Breaking Up: Men Vs. Women

[@sayra9865]

what i hate is that they usually come back once the healing is done....

[@50nollieman]

they as in the guys?

[@sayra9865]

It can honestly be anyone

[@50nollieman]

Sayra Grassi Hoying Franta I miss my ex but I dont want to check up on her and find out shes with someone else :/

[@Ela2351]

50nollieman chances are while you're still wondering if she has someone else and hold yourself back from texting her she misses you as much as you miss her, don't wait too long cause one day she will stop caring for you and you're gonna hate yourself . She might be talking to other guys but that doesn't mean she's ready to start a relationship with someone new.

[@50nollieman]

Ella Jones I already texted her "Hey! Happy thanksgiving! I hope you have a good one :)" and she didnt reply :'(

[@JamesV84]

At the end of the day, when you breakup, *"Man or Woman"*, there's always something in common... *it will always hurt...*

[@Lushed334]

Am a potato

[@user-xd1bz6gp4m]

+Graphic Design Guy PREACH

[@JamesV84]

Riwa Alayoubi I don't know if you are or not, haha XD

[@JamesV84]

Terry Anya I always try to :)

[@rearealovesyuu]

You go graphic design guy, you go. 💕🐿

[@thenamesnathalie]

If only heartbreaks really lasted only 1:35

[@sarahmendez9581]

nathalie inirio yeeeeees! 😒

[@thenewthrowawaylol4343]

nathalie inirio sadly not.

[@kiaravasquez9597]

nathalie inirio yess girll. if only

[@j.mariejam7068]

It really hurts I couldn't breath his my world now 5 yrs and 5 months goes to waste bcos he cheated

[@GhostDog1907]

J.Marie Jam I see you comment is from 2 months ago. How you doing now? I wish you the best

[@FlowerRFabulous]

nah i dont eat icecream. i usually have panic attacks and dont eat anything at all lol

[@B888-h2o]

LOL

[@saadsyed6649]

FlowerRFabulous omg sameeeeeeee

[@MariaGonzalez-nf6qo]

MEEE

[@ccstackss]

Literally me

[@alyssamarie28]

literally same 😞😞

[@FrankM]

That must be a small town where exes run into each other quite often.

[@paramithatalim7312]

lol

[@michellemoengen2685]

+Frank M oh, there is. I live in a really small town in Norway, in fact, the town is so small it isn't eaven called a town. (I'm still in school) there are from 40-80 people in every grade, we have two grocery stores, one gas station, no malls, but on the bright side we are surrounded by forests. (Except that there are other towns around us too) But I have to admit... NORWAY IS GREAT

[@karolynkeyser9883]

+CatLoverForever!!! CatLoverForever!!! Dude, in my town we only have around 30 people in each grade, and a convince store, along with a gas station. That's it. The population is around 1,500.

[@michellemoengen2685]

+X Ambassador Jeg bor i Spikkestad i Røyken på en måte i nerheten av Oslo

[@zaynm3724]

Can I live there lmao

[@ciarakenny1317]

Isn't it odd that for men they start out great and slowly get sadder and sadder, but women are the opposite?

[@simranbhattacharyya2720]

Ciara Kenny Not in every case. :/

[@claudiosalas9859]

cause after a breakup men like to experience other women then they realize none of that is worth it for, like Kanye west said "one good girl is worth a thousand bitches"

[@sharmainealag6142]

so true

[@carolreyesify]

Ciara Kenny is that true guys looks fine for awhile n get sad later

[@mr.fitness4528]

Ciara Kenny Wrong. lol

[@DeRone22]

I think this usually happens because women take the time to heal and then move on from it, where as guys try to not deal with it by doing stuff and then of course end up feeling all at once

[@RobotRebelCinema]

+Giselle Gutierrez I agree

[@cilvet1]

+Giselle Gutierrez Or just because, you know, men feel the emptiness much progressively, and never really goes away, whereas women struggle much more at first, but are able to get over eventually. Its not about attitude, its about psychology

[@XMyFrozenHeartX]

+cilveti That would explain why women can handle stress more than man, more men can actually die from heartbreak than women

[@Ikajo]

+Giselle Gutierrez Some studies suggest that men tend to make their girlfriend/fiancé/wife their only emotional support so when the relationship ends, they lose that emotional support. That's why men can have a harder time letting go of the relationship whereas women are more likely to have a wider range of people for emotional support. This is of course due to gender roles that tells men that having emotions somehow is a bad thing.

