11 Mistakes Single Women Make

[@BreenyLee]

HAPPY SUNDAY GUYZ!! Which mistake do you keep making while single? Comment below ♥️ Download Meditopia for free and enjoy the premium version for 7 days: bit.ly/MeditopiaBreenyLee

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

The mistake I USED to make was being to NEEDY.

[@sadebell9097]

I forget who I am. And I get depressed because I be feeling lonely.

[@miasministry07]

I dont make mistakes because im not looking but i see my sisters and friends going after a man who dont want them so i would say lack of self love is what they do.

[@miasministry07]

Breeny. I been watching you for awhile and i wanna know are we expecting a lil breeny?

[@inesa5751]

Same love saaaaame

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

Less sugar, more fruit. Less soda, more water. Less driving, more walking. Less worry, more sleep. Less words, more action. 🔥🔥

[@welikelethabo]

I took a screenshot of this and I’m sharing it💕💕💕

[@coreedavis8556]

@@welikelethabo so did I! 😊

[@EarthGurl08]

🤗

[@elim243]

Me too : ))

[@courtneyholmes7827]

Yessss! This post is everything!❤

[@textliebe3141]

1- thinking something is wrong with you 2- idealizing relationships 3- falling in love with the idea of being in love 4- believing in the one/ soulmates (over spiritualizing matches) 5- putting your life on hold and waiting for the one to be happy (don‘t go to places just because you could meet „him“ there) 6- not being happy alone/ lesrn to love yourself 7- accepting a situationship 8- not having any standards because you want to be in relationship too bad 9- expecting a finished product 10- not actually preparing mentally, physically, spiritually for a relationship 11- not believing that you ever gonna find a man ❤️

[@traceylennon1204]

Romanticism..that's actually what I thought being in a relationship was especially seeing my crush in his relationship.. glad to know that's not the case..(how naive am I for thinking this)??

[@PuppyGems]

Thank you so much. Helped me to want to watch the vid ❤️

[@abiolaopeyemi6027]

Thank you!!!

[@nothandontshalintshali4335]

Thank you 🌷💕

[@andreeailie9053]

Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@tadi_unlimited]

My mistake is being too overly enthusiastic about every new love interest .Which is not always a good thing cause it gets confused with desperation or lack of independence .

[@rosepestana9516]

Yeah I feel you, I get enthusiastic and even though I don't show it, I get dissapointed when things don't go as I was expecting

[@pamellayantolo3797]

Me tooo 💔

[@Sd-ns4vo]

Samee

[@DOTTIE25]

So relatable 😉

[@potentialrizing1949]

SAME 😩

[@lucylou2532]

Turning 25 in a few days and I have never been in a relationship but I would rather wait for the right person

[@shafinasalauddin5392]

Sameee

[@lizzielazars7389]

Omg same! I’m turning 25 in January and I’ve never been in a relationship either and don’t want to commit to anyone only when I know we have something real and not because of the pressure to get a boyfriend

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

25... Your young. Yes. Wait!

[@ThatgirlM92]

Girl I said the same thing when I was 25 and now I’m sitting here at 28, about to be 29 in a few months and not a single romantic prospect in sight... As I’m approaching my 30’s I never imagine I’ll still be single and never experienced a relationship in my entire life. You try your best to stay positive and watch videos like these to keep your spirits up but I’ll be lying to you if I told you it doesn’t bother me most days.

[@linda-jeanhammond740]

Me too

[@welikelethabo]

Someone once said “You should want your partner not need them”

[@Pursuit4happiness]

Omg yes when I feel like I need them they done traumatized me and i need to cope from trauma lol

[@Izzyness123]

“You won’t die if you’re single” PERIODDD

[@cinnamonparsley6384]

Lots of old lonely single people die everyday

[@Melly16yr10]

@@cinnamonparsley6384 Is there any back up evidence as in scentific proof or studys？ just curious about your comment. not trying to get in a bad arguement or mean to be offensive.

