Breaking Up Sucks

[@saracielo8659]

People look past this type of Kristen way too often. She truly keeps it raw and real! And she brings so much wisdom to young women. This girl has gone through life and she isn’t afraid to share her past experiences for others to learn from. So Kristen, thank you for being you and filming podcast like such 🙌🏽

[@RebelFitz]

Well said!! I was just thinking the same thing. I really appreciate her honesty and self-awareness.

[@gladysgonzalez5876]

I agree!! Love the honestly and real life.

[@Rickdee]

“Everything that happens is FOR us, not TO us” Love this!!

[@sozzy1111]

I am loving this healing era of Kristin! You are right about your guides and signs and asking for help and CORD CUTTING 🎉. I love this awareness in you! Keep doing the hard work girl!!

[@jansutton373]

I can’t tell you how relatable & helpful this break-up topic was for me. I am 64 years old & still think back to a past boyfriend I had when I was younger. When you talked about breaking up with someone & you were with them every day (3 years for me) for so long. Then when you break up with them they turn into this hurtful person that had previously professed their love for you over & over. You said,”I never knew you.” WOW! This was so therapeutic for me after all of these years. I started not to watch this episode because I didn’t think it would be anything I could relate to at my age. I have been happily married for over 44 years but this episode gave me closure even though the old boyfriend never did. It was so many years ago but we never forget that first love. Thanks again for airing this! Oh and I love all of my new jewelry I just ordered!♥️

[@lalae2023]

So much healing for Kristin with these episodes lately ❤ thanks for sharing ❤

[@blackmarkt2250]

Thanks for sharing Kristin. My new personal goal is to "be an adult" in all my relationships. When someone is projecting, going through stressful times, when I get triggered, etc... I really try to stay mindful and lead with reminding myself that there is no universal truth, be curious not judgemental and embody empathy and grace. Also breakups are really traumatic for most people and I try not to take what is said or done too seriously. But embodying this takes constant effort and vigilance ❤

[@thepalmerpackmama5533]

Thank you SO SO SO much for sharing & being vulnerable. I'm going through a tough breakup and it's helpful to know I'm not alone. ❤

[@Drawn2MyPassion]

Thank you so much for being so real and Honest! You’re so relatable and I really appreciate it. Don’t stop with your authentic self.

[@laurengrist5806]

This has become my favourite podcast. I look forward to it every week. This episode was really insightful & felt like you really took the time to consider your past relationships, what you learnt from those experiences & put forward your perspective in a positive way to help others 💗

[@BeautyXXBrittany]

THAT ENERGY IS GOD!!!!!! I 10000% believe that!!! WHO ELSE could do stuff like that?? NO ONE BUT GOD!!!!!!!

[@megmcg77]

Yes yes yes!!

[@SammyCamilleKyle]

💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@Mia-fw2be]

Yes 🕊️ there’s an interview with Dru Hammer who talks about her divorce in new book “Hammered” through that lens. I recommend.

[@angelallamaz5813]

Amen 🙏

[@heathermacpherson6146]

You are so exceptional Kristin!! Thank you for the amazing vulnerability, honesty and humor.

[@AoibheannDoyle-SoulTherapist]

Kristin, This was raw, real & authentic! That transit in your life is complete. I enjoyed you sharing here 🙏

[@thepaynesquad4417]

I NEEDED this podcast!! It really let me know that other women feel the same as me ❤ Thank you, Kristin!!

[@dianedionisio1250]

I’ve been a “heartbreaker” most of y life but realized it isn’t conducive for real love or real partnership. I hope you find something deeper when you are ready. With that said I love you and your podcast! So fun and wise. I also feel like you were really truly genuine and vulnerable here and like you really enjoy it as well. That’s not the case with most podcasters. Love it!

[@loribattaglia8439]

YES! Yes to this whole episode. I’m new here and I can relate 1000%. I just love you! You’re truly the best! This spoke to me so much and the love for the spiritual stuff is so great! I’d wish so much to sit and chat with you with!!! You’re awesome girl!! 😊

[@ajbates0428]

I look forward to this every week. You’re so relatable. I love your point of view. Thank you for being real and honest we are here for it!! ❤❤❤

[@ErinTurnerBlog]

I have adored and admired your self-confidence and attitude about relationships since your LB days. So many girls and women needed to hear your advice. Thanks for your honesty.

