9 Signs Your Ex Will Come Back... Eventually

[@Vincent_N89]

She came back after 6 months. Thank you Coach Brad for everything; you replied to one of my comments after I told you that she offered friendship. Well she's back and admitted her undying love for me

[@BradBrowning]

That's awesome! Always happy to hear a good ending from one of my subs/clients! :-)

[@MarelRamos-dv2lq]

I am happy for you my friend, i hope same happens to me

[@Supersleuth0987]

Can I ask did you stay in constant contact with her during those months?

[@ephraimcariaso8341]

Yeh we wanna know​@@Supersleuth0987

[@rileyhumphreys1251]

broke up 2 months ago. first month was pure hell, messed up so many times on no contact. actually properly went into no contact after about 3 weeks. gotten to the stage now where i can see a future without her and starting to meet other people.

[@BradBrowning]

Good! It's important to get yourself back to a emotionally healthy and stable place first.

[@ryanminor2334]

Definitely helps! However if you’ve been waiting 5-6 months and they still haven’t reached out or come back, start dating other people. Don’t waste your life waiting on someone, because there may be someone better than your ex waiting. What I’m saying is you can still be open to the idea of taking your ex back if they do return, but take your chances to going out on dates in the meantime if it’s at least been 4-6 months since the breakup.

[@Sugarlips321]

Omg waiting 5 to 6 months is ridiculous unless you were engaged

[@BradBrowning]

At no point should you be waiting on someone. Continue to live your life out there and yes, look at other options and see where that takes you.

[@gigliolagrey6861]

Hi, that's a good point of view. Thank you!

[@comparecards5688]

@@Sugarlips321it’s easy when there is no kids involved!!

[@Ken_Johnson]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

[@DereksFishingFrenzy]

Everything will turn out great for you man, trust the process, time is a powerful thing and if you showed her love respect and safety. I have no doubt she will come back to you. Much love ❤️

[@BradBrowning]

Healing takes time. But at least you tried? Oftentimes I find with my clients, the mistake is they appear way too eager with their exes when it comes to reconnecting and end up shooting themselves in the foot because that kind of eagerness actually pushes an ex away. So did you appear too eager? ?Without knowing anything about your situation I obviously can't tell but if you're convinced you've done everything right though and still got no results, then it may be best to move on from this, man. You can also get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup at www.beatmybreakup.com to help guide you on what more to do during this grieving process. Take care!

[@nancysainhigh1354]

Look up Esoteric Weaver, she is capable of anything. I’m a witness

[@filipkirovski5823]

Same here, love of my life after 5 years relationship we have had a bad breakup 4 months ago and after the breakup she started a rebound relationship after 1 month. I still cannot get over her. I begged her, and she blocked me on everything. 2 weeks ago she unblocked me and started texting me. And she is playing hot and cold with me now, and with the other guy. Everything is fucked up. I am exhausted at this point.

[@daviegonzalez2387]

I don't know, Brother Brad! I'm at this point where I kind of don't want her to come back😂. But life is a mystery!!

[@BradBrowning]

lol well like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.

[@FlamingCockatiel]

1. Had passionate breakup. Feelings were strong. 2. New partner is just like you, whether personality, appearance, or mannerisms. 3. They're stubborn; stubborn are often lonely due to unwillingness to compromise. 4. You're still in the same community and frequent the same places. Avoid them in the short term (month or two). 5. They still try to make you jealous, blatantly dating others to attract attention. Show no sign that you care and don't ask about dating life. 6. They reach out on birthdays or special occasions. 7. They left things open ended. Many ways to break up and reasons for it. Many things standing in the way of relationship are temporary. "I wish things were different" or similar. 8. They're still single. Can be particularly choosy and realize they gave up too quickly; won't get wrapped up in wrong things. Or can't find anyone else and are desperate. Also might not be over you. 9. They want to be friends., as they don't want to be fully without you. Might have mentioned the idea during the breakup and been upset if you didn't agree. It's not a good idea as it puts you in backup position and allows him or her to slowly adjust to life without you, a happy medium. Friendship can be a barrier to connecting on a deeper level. Deflect questions of friendship and spend time with them as you used to. Make contact, but have a plan going in and don't come on too strong. My situation is mixed. Autism makes things complicated.

[@yeaitsravenfr]

hi brad i could really use your help here my ex broke up 2 months ago due to some family issues but then came back as a friend after 30 days of no contact even though she came as a friend it was as if we were dating everything we did while dating was present in that friendship more like a situationship but her exams came and she left she said theres a chance she may or may not come back after exams but did not also shes moving out to a different country soon i could really use your help here

[@BradBrowning]

Hi there! Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@Goatsportscontent]

Hey Brad, really unique situation. My ex was moving out and She broke up with me after the fact, about 2 weeks ago, we were having sex up until the last day and she thought she was possibly pregnant. Just had her period today so We know she’s not pregnant and I am officially beginning no contact. A week ago I wasn’t aware of her concerns so we were talking this last week and I was trying to “be there” for her but I’m concerned I was being too nice, although hard not to be nice in this scenario. Funny that you bring up birthdays because mine is in a little over a month and I’m starting no contact now. Any special tips or advice for me here?

[@BradBrowning]

What were her concerns though? Any concerns should be discussed between you two if you were in a relationship, but once you've been dumped, it's best to cut off contact for at least 30 days to clear your minds and get a clearer view of the situation.

[@SidneyBaston]

Hey Brad, do you know anything about partners with ADHD? I know she struggles to regulate her emotions and a lot of the qualities I’ve learnt since the breakup that I equated to not caring about me, more so seem symptom of an issue she has, I feel I came across as naggy and needy. We live a 1 hour 30 minute train away so I know distance is already a setback too. We ended over a small argument that escalated and it seems she got overwhelmed and broke up. She said she didn’t want to lose me but she just thinks it’s for the best, I did beg a bit for like a week or two because she would initiate contact. She said the conversation seemed to be getting somewhere and then asked for space. She says she just wants time but is also scared I’m gonna move on and see other people in between but it also wouldn’t be fair to make me wait. It’s only been 2 days of no contact but I’m just worried, thankfully I’ve developed since my last break up where I was a sobbing mess and I’m emotionally okay but feel I came across as needy when trying to just provide logical solutions, which I realise was now stupid. Sorry for the whole story but I really do love her and I don’t feel she was the issue or me, it was her ADHD that she’ll always have and I need to adjust to that and I only had what I equated to a “normal” relationship to base things off.

