Breakups, The Guilt of Moving On and First Dates

Join us as we explore the ups and downs of relationships and breakups! We'll discuss how to know when it's time to break up with someone, the stages of heartbreak (from shock to acceptance), and why we often feel guilty for moving on. Plus, we'll share tips on how to rediscover yourself and find love again. Don't miss this candid conversation about love, loss, and learning!
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[@pumzamdlatu2876]

Missed you guys. Please bring back old setup/both of you on one camera or screen. Changing over stimulates the brain and eyes

[@mimimsongelwa47]

I agree

[@SibsM93]

It also makes it look like they're not in the same room.

[@anitaamantle]

I was just about to say the multiple switches overestimate me

[@laonemotswakadikgwa2568]

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[@LeratoSenyakoe-sk8pq]

😂😂😂😂😂dead!!! I hear you shem

[@MoetK21]

Lebo's Emotional maturity is very exceptional

[@BigChoppinTee]

Do yall see the glow on Thato rampedi or its only me, I see God working on him.

[@preciousdhlamini6496]

Same here,he look happy

[@user-dx1ot7fj7p]

You know it's time to break up when you don't care about fixing things anymore. When you're exhausted fromm trying and you like "it's whatever now"

[@ManziniDrives]

“Sometimes I put on sunscreen but the date is at night “😂👏🏾

[@lashani.pako11]

Bathing twice with 2 different soaps lmaoo

[@ofentsesebaka3485]

Lebo, YFM needs you!

[@Mpho_T]

I want to see yall on the same couch😭😭

[@Lulu_chirwa]

"never beg for attraction"🙌

[@bongiwegladys1610]

These gents are super intelligent and well spoken ✨

[@Msmamas™]

I actually like the older set up more.

[@OfentseMk]

The hard pill to swallow is having to let go of someone you’ve fallen inlove with , their absent presence is something that is hard to go back to now doing things on your own because that person became apart of your routine is something that’s never easy to adjust to

[@yolandaleve7245]

yho ha a two screens tire the eyes and brain its easier when you both on the same screen

[@sheabutterbabyy.931ndlovu2]

I think this switch between angles is Okay but we ALSO NEED A THIRD ANGLE ❤❤where y'all are both on screen

[@user-dx1ot7fj7p]

Good to have you back. I personally prefer the old set up where we can see the both of you at once. It really creates good chemistry when we see yall together. The split angles feel a little distant.

[@charlottemygal528]

True

[@reamorena3509]

This thing of Lebo being funny, empathetic, confident and having the ability to understand and read people is scary. Because he can decide, does he want to nyisa you or be kind? To be the master one must understand the game = "maybe she'll say wait!... Did he just say boundaries?"

[@den.ii_se]

They are backkkk!!!!! Can we have you guys in one frame 😭

[@KwakhanyaJibiliza]

You guys articulate yourselves so well !!

[@reabetswemosetsanagape5093]

Me watching this and feeling left out bc i have never been taken on a date 😂😂

[@Botse_Maaboi]

Same maybe its because I'm still young too relate.

[@Okuhle_Mnisi]

Bro. I've made a decision a long time ago to take myself out once a month coz hayii I don't think I'll ever be taken out

[@vuyokazimthethwa]

I’ve missed so many chapters 😩 When did Thato accept Christ into his life? Love to see it man😅

[@agnesaggy1571]

Right? Noticed a bit of new vocabulary in his speech, Love it for him❤

[@vuyokazimthethwa]

@@agnesaggy1571 Precisely! He still has a lot to unlearn, but the lil lingo cute shem.

[@kgalalelomotsatsi9288]

Such a healthy, intentional group of guys (you guys + friends)

[@thandekanderka8190]

Love that you guys are comfortable but justice for the old setup!😭

[@iMbaulaPodcast]

Awesome Episode, gents… And it’s been a minute indeed! Singleness neh… I somehow believe that since I am (have been) single today, the portion assigned to me for today is singleness. It is God’s gift. Singleness ought not to be viewed as a problem, nor marriage as a right. God in his wisdom and love grants either as a gift. Rather than that, I cannot wait to go back to the scene of dating. It has been an amazing two years (thus far), and I have learned a lot about myself that I had no clue about. Anyway, loving the episode gents! Keep it up… 👊🏾 Regards, Kamohelo Hlasa

[@ReitumetseBaholo]

A year later and I still Love love this show❤️never looked back 🥹

[@zandicarter5113]

Lebo Is very mature. I enjoyed his insights on modern relationships

[@OfentseMk]

It’s so real that you never get into a relationship wanting to break up same as the concept of getting married to get divorced sometimes it’s unfortunate that things happen in life and result in outcomes that we don’t always want yet we have to accept as hard as it

[@somi_1061]

Who saw breakup and thought Thato is going to talk about kamo 😂😂😂

[@kgotlelelomonyepao]

You 😂😂😂

[@kgomotsomotau7105]

@@kgotlelelomonyepao 🤣😆🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chumamarleymgini]

Lol, this was lovely to watch! I sometimes wish I was a guy because it's not frowned upon when you approach someone you're interested in. It's so hard for us ladies to take the first step..😆

[@miyandamahlangu469]

Right😂I feel the same way to.

