Dolores Catania's Savage End To Her Friendship w/ Jackie Goldschneider

RHONJ Season 14, Episode 8. The physical altercation between Danielle Cabral and Jennifer Aydin has finally arrived. We break down the hair drama and other facts that led up to the altercation, break down a play by play and discuss who we think is to blame for this mess of a Troubled Tulum party. We discuss Tre’s claims that she is using Jackie to take down Marge, Rachel Fuda’s claims that Jackie is the laughing stock of Bravo, Dolores’ savage breakup with Jackie and Margaret enjoying it all just a little too much. We discuss the seemingly double standard as Jen and Danielle returned to work after suspension but Kenya Moore is not allowed to return to RHOA. Finally, we discuss an RHONJ without Melissa and Joe, Melissa’s claims of wanting to make up with Kathy Wakile, real life fall outs with Jennifer Aydin and Margaret Josephs and much much more as we are joined by the one and only Andrea Lopez as Teresa Giudice!
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[@itz_Alyssa_xoxo]

Well done Danielle for raising £25000 for charity!!! 👏🏽👏🏽The charity is what matters

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Correct

[@BettyFL]

Exactly ❤

[@chrisfolsom3298]

All expenses are deducted and then what you have left is donated.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Hmm

[@kissad.7985]

Danielle was pretty straightforward with her stand. She admitted to not having Aydin network and no previous experience with the fundraising stuff. Sounds like Jennifer is trying too hard to create drama. She was probably mad about being caught last season with the way her and Teresa set Danielle up. Being the vindictive individual they are, both want to punish her for it. Not to mention the fact that Bill wasn't praised as she would like too. She is learning from the best so...

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Nice

[@missilynnbotkin2861]

JEN A GETS HER STATUS FROM HER HUSBAND... WITHOUT BILL, SHE HAS NONE...

[@behindthevelvetrope]

@@missilynnbotkin2861 yes

[@SunflowerTravel451]

I have heard of paying the vendors from the charity $$. Sorry I side with Danielle. So no one should do a charity event unless they can afford to come out of pocket?? That doesn’t make sense.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I wouldn’t pay myself back

[@maggieyoung8090]

I don’t believe Danielle said, “she would pay herself back for her time.” That’s Jennifer lying or twisting Danielle’s words, imo. Danielle paying vendors off of charity money, is a standard practice. Even, some of the more wealthy people also do the same. Of course, if you are able to pay for some of those expenses, it’s better for the charity. Negotiate so the vendors donate time, , or a reduced price etc. However, to paint Danielle as shady or stealing, it’s just wrong. Jennifer, didn’t even give her time to model the hairpieces, once she found out she wasn’t being paid! Smh 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@BettyFL]

@@maggieyoung8090I agree completely. 🎯💯

[@deee3950]

Danielle paid the vendors, which is fine. She also says that she PAID FOR HER TIME. Why would you “pay for your time”? You are DONATING your time to raise money.

[@janecurry7563]

I think Danielle did a great job at raising money for her event. This being her first time doing one she may not have thought it was anything wrong came the people back with the money they made. Trial and error she knows better now but Jennifer just wanted to make a big deal out of it and try to make Danielle look bad.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Kinda

[@kissad.7985]

What does it have to do with Jennifer anyway? She could have just tell Danielle that and that would have been the end of it but she is always longing for some uneccessary drama. What does Jennifer think that the narrative she is putting out there will make the potential donors think/believe? How is anyone supposed to trust Jennifer with whatever conversation they may have with her? It's disgusting to jeopardize the whole thing for some cheap shots.

[@minimalist2036]

@@kissad.7985 Jennifer is trying to keep her spot for next season which is why she went there with Danielle. Jennifer is a low blow kind of person so it’s not a big stretch me thinks. Regardless she has no chance of returning because the franchise gets canceled or they’ll recast most everyone

[@behindthevelvetrope]

@@kissad.7985 not sure

[@behindthevelvetrope]

@@minimalist2036 shes gone

[@carolroth440]

In Danieles defense i dont think she has thrown charity events. Her heart was in a good place and next time she will have more people donati.g to the event ❤

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yup

[@benbelzer8303]

We love you David, and we love your show! You put a smile on my face 😊👍🕺

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Love you and next live show being announced This week!!