[@BradBrowning]

It works more or less the same but needs a little extra patience and understanding on your part. If your situation is unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@ashutoshchandan3333]

My ex bf and i broke up recently....it was a 2yrs long relationship....I was his first gf. I guess he was cheating on me (since all the signs which u showed a cheater can have in another video, he was having). He has blocked from everywhere. I tried my 100% to save our relationship and remove toxicity. Will he return back??

[@BradBrowning]

If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique and things aren't often black and white, I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz or sign up for my coaching program so I could take a closer look at what your situation and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!

[@ashutoshchandan3333]

@@BradBrowning he returned after 17 days.....he wasn't cheating it is clear....but still I am able to see some kind of toxicity in our relationship....pls guide me that what i must do??

[@hbt135]

so im in this really confusing situation. me and my ex broke up after being wildly on and off for years. he wasn't emotionally capable enough to be with me, and i told him i was waiting for marriage, if you know what i mean. initially he was enthusiastic about waiting for me because he wanted to be with me, but a few days later he felt that he had "needs" and that it was a dealbreaker. of course i was heartbroken, he was the one who came back to me and told me how much he needed me in his life, and i laid out all of my boundaries and needs if he and i were to move forward. about 2 months from the day he came back, he proceeded to block me on everything, and i haven't reached out to him since. im not sure what to make of everything. i guess i wish i had some clarity, if he misses me or still loves me, even though im not sure if it would be a good idea to take him back in the future

[@BradBrowning]

What happened to you both? An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

[@RawanNabeel-i9u]

He left me after two months of dating and he said that he is (not ready for a relationship even tho he still loves me and that i was his true love ) after that i went crazy and begged him and he did not come back :( and refused to see me or answer my call he answered my msgs and said that we need time to move on but we should do .. what should i do coach ? I'm sad cuz i felt that i finally found "the one" and he left me should i wait or move on ?

[@Jules-740]

Im i. A worser situation than yours. At least you stand a chance. The guy just ghosted me and i thought he was the one.😢

[@BradBrowning]

If he's the one, he will come around sooner or later, but don't be desperate. Give each other space first. Just make sure you don't make the number one mistake here : y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqDRfqeCe9RjZpI AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!

[@elizabethkent9404]

Hey Brad, my ex and I broke up yesterday after having been together for about 2 months in a very serious relationship. He broke up with me because he said he was scared of doing long distance again like he had in his previous relationship where it had turned out poorly. And said he didn't want to date any longer and possibly reconsider because it would be a waste if time and investment because he couldn't 100% guarantee the relationship would work out. He said he would text me some to check in and that we could be friends and meet uo for coffee two times this month and he would reconsider if we should get back together. I also implemented the no contact rule. Are these okay signs that there is a chance of us getting back together? Especially since previous to just this week he had been open to long distance and said he still loves me and that I did not wrong him in our relationship and that I made him happy.

[@BradBrowning]

It's really all too soon to tell. Remember, mixed emotions on both sides are very common when a breakup is still fresh. Here's this to consider: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rpOngaRoaL6UhKc so take the free quiz if you wanna know what your chances are, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz However, that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z5ytYqyYqqt8fqc Best of luck!

[@babayaga3241]

Sir, after 1 week of during no contact my ex girlfriend texted me, "Do you still love me or not? do you still have feelings?" I replied "No, I respect you and about the decision and I'm happily busy doing with my life "(I do have feelings for her) and she just reacted heart emoji to my text and didn't respond. So what's now? Did I make a mistake by saying no? Will she reach out to me again? what should I do now?

[@BradBrowning]

Believe it or not, that's what I call the "validation-seeking" text and believe it or not, your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and I've got just the vid for that. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message and when and/or how to reply, including what not to text, (so watch to the end of the vid) here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qpbZY2Cip6-kbdE Good luck!

[@thegamerbot4860]

My ex recently told me she got cheated on from her rebound. I’ve been in no contact for almost a month. I don’t believe she has gotten through her relief stage and she still seems mad at me and wanting to start problems and something happened that she should’ve been sorry for but she didn’t say sorry and when I brought it up she didn’t sound sincere. What do you guys think she’s feeling?

[@BradBrowning]

Give it some time for her to process her feelings first and let her come to you when she's ready. Actions will speak louder than words. Look out for signs of regret/remorse on her end and see how things progress.

[@thegamerbot4860]

@@BradBrowning which videos of yours explain what signs are of regret/remorse. Also what was the point of her telling me this?

[@austinhanold3313]

Hey Brad, so my Ex and I broke up about two months ago, I’ve tried to implement the no talk rule on multiple occasions, but then she calls me, texts me and it’s very much hot and cold. Sometime flirty, sometimes anger and overall it’s confusing because she knows I can’t just be her friend but she pushes to remain active in my life through communication. Any help is appreciated.

[@BradBrowning]

When she initiates, have you tried to escalate things on your end? Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m5zCZaqmoLtpbMU AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/jWjMdGCdfdKNaKM it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJiyeGypZsuUmZo

[@kendrcknelson]

Hey brad, my ex still has my clothes and things i bought her and still follows my mom on instagram and still has me logged in her netflix with my profile name on it. is there a sign shes truely over me even tho she has blocked me on all platforms besides instagram? Her sister also has me on everything and she talks to me here and then but my ex doesnt want her talking to me or talking about why she wont respond to me to her. btw we have been split since august now and im 19 and she turns 18 next month. i was planning to go back to her city to get my clothes back but was gonna use a excuse why im there is that a good idea to make her miss me?

[@kendrcknelson]

also met her off a app named Yubo last year of December we started talking and started dating March of this year and it lasted 4 months.