[@chumudilamoody7017]

Around 19:19 ,I think for the most part is about being accommodating & compassionate and we tend to distance our identities from whatever challenge we're willing to take up when we're passionate about something, we embrace it... sure we tend to use the word 'sacrifice' often around those situations but I think it's mostly an emphasis thing, because the word does carry some weight in its "actual" usage. But really I think it's too heavy of a word for situations we casually assign it to, I agree that there'd be situations were you actually sacrifice for your partner but those ,advisably, should be rare. Healthy compromises here and there are good for the relationship, especially when these sacrifices aren't just one sided. A Facebook friend once said something along the lines of "Compassion can be the cloak of self-abuse, of tolerating being mistreated. We must include ourselves in the circle of compassion and protect and mother ourselves reasonably" I'm paraphrasing...I like most of what you fellows said round that time mark, and as always I enjoyed watching this video

[@reabetswemosetsanagape5093]

Not this angle, guys. Please and thank you, we missed seated with our favorite brothers.😊

[@zethufasi3699]

How do I like this video a 100 times, 10/10 if you ask me😮‍💨

[@givenmabussi]

This video came at the best time. Thank you for creating a space where men and women alike can have these kinds of vulnerable conversations.

[@ms._zvinodavanhu]

I love how they acknowledge God more often, may God bless the work of your hands!❤

[@lesegoprincessleeuw500]

Lebo is messy & I'm here for it😭😂. He always comes for Thato sideways😂😂

[@Mbbarliie_16]

I preferred the old set up where we can just see y'all same time

[@mubveleli7204]

Both men and women are emotional beings ,whoever Said men don't use emotions lied 😅 Thato is correct 👌 compatability is key 🔑

[@lifewithqueenSolo]

Thank you Rampedi brothers for this... "We build up a Fatigue & accept the next best thing" I have been there for the past 4 years. And I am now in the process of unlearning that. I am now relearning that I deserve better. YHO Mjolo, uyatrappa.

[@LaoTheDesigner]

I enjoyed this episode I watched it 3 times on different days

[@boitumelorapulane3834]

I’m really glad you guys are back:)

[@Prince_Haremgard]

ive been waiting for yall

[@Geegee-r1n]

Did he just say boundaries ?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂killed me!

[@Sage_Blaq]

Truly I had missed this show❤‍🔥

[@sheila9480]

I love love this episode ❤️❤️

[@LoyisoM_Maloizy]

Damn ! This epidode is up there with my top 3 ! Job well done once again Rampedi brothers!!🔥

[@sinawomthini]

"Some people live in that toxic environment because you get to still get a piece of that person" Lebo🔥 You guys are amazing, this is some breath of freshair podcast❤️ ❤

[@ratzdoll-yc1ml]

the podcasts this week 💥 rampedi media is doing the most ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

[@asekhoyonela4327]

11/10🔥 how you articulate yourselves and the fits are on fire as well❤ loved the previous set up though

[@magokgoalemashile7814]

This was amaizing ❤❤❤❤

[@thandekarabe6011]

Thoroughly enjoyed this ❤

[@LaoTheDesigner]

Lebo’s game 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I didn’t know he was this cool 😊cool kid

[@SAMusic936]

This episode is laced🔥

[@jamie-leewarries554]

Welcome back guys missed ❤️ seated so much Love the new setup all the best on the new amazing journey 😊😊

[@dineomashao4840]

I enjoyed this episode wholeheartedly, there's was no moment that didn't leave me grinning or laughing ❤🥹.