[@benbelzer8303]

@@behindthevelvetrope I'll be there 👍

[@behindthevelvetrope]

@@benbelzer8303 YESSSS

[@minimalist2036]

I’m team no one also, David, have been for a few seasons. This franchise in general has been over for me for awhile now, put it out of it’s misery

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yea it’s over I agree

[@VanessaCurry711]

I loved when Jackie said Marg talks about u all the time she’s just smart enough to not write it and Dolores says yes she is obviously smart and ur not it was epic!!

[@behindthevelvetrope]

It really was

[@NancyRobinson-jk2ir]

At the end of the day Danielle worked her ass off and raised money for a charity she believes in. If she paid herself back, that takes nothing away from raising awareness for the charity, and doing a good thing. Haters just stop!

[@behindthevelvetrope]

U tell em

[@patclark2398]

You don’t pay yourself back, but we have taken the expense of the facilities from the event income. If I could only plan an event that my association could afford, it would be slim pickings. Because the event covered the out of pocket expenses, my organization could bring in around $100,000.. for our charity.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Nice

[@chayo4537]

?? What does that mean you take the expense from the facility income?

[@behindthevelvetrope]

@@chayo4537 IDK

[@newtexan1]

I missed Melissa from the last episode! I told you I want to see her working and at the beach and her beautiful new home. She’s SO much better without having Teresa around. And it’s clear she doesn’t need awful Teresa!

[@behindthevelvetrope]

She’s happy without her

[@SunflowerTravel451]

@@behindthevelvetrope we all are

[@olivermatias2349]

I wondered why you were no longer friends w Margaret - I must have missed that! Good for you for though - being true to yourself always pays off at least in the long run!:-D xxx

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I agree. At the next live show which is being announced next week someone should ask itn

[@olivermatias2349]

@@behindthevelvetrope itn? Xxx

[@kentnyc]

I might be in the minority here. But, I actually really like Jackie. I find Dolores to be boring since her 1st season. And, I think Rachel & her hubby are the laughing stocks of Bravo. David, great as always, & Happy Pride!

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I love Jackie. Happy Pride 🌈 🌈🌈🌈🌈

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Dolo is boring AF

[@newtexan1]

Nobody likes Jackie. She’s flat out weird.

[@maggiejaunzems1202]

You get people to usually donate On Beverly Hills Kyle said that she has an allowance of 400,000 for her charity so it is common for them to take the money out

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Same but again if I threw an event and I spent 80k I would spend 80k and never ever pay myself back

[@SunflowerTravel451]

@@behindthevelvetrope that’s a personal choice. Everyone can’t afford to do that. Doesn’t mean they should not try to raise money for a charity though. And it doesn’t make it wrong either

[@user-dk9im4gk9n]

There is a lot of negative chatter about Danielle, so I don’t know what to believe about the charity event.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Same

[@vickyr924]

In the real world where we're not millionaires we throw charity events to raise money and the expenses come off the top... there is always 90-95% left for the fund raiser... the alternative is not raising money at all for a charity! So I think Danielle did a good thing because she's new to this world and she did something good!

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I guess I’m outta touch If I throw a charity event I’m not paying myself back

[@vickyr924]

@behindthevelvetrope @behindthevelvetrope to be clear... I don't personally pocket money, but, I do pay for supplies and vendors etc out of money collected. I love your podcast and I just want people to do whatever they can for charities and if they can't afford to cover all the expense that's OK!

[@amethyst413]

Danielle needed to create a much bigger name for herself before throwing a charity event. She is still too new on the scene. Vendors probably didn't donate their services because "who is she" really. If you have to spend so much out of pocket or pay vendors back with the money, then maybe you're not "charity event" level yet.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Correct

[@ritalevin4326]

When exactly does Cabral wisen up?

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Not sure

[@peacehappyb237]

I liked this episode. It says online that Jen's net worth is around 11 million.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

It is not It also says Marge is worth 50 She is not My net worth is on line and it’s not even close to what’s true False no and fake news

[@newtexan1]

Marge has an import company. She’s got the $$. Being able to spend your wealth is another matter.