[@BradBrowning]

Getting over someone takes time, granted your relationship was serious and long-term. This is where you put the no contact rule into place and use this to your advantage and at the same time, heal yourself as well. Here's the answer to your question: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nKqaYXuFdsmiqq8 and she's truly over you if you see more signs mentioned on this vid: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKqtg6OerKmWl5Y

[@ahnaftabib4848]

After breaking up , started no contact and ngl i begged a bit but eventually gave her the break up. She wanted to stay friends (we were friends before relationship) but i politely refused the offer. After 5 days she called me , and I didn't pickup, just replied casually, she asked "how am I holding up?" i said "not bad trying my best". 1 month has passed but didn't hear anything from her. Am I doing it right or is there any mistake?

[@BradBrowning]

That's what I call the "check-in" text and believe it or not, your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and I've got just the vid for that. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message and when and/or how to reply, including what not to text, (so watch to the end of the vid) here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qpbZY2Cip6-kbdE Anyway give it two to three more weeks before giving her another text message. Apply the tips from one of my vids if you're not getting my Ex Factor Guide. Good luck!

[@ghazalhmn]

Hi Brad!we broke up 1 month ago.we were together for a year and half.we had a great relationship,but I wanted to get married but he didn't.after several attempts,he announced that he couldn't.I implemented the no contact rule for a month since we broke up,but there is no news.Is there any hope?!need your help

[@BradBrowning]

I see... but isn't a year too soon to decide or evaluate if marriage is on the table for you both though? If you're in a hurry, however, then getting him back when he's in that state of mind may not be the best idea. Give yourselves space first to think things clearly.

[@SreySrun]

Hi Brad, so he broke up with me a month ago and I go no contact then he rich out to me acting like he still had power over me I ignored that, he trying to see if I still here for him and he turn off , he text me every week or three day just to say hi ! I feel he he not sure about me but he don’t want to lost me and he going through family issues right now that why he broke up with me! So what should I do with this every time he rich me I don’t show him that I’ve been upset or angry that he left me I just be nice acting like nothing break up not bother me , we’re been together for almost 2years but no family involves yet just me and him we are traveled together did relationship things just he not posting me yet I’m not mine that so what your opinion ? Thanks for all your videos 🙏

[@BradBrowning]

If you've already completed the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you can respond to your ex casually. Keep things fun and light and don't get into drama of any sort with your ex, so don't talk about feelings or the relationship just yet. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYWvm6yYrs6UeLM If you do the steps right, your ex will likely be the one to bring up the idea of the relationship again. Check out my other videos too for more tips or get my 2.0 version of the Ex Factor Guide so you'll be guided accordingly every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy Best of luck!

[@SreySrun]

@@BradBrowning well after he broke up with me 2 weeks he rich out to me I’m response to him casual I always reply him every time he text so we don’t really not talk for 30 days

[@SandfordMichelo]

Brad Browning you are the BEST coach .although I haven't gotten back with my ex.

[@BradBrowning]

Thank you. And I feel you. Not all relationships are meant to be salvaged or can be salvaged. If you're looking to or are having a hard time moving on, consider gettting my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com

[@SteveWhite-cb1ct]

Hey brad your videoes are awesome! My seperated wife has starting talking about us in the future..but she still is hot and cold? Help please? Thanks

[@BradBrowning]

Not bad...but how long have you two been separated and what was the cause? The process of saving one's marriage is a bit complicated and in fact, does NOT make use of the "no contact" rule... but this is why I've released a second book called Mend the Marriage. Check it out at www.marriageguy.com as everything is on there, from how to communicate more effectively, down to how to handle the kids (if applicable), monitor your progress through worksheets and stuff. But while I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU or sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program at www.marriageguy.com/coaching Take care!

[@shyamaaakunth3144]

Hi could you please help. I was with a very good guy and we have been together for more than 6 years. We about something where he thought we can’t come to a common point. So he broke up. Could you please tell me if he’ll come back?

[@BradBrowning]

You ought to watch/review the tips here first, especially the first part, although I recommend you to watch the entire video to get the full gist: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eH23cmevn7mWaKs and a quick overview here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Once you've completed the "no contact" rule for at least 30 days straight, then it's time to RE-ESTABLISH CONTACT with your ex. Start out with the tips from here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqDRfqeCe9RjZpI Also check out my other videos on my channel for more tips on what to do next and/or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide for a comprehensive step-by-step process on how to go about this. Good luck!

[@Rsg77h]

Hey brad. I had most of these signs except the contacting and birthday part. Although I didn’t say happy birthday to him either. We are in no contact for eight months now. I don’t have him on social media but he sees every story my mom posts. He broke up with me open ended. But he is in complete silence for eight years. By the way we had a messy breakup and the reason was because i did a terrible thing to him and overall our relationship was kinda toxic. What should i do?

[@BradBrowning]

Are you both single now and do you think you're ready to give it a try? Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b32mYpitnKeef7M If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE And lastly, depending on how you handled things all throughout the process, you may have to wait longer, which I’ve discussed here: y2u.be/OzVymYnQFTk

[@Zi-mg6rv]

Did he come back?

[@dorneeeuring6103]

Good morning Brad, how are you doing? I must say the no contact rule does work, but unfortunately in my case it has ended up with me and my soon to be ex-wife getting a divorce. I realize that when you’re mate break your trust, that’s a hard pill to come back from the sad part about it is when I told her the truth, and she found out that I did tell the truth she began to unravel badly I didn’t know how to save her From getting out of that terrible headspace that she put herself into. Part of me still loves her, but as a grown man, I don’t need to be looked over my shoulder to make sure my wife feels secure at the end of the day. Watching my every step when it’s her that can’t get rid of people from her past.