[@nicksmith-cx1fx]

Romantic love is ok to bring 2 people together but it fades over time. On the other hand companionship love increases over time. You see those 80 year olds still madly in love, that is companionship love. Intimacy is built when you resolve your differences.

[@welikelethabo]

Oof I learnt something new. THANK UUU💕💕💕

[@rouhn]

whats companionship love? dont they have romance?

[@becky15707]

I stance this is what I tried to tell people .

[@nicksmith-cx1fx]

Romantic love is the initial infatuation which quickly fades. Companionship love is built over time. Where you genuinely care for each other. You share your lives openly and honestly and without pretense. You work to resolve your differences, you love spending time with each other. You start to appreciate and admire each other, you learn from each other

[@becky15707]

@@nicksmith-cx1fx thank you , you worded it better than I could .

[@NB-bz1to]

2:28 = thinking there is something wrong with you 5:49 = falling in love with the idea of being in love 8:23 = overspiritualizing relationships 10:48 = putting your life on hold 14:36 = accepting situashipships 15:18= Not having standards 17:47 = not being prepared

[@relleyy]

Thank youuuuu

[@sofooq7853]

Thanks 😊

[@kiearacelina]

Trust me sisters, learning to be by yourself is probably my favourite piece of advice from this video. Learn to enjoy your own time, learn how to spoil yourself and cater to yourself, it’s not always about putting effort, energy & love into a partner, invest that into yourself so that you can become the best version of yourself before a man arrives. One KZbinr said “it’s either you learn to love your time alone or you force yourself into a relationship that ends up being toxic and now your in a relationship still feeling alone”. Go to that museum, go to that restaurant, go sit in that park go where ever you want and do what ever you want by yourself, it’s Honnestly so freeing and I’m telling you guys, DO NOT FORCE YOURSELF INTO A RELATIONSHIP just for the sake of saying that you have a man. I learned the very hard way that not letting things happen naturally can bite you in the a**, I ended up with a whole psycho/stalker.... not a vibe! Great video as usual, I can stay here all day and watch 😅😍

[@alexjohnson2693]

Hello dear😉 Are single or married??

[@AllThingsTiffanyTV]

i was one of those women lost in imagination. i'm a hopeful romantic and a sucker for romance. i had to have a reality check. sighs.......

[@anissa2361]

Same! I be making up whole movies in my head! 😂

[@schantellabraham2]

Lmao same! But I recently turned down a guy and told him I need to focus on some other shit cause what the fuck man. He wasn't great for me anyway.

[@blubla5409]

it’s so addicting tho

[@Alyssa18633]

i cried my eyes out last night because everyone around me, all my friends and family are getting married and having kids. i am still single as fuck. i have no one and these people have found their forever loves. I'm in my mid 20s and am geniuenly worried that i won't find anyone by the time I'm 30. It is so scary for me because i am so far behind. I feel extremly isolated and left out. Family gatherings are awkward as hell because everyone keeps asking me if i have a boyfriend and when i want to have kids. it is so depressing. I don't want to settle for someone who doesn't make me happy but i also dont want to be alone. I dont know what to do to not feel like this anymore.

[@laurelmalinowski1676]

Girl, try being 38 and in that same position. You have PLENTY of time. Try to relax and not stress so much. Don’t focus on it. Just live you life and things will fall into place.

[@Giggles50]

What have your past relationships been like? Men in their 20s are normally not serious unless they have a career and things in place. Are you open to all races? Try not to limit your options if you are doing that. Does your family members have friends or know someone who’s available? Why ask if you have a boyfriend unless they have someone for you? Don’t become desperate because it will make you pick the wrong person. Please get a hobby if you don’t have one, stay occupied. Also make sure you are ready to choose the right person, get to know them and don’t be afraid to lose anyone. Remember you are looking for someone with morals, a plan, respectful etc.

[@xxsorrow4tHEbRoKen]

I feel your pain. Trust me I’m 31 and I never fell in love until my last relationship. Everyone around me has a partner, imagine how this makes me feel. Just gotta accept that some people are not ready or blessed with love

[@Beatrice-jm6zs]

We all have different timelines. The right one will come along. We are all waiting because I am. It will worth the wait.