[@txkitkat1307]

Could we plz just get Rhusbands of any city or MOB Husbands? These women R just tiring 😂

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Yes

[@Wrstlboi4top]

I can’t stand DULLores! Total waste of airtime! D calling anyone pathetic is a joke! Flashing her non existent boyfriends who obviously don’t want her, receiving airtime because her ex husband is likable.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I agree shes a hard pass for me

[@user-dk9im4gk9n]

I like Jen Fessler she seems authentic. I hope it’s not an act

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Nice

[@plainsimple244]

I don't know?... It's just hard for me to watch without Joe, Melissa, Teresa .... I can dig out Dolores and I like how she moves yet boring is boring ... I love the fantasy of Jackie -- I mean she called Dolores sloppy .... Look, one thing Jackie has is a mouth to use and she has a lot to say about everyone; the thing is Margaret is a huge secretary with a specific photographic and typo-graphic memory and she saves everything .... I mean everything, her mind is like a DVR, which is why she always corrects herself if she was inaccurate or she explains her position fully. Sloppy Comment: Honestly, I think in some form you have Jackie being attracted to Dolores but she more than likely could not come through ... I've always thought Jackie and Melissa had a 'thing' going on, remember how Danielle (the original one) hinted at it because Melissa kept agreeing with everything Jackie was saying or suggesting ... so now with her eating disorder, now she blames someone else for it since the show and now all of a sudden Dolores is the sloppy one .... I take that to mean Jackie really wants to give Dolores a wet sloppy kiss, just one time before she leaves and I don't think Dolores is into her that way ... now Melissa/Dolores are 'friendly' and play around and Dolores lets Melissa touch and touch and dig and touch but it's only a grab-friend fest and for what reason, I have no idea but envy -- I like her this and her that so let me touch it and grab it because I wish I had it -- I mean that can be the only real reason why Melissa would touch, touch, grab on Dolores 'The DeLorean' Catania ... those wings open up it's go-time and it's fast and sloppy with Melissa in the passenger's seat. Conclusion: At this point Jackie has to make a pass at Dolores or Melissa to stay on the show, at least have a confessional or a secret talk with one of them confessing your passions because it's really eventful if this type of discourse happens, just letting Melissa or Dolores know that you are open to being married and faithful while being a play-person friend at a convenient time travel in a world where anything goes .... The problem is you don't burn bridges on the show or a show like this and I'm afraid Jackie already has and guess what? Teresa won, she dominated and defeated Jackie using her as a scavenger animal to pick up her pieces while bringing them back and it didn't work, so guess what Jackie, you are officially useless to Teresa Giudice and exit-stage left, unless you slop up either Melissa, Dolores, or Joe Gorga .... The big issue is Jackie has to figure out who started that rumor of her husband sleeping around, even if it's true, you really have to expose how it was known and who started such an allegation.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Omg wow

[@benbelzer8303]

I like Jackie but she's very judgmental and especially towards herself.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I like her too

[@benbelzer8303]

​@@behindthevelvetropeDavid, I love hearing you. I'm at my parents house and you are bringing me a bit of Bravo into an otherwise confining afternoon.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

@@benbelzer8303 perfect and tomrorow more new videos lol

[@benbelzer8303]

@@behindthevelvetrope Lol. Thankfully there's comfy beds here since I'm staying the night. Lol

[@carolroth440]

Dolores is yhe best ❤

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Nice

[@user-dk9im4gk9n]

L

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Hi

[@gigiowens2403]

Jen Fessler is a good friend and ecven better TV. She should be a full-time housewife.🎉

[@behindthevelvetrope]

She’s cool

[@newtexan1]

Ugh. Fessler started out great…then turned into a turncoat. I would never be friends with someone like her. It’s all an act.

[@kissad.7985]

David has the same issue with everyone?

[@MonixaMay]

Seems like he tries to stay professional, and they want him to play sides. That would not be good for his business. Seems like they have the same issue with David, not vice verse.

[@benbelzer8303]

​@@MonixaMayGreat point 👍

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Nah. Bur nice try sweetheart

[@behindthevelvetrope]

@MonixaMay correct. Do I block the troll above?

[@MonixaMay]

@@behindthevelvetrope I wouldn’t. Let them see your success

[@gloriacato7761]

Stop referring to the stylists as," little people",; you are perpetuating judgments, stereotypes, and assumptions. There are many celebrity stylists who make millions.. THey, however , wld be too busy to style RHONJ. JUST SAYING!!!,

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Probs

[@kieronphagoodejesus1014]

Why would you knock Danielle for a charity event? Not everything is compt for the event! You sound sour and you dont get to dictate how the money is spent

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Nah

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I get to dictate everything All must bow down

[@kieronphagoodejesus1014]

@@behindthevelvetrope SMH

[@VanessaCurry711]

I loved when Jackie said Marg talks about u all the time she’s just smart enough to not write it and Dolores says yes she is obviously smart and ur not it was epic!!

[@behindthevelvetrope]

I agree

[@user-dk9im4gk9n]

There is a lot of negative chatter about Danielle, so I don’t know what to believe about the charity event.

[@behindthevelvetrope]

Same