[@BradBrowning]

It does take some work to get back to where you're at. Does infidelity has something to do with this breach of trust? If so, then you may want to try out the tips from this vid: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fH_EaaGPo9Wiqa8

[@TheBeliever-z8j]

Heyy charmm.. hello.. love from India.. I broke up with my ex amlost 7 months ago..I came across your videos just after a week of breaking up.. started no contact peroid..got lot of success right away..after the peroid of no contact made lots of mistakes in the heat of the moment..this period of 5-6 months goes like we talked frequently got mixed treatment..I always waited for her to contact me after that I've chased her each & every time..made mistakes..had a fight multiple times..I know I've fucked it up..not so badly I would say but yahh..the only reason of that she never cleared on her stand of breaking up that mixed thing bothers me a lot..I've always asked her to clear things for me but she never done..two weeks ago we had a fight over some issue..I started doing the process all over again but I am worried that will it goes on right way ?? What should I do ? Any suggestions?

[@BradBrowning]

What kind of fights were you having? Were you pressuring her for a commitment? Is the fights were more or less the same ones you've been having when you were in a relationship, chances are it might be over for good. Whatever the case, be sure to cut off contact for at least a month or two.

[@TheBeliever-z8j]

@@BradBrowning in both ways I was pressuring her for a commitment..& also she was trying to make me jelous & I reacted 🤐 I've strategy no contact 15-20 days ago going well because this is the 2nd time I am doing full month of no contact..I am feeling much better about myself & she started posting sad quotes & lyrics on social media.. as I've cut off all the communication..me doing well in life I wonder knowing this even I've made lots of mistakes allow her to slowly fade away my presence from her life even after 7 months of breakup she has feelings for me..that's great I'll not do any mistakes further let's see hope for the best.. I've another question she left some of her stuff on my place & she asked for that few days back I've also bought some gifts for her when we were in contact after a breakup..should I give all those gifts to her or should I hold on ??

[@duckymomo1687]

i hope you will answer this. My ex gf broke up through facetime call 3 weeks before my trip to visit her and i have to cancel it now. The last time we talked i might have been rude to her because i was angry and i brought up the thing that makes she very angry. I texted her that i will accept her breaking up, i will cancel the flight so that i don’t want to bother her and we broke up because of the pressure of long distance and want to be in the same city together, even though she has applied to a master program in germany which is the place we want to go together but she just got a new place in her country and she doesn’t want to risk of losing the place + the unknown answer from the school admission. Honestly i love her a lot, i texted her that i love her and i wish her the best. Do you think i should message her before i go to Germany? (which is 3.5 months from now)

[@BradBrowning]

If she's pressured and/or unsure, it's best to leave her alone for a bit after the fight. Let her cool her jets first and sort out her own life. Also take time to calm down because getting into more drama with your ex will certainly not help right now, yeah? This vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pKHYgpVndrWGl7c

[@alphaomarjallow676]

Brad. No contact is the best and free

[@BradBrowning]

It hurts a lot especially at first, but it does get better in time. Do it for at least 30 days and make it as productive as possible living your best life out there!

[@BradyIV]

My girlfriend of 7 years left me 2 weeks ago. She’s severely depressed, miserable, and wants to work on herself. She did say she hopes that eventually our paths cross again but idk. I want her back, and it has only been 2 weeks so what should I do?

[@BradBrowning]

Use this time productively and work on yourself. You can reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYHGl3qbf9aIj9E including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmesZp5ratWheac but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

[@rolondajones]

Brad Browning How Do I get my Ex Boyfriend back I believe he's in a Rebound Relationship??????????

[@BradBrowning]

Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/ZyJRphwDca4 and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/jYepi4mne6l5jJY now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in KZbin to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!

[@arkrish85]

Hi Brad, my ex's contacted me on last Dec 2023. After almost year of no contact. We met. But she said I don't have love feelings on me . She said i shall move on. But when i texted her that i want walk away from her life, she said that she miss me sometimes and gonna regret to letting me go. The current situation is she is replied my message in the morning. I am totally confused here. 😢

[@BradBrowning]

How long have you been in a relationship with her? Because it's been a while since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4e5mo2jjperZqs and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

[@arkrish85]

@@BradBrowning I have been relationship with her for 10 months. Then we broke up. Thank you for your reply.

[@BLAKEEATS1988]

I tried his method about 8 years ago. My ex didn't come back, but I got myself back. Thanks Brad.

[@BradBrowning]

Not all relationships are meant to be salvaged. Some are better off left in the past and whether it's the former or the latter varies per situation.

[@preciousbless5736]

😂😂😂😂

[@mathewjacobson2791]

Hey what to do if your ex is making out with you but you're not dating

[@BradBrowning]

Watch these first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p6Coi5yGo554fpI AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/pomugat3jcaopMU

[@eshekamethilda3740]

My ex just posted with a girl after posting sad stories after our breakup which happened a week ago...what does it mean?

[@BradBrowning]

It's best you try to put your focus elsewhere (best to put focus back to yourself) because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXyoZ6GYaZKhmqM Watch this, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/inPXk2ZqnN5psNk This should hopefully get you back on track with what you ought to be doing during this time: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZOleqeqhriUoZY However, if the relationship lasts for 6 months or more, it's probably best to start moving on from this.

[@basicinfo2022]

He's trying to make you jealous probably. Don't react. Mine is doing the same. Partying and taking pictures with female friends and his arms around their waist.

[@kill3rclown690]

Hey brad. Im here because i recengly was in a love triangle. I loved 2 people. Still do. Im with one of them currently. But i worry her and i wont workout. I miss the other person so much but i cant talk to them cuz itd be considered cheating. They posted online saying i dont care even tho i do care. I just wish i can talk to them :(.

[@BradBrowning]

It is cheating and not all cheating are physical in nature. Majority are emotional. It's time to figure out what's going on with you, so hire me as your coach so I get to know more about your situation and be more equipped to give advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@Food_fun_786]

Does no contact works in long distance relationship??plz reply

[@BradBrowning]

This applies to a long distance relationship, yes.

[@Heer-bs5rr]

She’s in rebound but blocking and unblocking me on instagram, but not reaching out. What does it mean?

[@BradBrowning]

Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/ZyJRphwDca4 and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB

[@Heer-bs5rr]

@@BradBrowning thank you coach! I will follow your instructions.

[@kenbear9290]

My ex has been blocking and unblocking my insta for 3 years so I won’t know I viewed her story but I’ve caught her looking before she blocked. We’re together 6 years. I thought she was the one.