[@thatsmile8033]

+Josh Pearson Just like how trolls don't get laid even by their own hands

[@ErikGiovani]

I watched this video in January but I didn't think it would be me by September smh

[@TheMinajDiamond]

Erik Giovani omg me 2...😢😢

[@esketitbitch8829]

Same here :(

[@MissDuhWatever]

Same here and it's september now

[@Lore-wv5mt]

Erik Giovani 🤣😂🤣

[@elisealexandria7888]

I JUST WATCHED THIS IN APRIL AND BECAME ME THIS AUGUST GUYS I NEED COMFORT AND THE WORSE PART IS THAT WE WERE AN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

[@ErikaRodriguez-jr3qb]

This is exactly what happens. Men don't realize once you let go, we are gone. Yeah we cry and suffer but once we move on there is no turning back.

[@SkittlesInYourHand]

Erika Rodriguez - That's what's most sad about it for guys. When they're hurting you know they still care about you but when you see them walking down the street with someone else you know they moved on.

[@alangeorge5592]

Erika Rodriguez even we men cry layer on, nut realize that we are free from all the drama forever. And we find someone who actually loves us

[@ncrveteranranger3502]

Erika Rodriguez the same thing goes to women

[@anubisgod23]

No we realise it. Sorry to break it to you. We know you are gone. Same goes for men as much as it does women. When we move on (usually quicker than the girl), there is no turning back.

[@JimmyEatWorm]

Erika Rodriguez the problem with women is that they move right away into another relationship and don't let the men realize what they have lost ...

[@RylieCollins]

My boyfriend dumped me and i was really sad for a while, about a month later he wanted me back but it was too late I'd already put it all to rest and had gotten over him.

[@RylieCollins]

TheKingraptor724 no I'm just an independent person. I love openly but when someone hurts me I move on. Don't accuse me of not loving someone. You don't know me or my life.

[@MA-yc7pz]

At least he woke up month later mine dumped me for some other chick and never looked back and I gave that boy my all

[@ValentineWan]

Mine too xD and he did it twice xD i still remember how happy i was to see him crying infront of my apartment and begging me to take him back. While a month before he uploaded his photo with another girl, vacations, clubs and seemed so happy, rejecting my calls and messages and he thought he could do better while i was all alone, crying every single day, visited psychiatrist and what even worse he dumped me a week before my birthday. This video is kinda stereotyping genders but they did awesome job to explain how my breakup happened 4months ago xD

[@81ice]

It doesn't mean she didn't love her. It just meant she loved herself enough to move on from him in a month.

[@RylieCollins]

81ice exactly. I didn't see the point in laying around being sad about him anymore. It was torture and i refused to let him hurt me anymore than he already had.

[@rochardsjollazo3026]

Men never realize what they're losing until after they've lost it..

[@hettybo1999]

Rochard Sjollazo honestly

[@Akirama1]

Women too

[@5hane235]

It goes for both males and females honestly

[@AXRXHXM]

but I was confused, overthiking and jealous all at once now she's gone, but I have never not love her😑

[@brainblox5629]

You are goddamn right. Our freedom and own space after getting into some unnecessary relationship for example

[@kristine7893]

How breakups usually end up: The girl realizes what she deserves, while the guy realizes what he lost.

[@itzelouise8714]

This comment should have 100000 likes

[@mtflieutenant7693]

This....is so perfect.

[@dannykettle2466]

Kristine N. It’s usually the other way around because men are the best

[@kidusabebe7303]

True most of the time but was the opposite for me

[@Its_MadzYT]

Not always

[@jennifertatham1574]

When you don't know what this feels like cause you're single af

[@radioactiveood]

Trust me it's the best choice ever! It's really hard to bounce back to normal 😪

[@nerdnation1076]

Same

[@janamertens9031]

But even if you know it's bad, you want to experience it by yourself just to know what it feels like

[@nfandlowrynl1552]

Do friend breakups count

[@walterarm604]

ill break your heart toots, i promise :)

[@ObsessedCake]

This makes so much sense! When my boyfriend and I broke up, I was sad but got over it, but then he came back and told me he had made a mistake, and wanted to get back together. I said no :)

[@abbiestone568]

Syl col I wish my stubborn heartless Ex will do that as well :'(

[@monikamedkova6141]

Slayyy girl❤❤🔝

[@je32132]

Lol, and so my ex bf, but I said yes

[@princeerick7707]

Syl col BOY HE DESERVES IT

[@nadian6760]

Don’t take him back

[@timliang823]

This is so true at the begginning of a breakup the girl is the one whos emotional but then the guy slowly and slowly realizes what a mistake hes done and the gurl slowly and slowly realizes that she need no man to complete her life

[@andirichards7371]

Clearly she does because she got with another guy.

[@rdhfgfhghj]

@@andirichards7371next day, i saw myself in bed with another guy we started dating from there

[@icysnow57cold64]

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other. Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.