[@aprilthompson5154]

I experienced the same thing. It's very uncomfortable to be single especially when people keep asking rude questions like where's your boyfriend. Ask them if they know anyone good they can introduce you to. When they say no, you can say I rest my case.

[@sass95]

I feel like this is sign for me😂😂😂

[@selwa03]

Same 😂

[@mingvlogs]

Samee

[@graceytumbagahon9395]

Same lol

[@jacks7137]

Lmaoo same just broke up with my boyfriend✨

[@christianawilliams7764]

@@jacks7137 in the same boat, but we WILL get through it xx

[@slaterwoman9237]

I really needed to hear that first one. Everyone around me has somebody and I don't which, for some reason, makes me feel like I'm a loser or there's something wrong with me. I know I shouldn't be thinking this but I do. I just want to work on myself right now and improve myself. If you can't love yourself, how can you love anyone else? I never understood this until now.

[@afrohersheys22]

Feeling the exact same way! I be talking down on myself like I’m a loser, I’m not good enough... it’s been really bad these past few days but this video is god sent for me 🙏🏾 I’ll never give up on myself and my worth no matter what

[@tikax2085]

I agree, relationships are overrated. I strongly believe its about working on yourself first then meet a partner thats for you.

[@anapaulatala]

I think one of my biggest mistakes is being in love with the idea of romance as a real relationship. Waiting around and thinking that the next guy could be the one 😂🙈 And it’s so hard because I know that I should not be doing these things but I keep on going back😞. Randomly I just catch myself imagining, day dreaming and always hoping 😳 ( working progress 🙏🏼) Thank you B for this. It really feels good to see that I not alone feeling like this and there’s so many ladies learning and growing in singleness 🥳

[@anissa2361]

I think about romance alot too, however I know it takes more than that in a relationship.

[@potentialrizing1949]

Your not alone sis...women are conditioned this way always feeling the need to prove ourselves and seek validation from men. At least you recognize it now so you can make a conscious effort to stop when you get caught up in those moments. Single 3 years but I'm working on it too. Lol 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@Brenda-uf8pk]

😭👑🙏💫☀️ yes you are not alone! Thank you for sharing

[@suzyfleur]

single is lucky and happy One 👍=👍good 😂

[@CarasPlace]

12:42 💯♥️ he’s only a chapter, not the full book.

[@digitalbimpetv]

Breny Lee, we need a lot of women who are goal-getter, happy by themselves, heal from broken relationships really key, have wealth of experience and be the best version of herself I went through those journey of those mistakes but as we grow older, we mature and be realistic and now focus on what makes you happy, so when your partner comes into your life, he flows along with your plans. God bless you Breny Lee

[@kimberlycuyler5411]

Amen, and positively true words spoken.

[@digitalbimpetv]

@S. O. 💯

[@digitalbimpetv]

@@kimberlycuyler5411 💯

[@Nokss87]

Infact stop pushing us to be "goal getters" we are fine as we ARE!!

[@delphinakejo9216]

"He's not the ending of your book, he is a chapter" !!!!!!! this is a geemm

[@gingers2555]

That beginning golden hour glow hit different on Breeny 🥺💕💕

[@welikelethabo]

Facts

[@BreenyLee]

Hehe ☺️

[@CS-wk1cu]

To be honest, I’m single and I feel this situation as a punishment. I feel like something is wrong with me because I don’t know how to keep a men some women’s do, seem like it’s easy for them. Honestly I’m feel very very down, I really try my best to remove this pain but it’s actually impossible for me to deal with the fact that I’m single

[@YassmineWantsPeace]

I Invite you to turn to God/Allah sis and focus on yourself, your family and your friends. Then automatically a man finds YOU when the time comes 💚 much love 🤗

[@AlmasiDodson]

Don’t see it as punishment LUV see it as an opportunity to learn how you can improve yourself , this will help you see where you may be going wrong in relationship ... try writing down the good and bad in all the relationships you ever had and see if their is any similarities .. this will help you with your growth and future relationship

[@AlmasiDodson]

Also you are blessed and beautiful and never feel that singleness is form of punishment God has more for you

[@CS-wk1cu]

@@YassmineWantsPeace Thank you lovely, I will definitely change my vision of being single, God bless you 💕

[@CS-wk1cu]

@@AlmasiDodson I don’t know how to show you my gratitude because what you said is exactly what I should do. Very nice advice, thank you sis and God bless you ❤️✨

[@insomniacbabe712]

This one goes straight to my favourites to listen whenever I feel down or upset. The last point... It's hard Breeny. I'm 22 and sometimes I feel like I should be in a rush, like there's no time. I've just graduated from college with the highest score and yet I feel empty. Nonetheless, God is always by my side. Thank you ❤️

[@shenabarrera]

If you have God, you shouldn't feel empty (I'm talking to myself, too) instead let's divert this "emptiness" to Jesus, Our Lord, because this is the best relationship we have in our lives. Talk to Jesus about everything and ask Him how He wants to mold you into a better human being and most importantly, a DAUGHTER of God. Don't forget to be grateful. 😊 God bless you!

[@uGuguTshabalala]

Congratulations girl ❤️❤️💐

[@insomniacbabe712]

@@uGuguTshabalala thank you 💕

[@thesunshinefactory3016]

Girl perfect timing. Just became single, I've been in and out of relationships since 17 and I am 27 now. Honestly I dont knks now to be single but this is something I am gonna embrace. I am a little behind with my goals so I am gonna push that

[@hildavuhasio1133]

Don't worry.. Take it a day at a time.. I'm in the exact same phase and I'm embracing it😊

[@lizzielazars7389]

Thank you so much Breeny! Turning 25 in two months and never been in a relationship while all of my friends are in a relationship or have had many relationships. Especially when people ask why someone who’s beautiful and smart is still single, then it makes me second guess myself: am I too difficult, am I too demanding, too strong for a woman, is there something wrong with my manners? I really needed this! You’re an angel!! 💕💕

[@SherliseAnei]

Me: I’m bored Breeny: * uploads * THANKS GIRL 😂💕

[@corianderfish1999]

Since my last breakup, I was broken and went through a phase of friends with benefits until it was too much- and I decided to go on a 3 month celibacy (no sex, not even date of any sort). Just focusing on me, I , and myself. That experience enlightened me so much and every point Breeny said in this video is completely accurate. 🙌🏻Thank you sis ! Whoever is reading this I am sending you peaceful and abundant energy 🙏🏼✨

[@AlmasiDodson]

When you see other people in a relationship and getting married around your age especially women in their 30s sometimes it can make you feel like you’ve been dropped .. but we must remember as women that God has a timing for everything in our life and he will never fail or lie .. if God said that you will get married or get your desire relationship you will receive it in Jesus name ... just don’t give up on faith ladies .. don’t allow this “CUFFING SEASON” to get you down .. focus on your self growth and everything will fall into place ♥️

[@thesunshinefactory3016]

I needed this. I just became single a few hours back. I am 27. I havent been single since 17 years🤣 I dont even know how to be single. I am so nervous. I've never been me alone. It's always been me and someone...but God has a plan. I know he does. I am a little behind in life,gonna use and take this time to catch up.

[@AlmasiDodson]

@@thesunshinefactory3016 I understand lol... I been single for awhile now so I get it .... I feel that this the most divine time in your life to get to learn yourself more .. try sending yourself flowers or taking yourself on a date ... it may seem awkward but it will boost your confidence and it will help you on your journey

[@thesunshinefactory3016]

@@AlmasiDodson God bless you and thank you so much for the beautiful beautiful advice♥️🌼

[@AlmasiDodson]

@@thesunshinefactory3016 Anytime 🤎 🤗

[@amberwhitley5012]

I’m 15 and have been watching your videos for awhile. I’m getting through my first break up and I’m finally starting to get over him after only three days. Self development has been one of my hobbies for the past couple of years and it has built me so much as a person and who I am. Thank you so much!

[@kappanerz]

Ew, if someone really said that they don’t date “dark-skinned women,” he isn’t it, sis, even if you aren’t dark-skinned. Way disrespectful of God’s creation. Breeny, you are SO lovely! 😘

[@Pursuit4happiness]

Yeah that crap is traumatizing and run lol ... I meet a guy who had color preferences but insisted he was in love with me yeah attraction mattress and they need to be honest and will be honest with self know dudes type of it ain’t me that’s okay

[@marwatabet3934]

OMG I'M LOVING THE AMOUNT OF CONTENT!

[@meredithkaletski6359]

Ikr!

[@deschainerideaux]

I needed this 😔 Thank you 💕 I feel at times it’s “harder” for singles to hear this, but it’s facts

[@ijeBeauty]

“They don’t realize that the person they put down is Jesus” Facts

[@lazaneemiller3938]

Riighht!! girl she shook me👏🏾

[@mariannimoh9514]

Damn breeny. You are really gifting us lately with the video updates ❤️ God bless you. To be honest, I choose to be single after 7 years of being in a relationship. I love being single. Thinking of myself. Focusing on God, my dreams, my self and my career. The one hater who disliked this video must be in a relationship they wish to get out from but cannot. May we pray for them. LOL

[@neomashishi3532]

Ironically i literally was thinking about my single self 10 minutes ago

[@EsencjaWaniliowa]

"Learn to accept who you are. It's not fair to ask someone else to accept you when You don't accept yourself" - it hit me so hard!!! Thank You honey for your time and effort and making those videos.. wonderful

[@fanmpire12]

Come see consistency 🥺

[@ashinzevictoria5939]

The worst part about being single for a Long time is that the world thinks u are the problem, and that hurts a lot cause I know I’m an amazing person. Nice to see these comments, shows I’m not alone.

[@tianaleigh7984]

Yes lovey !!! Thank you for this beautiful message 🤍🙏🏼 being in the single season is okay !!! I feel like the idea of love is overly saturated through the projections of media especially. There’s beauty in the single process of being alone and learning self.

[@lesliedejoya]

Let's give some appreciation to the amazing autumn lighting that shines on Breeny 🍁💕🍂

[@4omg5]

I've been single for 8 years. But I rather be single than miserable. I have dated and haven't found someone I truly connect with

[@Im.aliciaharper]

Thank you for this! I learned all of this the hard way. After leaving my mentally and emotionally abusive marriage, I didn’t even know who I was anymore. Your videos have helped me so much. ❤️

[@skiphopflipflopdripdrop]

I literally broke up with my ex 5 days ago...the timing of this 😧

[@RuthAlexsandraJones]

It's okay, things happen but its all to teach you something! Everything will work out

[@skiphopflipflopdripdrop]

@@RuthAlexsandraJones thank you so much ❤️

[@lexit140]

I love your energy! You always tell it how it is with the perfect balance between directness and empathy. Thank you for all of your videos.

[@raic3283]

She really strikes that delicate balance to me

[@tiana2028]

I gave this a thumb up before I even hear the prep talk honestly thank you.

[@whynot2662]

this!!! I swear I always be thinking something is wrong with me. This was so refreshing I needed this thank you!

[@EJIMANnenaNgozi]

I love this! Learning how to be happy single is so important! Happiness is an inside job.

[@doralifeexplorer603]

Lol Breeny you have been coming for my neck this week. The videos you have uploaded are a clear sign from God for me to wake up and change lol by force otherwise I should keep expecting the same nonsensical results.. Omg 😭😭🤦🏿‍♀️😂

[@BreenyLee]

♥️🎉

[@brittanyb5942]

I don't want a relationship. I just want to have fun and enjoy life 🙂

[@Samara-vp9sm]

Same 😂

[@nacholuva_]

got to comfortable in my single season where the thought of a relationship just maybe too much work at this time

[@candaceellison7147]

I am on my way of achieving that.

[@emilytess5313]

How does Breeny always know what i need to hear? Thank you so so much for this

[@akuaashami1061]

Every time I watch one of breeny's videos she puts out another one while I’m watching 😂

[@alejandracfina6431]

Your the bestttt! Helping out mental health out-of-the kindness of your heart! A queen.

[@mango7966]

I’m single and definitely not interested in dating right now but I came to say I love your look. You’re beautiful and glowing 💕✨✨

[@ljmotivate4u680]

Men first fall in love with the image half the sweetness is done they fall in love with ur characters not ur achievement

[@trishauntaylor9834]

Just want to say thanks Breeny. You have helped me in my self love journey 🙏😄

[@sydlauricella6355]

I’m going through this stage in my life of being single and I have been single pretty much all 25 years of my life. I just broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago. It has been hard but I know that I need to work on myself and everything you said in this video was 100% correct! Thank you for putting this out there ❤️

[@Em-yi3fp]

You dont know how much I needed this

[@simskiara]

Breeny you look amazing as always 🥰 I wanted to thank you for all your videos, it has motivated me and informed me in many ways. Love your tips on various topics and women she is right! An relationship is build on companionship! ❤️

[@Sd-ns4vo]

Hahaha preach girl🔥 I’m 23 single since birth and I used to look over my shoulder every time and ask myself “Is this him?👀” every time I get to know and appreciate a guy. But in reality, single season is the best time to learn about yourself relationships and others and develop in every part of your life and your relationship with God above all and at one point you feel are become so whole that you radiate this energy and attract good people and a future husband (Oops romanticizing again but you got my point😅😂)

[@honestgaitungi5447]

Whenever i see any of Breeny videos, whether new or old...I get a feeling of fulfilment, am like,"u gotta listen to your elder sister. " ❤

[@takudzwadondo1228]

"why are you single" is not a question. And I'm so over being asked that because I'm trying to focus on myself and my goals idgaf anymore about dating because it seems to be glorified as if it's the only achievement in life. People should stop acting like being single is a condition

[@aashnakhan5767]

I love you ,I found your channel in the time I needed it the most ,you are transforming my way of thinking .you are truly a blessing from God much love . May God protect you from evil eye Amen

[@rizeuse]

single for over 5 years and im sick of it

[@Melly16yr10]

I’ve been single through my teens to mid 20s i’m 26. your not alone try to cheer up and take up a hobby.

[@Samara-vp9sm]

@@Melly16yr10 me too but by choice I love and wanna stay single forever

[@Samara-vp9sm]

@@Melly16yr10 I'm 20 though

[@silver_0447]

You look so gorgeous here breeny! Also i was so gassed this was 20 mins I can't get enoughhhh. This message was exactly what I needed to hear thank you sweet!

[@vivi-ex9vm]

This is God sent, I always felt like something was wrong with me because I never was in a relationship or dated anyone and I'm 20, my friends and family all have somebody. But I know I have to wait. I would rather have someone that God wants me to have then just someone that isn't good for me.

[@ariaa.9814]

“RELATIONSHIP AND ROMANTICISM ARE NOT THE SAME THING.” This just blessed me!!! Thanks for sharing. SO MUCH WISDOM

[@lorettaxo2352]

I just love Breeny, always providing good counsel even if it’s hurts 😩🙂 Two important things - God is good, he is not a man that he should lie, he will give unto us good things ✨ Hebrews 11.1 - Faith

[@pariscortez4190]

“Why are you breathing?” 😂

[@CoolGirlStar26]

You always speak about what I need, sis! I adore your videos and I often believe that God blessed me with them, thanks to you! Love youu! ❤❤❤❤

[@nopeninja9765]

Relationships are not a reward. Omg did I need to hear this!

[@MissEze16]

Thank you so much! I was really about to hit up my ex because I thought I took the wrong decision. But as you said settling is not the way! You really made my day

[@xoxo-vp7ww]

I made ‘married women mistakes’ ...trying to heal and forgive myself for sacrificing everything for a toxic/abusive marriage. PLEASE DO NOT RUSH MARRIAGE and BE CAREFUL b/c A MAN CAN DERAIL, RUIN, and/or DESTROY YOUR LIFE!

[@sarahmiddleton8118]

URGENT EFFECTIVE SPELL The company I was working for was sold and they retrenched many people including me My Problem was I had just purchased a home a few months earlier. I was really hurting as I was what some people call "mortgage poor",not so much money left after paying monthly mortgage. My sister told me about Dr Miracle When I contacted Dr miracle and we talk and he carried out the spell for me. after about 48 hours ,I was taken a back when I felt chills run through my body as I was saying after his words,so since my finances had hit rock bottom I though hey what is a few hundreds of dollars! Allow me to summarize and make it short,I am back to work and not only that I have been dating the sweetest girl in Australia,and all this happened shortly after Dr Miracle cast the spells for me. Get connected with Dr Miracle now, his email:[e-mail] or WhatsApp number: [phone]

[@je39981]

Ouuu Breeny, Me believing that a man for me is out there is like walking with my eyes closed but hoping that the person guiding me isn't going to make me ram myself into a wall. Each step i'm like "Ohh !" .. "Hold on, hold on, do you want me to take a step up ?" It's hard. I can only pray for God to keep the faith in me and trying to maintain the strong mindset for myself is impossible. It takes experiencing a good man to finally be at peace with knowing good men exist. I see strong relationships and even my parents as an example for me to observe. Seeing it is different than feeling it so since I have neither I can only believe.

[@tlashai9902]

Very great information, I can honestly say the reason why I'm not in a relationship is because I don't want to be. The guys I choose were selfish, and were not ready to consider the next person, I wasn't prepared for a relationship either. Not saying I would give it a go again, I just would rather wait now.

[@tee4303]

“Live ur life! Sis... LIVE UR LIFE!!”😂😂😂👏🙌

[@palesa_fitness]

I have found myself in situationships. i have been single for 5 years and you are literally my internet sister, you have taught me so much and I am a better person. THANK YOU

[@beau4588]

Not gonna lie, it is always so hard for me to focus watching your videos because you're makeup is so perfect. Deadass

[@elsaedomino1291]

I agree! Whenever I feel down about being single for so long, I always remember that God is good and He wants us to be married and He will bring someone on His time!

[@Somebodysomewheresometime]

I’m 44- had the kids, was with my ex 13 years (narcisist)and didn’t get married - lost everything and had to start over at 36. I quit my job to raise our daughters as he is a famous musician and travels all the time. I’ve been single since 2012. I always had a bf - love was more important to me than career or anything else. Let me tell you... these have been the best years of my life. I am doing me- something I never did before. I had never really been single- and now I do t think I’ll ever be in a relationship again. In a way I find it weak. I don’t need anyone else- I am 💯 self sufficient. I love being alone/ no obligations- no drama- no worry. Ladies, you die alone- this is your life live it

[@aperson7210]

I'm 20 and single, I'm happy with being on my own and I do believe this is not the right time for me to be in a relationship because I want to focus on college and my professional life, somethimes it would be nice to have a special someone 😭, but i'd rather wait for the right time

[@wixielane8513]

I really want to cry literally tears of relief.

[@alexjohnson2693]

Hello dear😉 Are single or married??

[@eltzgreen5513]

Just wanted to comment to show my appreciation for your content. You’ve helped me so much on my journey, and as the oldest in my family you’re like the big sister I’ve always needed but never had.

[@d.l831]

Don’t over spiritualize relationships!!! Yes!! Do not over spiritualized anything because if you’re looking for signs, you’ll make anything a sign. Let God lead you! He will NEVER let you down❤️🙌🏻🥰

[@alexjohnson2693]

Hi dear, I’m Alex Johnson I just need someone I can really love and who’s ready to love me with her whole heart for who I am. I need a companion to live with and also plan the future together with. I hate lies and cheats, these are my core dislikes. I’m from Austin, Texas United States. I’m about 5.9ft tall. Are you single or married?

[@jaquelinejuarez7623]

Thank you for motivating me and giving me a rounded mind that I can trust❤

[@afrohersheys22]

I’m 29 years old been single for 3 years and I been feeling like something’s wrong with me to the point where I talk down on myself internally constantly. However this video encourages and consoles me in that the fact that everything’s okay for me🙏🏾 I’m going to work hard and never give up on myself

[@gospozapremudraya]

I love you, Breeny😂❤❤❤ You're so funny and smart! Thank you, for sharing the right things and amazing experience 🥰 It soooo motivating 😃👍

[@jaeskull1575]

I don’t always comment but I watch every video. You are my big sis. If I feel low in my spirit I randomly pull up your “Level up” vid especially or any others. Thank you so much for your content, I appreciate you so much Breeny. You always post what I need.❤️

[@JAZZY2REALZ]

Your such a big sister I never had. Thank you for your help.

[@belladejaneiro]

2 videos in 1 week? What’s up Debreena wow 😍

[@MissRach8100]

Greetings from germany gal.....your Videos are very helpful....you are beautiful inside outside

[@YassmineWantsPeace]

✌😊🇩🇪

[@Briisvanity]

Ive been binge watching you for a few days now. Your videos are so helpful. Im going through a break-up right now. I'm okay with being single but i did state that I wanted to wait and buy a house until I met someone. But forget that! You made a great point. I love your personality.

[@Mooism]

You’re videos have helped me so much. I found you during my first heartbreak around last year and at first I didn’t really listen to what you had to say but then when I started a self love journey you came back up on my recommended and I actually sat down and listened and everything you said made sense. It helped me realize where I was wrong and I remember one of your quotes where you said “if you have nothing to talk about except for drama and don’t have your own life you’re not going to succeed in a relationship” and that stuck we with me because during that time I was in a depressive state, I wasn’t doing anything with my life because of my mental and physical ailments and I didn’t have a go getter mentality, thinking love was going to be the “fix all” but I was actually attracting terrible people and was accepting whatever came my way. But now I’ve learned boundaries and learned to be more picky, I told myself I wasn’t going to just accept anything because I don’t deserve scraps or fuckboys. I started going to school and studying a major I’m excited about, started losing weight and planning to move to France in a year! My life completely did a 180 and because I focused on me I can say for the first time in my life I don’t need anyone to fill me, I fill me! So thank you so much for your videos because it really felt like I was getting a pep talk that was well needed. 💓

[@realtalk675]

I really hope you come on woman of impact. You would be an amazing guest

[@Stephanie-yr5du]

Thank you for saying that I need to walk away from someone who says it isn’t the right time ! I really needed to hear this. God bless you !

[@razannegrayman]

Honestly I’ve began doing this and I cannot tell you how happy I am being single. I idealized relationships so much in my teens and it lead so many mistakes and bad relationships that I had had enough. Freeing myself from this idea that a relationship is a constant state of happiness has really put me at peace ! Relationships aren’t all bad or filled with fights but we have to understand how emotionally exhausting relationships can get. Like do you really have the mental capacity to deal with taking into account someone else’s feelings with every decision you make? People really don’t understand how much responsibility a relationship is and it’s not easy. Being single I can pick and choose who I cater to and if I want to just cut off a guy I can😭 I genuinely appreciate and love this video cause it’s just confirmation that everything I’ve been doing is correct

[@najanaigonzalez3627]

YESSSS!!! OMG!! When you said a man/marriage is not your end goal! Live your life! Yessss 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@l-islanddreams5359]

I feel like crying cause that's what I did. To have this level of mindset is so powerful

[@taylor75663]

I just found you tonight. It’s midnight here. I hope I’m not up until the sun comes up. I’m on my 4th video of yours. I’m hooked.

[@fati5177]

I love how you talk, your word choice, your tone and everything. Very emphatic but also professional and respectful which makes it very easy to take your advice seriously and really listen to it. Thank you ❤️

[@alexjohnson2693]

Hello dear😉 Are single or married??