Bravo's Double Standard - Jennifer Aydin Has a Job & Kenya Moore Does Not

RHONJ Season 14, Episode 8. The physical altercation between Danielle Cabral and Jennifer Aydin has finally arrived. We break down the hair drama and other facts that led up to the altercation, break down a play by play and discuss who we think is to blame for this mess of a Troubled Tulum party. We discuss Tre’s claims that she is using Jackie to take down Marge, Rachel Fuda’s claims that Jackie is the laughing stock of Bravo, Dolores’ savage breakup with Jackie and Margaret enjoying it all just a little too much. We discuss the seemingly double standard as Jen and Danielle returned to work after suspension but Kenya Moore is not allowed to return to RHOA. Finally, we discuss an RHONJ without Melissa and Joe, Melissa’s claims of wanting to make up with Kathy Wakile, real life fall outs with Jennifer Aydin and Margaret Josephs and much much more as we are joined by the one and only Andrea Lopez as Teresa Giudice!
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[@julesmaher5637]

Jennifer and Teresa should go

[@sawyersgirl5142]

Margaret should go. People forget she threw a drink at Danielle.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yes

[@itz_Alyssa_xoxo]

Jen Aydin leave the show, fix your broken family, they are the priority. Bill makes good money and will continue to support you and the kids. Ride off into the sunset in Paramis and leave RHONJ behind.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Agreed

[@patriciacallahan3399]

It's spelled Paramus

[@noreliagaeta8505]

Broken Family? What are you talking about! She has a relationship with all of her siblings, sister in law, and parents.

[@FanFanatic561]

@@noreliagaeta8505Except it looks like her husband can’t stand her! 😂😂😂

[@AmyCarmeck]

She's hanging on for endorsement 😅😅😅

[@debracarter6197]

I definitely think there is a double standard. If you are letting Kenya go then Jennifer definitely should have been fired on the spot! Can you answer 1 question? When Kenya was getting ready for the opening of her salon, isn't production in there before anyone else and could have seen that poster/picture and told her to take it down before filming? Just question I have been pondering since this has happened. Just seems like a set up for Kenya. Don't know why I care I don't watch Alt anymore but watched when Kenya started on Atl. Just thoughts.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yes to everything u said Legit yes I agree w alllll of it

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Production has to have known

[@kissad.7985]

This! 👀

[@creativetalentproductions]

Bravo is going to be slammed with multiple lawsuits. They're playing dirty and showing their 🍑. The nepotism is on film from different episodes.

[@vanessarenee1018]

Was it like a slide show so they wouldn’t have necessarily seen it? Or, was it a flat out hanging poster of sorts that everyone could see when they walked in? I’ve missed some of the dets🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Evyann305]

Isn't Porsha going to be on again ? She put hands on 3 people while on the show. She went after some friend of hers all I remember is her chasing her, she fought with Cynthia of all people, and we also saw her get Kenya. It seems that Bravo is just super random and unpredictable. I wish they would get rid of Jennifer A.

[@angeladrayton7490]

Don't forget her trying to jump her baby daddy and his mom. Also she was hitting staff with their own equipment, throwing dishes.

[@Evyann305]

@angeladrayton7490 I didn't even know about that. She's definitely a loose cannon.

[@kristelcorrea769]

And Phaedra is now on Married to Medicine and RHUGT after those creepy knowingly false accusations she made on Kandi (with Porsche).

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yup

[@pattyhughes4953]

And Theresa and her slimy underhanded disgusting husband .

[@zanafeary7339]

They didn’t suspend Marge when she pushed Marty in the pool.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Nope

[@sawyersgirl5142]

Or when she threw a drink at Danielle and then cried wolf when she got her hair dragged over that store.

[@msmariac]

....Teresa Gudice has a job and Monica Garcia does not?

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Insane

[@msmariac]

@@behindthevelvetrope right!!!

[@Marriedintheislands]

Nene tried to rally the rhoa girls, no one stood beside her and if I remember correctly Cynthia, Kandi, and Kenya came out against her. Now Kandi didn’t get the offer she was used to, Cynthia is working a plethora of jobs (good for her) and Kenya is persona non grata and possibly will never be back on nbc/universal. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@janjan55555]

Yeah because she tried to get those same RHOA girls fired in the past !!! Let a b-tch try to get me fired, you will NEVER EVER get my support ever again !!!