[@paulinaramirez2469]

Does anyone actually eat that much icecream when they're sad? I feel like is something hollywood invented but no one actually does.

[@fresh6054]

+Paulina Ramírez for me its chocolate

[@gitadine]

+Paulina Ramírez I do. Then again I do watch a lot of Hollywood romcoms...

[@kirstenflake4177]

I do! Ben&Jer! I always binge one the chocolate ice cream with the brownie chunks in it!

[@navajodoll6320]

Stress eating is life :,) ice cream to numb the soul

[@jillianmilena]

After my breakup I ate a lot of everything so idk lmfao

[@oliviahesson881]

That's it. This is the last straw. I can't deal with this drama anymore and I'm just so done with it all. I'm officially staying single until I'm married. 😂👌🏻

[@YPM498]

lol you know before you get married you're going to have to date .

[@supersonic111ful]

no let him dream >.

[@AyyoShyGurlTv]

Same!!

[@Lulu-jb1st]

There's arrange marriage ....it's possible but not the route I'd choose. To each their own.

[@Mynameis84]

Divorce is still a thing

[@3pleLL]

Don't start relationship- Problem solved.

[@PauliesWalnuts]

3ple L But being single is BORING.

[@fatfatzy]

Lord Kacperov Singleness is freedom.

[@user77-k6c]

3ple L this can also happen to you if you dated someone

[@andioop1647]

3ple L me 😂😂

[@andioop1647]

Mr Kacperov i don't think so...you now....no boyfriend no problem

[@anag.7907]

i wish he cared this much...

[@yeahmaybe5854]

Ana G. Me neither

[@nataliesilva4838]

Girl shut up

[@nella10123]

how are you now?

[@anag.7907]

Natalie Silva sis you have makeup for beginners videos saved. How embarrassing

[@handsomesquidward2130]

why do they come back after you moved on omg😭😭😭

[@headhunter3744]

the one who truly love his partner,the one who stayed loyal and didnt make her an option will get hurt the most....gender have nothing to do with it...

[@shaintajraisani]

Absolutely agree

[@yashaswidalal119]

I cannot agree more.

[@gabbyp9384]

This video made me sad but somewhat put things into perspective for me. Going on a month since we broke up after being together for 2 yrs and it's literally the hardest thing I ever been through 💔 how do u move on & just forget about a person u thought u would spend the rest of your life with😪. From talking everyday all day, seeing each other every weekend...to not even know what's going on in his life or how he's doing . Love isn't supposed to hurt 💔

[@gummyx9396]

Gabby P Time heals everything❤️

[@sarahmendez9581]

Gabby P I'm going through the same thing.. we were together 2 years. Talking everyday. Hanging out almost every day. Late night talks. Knowing just everything about a person to wondering what they are up to. It's been 3 months now since we broke up. He has a new girlfriend they dated like a month after we broke up.. so yeah. Plus he blocked me.. I'm hurt. Really hurt.

[@aniyoung6585]

Sarah Martinez same happened to me a month ago thank God I overcame it love is realy not supposed to hert but that's happening now.

[@myahgormley9788]

almost same scenario for me girl 😭 its been almost a month.. it helps to know other people go through the same thing. sending all my love, we'll get through this. i just hope its sooner rather than later... never felt so hurt.

[@gilliannewton1104]

Myah Gormley how are you doing now? ♡

[@MohsinAliReza]

After a break up men initially feel relaxed and free but women cry. By the time, men take long term effects and recall the memories and time spent together, whereas women tend to have short term effects as they adjust and come to normal life as the time goes.

[@pmoto]

+jeffzalonka exactly!

[@KonohazFinest]

+Mohsin Ali Reza you cant say that for all men cause for me it hit me right away

[@delaneymusselwhite3250]

+jeffzalonka That's probably why they are Emotionally damaged. Because there ex broke there hearts

[@ValentineWan]

+Mohsin Ali Reza it usually happens if the dumper is a man. So when they break up they start to feel freedom but it doesnt last long especially if the break up happened because of temporary anger.

[@MohsinAliReza]

natanael murga Certainly can't say that for all men. I referred to general scenarios.

[@teostere]

hits us guys like a train seeing our ex'es with other men. ..We'll never smile to that, we'll fkin cry

[@angiet7380]

+T st Even if you guys end on good terms? Or even if the guy did the breaking up?

[@teostere]

+Angie Soltero depends on lots of aspects. even if a guy does the breakup he'll surely remember some things and regret at one point. .especially if it was a long relationship

[@rosepetals7xo_]

😂😂

[@danielapolanco1319]

my boyfriend broke up with me through text and I'm honestly not sure why . I've been trying not to cry but it's really hard. like how do you go from "I love you '" one day to "it's not gonna work out let's leave it at here" in another?

