriHipHop4 ай бұрын
Ari didn't even take a step to hug Nina at the very end 😭😭. All of the other friends met each other halfway for the hug, but Ari stood still and Nina ran all the way to HIM. Kinda symbolizes their friendship in a sense 😂.
@sadscientist99954 ай бұрын
That’s the way to do it. Have her come to you. There’s a reason Ari is the only one who could have a chance with their “best friend”
@jacobfschaffer4 ай бұрын
They hooked up twice and have been “best friends for 8 months” lol they just wanted to be on Jubilee
@user-mq4ps1hn1m4 ай бұрын
I feel like it’s not friendship. If he made a move on her, she would take it.
@catm24544 ай бұрын
Truuuuu
@grreeeeee4 ай бұрын
"I wrote a song for you... well, actually it's about me for you... well it's for me and I want you to listen to it, but I also won't say any of this" *fuckboi laugh*
@bbeth44 ай бұрын
“neither of us are entertained, you’re crying and i’m upset” that was adorable
@sadscientist99954 ай бұрын
Women mindset is it’s entertainment (drama)
@Just_a_bench1114 ай бұрын
@@sadscientist9995Stop generalization.
@TheGATG0bBlin4 ай бұрын
@@sadscientist9995That’s clearly not what she meant, don’t be weird
@mina84954 ай бұрын
@@sadscientist9995 No lol
@cosmicase4 ай бұрын
virgin alert@@sadscientist9995
@ndawanahamukwaya61384 ай бұрын
As a woman with a male best friend, most of yall are not best friends, more in-between lovers and friends. Yall just gotta figure it out for real 😂
@mxrijx4 ай бұрын
Situationship central
@Random-sk6hm4 ай бұрын
Lexi and Nick were the only friends on here. The others were all situationships.
@Quantum_Cola3 ай бұрын
Are you sure he doesn't like you at all ?
@mistyydagoat2 ай бұрын
Your "male best friend" will hit as soon as you give him the chance.
@funkunko2 ай бұрын
@@Quantum_Coladamn males really cannot control themselves?? be normal
@user-nc3gh9pu6j4 ай бұрын
I feel like Ari sees Nina as a best friend to keep her around. He likes the attention she gives him. “I use my presence as appreciation” is crazy.
@ndiaz19824 ай бұрын
Nah I get it. I could be around a loved one and not speak, but we are happy to be in each other's presence
@user-nc3gh9pu6j4 ай бұрын
I totally hear that. It’s more of that in combination with everything that he had said up to that point. Plus, he comes off as someone very self-centered. He literally ruined his supposed bff’s beach day so she could listen to a song he wrote about himself.
@DonTrump20244 ай бұрын
Yeah he kept it P
@opticaldelusions4 ай бұрын
oh for sure
@georgiab74904 ай бұрын
Ari had a lot of red flags throughout this vid but this specific quote wasn't one of them IMO, I feel the same way sometimes. it can take a lot out of me to respond to texts and call people back and arrange plans. sometimes, me just being there is the best I can offer, and even tho I wish I was capable of more, I can can only hope the ppl in my life will see that I'm trying and giving them the most I can because I love them.
@RPMonsta4 ай бұрын
Ari is a MASTER MANIPULATOR he has that girl wrapped around his finger.
@Sukinero4 ай бұрын
And I can’t get one..
@fahrenheit21014 ай бұрын
She's a bit naive herself to stay with the dude for so long.
@pencil69654 ай бұрын
low self worth @@fahrenheit2101
@s.quinery33894 ай бұрын
@@Sukinero womp womp
@ched284 ай бұрын
Yeah I was like Nina girl STAND UP
@bobthestinky73694 ай бұрын
Im actually amazed half of these people are friends at all. Lot of toxicity here.
@pencil69654 ай бұрын
so much, it's wild
@Just_a_bench1114 ай бұрын
How? People get angry…it’s a normal emotion.
@bobthestinky73694 ай бұрын
@@Just_a_bench111 I'm not talking about someone getting angry.
@krithiksingh4 ай бұрын
Welcome to life, a lot of people have toxicity
@wondersov76154 ай бұрын
There’s toxicity within everyone. The whole point of a friendship is to accept the other persons and move on
@Pou1gie14 ай бұрын
Ari thinks he's more interesting and cooler than he actually is. He is one of these guys who has manufactured an image that feels synthetic in an effort to draw ppl to him in an inauthentic way. Essentially, he tries very hard. He is a try-er.
@Planck9444 ай бұрын
Tryer😂😂
@jasminec76394 ай бұрын
Exaaactly
@peeeva4 ай бұрын
couldnt have said it better myself
@lisib48354 ай бұрын
Damn 💀
@rachelg70304 ай бұрын
Like the 70s fit that she's dressing to match. Just to start conversation, I doubt it's because of real interest
@TedIsHere24 ай бұрын
Nina…. that is not your best friend. Do yourself a favor and never speak to him again after this video
@Taylorswiftarmpitsweat4 ай бұрын
Who tf are you to say that?
@FerretCuddles4 ай бұрын
@@Taylorswiftarmpitsweat A guy having PDF file facial hair, without regs forcing it, is pretty sketchy. Just noticed he's wearing womens shoes and earrings too. But on the other hand, she admitted she doesn't regulate her emotions and is getting run through. They're both equally awful, but in different ways.