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Agrees

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Agreed

[@janjan55555]

@@behindthevelvetrope Why did YT delete my comment?! All I said was; "None of the RHOA girls want to rally behind her, because she tried to get them fired one by one" ===> Again, let a b-tch try to get me fired, I would NEVER speak to that person again!!!

[@nikkienikkie4310]

It's always been a mystery to me where Bravo draws the line in the sand with harassment, discrimination and morals with regard to their Housewives shows. Andy is one man - the "machine" behind the scenes is ultimately accountable. Is it money that protects them? In my business, we'd be sues or fined or shut down if we turned a blind eye to this flagrant disregard for laws and morals. OK - off my soap box. David I love your reviews and intel!

[@CandaceYoung962]

I think a huge part of it is because there's no union and the shows are propelled through a trifecta of production, castmates and the audience. If a performer on the show has at least 2/3 in their corner, they ain't going anywhere.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Same

[@behindthevelvetrope]

And thank YOUUU

[@laurenspiridigliozzi5179]

Honestly, NJ should be cancelled. When the cast is diving two it's hard to make an interesting show.

[@LashenaRodulfo]

Not cancel the show just recast

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I agree

[@adamsnewman5480]

This is why I love you David your team no one. You're true to yourself. Unlike so many others that want to make everything about sides and nonsense. They're inauthenticity shows. Wear your authenticity is clear.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Thank you. AND the problem w people that do what I do that have alliances off air cause they are desperate to be friends w that particular housewife - you know everything they say is slanted and not true

[@PaulO-wb3wi]

You make me laugh! (In a good way) “I’m the smartest person I know.” ❤️❤️❤️

[@behindthevelvetrope]

LOLLLLLL

[@benbelzer8303]

1. Jen and Danielle both physically attacked each other. 2. Kenya clearly did a premeditated thing AND it's very similar in regards to the Rachel Leviss suit context and Bravo is SICK of these suits (so unfortunately for Kenya I think Rachel Leviss inadvertently played a role here). 3. I've never understood how Monique was fired from Potomac but Porsha wasn't fired from Atlanta after attacking women!!!??? 4. Brandi was another case that probably is inadvertently impacting Kenya. Bravo is done with this unwanted explicit stuff. Kenya s timing was horrible. 5. Jersey is a whole other beast compared to Monica Garcia, Monica had no alliances after she was busted, but Jen and everyone else DO have alliances, regarding the social media discovery and MON.

[@angeladrayton7490]

What about Andy who admitted to exposing himself to Brandi while he was drunk. Or it doesn't matter because he is an executive of the show.

[@benbelzer8303]

​@@angeladrayton7490I personally think Andy is leaving, so it's a slow ending for him. This "15 year WWHL anniversary" seems a bit odd to me. It's almost like he's in his Exit Package, saying goodbye.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yes

[@2shejack]

Agreed. The disparities of who’s suspended and who’s not is not is mind blowing.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Same I’m gonna cover ahain

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Again

[@enekembuagbaw8200]

It's being allegedl that the finale at rails is the reason Jen is still on Blc Danielle got extremely physical and Jen was left bleeding then when the options were weighed the American rich family dynamics of Jen is working for Jen Allegedly I tell u what dealing with bravo is like playing chess

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yup

[@ritamix33]

5:46 AGREED!

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Thank you

[@IstandwithKenya]

Heyyyy, I’m gonna say one thing…..I really wish Kenya would come out with what REALLY happened, so she can be vindicated. Don’t know for sure what was shown, this should really be made clear. I still can’t believe it was revenge p, can’t see her really doing that. Still disappointed……

[@kissad.7985]

She is handling it in a professional manner. Kenya is one of the smartest HW. Another side of that story is coming out soon. Watch!? 👀

[@Evyann305]

If she's suing then she won't talk because she wants that check and if she does interviews she might end up contradicting herself.

[@vanessarenee1018]

Is this gonna b another Brandi Caroline thing & we never see?? I really hope not!