[@Hikarihoshix]

Daniela Polanco Mine gave me the same reasons... except he broke up with me over the phone. He couldn't even properly give me closure. It's been a month already.

[@kiarajefferson7530]

i just went through the same exact thing a week ago... in the middle of a conversation over text...

[@aprilaldovino3555]

Kiara Jefferson did he cm back?

[@natv8277]

I feel you. My ex broke up with me last week through three paragraphs of texts explaining how he just can't, but I'm wondering whether he lost interest in me. He told me he loved me in the text, but he couldn't even wait a week for school to resume to tell me in person and now I'm left behind with unanswered questions.

[@souhailachahid1809]

Daniela Polanco my bf told me last night Im not sure if i love u as a gf or i just like u as a bestfriend ..

[@touchdalight]

thumbs up if you're single af and have never had your heart broken!

[@elenagilbert8346]

true dat lol

[@matthewthewizard6169]

me 15

[@haileybaldwin6320]

+touchdalight You look so hot in your most recent video omggg♡

[@armgidion]

+touchdalight Haven't been in a relationship since ive been out of highschool. best choice ever,

[@angelisaiblas900]

Here

[@maeflower522]

My ex-boyfriend completely blindsided me and broke up with me over the phone two days ago. I didn't see it coming, I didn't know that things were bothering him to where he could have told me and we could have worked on it as a couple. But he decided to just have that buildup and end it completely

[@emilyfreeland2253]

Same thing happened to me girl, and now I'm here looking at this video

[@kadirkizil4000]

Wow this applies to me soo much. She just didn't want to sort things out. I was down to solving those problems but after 2 weeks now it's over. How can someone say to you she wants to marry you and the next few days it's over. Oh well I miss her but I got dumped...so I won't inecciate contact first.

[@GunGoddess]

girl same

[@mailinhtanguyen9185]

Same 😥

[@sarahsalimi479]

Did he come back?

[@alimcnew140]

I've never had an ex that didn't come back whether it took 2 weeks or 2 years they always try to reconnect with me.

[@neomaphangela7621]

Lucky you :')

[@Stenen098]

Hope mine does...

[@user-iv7wp3pt2f]

Lucky you. I think my ex will never text me again :')

[@baominhle6797]

Yeah I'm starting to think my ex will never contact me again 😒

[@anubisgod23]

MASSIVE difference between re-connecting and "coming back". I wanted to re-connect with my ex after 3 years just to see what she was up to. I had moved on like 2.5 years prior. But I was curious and wanted to catch up. ZERO intention of "coming back". I would argue most guys don't "come back".

[@ScullyLoveless]

once you go black you don't go back

[@MsBB15]

OMG LMFAOOOOO YOUR COMMENT 😂😂

[@RainingYayo]

+Scully Loveless Does that rule still apply to women who like women ?

[@SuperKeirsten123]

+Tai Davis Yes.

[@myanime101]

once you go black you're a single white mom

[@myanime101]

+Adam Barrow #slowclap

[@jennypatira9192]

I just had to google it and look at it, I and my boyfriend broke up. Says he just wants to be with his friends and enjoy life so hard when he's the one that always made you happy and now he's the same guy who hurt you.

[@destineeh4264]

Jenny Patira omg my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me for the same reason

[@Mimuxuu]

Jenny Patira that's f**king harsh

[@LauritaRock02]

same girl same

[@brainblox5629]

Sounds like you made his life not so happy

[@Anna8.8.88]

Same situation

[@safari3983]

*Why they make you fall in love..?* *"If they don't love you back..."*

[@wintashumalem5967]

Exactly!! I thought he loves me but he never did and he didn’t care when I move on that hurt me the most (sorry about my grammar)

[@varnageT]

yo my boy looks legitimately broken. what did yall do to him? it didnt look like he was acting anymore at the end xD

[@Palletresearch]

+varnageT LMAO for real

[@Star_Scoot]

Told them his kids aren't coming back until he is done with his scenes

[@jessieis]

Crap, now i'm sad looking back at my break up days.

[@newernewestnew]

I would if I had any...🙃

[@roofoochoo]

The feels ;____; I want a follow up video of this when you get into a new relationship

[@iridiumeverlasting8390]

And then falling for them once you think you've gotten over everything...

[@migdaliavazquez8951]

I wonder if that's the crush in the workplace the guy was talking about...