[@mxrosetea]

Hey brad, ex and I have been apart for three months now after a four year relationship. She reached out to me while she was dating her ex wanting emotional comfort, wanting a shoulder to cry on, and wishing I could be there for her in person. All of a sudden she stopped talking to me. I hope she comes back soon, she and her ex broke up about 11 days ago.

[@BradBrowning]

That's too soon and if possible, in your case, let her approach you first. I suggest to give her time to be by herself so she can make up her mind about important matters because if she went back to her ex even after all these years, then chances are there's something going on between them. Be sure that's finished for good first before you get in the mix, yeah? Good luck!

[@Y1507-x5b]

I have a question I hope you answer How many chances should you give an ex? And is it okay to give them more the third or more chances?

[@BradBrowning]

If an issue is recurring, there shouldn't be more than two chances given because it's unlikely your ex will change permanently. So take time to observe first.

[@Lilbean94]

My ex and I have been broken up for about 6 years. We dated for about 2.5 years but have kept in contact over the years. She’s been dating the same individual since we’ve broken up. We still communicate every week and would hangout often a few times a week while her daughter was on summer vacation. This past week, we’ve hung out a couple times to take our dogs for walks or the dog park. I brought up wanting to get a house in the future and she said the place she’s currently at with her significant other isn’t really a place she wants to be at. She stated that they both want different things in life and can’t imagine committing marriage wise to them. I’m not sure if she’s happy or not at this point. Earlier today, she sent me a text of some screen shots for a couple bands coming to town and I have a feeling she wanted me to ask if she’d wanna go but I kind of played dumb because I’m not one to try to overstep boundaries, especially if she’s involved with someone else. What should I do?

[@BradBrowning]

It's tough to tell at this point whether or not you're deep in the friendzone or she still holds a candle for you. It could go either way. But just because she's dissatisfied with her relationship doesn't necessarily mean she's looking at you as a viable option either, especially since so much time has passed. Consider hiring me as your coach so I can help you sort this out and what your next step is, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@miminini9857]

​@BradBrowning hello Brad ! Since two months we have been in contact...via email. Met two times, he invited me, let me touch his hand, had lunch together. Its been 3 weeks that i am not initiating contact....he started to initiate like one phone call per week. We are supposed to meet and to figure out if we are going to get back together or not. Guess what ? He is postponing the meeting each week. I stay calm, i dont make any reproches.. nor i ask him when will he be free to talk seriously.....i am giving him space & peace.....though i am confused and frustrated about his behaviour.

[@BradBrowning]

Hi! How long has it been since the breakup and have you cut off contact for 30 days yet? If you haven't cut off contact yet for at least 30 days, then you should prioritize that instead of interacting with your ex. On the other hand, IF you have already cut off contact, then you're on the right track. There's no need to redo the no contact just because it didn't exactly went well the first time or you're not getting the response you anticipated. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gX6wp2yin8mloc0 and be guided accordingly based on the phases of what needs to happen, here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk but as it is, if your situation is too unique and doesn't fit the mold, sign up for my coaching program so I can guide you properly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@miminini9857]

@@BradBrowning Hello !, thanks for your reply. Breakup is since 20th December last year. Did not do No Contact. We were keeping in touch since january on and off. Met in February. Now since he is playing mind games with me ( i am talking about postponing the meeting ) .. i think i will do a 30 days of No Contact. And for sure since january i did not commit any wrong steps, begging, needy etc.. Thanks for your wonderful videos, Lisa 🙂...

[@ZJesper-o2q]

I just finished my no contact after two months breakup. I asked her to meet up she agreed but as good friend Is that a good sign

[@BradBrowning]

Focus on texting and try not to meet up when one of you or both of you aren't ready yet. The phase you're on (assuming you've done the first phase correctly which is the 30-day no contact rule) is the second phase where you're rebuilding attraction. Lots of folks fumble this one when they're not ready. Anyway it's part two of the 3-phase system in my guide but here's a quick overview to help you understand better: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but as you go on this phase, you'll notice one or more signs here: y2u.be/nmRM3dZAzDA and the best you can do is to continue to play your cards right and move to the third phase when you're both ready. Good luck!

[@andrewhallam2428]

My ex girlfriend break up with me and started getting nasty after i refusing to be friends with her a few days later. She said, "Don't love and anymore, and she is trying to argue with me and try to make me jealous. She started looking on my social media too accounts i not put anything up.She looked I'm reaction a few times but im now ignoring her now.

[@BradBrowning]

Delivery is everything. How did you go about it? Try to apply the tips here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYiog6mVrpiWa9k

[@andrewhallam2428]

@BradBrowning Thank you for the video you sent me. She asked me how I'm doing. She apologises about everything that happened towards me. She said she had a lot of pressure and her life crap at the moment. She started asking me about when I'm starting my new job. And how my family. She said she fed up with everything at the moment. I think she is starting to feel regret and sadness.

[@PeteJohnson-h2g]

Hey Brad I need your help getting my ex girlfriend back my friend.

[@BradBrowning]

This is what my channel is about. Here's a quick overview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXvXnomYedCVotk Check out my other vids for more reference or better yet, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy

[@MichaelChibueze-d3o]

Its not even up one week she dumped me, after the first week of no contact, she is coming me every day but am scard to respect to her calls pls what will i do at dis stage should i break no contact rule???

[@MichaelChibueze-d3o]

Should I respond to her calls???

[@BradBrowning]

Try to see what she wants first as it could be important stuff. But generally, unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m5zCZaqmoLtpbMU AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/jWjMdGCdfdKNaKM it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJiyeGypZsuUmZo

[@kenbear9290]

@@MichaelChibueze-d3oI wouldn’t ignore and make her feel rejected. She could be testing to see where you are at and will go cold again if you overly respond or respond with to much excitement

[@bearface9706]

Mine deleted me off facebook on my birthday, after 5 weeks of no contact. There were no problems in the relationship, that were discussed anyway... She did beg me to stay friends with her, but I said I can't, I'd just want more.