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Same

[@firetiger4849]

I’m really annoyed because when the Potomac fight happened Monique was thrown to the slaughter this really is an absolute joke 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I agree with you 1000000000%

[@vanessarenee1018]

Good morning David ☀️ I’m super interested in your legal take! I think what’s happening is if the talent aren’t suing each other, they can let most things slide. Unless, we cross the bigotry line…then it doesn’t matter if nobody’s suing, the public will go nuts so ✌🏽 ie: Ramona. However, if neither party wants to purse anything legal, they get a slap on the wrist & back to exciting TV 🤷🏽‍♀️ Anything track there?

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yup. These are all very good points

[@dinajacobs535]

So did Jennifer try to get you in her pocket too? Jennifer got to come back because I'm sure Teresa had something to with it. I'm sure Teresa said how sorry she was and I'm sure Bravo bought what Teresa was selling until Bravo found out that they were paying bloggers.

[@msjmarie143]

Teresa does not have that kinda power with Bravo

[@dinajacobs535]

@@msjmarie143 on Teresa's podcast she said she brought Danielle back herself her words not mine!

[@msjmarie143]

@@dinajacobs535 She also said on that very same podcast that she doesn’t have power with Bravo. If she did certain people wouldn’t be on the show anymore

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yes

[@catherinewest6378]

I mean Danielle pulling Margaret’s hair unprovoked was probably worse haha. They don’t seem to fire people for this.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yup

[@pattyhughes4953]

You are so right Bravo backs Theresa a reunion wouldn't look well for her or luis.why do you think Jackie and others cozy up to her. They want their jobs . Shame on bravo

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Correct

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Bravo is racist but not everyone will understand or try to see the truth. If Kenya did that she was wrong.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yesss

[@tree51495]

It’s not a double standard. On RHOA, Cynthia kicked Porsha and was not suspended. On RHOP, neither Monique or Candiace were suspended after their physical altercation.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Nice

[@gloriacato7761]

On the fence re double standard; certain Bravo franchises are expected to " act realistically " ergo, you get the attitude and reactions that production required. Most don't have physical, profanity laced tirades at our work place...those do do, it won't matter where they are. These BRAVO mayhem, needs to be viewed individually.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yup

[@ambertosler8961]

Revenge or sex picture role out in the show is worse in my than pushing someone who is right nose to nose in my face come on David. But you have your mind as to how this would work in a court of law as you are or wax a lawyer. If this happened to Dolo or Yeresa they would have maybe done something similar. But, let the public speak. Eather way they were both wrong and at the end of the season when they are at the steak house an actual glass picture was trown at Jen by Danielle and Margert and Dolo get into it rember what Melussas nose said. And lots of people are alleging that it was a pre planned set up. And Teresa has not got Jems back and she goes to Missas sid for a bit. And tells her that she did not have her back. And Melissa said how does Teresa feel that she is making up with Melissa. And the pre planned that is why they were both back after 2 days!! 😮😮

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yes

[@Lifeisgood-zu7gm]

I also say your the best blogger as you dont take sides no matter who your friends with , you say it as it is and call bs even on someone you like if theyre in the wrong , i take people as i find them not in what i hear unless i see it with my own eyes, the show could survive without Margaret & Tree, i think Jen A would drop her guard with everyone , Jenn n Danielle are very much alike, the way they dress is awalys over the , n bougie , Jenns just trying to please Tree n being a "loyal" friend but if Jenn watches all her episodes back she will see how Tree has been using her to spout Trees toxic words and never sticks up for her she just sits back n lets Jenn do it all and when theres a row she runs , i flip flop every week as theyre really showing their true colors and shes left Joe n Melissa out of it bar the foney housewarming present , onli done for the cameras so the fans could see her being nice towards her brother for once , it was cringey n people seen right through it

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yup I agree w alllll of this lol

[@sharonrak5512]

Glad I found this podcast. You are adorable.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Are THANK YOU

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Awe thank you

[@adambensouda5886]

Pushing someone who is in your personal space vs what Kenya is being accused of doing are two separate things and you know that! Neither is right! But one is worse! Danielle was also wrong when she took it a step further! Let’s stop pretending that these people are perfect! All of them can be assholes!! But if Kenya did what they say she did; she should be fired! That’s overboard!