[@vanessawidianto1820]

U're not alone... me too actually

[@Nestor535]

I loved that scene at the end instead of the guy being jealous he was happy for her because he now knows that she is doing better without him so now he doesnt have to worry about her on how she's doing that's just amazing

[@rosasalah5820]

No he looks heart broken

[@anusisaman3086]

His expression at 0:38 was so heart wrenching!

[@shraddhasonaress]

yea

[@sady1139]

This vid was so true, girl gets sad, then gets over it, guy gets over, them gets sad once he realizes.

[@Chris-vl6tu]

Qwerty 101 not in my case

[@Stenen098]

Im the girl in my case :/

[@anubisgod23]

Respectably disagree

[@derekmeade1741]

Lol this isn’t true at all, maybe from a womans perspective

[@jairenee7606]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯

[@regalianemielda5252]

maybe no one will read this but last night i came to my bf place without telling him first and i found him with another girl in his room, and i was really so speechless i coundnt say a thing, so i ran back to my home and cried until 6am

[@trangthuy1089]

be strong girl. Talk to your friends and family, know your worth. You deserve much better than that. I'm experiencing a break up and he is being so cruel to me. But one day we look back at this comment, I will have got over it

[@monniaabdou4761]

Regalian Emielda stay strong beautiful love hurts sometimes but I garante you one days you will be fine

[@johnwaynelitan2693]

Trang Thùy awee

[@anushkadahiya1004]

Trang Thùy So, did you get over it? It's been an year. I'm asking because I recently had a breakup and wanted to know if people actually get over it?

[@michelleangelagabayoyo4135]

Its never your fault honey. Everything will be alright. 😭

[@project_X_design]

basically. day 1: guy is not sad, girl is sad. a week after: girl is happy, guy is sad af.

[@ulisesthehero]

Nice job copying from the internet.

[@ShokoFlow]

+Wataaa! yeah he's sad af I guess thats why he smiled

[@fameshredder]

+ShokoFlow omfg smh

[@FOBLOVERRRR]

+Wataaa! Currently me actually haha. I was broken up with last Friday and a week later I'm feeling fantastic

[@graciepenrose1760]

Not always as when me and my boyfriend broke up it was the other way round x

[@merinajalaya740]

Ladies just fart on his pillow and call it a day.

[@ariannarivera8629]

Rinagade yeah give him pink eye 😂

[@Janioong]

thank you. the best solution for now

[@LCbabyxO]

Rinagade hahaha you're the best

[@alangeorge5592]

Rinagade you all are evil bitches

[@angelinamoua6338]

LMAO 🤣

[@Alliemeaw]

My sister told me after my breakup that men always party and have a great time enjoying their freedom, while girls feel the pain and then it works in reverse. The girls heal and start moving on, and that is when men feel loss. Right now, I am crying every morning and night and he is out partying making new friends, is this an actual phenomenon???

[@embee8333]

At the end of the video the guy looks happy for her.. that was like.. really sweet ;-;

[@RandomCrap-lu8or]

I would agree, but I would say it's more bittersweet. But personally I want to know what happened to the guy afterwards.

[@mayragarcia5840]

I see that you're moving on, well I already had my fun and I want you back

[@ziggywhiteduke9276]

Mayra Garcia Something tells me you know my ex haha

[@annikaohnenachname9895]

Argh, I hate these boys. Never give them a chance. Other men have dicks too.

[@theresafloresca367]

👌🏻

[@kidusabebe7303]

This needs 999999999 likes

[@jairenee7606]

Every time lol

[@DanielSanchez94_]

I can't let her go. I need her back in my life. I can't see her with another guy.

[@kennydaninja5139]

i know how ya feel bro im hurtin right now my Girlfriend of 2 an a half years just broke up with me

[@katherineashleyjaimes9130]

But if u broke up with her then you deserve it But if not then well there are more people out there as good or better than her

[@johnwaynelitan2693]

Dude i had the same feeling until now for my girl.

[@johnwaynelitan2693]

kenny talbot why whats the reason bro

[@johnwaynelitan2693]

Katherine Ashley Jaimes true but my heart still cherishes her name.

[@mayamorillo4578]

they always come back when they see you doing good.

[@Daaaaalise]

How ridiculous it is to always find myself here after every breakup. I feel so tired to keep reliving the same old pain, just with different person.

[@mirakhatib4984]

None of this will happen to my ex because he didn’t love me in the first place 😂😂

[@Star_Scoot]

The same team is still available

[@athalamprou2957]

Why all breakup videos are uploaded the day i break up?!?

[@henryjefferys3150]

Sucks doesn't it😣

[@alexanderdoot2641]

+Atha La sorry to hear that..

[@nonono777]

Hope you get better if you're sad

[@prowlerborn7170]

+Atha La Same here, it sucks

[@fresatapatia]

Same here!!