@Click92njttiu4 ай бұрын
@@Taylorswiftarmpitsweat why are u hate commenting on all the comments??? stfu.
@DasAlena4 ай бұрын
that is a an insane thing to say as a stranger that just watched a video on youtube
@SallyBabyy4 ай бұрын
That guy is a psycho future serial killer. Jeffrey Dahmer type of freak.
@ashbaldwn4 ай бұрын
Ari sounds toxic tbh
@DepthUnchecked4 ай бұрын
He seems like a douche
@Adam-3264 ай бұрын
Honestly, how?
@danielrandon31774 ай бұрын
Nina is the toxic one
@cay_cat1144 ай бұрын
@@danielrandon3177 How is Nina toxic? She was lead on and is continuing to be lead on by Ari.
@dabd81754 ай бұрын
And females love toxic
@mnyamanakangqengele7174 ай бұрын
If Ari or Nina get partners I feel like if their partners say they are not comfortable with them being friends I would 100% agree with them sana
@ughmina4 ай бұрын
The way he literally said he would sleep with her if she's down lmao I can see why
@thulanimbatha54584 ай бұрын
I spot a South African🇿🇦
@sivekhangeleni82194 ай бұрын
Sa ungenaphi e america
@chefstephcooks4 ай бұрын
Nina really said that she had to lie to her boyfriend about Ari and said he was gay when he wasn’t..
@mnyamanakangqengele7174 ай бұрын
@@thulanimbatha5458 😭🤣
@whatamidoinghere84544 ай бұрын
The fact that they so casually sleep with their bestfriends like it's no big deal lmao
@van3ssa.f4 ай бұрын
Fr..
@Ghostrider-ul7xn4 ай бұрын
It actually happens way often tho..
@DGen74 ай бұрын
Why is it a big deal ?let them do what they wanna do
@_leivo4 ай бұрын
Because it's not
@Aggggghhhhhhh694 ай бұрын
@@DGen7Tell me if your partner had a best friend they liked before and the past and fucked multiple times would you have the same opinion..
@yelvy4 ай бұрын
not sure how you guys manage to consistently find the worst people imaginable but keep up the great work
@fahrenheit21014 ай бұрын
It's representative, I'm sure. People just tend to suck more often than not, simple as that. Also, the sorts of people signing up for this are at least partially the attention seeking sort, which can skew things.
@Krataios204 ай бұрын
jubilee casting representative people is a joke.
@takemetomarz4 ай бұрын
Fr oml
@salmaabdullahgb4 ай бұрын
I think under regular circumstances people are more cool/chill than not
@TheAlixAmanda4 ай бұрын
I know for real 😂 every single one of these videos I’m like how are these people real?!?
@sarahaluzan4 ай бұрын
Wtf hooking up and best friends don't go together. My best friend and I are like siblings, that would be so fking weird. I only liked Nick and Lexi here.
@Butterflyonlife4 ай бұрын
Honestly same the only ones that are actually best friends in this videos
@Butterflyonlife4 ай бұрын
And I like how straightforward snd comfortable they are
@sarahaluzan4 ай бұрын
@@memesucuklu what 💀
@sarahaluzan4 ай бұрын
@@Butterflyonlife I agree
@StoicMao4 ай бұрын
@@memesucuklu I would say your nipples are really dark and you look a bit yerllow
@pmpslim54144 ай бұрын
Testing out your homegirls is WILD😂
@ughmina4 ай бұрын
Bros on a mission 💀
@karuymaru4 ай бұрын
Omg literally!!
@njyazon73004 ай бұрын
Try it out bro.
@haleycarson41294 ай бұрын
I legit was like, WHY NO ONE TALKING ABOUT THIS? Start out toxic!
@Lily-ni2mb3 ай бұрын
@@haleycarson4129seriouslyy!!!
@janinejamee63034 ай бұрын
the way ari didnt step up to hug her says everything,
@Kapt.Konscious4 ай бұрын
That was crazy😭
@georgiacabrerasuarez4 ай бұрын
OMG I was looking for this comment!! Body language tells everything 🥲
@1111114444444444 ай бұрын
I felt like that was the perfect representation of their relationship. Like that relationship exists because of her
@thuraiaj8494 ай бұрын
and her running up to him. that's exactly what i noticed too
@user-oe9wb4dm7v4 ай бұрын
Some people aren't comfortable hugging in camera
@mariahmonteon744 ай бұрын
“i beLIevE tHAt fRIEndS cAN kIsS” Nina sweetie NO FRIENDS SHOULD BE KISSING 😭😭😭
@Whirlbee4 ай бұрын
A lot of people are fine with this kind of thing with friends
@duanen23374 ай бұрын
My wife kissed her female friends a million times
@RainbowFlowerCrow4 ай бұрын
@@duanen2337You ok with her kissing her male friends too though? And how do you feel about kissing your Male friends? 🤔
@Kidassassin1094 ай бұрын
@@RainbowFlowerCrowright. He thought he did something with that.
@Nersius4 ай бұрын
Why wouldn't close friends give a peck now and again, similar to a parent to a child or relatives between one another?
