breaking up, starting over, and embracing change at 30 | living in nyc

[@kookie0331]

I been single for a year now and honestly being able to be free from stress and heal myself mentally is relieving looking back at it and one day you'll look back at it and be able to smile and not feel stuck. wishing you the best

[@beautiesfoodies]

I love this and can relate :) I already feel so much better! Thank you for the kind words 💗

[@hazel5gh]

Wishing you all the best!! Breakups are hard so just take it one day at a time. I went through something similar a while back and as hard as it was, it was also such a breath of fresh air to be able to just be myself and not stuck in a toxic/vicious cycle anymore ❤. Honestly you’re doing SO well by having a new apartment and furniture all sorted!! P.s your makeup and skin looks GLOWING as usual!! 🥰

[@piggiesmalls4]

Agreed! And same my ex & I of 7 years broke up right before I turned 30 :( it sucks for us women esp at this age bc we gave so much of our precious time and years to one guy without an outcome. But cherish those lessons learned and know that you’re not alone in this. Time will heal 💗 wishing you all the best Ella!

[@beautiesfoodies]

Thank youuu 😭♥️ I’m so glad you’re in a better place now! It took some time to adjust but I’m starting to feel really happy about this decision

[@beautiesfoodies]

Aww thank you for the kind words 💗 I can totally relate because I just turned 30 too. I’m starting to think everything happens for a reason though 😊 wishing you the best too!!

[@alkieapple]

Wishing you the bestest!!! I wish I could give you the biggest hug. I hope you learn to embrace all of the wonderful changes and new excitement in your life as a single woman. Go have all the fun, but also enjoy the "me" times that you may not have been able to have in the last many years. I am proud of you for going through tough times but you will one day, very soon, find comfort. ❤❤

[@beautiesfoodies]

Awww 😭🫶🏻 you’re so kind! Seriously, thank you so much. It was a scary life update but I’m really hopeful for this new chapter! Like you said, I’m so ready to enjoy the “me” times 😤 hahah wishing you the best too 💗

[@pachachaslide]

Congrats on the new chapter girlie!! I love your new space to bring in new beginnings

[@beautiesfoodies]

Thank youuu 🥹💗

[@rohitraushan5674]

I'm so sorry to hear Ella..I know broke up with mentally but I know you almost 4 years. You're a very strong girl. We will out of soon this situation. Get well soon be strong 💪💪💪 you always take care of yourself. I'm always support you 🙌🙌🙌

[@beautiesfoodies]

Aww thanks for always being so kind and supportive, Jitendra! 💗

[@baitaptienganhcuatoi]

Sorry to hear that you're going through a difficult time. Hopefully time will heal your heart ❤💖 sending you hugs. Everything's gonna be okay 👌☺️

[@beautiesfoodies]

You’re so sweet 💗 thank you so much

[@woozybear6707]

thinking of you, Ella - I’m sorry to hear about everything that’s happened. but it takes an immense amount of courage to be truly honest with yourself, and then to choose what’s best for yourself as well, especially if that’s incongruent with what you had in mind a while ago. we will always be here cheering you on 💜🥺

[@woozybear6707]

also hahaha the fact that that fragrance is what I use on a daily basis 🤭

[@beautiesfoodies]

Aww you’re so sweet!! 😭 thank you for the kind words…it really means a lot 💗 & hahah what a coincidence! I need to try out their other scents too hehe

[@1024specialkay]

just found you on my recommended (fellow new yorker), I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through, sending you hugs through this comment!

[@beautiesfoodies]

Aww thank you 😭💗

[@elliesturtevant8671]

I am so glad I came across your videos. I relate a lot to you in many ways and you describe your feelings in a way I just totally get. You have become a really safe space for me and I hope you get that from someone or something in your life as well.

[@beautiesfoodies]

Awww 😭 I can’t express how happy I am that you found a safe space here. I hope you’re doing well and you’re able to prioritize yourself 🥺🫶🏻 sending you lots and lots of love

[@katierejoice]

Starting over is not easy, but you're doing a great job!! I'm excited for you and this new chapter!

[@beautiesfoodies]

Thanks Katiee 🥹💗

[@bimandi]

you are gonna do great!! 🥰 hve fun livin in ur new space

[@beautiesfoodies]

Thank youuu 🥺💗

[@sunnyexo-l]

I'm glad you are doing fine! Definitely, starting all over again can be very stressful, but this a new chapter for YOU.. take it easy. By the way, you look so pretty and your makeup, amazing...🥰 ! heheh

[@beautiesfoodies]

Awww thank you thank youuu!! 😭🫶🏻

[@LavenderAdefolalu]

So excited for your new chapter! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@beautiesfoodies]

Thank youu 🥹🫶🏻

[@violondon8776]

Awh im so sorry about your break up. I also just had a break up with my ex who I thought I would marry. It was really hard, but I know deep down it is for the best. Stay strong!

[@beautiesfoodies]

Oh nooo I’m so sorry you had to go through that too 😞 it’s a really awful feeling. I hope you’re doing okay & I’m wishing you the best ♥️

[@waranyawessberg]

I love this video so much! I wish you all the best.

[@beautiesfoodies]

Thank you so much! 🥹♥️

[@hajarita0809]

Are those light sticks from philipps?how abt the round lamps?i love your new space.

[@beautiesfoodies]

Yupyupp and the round lamps are from Wayfair! :D thank youu 💕

[@10OF9OFBORG]

I hope you are ok and doing well. 🫶🏻🫰🏻

[@beautiesfoodies]

Thank you! 🥹

[@tiffanychin2808]

Sending you so much love ❤

[@beautiesfoodies]

Thanks Tiffany 🥺💗

[@drakezen]

You will do awesome I'm positive.

[@beautiesfoodies]

Thank you! 🥹💗

[@colateli]

Sending ❤ to you~

[@beautiesfoodies]

🥹💗💗

[@yahainHotPink]

💖💖🌻🌻 Please take care Ella

[@beautiesfoodies]

Thanks Yaminah 💗

[@yahainHotPink]

@@beautiesfoodies You're welcome! 😩🌹💖

[@truelifeofsydney2998]

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[@angae9124]

Jesus loves you so much ❤❤❤ I love you too ❤️