[@moochimichimoo]

dammit I've been crying about this the entire day and now there's a video 😢

[@nicolegoose567]

moochimichimoo same 🙁

[@daph5890]

moochimichimoo why were you crying?

[@thedarknessqueen3755]

💔😭😭😭My boyfriend just broke up with me yesterday ....I miss him

[@john5823]

Shamma Alkaabi I'm sorry that that happened to you, but you realize those are laughing emojis, not crying ones, right?

[@aishabelle6776]

Shamma Alkaabi girl you can do better than him😝 you are free now!!!

[@restingbitchface845]

Shamma Alkaabi stay strong you are probably better without him.😊😊😊

[@thedarknessqueen3755]

Aisha Belle thanks

[@thedarknessqueen3755]

Fatima Noor thank yes I am ❤️

[@OmggitsSana]

just got out of a relationshit today ...

[@jacquelineyepez2186]

Me too ! And I can't help it :,(

[@mayssennbenmansour5721]

me too.. 😢

[@mayssennbenmansour5721]

me too.. 😢

[@atidmatabenisrael2779]

don't think about it there's someone for u and u just got to wait for him

[@jentran1876]

Girlllllll werrrrkkkkkkkkk 🤘👏👄

[@marindajenkins6129]

Guy: spiraling regret Girl: growing independence

[@kayleetoms6591]

Goes to show you never know how much she really matters until she’s gone...

[@CS-sv8fg]

if that guy had some self-respect and not be a simp, then he would know he did the right thing!

[@jairenee7606]

Exactly 💯

[@AmigoAklito]

ANYONE HAPPY TO BE SINGLE?!?! LOOL♡

[@AmigoAklito]

+akli I always come for the comments haha

[@endless166]

no

[@lelicamp4244]

unfortunately I gotta say yea

[@anaydtcv_8344]

break up is the most hurtful thing in the world

[@strawberrymansions]

My boyfriend just broke up with me and I feel like my whole world is upside down

[@vanessaxjean3038]

Queen of Vegan how are you now? How did you overcome ?

[@nella10123]

how are you now 4 years later?

[@nella10123]

how are you now 4 yrs later?

[@nataliesilva4838]

I'm scrolling through all the comments and all of them are from 2 years ago

[@mixedchickULike]

I'm new and sad. Its been 7 Mos and I'm still heartbroken. You?

[@wintashumalem5967]

And ur comment is from 1 year

[@patrickborro2000]

To sum it up: The start for women is the end for men and vice versa.

[@LAY-ls8oy]

God .. I watched this video with a broken heart a couple months ago .. now iam felling great .. finally in peace again and guess who’s texting me ... yup my ex 😂 boy Iam done!!!! Girls be strong enough to say BYE FOR GOOD 🥰🤝

[@YumiBoooo]

I just got out of a four year relationship, and its been a month and it still hurts, and now hes dating, I hope he misses me later when Im happy again

[@ziggywhiteduke9276]

Marisol Oh yes, you loved him without a doubt

[@katarina5206]

How are you doing now hun?

[@baominhle6797]

Marisol how are you doing now? I'm currently going through mine and it's only been 2 months. We we're together for 3 and a half years. It still hurts a lot.

[@annocampo7778]

BaoMinh Le hey how are you? Going through the same thing.

[@puipui1028]

Four years.... Same here😥

[@platinumrubies85]

she moved on to bigger and blacker things. ☺

[@MRostendway]

+Java Bain He moved on to his hand.

[@platinumrubies85]

+MRostendway lol PALMela.

[@MRostendway]

Java Bain This break up became a handy situation for him.. Now he can focus on other things

[@platinumrubies85]

+MRostendway he has a bright future ahead of him. a lot of reaching for that rocket and shooting for the stars.

[@MRostendway]

Java Bain XD

[@taylorj7]

The exes always come back once you’re over them 😒

[@SamTheNeyssiFan]

Watching this after a recent broken heart. Thanks buzzfeed.

[@dufez9289]

Same here. Its given me comfort, weirdly.

[@ChattyKaay]

This is so true !! The moment us are crying over the relationships, the guys are relieved and like laid back about it, but as soon as we're moving on, it all hits them and when they see us doing better they want us back. I just realized that! It's a visa versa thing, tho.

[@BulkBrogan.]

moral of the story: give up everyone's looking for someone who's better than you anyway

[@antdan96]

*bigger

[@thatwittywolf419]

antdan96 not possible.