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Nah

[@danarodgers6432]

I think Marge may come back you. Not sure you’d want to rekindle your friendship, but I see her wanting to be your friend again.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Hmm you think?

[@danarodgers6432]

@@behindthevelvetrope I obviously don’t know either of you but it’s just something I sense.

[@SammyCamilleKyle]

Ya know what also sucks, Kenya’s last hurrah on the show (assuming her footage from this season is scrapped) is her trying to serve Marlo with that blank, fake subpoena at the reunion…whomp whomp 😢😢

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Ugh yes

[@benbelzer8303]

Great point 👍

[@thebaddies3408]

People have assaulted people before and stayed on their respective shows. This revenge porn allegation if true is something that's indefensible

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yes

[@eileengrant8529]

I love Jennifer she had evey right to push her out of her personal space. Daniel smashed that cup and drink over her

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Ok

[@ritamix33]

1:10 Wow, i can't believe Jen and Marge tried to drag you into their show drama. Omg....

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Right? I mean I can’t make this BS up.

[@creativetalentproductions]

Those beeches😂

[@newtexan1]

I think you’re being tough on Marge. I lived from the beginning but then as I watched year to year, I realized Marge is a woman that demands 100 loyalty as a friend because she sees herself as a good friend. Being on tv has distorted her behavior because you can’t control everything or anything around you. It’s a shame. Margaret could have ended up on top. She’s an intelligent woman, albeit a bit misguided.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I agree

[@adamsnewman5480]

Get her initial plan was to befriend Teresa? We're not backfired she went over to Melissa.

[@ritalevin4326]

Jennifer came back because of her protector which is why she is always the physical aggressor . I also want to comment on Dolores’s continual “fear” of a Teresa retribution re her remark to Fuda as she defended herself. Ridiculous false fear mongering. “ sleep with one eye open”. Very dramatic

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yes

[@vanessarenee1018]

Is there any truth to the rumors that Dolo only appears ride or die for Tre cause she’s got mad dirt on her? Or, just another rumor?

[@FanFanatic561]

I laughed when she said that to Rachel. 😅

[@nordette]

You know whats strange, if been rewatching old episodes and Dolores used to bring it against Teresa all the time when she thought she was wrong all the time. Makes me wonder what happened 🤔​@@vanessarenee1018

[@user-zz8mh9pd3z]

Oh Jen will get fined and or have sort of consequences. I just think this isn't over with Jen . But whatever Jen .. bye stay don't care because RHONJ has been reaching for a while now haha.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yup

[@nicolecynthia]

🙌🙌🙌

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Thank u

[@aprilmorgan3456]

Okay, maybe you're right. Maybe both of them should go. I'm hoping to just stay.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yea

[@AmyCarmeck]

On an interview with E.T. Margaret said she was unhappy with the way Bravo represented her this season. I am a Margaret fan,however, she comes off as more worried about who is on her side than,then ,let me put my authentic self out there. THATS Why WE LOVE THE MARG.she needs to get back to that.Does that make since 🎉😂❤

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yes it does

[@enekembuagbaw8200]

@@AmyCarmeck yes she has too and she has to understand that as far as Teresa is concerned bravo will side with Teresa first before her they prefer the drama of Teresa allegedly and Marge is not innocent either she sharing Jackie's text msg on air didn't help her either

[@AmyCarmeck]

@@enekembuagbaw8200 Marg is digging her own grave.

[@kissad.7985]

Did I heard David said he is the smartest person ever? 😶

[@behindthevelvetrope]

EVER

[@cathyjackson1016]

Whew! A lot of all over the place rambling. However, when you finally get to the point, I detect sensibility.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I’m brilliant

[@aprilmorgan3456]

Don't let Jennifer go. She could put a show, let the nucleo go with a red awful dress that are helping pot cars. I forgot her name Jenna, I don't know her.

[@MonixaMay]

…wha??

[@jackiebayliss]

What???...

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Fine

[@Octavia1083]

Teresa Giudice and Margaret Josephs has the same kind of nasty spirit that’s why they can’t stand each other.

[@jasminej2844]

They are the same person

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yup