[@BradBrowning]

Good call on not accepting the demotion. It looks like something caused her to be unhappy to a point where she wanted out, hence she the breakup. This vid may be for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/g2XLaJykbsmnrqs

[@verebzoltan9983]

Amazing content! Helps me a lot in this hard period!

[@BradBrowning]

Good! Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzbin.info”

[@EssyDee-t4z]

My husband has numbed himself to me. It’s hard to know if he cares anymore. He said he’s not in love with me but was extremely in love with me before we separated.

[@BradBrowning]

The process of saving one's marriage is a bit complicated and in fact, does NOT make use of the "no contact" rule... but this is why I've released a second book called Mend the Marriage. Check it out at www.marriageguy.com as everything is on there, from how to communicate more effectively, down to how to handle the kids (if applicable), monitor your progress through worksheets and stuff. But while I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU or sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program at www.marriageguy.com/coaching Take care!

[@eshekamethilda3740]

I tried to make him jealous after our breakup by posting some stories on social media and now he's doing the same. It's been 2 weeks since we broke up at first he was posting sad stories for a week and now he's posting with a girl

[@BradBrowning]

You're doing the right thing by keeping your options open. As tough as it may be, it's always best to come to terms with the breakup and the fact that you're both single now. You doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. This is something I've mentioned here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jYelYZKia5WGpq8 So it boils down to two options, really. 1. Employ no contact and keep your dignity while respecting your ex's decision to breakup (why push yourself to someone who doesn't want you?) or Option 2: Do not do no contact and be pathetic. I always advise people to choose option 1 but really, which option you choose is ultimately up to you.

[@colebart]

me and my ex of 4 years broke up 2 weeks ago. i’ve been forced to communicate with her because we shared an apartment and we had to discuss on who was moving out. i never once begged her to stay but i did shed a few tears and told her i didn’t want the relationship to end when we broke up. i am completely moved out and have no reason to contact her anymore. she seems like she doesn’t even care anymore and literally 2 weeks before the breakup we were talking about getting engaged. i’m just in a state of shock with how fast my life has changed. i’m going absolute no contact starting now. i hope she at least misses me or regrets doing what she’s done

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that but it looks like you're on the right track with resolving to no contact. Your ex is in the first few stages here and it helps to understand stuff from her point of view as well. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqLRonqNhNBshKM

[@MackAroni2k]

Same here bro any update ?

[@colebart]

@@MackAroni2k i’m at a point now bro where i don’t want nothing to do with her. i ended up finding out a lot of things that she was doing behind my back and i deserve so much better. it took about 7-8 weeks to really start changing how i felt about everything. but im so glad things happened the way they did.

[@RicardoHernandez-wl7ut]

Brad,your advice has helped me very much

[@BradBrowning]

Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzbin.info”

[@milo-tg4li]

I met up after 2 months on the weekend that she asked for had a great time said we will do again now has gone avoidant what should I do

[@BradBrowning]

This vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqDWZI1qnZl7hKc

[@lunaeee-q7w]

my ex insisted to stay friends with me. Im pretty sure he is still in love with me and has feelings for me , but the issue is , he is not a forgetful pearson , he remembers all the arguments. I don't know how to change his point of view of that , i've been trying very hard.

[@BradBrowning]

Time helps heal wounds and thankfully, my program as well as the videos on my channel are designed for just that! Isuggest you start with this to give you an overview or condensed version on how to go about this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3Smi6CVotatgck but you're also welcome to get my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy or sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@stefanro695]

She broke up to me for the bad things i didnt in the past because she couldnt take them anymore even if i tried to change myself and put effort and sacrifice . It was a one year and a half relationship. Before she blocked me she said we will see in the future if she wants me back but now she has a realtionship with a guy that seems like me atleast thats what i think . I still try to get a chance to talk to her but she just blocks me every where and says that she doesnt have time for me . I really dont know what to do and i just suffer thinking about her .

[@BradBrowning]

Those aren't good signs, man... but at least you tried? Oftentimes I find with my clients, the mistake is they appear way too eager with their exes when it comes to reconnecting and end up shooting themselves in the foot because that kind of eagerness actually pushes an ex away. So did you appear too eager? Without knowing anything about your situation I obviously can't tell but if you're convinced you've done everything right though and still aren't getting any results, then it may be best to move on from this, man. You can also get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup at www.beatmybreakup.com to help guide you on what more to do during this grieving process. Take care!

[@stefanro695]

@@BradBrowning Yeah i guess i appear too eager . You are right , i dont think i can do more , i tried to much to talk with her , to get in some way to her , but i couldnt , she even called me obsessed . So do i still have a chance ? I really dont know .All i know is that i will see her in school and im scared i will lose myself over her

[@stefanro695]

@@BradBrowning can i do somethinf that might change her perspective?

[@BradBrowning]

I will have to take a closer look to make an honest and more informed decision about your situation so if you're open to hearing what I have to say (negative or positive), consider hiring me as your coach at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@BrandelSaundh-s2y]

Hey brad when should I take my girlfriend on a first date

[@RealG23__]

That’s something u should decide by urself mate

[@RS-hh3et]

After 2 months no contact

[@moonlightprincess449]

I thought it was first date then girlfriend lol

[@BradBrowning]

Did you mean girlfriend or ex girlfriend? If it's a girlfriend chances are it'll happen naturally since you'll both be too eager to see each other. If you meant an ex though, it's time to feel out the situation first and build really positive rapport with your ex first. Do it right and your ex will be the one dying to see you. Good luck!

[@BrandelSaundh-s2y]

@@BradBrowning no I meant it’s my girlfriend

[@mixsong8416]

Hi brad.. me and my ex not talking for a month i assume shes doing no contact also.. but all of sudden i found out thru email that she change her password and cp number in social media 3 days ago.. i dont know if she trying to make me mad or because she know i will receive the email i assume shes already move on

[@BradBrowning]

No, she's not. She's just processing the breakup and with that, changes are bound to happen. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eJnKpKajhJanr5Y

[@sarahjonesmorgan]

Hi Brad my boyfriend broke up with me as he had feelings for someone else. We been together over a week. I am heart broken as I'm 18.