[@johnshank543]

In today's society men are often looked at as heartless or jerks because we deal with breakups differently or life in general. Most men including myself bottle it up and try to hide it. Wether that's from the way we are hardwired or the image we feel we have to uphold. But in reality men are just great at hiding their pain while it builds up to the breaking point. That's why I like this video it shows this side of the break up

[@politedonut2637]

Some men are garbage and they will assume we all are same just because of one trash

[@tristanabbott1764]

lololol tf if I saw my ex in public I would never hug him

[@caitie1478]

Me rn. I'm sitting here crying and heartbroken... While he's out having fun and not giving a damn.

[@nella10123]

how are you 1 year later?

[@caitie1478]

@@nella10123 very happy that I moved on from such a toxic person and such a toxic relationship.

[@nella10123]

@@caitie1478 Im Glad Caitie🙏🏻

[@sumaiyatx2886]

@@caitie1478 so good to hear, I’m going through this now and don’t know when my happiness will come 😭

[@xctu8039]

On average women are less emotional during breakups usually because our male ancestors often died or had shorter lives from hunting and fighting so women evolved to handle losing people easier and move on and replace a mate while men devoted their almost whole existence to hunting, fighting and providing for women and others especially if the Alpha or Alphas. It use to be the biggest risk means the biggest reward. Shorter life but Alpha men /men got more women and earned perks but today the weak can succeed and sit in a desk in a giant building like Trump and other betas.

[@Ron-xv5be]

This is why you should be single till ur married

[@ObservingStuff]

... So don't date anyone just jump to marriage?

[@Ron-xv5be]

+stuff no u can marry a tree if u want but if u are ganna date someone be sure u want too and be safe

[@Ozzy-225]

+Imran F True. After marriage you can mutually split. It's not rocket science. This gives assurance to someone. marriage doesn't have to be a huge party and then 6 months later divorce LOL

[@oy59]

+Imran F that's just unrealisitic

[@shanestolte3508]

+Imran F to get married you have to date someone....

[@jupiterdusk2510]

Thanks for making me miss my ex buzzfeed

[@michaelp5729]

Same dude now I just think of the time we spent together

[@irvanialopeztoledo5511]

This is pretty accurate in my experience. I'm so glad I'm over it 😀

[@McCain101]

As a dude who just went through this, this (at least for me) is spot on. exactly how I attempted to handle everything.

[@SuperIcelight]

This was both depressing and beautiful. Kinda like a song from Adele.

[@lillian.catherine]

Yea

[@jillianmcallister1012]

I remember watching this after my break up. 3 years later And I have never been happier

[@mslaughsalot2]

Why is it a common concept to assume all guys break up with the girl? I broke up with my boyfriend and I felt like the girl in this scenario.

[@angiet7380]

+Jalilah Davis Is it a common concept? I thought the common concept was that girls did the breaking up, and that BuzzFeed only made the guy do the breaking up here to make up for the other stereotypes that they enforce afterwards

[@mslaughsalot2]

You may be right, but I've personally seen more pictures,tweets and everything about guys breaking up with girls. But you may have experienced or seen something differently than I have. Buzzfeed is pretty spot on with the reactions though.

[@MorganAshleyPoole]

Same

[@chavo6689]

It is different for every one

[@killuakun9674]

My BF broke up with me last day. I cried so much. 😞I hope he knew how much I value him and miss you so much.

[@momomcstank2038]

This generalizes breaking up a lot. Everyone feels different and it depends on how good the relationship was.

[@xctu8039]

On average women are less emotional during breakups usually because our male ancestors often died or had shorter lives from hunting and fighting so women evolved to handle losing people easier and move on and replace a mate while men devoted their almost whole existence to hunting, fighting and providing for women and others especially if the Alpha or Alphas. It use to be the biggest risk means the biggest reward. Shorter life but Alpha men /men got more women and earned perks but today the weak can succeed and sit in a desk in a giant building like Trump and other betas.

[@lydialorincova7628]

Guys listen, if you broke her heart and she still wishes you the best, you just lost the best thing you had

[@youngfadula]

Whether he comes back or not, there's no way we can get back together

[@emmekinsthesquirrel8126]

Most of my breakups didn't bother me because the guys ignored me but damn they whined like bitches when I broke up with them.

[@HmbPhoto]

just seeing my ex with another man just hurts dude but if she's happy I'm happy for her.(:

[@nhid3195]

Hakeem Byrd Bless you man, with that genuine care you have, you'll definitely find someone. Best of luck, brother :)

[@Esaquimi]

The calling and getting declined part.... I FELT that!

[@CatCatCaat]

I watched this when this was released I didn’t realise I would be this in June 2018...