[@PrincessMogale]

I looooved this episode so much🥺🥺🥺

[@Shadow12-w]

Thank you!! Was getting tired of rewatching old episodes 😂❤

[@happylovelorn4518]

Haw the lost sons have returned. You guys were missed so much! What an amazing episode, as always..❤

[@nomceboDlamini-ip6nz]

Yhuu this was deep 🥺❤️💯so many facts

[@KelebogileMpho-ov6xn]

Missed these talks and I'm sure I'm not the only one ❤

[@ambermose5608]

Thato Ramza is Constantly evolving❤ not only imindset but his style too . Tressure le

[@kegowsebigi1156]

Rampedi brothers finally👏

[@MoetK21]

more of these please🥲

[@SthembileButhelezi-zk3mw]

I love this conversation 🥺♥️🫂

[@Lephoi]

😂😂😂 This was too good!! ❤

[@kuts.thwala]

This episode ate, 10/10!!😅

[@lovemore5993]

Yes please continue with seated😂 i had to go back and watch all the content you posted ... I'm definitely hooked

[@lwalwantunzela4260]

Missed you Guys. 🤩one of favourite pod

[@MoosaGrace]

You guys are so matured and it's so attractive😌... Defenitely loved this one and yeah remember that God comes first in everything💯, it only makes sense when he is involved 😊❤

[@q.7628]

😂😂😂I love these two! ❤I haven't watched or listened to them in a long time

[@glowingupwithkenako]

Loved this it made me really happy ❤

[@Divine_Kalonji]

This episode was a vibe!!...Rampedi Brothers will always make you laugh thanks guys 🤞😂😂❤

[@Peneyambeko-qm2wu]

This episode was lit 🔥

[@merculamongonyama506]

ugh mahn i love the Rampedi Brothers.😂

[@italiatsotetsi8347]

Everytime Lebo speaks I get goosebumps ya’ll I’m like wait a minute 😅Thato is so matured and this was very interesting to watch ❤️#Rampedi brothers

[@GracefulYvonne]

How you approach a girl depends on the type of person they are. I am a simple girl so the example yol used works for me, simple and straightforward.

[@Rorisang_.]

the unison “wait” part for me🤣🤦🏾‍♀️like a romantic comedy🔥🔥

[@itszanisWorld]

This podcast was too good man 😂❤

[@lindiweQueenFoko]

Enjoyed this,you guys articulate yourselves so well!

[@mpendulomncube4742]

Thato bro excellent styling👌🏽and exceptional color coordination. Very classy.

[@siyamajay]

I was thinking about you guys earlier today so you can imagine how excited I am to watch this 👏🏾❤ PLEASE PLEASE GO BACK TO THE OLD SET UP WHERE YOU SIT SIDE BY SIDE ON THE SAME SCREEN 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@sheila9480]

Missed you guys but I loved seeing you guys on one screen this switching back and forth is not working 😭

[@nataschalosper1760]

Finally flippen finally!!!😢 I missed the Rampedi boys tho. Aowa!! Don't do this to us please.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ My people mos.

[@fadzai_sithole]

y’all have the realest conversations, y’all might have just healed me nyana😉😂🤭

[@nandiphamashabane2862]

What a wholesome episode ❤️

[@GossiphiveEnt]

What was Kamo on about in her stories last night though 🤔 uyaGowa bandla and it’s seems like she’s in a very dark place

[@Eugoleope]

This brother THATO is so commited you can already see from the graphics and clearness of his videos 😢

[@allthingsluxury6877]

Uuuuu " I can't deal with this thing alone" ❤❤

[@mphorakodi7347]

"talk to me nicely" 🤣🤣🤣 the account going from Private to Public is so real😭😭 yoh

[@IamMelissa-gx7qe]

Love these two

[@NomaMPride]

They are great

[@tino_chihwayi]

Loved this❤😂

[@cordeliafakude2908]

Really enjoyed watching this 😂😂

[@hopetozana496]

🎉🎉🎉Welcome back gents 😊

[@tshegofatsomphago393]

this is one of my favourite episodes

[@gettingtoknowyouwithandile5450]

Am the only one like it for the Rampedi brothers yoh l come along way with Thato Rampedi content since back in the days used to vlog thru his day varsity family apartment and relationship damn am a big fan l so wish to be invited once l touch down Southa l live abroad🙌🏿

[@prettymngomamngoma6461]

To think that I almost believe that such guys WD this kind of mentality doesn't exist, am happy to know kuty one day I'll met one for myself.

[@siyabongainnocent4952]

Finally🔥🔥

[@Khehlani]

This is so hard to listen to, i lost such a god guy💔 funny thing we always sorted out our issues right away and forgave each other almost immediately but man things just happen💔💔💔

[@Botse_Maaboi]

So sorry Hlani 😢 hopefully someday you get blessed with a good and healthy relationship. You deserve love still🥺

[@josephmadu8926]

Lebo Tiller .......murdered it!

[@khosipenelope5731]

The compatibility chat🔥

[@VuyisileMasilela]

Yes I missed this segment

[@fried.c]

"if the sound is coming from the Bluetooth is ready to pair,it might not go through but if it's coming from a JBL it might be able to get across" lebo kills me🤣🤣😭😭😭

[@ethichadebe]

Yoh what a bad time to listen to this, I'm at the office and I feel numb