[@BradBrowning]

Depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k

[@alohakiwi]

Yup he wanted to stay friends and I said no and he got so upset he cried and started listing things of how he will be a friend and how much he cared for me. Oh well

[@BradBrowning]

Good call! :-)

[@alohakiwi]

I don’t know why he got so upset I didn’t want to stay friends 🤷🏽‍♀️. We were and he squashed it. What more is there to say and? He knows how to find me if he wants to talk things out but whatever. No contact.

[@starlight1514]

What if the new person is total opposite of you?

[@BradBrowning]

That may just be who happens to be available. But if you meant your ex is now getting on with someone who has the opposites of your bad traits, then this means you may have to consider moving on from this ex and become a better version of yourself.

[@johnberry4728]

Jesus it's been 8months now so how much longer am just enjoying being single now but still love her like mad

[@BradBrowning]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Do you think you're ready to give it a try? Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b32mYpitnKeef7M If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE

[@dillo5881]

Brad, we make up to break up, and at this point I’ve been left sooooo many times I can’t even count, honestly. I just had her back, and there was a blowup fight over sexual tension, she said I only care about myself and not her, which isn’t true at all. So she said she needed space, and she’s looking like she’s out the door yet again. HELP

[@BradBrowning]

Are you both happy with that kind of on and off dynamic in your relationship? An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

[@Gem7878]

Mine was on a dating app immediately. Wondering if that means he never cared, or just wanted to rebound/replace me.

[@BradBrowning]

If your relationship lasted for more than 6 months, chances are it's the latter.

[@kendrcknelson]

my relationship lasted 4 months

[@07hsso]

its already been 7 months of break up and he is still so cold to me and the reason we broke up was his decision 😢

[@BradBrowning]

Since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4e5mo2jjperZqs and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

[@B.ss.B.]

He monkey branched after a fight. We'd been on and off for 4 years (his blow ups). He'd been slowly pulling away but created a fight to end it...blocked me on everything and told me to leave him alone... Posting pictures of his new relationship over facebook even after i begged him not to. I begged for a few weeks. Its been 2months.... I miss him so much, he was my best friend! To have him just cut me out of his life like im nothing and NOT even want to keep the friendship has torn me apart. 😢

[@BradBrowning]

An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Try to get to the root cause of these fights as those obviously played a role. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

[@jiannisbonatakis]

0 out of 9 signs for me. that went well :) ofc 3y of break are up not helpful. Cant wait that it will get better

[@BradBrowning]

Time can be your ally or it can be a hindrance. Since it's been many years since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4e5mo2jjperZqs and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

[@stevehenderson1654]

I'm in the middle of a divorce my girlfriend has broken it off twice.can I get her back

[@BradBrowning]

An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

[@BruceJC75]

It had nothing to do with me. She said she loved me whole heartedly, but she has to deal with a trauma bond with her abusive ex husband. She is coming back to work where I work, so we’ll see how that goes.

[@BradBrowning]

Do limited contact instead and keep any conversation you have strictly work-related, especially the first 30 days after the breakup. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck

[@davidkelly1639]

But this doesn't apply is she's already got a new BF and she says she's "committed" to making it work.

[@BradBrowning]

Only time can tell. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/YVViZmY2x0I and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB

[@jeremyschonfeld1490]

How can I get her back after the all lies

[@BradBrowning]

It's much tougher when mistakes are recurring and it depends on your ex's tolerance and patience. The only thing left for you to do right now is to give your ex space and hope that she calms down. In the meantime, go and live your best life!

[@jeremyschonfeld1490]

@@BradBrowning thank you for the advice. I love your videos.

[@unclecondog9807]

@@jeremyschonfeld1490update?

[@aprilstaley8882]

Just starting being friends but he's my sons dad too.... I want him back 😢

[@BradBrowning]

It's an uphill battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck

[@shandy41709]

How long tho.

[@BradBrowning]

These are signs you'll eventually tend to see over time, especially if you play your cards right from the get-go.

[@shandy41709]

@BradBrowning thank u. Funnily enough, he txt me yesterday, and it's like he never left me the way we spoke. He's feeling down, and I Said he could call me if he wants to talk. Even about his rebound and their kid .was that OK?

[@cgip334]

If we had sex last week for the first time since June and it was way more intimate than before…a lot of kissing and even holding hands…what does that mean?

[@BradBrowning]

Feelings are likely developing between you two again. How's your communication with each other?

[@cgip334]

@@BradBrowning we talk here and there. Saturday we spent the night together. We didn’t have sex because she’s on her cycle. We just cuddled. At first she claimed she just wanted friendship…then we later end up having sex. She claims all she wants is sex. You think she still has feelings and is scared of being hurt again by me so she acts like she doesn’t care/want more or do you think she meant what she said? Saturday we was at a party and my friend told Me she came up to him asking where I was

[@leterniteeternite3565]

Hahha imagine 15 years in the making without any contact those years he married and divorced now for 2 to 3 years and then now he contacted me after 15 years and after long talked and VC in a day haha now it's been 2 days I haven't heard any from him but he didn't blocked me 😂 dang I'm so confused 😅 haven't heard any but it's Okey haha

[@BradBrowning]

You've both probably moved on and you were the most convenient one to reach out to when he divorced. A lot of time has passed and you're both most likely on different emotional stages in your life, so just try to observe first and see what he does next...but be careful of NOT becoming his rebound. Keep your options open! :-)

[@DogMommy.]

Ex said he needs a break but comes everyday to see hes son which is ok but it makes me emotional eveeytime he leaves

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. If it's any consolation, that's a normal reaction and your mind and heart are trying to adjust to these changes. Be sure to be kinder to yourself during this time, yeah? If you have kids and/or other responsibilities still tied to your ex, it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule instead of the full on silence associated with the no contact rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYXNdnR9f7yHq6M AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/mnW9o6GEnZ1_hck or for a comprehensive guide on how to go about things, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!