[@straightoutofideas9658]

sort of like, the process is the reverse way for each gender. like guys are all 'tshhh its fiiiine' initially and hang with the mates and hook up and girls spend the months crying and eating and getting bff advice and see the guy so happy and chill and get hurt a bit. And then when the females start moving on, the guys start looking back and secretly crying and thinking of texting and see the girls moving on and then they start feeling it inside. Weird.

[@johnwaynelitan2693]

Straight Out Of Ideas same goes for me

[@TheSonicEnergy]

As a guy, it usually hits us late 😢 I’m currently going through my first breakup & i feel lost, scared, sad, & lonely. The hardest part for me is learning to live from the routine I had with her 😔

[@michellesimmons3851]

When they hugged im pretty sure his face broke my heart

[@blackmetalberry5731]

If they love each other so much why did one of them break the relationship?

[@Krissyisawake]

Cause just love can't solve all problems in a relationship. There are many things that are needed in a relationship rather than just love to make it successful ( trust, support, respect, great communication with eachother, affection, loyalty, emotional support and more)

[@amadib.6405]

Men never realize what they have till the last minute

[@msherazi1259]

Maybe it’s that most people are attracted to others who seem genuinely happy and not hung up on psychological baggage. You heal, and are happy again- and you become a very attractive person. Lol. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

[@renukadarvekar4204]

The moral is- guys.. don't let her go!!

[@abhijithkm1771]

2019 Breakup Squads Hit Like👍

[@DRawesome8642]

Just broke up with my girlfriend today , I was okay when it happened......but now that I stopped to feel late at night , it's the worst feeling in the world knowing you've lost the one person who means the most and no one could ever replace.

[@vanigaming66]

How you feel now??

[@radioactivman23]

so I'm a 20 y o woman and I was TOTALLY able to relate... to the guy's way of dealing with a breakup... 🙄

[@RichLunaMusic]

radioactivman23 Every guy is different so we're all going to handle it in completely different ways.

[@armandodircio6883]

This video made me so sad beacause sadly it is true for men. They get worse as time goes on. This is why men become "pigs" because they no longer have the strength to find another. It feels like something inside me has died. I'm at this point and I don't want to see the day I see her with someone else.

[@babysalazarsmommy]

Who broke up with who?

[@love22155]

this is so different compared to my biggest break up, it took me a year to get over him, while he was having the time of his life, and when I finally got over him i realized i was nothing to him and he was still the happiest douchebag alive.

[@Mrpulkitvmehta14]

+Lauren Vargas LOL

[@emirwan2449]

you deserve someone better anyway

[@sh4r0nZ]

+Lauren Vargas you're gonna get someone who actually deserves a loving person like you!

[@MA-yc7pz]

Same over here it sucks I was engaged and traveled to 9 countries with him but he decided to be with someone else.I m still in the getting over and healing process its been 7 months while he is happy af

[@Rokinevythng14]

The trick is to stop worrying about him. Let him do him, worry about yourself, and find happiness on your own, so that way you will be happy and okay whether he realizes it or not, stay busy.

[@rosemola8326]

The same for me too. I'm now with a much better guy who is hardworking and commited.. 🥰 I thank my ex boyfriend for breaking up with me. Otherwise, my life wouldn't have been better.

[@khamillemarquez7397]

Some people may think that love isn't supposed to hurt... but if the heart doesn't get broken, was it even love at all?

[@killphaser25]

I like girls way of dealing with breakup. Guys are just jerks sometimes

[@golbezdarkness4612]

...... Yee.

[@bobbyjensen264]

It depends, but it certainly isn't as black and white as this video portrays it.

[@n.v.e.7496]

sorry but the video is fake...

[@n.v.e.7496]

***** no I was talking to the one that had commented this comment

[@MichaelDelvalle-nt4gp]

lol this isn't all guys and all girls. stfu

[@mateusramos530]

In my case it is exactly the opposite, I tried to get back with her anyway when we broke up, she simply ignored me and finally blocked me in all social medias, here I am, heartbroken but focused on my studies, after a month and 22 days, I heard and watched her videos at concerts drinking with her friends, hanging out with other guys, that's life, I'll get over it.

[@BoiNgocChannel]

I was so blind and now I see, the picture is getting clearer for woman after breaking up, you realize how worthy you are to have a better person.

[@sophiamp.3641]

I know of a man who can attract back your ex within 48 hours hours.... He was the one who brought back my ex within 48 hours, ever since I got back with my ex I have been enjoying my reunion with him.

[@sophiamp.3641]

Whatsapp him

[@sophiamp.3641]

+ 2 3 4 9 0 6 6 1 8 5 7 3 7

[@Jade.covers]

It sucks and hurts way more when u both have no friends and are really attached/dependant on each other feels like u have to stay together even if u see them as more of a friend :/