[@AliyaMah-g1c]

This is literally my favourite podcast. Kristin you are seriously inspiring and watching you and growing up with you through the years is the best. The end made me so happy that feeling of calm and excitedness yess! keep doing great 💕

[@JeNn0mic0n]

Babe, I love your energy and zest for growth so much. As an Aries, you and I are Cardinal sisters and as such, I’ve already noticed the 16-year cycle shifting in my life. No more excuses, appreciate the bad with the good and look to a brighter sunrise (though I prefer sunsets). 🌅 You’re a major motivator in my life and I’ve already put the actions necessary in motion to live a healthier, happier and more fulfilling lifestyle. Hope I get to tell you all this in person someday, but irregardless, thank you so much for staying true to yourself and you’ve got this, too!

[@jessicahatch7719]

This is my most favorite episode so far! Lovin it! 🖤

[@JenniferCarmical]

I just adore you Kristin! Stay true to you and never change! and thank you for your honesty.

[@laneaspen7535]

Loved this!!! I just had a breakup three months ago n had to walk away from a man who was emotionally abusive. I am feeling sooo grateful now and myself again! Thank god!! I agree so much with what you said. I’ve learned soo much from it. N i wish him love even tho his last words were “you know I’m going to hate you forever for this!” Hurt ppl hurt ppl. I think one day he will call me saying sorry. N as for me I’m so happy n doin my thing!

[@nicolegaulin1360]

Kristin!! Please write a memoir! It would be so good

[@glendaaustin7226]

100 agree with this!!!

[@rachelmills7329]

LOVE all of this! I think that's why I keep listening; you're relatable especially during this season of my life.

[@indigofairy]

I’m at 39:17 and let me say, I am here for this energy! Edit- at 43:00 and you are only getting better. Amazing. Bravo

[@thestudioonwaverley]

Kristin, you are more aware about energy than you realize. Cutting cords, and not speaking about your exes, are essential ways to call your power back, amongst many others that you talk about. You remind me so much of myself and the journeys with exes (and dad issues too!), and the empowerment that comes on the other side of a break up. I came to realize how I healed was very intuitive and practiced my abilities, and have recently come out of the closet as an Energy and Tarot reader. All I have to say is that you are normalizing a lot of real metaphysical concepts, and I thank you for bringing that awareness to your audience. Energy work DOES work and it's badass magic in so many ways!

[@PeaceMatters5]

Omg motivational speaker in the house, I'm guna watch this everytime I have a break up(not manifesting it though) 😂😂❤

[@Luna_circe]

Lol I saved it to a playlist for the same ❤😂

[@HH-gv8mx]

Dude for someone who just moved, and has a busy life with kids and multiple projects going on… Your house looks fantastic! I was so busy when I moved into my apartment that when I moved out five years later, I realized there were things that were never unpacked, but just stayed in the same place in the same position as the day I moved in. My house was neat and organized, but there were paintings that never got hung up and bins of purses that never opened. I need to purge.

[@Mombielife1217]

This episode was so amazing Kristin 🙌🏽😭❤It was as if you were telling my story as well, it gave me chills. When you said When you break up they become evil and I never knew you brought me to tears. Left a Covert narcissist who had everything fooled like this amazing guy! We have a kid and I prayed for healing for him. I prayed that whatever hurt him I prayed that he would heal from it and give him the love he longed for. We are also now coparenting well. Power of prayer , change and love is not how we were programmed to react but know that maybe we need to be programmed to react with kindness love and empathy. Thank you so much for this 💛🙏.

[@MaribelRamos-n8u]

I love your positive outlook in any situation ❤️ your advice & energy you give is always so helpful 1,000%

[@shannonashley7935]

Thank you, Kristin! You are so relatable (including clenched jaw) and empowering... a reminder for all of us ✨️ 💛

[@Oneday-83-t2u]

I totally agree with you on the feelings that we get. It’s our instinctive way of saying to ourselves that something is off. And when we stay in. Unhealthy relationships our own bodies may become unhealthy. It’s insane!! If we just listened to ourselves we would be able to live our lives without the pain brought on by unhealthy habits.

[@claudiamoran7745]

I love Kristin! She’s amazing!!

[@fkngr8]

I just got divorced 2 years ago, after 30+ years of marriage. I felt so alone. It took me awhile to find a divorce group and that made me realize that, while the details are different, it's a lot the same for a whole lot of us. So much of what you are saying here is just on point for me. That internal question of how could he have ever loved me if he can treat me and talk to me like this. That feeling of coming out of the pain felt like it was almost all at once, especially after feeling pain that I thought I would live with my whole life. I feel like a better person now. I don't wish this on anyone but it's not going to end you, and you will be ok, and you will have peace on the other side of this.

[@ElisabethKanyer]

Im sorry seeing the pup in the background is so sweet. Love the in-house moments vs podcast studio energies admittedly? xoxoxo

[@kimsuch6723]

Thank you so much for this one! I'm a leaver too!!! I knew everything you said but didn't realize how much I needed to hear it.

[@paigealicious90]

you are the big sister we all needed

[@christiv2584]

Amen!!! I love that you continue to make yourself a priority and I love your confidence!!

[@evelynanderson3587]

I love your podcast. Your content, honesty, humor and advice is truly a gift. Loved you from Laguna days. Thank you for sharing your truth.

[@kathleenunger1219]

❤❤❤ Your podcasts keep getting better and better! Yes cutting chords and putting a bubble or pyramid of protection around you are real things that work 💯 and when you’re falling asleep you drift into a “Theta brainwave” which is where you can straddle two dimensions at once and create huge changes in your life! And yes Pluto moving into Aquarius on Nov 19th finally breaks a 16 year cycle. We experienced a little bit this past year but it retrograded back into Capricorn. Thank you again for sharing so much of your story and wisdom! ❤❤❤

[@Aniluu.Ramoss]

You’re fu***** amazing Kristen! Loveeeee your podcast. Came in soooooo handy today 💗

[@kdcounseling]

I remember getting the “Team Kristin” shirt at Hollister years and years ago. I wish I could find it again because I am still Team Kristin. Great episode. Great vibes ❤️❤️

[@Sabrinnaaa7]

yes to the astro stuff regarding cardinal signs!! i'm an aries sun also with some other placements in capricorn and cancer and mannnnn has it been rough lately over these past few months. loved that you brought this up and that you relate!

[@tekgid433]

This is against God. Please don’t follow this new age stuff

[@89Drmz]

I use to be one of those people that didn't believe in Astrology until I started digging Deeper some years ago. Pulling my chart on Cafe Astrology gave me some serious, in depth insight about myself. Some of it was wickedly, spot the fuck on! I wish more people had an open mind when it comes to it. Another great episode 💛

[@mariesandiego5291]

I still think you and Mark will get back together!! At least that’s what I wish…. Never seen you so happy when you were with him.

[@Chipotlayyy]

Hearing you say you saw butterflies during your divorce gave me goosebumps. I saw butterflies EVERYwhere leading up to and during my divorce, and they had never meant anything to be before that. Felt no connection to them…and then during that period of my life, I would see them and feel a little safe and a little warm and it just gave me this weird feeling like they were showing up just for me and that somehow I was doing the right thing. Very weird but I’ll never forget it.

[@beardedham5983]

thank you so much cousin Kristin - this was soooooo helpful for me - your message is very helpful

[@89Drmz]

Gosh, I love this little piece of the new home that I'm seeing. As Cali girls, we know you could never get that here. So much space, so beautiful! love the view

[@kristinaorido7606]

Loved this episode so much! Thank you for your honesty and transparency ❤

[@BadCane]

i really really enjoyed this one and related to it so much. its crazy how you and a person you don't even know personally can be so similar haha

[@christinem7711]

I’d love to see an episode on in laws/ grandparents and how you deal with that ? That would be so interesting to hear ❤

[@donna4light9]

I am honestly loving your podcasts 🙏💜

[@chantelnicole5107]

Not me wanting to go find Johnny for Kristin 🥹

[@Mombielife1217]

😂 same

[@Jayjay_0707]

This is a great podcast. Also, that lighting is sooo great, Kristin. You look amazing. You look closer now to what you did in Laguna Beach…a softness. for a while you were looking a little too angular and thin. I mean this in the best way.

[@esthertejada6882]

Anddddd she’s back!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 this is the Kristin I missed!! So glad you’re done with the boy toy sorry mark 😅

[@maryluzuribe3202]

everything you said it is so true, when you touch men's ego they are sooooo mean

[@CBPz]

To each their own, Real love is selfless, merciful, and undying. And isn't about what you want from the person, it's about two souls, seeing and loving each other regardless of anything.

[@lauravantassel8140]

Love you and your rawness!! I’ve been in a 20+ marriage completely unhappy and I know it’s time to move on.

[@yesick2658]

Girl I don’t know what kinda coffee you had, but I want it 😂! Love the entire energy you brought to this episode. Literally felt like I was sat there talking caca with my friewnnd 😊😂.

[@greggconnolly6856]

Leave with love!!!! I do that and understand that and it works! Hurt people do hurt people! You rock!!!

[@jenkenj]

As someone who went through a divorce about a year ago, everything she’s saying is sooo trueee! Also, as a Libra, I 100% can feel that whole karmic cycle thing. I won’t get into the details of my life but when I first found out about it and looked at how certain things have played out/when in my life, I’m like dammmnnnn😮😮

[@CalleighSheehan]

Love you Kristin!!! You are so strong. I know how hard it is when your fam breaks up as a unit.. not fun lol. Keep up the good work girl ❤️

[@wasabiimenace]

Your children are so blessed to have you as their mom. I feel like you would guide them & never be the type to put them down for whatever path they choose.

[@kaleyhobbs]

Thank you for your raw honesty and vulnerability. You are a total badass.

[@DKIkard]

Great episode! Looking forward to next week with Bobby Flay! I have all 3 of Kristin's cookbooks!! Love them all!!!!❤❤❤

[@Candiida78]

Love, love, love your podcast let’s be honest is honest 🎉❤

[@daveelitz2492]

I appreciate the honesty and vulnerability Kristin. Also been through divorce and breakups from 15 on. About to be 40 and divorce was also the first time facing things!!!

[@rose_quartz_loveandlight]

the cardinal sign shout out at the end, Kristen I screamed, we are your people!! Let's go!! Pluto can get all the way into Aquarius on the 19th of November I have it on my calendar!!!! 💖💫

[@o.benaicha5272]

Love you Kristin!!

[@sophielarrivee7844]

I needed this podcast! :) Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts! :) You made my day/week! :)

[@Takemetothepines]

Loved this episode so much. I see repeating numbers all the time too ❤️

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

That sweater looks so beautiful on you!! 😍

[@mixeduh]

We tend to think "don't think of the good things about them, think of the bad things, get angry!" I'm here to tell you, there's a BAD side of this. It probably won't happen to you unless it happens to you, but I swear, my last breakup left me SO ANGRY for over a year! Thoughts wouldn't stop about this person just because I had anger toward them, it just grew! and was awful. I feel like I'm alone in this weird experience though.

[@1231amandamarie]

Obsessed with you. Thank you for always keeping it real.

[@Kelliedavis]

This is the best podcast. You have great advice

[@kehrawoolfolk8680]

So good Kristen ❤ I’ve gone through a divorce and breaking up with a long-term bf and this was great advice! 💕

[@ShellyBomb]

♈ ~ Lastly, love the astrological comments towards the end of this podcast! Oh my gosh - I'm an Aries & sixteen (16) years ago this month - at the height of the recession I was laid off from the international law firm I'd worked for, i.e., a long-time! Starting at that period there's been alot of highs, but some plunging lows too. One most significantly was my beloved Dad's passing in November nearly seven years ago. Anyway, I will definitely go and read up on this transitional time for us Cardinal signs; thank you. Hugs from Southern California ~ ❤️‍🩹

[@lherz13]

I've really started looking up to you, Kristin. Thank you for working so hard on yourself and sharing the wisdom you've gained from your journey. Sending all the love and prayers your way for continued peace and happiness in your life ♥

[@emilydelbuonomusic]

Literally love 💕 when you upload a new episode 😍

[@TheSapphireCode111]

Hoʻoponopono is a great practice to ease the tension/pain between you & another. “I’m sorry, please forgive me. I love you. Thank you.” Even if you were not the cause of the issue, it’s a great practice because you become accountable for attracting the situation into your life, and then you become accountable for shifting the energy around it. In the end, only you can change, and this practice is a beautiful way to assist with this ❤️

[@stacie4943]

I asked for a sign from my grandma and ladybugs came up everywhere! I was giving birth and my husband walked into the hospital and a ladybug landed on the hospital bag

[@marianalaserna2664]

30:55 30:55 30:55 30:55 30:55 30:55 30:55

[@joannad7384]

Started this video at 2:22am…:))) And I said thank you angels and spirit guides. 🙏🙏🙏 The signs are everywhere and I’m thankfully very receptive to them 💖💖💖 I love it! And love this girl so much! And appreciate the HONESTY… thank you 🤗💖

[@jaceroniandcheese]

Divorce also fixed my jaw problem 😂😂😂 thank you for this talk, Kristen- loving your podcast- you were always my fave on the shows you were on so this all you all episode format works way better for me 😇

[@Mombielife1217]

I had sleep paralysis and since I left have not had an incident

[@tashaneuhaus]

​@@Mombielife1217same 😅😅😅😅 5 yrs of that shit

[@mayra8464]

Love this episode so much. ❤

[@alexthomson3230]

*Recalls back to her quote from Laguna Beach… “I think I know what I do. I think I like tell guys shit that I really don’t mean.” 😂😂😂 Love you, Kristin. ❤

[@Sperez1324]

You are like my big sis, Kristin!! Fellow Capricorn here ❤

[@danielareina6269]

Woooo!!! How I needed to hear this in this moment! 🙌🏽

[@Saure55]

Libra here with a Capricorn moon and yes 16 years of pure hell. I feel like I’m on the cusp of a huge change. Not unstoppable yet but like Cinderella just sleepy but waking up.

[@rickynunez3109]

you know what i found that helped me have a good mind set for brake ups? think of it this way you can only hold and never own. we are borrowing everything time, money, and life its all for rent. one day you will have to give back your body to the earth. the same thing goes for relationships and the connector you had. dennzel washington said you'll never see a u-haul behind a hearse. letting go is an art we fight to hold on and we fight to let go.

[@dariagurl]

Love this ep but the basket on the ground is really getting the neat freak in me going. I really want to pick it up and put it away!

[@blanebl435]

I love your background that view and those windows are the best of your show ❤

[@SandiGuthrie]

Kristen, I did the cutting the cord over my abusive ex. I left a controlling abusive marriage and ended up with my Jr. High sweetheart. I fell so hard as an adult for him just as I did in Jr. High. He was my everything. I became obsessed with the idea of him. He wood me and made me feel on top of the world then he started breaking me down. He crushed my sole as a women, he took my security and confidence away from me and goodness I could go on and on. BUT when I left it got extremely evil and scary. I could feel his thoughts and I moved to another town where I knew I would never see him, but I could feel him thinking about me (good and evil thoughts). We were so connected and out of no where in the midst of feeling those thoughts he would text me. It was scary and also I dunno I can't find the word. It was addicting. I learned of the red cords (being connected to another sole) and I learned of cutting the cords. My best friend and I sat down one night and she helped me, when she finally cut the cord (using scissors and cutting an invisible cord in the air), I felt my whole body tingle like a spark, like cutting an extension cord that is plugged in and you touch an open spot and you get a zap. I never felt his thoughts after that. I struggled for along time to get over him and what ever hold he had on me but I will NEVER forget that night. So I believe what you are saying. That shit is real and exists.

[@annettesworld]

Fan since Laguna we love you Kristen ❤ Thanks for sharing

[@francesca2317]

Your best podcast ever. E.V.E.R.

[@JenniferRohrer-t4d]

Loved this one! Thank you ❤

[@itsBROOK1E]

Im a capricorn with aries and cancer too wtf!! Yes this is the end of the bad luck cycle. holy shit.

[@CristinaH0x]

I dk why but this podcast has me balling in tears. It’s as if you spoke all the inner words I have been feeling. I am going through a horrible breakup of a long relationship and friendship. And I really have had to face it on my own. Everyone in my life just wants me to move on and get over it already. They never really provided a safe place to just grieve and not put a timeline to it. This wasn’t any breakup it was the breakup. I’m grieving our friendship we had and the relationship we created. I can’t just pick up and keep it moving that. I haven’t never experienced this level of heartbreak before. It’s as if it was a soul tie that is apart of me and unfortunately it still doesn’t feel finished in my gut. It’s been the loneliness of times. I lost pretty much everything. I moved in with him and gave up my job, home and everything. This breakup basically broke me in half. Some days I couldn’t even get out of bed and I’m still struggling to do so some days. I let go of the anger to him and asked god to help me forgive him cause the anger was killing me. So I did forgive him. But I feel like a half of me is still missing. Like I have not felt whole since him. I basically live in fight and flight mode just to get through the days. I have never spoken to anyone in my life of this feeling because again I don’t feel safe to. The things about the 16 yrs really resonates with me. I’m a Libra and I hope to god that this 16 yr curse (and I say curse cause it has felt like it) ends soon and I can find happiness in life again. Sorry I didn’t mean to give you my life story but I did want to say thank you for reading my heart and my mind. It feels good to know someone gets it. 🙏🏽🫶🏼🦋

[@ShellyBomb]

💔 ~ Kristin: It seemed you really loved Mark, so I realize this had to be an extremely difficult decision to arrive at and very unselfish on your part! Sending you love, light & healing in the time ahead ... ❤️‍🩹

[@wowsavannah]

I really needed to hear this right now. ❤ I’m breaking up with my old life

[@thevixenxiii]

Also love that you’re into astrology and spirituality 🩵