@kayceeslove19274 ай бұрын
If you have a best friend it needs to be strictly platonic
@Whirlbee4 ай бұрын
Why?
@hail68884 ай бұрын
no! 😱
@yoggyasf62704 ай бұрын
exactly, you don't value the friendship if you can't separate your love for someone and your apparent urge to posssess them
@MrFish-pm8bx4 ай бұрын
Yeah, you eaither immediately talk about those feelings or force yourself to move on. You can't be a supportive unconditional friend if you can't cheer them on in life including their romantic relationships.
@Ghostrider-ul7xn4 ай бұрын
No! Who are you to make rules? The best relationships start from friendships because you've already established a strong emotional connection with that person. This component is what's lacking in many modern relationships today leading to breakups and divorces.
@HannahHodson284 ай бұрын
Nick and Lexi seem so fun and genuine friends.
@lexiuy4 ай бұрын
We really are 🩵 grateful for his friendship
@sumaiya-ey5zc4 ай бұрын
Literally it’s the only acc real friends
@JackInABeanstalk984 ай бұрын
@@sumaiya-ey5zc they're all "real friends". sex is human, the mindset that sex devalues their friendship is the mindset that is behind so many bad relationships, breakups, divorces.
@sumaiya-ey5zc4 ай бұрын
@@JackInABeanstalk98 you’re missing the point 🤦🏻♀️ It’s not about sex it’s just not normal to admit that you had attraction to a friend and then you ended up settling because they didn’t feel that way/ they were already in a relationship????
@JackInABeanstalk984 ай бұрын
@@sumaiya-ey5zc completely healthy reaction respectful of your boy’s boundaries, far more mature than arbitrarily dropping off because he or she doesn’t want you back. Learn to manage it
@naysha3234 ай бұрын
It's quite ironic that NJ finds it weird for his female friends not to bring their partners when hanging out with him, considering he openly confessed to hitting on friends who were already in relationships. talk about a double standard
@Aaron-kj8dv4 ай бұрын
Just from the short bits I saw from him I feel like I know this personality type. He probably trashes and of his "friends" boyfriends but he doesn't have the balls to make a move so he just kind of sits on the sidelines and seethes. As the women get older and start dating more mature men the guys are gonna force him out of the picture because dudes with life experience know his type.
@rianalee31384 ай бұрын
NJ is delusional 💀
@Aggggghhhhhhh694 ай бұрын
He is such a creep after saying that I'm sorry but dude shouldn't have any female friends
@njyazon73004 ай бұрын
I am what we call a hypocrite.
@njyazon73004 ай бұрын
type A personality ;) @@Aaron-kj8dv
@c4l1n154 ай бұрын
bro didn't know she likes him after having sex twice💀
@vilecandy4 ай бұрын
The classic bro being oblivious to a girl's signs of liking him taken to an extreme
@dieauferstehung4 ай бұрын
no he knows, but he dont wanna have a RS with her because she is recreational use only for him, she is getting used. sad
@stamzthehuman8974 ай бұрын
Of course not. She could just be really sex positive. He had to make sure
@lorianaranieri70824 ай бұрын
love and sex are two separate things, it can be both or not
@beadels95974 ай бұрын
!! although he denied this in the video, i feel like he already knew she had a thing for him and just pretended to be oblivious to take advantage of her feelings and fjkc around..
@Alisewin4 ай бұрын
Most of these friendships seem very problematic lol
@eugenetswong4 ай бұрын
Jubilee always seems to bring immature and toxic people on the show!
@franciscoherrerarose38114 ай бұрын
Is Ari short for nARcIssistic?
@buzz-wx1lh4 ай бұрын
i giggled! and yes lol 😭 he’s gonna get worst with time
@miguel_75154 ай бұрын
Lame
@charky66834 ай бұрын
remember you have those three letters in your name and more
@Sul5162 ай бұрын
He made her miss her beach day so she could listen to a song about himself
@nontsikelelosalimane7690Ай бұрын
🤣
@JessicaSmith-fw3yp4 ай бұрын
I’m sorry three minutes into this video, Ari is just the biggest gaslighter. When you sleep with somebody don’t expect to have a platonic friendship
@beadels95974 ай бұрын
!! although he denied this in the video, i feel like he already knew she had a thing for him and just pretended to be oblivious to take advantage of her feelings and fjck around..
@theprinceoffreshair11644 ай бұрын
This video proves and shows why people are skeptical of best friends of opposite sexes. Only Nick and Lexi didn't blur the lines. The fact that you have to tell your partner your best friend is gay knowing its a lie AND you've slept together before? Renting a penthouse and misleading you partner to think nothing is happening? I believe men and women can be friends, but once you start blurring that line, its game over. BTW, Nina still has feelings for Ari. Its clear and evident. Would you trust your partner with a friend of the opposite sex?
@blueiris15424 ай бұрын
Yup! Most ppl can't state/maintain boundaries smh
@Planck9444 ай бұрын
The nj penthouse thing has been cleared up by mary, she said that jubilee edited the video to look like she was the friend nj was talking about but she wasn’t
@Kayla-cm4zz4 ай бұрын
any partner saying who I can and can't be friends with will get the boot.