[@angeliquerodriguez4428]

The new girl is the complete OPPOSITE of me. And he got with her barly a month after the break up

[@BradBrowning]

That sucks. I'm sorry to hear that. However, the 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k Your ex is diverting his attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXyoZ6GYaZKhmqM So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYalf5dspal8hK8 so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control whether the rebound ends up working out or not. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/inPXk2ZqnN5psNk Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA

[@basicinfo2022]

I would message her because she's probably being used as a rebound, and he's exposing himself as having cheated on you because he was probably talking to her while dating you...

[@trevorndhlovu3381]

9 signs your ex will come back 1) you had a messy break up 2) They're dating someone just like you 3) They're stubborn 4) Still in the same community 5) They try to make you Jealous 6) They reach out on special occasions 7) They left things open ended 8) They're still single 9) They want to be friends

[@RedSquirreLx]

dude if they are with someone else you have to write them off! aint no coming back after that!

[@BradBrowning]

Yes or wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/ZyJRphwDca4 and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/jYepi4mne6l5jJY now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in KZbin to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!

[@johnberry4728]

Have tryed everything and nothing at all so now give up hope of getting back together she cheated not me

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o2OahX-brrqgrck There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with her if you can see she no longer wants to try. Take care!

[@eshekamethilda3740]

Does no contact effect him even if he's not contacting me??

[@BradBrowning]

This vid is for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXzTZnqwibd3hNE

[@sarcasticmind3459]

An ex should never come back!

[@BradBrowning]

They may or may not come back. What you do when they do is entirely up to you!

[@katiestarling665]

You completely ignored the possibility that they are single and just not interested in being an any relationship. Not everyone who is single is in search of a relationship. I am dealing with that and I am just being patient and maybe one day if/when they are open to being in a relationship, it will happen. I believe he does still love me and always has, but he prefers single right now because he is a huge introvert and is a single parent - I am in the same situation too. I cant make someone want a relationship with me when they don't want one at all with anyone. (I think it has a lot to do with bad previous relationship/women experiences)

[@BradBrowning]

Hi! I appreciate your thoughts. If it's an ex we're talking about, chances are they are in the market. If it's a fling, however, then yes, that's a different story and yes, you can't make someone commit to you if that's not what they're looking for. Take care and I hope you find the right guy who won't think twice to make you his girlfriend soon! :-)

[@RS-hh3et]

Bradley Browning is a great guy

[@BradBrowning]

Hey thanks for the kind words! :-)

[@nerdygamerguy8378]

I'm way happier without her

[@BradBrowning]

No contact isn't just the first step if you want to get an ex back. It can help you move on, too and the same goes for your ex. So if you're more at peace and happier without your ex, it's best to continue moving on so you'll have the space to be with someone new. All the best!

[@bonettemoraschannel3508]

My x always comments my post and gv heart buts till no hahaha

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. I suggest you start with this to give you an overview on how to go about this: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but you're also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

[@charlesdemar9612]

9 yrs we broke up have kids and live together..ive tried but she says no.i think im gonna tell her to move,she hasnt been without aside from 2 weeks..alone shell realize things..thoughts?

[@BradBrowning]

It's another story if you live under the same roof after a relationship ends. I suggest you do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!

[@Ali44306]

Make a video how to leave ex girlfriend.

[@BradBrowning]

Stay tuned! :-)

[@jellymedina]

He broke up with me a month ago. New woman looks like me

[@BradBrowning]

It's best you try to put your focus elsewhere (best to put focus back to yourself) because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXyoZ6GYaZKhmqM Watch this, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/inPXk2ZqnN5psNk This should hopefully get you back on track with what you ought to be doing during this time: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZOleqeqhriUoZY However, if the relationship lasts for 6 months or more, it's probably best to start moving on from this.

[@danielmar4532]

Im 0-9 guess i should move on

[@STLCardsfann]

I feel ya, it's been over a year now, I've done the 30 to 50 days no contact, nothing seems to work, I've pretty much lost all hope.

[@BradBrowning]

If you've been playing your cads right and nothing seems to work or there's been an overall lack of progress, it may be time to move on from this, especially if the breakup happened more than 6 months ago. Take the free quiz to find out what your chances are, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Answer as honestly as you can to get the most honest result of which direction you need to take. Good luck!

[@danielmar4532]

Mines a covert narcissist. She had no empathy. Not once after the breakup I asked for her back. But since it's been 3 months now. I see the relationship for what it was. And have no desire to get back with her.. I'm a business owner. And a pro bodybuilder. There are plenty of options for me

[@bradlymcfarland2303]

I found out my ex got into a relationship during our 3 month no contact period. Im absolutely shattered...

[@BradBrowning]

Sorry to hear that. The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKiTdJurjah4o9k Your ex is diverting her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXyoZ6GYaZKhmqM So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYalf5dspal8hK8 so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control whether the rebound ends up working out or not. Watch this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/inPXk2ZqnN5psNk Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA

[@basicinfo2022]

If she's the dumper then no contact is forever until they reach out to reconcile...

[@hitmanlamar8544]

This is my second breakup. She was very much attached to me and always kept coming back untill we had a fight and went no contact for 50 days. We were in a long distance breakup. I reached out to her 2 days back, didn't talk much, just a hi - hello convo. Then I msged her today and started a light hearted convo, at the end of which she herself asked me the true reason of me reaching out, we ended up reminiscing on the past. We even laughed. It was a cordial conversation without crying. But she told me in the beginning that "somethings are not meant for life and future". She worriedly kept asking me if I haven't moved on to which I asked her if she had, she said yes 🥺. We continued talking, she kept messaging by herself, and told me all about her new achievements. I was genuinely happy. We are in a Long Distance relationship Can she be lying about her moving on ? (During the breakup, she lied about not being in love, which she confessed 1 day after that it was a lie). She was very positive throughout. Should I keep messaging her and try to establish frequent talking like before and gradually flurt and build attraction ? Or directly tell her that if she wants to be back ?

[@BradBrowning]

The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYK8ZYFmadqpqqM AND kzbin.info/www/bejne/a5_JiIWAh9ehd9U However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching