Brené Brown | Daring Classrooms | SXSWedu 2017

[@rattlesnake3113]

I could watch brene for 12 hrs. She's my free therapist and counselor, lol. I love her. 💜

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Hello. Nancy

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Mine too😊

[@beyond50-gb]

YES! I feel she speaks directly to me.

[@NickEspinoza-i7n]

I so agree love brene

[@janiceroberts8169]

"Courage is possible when you know how to get back up when you fall...If you are brave, you are going to get hurt" Love her!

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Hello. Janice

[@dekusdepression]

I may be only 13 but you help me with my problems so that I can fix them, “I may be making a mess, but I am not messy” so goes with me!

[@karenjohannessen8987]

Hello Deku! You're getting the message early! Hurray!! Bright Blessings to you ~

[@eleanor4759]

I so hope that Brene's teachings are helping you! They've helped me immensely and I'm 20

[@JulieDozierMcCrary]

You are a remarkable young person. To have the self awareness at such a young age and to be making steps to overcome your issues is so huge. I commend you, am proud of you, and wish you the best. You will go far in life! Btw, today I learned (in a trauma informed training) that bearing witness, listening to others and helping them by telling your story, is the best way to heal yourself. It certainly has helped me. Good luck!

[@djshoplandsshow-allowyours5911]

@@JulieDozierMcCrary it is the only way to stand up and take responsibility of and within everything that has gone before and then everything step by step within time helps our mentalities and us only way yo get through xx I agree with your statement xx congrats to all who tunes in, especially to such a lovely young person xx

[@djshoplandsshow-allowyours5911]

Go you. So proud and pleased for you xx

[@TheChildofthevine]

When I was in High School, I will never forget sitting across from the Advisor who said to me, "You are not college material." She was College Educated, and my 16 year old self thought, well, she should know....and for most of my life I believed that I just would never be SMART ENOUGH. Talk about how SHAME affects us for a lifetime!

[@benjiemadarang6389]

Why can't a mom,teacher like her run for president?

[@irisgonzalez-caulder5682]

Lori Taylor-Schulte best comment Mr Hernandez was his name and I was 17 yrs old. I'm not excusing, blaming, justifying. I'm just saying I understand. The only thing I'm ashamed of is dropping out of 10th grade. I'm not ashamed bcz I don't lie,cheat,steal and the worst sin, pride. I'm not proud of sin, I'm forgiven of sin, and that is the difference. God bless and thank you for commenting.

[@sutton22680]

Lori Taylor-Schulte this happened to my mother. She told me this story and I can honestly say that I have seen it flare up many times over the course of her life. She’s almost 60 and still tells this story and fights how smart and resourceful she actually is.

[@sandrarowe7510]

Lori, as a former 19-year high school teacher, 6-year high school counselor, and now a private practice mental health counselor, please know how sorry I am that an educator said "You are not college material" to you. IMO, that was HER mistake--her ignorance, her judgment, and her shame--not yours. I know personally and professionally how such trauma in our formative years can affect us a lifetime: but it is NEVER too late to process that trauma, to realize it is not true, and to chose a different path. Best wishes to you!

[@artcano5682]

My H.S. Counselor's name was "Doctor" Vicino he told, my Latinx friend she wasn't "good enough" to apply to Columbia University. Luckily, she applied and 4 years later he graduated from Columbia. University.

[@salsabilahmedshrestho960]

"The broken hearted are the bravest among us because they had the courage to love."

[@chriscunningham8807]

Opening your heart and exposing yourself to rejection, hurt and humiliation is one of the most courageous and beautiful acts imaginable. Losing the object of your love is painful and can feel like a limb or part of yourself has been amputated as the sense of we shifts back to sad and lonely me.

[@annateves8944]

I would add that the broken hearted don't stay broken. They learn faster than others thats all.

[@kellysmith8845]

I echo your sentiments

[@deecastillo7133]

Amen!

[@destinyheath6583]

Brene has changed my life and is a person I always turn to when I struggle with my anorexia recovery. She reminds me that being vulnerable and this fear is leading to something good

[@diaduchien7366]

Hello my name is DIA DUC HIEN, I bring you tidings

[@sisteradmn]

Vulnerability is the birth place of everything we want more of in our lives.

[@mommaria1968]

That is one of the very best quotes EVER!

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello Lorrinda

[@sisteradmn]

@@lucasmccauley4656 Howdie :)

[@arvj123]

brené brown changed my life. I am a huge fan. thank you for posting this.

[@NikkoTanGoogle]

SAME!!!

[@ashkjellllyndrvald9854]

Same here.

[@christian14525]

Likewise

[@francescacourtin7870]

Yes she changed my life

[@margueriteloughran905]

arvj123

[@VirtualTeachingPro]

If we had these types of discussions at the beginning of every academic year with faculty I believe we would have a much different approach to our curriculum and pedagogy. Thank you Brené for another amazing presentation and discussion.

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello. Ashlee

[@VirtualTeachingPro]

@@lucasmccauley4656 Hi there

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@@VirtualTeachingPro hey. how are you doing?

[@lucasmccauley3036]

@@VirtualTeachingPro hey. how are you doing?

[@khworker1322]

@@lucasmccauley3036. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@leannameier8565]

Dear Brene This is Leanna's daughter and I am so happy I watched your video because it basically just changed my life THANK YOU! I will be a better person than I am already. Leanna's daughter.

[@missme3331]

I feel so very sorry for all the people who gave a thumb down here, but I feel worse about the world that surrounds those ppl. this information is so incredibly valuable! People, this is Ivy League education, for free! WTH, be grateful you have just seen something that is medicine for the spirit. Cure for the soul and the most lethal weapon to succeed! Thank you Dr. Brown!🙌 “no name calling, at all”

[@Joferry2000]

Excellent

[@kbarge18]

Wow!! You’re amazing Brene Brown! The shields of shame! In all of my 38 years of life, I’ve never actually taken time to face the fact that I live behind these shields daily. Thank you for this inspiration!

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello. Krisonda

[@jj1211]

"Vulnerability is the greatest casualty of trauma... No vulnerability- no love, no belonging, no joy". This explains so much. Thank you Brenè. I ❤ your authenticity & sense of humour.

[@Lorec1855]

Dear Brene', I realized some years ago, as a teacher for 48 yrs. of people, their animals and animals in general , that the things that we teach in life, especially the foundations of the learning, are the things we need to learn ourselves. Opening up to our students as our master teachers without victimizing ourselves to the process, exposes our own underbelly and requires huge amounts of courage, convictions, strength and insights. I love your talks. Thank you!

[@Gullbra1Kisa]

I used to think that not having good armor was my biggest flaw, and it has been a defining force in my life, but Brené helped me see it not just as something beautiful but essential as well. She took the shame out of that for me. And that actually helped me become stronger and perhaps, even more resilient. Some people have their spiritual teachers, like Oprah and Brené for example have Maya Angelou as their teacher, some Mother Teresa, some Dalai Lama. Brené is my teacher. I just love her and am so grateful for everything she does

[@VirtualTeachingPro]

I can relate to this experience and totally agree with you here.

[@mjbrooks8394]

Such an exciting time and the perfect audience to engage with Brene's message. I am heartbroken there are over 82,000 views with only 1000 likes... My days are spend in K12 Education & we SO need to receive this message and adhere to change. When I met with my HS Guidance office I too had the counselor tell me, "I was NOT college material, my parents were not of, THAT mindset." What a stifling thing to say to a adolescent who presents with the courage to ask how to improve her world."

[@CatDuvalNineLivesYoga]

as an aspiring teacher, this talk has just formed the bedrock of my motivation. Thanks Brene. Cross fingers I'll be a good one!

[@sisteradmn]

"Shame cannot survive being spoken because shame requires you to believe you're alone in order for it to maintain it's power." ~Brene Brown

[@invii2049]

Actually, I would add: 1. (in generally speaking) the 'feel of shame' requires 'humans' in your life... in absence of 'them' there is no much of a trigger to the negative sense of 'self'; 2. separating/ distancing from 'humans' (aka 'alone') is often can be therapeutic (as being vulnerable you get all these mixed messages, pushes, and vibes from 'others', apart from the most important - getting your own ones!) ... however, it is sense of 'loneliness' triggers self-doubts, search for personal/ personality defects, self-blame, etc. 3. "being spoken" should be to some 'human(s)' ... talking to something, animals or yourself is more like the 'placebo effect'. Regards

[@SageGarlandSingerSongwriter]

I love your username :)

[@Jerry.anthony.c]

26:00

[@oumaclubbe522]

💥

[@yvonnemwangi3649]

Makes sense

[@mariamanabiedegannes1631]

Yessss, This video should be shared will every teacher in the world!!!

[@territory007]

Certainly courage is teachable ... definitely. It's knowing those values mentioned in the lecture and being aware enough to know the moment to choose courage and not let shame deliver its fear.

[@VirtualTeachingPro]

yes 👏 to this!

[@miriamcjackson706]

I am crying I am so moved by the timing and clarity of this.message. As the realizations settle in, my wounded inner self sits up, unrounds her shoulders, and takes a breath. This has a palpable visceral effect. Because shame is pain. I am grateful for this teaching and your courage and dedication Dr. Brene Brown in bringing this subject to light for the sake of all of us and this up and coming generation.

[@MicheleHance]

Sobbing. Thank you for the clarity.

[@yklakda7758]

Again, Brene nailed it. She jumps right in the pool of of shame and vulnerability with humor and brings out the shine, out of these words. Thank you Brene, you're awesome.

[@ariadgaia5932]

Thank you, Brene Brown~ 💖💕✨ For helping me see that my emotional vulnerability is actually a strength. Not a flaw. 🥰💖💕✨

[@daleboaden2968]

Yes trauma for son by a school teacher in 4th grade, He did not recover for years. I myself can remember my teacher in 5th grade, so wonderful to me. A male, he could see me struggle through maths. Did some remedial work with me and I was back on track. Mr Burns thanks so much.

[@KathyStrongFirst]

Changing the world one teacher at a time. I honour you for your courage Brene' and I honour all teachers who tread this vulnerable and courageous path. ❤❤❤

[@tootscarlson]

Kathy Strong with a last name like yours, how can you go wrong?

[@monicahorne3230]

@@tootscarlson 6⅞1!

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Hello. Kathy

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[@lesliepearson6937]

Brene Brown saved me from myself while coming out of a major fall in life.

[@lucasmccauley3036]

Hello. Leslie

[@kathleengranaas7]

The action of learning is a risk, the ultimate vulnerability. As educators, it’s important to remember how vulnerable learners are. We have to create a climate where students are safe to be vulnerable, take risks, to make and learn from mistakes; this is where real grown can happen. Thank you Brené!

[@shareefaalzayani975]

hi thank you brenee .im from Bahrain Arabian Persian Gulf..I was a teacher and we had a religious discrimination in the air that led with the Arab spring in 2011 to a civil crisis in my beloved country...I knew deep in my heart that the teachers had a big hand to make things better and the hate will be less other than the classification , make fun and favouritism...I resined in 2014 . I thought of making the world a lovelier and braver place from outside the educational system...thank u again.

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Hello. Shareefa

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@@lucasmccauley3036 hi ✨

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@@shareefaalzayani975hey. How are you doing?

[@BelleFlower15]

When she talked about people having an experience with a teacher that gave them self worth, I thought of Miss Hoback, an administrator at my school. When I started middle school and got my first demerit, I had a total breakdown. She had to take me out of class and into her office and as I sat there crying, she gently explained to me that a demerit didn't mean I was a bad person. I had just done a bad thing. I'm crying as I write this because it still affects me to this day. God bless that woman.

[@dekusdepression]

BelleFlower15 wow that sounds like a beautiful person, I remember I was crying and my vice-principal said “ don’t you dare cry! You have no right to cry! So don’t you dare cry!”

[@SusseBo]

This one will definitely get out to some classrooms in Denmark today. Thank you for your message.

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Hello. Susse

[@lanawebster2078]

I miss you and your talks.....I am retired teacher.....and all schools need to hear you......

[@cadeaverymommy]

I. Am. Crying!!! Does Brene have a kid version of this? I want to teach my children this!

[@blueshoes915]

Wow! This just changed my whole life and I’m only 10:15 in! Finished watching. I’m going to watch all of her talks now. Thank you, Brene!

[@VirtualTeachingPro]

Once you watch one of her talks you always want more!

[@jackwanitkun3673]

Thank you. Berne Brown changed my life.

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello. Wanitkun

[@Yolanda-fy5we]

I love you!!!!! Thank you so much for this message. Bless you, Brené, Everything you mentioned in this conversation with the audience....the examples of humiliation, etc. I felt I was in the audience with everyone else. I am a work in progress and I believe I´ve healed some of the most traumatic experiences of my childhood, but once in a while, life happens and I feel I take one step forward and two steps back. This was amazing, I am glad I´ve tuned it!!!

[@tauholdingsllc4452]

I completely agree that education is the cornerstone for creating, enhancing, and encouraging love and personal growth.

[@NickEspinoza-i7n]

I can watch brene brown for hours she like my therapist

[@sunijajoseph8894]

Brene goes deep, deep into territories that has never been brought to light before. Not only is her intelligence great, the way she speaks and connects to the audience is extraordinary. If I may add, Brene talks about being resilient to shame....I think the mark of a true survivor is being resilient to anything and everything that life throws at them.

[@apriladkins606]

Wow, every teacher or roll model for kids should have to listen to this.

[@mariluzcreatingmusic]

Difficult conversations are essential! This is Gold. Thank you!!!

[@deninejackson2316]

I just love her research. I'm grateful she has shared it with the world.

[@delorespaul9570]

I was listening to your talk for our whole school pd. It was wonderful listening to you. ❤

[@nerdalieisasleepyhead104]

The most powerful conversation a teacher can have. Thank you, Brené

[@kellysmith8845]

So true

[@romoromo6322]

I am so grateful for your outreach. Thank you for nailing it.

[@travisjamelmusic5112]

This was really interesting, informative and extremely well delivered. I had to check myself at my own door with some of this. I needed this desperately

[@emilycasillas9335]

Most recently I have identified that this viedo was helpful. Seeing the amount of self-worth-awareness in the concepts placed of Joy, Shame, Silence, Secrecy, and Judgement is where I can relate to. No matter how much empathy, I have shown - that concept is still deep from high levels of depression, social isolation - embarrassment and name calling or put downs. I did not like to agree with my recent correlation of the type of material that is affecting me (indirectly) but I will assume that everybody, everyone has the LOWS in life. Humanity. I am no teacher, but enjoyed to place myself in this pep talk. Thanks for sharing. It was informative. Appreciate the information shared. Thank You, Ms.Emily!

[@IlonaHolmbergYogaAndYou]

Thank you from Stockholm! Among of many sentens I take even this one: To change hateful to painful!

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello. lIona

[@marcieemmert7386]

so true children is where the world can become great again. thank God for teaching teachers

[@shallenburnett9107]

THANK YOU FOR ADDRESSING THIS ISSUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@kathryncainmadsen5850]

I started out with a lot of courage, but maybe that was a kind of naive fearlessness. Now it's much less and I'm having to relearn it. I needed your talk today.

[@christnhvv256]

Greatttt talk, she's so on point! I've started teaching poetry with 3rd and 4th graders and this was linked as part of the training material. And I'm so happy it was!!

[@jamiandmarlalove947]

This is a great talk, we can make education so much more effective by leading with empathy! Knowing how to deal with shame would have helped us all as grade school students.

[@karenjohannessen8987]

"Lead with Empathy!" Oh, so, Yeah!!

[@jenniferdoll3391]

I am SO absolutely empowered. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for speaking with grit! I appreciate you.

[@claudiawinfield1089]

A woman after my heart! Thank you so much for this.

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello. Claudia

[@annetteandmerrisitandchat5656]

I did a video (no profit intended at all) about being a natural encourager. I wish in my heart I could show it to this gal. It hurt but allowed me to move forward in my life.

[@katalinpk5587]

Thank you very much Dr.Brene . YOU always inspire me. God Bless You and your Family ❤

[@jenniferzahn4787]

Thank you Brene for all that you do. You inspire me to live wholeheartedly everyday. It's a slow process but I'm finding my courage more and more

[@kellysmith8845]

Ditto

[@Rand22.2]

You literally healed me with this talk thank you so much ❤️

[@snupeedance]

This changed me. I’m going to listen again.

[@trudyrutledge6794]

Absolutely golden...I couldn’t get enough ❤️

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello Trudy

[@ManyJourneyz]

From the bottom of my heart , I say thank Brené Brown ! I learn something valuable ever time I listen to your talks.

[@all1soul]

I love this woman so much! Thank you for all you do and are, Brene' Brown!

[@cecilearnaudhenkel88]

As a teacher, as a mom and as an often vulnerable woman, I thank Brené for this talk. Every minute was worth it. Many thanks for the content and your presence.

[@pattystrobele-goehrig4921]

I only just found this KZbin. Everything in its right time! I am a Grateful person. I use to apologize for being born and had a hard time transforming into who I am today. A Grateful child of the Universe🤩

[@dynamicteamsolutions1448]

I have struggled with relentless fear (of loss of joy), especially as I try to silence my mind for sleep. Enter insomnia! I have found gratitude has completely erased those terrors. I cannot agree more fully with this connection for embracing joy.

[@djshoplandsshow-allowyours5911]

At 9 mins re. Trauma and Vulnerability is so good and important xx

[@powerupwithdenise4538]

Love, love, love this!!! Thank you. "Wake up everyday to be brave with your life." Brene Brown

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello Denise

[@diaduchien7366]

Hello my name is DIA DUC HIEN, I bring you tidings

[@baldturtle6599]

Thank you brene brown, you helped me a lot in sieving out my fear.

[@Tampa0123456789]

Best of her video ever. She is in beast mode here.

[@caseybent-callaghan6659]

Mindfulness helps me to experience joy that I am experiencing in the moment. I know I can definitely future trip and worry about horrible things happening in the future. Getting sober has helped me to live in today and have gratitude for the great things in my life and know that the tough times will pass. I love the quote, "if you have one leg in yesterday and one in tomorrow, all you do is pee all over today."

[@viviennegreenwood8817]

Let me add, My son had a teacher who built him up and nurtured him. Equally, he was superb. I was so sad we had to move on. He was God sent. He had an inbuilt empathy that could pick a troubled kid out. And give him the extra help and care he needed. My son thrived in his class.

[@charlesmoran7315]

That's good my critics are not. Thank you. This good vibe really gives me a good feel for the future of our country. I play around too much. Lol.

[@valreneebrin]

I really enjoyed this. Thanks so much.

[@professorjwmagellan8927]

YEEESSSSSSS! My life's mission. Thank you again, Brené!

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello Magellan

[@MrDrgnx702000]

By not allowing yourself to be vulnerable you cannot continue to grow and be abundant. Bruné Brown is just amazing

[@RosieTime_]

This clip was awesome!

[@moirabramley7393]

So, so grateful for your contribution Brene.

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello. Moira

[@ritamorrisguynup44]

Trauma filled with SHAME all 13 years of school. I'm 72 now and is still with me.

[@veronicakascle7476]

After hearing this……40 year old me wants to go back and hug 12 yr old me and say, “none of this is your fault and you are worthy of love.”

[@mangochutney4874]

🤗

[@firouz4296]

I survived a narcissistic relationship but I still think you can teach courage and empathy!

[@chriscunningham8807]

Courage is the willingness to enter the arena despite knowing you will lose. Speak your truth despite being ignored, villified or attacked by a group. Attempt something new and uncomfortable despite the risk of humiliation, failure or criticism. Above all, courage is being open, honest and vulnerable, and putting yourself out there by sending off a manuscript or asking someone on a date despite the risk of rejection after having exposed your heart and soul and the core of who you are.

[@liamleee4]

Absolutely incredible

[@kimparke6653]

So grateful for the work of Brene Brown who has literally unlocked the doorway for many to self expression and infinite love that is everyone's birthright, she is doing God's work, nothing less.

[@lucasmccauley3036]

Hello. Kim

[@mrmatthewbarker8504]

Thank you for the keys to my new life Brene

[@rosaoliva2614]

Great motivation for a Teachers and help us to learn about social and Emotional skills for help our kids not only in the knowledge of subjects but most important is what its impact to theirs life for ever .

[@remyags5472]

A valuable class by a well experienced teacher. I salute and honour all teachers who choose this path.

[@martarivas6760]

I love this message Thank you Brene Brown...you are awesome...a blessing a prayer answered for this time! You are a blessing.

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello. Marta

[@charlesmoran7315]

Well that is beautiful, being a teacher, someone who really cares.

[@danab9417]

This an Every parent and teacher must listening to and understand!!! The world would be a safer and happier place to live if these truths were exercised.

[@VirtualTeachingPro]

agree with you 💯

[@kevindocherty5682]

Amazing. changed my view. We are all teachers and students so this can be used for all relationships!

[@shabirmagami146]

Brilliant talk ...Thank you ❤

[@jennalondon6667]

I had no idea I am the wilderness when things are uncomfortable in my life I run I don't get how you make someone uncomfortable and it's part of the process but some of my most growing moments was when I put my feelings out there unknowingly but when I get hurt I'm wounded but I'm wounded as a warrior Nasya Hilton You ROCK Brene

[@thomas4857]

I'm not ashamed to be weaker than you but il keep paying attention to your podcast..your the first social worker I don't mind being obedient to everything you say an your the first social worker I liked

[@MsGnor]

Always WOW. Love your work Brené. And thanks to SXSWedu for sharing!!

[@yvettemiley349]

Brilliant. I share this with all my clients to help them and esp their child/ren too.

[@katelyns8144]

Wow what a great talk!

[@87sjg]

One of her best talks.

[@rawagstaff]

Spiral background is a nightmare for migraines. Fantastic information. I’m glad I listened.

[@lucasmccauley4656]

Hello. Rawagstaff

[@FutureArt9]

Thank you 🙏