@COMPUTER.SCIENCE.2 ай бұрын
Well, it's just that the guy-Nick- didn't really find her attractive 😂 But, one day, things could change! I don't trust STRAIGHT guys who have many close female friends instead of male friends, these guys surely like all the attention the girls give them, even though they're not interested in them. Let's get real!
@enricomahoney6617Ай бұрын
@@Planck944she said that probably because her fiancé discovered via this episode.
@reetkaur_24 ай бұрын
This isn't the "platonic best friends" episode i was looking for
@m__69304 ай бұрын
He: Her toxic trait is time management. She: He gets angry and insults people's families.
@BadaBadger4 ай бұрын
Nina for the love of whoever ditch him NOW.
@shamanchy4 ай бұрын
nina is definitely still in love with ari
@fahrenheit21014 ай бұрын
And Ari still sticks around for the off chance of sleeping with her. Perfectly balanced, as all things should be.
@nellieshoals4 ай бұрын
@@fahrenheit2101 No, she is an ego boost + attention provider to him.
@8beautylover84 ай бұрын
She 100% only said no to hooking up again because she thought he would say no..the way she ran to him at the end and he was standing still 😖
@thelegacyofgaming292824 күн бұрын
@@8beautylover8 Womp womp 😂
@dakotac1804 ай бұрын
Ari and Nina should probably leave it alone... they slept together TWICE, they not on the same page as much as the rest of these friendships. I want Nick and Lexi to stay friends forever.
@_leivo4 ай бұрын
why?
@Pyroshark4 ай бұрын
@@_leivo have you even watched the video dawg
@_leivo4 ай бұрын
@@PyrosharkYeahp, so, why?
@user-oe9wb4dm7v4 ай бұрын
There's two type of people in this world people who see sex as whatever and some that think it's this spiritual thing. Type B usually judges type A like crazy. I agree I don't see any toxic traits from him so far. He seems straightforward.
@mayax24314 ай бұрын
The steps they took to hug each other at the end and where they ended up is so accurate.
@deechwita4 ай бұрын
@@memesucukluWTF ARE U ON ABOUT 😭😭
@CMHMom234 ай бұрын
This is sooo true omfg
@fahrenheit21014 ай бұрын
In short, Nick and Lexi are perfect, Abdullah and Kendall need work, NJ and Mary-Anne moreso, and Ari's irredeemable and it's insane that Nina hasn't totally ditched the mf, almost entirely because he makes music.
@nellieshoals4 ай бұрын
It sounds like she feels dependent on him for a job or smth... They mentioned playing on stage together??? Weird.@@fahrenheit2101
@thelegacyofgaming292824 күн бұрын
@@fahrenheit2101 Most women like toxic men, notice how he's the only one that got sex out of all the guys?
@blakerobertson41564 ай бұрын
ari is definition of insane
@user-us7vj3wc4c4 ай бұрын
Best comment
@RaidQuinncidence4 ай бұрын
he could def be clinically diagnosed as a narcissist
@PROVOCATEURSK4 ай бұрын
But women go for that.
@Angelogwala4 ай бұрын
I wouldn't want to surround myself with someone like that, ever.
@SublimeNumbaNine4 ай бұрын
Or he trying to scrape her off his back, but she just keeps attaching harder🤷🏿♂️ You can’t make something more obvious than he did.
@of_the_Word4 ай бұрын
Abdullah is the embodiment of “guys and girls can’t be just friends.” He is so obviously in love with her but too pathetic to admit it so he settles to be her friend. All while claiming her boyfriends are toxic and she should choose a nice guy like him who would treat her like a princess.
@Bielefeld1234 ай бұрын
Maybe he is gay and was jealous cuz he wanted his bestfriend's dating partners😂
@charky66834 ай бұрын
hes literally gay
@Bielefeld1234 ай бұрын
@@charky6683 I think it too
@josiehouse75394 ай бұрын
He's definitely gay....
@anonymous_42764 ай бұрын
Plus he's got a conservative family so he cannot take a stance either. He had his chance with her but he hesitates due to that as well. Overall just a confused guy.
@adsonn87404 ай бұрын
How do you hook up with someone and still be best friends
@Whirlbee4 ай бұрын
Some friends just like to fool around
@analece4 ай бұрын
you can think of it as helping each other out but I suppose it really doesn’t work out, as I did this with a girl friend of mine and she went crazy saying I was hers and only hers.. 😳
@oxy_mwro4 ай бұрын
easily
@dyingwaffle954 ай бұрын
Personally I believe with enough time apart/not hooking up setting that boundary it's possible to continue as friends
@zootopia84404 ай бұрын
cuz they’re simply repressing their feelings and lying to themselves
@_smsma_4 ай бұрын
The frindship between Ari and Nani is a perfect example of the relationship between a narcissist and an empath ...
@nellieshoals4 ай бұрын
Yes, she is talking and putting herself down too much, I think in large part bc of this relationship..... She can and will learn to do better!!
@user-kp3rc4eq8x4 ай бұрын
I agree. It sounds like he is doing it to other women too. It was revealed he is now with someone who he won't discuss feelings with and she adviced him it would get 'messy'. She should take her own advice and run. He is emotionally void and looking for narcissistic supply
@COMPUTER.SCIENCE.2 ай бұрын
Which is also a typical so-called female-male close friendship 😂
@thelegacyofgaming292824 күн бұрын
Nothing about her gives off empath. She's a narc as well
@kalexx4 ай бұрын
Majority of these are situationships.....💀💀 not friendships.
@Blueberry-wn5fc4 ай бұрын
“I use my presence as appreciation” is CRAZY.
@klara70684 ай бұрын
Nick and Lexi are friendship goals!!!!
@lexiuy4 ай бұрын
Thank you!! 🥹🤍
@MalphasMikaelson4 ай бұрын
You don't know them.
@marinakliueva96344 ай бұрын
Nick and Lexi are heartwarming to watch, so respectful and appreciative of each other's friendship
@v0atmygym7344 ай бұрын
Ari low key made Heath Ledger’s Joker a personality trait of his. This dude speaks in the same mannerisms sometimes
@ChrisPTY5074 ай бұрын
Ari really have high level of dark triad traits.
@PrincessLioness4 ай бұрын
@@ChrisPTY507What does that mean?
@ChrisPTY5074 ай бұрын
@@PrincessLioness The term “Dark Triad” refers to a trio of negative personality traits-narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy-which share some common malevolent features. The construct was coined by researchers Delroy L. Paulhus and Kevin M. Williams in 2002.
@Flesh_Wizard4 ай бұрын
the jonkler
@sayad40424 ай бұрын
fr i caught the joker mannerisms as well
@afrozzz56344 ай бұрын
I really like the friendship between Nick and Lexi. It’s real and wholesome. No comments on the rest 😂
@ZANIMusic4 ай бұрын
Ari’s really scary, ngl
@PROVOCATEURSK4 ай бұрын
The women that go for him are scary too.
@sulliandwhatnot4 ай бұрын
Women love men like him until they realize their cooked. That’s why Nina stays around him. He could have her.
@nellieshoals4 ай бұрын
@@PROVOCATEURSK Nah we just have trauma (most likely childhood) so don't see it until we get burned enough that we reach a point that we can smell it a mile away. Manipulative, trauma bonding, keeping her on standby, on edge, waiting for him... He clearly has very high ego + attention needs. His behavior screams histrionic/narcissistic!
@falconawesome2 ай бұрын
In studies people who have been traumatized are less able to see risky situations clearly, usually because everything feels like the same current level of “this is risky”
@Sul5162 ай бұрын
NJ too with his anger issues
@mraoww4 ай бұрын
15:43 lmao nick and lexi are so synchronized! the slap on the knee
@shameekmiller42514 ай бұрын
In conclusion only mentally stable and mature men and women can be friends
@charmingmagican98214 ай бұрын
Its a shame those are rare nowadays Eh mate ?
@mistyydagoat2 ай бұрын
like 1% of people
@thelegacyofgaming292824 күн бұрын
So nobody. All adults are grown children. Welcome to the real world.
@ChrisGabeEnd024 ай бұрын
Dude NJ is terrifying because he seems like a harmless dude but has toxicity is on another level
@njyazon73004 ай бұрын
damn ya got me.
@xan3e4 ай бұрын
@@njyazon7300since you were there I’d like to ask you this question: what did you think of ari and his personality? Also your thoughts on Abdullah’s situation🤔.
@Sul5162 ай бұрын
Toxic vibes off the chart
@thelegacyofgaming292824 күн бұрын
All men bad, wah!
@koketsomoshira10154 ай бұрын
Love Nick, protect Nick at all costs x
@lexiuy4 ай бұрын
YES
@babymi284 ай бұрын
Fr he’s so sweet
@user-fx2wk6tb8c4 ай бұрын
They don’t know what gaslighting is
@itsmj31034 ай бұрын
fr, Ari is the master gaslighter, Abdullah just lying 😂😂
@Cassinova7954 ай бұрын
I was waiting for the example of gaslighting and it never came
@shanzayshah64554 ай бұрын
Nina is in love with Ari. He doesn't care about her. When this friendship breaks, my girl will be heartbroken. she needs to let go. I was in a very similar friendship for 3 years. I loved him completely and truly I would've done anything for him but I just had to let it go. We don't talk anymore and it hurts sometimes when I see him but it does get better. Nina deserves more. Nina deserves better.
@princessg80974 ай бұрын
Same except I don’t hurt anyone
@jialian934 ай бұрын
nina sucks too. she confirmed she uses guys and dumps them
@annaburgooo4 ай бұрын
Do you ever see them still? Or are they completely not in your life? One of my closest friends - I used to have feelings for him or I wonder if I sometimes do. I don't think we would work out in a relationship, I could say for a few reasons but also I think probably because maybe I have stronger feelings for him than he does about me (platonic and romantic feelings). I resonate with what you said - there was a time where we were in a complicated situation, we both got hurt (though it was also partially an outside person messing with and lying about stuff that caused it) but I still came back to him - and thinking about it now, if he something happened again, my instinct would be to try and repair things because I think I just care about/love him that much. I think he loves and cares about me too, but in a different way and on a different level. I don't want to cut him out of my life because him being in my life brings me happiness, also because he's kind of at the center of a loose group of friends we're in. I have wondered if it would be for the best though, maybe not now bur after I graduate college or down the line, to distance myself from him. Do you have any advice - seems like you might've been in a similar situation?
@shanzayshah64553 ай бұрын
@@annaburgooohey girl I’ve been busy with exams but yeah I see him. I see him a lot. We have the same friend group so I have to see him when we r all hanging out together. He’s also class president so I see him in meetings. It used to hurt so much because being around him made me so so happy but I had to take this step. I had to confront him and I had to cut him off because I realised I loved him too much and he loved me too less. For him the friendship was convenient and to me it was everything. I wasn’t ready to believe it till I cut him off and when I did I was terrified that all the things that we did together I would have no one to do with. I made peace with it I decided my dignity was more important than my happiness and honestly it all fell into place. I found new people I started doing the things I was so afraid of doing alone. I have a chance to other people. I still miss him sometimes and I wonder if he does too. I don’t know if he does but I also don’t think how he could not. Id be lying if I said I don’t hope that he does. I don’t understand how he could not listen to Noah kahan and not think about me, how he could read Cat and not think about me, how he could look at the drawing I made him for his 17th and not think about me ? But life’s been better and brighter ever since. It’s fresh. I broke it off in feb but it hurts a lot sometimes. I hâte who i was around him. I hate how pathetic he made me. I never want to be that again. And if the cost of not hating myself is not being his best friend then I’ve made my choice. My instagrams @shanzayy_shah if you want to talk I’m always here ❤
@KASP1124 ай бұрын
I wish they had people on here who were best friends for more than 2 to 3 years at least 5 years and up
@futuswag5934 ай бұрын
Yeah I guess it's hard to find women and men best friends😳
@maxikhani2354 ай бұрын
Kendall and Abdullah have been best friends for 7 years lol. It said in the video
@KASP1124 ай бұрын
@@futuswag593 it can't be that hard
@KASP1124 ай бұрын
@@maxikhani235 yeah I seen that but they were the only two all I was saying was they could have found people who were best friends for longer
@The_1995_4 ай бұрын
@@futuswag593I don’t think it’s that hard. I’m a female and i have 2 male bestfriends that I’ve been friends with for 12-15 years and nothing ever happened. They just chose people in weird situationships that have only known eachother a couple years and probably never had a relationship and always had an attraction from the start.
@kailiochoa10584 ай бұрын
These are the kinds of people I never want to be around
@brh.18924 ай бұрын
You've put my thoughts into words perfectly lmao
@Business54LJ4 ай бұрын
Watch how this video will be used as reference to why a girl and a guy can’t be just friends by the podcast bros💀💀💀
@shannilove28014 ай бұрын
Ari looks like a '70s Fboy🤣. I think Nina really likes him romantically but this dude does not commit to anyone and just wants to have fun.
@sarar73634 ай бұрын
Best friends are like siblings almost, if it ain’t platonic its kinda odd
@darkkforest4 ай бұрын
My best friend is my wife, is there something wrong in that?
@sarar73634 ай бұрын
@@darkkforest Your SO is obvs your best friend but also more, if it’s just a best friend then it’s weird if you’re blurring those lines
@tr4sh.doll_4 ай бұрын
i also think it works a lot better if you feel almost like siblings, but friendships can take multiple form and i think there is not just one answer to what friendship look like
@COMPUTER.SCIENCE.2 ай бұрын
@@darkkforest no, there's nothing wrong if you combine the 2, actually it's perfect that way, it just feels wrong if you have a WIFE, AND then you have another FEMALE BEST FRIEND, got it?
@COMPUTER.SCIENCE.2 ай бұрын
@@tr4sh.doll_ well, I think it's just the matter if you're a considerate and decent person or not: knowing enough is enough, and treat others the way you want to be treated! Our greedy human tendency is that we always want more if we can, whether it's materials, friendship, people we find attractive to and want to partner with etc.., I'm sure everyone of us find MORE THAN ONE person on Earth attractive. But, should we involve with both or more of them romantically? If yes, would we feel comfortable having them also involve with other people at the same time? If you look at the whole picture, it's nothing more than a pigsty where everyone entangles like a messy cobweb! I respect/value my PRIVACY and don't want to become a pig, so I only allow myself to involve with only 1 person and learn to be loyal and respectful to that special person, becoz I love her but also becoz I want to be treated (respected) the same way! Having more experiences (be with more than one) isn't actually better than having LESS but QUALIFIED experience! That's just how I see it, if you're gonna have ambiguous relationship, expect your spouse to also have ambiguous ones, and a messy web of relationship more than dramatic!
@goldfish52094 ай бұрын
Ari has horrible vibes 😭
@SupremeCash1Ай бұрын
I bet he thinks he's hip
@thelegacyofgaming292824 күн бұрын
womp womp
@fey99154 ай бұрын
"best friends for 7 months" blows my mind
@Sul5162 ай бұрын
It’s not adding up lmao
@mikeokk4 ай бұрын
Abdullah she don’t want you bro let her go💀💀💀
@fahrenheit21014 ай бұрын
Idk, they seemed mutually caring, even if it's a bit of a situationship...
@lonewaer4 ай бұрын
I'm actually confused why he's still trying, do they not know he's on the flamboyant side ? Maybe she does, that would explain why she's not attracted. Dude has got to at least present masculine enough not to confuse people on whether or not he's gay, let alone get to the point where she could be attracted to him.
@houssein38924 ай бұрын
ABDULLAH Wallahi YOU'RE GAYY! WALLAHI 💀
@Bielefeld1234 ай бұрын
He seems a little gay to me😂
@216superman4 ай бұрын
@@Bielefeld123 I JUST SEEN THIS EPISODE AND I DEFINITELY THOUGHT THE SAME THING THAT HE IS GAY AND CAN'T SAY CAUSE OF HIS RELIGION
@novagalaxy3424 ай бұрын
I don't know but from my experiences, having had male friends is not easy. There's always some kind of tension between us, even when I was clear about my boundaries and rules. I stopped having male friends years ago and I'm mentally free of stress and it's much better this way.
@aidanmeyer694 ай бұрын
I felt kind of the same way with female friends. We just operate differently I suppose
@DGen74 ай бұрын
Even today , if youre gonna ask guys if a straight guy and girl can be just friends , they'd say no , but ask any girl and she'd say it's defo possible to be just friends
@Ghostrider-ul7xn4 ай бұрын
People are going to develop feelings for each other. Its natural. Why do ya'll want to repress them?
@Ghostrider-ul7xn4 ай бұрын
Instead of chastising men and women for developing feelings, understand that this is how many people are wired. They are called demisexuals and demiromantics. So again, why try to stop it? The attitude that developing feelings for friends is somehow wrong or something to be avoided is allonormativity. It is normal and healthy for demisexuals and demiromantics, because this is how we are naturally wired. The issue is ignorant, bigoted attitudes on the part of allonormative society.
@blueiris15424 ай бұрын
@@Ghostrider-ul7xnFeelings are natural, but some don't want to feel those feelings 😂 Others know that logically those feelings don't make sense or would not work realistically
@dudeilikestuff4 ай бұрын
lol ari and nina need to sort out their weird relationship
@Mobius894 ай бұрын
Several of these friendships probably did not survive this episode lol
@JohnyJohnatanJohnson4 ай бұрын
Thankfully and hopefully
@SlapSister4 ай бұрын
This world doesn't understand the difference between platonic love/intimacy and romantic. It's sad and it's why we are all so starved for community and affection.
@MartinGarden2 ай бұрын
Facts
@thelegacyofgaming292824 күн бұрын
Who cares. Enjoy life while it lasts :)
@YashSingh-wg2oo4 ай бұрын
Ari is kinda rude
@ijustwannabehappier-v49734 ай бұрын
hes not rude. Hes narcissistic.
@Mayamazingg4 ай бұрын
@@ijustwannabehappier-v4973he’s both
@ijustwannabehappier-v49734 ай бұрын
well sadly for you im a clinical psychologist. And saying he is a narcissistic is not diagnosing him, its merely pointing to his alarming behavior. I didnt say he had NPD.@@soandso5058
@Luke_28284 ай бұрын
@@soandso5058fr dude, people be throwing around the word narcissist like crazy. It’s lost it’s original meaning, now it just means “person I don’t like” lmao
@user-qx8cz9yx9v4 ай бұрын
@@Luke_2828 he literally has traits of a narcissist. how else would you describe someone whos self-centred, emotionally unavailable, has difficulty considering the other person's side of things, weaponises obliviousness and takes advantage of someone elses feelings for them? Saying someone is narcissistic isn't a diagnosis, theres a difference between someone having narcissistic traits like Ari so obviously does and having a narcissistic personality disorder
@_file.unsuccessful._4 ай бұрын
ari is so crazy at this part 15:26 all i could think of is “Nick, you’re gay, be gay be gay. Be gay?” 😭
@KitCat8984 ай бұрын
I THOUGHT THE SAME 😂😂😂
@zyaicob3 ай бұрын
My brain immediately went "My friends call me Gay Nick"
@evanlowell14 ай бұрын
Mary Anne being engaged to a guy she almost cheated on with her best friend is crazy…why is nobody saying anything about that
@Planck9444 ай бұрын
She said it’s false editing, apparently she wasn’t the friend nj was talking about. She commented on this video
@vt644 ай бұрын
@@Planck944omg
@maclife20243 ай бұрын
@@Planck944 thanks for speaking factsss ❤ appreciate you!
@enricomahoney6617Ай бұрын
@@Planck944She probably said that because her fiancé discovered the lent house story via this episode and pu her relationship in trouble
@mrblackbond4 ай бұрын
Ummm, that’s NOT the definition of “gaslighting” 🤦🏽♂️
@tekqist284 ай бұрын
The host not getting the barbie reference 😂
@jibblejabble22494 ай бұрын
omg ari is so creepy fifkdkdk
@aencity4 ай бұрын
nina still loves ari and ari is too self centred and just wants her there for the attention she gives him 💀
@aproximativanonim3034 ай бұрын
thisss he just stepped on yes at the sex question bcz he knows she still likes him, did it just to keep a false hope so she'll stick around more to boost his ego
@user-kp3rc4eq8x4 ай бұрын
He treats her like a groupie
@thelegacyofgaming292824 күн бұрын
@@user-kp3rc4eq8x Well, she is a groupie. Other guys tried with her, but she only wants Ari
@whatamidoinghere84544 ай бұрын
Nick and lexi the only sane ones
@ethanscott59954 ай бұрын
Nick and Lexi are just like me and my friend, I know too much about her to wanna date her 😭
@thelegacyofgaming292824 күн бұрын
Yea, once you find out all the gross stuff about women, you look for a new one that you don't know too much about 😂They all have nasty pasts that would turn ANYONE off, haha
@blueiris15424 ай бұрын
Unpopular opinion: Men and Women can be friends, but rarely ever best friends. If your opposite sex best friend or friend in general develops feelings, that on them, not you.
@zada20634 ай бұрын
Ari is projecting 100000%
@mel-pd8tf4 ай бұрын
Why is no one talking about the “I like to test the waters with all of my girl friends”
@trevandrea89093 ай бұрын
😭😭😭
@jagrubster4 ай бұрын
Nina and Ari are stressing me out
@Lilizzyvert_134 ай бұрын
Cody gonna love this one
@DGen74 ай бұрын
Hope he reacts ! He skipped the last one
@naysha3234 ай бұрын
3 mins in and i feel so bad for nina 😭
@marymaranan36413 ай бұрын
Lexi and Nick are giving me GENUINE BFF energy 😭😭😭. Not saying anyone else’s was genuine, but they just felt so healthy to me in terms of friendship.
@KT-ov6vd4 ай бұрын
Nina and ari are not best friends for sure..its one sided and i find him a bit scary
@Planck9444 ай бұрын
True, he has a weird creepy vibe
@serenityq264 ай бұрын
kens will never get that allen is the true desirable persona. bad boys were never IT and never will be
@Isabela-ub1fx4 ай бұрын
Ari and Nina look like they'll fight after this
@babymi284 ай бұрын
Lmao
@brownskinbeauty.4 ай бұрын
Ari isn't as cute or talented as he or Nina makes him out to be. Based on the outfits he might secretly want to be her 🤷🏾♀️ Nick is super cute and his friendship with Lexi is authentic. They set their own boundaries and respect each other while doing so. We need more people like them in the world.
@abigail63944 ай бұрын
Cody Ko is gonna have a field day with this one
@mrblackbond4 ай бұрын
@22:06 “Friends can kiss” is WILD! 🤦🏽♂️🫣🤔
@poisonivy64774 ай бұрын
when are women going to realize that sleeping with a guy will never make him get on one knee and propose to you. you never benefit from a hook up or situation ship.
@tommygermi69054 ай бұрын
Here in Italy level 1 of anger is insulting family members 😂
@maclife20244 ай бұрын
😂😂 maybe Nj is Italian lol jk
@carsonnelson27414 ай бұрын
3 out of 4 of these friendships are MESSY bruh
@newserfd4 ай бұрын
having feelings for best friend is really common
@Taylorswiftarmpitsweat4 ай бұрын
Stop projecting
@musselmanmedia52364 ай бұрын
your suppose to marry your best friend.....many relationships fail because people dont marry their best friend
@Ghostrider-ul7xn4 ай бұрын
@@musselmanmedia5236 Exactly. Lot of people enter into marriages purely out of raw attraction (which they confuse with love) without any strong emotional connection, which should be the foundation for any long lasting relationship.
@macarmenadoree4 ай бұрын
its super common and really not a big deal for most people im used to being around but everyone's different
@klutzyorangeconfetti10174 ай бұрын
@@Ghostrider-ul7xnI agree
@YashSingh-wg2oo4 ай бұрын
Ari was offended
@atomiclena1284 ай бұрын
The title: Platonic best friends The video: “How many times did you sleep together?” “Twice.” Thanks for upholding the delusional idea that men and women can’t be just friends.
@Night-Shade.4 ай бұрын
Can you bring the dilemma back? It was a great concept and keeping the person's identity hidden when they wanted is really a nice thing to do
@sah98674 ай бұрын
Astighfirullah the brother talking abt testing the waters is Abdullah why am I watching this in Ramadan 😭🤚
@imstrife4 ай бұрын
this show is so messy and chaotic
@Sibbichi4 ай бұрын
she has a fiance and he actively is trying to get with her and she maintains that "friendship"??? unh uh....
@jackyramirez79004 ай бұрын
Nina was talking about herself when she told ari to talk about how he feels with the person he’s sleeping with bc it’s going to get messy 😂
@TheDarkPlace-p6t4 ай бұрын
Well, considering the landscape of friendships these days, I’d say the real philosophical question is whether anyone can be just friends, regardless of gender. It just seems that friendships these days can get pretty complicated.
@futuswag5934 ай бұрын
No I mean same sex of course you can be just friends, but different sex is a whole another story
@elatafalando4 ай бұрын
Are you ok?
@TheDarkPlace-p6t4 ай бұрын
@@futuswag593I get what you’re saying, but I’m just talking about friendships in general, regardless of gender, as in this day and age feels like friendships are like untangling a mess of wires than a simple connection where societal pressures, heavy reliance on digital communications, and evolving dynamics are making friendships more complicated.
@TheDarkPlace-p6t4 ай бұрын
@@elatafalandoYes. Why you ask?
@nyronlord24254 ай бұрын
What are you talking about?? This has to be the most autistic comment ive seen in a while. Go out an touch some grass.